THE ART OF ALLURE: how to stand out in a crowded world

[@Beapoem0802]

Once a girl came up to me, looked at my DIY jacket and said: „This is so special, I love that you did this yourself! Never lose that!“ I was 18 back then and I am 34 now and I remember every word. So … the unique compliment thing is real! 😊

[@JillzGuerin]

Love that!😍

[@sarahflynn9395]

That is super cool ❤ I made matching boho bags for my daughter and I with crochet. Every time we go out, someone mentioned it haha. It's the best. Making things that are yours 100% is super special and unique. Working on a pastel cardigan rn ❤

[@zara_gobel]

1. Comfort 2. Be passionate 3. Be mysterious 4. Ask unique questions and give unique compliments 5. Have fun with your style 6. Let him persue

[@Baheieujlsksnen]

6. Pursue

[@AvePalanthe]

Thank you 😊

[@bootsmade4walking]

I love the idea of reflecting on: "I don't have anything to prove!" I am relishing being comfortable and confident in who I am and my journey. Part of being alluring is also trusting that the right people will flow into your life -- you don't have to chase after anyone; if someone's not "attracted" to you, you can trust that perhaps there's a wisdom or protection in that. As my friend once said, "What's meant for me won't miss me." :)

[@JillzGuerin]

Exactly!! 🙌💕

[@kostadinkakirilova6465]

I absolutely agree with what you said. i would add that at the beginning it's hard to let things, people and emotions go, but it's better not to grieve over something that isn't right for you. true, habits build and people get comfortable with certain things, but everyone is capable of overcoming their habits and welcome the more suitable experiences for them in their lives ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@bootsmade4walking]

@@kostadinkakirilova6465 💕

[@MidwestLori77]

Im a 46yr old single mom with 4 kids. I started watching yiur videos earlier today and honestly wondered "what can this young woman teach me?" Evidently a lot! I can't wait to get home and watch more. Thank you for your great videos!

[@danielaknecht8994]

I love stargazing and learning the names of constellations and stars. It is so calming. So peaceful.

[@danielaknecht8994]

@A Pinkett J get an app on your phone and go some place with little light pollution if possible and find a star that stands out to you. Then look up what that star is. Look up in what constellation it is. If you already know a constellation it's helpful to relate the new one to the one you already know. Do this for as long as you like a few times a week and you will learn those names in a few weeks😉 You absolutely can do this! I'm rooting for you!

[@Angryoyster]

A few years ago I decided to always wear flowers in my hair whenever I left the house. The amount of compliments I got was insane. But more then that I had so many young girls come up to me and say they loved the flowers in my hair, and they wanted to be like me when they grew up. And that’s when I realized how much joy you gain from dressing how you wanted to dressed when you were a child.

[@bootsmade4walking]

That shade of blue is incredible on you! :D

[@JillzGuerin]

Omg thank you! 💙💙

[@YH-vf6pc]

Wow, theres a girl Im friends with from college who was effortlessly alluring. She had every guy going crazy for her and I could never put into words what it was about her, but she is MAGNETIC. Every single one of her character traits lines up with the tips in the video! But i swear some women just naturally already have all of these characteristics.

[@viktorija1264]

You are my biggest personal discovery this year! Your gentle, but at the same time strong energy, your wisdom, your uniqueness, the way you inspire us to embrace every part of us the light, but the darkness too. THANK you for that! Keep going! 🙏🏻❤️

[@JillzGuerin]

Omg thank you!!!! Glad you found me 💖💖

[@user-nm6dr4uy3d]

Spot on, all the way through, in my opinion. I used to be the type to spill the juice all over the place all the time. Nowadays, I respect myself enough to know that my feelings, thoughts and achievements are valid even if no-one in the room knows about them. And I think the confidence that my skills give me show in the way I carry myself not with excessive pride but with joy and gratitude. I think that your achievements shine through all the more the less you spill them. And when you finally do, as someone asks you, people respect you for being modest and for respecting other people's space by not being all over the place with your thoughts and opinions. I think it's mutual respect. Thank you Jillz, this video, as always, was very fun and instructive :)

[@haleydaye7246]

It’s how you feel by making yourself beautiful… love this!

