1. Earning / Business - taking care. 2. Health consciousness. 3. Free time - Hobbies/ expressing emotions. 4. Strong faith - that everything will be fine and hold on to each other in adversity.
@jainaman056 жыл бұрын
Confidence for Earnings. Health Conscious. Hobbies. Faith.
@sunday46644 жыл бұрын
Before watching it, I was counting the points by passing the videos.
@pratikpatel35898 ай бұрын
And medication
@pratikpatel35898 ай бұрын
Family oriented
@maysha23084 жыл бұрын
1.Earn well Educated so much to find job Business or some potential thing 2.A health concious person,health is wealth. No addiction,bad habits. 3.what he does in free time. Hobbies 4.He has faith in general in life.
@amarsinghlodhi44843 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sumrize
@johnvarghese89473 жыл бұрын
I have all these qualities but I don't have my life partner yet. Update: If anyone is interested to get to know me and marry. Girls can contact for the best husband in the world. 😀
@anonymous-fw8ib3 жыл бұрын
@@johnvarghese8947 😂😂 may you get your partner soon bro 👍
@thabassumshaik98023 жыл бұрын
@@johnvarghese8947 I am looking for best husband 😃. Even I can be a best wife .
@aryasilpaadhikari59704 жыл бұрын
My husband says the sixth point is : Don't look for all the five things in same person! by and large, if the faith is there to ride over difficulties, rest all will follow. A healthy attitude towards life is important. Thanks for the checklist!
@pragnesh392 жыл бұрын
True
@asmigujar75224 жыл бұрын
She is absolutely right, it is great to sit with the senior citizen and listen to the memories of their childhood, but we don't like it when they say"what's your job among the elders? go do your work"😖
@smithakv86583 жыл бұрын
🤣
@smithakv86583 жыл бұрын
Ya ...right Asmi!
@Absoluteartcreations4 жыл бұрын
She tells so perfectly, my marriage is going so well,due to all these
@chandrikadeshpande40753 жыл бұрын
God bless you 😇
@atulshah19593 жыл бұрын
Understanding must be good.
@garimaagrawal45462 жыл бұрын
@@careerscoop5241 rightly said 👏👏🙏
@AshishPanthee623 жыл бұрын
don't expect to have perfect partner unless & until u are the one. that's all what I know regarding choosing partner in life
@ritabeads7524 жыл бұрын
Hmmm. Nice but there is more interesting to start from zero with each other and go through problems in life and still staying together... This is a real goal in life...
@shubhanginath40495 ай бұрын
That's a goal and quite a miracle trust me... I've tried everything in this world and till date he has grown so little that I'm feeling exhausted
@Abhishek-ob9so5 жыл бұрын
I think this video should be renamed. It is focusing on how to find a male partner in arrange marriage.
@simhere5674 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@5699_spacex4 жыл бұрын
Correct
@jatins69304 жыл бұрын
whats wrong in this ?
@jyothichalla12904 жыл бұрын
We should take this in general
@vijethakoushal83874 жыл бұрын
Yeah becoz girls needs to go to mens house not vice versa
@Brsir9994 жыл бұрын
Choose the best possible life partner by spending time in understanding and analysing ur partner before marriage.. Instead of suffering in the entire remaining life.. 🥰🥰
@antrikshachatterjee3684 жыл бұрын
Yes I ruined my life
@varsharathore35252 жыл бұрын
After spending 4 year before marrige knowing each other very well still marriage didnt work
@varsharathore35252 жыл бұрын
Kon kab palat jaye bulkul nahi jaan payenge or bhut si shadj bina jane pahnche ho gyi sab tkh chal rha to shadi ek jua hai dav lagao khelo
@tanusmitadas64104 жыл бұрын
Perfect Checklist Ma'am..The person I'm with currently has ticked all the boxes of your checklist. I am hoping 2021 brings in a wonderful year ahead for us & our families. I pray to God that we plan marriage soon. Seeking your Blessings as well 🙏🏻☺
@princepavan94332 жыл бұрын
So..how are you doing now?
