The ADHD diagnosis that changed my life. What happened, how my life got so bad and what I'm doing.

How two separate psychiatrists in two different countries diagnosed me, just one day apart. And for anyone out there wondering if they or their loved ones might also have undiagnosed ADHD, this video is for you.
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[@corinnapetry65]

I am so proud of you, Ollie, that you went to the doctor, got a diagnosis and are treating it. That itself is so huge. It will make a difference for you and all your loved ones. Warm wishes from snowy Chicago.

[@joellenmeek658]

What she said from Pittsburgh USA

[@bdlodahl]

Yes, Ollie, what she said! Knowing answers to your concerns and frustrations and commiting to therapy is more than halfway to getting to where you want to be! Best wishes for a much less stressful, more hopeful, peaceful, and healthier 2024 & beyond! You've got this! 🎉 From Barbara in the Pacific Northwest, USA 🇺🇸

[@amycoffin826]

Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing. You are reading my mail. 😳☺️

[@geraldinetoltschin7776]

OLLIE,…we are listening and sending you much courage. So happy you have discovered what is going on.

[@MagicalModernistMansion]

Thank you. So am I and in fact, we all are!

[@MagicalModernistMansion]

Thank you so much, it is definitely good to know and to start putting things in place to make daily life a little less frustrating!

[@trinitystarclararose7118]

Ollie, you hid it well and that takes a lot of energy as also the condition. Thank you for being so open and courageous to share this with all of us . The biggest step was to face your fears and see a doctor and you did it. The worst is over. There are many highly creative and intelligent individuals who go through this. Thank you so much for sharing your experience it will help many others out ther. 💝🌈🇨🇦

[@susanm.1564]

@@MagicalModernistMansion "...putting things in place..." no pun intended??.. Honestly, I STILL spend about 30% of my day looking for things! I was diagnosed at 40, have muddled along for 3 decades, but after seeing the award winning short film "Shiny Objects" on youtube, I've decided to be newly assessed, and hire an ADHD coach. I'm a very healthy 72 year old, but obviously my years are numbered. The understanding of ADHD has come so far, I know I'll benefit from that, and expect these final numbers of years will be fun and productive! Love and encouragement to you and your beautiful family. ☺

[@DiSWRwow77]

​@@MagicalModernistMansion The grieving part and sadness is apparently all normal after a diagnosis. KZbin brought me to you because of your ADHD post. I'm struggling with a fairly new diagnosis in my 50's. It's a relief to hear of other people's experiences. You don't feel so isolated & alone which is how I felt for decades. Thank you Ollie. Subscribed. X.

[@TheFiown]

I used to think that I was a 'good' person, that I was fair and caring and never consciously hurt anyone until one day I realised that it was a lie. I had neglected myself, put myself last (a remnant of my protestant upbringing maybe) and that I had hurt myself in the process. I am very forgiving until it comes to myself but I am working on it each day, a bit late in the day but it's important to look inwards and if you are not your best then you cannot be your best for others and so forth. How touching this 'confession' dear Oliver, I do wish that you find peace and harmony and you take more time for you. Wishing you and you lovely family much love. xoxoxo

[@jolombardi1391]

Thank you for sharing I'm ADHD and found out late in life and learned to deal with it.bit I am now older and feel like you did looking for things getting so exhausted and all along it's right in front of you Im debating going and getting medicated most of my children are also adhd

[@edwinakastner8806]

Please seek help there’s no Shane in that but rather bravery imo

[@analourenco4688]

Could you please give the clinic or Dr name you seen in the UK. My son have all ADHD symptoms, but through NHS, we are not going no where. Glad you feeling better and all is working out for you. Thank you.

[@sueheiney8566]

My husband, daughter, both son in laws and 2 grandchildren have ADHD. I know your struggle is real. Take care.

[@deniereynolds6119]

I’m so happy you now know how to live in peace. We all love you Oliver. And you’re not alone.

[@RosemaryOltarzewski]

Ahh my thoughts too. Sending ❤ Oliver. Keep strong hunny bunny.

[@dianayavetz6286]

When you said you got the diagnosis and then said “it explains so much” it was a powerful statement. Bravo for the courage to realize you needed help and acting on that. This video is probably the most important one you will ever make. Best wishes on your journey.

[@MagicalModernistMansion]

Thank you so much

[@katecox5240]

👏👏👏

[@flibbertygibbette]

Honestly, as someone who has moderate to severe ADHD, I'm really surprised (and also not!) that you hadn't been diagnosed before, because it seemed pretty clear to me just from seeing you on your vlogs that you probably had ADHD. And to be honest, given how many of the KZbinrs I follow have disclosed their ADHD diagnoses, I think there is probably a pretty high proportion of KZbinrs who also have ADHD. I'm glad more people are talking about it and that more people are getting help because of it.

