My Divorce Story + My biggest piece of advice

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[@cammews6301]

It boggles me that the person who sabotaged the marriage is the same person that fights to drag out the divorce in order to stay tied to the one they mistreated and discarded.

[@peacefaith560]

they dont want no one else to have you

[@tanisha.r.thomas]

My daddy did this and it really pissed me off! It was like he was trying to torture her even after being a serial cheater and asking for the divorce

[@shesvibes]

Riiiiight!!!! 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@marciaboland6103]

He's the king of fuckbois. I know it was painful, but truth be told, the garbage bagged itself and trashed itself for you. What a blessing!

[@jaleea2012]

😂🔥

[@autobotdiva9268]

that part

[@MsJoyce31202]

The trash bagged itself and trashed itself. 😂

[@kkw-pal1178]

Totally

[@ebahiifidon-ekuerhare5837]

Best comment ever 🤣😂🤣😂

[@jasiystar]

As someone who is going through a divorce from a serial cheater… thank you. From the bottom of my heart. Thank you for sharing this. When it first happened, I didn’t think I’d survive. I remember watching your videos while you were going through it and it kept me going. Thank you so much.

[@yolandami5923]

You got this Jasiy! The beauty in going THROUGH something, is knowing it won’t last long. Sending you positive thoughts and energy, Queen. I’ve been there, it gets better each day. 💫

[@jasiystar]

@@yolandami5923 Thank you so much. It’s still a struggle at times but I’m getting better. It’s nice to know you aren’t alone. 😊

[@tboykin13tb]

Blessing as U Heal sis, YahWeh & His Son Yeshua Got U....... 😇

[@yolandami5923]

@@jasiystar Never alone. 🖤 🙏🏽

[@yolandami5923]

@@tboykin13tb Indeed.

[@graciouslyloved10]

For anyone going through a divorce. Please take one day at a time, please pray for peace, cry it out, talk it out, exercise and remember to eat and keep yourself busy and remember that even though it seems that no one is by your side. God is and He got you. Congratulations Toni and we are happy to see you coming through❤️❤️❤️

[@Angela-cd9bj]

That is very good advice - especially praying for God’s Peace. Divorce is no matter how it exist is especially a painful journey when you have deeply loved best you know how then betrayed, violated or physically place in danger. None of those are the circumstances are what God plans for Holy Matrimony which is why people must be Equally Yoked. Give your marriage a solid foundation & fighting chance (Equally Yoked) 👑👑

[@pooh4025]

Absolutely 👏

[@pooh4025]

Also prayed for healing of my broken heart and he done just that.

[@graciouslyloved10]

@@pooh4025 He truly heals the broken hearted...

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

@@graciouslyloved10 A big AMEN to that 🙏

[@purple2284]

The nerve of that man! Like, did he seriously believe that after all of that he had the right to ask "Do you want me to come back???". I am so proud of you and will continue to support. Mama Daley raised beautiful and strong black women. CHEERS!!!!

[@terrycox2442]

The nerve of some people, right? My ex did the same thing. Boy bye! His leaving was the best thing he ever did for me.

[@GigiSxm]

He realized the grass wasn’t greener

[@rozellamoss3482]

Hi Toni I miss u I dont know how 2 find u.......

[@quirkybrownchick8160]

@@GigiSxm He makes me wanna vomit.

[@yase5909]

yeah he‘s a joke...

[@poke557]

He is a narcissist and a monster. You were his toy that he could do whatever with. I’m glad you decided not to take that abuse. You are very strong. You are a survivor

[@hotbluflame2933]

I was a fan of the Boy because of the way he portrayed his relationship with you. But what I’ve seen over these last two years is that you turned abandonment into an opportunity to thrive. Your cooking videos are a prime example of that. Congrats on the freedom! It’s Pisces season too! #thriving 💅🏾

[@ms.vickie7394]

@hotbluflame2 I agree my bday is 3/10…. I will be 50 and Fearfully and wonderfully made. God bless

[@hotbluflame2933]

@@ms.vickie7394 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@jannistolvert3812]

I was NEVER a fan of the boy with his ugly self! I knew he was a fake! I could not understand what she saw in him. We, as women, compromise our true values and we settle for less. I have done it. I will "never" do it again even if that means spending the rest of my life by myself. (My husband passed.) It will just be me and God. Whatever the outcome happens I do not need a man for me to be complete.

