The Abusive Wife Swap Family

[@IndignantGamer]

"5 years in the Navy" dude did 1 enlistment and thinks he's a dictator XD

[@mrs82897]

Naw fr dudes really join the military and get a complex. I was in the Air Force and this dude reminds me of soo many men. It’s like they’re miserable so they need to make their family miserable

[@sentientplant9658]

Literally. My dad did 20 years in the military (first 3 Army, then decided he was bored and joined the Marines) and NEVER was he a hardass like all these dudes who do one contract and think they're hot shit.

[@IndignantGamer]

@ I just got out of the army 2 weeks ago, (still technically in until the 18th) and did 6 years. I have never met anyone like the people portrayed in the video.

[@lunahyacinth6335]

Right?! I’m kind of curious about the reason/nature of his discharge because you know his neuroticism had to have come out at some point.

[@sp00kyg1rl]

My dad served *WAY* longer in the Navy and was hardly as stern as this guy.. he was strict in some ways but he also loved the heck out of me and we had fun when we did things together.

[@sp00kyg1rl]

For context, he served 18 years in the RAN by the time I was a toddler when he got sick (Parkinson’s disease) & got discharged. Even at his sickest he still tried his damnest to be a good dad. Point being; I feel bad for these kids. My dad joined the Navy after experiencing a really shittt childhood with an abusive father & still managed to be an amazing father - this man will ruin all chance having a relationship with his children in the future.. he’s such a control freak.

[@A_Frog_from_mars12]

Honestly, i think the dad in this episode is just a psychopath or sadist with a constant need for control.

[@pintolerance785]

I think the dad in this episode joined the navy for some boy on boy action because hes closeted and never felt in control in his life, so now that he does have power hes going to be tyrannical.

[@grobnermer]

@@pintolerance785crazy accusations

[@nathancrean9275]

I'm in the RNZN this guys just a loser. its strange for a sailor who was in an environment where he was surrounded by people from all walks of life and travelled the world to then take that away from his own kids by homeschooling them.

[@MeeYeeWeeWee]

I got The Belt as a kid a few times. It stopped when I started hitting back. My family currently denies anyone ever hit me with a belt and i find it hilarious in a laugh to keep from crying kind of way

[@phagnutpn1531]

Same, felt this statement honestly.

[@gumisora]

I also hit back and everything stoped!

[@jasminaritchot7772]

Yeahh my mom denies ever hitting me with a. Belt but I still remember exactly where it happened and about how young I was. I just laughed and walked away and distracted myself before I cried 😅

[@Jay-ug5ss]

Any kid born 2000 or after has never had real discipline.

[@TPSMB]

@@Jay-ug5ss dawg, there’s a difference between discipline and torture, beating kids does nothing but fuck them up. Isn’t it a good thing that parents are growing past antiquated and archaic practices and are actually empathetic to the children that THEY MADE and FORCED INTO EXISTENCE?? Why create an entirely new person just to belittle, bully, and abuse them?

[@PrestonTheSooza]

Every parents goals: Plus size mother=Let kids be kids Plus size father=same thing as mother Skinny mother= have healthy and responsible kids Pops= B E A T T H E K I D S

[@fugiwara-san5167]

She seens so hugable and warm And the other Just like my mom, it fells cold most of the time

[@haleyrison68]

I got whipped with a belt when I was a kid. All it really taught me was terrible understanding of the concept of consent and primed me for abusive relationships in my early adult years. And the way my dad would hug me after hitting me and say that he did it bc he loved me, was very confusing. I never yelled at or hit my kids at all and they are well behaved. They also know they can come to me if they mess up, or if they feel that I've messed up.

[@alexis5164]

Im really sorry to hear that, honestly I always thought the same thing, because abuse/hitting your kids never helps anything and honestly makes everything worse for your mental health. Hope you’re doing well.

[@haleyrison68]

@@alexis5164 absolutely. I'll never understand how some people can think it's okay to hit children. You can't just go around hitting your neighbors or coworkers. That's assault! Children should have the same right to physical safety as everyone else. My father felt that his children being afraid of him was a good thing. And now none of us speak to him.

[@leftherlonelywadiamondmind]

i was raised like this too! its too normalized, it's just physical abuse... doesn't teach anything at all.

