The Beginning of Becoming (My Divorce Story)

Hi there! Welcome to my KZbin channel. I'm thrilled you're here. Life is full of pivotal moments that can either break us or build us, depending on our perspective. Join me as I share my personal journey through divorce after 15 years of marriage and how I've rebuilt my life. I've put in a lot of work on my mental, emotional, and physical well-being, and the journey is ongoing. Stay tuned and let's navigate this together!
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction
02:37 The Beginning
07:16 The Revelation
09:24 The Divorce
11:17 Realization of Being Unhealed
14:49 Brighter and Healthier Days
#womenover50 #divorce #womenover40

[@miatrevillionbarney7953]

Thank you for sharing your story. I married my college sweetheart. We married shortly after graduation. We moved to Houston, Tx after graduation. After 5 years in the marriage we divorced. I have been divorced for over 26 years. I never wanted to get married again. I just wanted to raise my son and enjoy my life. Well, fast forward, my son has graduated from college, and I am an empty nester. I have dated over the years and have really enjoyed my life. But now I find myself going through a change in my life. Life has gotten "quiet" Thanks for giving me the insight to work on my mental, emotional, and physical well-being. Thanks for being transparent. I am looking forward to more content.

[@melonierenee]

I absolutely love the fact that you walked your own path. It’s never necessary to marry if it’s not in your heart. Thank you for sharing this. ♥️

[@reneehampton7665]

I just happened to stumble on your channel today. Funny how many things we have in common. My first name is Renee. I married a man who had been married before, had three children and a veteran. I got married at 25 not too long out of college. My husband was 33. I separated from him when I was 58. I was separated for 11 years and have recently divorced this year. Many of my friends were surprised when I left my home at 58. It wasn’t easy especially not having any family here, but I was financially in good shape. I did not date during my separation and find it hard to start dating at 69. Not because I don’t want to, but because there are slim pickings of men at that age. I still try to live my life to my fullest.

[@melonierenee]

Wow…thank you for sharing your story. It takes bravery to choose yourself. Was it challenging that it took so long to divorce?

[@joe103060]

Very relatable. Glad you discovered your voice. I had to do the same. I believe in therapy and the desire to heal. It's on-going. Congratulations on putting your desires first. Peace is priceless. Boundaries set. Loving me. Thanks for sharing. Followed you from TikTok.

[@melonierenee]

So true…♥️

[@melonierenee]

Thank you TikTok fam…🥰🥰🥰

[@joe103060]

@@melonierenee You're very welcome

[@travelwithsouthernchick5112]

I so need the light that’s on the other side!!!

[@melonierenee]

It’s there….i promise. ♥️🫶🏾

[@allisontoney8021]

One day at a time ❤

[@louisianagirl4585]

Self awareness caused me a lot of people after my divorce. Thanks for therapy. ❤

[@TriMcTN]

Whoa!! Thanks for sharing!! I needed to hear this..I can relate..growing up I didn’t have girlfriend relationships, so I was comfortable (or so I thought) being a loner/independent. I divorced in 2009 and my ex and I do not communicate, and he is a detached parent. We have a 17 y/o that I hope and pray that she is able to receive all the love that is given from those that are present in her life. I’ve learned to parent different from my upbringing and I have put in so much work to be a better, healed, and loving mom, sister, and friend! ❤

[@LindaL.Dallas]

Hi i just found your page on here because i follow your Tiktok/ IG already but i appreciate your content its very informative and i enjoy the ootd looks😊 too yes keep up great work your doing its encouraging. Thank you

[@melonierenee]

Thank you for your support, it means a lot. Hopefully I can bring deeper topics that you all would like to talk about over here. ♥️

[@Veewdsn]

No matter what, keep this going. You're going to inspire & help so many Ppl. P.S. As God elevates you, don't forget about little ole me🤗🥰😄❤️🌹❤️.

[@melonierenee]

That's the goal...continuing to elevate and allowing myself to live in my freedom and truth.

[@glendaalvarez9429]

Thanks for sharing. You have given me some great nuggets to help me through my journey. Look forward to hearing more from you.

[@SheIsLove741]

You're amazing, Mel. Keep letting your light shine ✨️❤✨️

[@melonierenee]

Thank you! You too!

[@hair399]

Wow Melanie, I completely resonated with your story as it mirrors my own experience in so many ways. After ending a long term relationship and moving to a new state, I feel like a completely different person. Yes, the transition was difficult but at this stage in life I am at peace and living my best life. Just enjoying me time, developing new girlfriend relationships and dating. Thank you soooo much for sharing your journey! ❤❤

[@melonierenee]

Wow!!! I’m so proud of you!! That takes a lot of courage. ♥️ I’m glad you enjoyed my story…🙏🏾

[@cassandrambenefield8190]

Thanks for sharing your story.

[@melonierenee]

Thank you so much for watching. My most recent vid…I start to share a few more details on why it was important to choose myself. ♥️

[@kieshapowell3805]

Thank you for sharing! I love you over on TikTok, and I knowwwww I'm going to love you here on KZbin ❤❤!!! Welcome!

[@melonierenee]

Thank you so much!!! ♥️♥️♥️

[@private826]

Hello Sunshine, I have to say that God has his hands on you. Keep shining that light...

[@melonierenee]

I receive that…♥️

[@bechay3840]

Thank you for sharing your story!

[@JamesSimmons1964]

I learned so much more about you today . . . ☺💙

[@melonierenee]

Thank you for hanging with me. Glad you appreciated the bird’s eye view 🥰

[@tanyagillin7893]

It takes amazing courage and strength to share your story. Thank you! So many things resonated with me as well. You are truly amazing. Love and Blessings 🥰❤️❤️❤

[@melonierenee]

Thank you. I’m really glad I shared it…tough for sure but cathartic. 🥰

[@terrylapper2029]

Thank you for sharing your story. You inspire me on TikTok and I know you are going to continue to do so for so many more people sis 🥰

[@melonierenee]

Thank you Terry. My TikTok family inspires me every day with support. Thank you for being ‘family’ ♥️

[@beautyinthedark7406]

Your video is right on time. I believe the algorithm was reading my mind😂. Plz keep this going. I have to file for a DV sooner than later but want to be prepared and any information will help❤

[@melonierenee]

First, divorce is never easy, regardless of the reason, so sending hugs. I'm happy to share anything I can to help others not go through what I did. It was challenging, embarrassing, and very hurtful. But at the end of the day...take care of you first. ❤

[@rmontesap]

Very raw and informative ❤

[@melonierenee]

Thank you, friend. ♥️🙏🏾

[@relentlessone0679]

Love it! ❤❤❤

[@melonierenee]

Thank you...this is very cathartic for me.

[@CurtisKelson]

Hello beautiful I love it you are so amazing. ❤❤❤❤

[@melonierenee]

Thank you, Curtis, I appreciate your support.

[@TheLemonBarLady]

This was enlightening. 🫶🏾

[@melonierenee]

Thank you…telling your divorce story while maintaining dignity and respect can be challenging. I’m really glad I did it this way. ♥️