The Benefits of Being Intentional | The Process of Revamping My Sex Life

[@BillysFingers]

The components of the best sexual experience i can think of is with someone i have developed a genuine connection with first, but it seems becoming friends first puts you in the friend zone so it seems like an unviable combination.

[@saywinkepilogue]

I mean it could work well I think if both people have the same goal with things. I think any sort of scenario could work or fail really but you’re right usually you need to have some sort of genuine connection.

[@kitten103083]

Can you do a video of your current makeup favs ? Like old school ? This is a beautiful look. Curious what you used. 💜🎀

[@saywinkepilogue]

Yes of course it might be a little off brand for my topics now so I’ll put it at the end of a video and I’ll let you know what one it is so you can see! That’s so funny because I used all my old school makeup favs for this look it was the OG Naked Palette and I think I put smog on my lid, NARS laguna but also Chanel tan de soleil for the cheeks!

[@kitten103083]

@@saywinkepilogue awesome and the foundation looks pretty too. No worries. I’m catching up on your videos. Have a good nite 💜🫶🏻

[@JaciStarr]

My most satisfying sexual experiences (by far) were with the most messed up, toxic, abusive guys I’ve ever met (there were 2, both had BPD) 😕 They both ended up giving me STDs (curable ones, thank god) and they both got me pregnant (which ended in different ways-I’m not a mother) sooo yeeeah, I’ve attempted relationships after that but they’ve all been super unsatisfying sexually and I wonder if parts of my brain broke from my prior experiences. Now at 36 I’m struggling to desire sex or a partnership at all. But I’m grateful I experimented a lot as a young adult so I know what’s out there and what all different sexual experiences are like; I can understand if you never had that phase why you would want to experiment now in your 30s - and honestly it’s probably better that way because you’re more emotionally intelligent and can be safer and make more healthy decisions vs. being “young, dumb, and full of cum” as my friend likes to say 😆

[@saywinkepilogue]

@@JaciStarr Your bravery in leaving your comment is incredible. I always relate to what you’ve said and just know as a baseline I respect the hell out of you. I’m super sorry that the best experiences you’ve had came with pain on the opposite end of the spectrum for you. I relate to what you said if maybe you think something in your brain is broken from the past experiences. Like for real that’s how I think right now. I’m working on it but my mind freezes up and doesn’t let my body enjoy it even though all the signs are there that’s it’s enjoyable. Like I’ve literally picked all the things that would make it highly enjoyable for me. I haven’t unlocked it yet but as I get more experience creating a comfort level within the level of intensity I prefer I hope so. I hope that you can too especially if it’s important to you. You’re so feisty and creative I have lots of faith in you.

[@lawrencelam6719]

You look very really and truly beautiful in all of your videos too. And I like it as well!

[@zaynevanbommel5983]

Chasing after the Chads I see lol

[@zaynevanbommel5983]

Chasing the Chads I see lol

[@zaynevanbommel5983]

Dang how did this end up in my Feed ?

[@saywinkepilogue]

😬 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@lawrencelam6719]

Great videos.

[@saywinkepilogue]

Thank you very much I appreciate that

[@lawrencelam6719]

@@saywinkepilogue you look very beautiful in all of your videos as well I really like your very helpful information too.

[@saywinkepilogue]

Aw thank you :)

[@lawrencelam6719]

Do you have a spotify podcast channel?I am interested to hear more about what you are talking about.

[@saywinkepilogue]

I don’t this is the only place I have my videos really

[@zaynevanbommel5983]

My Wife broke my Heart in 2013 when she left me, then six months after that I discovered she cheated on our Family prior to leaving me, its ruined me as a man the last time I had sex was the day my wife left me (it was my wife) I haven't had sex since that day I'm way to afraid that it would happen again and I know I couldn't survive that again This is not where I saw my life's path going

[@saywinkepilogue]

I’m super sorry that happened to you I think everyone deals with pain differently so I’m not going to tell you it’s easy to fix that kind of hurt but I will say I do hope that you can enjoy that connection again if it’s something you want in your life. Fear is a something that’s hard to grasp a hold of :(

[@BillysFingers]

Mine left me in 2012 and i've been feeling similar.