My Divorce Story + My biggest piece of advice

[@cammews6301]

It boggles me that the person who sabotaged the marriage is the same person that fights to drag out the divorce in order to stay tied to the one they mistreated and discarded.

[@peacefaith560]

they dont want no one else to have you

[@tanisha.r.thomas]

My daddy did this and it really pissed me off! It was like he was trying to torture her even after being a serial cheater and asking for the divorce

[@shesvibes]

Riiiiight!!!! 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@jasiystar]

As someone who is going through a divorce from a serial cheater… thank you. From the bottom of my heart. Thank you for sharing this. When it first happened, I didn’t think I’d survive. I remember watching your videos while you were going through it and it kept me going. Thank you so much.

[@yolandami5923]

You got this Jasiy! The beauty in going THROUGH something, is knowing it won’t last long. Sending you positive thoughts and energy, Queen. I’ve been there, it gets better each day. 💫

[@jasiystar]

@@yolandami5923 Thank you so much. It’s still a struggle at times but I’m getting better. It’s nice to know you aren’t alone. 😊

[@tboykin13tb]

Blessing as U Heal sis, YahWeh & His Son Yeshua Got U....... 😇

[@yolandami5923]

@@jasiystar Never alone. 🖤 🙏🏽

[@yolandami5923]

@@tboykin13tb Indeed.

[@marzdabull]

He's the king of fuckbois. I know it was painful, but truth be told, the garbage bagged itself and trashed itself for you. What a blessing!

[@jaleea2012]

😂🔥

[@autobotdiva9268]

that part

[@MsJoyce31202]

The trash bagged itself and trashed itself. 😂

[@kkw-pal1178]

Totally

[@ebahiifidon-ekuerhare5837]

Best comment ever 🤣😂🤣😂

[@poke557]

He is a narcissist and a monster. You were his toy that he could do whatever with. I’m glad you decided not to take that abuse. You are very strong. You are a survivor

[@Simmonsgladys]

So happy for you, I'm in the beginning stage of mine. We have kids so that complicates things. I'm ready for it to be over now. I've been getting my own, 3.5 years later. He left us with nothing and part of that is my fault for not having my own stuff. Never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever solely depend on a person. NOT EVEN YOUR SPOUSE THAT YOU HAVE BEEN MARRIED TO FOR YEARS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@jenng5925]

Sad, but true. People will fail you. Hang in there sis!

[@jaleea2012]

I agree 100%

[@islandgirl8914]

So true.

[@bettywhite5133]

May God give you strength during this divorce. It hard sometimes but. God will give you the strength you need.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@luvmifro1003lovesfamily]

May God bless you beyond measure with much joy, peace, and may you be financially blessed in Jesus name! Amen!

[@latoyamontgomery5424]

Little do you know Toni but you and I were going through a divorce at the same time in 2019! I actually ran across your channel with that particular video of when he left…I was balling my eyes out scrolling through YT and there you were. Girl, we cried together that day! I’m so happy for you and proud of you! Keep shining sis! Much love from Atlanta! 🥰

[@nikkimariees]

Same here. I had just left my then husband during this time as well. I was tired and needed peace so I left because I knew I deserve better.

[@Tammyjean]

It’s The “Caucacity”for me!! 🤣😂 I’m crying with joy for you.🤩Thank God you never bore children with that loser.🤦🏽‍♀️. You are such an inspiration. You go girl!! Black Women Rock!!✊🏾

[@eyeclapback7182]

@@maiamiimaiam4343 🙄 No it was NOT.

[@Southerngirl0828]

@@maiamiimaiam4343 TROLLLLLLL

[@ournewchapter06]

Toni I have to say the way you ended this video really hit home. You said if there is one thing you would like to leave with the ladies… is “Have Your Own”. That message is so true!!! I was a stay at home mom for 12 years with a high school diploma and no real work history or a big gap in my work history. And after and during divorce I was left with nothing. Now I find myself staring over with 6 children… trying to rebuild my life from the basement floor. It’s been 4 years and I’m still fighting to get established. So, yes!!! Have your Own!!! You never know what life is going to dish out.