[@sarahflynn9395]

The past three years have been.. Transformative. I lost my mom suddenly. I have birth to my son. I lost 73 pounds. I can run for twenty minutes nonstop for the first time in my whole life (as of yesterday 😅). I made a few beautiful, super unique crocheted sweaters. We reinvented and amped up our relationship in a powerful way after a decade of love. We got married. Things have really gotten... Better... Since the worst day of my life. Mom and I were best friends. We spent all our time together... I'll miss her everyday. But she's still here and she's helped me do all this. Your videos have REALLY helped me understand my feminine energy and how it needs to be channeled to feel my best ❤❤ thank you so much for your beautiful light. Thank you so much for shining it so freely.

[@zhanetaharutyunyan8535]

Each day when I watch your video, by the end I feel so calm and feminine. It's not only the amazing advise you give but also your voice, your manners when you talk 🤍

[@JillzGuerin]

Aw yay that makes me so happy! 💕

[@adriennebrown3778]

What I really love about your work is the sense of Safety I get from it. I have listened to others on this topic & at some point felt it was triggering my inner fears: something about feeling small/less than other Feminine women. I love the line about "not having to prove myself" - huge issue for me. BTW I am 67 & single fir the last 25 years. Learning to love & accept myself with each passing day. I feel the Key 🗝 is very close to me now.

[@gail9566]

Im 59 years old and wish I'd had this kind of great advice when I was young.

[@JillzGuerin]

❤️❤️❤️

[@findingdori442]

You’re still young! 💛💪

[@adriennebrown3778]

67 years old & feel the same, but I love this.. just discovered Jillz & finding such a lot in rhese videos

[@amayvikramachauhan6213]

I am 25 and still feel the same, nevertheless I am working on myself. But trust me Ma'am, start now You'll be proud of yourself even a month later It's all about the point when it hits

[@vedikajoshi1410]

What a beautiful video, Jills! Your videos have genuinely impacted my life in the best ways possible. I signed up for salsa classes as you suggested that dancing helps increase one's feminine energy, and Holy shit, it's my favorite class, and you were absolutely right! Overall, I've become much more alluring than I was before, and I feel so much more confident because of the same! Couldn't have done this without you, Jills! Thank you so much ❤️❤️

[@JillzGuerin]

Omg I love that!!! So happy for you!! ❤️

[@roelandahartman5634]

I have been watching your videos for 2 weeks now and the advice you gave us to dress up, even if you don’t feel like it and are tired is a GAMECHAGER. Today I woke up an hour for my alarm and didn’t have energy to get my day started. I told myself, just get ready and put on something cute, do your makeup and the rest will follow. And it did, I feel awake, confident in what I’m wearing. Already tackled some things in the house. Also I did follow your advise on showing your collarbones and put some highlight on them, I felt so feminine! 😊😊 Thankyou for these videos! You have no idea how much people you’re helping! ❤

[@Carolina-rd3gh]

That colour on you is wow. You know your colours. 👌🏻🦋✨

[@EvieSaintAnn]

Thank you. I really got a lot from this video. I always feel like I talk way too much and this is confirming lol. I’m in a relationship and not looking for anyone but I’m working on tapping more into my feminine and being more graceful and alluring. Thanks for your videos. I really appreciate all the effort you put into them. ❤

[@alexandraaudrey5678]

Great video ! Hey Jillz just wondering if you could do a video on winter feminine fashion? I find it so hard to know how to dress femininely in winter!

[@JillzGuerin]

I'll try to do something like this! 💕

[@kinethecoach]

Thank you! Your videos are great! A thing I'm working on is to not talk so much about me, things I know, accomplishments ect when I first meet people 😅🤣 (Working on getting out of my masculine and into my feminine when socialising) Its a subconscious insecurity thing where I feel the need to prove my worth and also show my authenticity, and what Im about, but a little too soon and much. I subtly start competing with people too. But Its so true that it is much better to ask more questions and actually show interest in the person. Than trying to show who is the most knowledgeable ect. 😅 It has much better results for sure. ❤️🙏

[@JillzGuerin]

Ahh thank you, glad you like my videos! Yes focus on listening and asking questions - will help a ton!

