The Adventure Van Gets Tired! VanLife On the Road

[@Endless_Skyway_Adventures]

For those who are being critical of Brian for not helping. Please understand that the woman was involved in an active domestic squabble having been left. I think he made the right call to leave. Probably worth a call to the police to ensure her safety, give her food or water if needed, but 100 percent right to leave. If her partner returns, Brian being there would only make things worse. The initial conversation was camp with me not I need help. Big red flag.

[@SkipsDirtLotGeniusAdventures]

Staying in that spot could have ended badly.....good choice man!

[@NoProGoPronto]

Brian you did the right thing by driving away from that unknown situation. I am a woman and I got a sinking feeling in my stomach as soon as she invited you to stay in her camp. The viewers that are criticizing you, are the ones that are letting her gender cloud their judgment. She asked you "are you camping by yourself? To me, that was a red flag. Just because she's female doesn't mean she couldn't be deadly. Sometimes in life, a bad situation isn't always the obvious one. Don't give it a second thought Brian. Again, you did the right thing. Continued safe travels my virtual friend :-)

[@AdventureVanMan]

NoProGoPronto Thank you. Yes, that was trouble waiting to happen. She was all over me! 😊👍✌

[@projectmustardseed857]

Thank you for sharing that was a good lesson for us all...

[@TSunshineful]

I'm wondering what she looked like...lol

[@Tygerlady99]

Totally agree that he did the right thing!

[@Metalpug79]

Yeah, the thing that set off the alarms in my head was right after she asked if he was looking for a campsite, the first thing she asks is "are you alone?". I mean, that very well could have been innocent, and she was just asking if he was with any other people that had vans or RVs... but its better to trust your gut. When she said that I thought "its time to bounce Brian!" Haha Not to mention, even if she wasnt planning anything with bad intentions, who would want to get involved with a possible drama filled situation? What happens if that guy (not sure if it was a guy that left her, he didnt specify) that left her comes back to find her sharing a camping spot with some single guy he doesnt know? No thanks!

[@LostOnLandAgain]

I think you were wise to follow your gut on that campsite situation. Thanks for breaking out your flute! It's been a while. I hope nothing is seriously wrong with the van!

[@coolcatcarolena4951]

Very smart. The thing that keeps me safe traveling alone, with all my belongings on the road is to listen to my instincts.

[@lillianzybarra6405]

When one is out and about, always take care of yourself first, access the situation with deep thought, then react. You do what your instincts tell you. Don't regret the decision you've made, there's always another time to help. God Bless and thank you for your videos

[@LaramieJim]

Looks like a major field repair. You avoided a lot of drama by getting out of that campground. That lady wil be fine.

[@sloburnnn]

Always an extra treat when you play your guitar or flute.

[@MaryBeth1965]

This scenario reminds me of a Rumi quote I've always liked: "There is a voice that doesn't use words. Listen." ....I'm glad you are in touch with your inner voice/intuition. Keeps you safe and sound. We have to trust our gut. That woman seemed like Trouble was her middle name! ....on a more pleasant note,love the flute playing,Brian. Brings a sense of calm. Thank you. ✌🏻️

[@michaelbianco3736]

Run Brian Run!!!! good move to get out of there. That house tucked away in the woods cool. Look forward to the next video.

[@halliadams5987]

Brian, always trust your gut! When she asked if you were alone, my Spidey senses starting tingling. Don't know if she was up to something, but why go there? Ain't nobody got time for that!!😂😂

[@nancywalton55]

Great video, as always! Wow, Washington is beautiful. Loved the kayakers riding by. Had to be so relaxing in that beautiful camping spot. You really do find some great places to stay. ♡

[@TimUntethered]

Yeah, that caught me too. But in fairness, perhaps she was more concerned about being around two or more men she didn't know. Still, there were other resources there should she need assistance. It's not like she was stranded in a deserted campground. I would have bugged out as well.

[@MaryBeth1965]

I agree. No need to ask if someone is alone! I was asked that while on a road trip once. My reply? "My German Shepherd Brutus is in the back!" 😊 (Didn't have a pet... but...lol)

[@ARF.Racing]

But that's what the duct tape and rope in the back of the van is for! I kid, I kid.

[@stephaniealex1852]

How can we judge Brian for anything! We weren't there and he's a gentleman and didn't give all that lady's details. We all do what we feel is right at the time. I'm praying for your continued safe travels and I hope to meet you in new jersey where I'd love to hire you for my van build., email sent.