[@still-ga7570]

One day at a time one day at a time and be honest and loving to your children because at the end of the day you and your children is the only thing that matters in this world and please do not focus and worry about material things everything will take it on time . At this time your children is the most important thing give them all the time that they need Don't rush them until your world understand that you are a part of their world 🌍 they are your priority ⏰🎶

[@livinginHim]

I feel you on this sis. Mine didn't want to sign the papers either...smh. It's much better to be alone than with someone that is emotionally unavailable and abusive.

[@tonidaleyofficial]

Facts!!!

[@christisgodd]

@@tonidaleyofficial Are you available

[@horgline]

I went through a divorce in 2019 as well. WOW!!! Just the level of disrespect from him is overwhelming smh. 😮‍💨 Divorce is Not easy, especially when children is involved. You are a beautiful & strong woman! I too am still trying to recover with my 2 kids & it’s been three years now. Only God is our strength. 😭😩🙏🏿

[@pattysdaughter5639]

“You can’t hold a good woman down “ (In my Mary J Blige voice ) so proud of you Toni !

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

Wow powerful 🙌🙌

[@sophiaw8305]

I only know the Sizzla song for that saying 🤔, gonna have to check out MJB's version.

[@brcgreene]

I divorced my serial cheater husband after 25 (20 married) years. I was devastated emotionally and financially. My divorce was drawn out because he fought me every step of the way including the sale of our home. It was a struggle but God restored all that I loss. I am happy and at peace now. My advice to all women is to know your own worth, don’t settle for less than and don’t believe that you can’t survive without him.

[@belletaunde102]

Thank you for this. I'm so happy you are doing well. God helps those who have a good heart

[@shirleynelson3628]

Iam happy for you and May the good Lord continue to protect you from all evil and bless you with all that you desire in your life 😊❤❤❤❤❤

[@slyneena.k.a.shauneeneensly]

I watched you go through all of the same Hurt & Distress I experienced in 2017-2018. I was married to a alcohol dependent, verbally & emotionally abusive Narcissist for 20 years13 legally married. No cheating, however all the other crap is just as bad!!! Divorce was finalized 1/23/18. I totally agree with your advice, “ladies have to hold their own” and get a prenup before marrying anyone stating you keep everything acquired prior to the Marriage. I’ve accomplished more for myself over these last four years than I did in the entire time being Married to him. New Homeowner, New Career etc. God is so Great, Bless you Toni!!🙌🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽💪🏽👊🏽🤗

[@candirayne470]

Congratulations

[@HerVibesDivine]

Divorce looks GOOD on you girl you look amazing. One thing about a Pisces woman we gonna be resilient and not look like what we done been through!

[@2009gradcu]

Other women who were born all through the year are just as resilient. All zodiac signs.

[@HerVibesDivine]

@@2009gradcu this not about you I'm talking to my Pisces sister.

[@allisalinor1084]

Because she took the time to go through the steps and allowed herself to feel through every stage so proud to have watched her go thru this I pray I never have too myself but this is a great documentary

[@sbusisiweshaba1715]

Yesssss Pisces 🐟🐟 Here. Resilient we are!!!👑

[@virgodiva24]

I’m so happy for you Toni! Congratulations!!! Your advice was great but if I may also add if you don’t have your own or money, or nowhere to go, don’t be afraid to lean on your family if needed. I needed help after my divorce not so much financially but I had to move back home which was in a different state and my mom opened up her home to me for a while. I was blessed that I had a place to go. Don’t be afraid to ask for help if needed.

[@terrijoseph-miller5471]

I remember that was the time I subscribed to you. I was amazed at your strength through this situation. However I also have to shout out Keisha and Haf for being your support system they were amazing. ❤️

[@trinadeerhodes]

Yep I was just getting into beauty videos it was the sisterhood for me. Im so happy for her.

[@HONEYEYEZZ22]

@Terri Joseph-Miller I subscribed at that time to. Yes, Haf and Keisha had your back. I pray for your continued blessings because you deserve it.