[@margaretstanton7567]

Can you share a couple of the symptoms you saw in the vlogs? I have no idea how to recognize this in others or in myself. TIA.

[@joannerichardson533]

Ditto this, I'm just waiting for Dans diagnosis now.

[@flibbertygibbette]

​@@margaretstanton7567 It's not really something I can point out in a single video. More like things that come out over time that I just recognize as being part of having ADHD when it's all together. And none of this is bad or a criticism. Super creative, messy studio (though he tidied it for the tour after they moved in, but he mentioned it was always messy otherwise), impulsive ideas/decisions, hyperfocus on projects, big energy around new projects but then having a hard time keeping up with them sometimes even if you want to do them, and other stuff. Incredibly hard working but people don't always see/recognize the effort. And also an energy of always moving, even when sitting still. Little physical things. And for KZbinrs, they'll often have some of the best content, but uploading might be inconsistent sometimes unless they have a lot of outside support and extra motivators/deadlines. Hyperfocus is actually a really helpful trait for video editing (I can speak from experience). Everybody has a different type so it'll look different for everyone, and people can have any or all of this stuff without having ADHD. But all together, consistently over time, this kind of stuff in anyone's behavior starts to become pretty clear as possible ADHD to folks who have ADHD or are super familiar with it. It's also worth noting that ADHD symptoms can also be symptoms of things like thyroid disorder, depression, anxiety, and other stuff (and depression/anxiety are commonly found with folks who have ADHD, especially undiagnosed ADHD, because we are constantly being criticized and told we are too much/not good enough/etc). So it's important to rule out other causes of symptoms. ADHD symptoms are always present from childhood, rather than appearing out of the blue. But a lot of folks get overlooked for diagnosis because of stereotypes, particularly in generations like mine and Ollie's. Boys with inattentive or combined type, girls in general, gifted kids who compensate for ADHD in various ways that mask it... a lot of us are diagnosed later in life. Bottom line, if you think you might have ADHD, then if it's possible for you, consider seeing someone who specializes in ADHD who can help with diagnosis or ruling it out. Diagnosis can be really surprisingly helpful. Also, the KZbin channel How to ADHD has a huge number of very helpful videos for people just discovering their diagnosis, or that of a loved one. And ADHDLove is another great one.

[@flibbertygibbette]

@@joannerichardson533 I'm working on trying not to speculate about anybody's diagnosis in YT comments. If folks want to talk about this kind of stuff in their videos, or invite people to suggest possible causes for stuff they're going through, they will. Otherwise it can be really jarring and difficult to have people openly speculating about your health in comment sections when you haven't brought it up. And that can have impacts on mental health whether or not they show those impacts in their videos. Plus, Dan seems pretty private about personal stuff. I just brought up thinking Ollie had ADHD because he chose to talk about it publicly.

[@margaretstanton7567]

@@flibbertygibbette Thank you so much for the insight! This is very helpful. All the best to you.

[@Claireostereo7]

I was late diagnosed last year at 45. I felt like I was losing my mind or had dementia. It is quite common for women this age to be diagnosed as they go into peri-menopause. Research is coming out about the links between the hormonal changes in women during adolescence and peri-menopause and the worsening of ADHD symptoms. My sister told me she had been diagnosed and her symptoms and I went straight to the doctor. It still took 18 months to get an appointment with the psychiatrist and cost over $800. Medication and a mental health professional to help me with strategies has been life changing for me. Especially with managing the anxiety that often comes along with ADHD.

[@hereandthere6001]

I was diagnosed in my 30s and finally had a word for my condition. I knew from 5 that I was different, a mix of adhd and later dyslexia. I'm used to the adhd but as i get older the dyslexia is getting worse and the bad news is people with adhd are 3 times more likely to get dementia.

[@lizdobson9793]

I"m in the mid-50s and was recently diagnosed. I saw a TikTok talking about girls and women masking ADHD and I started crying; so many things made sense. My daughter has it too, and we were talking that when she was school, it was thought only boys had ADHD. Luckily society is changing, and her company even has a support group for people with ADHD.

[@shannonstone2690]

SAME! Perimenopause has taken the ADHD symptoms I’ve somehow managed all these years (I’m 47) and magnified them tenfold. Some days I truly think I’m losing my marbles. Looking into hormone therapy to hopefully regain more control of my brain and life. Wishing you well on your journey back to finding yourself too!

[@annboehler627]

I was in my early 50's when diagnosed with ADHD plus on Autistic spectrum - mildly. Meds lifted the fog.