[@justaroundthebend6679]

You did the right thing leaving.. I would have done the same... She was not there alone that place was full of other Campers that could help her but must of knew more of what was going on because why was none of them helping her?? Strange.... My radar would have been up!

[@AdventureVanMan]

Just Around the Bend Its funny because she never asked for help or anything, just for me to camp with her. 😁👍✌

[@justaroundthebend6679]

Yep I think you did a good thing by leaving!... Its her not asking those other campers to camp with her or etc that bothers me... And if she did why weren't they camping with her... So yeah not a good deal!..

[@bboop1964]

I could listen to you play the flute all day...so soothing! And good choice moving on from the abandoned women. As much as I love to help everyone, there's times you have to make a decision like you did and not allow yourself to feel bad for it and that you did what was right for your situation.

[@joeg.355]

You made the right choice Brian. There's obviously a reason why she was left there in the first place. Be safe out there Brian. ✌

[@MamaBearDora]

Beautiful camp site you found! Loved the river shots with the drone. I don't blame you on wanting to avoid a possible negative situation with the strange female. Got to follow your gut instinct sometimes. Sorry your van is struggling. Beautiful flute music! loved it! Hubby and I are hoping to find the road under our wheels soon! Loving the life you van and rvers live. So looking forward to it! Peaceful travels! Love. Light, & Laughter!

[@HOBOTECH]

Good call on going with your gut. I'd do the same. I thought by the title of the video you got new tires! Hopefully a filter and fluid change will fix er up.

[@bcp583]

Absolutely enjoy your videos and hearing about you experiences and all the places you get to see. Really enjoy your meet ups with other van and van camper dwellers. Hope to be out there myself someday. Good call on leaving that campsite. That woman brought you in under false pretenses. No need getting involved in a possible domestic situation. There were plenty of people around her. I'm in EMS and we don't get involved with domestics without PD on scene. You did not abandon her.

[@myblessedhope3]

As she was telling you you could share her spot, I was thinking, "Don't do it VanMan!" Glad to hear your flute again. Glad you were able to reach out to your friend. Hope you don't stress out about your van too much. It'll al, work out for the best one way or the other.

[@ThePES_Channel]

The inflatable tube idea is awesome! Would be so much fun! Oh this video is amazing. I was so drawn in! Devostated when it finished lol. Hope the transmission holds up and good choice leaving that other camp. Bring on the next video!

[@fishfinfilms]

Brian - You did the right thing at that 1st camp site. Sometimes being helpful can get you into trouble. Good luck with the transmission.

[@rockymountainreseller]

always trust your gut. God gave us the gift of discernment to help us survive.

[@margaretmodrovsky1350]

I think you did the right thing by not helping that woman go with your gut is what I always live by....... Nice scenery.

[@daredare890]

Thank you for the flute song of spirit. Wonderful.

[@bethmay191]

trusting your gut..always the best decision. thanks for the flute music.

[@gisellegonzalez4677]

No no no you did the right thing!!! Your gut will never fail you. Safe travels🙏🏼

[@pamalapeterson5352]

You listened to that lil voice given to you to guide you, well done! Love the flute playing ! Keep save and God bless you!

[@ChiefinGuam]

Hopefully, easy fix and you're back on the road. Enjoyed the music at the end. Take care!

[@brimstonefondue]

Good on you for listening to your instincts. Your personal safety is more important than her lack of a ride, especially if your inner alarm bells are going off.

[@lambertfever]

It's amazing how information quickly runs through a brain hardwired for survival. I wasn't even there and am surely missing quite a bit of information yet, are you alone, I have a story, many people/cell phones in the area already. I suspect you were not the first knight refusing your shield :D Safe travels, Brian.

[@AdventureVanMan]

Tara Firma For sure, that was a red flag situation. She was throwing herself at me bigtime! 😊👍✌

[@ricks.1318]

You are a WISE man, Brian !!!! Hit that gas pedal bro ...........

[@ARF.Racing]

wanted the D!

[@kathleenthorpe7143]

I'm a 54 year old woman. That situation with that woman didn't sound right to me either. If she really needed help, why didn't she ask to use his phone to call someone. You did the right thing!!!!

[@judycarey9051]

Gorgeous scenery. Love the drone footage. A cow statue and great flute music. What's not to love?

[@marieannegreaves8248]

thank you Brian,as a disabled,retired driver I so enjoy riding along with you,you show off the area very well. my feet are itching for a extended road trip,. Happy trails+safe travels.

[@blborto5989]

Stranded lady = suspicious. You did smart thing. If she really wanted help, you could have called the authorities for her. Can't wait for your next vid/update!