[@babigyrl._]

First let me say, KUDOS & CONGRATS Toni. Im so very happy for you. I've watched this channel and previous one for a long time. You're experience is a true testimony. Thank you. Idk why the audacity of men's actions still baffle me. I had to learn young, 23, that same message when my son's dad walked out on us and didn't care if we had a roof over our heads or not. I had recently lost my job and that was the 1st time I ever truly relied on him or any man and we were living together. The street life and chasing women had him. I struggled, even homeless living in my car at one point but GOD, hallelujah, brought us through. I went to school and earning my Bachelor's and Master degrees, worked hard and at age 39, I was blessed with a 6 figure job and was able to buy my own home for my son and I. I say this as a testimony that when Toni says have your own and you can do it, there's no truer statement. Stay bless all.

[@christinewilliams-white3390]

Proud of you, Toni. You are an example of a strong woman that can come out of a storm and be even stronger than she though. Happy journey 😘

[@lorettapennick8699]

Amen. I am so happy for you and your family.

[@Zen-cx5tc]

🙏🙏🙏

[@mahoganysoul7195]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🔥🔥🔥

[@rafiqah4106]

I can see the relief on your face. I'm happy for you. And I'm sorry you had to deal with that.

[@jaleea2012]

💕She looks amazing go Toni

[@mickelined5447]

Toni!!! I am beyond proud of you. You were a source of inspiration for me as I was too going through a painful divorce when you started to share your journey with us. Being able to overcome and thrive after a divorce feels like a new life has been given to us. Keep glowing girl!

[@jenng5925]

Very happy that you’re finally out of the situation. 🎉🎊 My mom instilled in her 6 daughters to always have our own (“just in case”, as she would say.) BTW, you look really pretty!

[@jaleea2012]

indeed💖👏🎉✨💕💥

[@taunyac8722]

My mom always said don't let your left hand know what your right hand is doing. Even when we were too young to understand what it meant..but it stuck with me. Always had my own .

[@tonyaposey405]

First off YOU LOOK GORGEOUSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They NEVER realize what they have until it's GONE because he should've been GRATEFUL to even have you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can't wait for the next chapter!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU ARE GLOWING giiiiiiiiiiiiiirrrrrrrrrrrlllllllllllllllllll!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@bigwdy27]

If I'm disgusted hearing about this dude then I can only imagine how you felt. I am so proud of you and happy for this next chapter of your life. Thank you for sharing your story with us!! Love you!!! 💜🎉🎊🥂

[@yolandami5923]

BRAVO Toni. You handled this nightmare with grace, strength and confidence. Keep pushing, Queen. 🙏🏽 👏🏾 👑

[@mzlo2057]

Your sista support was so fierce during all you went through . SO VERY Blessed !

[@patriciahetherington1709]

Hey Toni . I remember my uncle left his wife and 3 kids told her he was going to the store and came back 20 yrs later ! Some men men are pathetic and cowards . She did move on and found true love & happiness . Thank you 4 always sharing and being honest with us .

[@veronicajade20]

Jesus! Why do men do that?! Did he ever explain why he just up & walked away?

[@davidican]

What i want to understand is, did these women really not see huge BlOOD RED FLAGS before choosing to settle with them or did they just choose to ignore

[@patriciahetherington1709]

@@veronicajade20 My uncle said later on he simply realized he couldn't be a husband and made a mistake marrying her and left her but felt bad about leaving his boys . And they forgave him how funny is that ? Would they forgive their mom if she did that ?

[@peacefaith560]

wow

[@johnjackson9235]

@@patriciahetherington1709 my wife (who I was married to for 25 years) did the exact same thing to me last May and took my two daughters from Columbus, OH to Louisville, KY. Divorce trial scheduled for this summer. It truly sucks when people leave without any notice (especially when they take your children from you and the court doesn't nothing about it)

[@Nayankaa]

Proud of you!!! Glad you did not give a pass to him FOR NOTHING, abandoning your family/wife is unforgivable. I hated to see you go through it 2 years ago…let him go, you won’t miss or regret him. CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR DIVORCE 🎊🎉🎈🍾 You made it through the hardest part. Wish you the best!

[@mlps11]

I watched you at your lowest point in 2019. It is so refreshing to see how far you have come since then. You are such an inspiration!!!