[@leftherlonelywadiamondmind]

and also... if an adult handled conflict that way, then they could get the cops called on them. so why is it ok for an adult to hit a kid?

[@themower9472]

@@haleyrison68 idk some people just arent effected by it as much as others during their childhood. Im still young but I don't really have mental problems but my dad said he definatly couldve handled it better when I was kid.

[@DiecastMoose]

Kids need to be disciplined when they act up, I don’t know who the hell decided disciplining meant beating your child. You can verbally discipline them just as easily and by hitting them, the only thing you’re demonstrating as an adult is that it is okay to hit people when they break rules or do bad by your viewpoint.

[@DatOneArtist]

W

[@coolside8593]

Yes. Like if the kid was fighting other kids or skipping class alllll the time then yeah ok the may be a reason to do his discipline (just not leather definitely not leather though). But if all they did was just break a little rule or do somthing you don't personally like then just do a verbal warning, ground them , or take somthing away. Like this dad needs to chillllllll.

[@ibroplatin4915]

Parents spank their children because it helps sometimes

[@BixBixby-j6c]

There’s a picture I really love that breaks this down- ‘are your kids old enough to understand reason? Yes- reason with them. No- they don’t know the reason you’re beating them.’

[@nwamakanwachukwu7018]

@@BixBixby-j6cliterally common sense parenting

[@jordensanders2289]

As a former homeschool kid, I immediately clocked the homeschooled vibes, cause I know that pain of isolation in their eyes, and how happy they were to be told they would be getting to experience school, made me tear up. My parents weren’t crazy religious, however, my mom was very mentally ill and after having kids she became very agoraphobic and untrusting of society. I begged for years as a child to go to school, and there were often stints of months at a time when my brother and I weren’t even allowed outside. I gave up asking to go to school by the time I was like 9 or 10 because I knew there was no way I could catch up with everyone. But I think my mom got something from the state when I was 12, because all of a sudden my brother and I had to be “enrolled” into a state program for homeschooling. Basically, we got a huge pile of booklets and textbooks for the whole years coursework and we were expected to check in weekly with an advisor to make sure we were staying on track. But, it was awful, I felt so stupid all the time. My mom lied and told them she had been teaching us what we should know all those years, and so I got given 8th grade level work to do when I barely knew how to do basic multiplication, and I could not divide anything other than in half. So because my mom lied and I was expected to know how to do all of this without help, I just got yelled at during each advisory meeting for not meeting standards, meanwhile I was just a confused and hurt kid who had no idea what I was doing. My mom used the struggles my brother and I had with that program to say “THIS is why you aren’t in school, you can’t even keep up with this” completely ignoring the fact that many of those struggles would have been mitigated by allowing us proper education from the start. As an adult I went to college reluctantly; after feeling like “why bother?” Because I felt too stupid to even try. And guess what? Finally, being in a structured classroom with a professor teaching me and allowing me to ask questions, I thrived. I held a 4.0 gpa in most of my classes and I finished with a 3.9. I’m 26 now and still feel like I’m catching up socially, and I still struggle with fears of isolation (Covid was real rough), but I proved myself and my mother wrong. I don’t know why I decided to write this all out, so I suppose to any current or former homeschool kid, you are enough, you are smart enough, and the mistakes of our parents do not define us 💜

[@judah143]

I’m not gonna read all that but I’m sorry💔

[@SuperSara924]

I’m so sorry about your childhood but I’m glad you thrived in college. From one internet stranger to another, I hope you keep succeeding

[@Texas430]

That was a therapeutic read. My mom is also agoraphobic and I don’t think ppl realize the effects it has on us kids. Luckily even at her worst I still got to go to school (we lived next door to my school thank goodness) but I remember my grandma always trying to take me to the doctor and my mom constantly calling us the whole ride screaming bloody murder into the phone and threatening to call police to bring me back home but thankfully my grandma was resilient and got me to my doctor once a year to get the medicine I needed. I definitely had trouble (still have) socializing because the only time I was out of the house was at school so I’d spend summers indoors and not get used to talking to people to the point it used to hurt my throat to talk more than a few minutes. Now that im an adult my boyfriend has been helping me socialize with people and teaching me how to be less awkward constantly. I’m sorry you went through that struggle but it’s nice to hear from another kid with an agoraphobic parent because it’s something no one else will ever truly understand but us.

