The Arranged Marriage Guide: Episode 1

[@sharmisthasengupta3999]

As a girl, I must say Bibhuti you're lucky to get a sensible husband like Vipin. Trust me, not all guys out there are like this.

[@BibhutiandVipin]

I know I got lucky with him 😊😊

[@adityaagrawal259]

👏🏻👏🏻 u guys are filling in very imp void in the society.. even today majority of the marriages are arranged only.. but no one share a balanced perspective without judgement.. some are totally against it some double down on it.. u guys are going in these topics in depth without judgement.. Kudos to u♥️♥️

[@BibhutiandVipin]

Thanks Aditya. Yes we are still a traditional society and arranged marriages are not going anywhere. Let's atleast make an attempt to make some small but positive changes in it then

[@aninditasaha2676]

You guys are an arranged marriage couple? OMG!! Thank youuuu. I needed this!!! I always used to admire you two!

[@BibhutiandVipin]

@@aninditasaha2676 Yes we are an arranged marriage couple. Thanks for the warmth ❤️❤️❤️

[@Vicky-qo1dp]

1. Firt meeting questions - education, bucket list, family, job, slowly ask deeper topic likes reason to get married, fear, childhood, hoby, lifestyle, past relationships, common experiences..etc 2. To he continued....

[@amazonrocks]

This happens when two upsc ppl sit for discussion ....😅😅😅 very balanced discussion....looking for more such brainstorming sessions.....

[@BibhutiandVipin]

Hahaha. Sure yeah 😂

[@okayaresd]

I appreciate you mentioning the non-negotiable aspects, Vipin bhai. As someone who has chosen to abstain from dating, I tend to seek out women who have had similar experiences-specifically, those who haven't been in serious relationships in the past. This isn't about being judgmental, rather, it's about my desire to experience the unique connection of being someone's first. I understand that in today's world, holding onto such a belief can be challenging and might limit my options. Do you think it's worth sticking to this preference, or should I be open to compromising? And I am pretty sure a lot of men out there would be going through the same feeling but are too afraid to admit. Thank you and thanks for the video as well.

[@nishthauniyal9938]

I think it's okay to stick to your own belief and desire . A lot of women also feel the same including me . However if you find someone good and compatible, this shouldn't be the only reason that you won't date them. Otherwise it's okay to have own desires and there's nothing wrong in it😊👍

[@okayaresd]

@@nishthauniyal9938 Agree with you on that, obviously if I find someone compatible who ticks majority of the boxes I would go ahead with her regardless. Thank you for understanding my concern, good to know there are women who think the same say.

[@latatiwari1097]

Who abstain to choose someone who had been in a serious relationship. What if she had not so serious , something causal in the past?

[@okayaresd]

​@@latatiwari1097 Well sorry but that'll be a red flag for me. Totally against casual stuff (iykwim)

[@WhiteMetal_]

😮🙌🏻 Same dude I had no girlfriend even tho I can get L4id in a week if I want But I don't want to carry unnecessary memories also I am just 24 *Stick to your values & never lower ur standards !* and such girls are for guys with past #Compatible But do not shame or share this with girl's parents if she tells you the truth

[@MayankSharma-l9o]

Internet dont have much content on this. Thanks ❤

[@BibhutiandVipin]

❤❤

[@standingoutincrowd]

Loved how vibhuti articulated the stand on patriarchy and its root!! Too good

[@BibhutiandVipin]

@@standingoutincrowd ❤️❤️ Thankyou

[@shreyas4557]

As a guy, I must say Vipin you're lucky to get a sensible wife like Bibhuti. Trust me, not all girls out there are like her.

[@premprakash7705]

I see what you did there 🙂

[@yuktikaura]

You are doing a good job! Keep it up, content like this is much needed.

[@BibhutiandVipin]

@@yuktikaura ❤️❤️ Thanks Yukti

[@PANKAJKUMAR-fe8zn]

Looking forward to know more about this topic and understand your perspective.

[@BibhutiandVipin]

Very soon yeah 😊

[@ncvideos501]

This video helped me to communicate my thought process to my parents! Thanks for making it!

[@BibhutiandVipin]

❤❤ best of luck

[@ManifestTogether]

Yeahh finally on KZbin ❤ My favourite couple.