[@tomcaldwell5750]

Love the sound of the flute. Good luck with the transmission

[@lizzy2shoes557]

Ahhh, the story continues...That's the homestead that dave2D just spent awhile at...Must be a kindred spirit..Hope the Adventure van is ok...

[@vantheman3857]

Lizzy2shoes ummm... Ok I knew I saw that cow somewhere before , right ???

[@rangercody758]

Fantastic drone footage at your riverside site...beautiful! Loved the flute and accompanying visuals. Your vids just get better and better!♥

[@OTKFANBOY]

This is why I love you bro. They say an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. Awesome situational awareness. You don't know wtf those people were about. Next thing you know, you'll 'owe her' for "letting you use my spot" Also, Hopefully, it could just be your transmission coolant lines busted or leaking? Those tend to blow when it's hot af out and the car or van has been sitting in it all day.

[@journeyman4328]

One question for everybody that thinks Brain did the wrong thing. WHY WAS IT IMPORTANT TO HER THAT BRAIN WAS ALONE? She wanted to get laid or rob him.

[@AdventureVanMan]

Journeyman You called it man! 😁👍✌

[@vantheman3857]

Journeyman nope... more like get laid and THEN rob him. one of the oldest tricks in the books.

[@gringo3009]

JMAN, Or both!

[@ARF.Racing]

Hold on to your kidneys Brian!!!!!!!!!!!

[@vantheman3857]

Red flag alert 1. Are you alone. 2. You can camp with me (cuz they bailed my ass and might be coming back to do something stupid cuz I did something stupid this way I can have protection and bring you into my mess and put you in danger too.) 3. He's the 5th dude she asked, everyone else already knows the deal. Run for the Wal-Mart!!! Over a crazy woman any day of the week. 🤤🤹‍♀️👎

[@tikilee7172]

Thank you for flute ending. Wishing you cheap and easy van fix.

[@luckysheets4683]

Wow that's so weird, I was just thinking about you playing the flute! OMG thank you 😊

[@billyemartin2975]

its just so gorgeous. I cant wait until I get to do this!

[@rccomo1144]

Good morning Brian and the Brian bunch Washington looks like a great place to visit thanks for the video

[@cocos8970]

I love this video where you are playing your native American flute while you tape the flora and fauna.

[@TheRaven757]

When in doubt, DON'T. You are traveling alone so you have to look out for yourself. With all those spots occupied already, there were plenty of other people who could help that lady if she really needed it. Great footage. Hope the van is okay. 😊✊👍 Safe travels!

[@susanstrickland6774]

Such beautiful areas you find. No need to bring trouble to yourself, lend a phone to someone to call 911,if they want, move along. Enjoyed your music playing, and nature ending. 👍

[@valeried4504]

Washington is beautiful. I enjoyed your music at the end I could listen to that for hours... Thanks Brian

[@visualtraveler5263]

I have a feeling that you may have found another vehicle, with when you were saying "what to do, what to do ?" , concerning your transmission, and then at the end saying "What's up with the van man ?, see in the next video." I've been hoping for quite a while now, that you would get a new vehicle, and preferably a box van, like you had mentioned wanting next. It sure would be nice to see Brian. Anyways, the drone views were very nice indeed, and you played it right concerning that woman. That could have been a trap, with her boyfriend hiding in the woods, ready to take over your van and leave you stranded, or even dead. You never know about things like that. I would have done the same thing you did. I so much enjoyed hearing you play the flute. That flute has some really cool sounds, the way you bring it out. I wish the very best for you Brian, and hope that soon you will have a box van. Much peace and happiness to you. ✌

[@tamingthelife31]

Good call going with your intuition about the woman situation. I hope to sometime see you floating down that river on an inflatable tube :) Definitely something I would do. Haha. Looking forward to the next video, about the van and that epic house thing in the forest, whatever it is.

[@ceciliapetrowsky2572]

Brian, those drone shots were absolutely stunning! What a great spot. So happy and relieved that you trusted your instincts. Good luck with the van and safe travels.

[@imcallingshotgun_vanlife]

I've been stranded before and no one would stop to help me. We can't live our lives afraid and suspicious of everyone. Each one help one. Please. I love you videos.

[@Ekinnajay]

Rene walker except she didn't ask for help.

[@jaieatsplants]

Man you dodged a bullet! Perfect example of always always always trusting your gut. Well done 👌🏾

[@caroldodson237]

Wow! So much to say about this video. First as always the scenery was spectacular! Such a beautiful area. Glad you didn't take that woman up on her offer to camp by her. That didn't sound right. You just don't know what kind of trouble she's in. It's so awesome you can play that flute! Just gotta watch the next video to see what's going on with your van's transmission and with you! Thanks for sharing.