[@Sophiamacofsky]

We support you queen

[@CRIMSON-KNIGHT-THC]

I don’t think that home schooling is a mistake as I still have friends and I like being homeschooled.

[@JustSomePunx1312]

The type of dad to tell you "tough up" and then flip out when he has to pay 1$ extra for a cookie

[@DoDo-dq5lx]

Just have a tamper tantrum over a doller and throw a fit if ur childs having fun. Thats an alien tbh. Who gave humane the human card?

[@havinghope6315]

Reading this oh yeah I am glad I read the comments first. I feel sorry for the kids already but aint gonna trigger myself tonight 😮

[@antcapelli3868]

The Dad was fine with all the changes, but when she said he can't "beat" his kids, he gets upset. What is wrong with him lol

[@bluevioletandlilac]

Have to let out all that unrealized, internalized rage somehow!!

[@MaddysinLeigh]

Fact I know from having a navy dad, that dude was most likely kicked out or forced to leave. You don’t serve 5 years. Every 4 years you re-enlist or retire.

[@rosesweetcharlotte]

I can't imagine why...

[@MenacingBalls]

He may have served one term and extended for a year. But your hypotheses isn’t too far off.

[@hollyshaw-elliemae]

@@MenacingBalls when they said 5 years, my radar pinged cause of the 4 year thing, but i also was married to a military man, and i can attest, 4 or 5 years does NOT create that dictorial attitude.

[@MenacingBalls]

@ i did NOT say that. But I agree.

[@chloekhamxox]

That dad was definitely the weird kid in highschool that wanted to join the army to use guns and be abusive…

[@ENT5TY]

pancho "asking to be excused i dont get it" literally when your plate empty still having to ask is krazy workk

[@Shorts-bg6we]

it's just being respectful😂

[@HYPERxSONICxFANx2012]

​@@Shorts-bg6weyeah... still don't get it

[@Drizzit14-ug5tk]

@@HYPERxSONICxFANx2012 My parents are pretty chill but we always had to do that.

[@Thr33_se7en]

Only time we ever did it was when food wasn't finished or we were at an event or gathering but when plates empty its freaky, and in your own home to which is ment to be chill.

[@Thr33_se7en]

​@@Shorts-bg6we yes its respectful but there's a difference between respect and rules

[@Theblackmetalhead1]

Glad I never had abusive parents but I’m praying for y’all that do 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@JuicyXEditzz]

It really sucks.

[@Theblackmetalhead1]

@@JuicyXEditzz well I hope you can get away from them someday

[@JuicyXEditzz]

@@Theblackmetalhead1 Ty, I hope so too. I’ve grown up with an abusive father, I don’t live with him now but I still deal with an abusive mom/siblings which sucks.

[@Theblackmetalhead1]

@@JuicyXEditzz I feel bad for you bro🙏🏿

[@turntech_NameGOD]

nice profile the black metalhead 1

[@Dervert9]

if you beat kids their whole childhood when they do something you dont like. they will have massive PTSD for the rest of their lives

[@XChyloX]

Honestly I agree like people who spank or hit their kids I get it they were hit or spanked as a kid so they think it's right but it's not there are so many other things people can do to make their kids not be as bad as they were even tho they are kids after all

[@Düsteres_Ende]

​@@XChyloXlike for minor things don't do it unless they continue doing it

[@XChyloX]

@@Düsteres_Ende yeah cuz so many people spank or hit their kids cuz they talked back or didn't do what they asked them to do but that not a reason to do that

[@deseuryderia]

ngl the “abusive wife swap family” is like saying “the garden with dirt in it”, the strict families were all abusive in one way or another.

[@aspenisthebest]

haha I love that saying. Never heard it before.

[@corbhack1]

the wacker sounds like a thing from Mitilda

[@sybill123ful]

sadly there’s a lot of parents that don’t realize; there’s a huge different between instilling discipline in your kids, and instilling fear.

[@chesiregirl]

"To each their own" is an insane thing to say about literal child abuse. I don't get why people think that parents should have a free pass to do whatever they want with and to their kids just because they're their kids. They're not fucking objects; they're people.