[@Onelife_Rajesh]

Thanks a lots guys. It really does help 😊😊

[@n.bhaskarreddy9583]

I was waiting for these long form videos from very long. Thank you so much for making this. Love you guys 🫶

[@krishanuchakraborty3500]

Loved the conversation guys, keep it up

[@shefalipainuli4960]

Waiting for more such content from you guys 😍

[@BibhutiandVipin]

Working on it. Thanks ❤

[@Vasundhara-i1g]

Absolutely in love with these contents...much needed one..

[@rashmipathak8518]

Glad to see u here❤.My favourite.

[@vaishaliprasad7254]

This conversation between the two of you is so insightful it has helped me and definitely will we a eye opener for lot of people. Thanks bibhuti and Vipin❤

[@BibhutiandVipin]

Thankyou Vaishali ❤️

[@harshitdubey8012]

Amazing video. I liked about you couple, to discuss topics in critical-thinking and respectful way. Also liked, to ask more questions for a prior answer given, so as to understand logics (with emotions) more deeply.

[@anjalimaurya11]

It's really an amazing video on this topic 🙌

[@BibhutiandVipin]

@@anjalimaurya11 🙌🙌 Thanks Anjali

[@Neelam_IIMUdaipur]

Truly in love with your short form content... Happy to see long form videos... super excited for upcoming uploads💕💕

[@shobhitagrawal9187]

Loved the perspective. Really helpful. Looking forward to more video.

[@BibhutiandVipin]

Thankyou ❤

[@Anupamspeaks]

Waiting for more such long-form content 💯🙌🏻

[@kabirkumar3486]

Very thoughtful conversation thanks waiting for next episode 😀

[@erjatinpradhan2009]

Love ur content. Excited to see more content.

[@riyatalksgenderequality]

What is your take on the astrology beliefs that some families are adamant about while searching for a life partner for their kids? How important are they?

[@hulkdhiraj]

What's your take?

[@hulkdhiraj]

I see you're a creator on insta, can we chat on this topic?

[@WhiteMetal_]

It is very important Specifically it can predict cheating if there's moon mercury connection with venus in d9 chart or dual sigs like Sagittarius, pisces, Gemini are present in 7th house then it represents very "easy going" partner (iykwim)

[@Nutanpatel-h1h]

Preliminary precautions DO conduct a background check of her family and verify that they don’t have a criminal background/court cases/unlawful businesses, especially if the girl is from another city. Use a detective if you can afford one. This may sound like wastage but is worth it.

[@priyankajain-b2x]

More power to y’all ❤

[@nikitafernandes461]

God bless you guys in abundance

[@Mathstoon]

Came here after watching your podcast on PowerUp Money and SUBSCRIBED!!! Have the same mentality as yours. Heading towards the same goal.

[@ashutosh__018]

It's very hard to watch this video, cos whenever you say few lines about anything I get into my own zone of thinking and whenever I get back I have to rewind it to the point where I left.

[@anjalishukla4030]

hey u people make grt content pls keep making more such content it is helping many people.

[@BibhutiandVipin]

We surely will. Thankyou ❤️

[@Ankitalens]

Bibhuti ..all love to u ❤

[@shrutisharma5716]

Waiting for the next episode😊

[@BibhutiandVipin]

Soon 😊

[@apurvaraspayle1929]

My favourite couple❤

[@aditiagrawal5483]

Hi, thank you so much for doing this segment. Its very helpful and also very validating to know that all these questions do occur. You mentioned a non negotiable that is if he knows the concept of patriarchy. Can you tell us how can one know that, because this cant be a question asked directly, so how can we judge if someone understands this?

[@ShivaniSingh-rp8pd]

I really needed that kind of videos they r very helpful but in our society it is very difficult for girls having such conversations with their would be

[@radhikajolly7184]

Thank you so much, Bibhuti and Vipin! This video covered so many of the questions and uncertainties I am facing during this process. I could really relate to the issues discussed, and I appreciate how clearly and objectively everything was presented. Keep up the great work! On another note, what are your thoughts on the illusion of endless choices people face through today’s dating/matrimonial apps? It seems like the 'slot machine' design of these platforms leads to decision paralysis, with many feeling unable to commit because they’re always waiting for the next best option, believing there's a sea of possibilities. How can we navigate this to form more meaningful connections?

[@shivanidimke3961]

Amazing guys !

[@spectre4753]

Saving it up for future

[@the_gulmohar]

More of theseeee!

[@Remember-P12]

If you tell them you value kindness and empathy, and wanted to be treated with empathy, then the person may fake that behaviour to impress. How to differentiate if the person is being genuine or faking it?