[@nicolegray8111]

You have displayed true determination over the last few years. I must say my heart broke for you when it all began, but you never gave up and pushed through. Hats off to Haf who showed up strong, as well as the rest of your support system. I am so happy to see you genuinely happy and wish you nothing but the best going forward. God bless 🙏🏾

[@reibierobster7549]

I remember the 1st time I saw your channel, it was right after what's his face left. I felt your realness and admired how strong your sister circle was in your time of need. You've grown tremendously in the last couple years. I remember people were mean to you because you were using your platform to get through your unexpected journey but you pressed on and grew through it. Keep growing and inspiring people. Love to you from Trinidad girlfriend

[@imaniedwards5477]

no person deserves this, glad that you are able to enjoy the rest of your life being fabulous and getting the love that you give to others.

[@PineandGingerP]

The gall of him. Another lesson I learned from this is don't get married in Canada! I'm happy that the process is finally over for you so that you can close that chapter of your life! Your glow of happiness is ultra bright now and I wish for it to never dull! 💜🍍

[@tonidaleyofficial]

I actually didn't get married in Canada but that doesn't change the divorce process. Thank you!

[@mvpglam8018]

Divorce are painful. I went through it. You are a strong woman.

[@librasoul7546]

I got a divorce in 2006 and I havent seen or heard from my ex since. All i asked the court for was to allow me to give him his last name back and I resumed my maiden name. I do not desire to remarry at all at least not in the traditional sense. Congratulations on your new chapter Toni! ❤

[@tonidaleyofficial]

I'm with you girl! Thank you!

[@ItsEkcho]

Congratulations!! 🍾 You look so much happier. I can feel the positive vibes through the screen. I wish you an abundance of success, happiness and joy.

[@gwendoylnluckettcarrethers7600]

So happy for you Toni. I also am happily divorced from a cheating man. I was left with two teenagers over ten years ago. We are doing good and thriving. Thank the Good Lord. I love your vlogs and always looking forward to the next one.

[@vl3525]

Did u find love again? 🤍

[@cynthiaruth1315]

Hey girl, Nope! YOU ARE NOT DUMB. So proud of you. Continue to grow.

[@moniqueb8545]

No he did not use your account to order UberEats!!! Is he okay? He clearly was trying to get under your skin because he couldn't control you. I remember the video when you logged into one of your accounts and he was looking for shoes for his "monster foot b****". Talk about manipulative. I'm happy for you Toni, you deserve to be rid of him. He did you a favour by removing himself from you life.

[@texasgradeandmade5929]

Yes I remember that about the shoes and he had took her on a trip I believe.Like they say though, It’ll be greater later! Especially in this case.

[@cynthiabjones5412]

I remember your walk on the beach when this first happened. And check you out now. "God bless the child who has his own"!!!!!!

[@StarChyld4IamHere]

I'm incredibly happy for you, you look so renewed and refreshed, and absolutely "Have your Own" all day, every time.

[@tinabranch9774]

Toni when I left my abusive serial cheating husband, I too ended all communication. I didn’t divorce bc we had nothing worth protecting and I walked away from my home with just important things. I left him and the state and never spoke to him again. Maybe once when I told him not to bother again. Had to start over completely but it was the best thing I’ve done.

[@MzTwEeT1989]

I've been a silent subby for a few years now, before the divorce. It's been amazing to watch your journey, you are so strong and resilient. 💖

[@janerogers616]

With so much bad news I’ve been hearing lately and dealing with myself. It’s so good to hear your great news and seeing you happy and thriving!

[@tonidaleyofficial]

[@sxylkn36]

Thank you for being so transparent. By telling your story, you have helped others. I am sorry this happened to you, but that is what made you stronger! God speed on another successful chapter in your life.

[@tonidaleyofficial]

Thank you!