[@EvieSaintAnn]

I can completely relate to you on this but never saw it this way, which makes me much more self aware. Thank you for your insight. ♥️

[@Ladybug_0912]

Love U Jillz. I'm passionate about my job, I'm an engineer. My hobbies are dancing, travelling, trekking and I'm a huge fan of cinema since I was little. I just feel like a child again when I watch a movie I'm excited about. And... I also love deeply your channel 😁💖🌌

[@JillzGuerin]

Love this! ❤️

[@newearthgoddess]

Another great video. And gorgeousss in that color blue 🦋

[@Pepperonilover88]

sound advice. love what you said about hobbies. 🙂

[@cynbod]

I´m passionate about self development : productivity, psychology, spirituality, law of attraction etc...so reading a lot. Also fashion, anime, Kdrama, sketching, traveling.

[@Tamar.x]

I'm passionate about pilates and taking care of myself in a very feminine and gentle way ❤️

[@JillzGuerin]

I love pilates!! 🔥

[@giotapapageorgiou489]

I have a variety of interests and always excited to try something new and keep learning

[@sheridanskinnner3002]

I love filmmaking and editing! It makes me feel so alive and needed in this world

[@JillzGuerin]

Love that! 💕💕

[@jennifercaceda6817]

Absolutely loved the advice you gave. Thank you!!

[@foreveryoung999]

I love eating alone. I can thoroughly enjoy my food and watch my favourite u tube videos.

[@noamavi4039]

lovely video! this month ill start with learning a new language. Very excited to expand my knowledge en meet the new people at the school

[@JillzGuerin]

Love that! 💕

[@nisha7664]

Wow you're literally amazing thankss much...!!!!! ❤️

[@maaikeakkerman5251]

I have been following you for a while now and thank you for everything! You are doing an amazing job

[@JillzGuerin]

Ah thank you!! 💕

[@barbarahJ.]

Very well explained and summarized. I loved your video. You have a new follower😉

[@personal7910]

Hey Jillz.. could you do a topic regarding how to communicate effectively during a disagreement with your partner. How do you remain in your feminine energy, communicate well, prevent an argument, get your point across effectively…

[@thedailyharper5695]

Great video Jillz!! I love your channel💞✨

[@JillzGuerin]

Thank you!! 💕💕

[@vylia]

What a nice compilation. The comfortability concept is incredibly powerful. I think that once one learns to love oneself, things just get better. The challenges we face shift. Thanks, Jillz.

[@JillzGuerin]

Totally agree! 💕

[@kiaraeijo]

I love your videos! I feel like now in my 30s, is when people in general like me more. One of my hobbies is that I collect crystals (I’ve been into them since I was 14 , I lost interest and then I got back into them when I was 28) and sometimes I get compliments while wearing my crystal jewelry. I’ve been doing a lot of inner work and since last year, I feel like I have gotten more attention (not just in a sexual way but professionally as well).

[@WhatEver-fv2vd]

I love this thank you!

[@2eyeluvmac2]

I love your channel. Thank you.

[@JI-hb4mh]

I have always dreamt of being able to play the guitar and thought about getting lessons for a while. I’m 33. I tried teaching myself in highschool. But I think you are right I feel like I’m so busy working I literally have no hobbies and don’t know what to do with myself. So maybe I will start taking those lesson :)

[@miumiuitgirl183]

I used to draw a lot when I was a teen I used to lock myself in a room for a day and then sketch but slowly along the way I left my art and then I couldn't pick it up because I was afraid that I won't be as good, I'm a perfectionist if you can't tell but I recently started sketching and painting again and I'm not that good at it but it is such a beautiful outlet for my emotions, and art for me is something that I can get lost in and enter into a flow state so I paint for hours and I've noticed that a feel a lot more feminine and wild if I may say so when I paint so yeah that's my hobby.

[@NydiaLC]

great tips. Doable , easy and honest.