@Neerjara15074 жыл бұрын
Very correctly said coz if we choose someone out of liking, then later on in life one or the other person feels the same. I heard many people saying "ke jab zimmedari nahin utha sakte the the to shaadi kyu ki" even after love marriage.
@lillieknight3 жыл бұрын
Completely right. I made a bad mate selection and it was tough. He’s dead now at age 61 so we don’t get to grow old together but schizophrenia ran on his side of the family which none of them told me and I only learned about after many years of marriage and our children are grown and yes, are affected by it. He also lost any moral compass and lied constantly. He died in the presence of two prostitutes who didn’t think to call an ambulance when he collapsed. It was very painful, but looking back it had to end. He had type 2 diabetes, heart disease and even did drugs after a heart attack. He always had a rebellious, unteachable spirit and didn’t believe in religion. He didn’t love us any more and no provider instinct. Glad it’s over.
@triptiagarwal58744 жыл бұрын
I can see all these points in myself actually 😁
@gargimukherjee11704 жыл бұрын
I think most important about the person's family, person's personality, he has fixed income or not, his character, lots and lots of things but mam every one hasn't get this type of luck so mainly if you have that luck then you will get otherwise better to stay alone.
@sandipkumar32773 жыл бұрын
True
@Poornimas_Universe3 жыл бұрын
I loved the way you taught these difficult questions in an easy way. Thankyou ma'am😊🙏💐god bless you n all your family members.
@explorelife-dr.gajendrarat25084 жыл бұрын
Itne sare sab chije ek person mai hona thoda mushkil hai, kahi na Kahi comprise Karna hi padega I think that's rational thinking.
@mohan1033 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your valuable words mam..i just want to add something for both men and women while selecting a life partner and also for their own goodness.. 1. Discipline ( discipline always gives confidence about ourselves ) disciplined person always good at everthing like health, job, habits, character( respecting others, helping other's, being honest, caring, lovable)..so discipline is everthing..
@assamteabyvinay4 жыл бұрын
Character must be there and also see how he treats others and what he thinks about a women or for people who is in position lower than him.... Income/property in boys and beauty/skin colour/virginity should not be the main priority.
@gyaankabhandaar70613 жыл бұрын
I totally agree to your point....
@assamteabyvinay3 жыл бұрын
@@gyaankabhandaar7061 thank you
@durriyahnisha60772 жыл бұрын
Omg man I like u so much..😛😘
@janusetti59333 жыл бұрын
Have ur own checklist ! U know urself much better n what u need better .!
@tanvisharma83464 жыл бұрын
Very practical approach Maam. Thankyou 😊💐
@rakshuu923 жыл бұрын
Shukriya for such guidance ✨🙏😌
@saveindianhusbandfamilyfrom4983 ай бұрын
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@rudrasubedi74503 ай бұрын
1. minimum age gap 2. earning -self reliant 3. well educated 3. self control and social intelligence 4. trust and openness 5. life is full of trail and errors 6. health conscious 7. same economic classes
@bandanabagh89362 жыл бұрын
Thank you for educating with the beautiful guidelines 🙏
@aarohigupta13614 жыл бұрын
The first point he should be earning well , why not she should be earning well also to have a balance
@nehaagrawal76564 жыл бұрын
I don't agree with the things mentioned in the video fully... Does a person who is earning fine and healthy habits can necessarily be empathetic and understanding? Does he necessarily be a person looking for emotional intimacy with her/his life partner? Hobby, earning and health consciousness would not necessarily result to a right choice of a partner. Well according to my experience, the partner should be empathetic on first place, and must look for mature love with emotional and spiritual intimacy with the other one.