[@tonidaleyofficial]

Thank you!

[@luvernfraser12]

I personally want to thank Half, she and Kiesha stick by you through it all. NO BODY mess our Toni.

[@jaleea2012]

I agree 💯

[@journeymylocs8702]

Yesssss ❤️❤️❤️

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

I agree 💯 too 💞💞

[@msd9264]

You mean Haff, my God I wish I had a friend like Haff. As you said Haff and Keisha, thank god for them. God Bless you all!!!

[@Simmonsgladys]

So happy for you, I'm in the beginning stage of mine. We have kids so that complicates things. I'm ready for it to be over now. I've been getting my own, 3.5 years later. He left us with nothing and part of that is my fault for not having my own stuff. Never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever solely depend on a person. NOT EVEN YOUR SPOUSE THAT YOU HAVE BEEN MARRIED TO FOR YEARS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@jenng5925]

Sad, but true. People will fail you. Hang in there sis!

[@jaleea2012]

I agree 100%

[@islandgirl8914]

So true.

[@bettywhite5133]

May God give you strength during this divorce. It hard sometimes but. God will give you the strength you need.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@luvmifro1003lovesfamily]

May God bless you beyond measure with much joy, peace, and may you be financially blessed in Jesus name! Amen!

[@latoyamontgomery5424]

Little do you know Toni but you and I were going through a divorce at the same time in 2019! I actually ran across your channel with that particular video of when he left…I was balling my eyes out scrolling through YT and there you were. Girl, we cried together that day! I’m so happy for you and proud of you! Keep shining sis! Much love from Atlanta! 🥰

[@nikkid403]

Same here. I had just left my then husband during this time as well. I was tired and needed peace so I left because I knew I deserve better.

[@livinginHim]

I feel you on this sis. Mine didn't want to sign the papers either...smh. It's much better to be alone than with someone that is emotionally unavailable and abusive.

[@tonidaleyofficial]

Facts!!!

[@christisgodd]

@@tonidaleyofficial Are you available

[@ournewchapter06]

Toni I have to say the way you ended this video really hit home. You said if there is one thing you would like to leave with the ladies… is “Have Your Own”. That message is so true!!! I was a stay at home mom for 12 years with a high school diploma and no real work history or a big gap in my work history. And after and during divorce I was left with nothing. Now I find myself staring over with 6 children… trying to rebuild my life from the basement floor. It’s been 4 years and I’m still fighting to get established. So, yes!!! Have your Own!!! You never know what life is going to dish out.

[@still-ga7570]

One day at a time one day at a time and be honest and loving to your children because at the end of the day you and your children is the only thing that matters in this world and please do not focus and worry about material things everything will take it on time . At this time your children is the most important thing give them all the time that they need Don't rush them until your world understand that you are a part of their world 🌍 they are your priority ⏰🎶

[@brcgreene]

I divorced my serial cheater husband after 25 (20 married) years. I was devastated emotionally and financially. My divorce was drawn out because he fought me every step of the way including the sale of our home. It was a struggle but God restored all that I loss. I am happy and at peace now. My advice to all women is to know your own worth, don’t settle for less than and don’t believe that you can’t survive without him.

[@belletaunde102]

Thank you for this. I'm so happy you are doing well. God helps those who have a good heart

[@shirleynelson3628]

Iam happy for you and May the good Lord continue to protect you from all evil and bless you with all that you desire in your life 😊❤❤❤❤❤

[@horgline]

I went through a divorce in 2019 as well. WOW!!! Just the level of disrespect from him is overwhelming smh. 😮‍💨 Divorce is Not easy, especially when children is involved. You are a beautiful & strong woman! I too am still trying to recover with my 2 kids & it’s been three years now. Only God is our strength. 😭😩🙏🏿

[@MyNaturalHue]

The fact that you chose to be transparent and share this story with us is deep, you didnt have to, but you did. Thank you.