[@Truerealism747]

​@@hereandthere6001I think that's from stress though and depression.medication

[@nancynally]

I was diagnosed right before turning 40...I know what you mean about the relief, feeling like things make sense! But also the mourning, because I realized exactly how much of my potential had been lost to the lack of diagnosis. I'm not able to take medication but even just having the knowledge helps to find coping mechanisms. Thanks for talking about this...too many people still think adult ADHD doesn't exist.

[@joymarks4174]

I was diagnosed at age 35. Life changing to finally know why somethings are so hard. I'm very glad you have some answers and strategies to help you cope. Neurodivergents Unite!!!

[@monicateeling810]

You don’t realise how much you are helping others. Bravo to you and thankyou. ✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅

[@pipmurray1419]

My gosh Ollie, you’re such a brave person to tell everyone- that takes a lot of strength and acceptance. I did notice that you had put on a lot of weight and you both weren’t looking very happy before the end of last year. I thought it was the weight and stress of the house. Camilla would be lot happier too I would say with the outcome ,because you look amazing ….you really do. You look as if you’ve just turned a page into happiness. Well done and I’m so pleased

[@MagicalModernistMansion]

Thank you for your kind words. They mean a great deal.

[@nosunshine1609]

My husband and eldest son both have adhd. Husband is a high earner and son is at a top Uni. Like yourself both are very, very intelligent, but it is everything outside that’s the issue. I have to say, there was an episode where you went out for lunch with Stephanie, and I think you left the car on, left the keys behind and the phone. All so chaotic, I did think hmm adhd. There is no cure, but it is wonderful to understand the difficulties, and a partner (like the wonderful Camilla), who can help when things get difficult. ADHD is hard! It is such a frustrating condition. Good luck Ollie!

[@MagicalModernistMansion]

Oh yes you are right I remember that very well! lol I think looking back a lot of things make more sense now!

[@dagz6831]

I remember that one also...and thinking, thank goodness I'm not the only one!@@MagicalModernistMansion

[@nosunshine1609]

⁠​⁠@@MagicalModernistMansion adhd medication can help, but can also be pretty dangerous. My eldest son was taking Ritalin during A levels, (started in yr12). During his final biology exam, mid exam actually, he started feeling unwell. Ambulance came, he was rushed to hospital with a suspect heart attack. One of the side effects of adhd medication is anxiety and panic attack. He stopped taking adhd medication. I believe Michael Pethericks ended up in the hospital too (he thought he was having a stroke). My son is a rower (national level), and to compensate for the non meds, he is rowing 25 hrs a week for his Uni team(exercise = dopamine etc). If the medicine start causing issues, please do think about an intense sport like tennis, cycling, even surfing! It does help. Ps. NOT lecturing anyone, just sharing our story.

[@marystarke6735]

I'm so glad you went to the doctor Oliver. I was diagnosed as a child and took a break from medication for about 10 years after I left college, but last year I got back on the medication because I started to notice how hard everything was for me to do. Medication and organization tactics are so helpful. Thanks for sharing with everyone to destigmatize ADHD

[@Nan-59]

Would you mind telling me what kind of medication you were on? My doctor tried putting me on Vyvanse, but the pharmacy can’t fill it. She first put me on the opposite kind of medicine that is for if you’re not hyper but that did nothing for me at all. Nothing changed after I started taking it everything felt the same same. I need to call my prescription insurance and see what they will cover, but I don’t know the names of all of them .. not very many of them I don’t know

[@dianegriffith3006]

My grandson has adhd and has been taking mild meds for a few years now and he’s only 12. The meds turned everything around and results were noticed immediately-like you he’s an aspiring artist and very sharp. Thank you Ollie and Many Blessings!!

[@alannasandell2300]

Thank you for sharing ❤ My daughter was diagnosed with ADHD 12 months ago when she was 20 years old. Life changing for her after commencing on her medication, Psychiatrist, GP & following her favourite KZbin ADHD groups. Initially she cried after the first day on her medication because of the huge difference, she said ‘mum do I have ‘dementia’ ? She has moved on and now fully embraces her Neurodiverse Brain 🧠 ❤

[@dorislong9420]

Ollie, so pleased you got help. Wishing you a much less stressful life from here forward.

[@bettytali1827]

My goodness, it must be such a relief. Not an easy road ahead but I feel with the support of your loved ones I am confident you will conquer this and I must say, your demeanour is so different. More focused gaze and easy flowing chat. Thank you for letting us in and sharing. I wish you all the best.

[@tazzabolts5761]

Thank you Oliver for sharing what is going on in your life! So often bloggers will only show us the good, also for a man to go and be proactive in his health quest is brilliant. I can’t get my husband to go to the doc! I look forward to seeing how you and your family are getting on but only when you feel up for it! Love from a Brit who lives in Australia 🤗

[@carolmatthews7727]

Thank you for your courage. You are helping more people than you will ever know.