@veenakt46274 жыл бұрын
Neha agrawal so what you say is money or work is not a issue.. Instead he should empathetic. Right
@AshishPanthee623 жыл бұрын
Paisa hone wala rude ho aur garib insaan character se achha ho jaruri nahi har case mein
@harikrishnakhari-wl8jt2 жыл бұрын
Nice
@wordsofwisdom28084 жыл бұрын
In short she is guiding girls to be a liability all her life and search for a life partner who is a real asset and dumb enough to willingly accept a liability for life. If girls really want a good partner, learn to share the responsibilities with your man and see, how much he loves you 🙏
@supritiphani12823 жыл бұрын
Ma'am I will keep these in mind , thank you so much
@harikrishnakhari-wl8jt2 жыл бұрын
U did nt married any one
@shermgautam89704 жыл бұрын
I am very happy to know all those good qualities of a boy or a girl before getting marriage this should be practical and a person should be more confident thereby he may have strong belief for up coming events.Thanks a lot for these guidelines
@Dineshkumar-mq3iu4 жыл бұрын
And what should men look for in a partner ? Only kind hearted woman🙄... And if you expect more you are greedy and choosy...There is not even mention of what men need to look into . All the above said should be from both the parties..not just men... you also need to have those qualities first to expect the same from the other..
@hemantladhe2020 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@user-sm4wk6pv4f5 ай бұрын
Dear friend.... Men always had the freedom for choices. That's not the case for most women... How many places we see man of 28 years marrying 45 year old women.... But so many girls in 20s getting married to boodaas....
@WhiteMetal_26 күн бұрын
@@user-sm4wk6pv4f It's mutual They're marrying the older one for their money ; not out love ! just like older one is marrying them for beauty
@nikhileshwar25753 жыл бұрын
I didn't do much poojas But I have A Self-believe in God Everything would be good our problems God would be Sorted-out Hrudayamey oka Devaalayaam
@rupalbhagat38644 жыл бұрын
Namaskar Hansaji 🙏 really eye opener for today’s world. Needed this information for today’s generation. Thanks
@BankerP20252 жыл бұрын
I love your video I come here after watching your shorts great n straight forward statement 🥰🥰🥰🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍
@geetz263 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. 🙏… this was quite helpful ❤️
@rajg45124 жыл бұрын
What if you are not health conscious ...should you expect that other person should be health conscious....It would be a match like Anjali and Tarak, I think, it is not about what is there in other...the right way is first know yourself and then see what you want from life...
@monalisadas45274 жыл бұрын
Very rightly said Mam. Thanks❤for guiding..
@koninika104 жыл бұрын
Great wisdom..thanks for sharing 🙏
@goldengoatee22375 жыл бұрын
What if he abuses the woman? Many men lie and show their true colors after marriage.. Does she stay and take the punches because she is committed?
@ritabeads7524 жыл бұрын
Of course not... 🏃💨
@anupamakrishnan12224 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what is happening in my life.
@indiranair60914 жыл бұрын
Madam most imp is character of d person nd if God loving must go for it.
@assamteabyvinay4 жыл бұрын
True.... Without character nothing is possible
@suchidesai94984 жыл бұрын
Y should boy marry now a days with all conditions u mentioned Even boy has right to see girl with u told conditions
@wishyouthebest55994 жыл бұрын
And if he or she able to accept mistakes and ready to correct..most important their should proper communication no any mind games
@bivashchakraborty65183 жыл бұрын
You are describing me... And I have still not found someone 😬
@Opinion2214 жыл бұрын
I understand the importance of hobby in life .
@nimul38483 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing. I have been watching and listening to your wonderful thoughts😊🙏
@antarasaha39054 жыл бұрын
With due respect, partner is neutral gender. And why is it so that "he" has to earn more and take care of the family?
@shootingstar32823 жыл бұрын
Hi Antara , She is giving tips to a girl to choose her partner. So , the common opposite gender is "he"
@AmitVerma-qy9ge3 жыл бұрын
Being practicle...it is a seroius question
@sudhirs50463 жыл бұрын
Impressive Query👌🤝🤘
@tejashrigharat17734 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much mam 😇❤
@Kamaniyamramaniyam4 жыл бұрын
In arrange marriage it is impossible to know all these things.
@bhargavitanneru52404 жыл бұрын
true maam.
@humerahussain68114 жыл бұрын
Very practical 👍
@chintanjayswal24804 жыл бұрын
It is centered around female do you think males also have privilege to choose partner?
@sptl-zj7cm2 ай бұрын
ull need house maid .. so wht to choose in tht
@gayatridarbha50444 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much madam ...Best wishes and regards to you madam ..stay always blessed ..☺️🌸🌹
@preetidas33334 жыл бұрын
Thank you mam for guiding me.