[@JillzGuerin]

Glad it was helpful! ❤️

[@maysaraali5772]

Totally agree 💗

[@JillzGuerin]

💕

[@prodbyamy]

As a young woman in self-improvement I fell into watching a lot of male KZbinrs. I never really enjoyed the videos women made as I couldn’t relate to them. But I absolutely LOVE your videos. I feel very warm and cosy when watching your videos, thank you! I want to become more feminine and your videos help me. 💖

[@nixs6061]

Hey Amy! Wasn’t expecting to see you here. Love your videos :)

[@JillzGuerin]

Aw this makes me so happy! So glad you’re enjoying my videos ❤️❤️

[@prodbyamy]

@@nixs6061 awh. Thank you so much ❤️

[@prodbyamy]

@@JillzGuerin I love them. Never stop what you’re doing! You are helping so many young women 🥰

[@anushkadas9735]

Heya ....love your videos. It has helped me a lot to increase my productivity and confidence. 🥰💞 I enjoy your videos a lot .Hoping to see more contents like them. Please make more vlog videos 😊😊....they are really very relaxing and fun to watch. 💞💞

[@Mamasprincess-i9s]

People do judge a book by it's cover first good looks+confidence makes people more charismatic and inviting it's all about balance Jillz seriously

[@sharonqui]

Thanks for this video 💗

[@JillzGuerin]

💕💕

[@MODISHYE]

I enjoyed this video. The tips were practical and I especially liked tip #3.

[@JillzGuerin]

Glad you liked it! ❤️❤️

[@tylermanzi2190]

My secret talent is sound effects and music with my voice! Even if im a guy, I love most feminine things but some masculine because I'm more of a home person

[@luniepunie]

I don’t like the idea of faking that you’re interested in people. if you don’t, please don’t fake it to be memorable. Be authentic. It’s scary for me if I realize someone just compliment me or listen to me for their own sake. You can be your own self and be charming too, just bring the best out of you.

[@taniyadulanjali6993]

Thank you ❤️

[@anneedmunds9025]

poetry and art and reading and long distance running are my passions. I may change running to walking because of my age. There are always so many things learn. keep an open mind. love to everyone

[@JillzGuerin]

💕💕💕

[@shaybee6893]

Hi Jillz. I adore you and your videos. Can you do a video on women who need to start over and can't get started 🤣. I need to revamp my whole life, lose a lot of weight, declutter, redecorate, deep clean. But I just get crazy depressed and anxious and give up before I start.

[@MrLiyah15]

Beautiful 🤩

[@ayesha-ls9ii]

Love your videos, wanna be more like you, in that I wanna be more comfortable in wanting what I want and being who I am :) P.S. I love when I get glimpses of you laughing, you must be a fun person to be around, lots of love

[@JillzGuerin]

🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️

[@selma-5449]

Love this video!!

[@JillzGuerin]

So glad! 💕

[@KatelynB1001]

I’m a competitive pole dancer and pole fitness instructor! Also I’m a behavior technician, want to be a marriage and family counselor and some sort of movement therapist. 💕

[@laurenconrad9225]

Your video couldn’t have come at a better time!

[@JillzGuerin]

❤️❤️

[@Judith.Lifestyle.]

Thank you! 👍🥰

[@JillzGuerin]

💕

[@Shekupe_k]

Plz do a video on mystery

[@carleighmiller542]

I need this advice but with parenting in consideration. Because it’s so easy to say to do all these things. But finding the time and energy when you are a full time working parent is HARD

[@boatsnsunsets]

i agree but at the same time is it weird i think that “awkwardness” a person has makes them so wholesome and more loveable. maybe that’s just me lol

[@boatsnsunsets]

cause it just shows they’re human you know

[@SwikrutiMhaiskar]

You don't have to go anywhere right person will come to you

[@maridanchaney4483]

Yes queen 👏💖💖 you are a goddess!!

[@JillzGuerin]

Ahh thank you!! 🥰🥰❤️

[@Y.Bergamot]

Hey Jillz. Can you maybe do a video where you get deeper in the dark feminine 💜:) ? There is not a lot of video content to find about this.