[@kimredmond3550]

Your honesty is so important! We watch all our vlogger friends living interesting lives, but we can forget that what we’re actually watching, is your life after editing. You’re not alone, and by sharing, we aren’t either. Good to see you back - and thank you.

[@kathyrogers1703]

Thanks for sharing this with all of us. Both of my sons were diagnosed with ADHD as children. Now, as adults, they are having different effects and ways of managing it on their own. I am glad that you are working things out. It's great!

[@ce1581]

I've found that stress ,big stress like yourself buying a home ,moving, starting a whole new KZbin job etc all at once can really aggravate the ADHD into an level. I found that simplicity and routine as much as humanly possible help the most . For instance if I have to pack to move house I stop cleaning, reschedule appointments ,or cooking big meals .cutting out extra things to focus on doing the priority thing. Good luck and God bless ❣️

[@anandhicooray5512]

Hey, Ollie. What a beautiful video. You are a brave person, and also very kind. I'm glad you found clarity and ease with your meds. You and Camilla are wonderful beings. So glad you found an answer and so proud you let others know, so it helps them too! Kudos dear Ollie! Happy New Year to you all! (and LOVE the new kitty!😻)

[@CarmenShenk]

I have known for years that I have it, but I have never gone to a doctor to talk about it. That 13 year thing is sobering though. I think my biggest challenge is difficulty sleeping, and it’s not that unusual to be awake all hours. I imagine a doc could help with that. You’ve inspired me to look for a referral. Thank you.

[@annaibarra3447]

To the loveable, wonderful Ollie! How wonderful of you to share this. It is so helpful to many people. You are just a good person, and your beautiful wife is so supportive to be by you. ❤ My daughter lives in Valencia, Spain, also agrees on the medical care. She loves it and the attention they have given her. 👌🏼

[@suzannewalker9409]

Thank you, Ollie, for sharing your experience with us, welcome to the club!! I was also diagnosed as an adult, I was in my 40s when I was diagnosed with ADD-inattentive (common in females). Those of us with the condition, before diagnosis, likely have suffered with varying degrees of “the cycle of disapproval“ from ourselves as well as from others. Not measuring up can be painful. Learning that all of that was not our fault is so freeing. I’m so glad that you found medication that helps. Thank you for sharing this too, it’s such a powerful message; and it’s so life-changing. It helps to know we’re not alone and it’s common with creative folks like us, as you said 😊.

[@angelatorlop4319]

You look and sound better. Not that you were 'bad' before, but I would say scattered and distracted easily. It is impressive Ollie that you have recognised that you were not functioning at your optimum and that things could be better and that you reached out for help. This is the part that many people struggle with. Not only are you doing what is best for you, but you are showing through your actions what is the right thing to do for your children. Strong men need to understand that to be strong means asking for help. Well done and I am sure that you not only have the support of your family and friends but of your world-wide friends like me, willing you on and lifting you up to be the best Ollie you can be !

[@Nicesusurrus]

My husband was diagnosed about three years ago. It's made a huge difference for him to have the diagnosis and treatment. Part of accepting and integrating this into his life was wondering about what could have been had they known he had this as a child. Eventually he settled on grateful to have at least found out now as it explained so much for him. Ollie, I'm so glad that you sought help and have found a solution and I'm certain that your family is so pleased to have you feeling good again too. I need to do a digital detox myself 😅 I'm going to look into a phone like that one you've shown!

[@kerri01]

Thank you for highlighting the mental toll undiagnosed ADHD takes. I did not think I could live anymore before getting my diagnosis and medication two years ago at 38. Unfortunately my uncle was not as lucky. Too many doctors prescribed him antidepressants over the years rather than exploring the underlying cause to the point he did not seek help in crisis because nothing worked before. It’s still a hard slog with diagnosis but self compassion has been the greatest gift I have been able to offer myself through this process as I now understand why I procrastinate etc.

[@thelocalartisanguide7937]

Thank you for sharing. A few friends of mine suspected I may have ADHD but I was reluctant to tell my doctor. I will discuss it at my next doctor's appointment. I live in the USA and when your healthy insurance isn't the best the doctor rarely goes above and beyond to helping figure out what is wrong so that is why I have not pushed the issue.

[@christinewilkinson3772]

Gosh Ollie, sorry to hear you’ve been struggling. But I’m so glad you’re feeling better and have answers! I have the hyper-focus thing, although I don’t think I have ADHD. I have horrible anxiety and worry issues, but I have meds for it. But I understand about the internal thoughts that never quit. Your brain gives you your art though, and it’s a magical gift! I do hope for better times for you now.