@prubsimrankaur89534 жыл бұрын
My partner have all these qualities n I am blessed for that but I don't agree with the last point about if the person is having diabetes or have a family history of such a disease .... How inhumane would it be to leave a man for he is diabetic. I am sorry but this is a part of life , diabetes is a genetic disease , and if we have diabetes do we not deserve to get married to the perfect match ? This is such a stupid thing , I have a family history of diabetes and my if in future I get diabetes and my partner leaves me , that would be the worst thing happening .
@sachindakhare3 жыл бұрын
Mam I guess 1 point is values 2 what they think about materialist possession 3 there behaviour must be opposite eg one physio send person must be opposite 4 natural attactraion 5 money sustainable income 6 family is greedy or normal
@urmiladutta57254 жыл бұрын
Thank you ma'am ❤️ love from West Bengal 🙏
@Catherine_Kate4 жыл бұрын
Hobbies to express your emotions 🙏
@CesareVesdani3 жыл бұрын
I am from the UK, and would like to get married with an Indian girl. Would that be possible for me?
@humanitylover21563 жыл бұрын
I need a British young lady
@niranjans99523 жыл бұрын
Mam, please also make a video on what a man should look for in a woman to be his life partner.
@paradisekitchen64404 жыл бұрын
Lovely mam really wonderful speech
@SwapnilJainSinger5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for helping me 😀
@ishitabhavsar10556 жыл бұрын
Mindblowing speech mam
@unkaheinfacts75764 жыл бұрын
Income should genarate from both side, why men will always take the responsibility for earning only????
@nidhisingh70113 жыл бұрын
why only girls leave her homez?
@AshishPanthee623 жыл бұрын
@@nidhisingh7011 If u have guts to go against society make ur husband a gharjamai then
@nidhisingh70113 жыл бұрын
@@AshishPanthee62 But in this society there are boys like you so how can I change?
@nidhisingh70113 жыл бұрын
@@AshishPanthee62 And the first thing I said on the matter of his income, otherwise I am not against it.
@AshishPanthee623 жыл бұрын
@@nidhisingh7011 rules were made by society back then if u want change then start doing from ur side first. Society always resist any kind of new changes.
@kingdomkingson20593 жыл бұрын
Mighty thanks mom.
@Officialankit_raj6 жыл бұрын
Really whatever you said is 100 percent true.
@pratikpatel35898 ай бұрын
"Check list to find the right Life Partner" Men ought to be Earning/ business Men ought to be health conscious no addiction Men ought to have hobbies (not boring) But what about choosing a right woman??
@Emily-bl3qx2 жыл бұрын
Sir how do you judge a prospective groom or bride n parent for their nature. If they have a nature to fight or are peaceful how do we get to know. Pls guide as thus us very important. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@sampatpratap30834 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot mam for giving such practical and beneficial advices for choosing a life partner.💓💖💕
@msgurupraashaath99762 жыл бұрын
first, point not accept madam but good girl are there, wife earned husband continue his study 10 year finished CA , CS in finance now that boy earning well family is very happy
@Dr.pujasingh3 жыл бұрын
Thank you ma'am 🙏❤️
@positivitymahi36134 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for this video
@Namrata29076 жыл бұрын
Can you please improve the audio quality..thank you for your kind words hansaji
@manoharks18833 жыл бұрын
Madam u have told only about guys...what abt girls?...pls make a video for that also...
@neelamkashyap39483 жыл бұрын
Recently I met a person. Who has everything u said Bt his looks not good and he doesn't have a grt job Bt yaa he is seeking for a better life. I hv to answer him Yes or no Wht to do I dnt understand Instead this I felt tht if I marry him I will alwz argue with him in future for some reason Bcz I hv a tendency if I hurt in starting of any kind of relationship than I will alwz rude with tht person Help me plzz I dnt knw why to do 🙏🙏
@komalshankaran84586 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mme for your suggestions
@shreehari26816 жыл бұрын
Jo Log aage zaake Baat kiye Bina Reh Letey hain Hfto. un ko Pyar hi Ni karna chahiye kisi se shaadi Bhi Ni karni chahiye
@ranjank.r50724 жыл бұрын
I’m having all those major traits in my life, but I don’t what type of girl I’m going to find or get married to... I’m concerned about it..