[@Tammyjean]

It’s The “Caucacity”for me!! 🤣😂 I’m crying with joy for you.🤩Thank God you never bore children with that loser.🤦🏽‍♀️. You are such an inspiration. You go girl!! Black Women Rock!!✊🏾

[@eyeclapback7182]

@@maiamiimaiam4343 🙄 No it was NOT.

[@Southerngirl0828]

@@maiamiimaiam4343 TROLLLLLLL

[@pattysdaughter5639]

“You can’t hold a good woman down “ (In my Mary J Blige voice ) so proud of you Toni !

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

Wow powerful 🙌🙌

[@sophiaw8305]

I only know the Sizzla song for that saying 🤔, gonna have to check out MJB's version.

[@m.samuel6350]

“When life is sweet, say thank you and celebrate. And when life is bitter, say thank you and grow.” Happy Tuesday beautiful Toni, First of all, you look amazing. Thank you for sharing this with us. You are stronger and more wiser after having gone through everything you have gone through. Keep being the beautiful independent woman you are. You inspire so many others. Blessings to you always ✌🏽🙏🏽

[@keze1558]

Love the quote. Thank you

[@cw8365]

Love the quote thank you for sharing💕

[@ikigai3232]

@ M. Sam'uel, love the quote.

[@SEven5luv]

I love this 🥲

[@kiannad418]

Yes I do everyday I thank God while iam crying in pain I have mega faith in him 🙏🏾

[@slyneena.k.a.shauneeneensly]

I watched you go through all of the same Hurt & Distress I experienced in 2017-2018. I was married to a alcohol dependent, verbally & emotionally abusive Narcissist for 20 years13 legally married. No cheating, however all the other crap is just as bad!!! Divorce was finalized 1/23/18. I totally agree with your advice, “ladies have to hold their own” and get a prenup before marrying anyone stating you keep everything acquired prior to the Marriage. I’ve accomplished more for myself over these last four years than I did in the entire time being Married to him. New Homeowner, New Career etc. God is so Great, Bless you Toni!!🙌🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽💪🏽👊🏽🤗

[@candirayne470]

Congratulations

[@sparklingsilver777]

Absolutely, have your own!!! I'm 62 and have also instilled that into my 38 and 36 year old daughters. It is so important to have your own and as my own mother who instilled that core value into me...use to say..."You Never Know When Old Mad Day Will Come"! Ensure you make and have a way to provide for you and your children despite your relationship status and despite how long you've been in that relationship.

[@BRISCODIGITALPRODUCT]

Congratulations Toni on finally been free from that toxic men and marriage. Now have that divorce party.🎉🎉😊

[@CurlyGirlLife1]

She had a divorce party in her last video✨ She was getting ready for it towards the end of the video

[@terrijoseph-miller5471]

I remember that was the time I subscribed to you. I was amazed at your strength through this situation. However I also have to shout out Keisha and Haf for being your support system they were amazing. ❤️

[@trinadeerhodes]

Yep I was just getting into beauty videos it was the sisterhood for me. Im so happy for her.

[@HONEYEYEZZ22]

@Terri Joseph-Miller I subscribed at that time to. Yes, Haf and Keisha had your back. I pray for your continued blessings because you deserve it.

[@daniella8400]

I was unknowingly having an affair with a married man, he was cheating with me an multiple women. I left him and told the wife, she texted me back and said “ Thank you and God Bless”. I believe she knew and was ready to move on with her life! I also don’t believe it was the first time she found out, I’m sure she had suspicions. Women always need to follow their instinct.

[@IAmHoodBooger]

Seeing the way you evolved from being sad and depressed to thriving and glowing is such an inspiration. Congrats queen, be happy, enjoy your freedom, and take the world by storm.

[@jenng5925]

Very happy that you’re finally out of the situation. 🎉🎊 My mom instilled in her 6 daughters to always have our own (“just in case”, as she would say.) BTW, you look really pretty!

[@jaleea2012]

indeed💖👏🎉✨💕💥

[@taunyac8722]

My mom always said don't let your left hand know what your right hand is doing. Even when we were too young to understand what it meant..but it stuck with me. Always had my own .