[@taitweigel64]

My husband found out he had ADHD, towards the last years of his life. He seemed to manage well, but not ever at peak. He lost a job due to his diagnosis. I'm happy you have found out and the treatment is working well.

[@Truerealism747]

Did it cause any physical illness for myself fybromyalgia

[@eili8806]

Oliver Strong, this was a lovely , very very lovely video to watch! I have a daughter who I got diagnosed at the age of 8 years with ADHD, and therefore I am so interested in hearing you talk about this, creating openness and being informative. I agree with you, the medication is close to miraculous. And so valuable to learn strategies, and that people KNOW so that they are less impatient with you. Thank you for this. Be happy, be creative, live long and well! x

[@sarahjones5529]

I met Stephanie recently and told her how brilliant Travels with my Friend is and how you were slightly nervous at the start of the series and how you just settled down and were brilliant!!!!!!! You make me want to visit places I have never been interested in !!! You really are such a lovely man. You are so genuine and viewers can recognise that. I’m so glad you have your diagnosis and now can really get into your stride. Cannot wait to see more of you on the screen bringing a lot of pleasure to a lot of people. ❤

[@MagicalModernistMansion]

Thank you so much

[@fenellajameson320]

Thank you, thank you, thank you for making this video. I was diagnosed as an adult at around 37years old when the specialist diagnosing my daughter with autism and adhd told me I should be assessed as well. When I saw my gp about something else a few weeks later and mentioned it, she said "oh, I thought you knew". My daughter had been on public waitlists for 18mths to see a specialist. I was seen in 2 weeks and diagnosed after a 2hr intensive assessment that included having my mum there to answer questions. It changed my life. Unfortunately I have more recently discovered that the efficacy of medication wanes over time and we are more prone to burnout. It's an ongoing journey. But at least when you know what's happening you have a much better chance of working out how to get through it. I'm so glad that you have found out about this superpower you have and are getting the support you need, as well as sharing your story to help others! It's brave and honest. Well done Ollie!!!! 🎉❤

[@mychristmasemporium5927]

Ollie I was going to say that that helps focus on your art, that’s a positive!8’ dyslexic and got diagnosed at uni and struggled all through school! It explains why I find time hard to manage and be organised and read time tables! Yet give me something creative or ikea flat pack and can do that easy peasy!

[@MagicalModernistMansion]

Thank you for sharing. You are so right to get a diagnosis and understanding the mind is something that I think more and more of us will do until it just is normal. We are all diverse, one way or another!

[@MagicalModernistMansion]

Yes, there are definitely some strengths to conditions like this! I think the knack is getting the most out of the strengths while trying to minimise the downsides!

[@paulakershaw5452]

This vlog has just given me a lightbulb moment, I worry about my eldest son so much, he is loving, successful but there is an issue that causes real problems that I don’t understand, he can be very personally destructive & I’ve just realised that he may have this disorder, thank you so much for sharing & I do hope you deal with your ADHD positively & overcome it’s negativity ❤

[@nettiek3806]

Dear Ollie, I so admire you for making this video. Firstly, my sincere condolences on losing Dante, your beautiful Birman. Your cats are an important part of your life, as they are in mine, and their illness and loss is such a traumatic event. Secondly, I am SO glad you have been able to see dedicated specialists in order to receive your ADHD diagnosis and move forward positively. Your previous UK experience of ‘5 minutes and out of the door’ said it all for me. It is a very sad state of affairs. Obviously we are strangers, but your honesty hammers home the point that we all ‘see’ people only on a very superficial level and have no clue as to what is really happening in their lives. I wish you well Ollie, including Camilla and all your family. No-one is left untouched by such these things are they? In closing, I must say you looked so well in your video, relaxed and charming. The perfect Gentleman. All my good wishes to you. Annette

[@RosemaryOltarzewski]

Hear hear. ❤ 😊

[@dinikars3870]

Just knowing and having the right tools is half the battle! Wishing you success! 🎉

[@graceperry2623]

My youngest sister was diagnosed this year at the age of 62. She said she always knew there was something different about her. She was relieved, but sad about the fact that our parents never knew. They never knew why she was so disruptive as a child and it wasn't her fault.

[@shelbycooper7504]

Ollie I’m so glad you have found a solution that helps with your ADHD, You are a lovely man sending love from Canada ❤

[@bonavistaoptics]

That was done so beautifully and spoken so eloquently! Thank you for sharing. Love ya Ollie!