[@gringo3009]

Brian, you did the right thing, period. We all have those "gut feelings" for a reason. Every time I ignored that feeling, it didn't end well for me. You're a smart man. Travel safe.

[@nancylarose7565]

Thank you so much Brian for sharing your Advantage 's!

[@Greystone76]

Hope the vans transmission didn't suffer to bad. And good call on rolling out from that camp with the sketchy lady.

[@lpiclothing]

We travel in a 2006 E350 Super duty van and pull a travel trailer (5,000 pounds). Our van had 230,000 miles on it. Just replaced the tranny ($2600 3yr 50,000 warranty.with AAMCO Nationwide) ... figured we were good. Just had a rod knock start ... not so good. We ended up ordering a certified motor with 84k on it from a fleet van, $1700 free shipping, no tax and $1000 capped labor to install ($2700 total). So for $4300 we feel we are set to go a few more yrs with her. Body is perfect, no dents, rear end is in great shape. Why buy a new (used) van for $5500 to $8000 and you don't know what problems your getting. Good luck to you man, we enjoy the vids.

[@aHigherPower]

Love your still video of the vegetation and scenery. Please never stop doing that Brian! :) Man, I don't know about any of you, as much as I enjoy these videos it's kills me I'm not living it. If I had ending up single or no kids I would have no doubt done what your doing. Singleness has it's pros and cons for sure. We need a support group for us wanderlusts that can't do it at this point in our lives. lol

[@groundpounder8855]

I didn't know you pay the flute sounded great. You made the right move.

[@SuzesCarnivoreLifeAfterBypass]

Your flute playing is so beautiful and soothing. And I think you definitely made the right decision getting out of Dodge lol. I hope your Van is OK and doesn't cost too much. Safe travels Brian

[@SDsailor7]

Lots of rivers, lakes and creeks in WA, and good fishing.Looks like you are really digging WA.Cheers

[@joelincolnlincoln6315]

good thing you left. If that guy comes back and you are parked with her hes getting his shotgun out of the pickup truck.

[@kawaikui]

Thank you for sharing another beautiful camping spot and aerial views. Brian, you've shown to be generous, instinctive and insightful. Go with your gut feelings and safe travels to you . . .

[@robertj3600]

tsuki----One of the best genuine smiles I've ever seen

[@kawaikui]

Thank you, Robert . . . what a lovely thing to say. Have a wonderful day!

[@robertj3600]

I'm preparing to start full timing so I enjoy watching and learning from others who are doing it. I was having a rough morning that day so I took a break,sat down and watched Brians vid. I was looking at some of the comments when I saw your pic. It was an instant "cheer up" to see someone who had such a beautiful, charismatic and genuine smile.

[@kawaikui]

I'm happy and excited for you, Robert . . . have a safe journey wherever the road may take you. May we meet on that road some day :)

[@robertj3600]

It would be an honor to meet on the road someday. Then that beautiful smile of yours could brighten up my travels even more :)

[@thisspotrules3631]

Mean while back in the day one...great vid and editing of those beautiful spots in WA Thanks for sharing ☮

[@BearUkulele]

Not a bad cliffhanger, brother. ;-) Don't mind the critics. Keep trusting your instincts. The only idea I can suggest is maybe offer to call the rangers or police for her since that was an established campground. Peace and stay safe.

[@AdventureVanMan]

+BearUkulele There is a fulltime campground host at that campground. 👍✌

[@tadghb]

Great call on the lady. Hard not to judge someone but you always have to trust yourself. I am sending out those prayers and good vibes to ya man. There are so many little dnr pull offs not listed right next to where you were going to camp. Infact all over the coast and state. As for the Van. It's time to let it rest and move on up to the Van of your dreams. Seattle/Tacoma/Olympia must have some deals. If not Spokane on the Dry side of the state. East of the Cascades you will see a different state. Again I am truly sending out my best to you.

[@checkoayala]

Trust your instincts, one thing I've notice about you, you get the vibes right on every time

[@lindathompson6678]

Yeah, I thought that whole deal stunk! Glad you left! Love Forks Washington! It's on my to do list! I hope you provided gps for that $5 a day campsite on the river! Going to check now! Thanks for taking me along!

[@ungabungaoogieboogie8258]

Glad you went with your vibe, it was strange that she asked you right off if you were alone. Hey, thanks for the drone work you do, love to see things from that perspective. Have fun!

[@tallmanaffiliatemarketing9994]

Cool music. The cow looked stoned.