[@virgodiva24]

I’m so happy for you Toni! Congratulations!!! Your advice was great but if I may also add if you don’t have your own or money, or nowhere to go, don’t be afraid to lean on your family if needed. I needed help after my divorce not so much financially but I had to move back home which was in a different state and my mom opened up her home to me for a while. I was blessed that I had a place to go. Don’t be afraid to ask for help if needed.

[@IndelibleRaquel]

Toni your experience helped so many of us through divorce. I do not wish it on anyone! I am happy that this chapter is closed. I wish all the best for you and everyone else that goes through this.

[@tonyaposey405]

First off YOU LOOK GORGEOUSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They NEVER realize what they have until it's GONE because he should've been GRATEFUL to even have you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can't wait for the next chapter!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU ARE GLOWING giiiiiiiiiiiiiirrrrrrrrrrrlllllllllllllllllll!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@HerVibesDivine]

Divorce looks GOOD on you girl you look amazing. One thing about a Pisces woman we gonna be resilient and not look like what we done been through!

[@2009gradcu]

Other women who were born all through the year are just as resilient. All zodiac signs.

[@HerVibesDivine]

@@2009gradcu this not about you I'm talking to my Pisces sister.

[@allisalinor1084]

Because she took the time to go through the steps and allowed herself to feel through every stage so proud to have watched her go thru this I pray I never have too myself but this is a great documentary

[@sbusisiweshaba1715]

Yesssss Pisces 🐟🐟 Here. Resilient we are!!!👑

[@rafiqah4106]

I can see the relief on your face. I'm happy for you. And I'm sorry you had to deal with that.

[@jaleea2012]

💕She looks amazing go Toni

[@mickelined5447]

Toni!!! I am beyond proud of you. You were a source of inspiration for me as I was too going through a painful divorce when you started to share your journey with us. Being able to overcome and thrive after a divorce feels like a new life has been given to us. Keep glowing girl!

[@NaturallyNellzy]

I'm so happy for you. Congratulations!❤️

[@babigyrl._]

First let me say, KUDOS & CONGRATS Toni. Im so very happy for you. I've watched this channel and previous one for a long time. You're experience is a true testimony. Thank you. Idk why the audacity of men's actions still baffle me. I had to learn young, 23, that same message when my son's dad walked out on us and didn't care if we had a roof over our heads or not. I had recently lost my job and that was the 1st time I ever truly relied on him or any man and we were living together. The street life and chasing women had him. I struggled, even homeless living in my car at one point but GOD, hallelujah, brought us through. I went to school and earning my Bachelor's and Master degrees, worked hard and at age 39, I was blessed with a 6 figure job and was able to buy my own home for my son and I. I say this as a testimony that when Toni says have your own and you can do it, there's no truer statement. Stay bless all.

[@christinewilliams-white3390]

Proud of you, Toni. You are an example of a strong woman that can come out of a storm and be even stronger than she though. Happy journey 😘

[@lorettapennick8699]

Amen. I am so happy for you and your family.

[@Zen-cx5tc]

🙏🙏🙏

[@mahoganysoul7195]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🔥🔥🔥

[@bigwdy27]

If I'm disgusted hearing about this dude then I can only imagine how you felt. I am so proud of you and happy for this next chapter of your life. Thank you for sharing your story with us!! Love you!!! 💜🎉🎊🥂

[@ItsEkcho]

Congratulations!! 🍾 You look so much happier. I can feel the positive vibes through the screen. I wish you an abundance of success, happiness and joy.

[@mzlo2057]

Your sista support was so fierce during all you went through . SO VERY Blessed !

[@QTeeTee]

I been following your journey through this and you are one amazing women!! I am so proud of you and so happy that you had a great support system to help you through this emotionally and mentally! I’m glad to see you in a better place and happy! 💕💕

[@Msgtonna]

I’m so happy for you!!! Congratulations!!! I actually started following you in the beginning of all of this. I’ve cried with you & so happy I can now celebrate with you!! You walked this walk head held high and that is Black Girl Magic!! Thank for sharing this journey. You are truly inspiring!!