[@belladonnaromanov879]

What about blending in. I stick out too much. 😂 maybe I’m too comfortable. I think it one of the things that puts people off from me because I’m too different. And far to different and to comfortable to be that way.

[@mindy561]

A really good example of this is on the show Vanderpump Rules- Lala is GORGEOUS but in her masculine, Raquel is on the other end of the spectrum...very feminine but wounded feminine

[@viktoriyaminasova6144]

I had few men who I dated I'd ask about the day or trip or event they had what was most exciting. In return I'd get grumpy, almost annoyed response like "nothing", "it was boring". I'd feel like an idiot inside. It is so hard to find someone who are open to communicate, especially on the same level. I understand about positivity and allure, but honestly this round of dating I got shocked how men changed in last several years. They don't want to earn anything and majority of them don't even know what they really want. One thing they do know is sex asap. And that's it.

[@susanwjoh0re735]

you wanted sexual liberation ?you got it. the disrespect has been too much which is why we dont care anymore. women overseas know how to be women. western women are done.

[@pinkletters6263]

Thank you... Btw the way you talk remind me of rory gilmore

[@Osrszombie]

My hobbys are cycling 🚲 and rc rock crawling love my scx10 ii xd ❤️ 💕

[@Mamasprincess-i9s]

Jill'z I guess you're incorrect making useful acquaintances isn't chasing maybe they'll help me with creating my own business where I can become my own leader assertiveness is something I've been born with I can't just cut it out of my life and be a doormat the way I used to be in high school and college regardless of that really big thanks to you for an advice I will consider it when it comes down to romance

[@xoloveee]

❤🎉

[@lalashowers]

I need help with this. Major help. I always feel like I have to prove myself.

[@preciousakinteye]

Leo rising? Or libra or Taurus 🤔

[@itsafantakis]

Karaoke and guitar playing!!!

[@ramonaearnest4709]

Listen... that's why God gave us two ears and one mouth!

[@monicasyoutubechannel3225]

💟💟💟💟

[@TK-cz8gv]

I thought you posted every sunday :(

[@JillzGuerin]

I’ll be back this coming Sunday! Was on vacation and then things just got way too busy/crazy last week ❤️❤️

[@TK-cz8gv]

Ohh happy to know that you are ok and coming back soon, I hope you had a great vacation 😊

[@PsychotherapywithNichola]

*Discomfort - not "uncomfortableness" - dude, the ability to speak the English language is alluring

[@How.Dare.You.]

No guy pursues anymore

[@ericadgueho_mama_art954]

✨🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼✨

[@mahwish8522]

A woman with allure...she has nothing to proof....she is confident, she is unbothered, she is little bit mysterious

[@JohnMoog-ug6bk]

Spaghetti straps

[@PsychotherapywithNichola]

Is it Americans that make up this 'comfortability' word? The word is comfort - where did 'comfortability' come from?

[@AD-fo7tn]

Would you be so kind and try to speak little bit more slowly? Would be great for not native speakers. Thank you

[@JillzGuerin]

In the video settings, there is actually a button to change the playback speed and you can make it slower or faster! That might help! 💕

[@fanjan7527]

Yes....PLEASE...stop with the games. For the love of it all, please, I am so tired of the games.

[@anastasijapilnikova5732]

Bravo! 👏 "It's Truly all about the (Your) Energy" 💓💞🥰🙏⚖️⏳🧭🔦💡🙌👑 "Feeling Good in Your Energy" 🌈🙏...Such Complicated Formula hidden in Such Perfect Simplicity 💞💓🥰⚖️🙏... Confidence is Knowing How to Behave Perfectly for Preserving Harmony & Balance of Your Personal Energy in Every Single Moment ~ it Means Perfect Attunement to Personal Authentic Navigation 🧭💡🔦🔋🕵️‍♀️🪞💖🐕🐈🕊️ 🙂 Thank You for the Video: Great Assistance to Feminine Energy Traveling the Path of Becoming, Growing & Developing 🤝🌹🌻🌸🌺🌼🏵️

[@preciousakinteye]

Leo rising? Or libra or Taurus 🤔