[@michellem.9061]

That first “He Left Me” video was when I started following you. It’s the thriving, glowing come up for me!! I cannot believe the unmitigated gall of him to leave AND refuse to sign the papers!! I’m in South Carolina and in the absence of abuse or adultery, you have to be separated for a year before filing for divorce. Waiting for my husband to move out so I can start the separation process and ultimately file for divorce. Sending love and prayers for peace to all who are also going through it.♥️

[@CK-solutions]

Yes, make sure you learn to do for yourself - and don't feel guilty about it. I spent 24 years of my life, dedicated to raising a family/household budgeting, all kinds of important skills to keep us prospering. When he decided to move onto someone else, after promising me a lifetime, I realised I felt guilty about dividing my time, for no good reason. Now I have to play catch-up after 20 years out of the workforce. If I wasn't feeling guilty that financial ambitions just for me, was a betrayal of my commitment to the family, I would have carved out time to spend money on courses to develop my employable skills. Instead it was all spent on the main income earner. Great decision for the family budget if he decides to stick around - but what if he doesn't/dies/sustains injuries, etc? So yes, be sure to think about your employ-ability and capacity to draw income on your own terms.

[@thriftysimplicity]

Congrats! I'm so glad you're out of that situation!! He deserves to be in your past! 🖤🖤💜💜

[@brendahenry7768]

Hello Beautiful This is my second post to you. I was one of those who sincerely prayed for you in the beginning when this all first happened to you.I am so proud of you.You are beautiful and God has kept you ❤All praises to the Most High

[@laneys2030]

I am sorry you went through that

[@dasimamason774]

Currently going thru a divorce, I needed this ❤ Stay blessed

[@TheRenee10]

I can't believe it was only two years ago you're so resilient girl

[@tonidaleyofficial]

Thank you!

[@syckindahead]

Congratulations Toni! Woo-hoo! "Do I want you to come back? Nah, I'm good!" 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🥳 #Blackgirlsaremagic

[@reelsforthereal9038]

So happy for you. I cried and cried with you while you were walking Marley in your adidas slides. I truly applaud you Tonie & wish you the very best💝

[@tonidaleyofficial]

Thank you!

[@JustTaylerNicole]

So happy for you! Though divorce is painful, it’s also a relief when you finally cut ties. I pray you are fully healed and restored from this. 🙏🏽❤️

[@GenuinelyGiGi]

The nerve of him to ask you if you wanted him to come back… uggh! “The caucasity of it all!”

[@TheMoseswoman]

Hey girl, hey. Welcome to the other side. You have crossed the Rubicon AND with a testimony. I’m so proud of you Sissy. You are a real one.

[@lasheavibez]

Toni. Im so happy for you. Divorvr is quite a journey indeed and you handed it with class and dignity. Nuff Respect. All the best.

[@hikikomori5]

Toni this thank you is long overdue. In 2021 my marriage from a serial cheater ended. I watched you, learned about Valencia and saw you both healing. I didn't think I could survive it but I saw your stages of grief and knew one day at a time, I could get to the other side. Here I am on the other side. I made it! Thank you.❤

[@ceecee366]

Toni you look amazing! One never knows their power until they’re faced with adversity. I love that you took a painful situation and turned it around. Kudos to a happier, healthier you! 💕

[@Toiorchid86]

Congratulations Toni on your divooorcce (in my Taye Diggs in Brown Sugar voice lol) 🥂🎉 I'm proud of you and happy that you are no longer bound to him in any way, shape, or form. I love the advice you gave at the end of the video because it is very important to have your own as a woman. Btw your makeup looks great!

[@sharonjudd7786]

I too was married for 21 years to a narcissist. Our timelines are exactly the same. He did you a favor.

[@kimkillett4895]

Yes! "God Bless The Child that's Got His Own" And I am so happy that you are happy. There's nothing more lonely and sad went someone takes you for granted! And there's nothing more liberating when you can finally get that behind you. God Bless and Good Luck on your new LIFE JOURNEY! ONE LOVE SIS 💕

[@misizdubs]

That smile says everything I need to hear. Everything happens in its time. So happy for and proud of you, Toni.

[@Itsmyrap]

The end was a whole word!!!! Definitely always have your own you never know what could happen !

[@debbiecharles3721]

You look beautiful. Never under estimate the power of a black women. I believe this made you stronger.

[@jakelabaylorable]

Thank you for sharing a very vulnerable part of your life. I, too, have experienced being married to a cheater. Now I'm happy and married to my soul mate.Wishing you all the best

[@Sageandgold]

Divorced in 2017 and I did not try to make it work. When someone is abusive, because cheating is abuse, that's it for me. We were together 2.5 years and married 2 years. A man will play along with you until they get everything in place and then ditch you. No matter how long y'all were together. It is a harsh reality, but as women, we need to know when to exit and, when to stop holding on. Don't waste your best years, and enjoy life to the fullest. Glad you are doing well.