@khushivyas4 жыл бұрын
That's what everyone is afraid of my dear friend.
@ranjank.r50724 жыл бұрын
@@khushivyas I agree with you,
@4priyajadhav3 жыл бұрын
Good guidance
@snehayadav87204 жыл бұрын
Job Health conscious Hobbies what he does when he is free Strong faith not religious but does he have hold on each other together to go through.. Information about family also.. diabetes etc
@8wonder1243 жыл бұрын
mam make details vedios list of all best topics enquiry health report & history find rishte fast & easy
@shalgiimurmu77053 жыл бұрын
Money is important but it doesn’t guarantee long lasting relationship
@M241283 жыл бұрын
She didn't mention about being rich. 😏
@vijaychauhan44083 жыл бұрын
200rupee kamnay baly worker pai apka yeh rule applicable hoga road pai sona road pai khana
@nerf27523 жыл бұрын
2:50 is she talking about herself?
@jin7jin5313 жыл бұрын
*This is the longest explanation for a nerd..I will see myself out*
@VINNI7354 жыл бұрын
I totally agree to it and my partner is like that only but I am not so ideal in life . I definitely am trying to be a better person but want to know if it's even alright to FORCE someone to follow all these things in life in order to remain in a relationship with him?? Please answer me this . It would be absolutely life changing for me.
@swathiguthi74174 жыл бұрын
If he earns less ,how to think
@atulshah19593 жыл бұрын
Advise is ok, but practically,it is not possible to go through. Lady will remain unmarried, if such demands are asked. Life is a passage of compromise.
@niranjans99523 жыл бұрын
I liked the first four important parts, but why this diabetic thing came into picture, agree that the groom has to be healthy, but not necessarily his parents. Thats because pretty much everyone gets diabetes or some other symptoms in their old age these days.
@jayshreeshah4602 жыл бұрын
True
@theunpopularopinion29223 жыл бұрын
your views seems far away from getting a right life partner, bcz this checklist seems to be looking for a perfect individual, but when getting a partner u need to be looking for a friend, a teammate, a coordinating, loving and understanding personality,, not a perfect individual with wealth, health and faith in spirituality
@Pet_Food_Supplier3 жыл бұрын
If he is doing a good business how he will sleep n how he will be health cautious.. n without work alholic how he will be a good business
@biologyclassesbhawna51936 жыл бұрын
superb advise really helpful
@antrikshachatterjee3684 жыл бұрын
Please in an arranged marriage check the man's passport Relatives friends relatives jobs done Alcoholic hai Pls chk all this don't believe him
@savitasalunke52324 жыл бұрын
Unsubscribed. Money can not be a primary aspect & not everyone goes by faith. Compromises are everywhere & people are not perfect. One can't be so much judgemental.
@knowledgekokhoji2462 жыл бұрын
Yeah. Har koi ka kamane ka time aata hai Lekin yeh jarur dekhna chahiye ki banda mehnat kar Raha hai ya nahi. Agar genuinely mehnat kar Raha hai toh Saath do uska par ladka caring, compassionate, kind hai toh Shaadi bhi karlo. Shaadi ko mehenga society ne banaya hai Kuchh log Shaadi ke baad tarakki karte hai woh unka naseeb mein hi aisa likha hua rehta hai.
@bharathi79644 жыл бұрын
Good video about choosing life partner
@dr.gourisinghal22214 жыл бұрын
I want to meet you ma'am ...just tell me how ?
@kavithab20472 жыл бұрын
Hello mam, if the guy is confident of business nd is building well from foundation..is it ok to marry him..is it ok to take risk of business ups nd downs..vl der be financial security in marrying business guy
@jeffchampion18225 жыл бұрын
Lol. From a woman's perspective, first on the list is earning and business
@ruzenkaceralova69794 ай бұрын
And you want a broke woman who is not able to find a job?
@neemamuppalla35584 жыл бұрын
Nice article, gives much information about finding out life partner 👌