[@MagicalModernistMansion]

Thank you

[@stephaniedavis6531]

Ollie, I'm new to your channel. I first " discovered" you when you were visiting Stephanie Jarvis at LaLande. When you put a fascial mask on, I nearly fell out of bed with laughter. Then, when you speak of the history of locations you and Stephanie travel to, I have learned so much. This post of yours appeared in my feed today. THANK-YOU FOR SHARING. It may feel very vunerable to share, especially to such a large audience. The peace of mind that you have given yourself no doubt carries over to Camille and the family. CHEERS TO YOU for taking that first step and seeing a doctor. Wishing you continued success from Pennsylvania. ❤😊

[@rmil4531]

How fabulous. My career involved working with many youngsters with ADHD, ADD and Autism. Having a diagnosis was such a relief for both the child, parents and siblings. Unfortunately lately in Scotland the drugs for such children have been scarce…meaning it’s a nightmare for the families and school. Nature and nurture also play a part in managing ADHD. Unfortunately some kids don’t have the benefit of a structured upbringing which doesn’t help. Ollie, you look wonderful, you are a lovely chap, you deserve to feel happy.

[@joannedavidman6773]

I. So impressed with you talking about your journey. Thank you for saying it's okay and to not be ashamed

[@lmwaters9617]

Thank you for sharing your journey Ollie. I was diagnosed with ADHD about five years ago. I am 66 years old now. When you talked about mourning all the time that was spent struggling, I really related. I don't think I had thought of it in quite that way before. But you're right. It's like, how much more I could have accomplished over the years? It is still a struggle from time to time, but nothing like it used to be. Good luck. It will get better and better. Leisa

[@SquirrelDiaries]

Well done you and well done Camilla. Brilliant that you've talked about it. ❤

[@carolehanrahan]

I'm so glad you took the time to recognize that something wasn't right and went through the tests to figure it all out. It doesn't make it go away but knowing you have it means you can learn how to cope and I'm also so glad your medication helped so dramatically.

[@goldenlady9797]

Love you, Ollie! You got this. 💖🌟

[@paulettebarber7219]

I’m so glad you’ve found out what’s been going on and now are getting treatment. It’s wonderful you are sharing your experience! ❤

[@Teena-yi9xw]

Well, you look fantastic! Like you have lost weight and look less stressed. Important information. Thanks for sharing.

[@colleenjones5721]

Thank so much for sharing this. I am 65 and have started to think that I may be suffering from early dementia but a part of me wonders if it is indeed ADHD and that my addiction to my phone might be some of the problem. During Covid, I started to follow so many KZbin channels and now I can’t seem to stop looking at my phone. The timer idea is brilliant. I’m going to try to use it. And I might look for that book. Thanks again.

[@DiSWRwow77]

I thought same about dementia but it was ADHD - I'm recently diagnosed in my 50's. Hormones can negatively impact ADHD.

[@mariettafocke9276]

You are a star. Hugs to you and your lovely family.

[@LorraineinAustralia]

Oh dear Ollie.. I’m 71, undiagnosed but totally typical ADHD from childhood for as long as I remember. My two children have inherited it, as have my two grandchildren. I’m not going through the process of diagnosis here in Australia because it is so expensive. I’m concerned about my younger family. It’s thousands of $$ to get diagnosed here. I’m taking as many supplements as I can, as is my daughter. We are hoping we can help the grandkids this way. It is helping both myself and my daughter. Thank you for baring your soul. I do hope your family and extended family are with you during this time. My husband (75) has been amazing. He is a retired professional man , we have been married for 52 years and he is actually pleased that I can finally understand myself. Obviously we are retired from the workforce by now, but he has always supported me, my odd ideas that have actually helped us, and my down times that didn’t. I do hope your revelation will help others. Cheers from Oz🐨🐨 ❤️❤️

[@nosunshine1609]

This is my experience ; We see a private adhd specialist every 6 months for my eldest son. I will be honest with you, all they do is to label you, and for my son recommended medication ONLY for when he is at school, not during holidays etc . For my son the specialist recommended Ritalin. They have to check his heart, weight, blood pressure every 6 months because of the medication. They recommend CBT therapy, where you can work on life strategies. (He has since given up on medication, and uses sport to compensate). My husband (46), also has adhd. Specialist did not recommend medication. She said medication is not the answer, and he has to work on strategies with a cbt therapist. My point is, before spending thousand on a diagnosis, think about what you really want from it. For the children I would definitely get the paper, only because it gives extra perks at school/university. (Extra exam time, quiet room etc). The specialist is there only to label you, the strategies Ollie is talking about, he probably got from books, reading online etc.

[@maryjoan4128]

I discovered I had ADHD late in life,, it shook me to the core,,, good for you,, to reach out for help , and a blessing you have your family,,,, take care and keep well

[@susanmatthews7761]

Well done on taking that step. My husband approached his GP about 10 months ago and has not yet had a referral through.