[@tonidaleyofficial]

Thank you.

[@traceydumase]

I remember watching your videos around the time he left. You're definitely evidence that indeed time heals all wounds. I'm happy to see you're doing well and I can't say thank you enough for sharing your journey ❤️

[@Kawaiicutiebaby]

I’m so happy it’s finally done I know you are extremely happy that chapter is closed and you have severed all ties. I can’t believe this man was behaving like that smh out of order.

[@heaviestmelo3873]

I’m screaming!!!! Lmfao not the caucacity 💀 🤣 💀

[@michelecarter3403]

That's about the time that I met you. Tears, swollen eyes, sniffles, etc. But look at you now... an individual who is blessed and highly favored! Bask in the blessing my dear Toni and NEVER look back.

[@latoyajones145]

So happy for you Toni you have been amazing through this experience and we appreciate how you’ve shared your journey. 💜

[@tonidaleyofficial]

Thank you so much!

[@trinajay2202]

Men are flippin children! I remember this like yesterday and I genuinely felt for you! Big hugs from Brooklyn!

[@msd9264]

I’m so happy for you Toni, I never liked your husband from the first time I saw him, there was just something I saw in him and I felt you were too good for him. I’m glad you were able to get away from that user, CONGRATULATIONS ❤️😘

[@somethirdplace]

You’re a BOSS Toni, periodt. So proud of you and the life you built and rebuilt. Been following since before the condo when you were still working in corporate. Ecstatic for you. Thank you for sharing your story. I hope you’ll spoil yourself big big everyday. You deserve it.

[@sarahjanechronicles]

Yes! Have your own was my biggest mistake back when I was married. I would like to add that your face looks so much brighter and you look so happier. Live your life girl! I’m so happy for you. I’ve been following you for YEARS! I found you through Gabe and fell in love with your videos and your spirit ever since.

[@sheena120]

Miss Toni you are such a kind heart I'm only 35 and I've never been married but I followed your journey and that prepared me for what not to accept or take if I ever get married I'm so proud of you how you didn't give up but you still were your authentic self you are definitely an inspiration and I wish you the best in your future endeavors

[@EmpressNatiLocs]

Sooo happy for you Toni! I found your channel because of that event and I sat in awe of your transformation during that journey. I love your channel and have been a faithful subscriber ever since. ☺️You’re an amazing woman with an amazing support group and you’re such an inspiration fellow Piscean! 🥰

[@snowbird9660]

I agree. Having your own is so important. If things get really bad in the marriage, it makes it easier to walk away and to start over.

[@youknowyoulikeit1000]

I been here through it all. I remember a video where you went to feed the squirrel (daqwuan)and he was talking shit when you went outside. I stopped liking him that day. I’m glad you are single! You deserve so much better. And it’s coming❤️💅🏽💞

[@GrowEvolve78]

I remember seeing your video about his leaving. At that time I was ending my relationship with my child's father and definitely felt your pain. Since then I've watched you grow and blossom. You are an inspiration and I'm so happy for you. Go live your beautiful life, sis! Congratulations on your divorce!!!

[@AliciaJonestv]

First of all, you look amazing! I'm glad you are able to share your story.

[@marvinandjosh1]

I’m SO proud of you Toni and I admire your strength. I pray that you get ‘double for your trouble’ and continue to shine and succeed my sista. Much love.

[@ksg314]

So happy for you Toni!!!

[@73kymmie]

Best advice EVER!!!!! Have your own!!! God bless you!

[@DB101415]

Congratulations Toni!🥳🎉🎈🎊💃🏽🍾 Peace, especially in your home, is PRICELESS!!!🙌🏾 Sharing your story/experience helped more people than you will ever know. God bless you. 🙏🏾❤️

[@kizzymarlene]

I've been following you throughout all of this and I am so happy for you!

[@ywalker5680]

I’m sorry you went through that girl. Thank God for your close friends and fam.