[@alisonh6533]

I found your channel from the July 2019 video I remember it popping up on my watch list . We had a similar story I found strength through your journey and girl! Happiness!!!. I am so happy for you, thank you again for being so transparent wishing you an amazing future 💓💕💕. You have been my inspiration.

[@Nayankaa]

Proud of you!!! Glad you did not give a pass to him FOR NOTHING, abandoning your family/wife is unforgivable. I hated to see you go through it 2 years ago…let him go, you won’t miss or regret him. CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR DIVORCE 🎊🎉🎈🍾 You made it through the hardest part. Wish you the best!

[@yolandami5923]

BRAVO Toni. You handled this nightmare with grace, strength and confidence. Keep pushing, Queen. 🙏🏽 👏🏾 👑

[@StarChyld4IamHere]

I'm incredibly happy for you, you look so renewed and refreshed, and absolutely "Have your Own" all day, every time.

[@mlps11]

I watched you at your lowest point in 2019. It is so refreshing to see how far you have come since then. You are such an inspiration!!!

[@jakibah]

Congratulations!! Been with you and rooting for you! You look amazing and I'm wishing you continued success!! ♥

[@traceydumase]

I remember watching your videos around the time he left. You're definitely evidence that indeed time heals all wounds. I'm happy to see you're doing well and I can't say thank you enough for sharing your journey ❤️

[@thriftysimplicity]

Congrats! I'm so glad you're out of that situation!! He deserves to be in your past! 🖤🖤💜💜

[@DB101415]

Congratulations Toni!🥳🎉🎈🎊💃🏽🍾 Peace, especially in your home, is PRICELESS!!!🙌🏾 Sharing your story/experience helped more people than you will ever know. God bless you. 🙏🏾❤️

[@laniwalks2470]

I loved it!!!! The journey of divorcee Toni begins!!! 🤩 Can definitely relate to the advice given, as my husband fell ill in August of 2021. I totally agree 💯

[@kizzymarlene]

I've been following you throughout all of this and I am so happy for you!

[@nicolegray8111]

You have displayed true determination over the last few years. I must say my heart broke for you when it all began, but you never gave up and pushed through. Hats off to Haf who showed up strong, as well as the rest of your support system. I am so happy to see you genuinely happy and wish you nothing but the best going forward. God bless 🙏🏾

[@genycegalvan2349]

Congratulations!!!! I love to see the peace radiating from you! God has truly blessed you and has kept you through this and I’m just happy to see you thriving!

[@marvinandjosh1]

I’m SO proud of you Toni and I admire your strength. I pray that you get ‘double for your trouble’ and continue to shine and succeed my sista. Much love.

[@janerogers616]

With so much bad news I’ve been hearing lately and dealing with myself. It’s so good to hear your great news and seeing you happy and thriving!

[@tonidaleyofficial]

[@reibierobster7549]

I remember the 1st time I saw your channel, it was right after what's his face left. I felt your realness and admired how strong your sister circle was in your time of need. You've grown tremendously in the last couple years. I remember people were mean to you because you were using your platform to get through your unexpected journey but you pressed on and grew through it. Keep growing and inspiring people. Love to you from Trinidad girlfriend

[@ARRTY97]

I'm so stinking proud of you!!! You did so well. I have no words. I'm so sorry you had to go through it.

[@theebajanqueen6599]

So proud of you. Look what you've come through. So great to see you triumph and shining 🖤

[@1noahsmum]

Toni, I am so proud of you! I can’t imagine how tough this situation must have been for you, but you made it through victorious! I’ve been subbed since the “Lajay” days and your growth and perseverance has taught me a valuable lesson. I wish nothing but the absolute best for you! You deserve it! 💕💕💕💕

[@tonidaleyofficial]

Thank you!

[@Kosaiya]

Congratulations Toni! I am so happy for you. Such a long, expensive process made much more difficult because of his behaviour. Thank you for sharing your story. It’s true what you say having your own is so important.

[@tonidaleyofficial]

Thank you!

[@MissThickThighs]

I'm so happy for you! I remember the vlogs around that time. Your strength and perseverance are inspirational.