[@aspenisthebest]

preach

[@PeepoStrong]

"they are not exhibiting self-control" - dude if you don't allow your kid eat candies at home, they will go wild 3 seconds after when they will be allowed to. Some time ago I was on a birthday party that my kid was invited to - one boy was eating marshmallows like he was out of some asylum and his mother was trying to pull him back. My kid was looking at him as he was some kind of crackhead.

[@erika-paigehutch3930]

I have friends who weren't allowed sugar as kids and i was allowed it in doses, bro those kids went insane at the sight of sugar and still love sugary foods while i don't really care for them and prefer savoury stuff, if you don't let kids have things they're going to want them even more 😭

[@sugarm1860]

I’m one of those crackhead kids turned adults. My parents never had sweets in the house save for the occasional knock-off Oreos, 100 Calorie snacks, occasional donut, and Kefir yogurt. I’d get my hands on sugar and junk food whenever I could. Now I struggle to control my appetite with the adult money I have.

[@rosbel4119]

@@erika-paigehutch3930This is me. My parents let me eat candy in moderation and now that I’m an adult I rarely care for sweet stuff anymore. I prefer salty snacks. 😂

[@joonieisamood2770]

I’ve never watched the Wife Swap but I saw a clip of this mom who was speechless after her family said they liked the other woman’s cooking, which they said it was a whole lot better. That probably said a lot about the mom’s cooking

[@JustAFox2183]

Mom so basic if she were to be dropped in acid and checked the ph level, the ph scale would be so high we would need to invent a new way of measuring the ph in acids and a new number. She probably seasons her food with water and butter, unsalted because salty is just way too spicy for her. You know her food is going to be bland asf them kids probably never even tasted anything with spice

[@MatteoGodlover]

American family switch lives with young sheldon family.

[@DontReadMy_Picture-e8s]

😮😮😅😅Don't Read My Name 😎😎😎😎😂

[@eveahoehl2540]

Fr

[@hellenhardy3144]

69 😮

[@theflumpsydumpster7228]

I was hit with extension cords, switches, belts, you name it. Basically anything my dad could get his hands on. Truth be told the only lessons I learned were how to look over my shoulder and lie on my feet

[@lisagibson2975]

Update on this family: Bejamin (second eldist boy) died in 2022 of "fireworks mishaps".

[@sentientplant9658]

That actually sucks. I don't think I've heard a single positive update from any of these families featured on the show.

[@hannahjane5034]

Some people when they can’t literally beat their children: 😡😡🤬🤬😭🤯🤯😭😱😱😨😰

[@jonathonlong5796]

i was raised in an abusive household and went completely no contact with them back in 2016 and i’ve never talked to them or anything since. fuck that dad and i hope those kids can come out mentally stable, but that’s not likely

[@johnothybogginson]

wife swap is such a weird show who would consent to it (also i just realised pancho is playing Rivals W game)

[@charliewoodward3265]

13:47 he says stay active and healthy as im laying in a chair eating doritos

[@jenipurdy44]

bro to be honest i freaking love the fact that the lady gave them a chance to actually act like kids

[@SaintVigil]

Being beaten by my father ruined me and brothers lives and futures. It’s taken 16 years to barely get my footing on how to finally be an adult.

[@Thegrungegeek]

“Our instrument of discipline is the wacker” “…the wacker?”

[@megan7292]

Hitting your child is NEVER okay. Whether it’s a belt, spanking, a slipper, a spoon, whatever the method. There is no excuse for abuse.

[@BlueprintsAreNotAlwaysBlue-tds]

Some parents: "Video games make kids violent and hateful." Those same parents: (start taking their belts off the instant you hurt their feelings, intentionally or otherwise).

[@rickysoup]

naming ur weapon that you use to hit your kids is wild

[@EarMuncher]

my favorite raincoat has posted! (my dad thinks that it’s hilarious that you say “it’s your favorite mexican raincoat here)

[@IsabellaM-tk7fx]

love ur pfp

[@EarMuncher]

@@IsabellaM-tk7fx tysm!

[@ThatAdoptmeYoutuber]

seems like they had kids just to do the chores and only to do the chores

[@kawaiipotato7594]

I was a beat kid and honestly it just led me to be in abusive relationships and being used and mistreated. I now have a wonderful man in my life who is helping me heal. It’s not dark forever, you just need to keep pushing forward and use the little hope you do have to find a light. No matter how big or small that light will be the start of you getting out the dark. Much love and stay safe ❤❤

[@BasicallyWeasel]

my mom is a great teacher and human being. so glad I don't have parents like this 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@jj4fr]

Congrats on 2M subs Pancho, watching your vids are hella entertaining, keep it up man.