[@MsBODOLLAR]

First here's a toast to you and overcoming surviving taking back your life and not perishing in his narcissistic lake of helll fire. You look amazing I'm so happy for you. I've been a Tonette since you lived in an apartment decided to quit your job create you brand and business and has been leveling up ever since. You've inspired me in so many ways. Love and continued success and living the good life. 🍾🥂

[@kimf.4948]

Congratulations, Toni! I remember when you did the first video documenting the abandonment and thinking how brave you were for putting yourself out there during such a painful time & dealing with all the judgment from people outside looking in. I definately couldn't do that. It's good to see you in such a good place now.

[@tonidaleyofficial]

Thank you! I'm glad I did!

[@beenspired]

Your glow shows how joyful you are! I remember your first video about this. I had recently gone through my divorce and I remember crying with you bc I knew it hurt. You started your journey with family, your circle, and water! I watched you rebuild without being bitter. I’m so thankful for you sharing your journey because it wasn’t any of our business. I love seeing you happy and smiling! I’m one of your biggest fans! Be Blessed Toni. YOU DID THAT WITH CLASS! ❤️

[@TheRenee10]

So proud of you Toni.

[@kelleyeubanks1255]

I applaud your courage and authenticity Toni. I have been a long time subscriber, bought over 20 plus earrings, met you and your ex in NY. You were my good friend in my head. My heart literally broke to see you document your process of feeling broken……because in 2017 I too was going through the same thing. Twenty year relationship. As I am finally on the other side of healing, it gives me joy to see you are as well. There were times I could not watch because it made my own pain more real. You are an awesome soul who is ENOUGH and worthy of all the great things that have come and will continue to come in your life. #freedom #blessed #favored

[@litapalmer3312]

Hey Toni I'm really feeling apologetic for that happening to You. The Boi was really a Boy. It is his loss. You are a INCREDIBLY talented Woman. I've seen how you are loving, caring with your family and friends. I know it's a painful experience, you will prevail. You are Strong, Courageous, Wise, Gorgeous. Move forward Sis. You have my Blessings. 🎀

[@naturallydunn3325]

I’m still shocked. None of us Tonettes knew because you both seemed so happy with doing the renovations for Gabrielle and Chad’s arrival. It’s still hard to believe sometimes because we loved you both together. Thanks for explaining the divorce process and sharing this personal time in your life with us. I love your look in this video 😀 And I see you changed the name to the other channel. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@songbird501]

Who else busted out laughing when Tony said “eht yob” contacted her on WhatsApp? 🙋🏽‍♀️😂 #TheCaucacity 😭

[@carribeanqueenfitts7277]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@StrawberryQwik]

I rode with you from day one. You handled a horrible situation with such dignity, class, and grace-. So proud of you! Happy that you were able to take care of yourself through this process without skipping a beat. Wishing you much continued success. Gurl, you are poppin! 💃🏽🙏🏾❤

[@stonecoldbrickhouse9783]

I’m so happy for you, here’s hoping your next chapter is very happy and prosperous.

[@sbusisiweshaba1715]

After everything you have been through, I'm glad you are happily divorced. You are beautiful. Definitely taking the lesson with me: Always have my own.

[@B1ibrab3aUty]

Toni you're just a phenomenal woman...period. It has been amazing to see your evolution over the past 2-3 years. When I started watching you I honestly didn't know what your journey was gonna look like 1 or 2 years from then, but Omg I'm so glad I see you stronger, healthier, and most importantly happier than you were before. You look like a whole new woman. I'm so proud of your resilience and determination. You've inspired so many women with your story and honestly just listening to you talk on your vlogs. I'm excited to see where you go to or what you accomplish next. Peace, love, and blessings Toni! 🤗🤗🤗😘🥰🥰💕💕💕💕🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@tonidaleyofficial]

Thank you!

[@B1ibrab3aUty]

@@tonidaleyofficial You're so welcome Toni...love you! 🤗🤗💕💕💕💕

[@Erica-BakingCutie]

It’s unfortunate that you lost a lot of money in this situation… His karma is going to be something else 👀 Congratulations on ending this journey… I look forward to seeing all of the wonderful things that life will bring you ☺️