[@angelicdazzle]

Congrats!!!!! I watched you from day one with him leaving and your growth, happiness and glowww is Real and such an inspiration!!!!! You go Stella get your groove on 🥳💃🏾

[@moniqueb8545]

No he did not use your account to order UberEats!!! Is he okay? He clearly was trying to get under your skin because he couldn't control you. I remember the video when you logged into one of your accounts and he was looking for shoes for his "monster foot b****". Talk about manipulative. I'm happy for you Toni, you deserve to be rid of him. He did you a favour by removing himself from you life.

[@texasgradeandmade5929]

Yes I remember that about the shoes and he had took her on a trip I believe.Like they say though, It’ll be greater later! Especially in this case.

[@MzTwEeT1989]

I've been a silent subby for a few years now, before the divorce. It's been amazing to watch your journey, you are so strong and resilient. 💖

[@ZED2.0]

Congratulations! And thank you for sharing your story. Grateful to live in this period in time where we can share stories easily and learn from other people's experiences

[@homejobsuccesswithally3726]

Girrrrrrllllll so happy for you. Peace over everything. I have just got over the separation period so will be starting my process now. All the best to you.

[@latoyajones145]

So happy for you Toni you have been amazing through this experience and we appreciate how you’ve shared your journey. 💜

[@tonidaleyofficial]

Thank you so much!

[@ceecee366]

Toni you look amazing! One never knows their power until they’re faced with adversity. I love that you took a painful situation and turned it around. Kudos to a happier, healthier you! 💕

[@psr076]

Congrats! I’m so happy for you for getting trough this process. It wasn’t easy and you made it.

[@VertellDavis]

I followed your whole journey sis! Thanks for sharing and so open. You have helped a lot of us ❤️ your growth is amazing

[@sxylkn36]

Thank you for being so transparent. By telling your story, you have helped others. I am sorry this happened to you, but that is what made you stronger! God speed on another successful chapter in your life.

[@tonidaleyofficial]

Thank you!

[@laneys2030]

I am sorry you went through that

[@hikikomori5]

Congratulations from the bottom of my heart ❤ Thank you so much for sharing your journey. Sometimes when you are in the thick of it you feel like you're alone. It helps to see other folks going through the same struggles and winning!

[@ndzalln]

Your glow is everything! Well done for getting through it all & may God bless you on this new chapter of life🥰👸🏾

[@ksg314]

So happy for you Toni!!!

[@AliciaJonestv]

First of all, you look amazing! I'm glad you are able to share your story.

[@beverlyburke4448]

Congratulations Toni! I've seen you go through the ups and downs over the years. Happy to see you in a better place. Blessings

[@SuperJeanine10]

I’m so proud of your strength! You’re an amazing woman! You deserve all the greatness that is coming your way!!! 👏🏾❤️

[@imaniedwards5477]

no person deserves this, glad that you are able to enjoy the rest of your life being fabulous and getting the love that you give to others.

[@cynthiabjones5412]

I remember your walk on the beach when this first happened. And check you out now. "God bless the child who has his own"!!!!!!

[@shawaunamoore7707]

I followed you throughout your journey and I’ve been where you were. I’m sooooo happy for you and YOU LOOK AMAZING!!!!! Keep on glowing, growing and going❤️❤️❤️

[@brittthompson6695]

Congratulations Toni! So excited for you to be done with this process, and looking forward to watching you blossom into your next chapter! ♥️

[@librasoul7546]

I got a divorce in 2006 and I havent seen or heard from my ex since. All i asked the court for was to allow me to give him his last name back and I resumed my maiden name. I do not desire to remarry at all at least not in the traditional sense. Congratulations on your new chapter Toni! ❤

[@tonidaleyofficial]

I'm with you girl! Thank you!

[@jod4749]

I'm so happy for you!!!!🥳 I know it's a huge weight off of your shoulders. I'm filing for divorce very soon. I also live in Ontario and 1 year has passed since i left my ex. It's a bit overwhelming to start the actual process but I can't wait to be where you are right now. Congrats🎉🎉 and it will make your birthday extra special this year !!