[@nosunshine1609]

In the U.K. you either wait a few years or go private … I believe there is a 2 years waiting list for children, not sure for adults, probably longer…

[@MagicalModernistMansion]

Best of luck

[@MagicalModernistMansion]

@@nosunshine1609 Yes it is a real problem. In the UK there is also a national shortage of one of the main ADHD medications. We were lucky we could afford to get a private diagnosis from the UK, but not everyone can do that. It is not a fair system. We hope this situation will change as awareness increases, so that everyone has the same opportunity to get the help they need.

[@nosunshine1609]

@@MagicalModernistMansionwe see a private adhd specialist in Richmond. Please do take care with adhd medication, my son ended up in hospital because of it. Michael Pethericks also ended up in hospital.

[@lgrigg5439]

Ollie, you are very special to talk about ADHD i think it's very important to talk about it.

[@MagicalModernistMansion]

Thank you so much - this community is such a beautiful one. Thankful for the support.

[@lindagage7315]

I'm so happy for you, I have a grandson with the same condition! I think you are amazing!

[@MagicalModernistMansion]

Thank you and I wish your son well.

[@cococrazyoilstm4476]

Ollie, thank you so much for sharing. It’s wonderful you’re feeling so much better. 👍🏻

[@kathyvick2710]

WOW!!! Thank you so much for sharing your story. I feel that something has been off for me for many, many years. I was never diagnosed with anything. When I confided in friends years ago, one of them said…well you probably have compensated somehow over the years, why worry about it now. I thought about what she said later and realized I WANT to know because maybe there will be ideas to help me. I also have a relative who may have the same thing….when you said the words “hyper focused”…..he does that. I need to figure this out. Oliver, I hope and 🙏 that as you go through your days, things become easier as you apply what you’re learning to your daily life.

[@crae3422]

Very proud of you and thankful for doing this. You are letting others know they are not alone and that is a gift indeed.

[@user-jr9tx9xs1s]

You are so brave, Ollie! My husband and daughter had ADHD. There seems to be a strong genetic link. You are now consciously able to recognize ADHD tendencies in your children. Take care of yourself! We love sharing your journey but nothing is more important than life! If KZbin is stressful, let it go or only share as you are able. We can wait! Sending hugs and prayers to you and your family. Life is too short to waste a day!

[@MagicalModernistMansion]

Thank you

[@joyjoycolorado8279]

Thank you for sharing. There are so many people who are not dealing with these type of issues out of fear and I hope some will see your video and take action. We all deserve to live our best lives.

[@jkaji331]

I am so glad you shared your experience and I wish you the best going forward. I was diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder in my 40’s. There is a lot of overlap between ADHD and ASD. I understand the feeling of relief and sadness at the same time. I was fortunate to be able to spend a couple weeks and Chateau de Laland last year. I think many people who attracted to it are neurodiverse, and I love seeing a place where our quirks are not only accepted, but celebrated. I don’t know what it is about Stephanie, but I do think there is something about her puts neurodivergent people at ease.

[@samanthakitch4736]

I am so glad you found some relief in the diagnosis and that the medication is working for you. I have read ADHD 2.0 but I would highly recommend reading the book "Brain Energy" by Christopher M. Palmer, MD.

[@susannahwhitaker994]

Ollie Thankyou for your open honesty . I know all will be better for you because you are living in an amazing country, in an amazing house with amazing people who love you. Keep being you 🤗

[@jimmyconnolly3461]

Ollie, well done you. I’m pretty sure I have it too but, like other men, I’m still not feeling that I’m worthy of seeing a doctor to get that ball rolling. But, maybe I will, now.❤️✊👍

[@user-ji9iq4pq4i]

Ollie Ollie what a lovely gentleman you are.........thank you so much for having all that common sense to realise so😢mething wasn't quite right. Many of us are wired differently and I for one will get the book. I'm 84 this year and life has to get easier. Lots of love and thank you so much. Love to Camilla too. Xx

[@wendymorrison5803]

Oliver, Diagnosis is information. Information is power. It's a hurdle accepting that something isn't right with yourself. That leap can seem impossible. I'm glad you acted on your worry. I'm glad you took the time to find out. You sound quite positive now.

[@user-oc2mt8kf2j]

Congrats on the courage to get a diagnosis.

[@newday5]

Ollie everyone’s brain works differently . I was a leftie converted from right handed and found difficult to convert and reversed things but learned I had such compassion for others . I could anticipate others needs as a Nurse of those critically ill. 30 yers in I used my god given talent for the better .

[@caronich]

I have watched the Magical Modernist Mansion since inception. I have been drawn to its unique and aesthetic content esp. your living in the Catalonian area of Spain. Thank you for sharing your ADHD diagnosis and the amazing improvements you are experiencing now that you know and on a treatment regime. The fluidity of your speech and overall presentation is noticeable. I am thrilled for you!!!

[@christensenmaxine9301]

You sweet sweet man! Thankyou so much for sharing this with us all.