[@catsnwhales]

Best KZbinr oat

[@DontReadMy_Picture-e8s]

Don't Read My Name 😎😎😎😎😂😅

[@ChasmPlaya]

@@DontReadMy_Picture-e8skys buddy

[@catsnwhales]

@@DontReadMy_Picture-e8s You remind me of someone who is mentally disabled

[@VosotrosServer]

@@DontReadMy_Picture-e8s alr i wont then

[@Haze_xyz]

​@@DontReadMy_Picture-e8s I send my best regards to your grandmother

[@touchofcomics1841]

I got beat like twice with a belt. Honestly, I'm more traumatized by the fact that they often came out of nowhere. I was never warned that i would be punished. I would just get randomly called in a room or get woking up with a belt.

[@rorikoxoxo]

i would much rather have a lazy parent than an abusive parent

[@azulathesunmoonsimp8939]

I’m being so deadass, get CPS on this family. This is literally abuse in every way except s3xual- ☹️

[@Chinchilla2310]

Who knows if that’s not what’s happening. There’s some sadistic undertones to the fact they named the weapon they use to hit the kid and then force them to beg for forgiveness. The fact it’s something they boost about and make inevitable with their ridiculous rules paints a really concerning picture. Regardless he’s a demented psycho.

[@JustAFox2183]

That dad is going straight to the house for the elderly and his kids and wife won't miss him. Hes probably there right now as we speak

[@ryanhateswolverine290]

I was an evil little kid, so when my mom put me in timeout, I would laugh like a mad man so she flicked my ear and that HURTS

[@ryanhateswolverine290]

@BlakeS-i2e no joke lol

[@ryanhateswolverine290]

@BlakeS-i2e oh dang

[@kolbythurlow2422]

the dad and Ruby Franke would get along good.

[@dreamiinotdream730]

I don’t exactly mind the structured home they’re trying to go for but what they’re doing is restricting them. Those kids are gonna go crazy when they’re out of the house and depending on the education they receive at home, they may be behind. Often times when children are raised in households with that much control, they become dysfunctional adults and may abuse substances due to having no real idea of control. The goal of parenting is to raise successful, independent, disciplined children. But they can’t learn independence when all they know is exactly whatever daddy says or get beat. Bro is in for a shock when his kids crash out

[@DynamiteBuster]

Congrats on TWO MILLION subs!! Been watching you for a while, keep up the great work!

[@dödskugge616]

The parents have no soul. You can tell by the hollowness and void in their eyes.

[@Copeaddictt]

Besides the homeschooling the stict family is exactly how I grew up, poor kiddos

[@KayyluhD.]

Yes when I was growing up I got whoopings… definitely didn’t help me behave… all it taught me was you can physically hurt someone because they aren’t “behaving” the way you want them too. 😒

[@L1BER4TI0N]

why you use that goofy ahhh kanye head 😭

[@bell-collector5772]

11:26 it’s sad that they probably got beat after the experiment was over for being excited

[@Saladandvinigar]

8:09 reminded me of an old childhood thing we’d have to do, we’d have to ask for permission to be done eating which is fine like u said, but we would not be allowed to leave until everybody was done eating and if we didn’t we’d get screamed at, eventually now we don’t eat as a family or even really have dinner but god ts was crazy, my whole life up until maybe the past 2 years it was insane, last 2 years has been more lenient, moms giving up, strict parents raise sneaky kids, and kids who can’t stand up for themselves or speak their mind or express themselves

[@Fairicc]

bruh your the goat youtuber just make these vids longer pleaseeeeeeeee

[@SnailsInMySocks]

5:38 As a Vegetarian, It’s guilt. I will feel guilty and like I am responsible for the death of another being

[@KippoKupo]

the first family is when the parents get sent to a retirement home and dotn see their kids anymore. the 2nd family is when your parents die at 45 from a heart attack for being fat and unhealthy.

[@re1ribution]

yeah wife swap families r usually one extreme then another one on the opposite end

[@YesterMoon47]

BEHOLD PLARRY THE PLATYPUS the wackinator 2000!!!