[@habenxo]

I’m so happy for you Toni!!! 🥳🥳🥳🥳And I’m so so sooo proud of you and you’re honestly such an inspiration! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@thisnaturalgirlislocd]

I've been away from social media lately so I hadn't seen this news but I'm happy for you. I haven't experienced this but you sharing how you unexpectedly had to live through this journey and come out stronger, more resisilient, and blessed has been an inspiration for so many who are/have dealt with the same and/or other forms of heartbreak. I'm glad to know you're in a beautiful space 💜

[@cynthiaruth1315]

Hey girl, Nope! YOU ARE NOT DUMB. So proud of you. Continue to grow.

[@123456711751]

You are a strong example for all young women! I agree have your own! Great advice!

[@stonecoldbrickhouse9783]

I’m so happy for you, here’s hoping your next chapter is very happy and prosperous.

[@ayannarichberg252]

Toni, Thank you for sharing something so personal. I've followed your channel for sometime and have learned a lot. Much respect! from Brooklyn

[@marlamorris2869]

I remember the pain in your face and tears when you first announced he left you. I'm glad you're on the other side of all that now ready to break out into an even more beautiful butterfly. Keep your head up. Love you and let this be a time of healing. Divorce looks good on you. 💜💜💜🦋🦋🦋

[@patriciahetherington1709]

Hey Toni . I remember my uncle left his wife and 3 kids told her he was going to the store and came back 20 yrs later ! Some men men are pathetic and cowards . She did move on and found true love & happiness . Thank you 4 always sharing and being honest with us .

[@veronicajade20]

Jesus! Why do men do that?! Did he ever explain why he just up & walked away?

[@davidican]

What i want to understand is, did these women really not see huge BlOOD RED FLAGS before choosing to settle with them or did they just choose to ignore

[@patriciahetherington1709]

@@veronicajade20 My uncle said later on he simply realized he couldn't be a husband and made a mistake marrying her and left her but felt bad about leaving his boys . And they forgave him how funny is that ? Would they forgive their mom if she did that ?

[@peacefaith560]

wow

[@johnjackson9235]

@@patriciahetherington1709 my wife (who I was married to for 25 years) did the exact same thing to me last May and took my two daughters from Columbus, OH to Louisville, KY. Divorce trial scheduled for this summer. It truly sucks when people leave without any notice (especially when they take your children from you and the court doesn't nothing about it)

[@theodorafyn]

Sending you love Toni! I’ve been following you for more than a decade now and I wish you all the best. I really commend your strength and resilience through this

[@elizabethd.7662]

Congratulations Toni! You’re amazing and so strong. Thanks for sharing.

[@Diva08180703]

I am so frickin happy for you. I've been there with a contested divorce so I get it. You look like a happy divorce woman. Fresh, bright and beautiful! Congratulations!

[@sexyskydoll]

Very happy for you, Toni! Very cute look btw. TFS❤️

[@FantasyFreakish]

So very happy for you, blessings in 2022 ❤️

[@cjojay]

So proud of you, and happy that you have this platform to share your story and to show us how you're thriving!!

[@Toiorchid86]

Congratulations Toni on your divooorcce (in my Taye Diggs in Brown Sugar voice lol) 🥂🎉 I'm proud of you and happy that you are no longer bound to him in any way, shape, or form. I love the advice you gave at the end of the video because it is very important to have your own as a woman. Btw your makeup looks great!

[@aprilfelton6001]

It's definitely his loss! You look so happy and I'm happy for you.

[@suehanchard5582]

I’m so happy for you Toni!! You are an inspiration and I appreciate you sharing your journey with us.

[@kelleyeubanks1255]

I applaud your courage and authenticity Toni. I have been a long time subscriber, bought over 20 plus earrings, met you and your ex in NY. You were my good friend in my head. My heart literally broke to see you document your process of feeling broken……because in 2017 I too was going through the same thing. Twenty year relationship. As I am finally on the other side of healing, it gives me joy to see you are as well. There were times I could not watch because it made my own pain more real. You are an awesome soul who is ENOUGH and worthy of all the great things that have come and will continue to come in your life. #freedom #blessed #favored