[@roxannewolf7130]

Ollie, you are an amazing person, and you know you are! We all have our deficits, everyone of us! But that just makes us human! I tell myself, just love me, for who I am, all of my frailties, and absolutely amazing qualities too! Just like you, my positives outweigh the negatives, so life is good, and so many more life happenings to experience!❤

[@carolesmith6620]

Thank you for sharing your diagnosis at the moment my daughter is trying to get her little ones diagnosed (ADHD,OCD and so on, so thanks for sharing your journey, take care and see you soon 🌼🤗

[@caronspurway3792]

Wow, good on you for recognising you needed help. One of my sons-in-law has ADHD and we think one of their children might as well.

[@debbiebrowne-gudat5170]

Thank you for sharing, for many reasons. Explaining your absence of course, but more importantly that you feel comfortable to share with us and to inform and explain more about this conditon. Thank you and welcome back.

[@davidlogan4329]

I've always thought you were a good man, Ollie. I'm so glad life is much better for you and dear Camilla. Please take special care. Best always, David

[@eamonnohalloran2254]

Thank you Ollie, For sharing this new insight into your life.I am glad that you were proactive in doing research and seeking medical help. I think and can relate to similar trates in myself and ponder the what might have been. Knowing the condition is present is the first step in walking out of the Chaos that sometimes exists. Daily we have a Thousand things that demand our attention ,some with priority and some with none.Navigating that environment can be exausting, I can relate how the laptop and smartphone can absorb our time. Firstly ,I try to treat myself with compassion and renew every hour and every day.The lists and the organisation help. Continue sharing the Uniqueness of You. I love your view of the World, its Beauty ,its History and its Stories .Your Talent, Creativity and most of all your Humour. Happy New Year to You,Camilla your immediate and extented Family. I liked in your final shot you have a Ponsettia from Christmas that has seen better days. ME TOO.!!!!!!!!!!!

[@sorcha259]

I love the little timer and suitcase with chargers in. Bravo Ollie, very brave 🙏

[@merlinsowl9458]

Thank you sweet man for sharing and being vulnerable for us. I’m 67 just found out my life wasn’t : that I was an incredibly creative being I was ADHD ridden. The sadness realizing this was that I no longer felt “ special” I now realize why life was so tough for me and my magical self was an outcome of a brain acting like the switch was on … all the time. Thank you for making it … okay ❤️👍🙏and how there’s tools to help. I do think as you age and aren’t under care for this it just does take turns to sadness, despair and exhaustion attempting to try to be so called normal . I send hugs from USA . Does the Med you’re on calm things down so you’re able to sleep instead of being a major night owl? Thanks for your opinions!

[@IRSA1]

Thank you so much for sharing this so honestly with us. My son and daughter have been given this same diagnosis recently. Although high academic achievers, they have struggled with coping with similar problems (and worse) than those you have mentioned. They have also tried to use practical stratagems to help the in their professional life, but finding the correct medication and at the right dose has been a very arduous journey to say the least … And yet, despite all of its difficulties, I am convinced that ADHD makes you a very special human being, through and through .

[@denisefazio6708]

I am so glad you are feeling better. I told you we would be here for you all!

[@nancyjohnston5985]

Thank you so much for being open about this!

[@aliceprofitt8506]

Best Wishes to you! So thoughtful of you to share your story. ❤

[@jasminelouisefarrall]

Thank You for sharing this with us Ollie 🥰

[@taralewandowski9765]

Thank you so much for sharing Ollie!

[@melissamohr8985]

Thank you so much for opening up and sharing!!!!! So many people will have the courage to seek help! Prayers!!!!

[@joanfelt8069]

Thank you For sharing . ❤❤❤

[@Kayze1242]

Proud of you Ollie❤

[@barbaragerrett8508]

So thoughtful of you to share❤

[@janetmiller8779]

Thank you for sharing Ollie.

[@lynnettehall8615]

Thank you for sharing Ollie, with all the things you have put in place to help you I am sure you are now on the right road to living your life with this diagnosis. Wishing you and your lovely family good wishes in the future.

[@jessiefuller9480]

Thank you for sharing!

[@pandgb]

Thanks for being so honest. I'm glad you're feeling so much happier and organised

[@wmomente]

So glad to hear - nothing but the best for you and your family

[@tschw]

What a show of strength to be so brave and vulnerable. Cheers Ollie

[@user-xc6xv3qk3l]

Very pleased for you Ollie , that you got the help you needed . All the very best for the future xx

[@MWaite-xy4my]

Thank you, Ollie for sharing that. Take care and all the best

[@helante]

Thank you for sharing your story and journey!

[@beverlymurray6554]

Thank you Ollie for sharing