[@reid1771]

I’ve been a vegetarian for over 10 years and it was more about preference than anything. I don’t blame ppl who eat meat and honestly don’t care if you do just don’t try and convince me to it’s not gonna work. And vice versa I would never force or convince anyone to be vegetarian bc there are good aspects of both diets.

[@karmellu]

5:32 as a vegan/vegetarian, i do love the taste of steak and i deeply from my heart love chicken wings, but I am very emetophobic (fear of vomiting) but since there's a risk to get food poisoning from meat, that kills my apetite. Sure plant based food can also catch salmonella/ecoli but the chance is a lot lower

[@YOUAREREPLACEABLE73]

Pancho, I was raised as a vegetarian (not by choice) but now i am not so i can say that most vegetarians either one don't like meat or two have a medical reason obviously excluding the crazy people who go vegetarian for the animals sake

[@avocadofatigue]

I was hit with essentially was a fishing rod with out the loops for the line to go thru just a metal switch bassically shit hurt "MOVE YOUR HANDS MOVE YOUR HANDS" 😂😂

[@ishikaorimura6803]

I mean i was hit with a belt (yes leather belt) everytime i went out of line or disrespect both my parents and grandparents and yea it did straighten me up i never did anything bad again 😂

[@THEONlyGOOdmemes32]

But what if your child hits, hitting them back is basically doing what you don't want them to do

[@toxy_i]

My dad always hit me with a wood stick that i always broke when i found the stick😭

[@DdayMino]

​@THEONlyGOOdmemes32 when your child hits its you they r misbehaving when you hit them back it's you showing that you have control in the house and you are disciplining them

[@diegorobles9267]

Real

[@funya-xw1iw]

Cause u were traumatized

[@crisptomato9495]

Using a belt on a kid isn’t discipline, it’s literally legally classified as criminal abuse in my country lol.

[@MarthewDiaz]

Bros acting like my dad when I don’t do the dishes 💀💀💀

[@Chinchilla2310]

Those parents would be jailed in my country. You can technically get away with an open-handed spanking, but using a belt/paddle/stick is considered assault.

[@actuallycheesy]

and I thought my parents were strict.... this video made me go give them a hug and thank them for what they do for me.

[@chimpsahoyy]

It's a great day when Pancho posts.

[@theblackfirewitch5509]

That made me happy and sad when i saw the kids smile about going to school. They were so happy about it

[@EchotheYeti]

Congrats on 2 million!!!!

[@Birdbuckss]

5:37 So im vegeterian and i chose to do so at a young age for multiple reasons one being that i generally never liked the taste of meat and alot of people dont understand that. Not forcing diet on anyone else eat what makes you happy

[@laglandeuse5973]

2:30 you can eat healthy, tasty food without making them look like this, like what the hell is this? how are you supposed to eat this?

[@pinkmilitia6946]

12:39 the reason he's so pressed is because he knows what he's been holding from those kids and he KNOWS he's never gonna hear the end of it 😂 they've tasted the freedom, their house is now a prison... It definitely will stick with those kids forever

[@kodahfr]

5:25 "hopefully you can catch em" is fucking wild 💀

[@re1ribution]

acting as if they were animals that needed to be caught lmao whattt

[@LuckyMenace13]

Alteast noone killed anyone like that one dude from wife swap

[@Ainsley_fav_420]

Please PLEASE do my uncles Tim and Lydia on wife swap it is actually hilarious I swear won’t regret it man

[@Juniper6666]

to this day the sound of the belt still scared me 💀 i’m 17 and i don’t get hit by the belt anymore. actually the belt wasn’t the worst punishment. my dad used to put rice on the floor, make us stand on it on our knees while crying, put our hands over our head for 30 minutes or once we stopped crying and then make us sweep it up and wash it for our dinner. crazy ass dad.

[@Audioversearchive]

I think spanking is ok, only in cases where it’s deserved. I asked my dad when I was younger why my little sister wasn’t getting spanked as much as I did. He said something like “because words wouldn’t work with you, telling her she did something wrong is just as painful for her as a spank was for you.” So that stuck with me, discipline style is definitely on a kid to kid basis. As long as you’re a responsible parent who pays attention and doesn’t go overboard, I think it’s fine.