[@kumudroy8523]

Very good conversation on arenge marriage

[@mayankjha7756]

Please make 5 seasons of this topic😊

[@preetijakhar6050]

Plz make video in hindi lang if possible and titles in English as we can see it to our parents also and it is very gud for us if they understand our need and how it is necessary for us.

[@kanikasharma3362]

Thank you

[@neetayadav8879]

Very nice❤

[@amanbakshi247]

Hi folks, love your content. Can you please upload all your insta reels here as well? I wanted to share it with someone who's not on insta. Thanks for sharing such important insights!

[@BibhutiandVipin]

If it's about the Arranged Marriage series, we have uploaded most of them and made a playlist here. Do chk

[@mayanksharma7393]

Please let me know the mic you guys are using

[@BibhutiandVipin]

Maybesta wireless Lavaliar, from Amazon

[@mayanksharma7393]

@@BibhutiandVipin thank you for addressing

[@nitinnegi343]

When will 2nd episode come?

[@BibhutiandVipin]

@@nitinnegi343 we have shot it. Editing pending. Really sorry for the delay 😞

[@aayutravels5979]

Super Happy to see you guys here ! Big Love ❤ Congratulations 🎉

[@BibhutiandVipin]

Thank you so much!!

[@Mahesh-fo5yx]

Nice !

[@faslurahmanc.k.7149]

❤❤

[@fraftor3686]

Love❤ marriage guide pls

[@allinone518]

Core beliefs/non negotiable totally ignored -- loyalty??

[@humhjoker6243]

How about supper girls with conservative family, and will she able to stand for her boy or man..this area also we need to explore

[@Heena-uq5bv]

Can loyalty and honesty be core belief or non negotiable as a result of past relationships but if it is like that then how should we analyse it will unfold with time for sure but going through the same process after failed long relationship how can we analyse

[@pragyashukla3139]

Just watched starting 5 minutes of video. Your husband Vipin is a smitten kitten. lol

[@Enlighten_with_Nidhi]

I have a question as to what to do when you have got an idea that this guy or girl is right for me or not but you have family pressure acting on you and they might not support your decision. How to deal with such situation?

[@ashutosh__018]

Sorry bro but fuck the family pressure, it's your life's decision.

[@riser9644]

What about attractive

[@vikramsharma3086]

What should be the courtship period

[@BibhutiandVipin]

Completely depends on the fact that - has it achieved it's purpose of knowing each other. We took around 4 months

[@vikramsharma3086]

@@BibhutiandVipin thank you for solving problems regarding relationships God bless you both from amritsar, u are a beautiful couple

[@rahuldey-l6l]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Nehasingh28109]

❤️❤️

[@mukkucinema176]

U saying 1 meeting talk on light conversation but yarr in my case there is only one meeting I don’t no wht happened all sudden family meet all hello hy and all then we had conversation it was good we both ask question it was my first time but he know well what topic to talk about and all I think I was more talkative like I want to knw wht persons personality but didn’t show any hesitation and all but somehow at the end they denied like literally nothing just went wrong I didn’t understand what happen so there is only one meeting to knew if it’s good it’s good if not it’s not it’s just person to person perspective. I don’t knw, I’m definitely scared for another meeting with stranger so yeah it’s difficult 😅

[@Fitkari-h6y]

Thruth of every marriage is that marriage for men is responsibility but for a women it's an insurance policy.

[@AnkitGupta-o9c]

Sir, How to impress and satisfy your wife after marriage, so that she doesn't leave you ?

[@loveyourself-n6y]

Keep giving belt treatment

[@shikhasomvanshi8688]

Itne dur dur kyun bhaito ho ? Paas mein bhaitoge toh kya love marriage guide bna jayegi kya ? (On a lighter note )

[@BibhutiandVipin]

😂 😂

[@shashanksingh4708]

meanwhile my 22 yr old ass watching this 🙃🙂

[@BibhutiandVipin]

Hahaha. Skip for now dost. Abhi live your life. Shaadi baad mein 😊

[@shashanksingh4708]

@@BibhutiandVipin yes sir/maam

[@VishalkumarDas-j3p]

In dono ko jab bhi dekhta hoon mood kharab ho jata hai. Ye aadmi apni wife ka naukar bana firta hai.

[@loveyourself-n6y]

Exactly typical simp husband with dominative wife

[@radhe.....1731]

Thing we needed❤ thank you for such video🤍