[@faithcompton5934]

I know this is an old video but I enjoy your music and video footage so much I'll watch them before going to sleep. Your native flute is pretty awesome and the greenery is so verdant and rich in Washington it makes me sigh contentedly. As I know this is two years old it was still pretty cool to see Josh's home site. (And I must say, good call on driving away from that lady. That was drama with a capital D. Yikes!)

[@joeski10]

Smart move I woud have done same thing when you are traveling by yourself you need to have your witts about yourself lots of bad people out there with alternative motives be careful stay safe

[@leann4925]

Love, love, love the ending of this video. Thanks Brain!

[@SDsailor7]

The only way to find out if you can handle the rain is to spend a winter in Washington.I know I will be back there in the future. Love the place.Fell in love with the place when I went for an op there when I was in the Navy.

[@carlmichaelbeadle7614]

You make awesome videos, continue to stay safe, Brian. Driving away was the right thing.

[@kellyriddle9915]

You play the flute BEAUTIFULLY!!!

[@ARF.Racing]

Reminds me of this lady I used to know. o.O

[@reneecopeland1095]

Thanks for sharing. Your tunes... so nice!

[@Natschke_Family_Adventures]

Good call on getting out of that situation. I know I only saw a minute of that, but red flags went up instantly. Always trust your gut.

[@jenniferashley99]

I can't wait to watch you at the Beet Harvest!! Great video once again.

[@adriennestearns5549]

Love, love the flute! Is it a Native American flute? Beautiful!

[@mhammer5]

Looking back recently I was thinking the transmission might have had some stress when you got stuck in the sand.

[@TheTravelingTogetherJournal]

Forks is a really beautiful area. I'm sure that Walmart was a way more peaceful spot to wake than what you ran from. Good call!

[@Debrajoy]

I love any spot by the water, it was beautiful!

[@rajcheche1486]

Good job Brian, always say you are meeting a friend around here somewhere. Love the music and your editing skills.

[@RemusKingOfRome]

Yeh, I think i'll get a manual trans van .. or maybe a AMT trans (Automated manual). love the flute playing, very apt.

[@Ekinnajay]

That woman creeped me out. As soon as she asked if you were alone, my thought was "say no, and then drive off". If she were abandoned, she could have asked for help, but she didn't and you only had her word for it. I'm glad you left. I live in Washington and it is a gorgeous state for sure. But all that green comes at a cost. It doesn't rain as much as people think, but it is overcast almost every day from fall to spring. People get all giddy when the sun comes out. Forks is especially bad. Good luck with your van.

[@thegroovypatriot]

Awesome video. And ya, sometimes we'd rather park in a Walmart parking lot than with the wrong company. Hope she makes her way.

[@halliadams5987]

Forks, Washington. Port Angeles, Washington. Reminds me of the Twilight series. LOL!

[@travelingczar1704]

I love your videos. Love taking the train going to WA from LAX. My '98 Tacoma has 370K miles driving around USA. Original transmission still good, no major repair. Thanks for sharing your experience.

[@RatFlinger1]

You did the right thing. A damsel-in-distress is the oldest ploy there is.

[@suepete]

You definitely made the right choice, Brian, and hopefully others can learn from it. Even if she was legit, there were several other people camping there that were in a position to help her. You didn't abandon anyone, and for those who think so, this is a perfect learning experience about safety on the road.

[@clintluke262]

I believe ya dodged a bullet there Brian, good instincts.

[@hopeboman5265]

Good video! Wise decision to move on up the road. Always go with that "gut" message.

[@tijuanagringo]

What a lovely corner of the world. Yes, beware the strings.

[@19Photographer76]

My wife and I did spend a winter in Oregon at Fern Ridge Reservoir. Our trailer was 32' and it started to close-in, I can't imagine in a van.

[@jimsadventures7118]

Another Beautiful state! As far as the woman. When the first question was are you alone, seemed kind of odd.

[@nancychapa6417]

l really like 👂ing the fluit sound... you play often🎵

[@haroldingpatrick1924]

Women and men are equal right? Or can she not figure how to get out of the rain? My wild ass guess is her significant other went to cool off before he ended up in bracelets. Domestic violence is a serious matter and Brian staying there could have possibly put fuel on the fire. She was not in any acute danger or need - minding his own business was the best thing to do.

[@AdventureVanMan]

HaroldingPatrick For sure, this ain't my first rodeo! 😊👍✌

[@barb736]

Cool video...I would have done the same with that Lady. ...something not right there... Very cool ending..love flute music....safe travels..hope not to much wrong with the van...take care Brian