[@textbots2257]

This actually makes sense. I’ve never thought of this before

[@djpouicha1802]

Yeah I hate when people say it’s abuse. It’s not but there is a fine line

[@SkibidiStraightShooter]

Soooo a little bit of abuse is ok? Just a wee bit let's not ya know go overboard 🙄 meanwhile your now adult child is in therapy or worse thinks that abusive relationships are ok

[@butsagyton5093]

​@@SkibidiStraightShooter spanking is not abuse. Beating is abuse. There's a difference.

[@SkibidiStraightShooter]

@@butsagyton5093 really then where's the line? Because your version of abuse and mine are clearly different. I guess it's ok so long as bruises aren't seen right? Purposefully inflicting pain to teach a lesson is abuse ESPECIALLY for a child who relies on their parents or guardians for safety. Karma sucks tho because all the abuse I was out through as a kid is the reason why my lupus ridden dying birth giver is in the worst possible state medical facility I could find 🤣🤣🤣

[@ChickenMan07]

Congrats on 2 mil

[@YXLdiamond]

my goated mexican raincoat

[@Cocograce-sp4ld]

No abusive parents just barley existent ones

[@gwenpicchi5719]

I am concerned with my own brain for my first thought at the Whacker was "That doesn't mean weedwacker, right?" I need a normal head.

[@Bearion-EDITZ]

it’s either call cps or change the house rules and let the kids be kids

[@NatTheNoodler]

These “strict” parents are going to wonder why their kids are going to go no contact the second they move out

[@GreebleClown]

“My kids aren’t exhibiting self-control“ Yeah, that’s what will happen when your kids turn 18 and move out. You haven’t taught them any discipline you’ve deprived them and they have no experience in controlling themselves. They’ll get overwhelmed with all the things that they couldn’t do and didn’t have access to

[@Code-gy6eb]

Dont get me wrong counter: 📈📈📈

[@Tanxisnumber1shipper]

The pain from the belt! That hurts.

[@SamuraiXGeisha]

These peple forget kids grow up and get stronger while the abusers get old and frail and will be at their child's mercy soon

[@mareepthepokemon1102]

My dad preferred a thin wooden plank... Live laugh loving

[@souwhis]

12:26 I know it’s just the background but the disrespect of punching him to death is crazy 😭🙏

[@firstnamelastname7990]

The only episode I don't think is scripted. That dad is terrifying.

[@cassylatshaw9655]

Not me being hit with whatever was in hands reach 🌚😭

[@leji_productions7340]

The strict ones will loose control in adulthood

[@moarmy6779]

I wonder what happened to the kids after Wife Swap!

[@re1ribution]

60% of the time the families just go right back to normal w mostly no changes after the show

[@L1QUID-fn]

Slay💅 pancho uploaded

[@dianamarchione1265]

I was hit with a thin piece of flimsy wood as a child when I was bad. I'm 25 I don't talk to my parents anymore

[@logankramer230]

I was also hit/spanked as disciplinary action. I’m 24 and have an incredible relationship with my parents along with my two other siblings as well.

[@dianamarchione1265]

@@logankramer230 I guess it depends on one how hard and often they hit you and how your treated on top of that. I was almost never treated with any sort of respect at all

[@logankramer230]

@@dianamarchione1265 very true, just like anything else there is a right and wrong way to handle disciplining and loving your children. I am sorry that your parents failed to do right by you in that aspect.

[@Katie_the_fox]

A good parent is strict but fair

[@THEONlyGOOdmemes32]

There is a boy in my cooking class that is vegetarian and he screams if the teacher brings it near him

[@thatcrispywaffle4745]

ive been homeschooled my whole life and because of that, i dont have any friends, i dont know how to make friends, and i have horrible social skills. i would genuinely pay all the money in my bank account to go to public school for my final year. im sick of not having friends

[@JoeLorimious]

When u misbehave so bad u get the metal part, (boss mode unlocked). (Also dnt trip, Brazzilian mothr).

[@cooperdelaney-k7y]

Begging for forgiveness is wild💀

[@oliviaschinman8461]

MY PARENTS USED TO MAKE ME AND MY SISTER DO THE “May I be excused?” GOSH I BECAME SO SICK OF THAT CRAP THIS EPISODE IS TRIGGERING MY PTSD.