The Big Reveal + Surprising Grandpa Ron!

[@karenstringer8266]

You have a beautiful home just recently found your videos and are enjoying them very much from the UK

[@lamikahawkins9442]

Paige is Adorable! I love her creative imagination. I bet Lucas is teething right now, which always makes them extra clingy to mama.

[@annamariacantalupo9634]

Hapy birthday to Ron!!!! The cookie cake is a good idea with ice cream on the side!! I was happy to see the vlog today.. thank you for sharing! Love you, Spomer family!!!! 💙❤️❤️❤️💙😘😘😘😘😘

[@KathilynBigler]

What a wonderful birthday Dad!! Your party looked like so much fun!!! God bless each of you and give your Dad a new year of GREAT health and joy!!!🎉😊🎂

[@sarahstorr]

Holy cow! How clever is Paige!!!! One more, rhyming, remembering papas age! She’s a clever girl❤

[@carolinepfleuger2522]

❤ Love how you spend time with your kids, believe me it shows and makes a huge difference in their lives! Your lil ones are all so adorable and very creative. ❤

[@roxyseville1486]

Wooooo wooooo happy birthday toooo uuuuuu!!! 🎉🎉🎉 happiest day todaaaay

[@Virgina76]

So cute! Love seeing you taking time to enjoy the kiddos.

[@polishedcraft1781]

Jess I spotted your J anthropology mug! My friend got me that mug when I visited her in America. I live in Australia and it’s my fav mug. Even more so now I see you have it too 😊

[@maddieadams75]

Happiest Birthday Ron! Sweet babies 🧡🍂🍁💛

[@nolonlindataylor1689]

Happy Birthday Ron. Paige is being so sweet. She is adorable as usual. Lucas is wanting your love Jess. Nice to see everyone. Awesome family.

[@shaundabrook94]

Jess your parents are the cutest😂😂 and it’s so special having grandparents that want to be a part of their grandchildren’s lives!!❤️

[@ProV31MaMa20]

Jess, I love your parents, and your relationship with them, and their relationship with your kids. It's so nice.

[@lisatracy2914]

Awe! Grandpa is so cool. Happy Birthday

[@catworld8119]

The lyrics at the end "I'm Lovin This Moment.." say it all. The time you spend playing with the kids when they are little and love the mommy time, is well spent! You may have seen this but there is a saying "Dust go to sleep, I'm rocking my baby, and babies don't keep". Enjoy these 'moments' as it goes by too fast. In five years they'll all be at school all day and you'll be wondering what am I supposed to do? lol Grandpa had a lovely birthday with the grandkids!

[@furbabies867]

Happy day. One way to help Lucas not hit is be firm and consistent in your no and tell him if he is going to chose to not be gentle when you have asked then you are going to go do something else. But you then have to actually follow up and do as you say. After just a couple of times you will see big improvements. You can also get him something that is ok to hit and kick so he has an outlet when he is feeling "aggressive" that's not you or Austin or his sister's or maple. Helped my brother when we were growing up. I also enjoyed getting to hit the small punching bag 🙂. He seems like a very smart little guy. Good luck ❤.

[@laurarodino-posenato5277]

Happy Birthday to your dear dad!!!!!!

[@LucyMichelleBaker]

I legit thought you had a hair in the ice cream, but realised it was a hair on my screen. 😅 happy birthday papa Ron. ❤

[@JudithIrene]

Jessica, I still think you should be in some sort of hair ad -- your hair is SO BEAUTIFUL, and the colour is beautiful, the texture is perfect, etc. ... just my thoughts!~~~ 🥰

[@strawberrysoymilkshake]

Paige is at such a fun age. Her imagination has always been great though hasn't it 😊

[@HexiH04]

I missed you already❤ Beautiful cookie idea🤩

[@sheenasmith275]

I love Paige, everyone needs a Paige in their life ❤

[@harmonydesroches]

Happy Birthday Ron!!!

[@kelvinbryan9582]

Boys will be boys just allowed to be and Austin is a awesome dad let. Xxx

[@ashtinsmith6035]

You should get a balloon pump so it's super easy to blow up balloons! And I have 3 kids and always taught "gentle hands," especially having pets! My 21 month old has trouble from time to time, but it helps a lot!

[@montananative9786]

Your babies are so adorable, as a teacher of toddlers I would tell Lucas "soft touches, take his hand and show him what a soft touch is" Boys are so rough lol

[@emeliesvensson2818]

Happy birthday ron 🎉🎉

[@katinacarson-hunwi7297]

Happy Birthday to your Dad ❤🎉🎂.

[@meaganclarke4007]

Paige at the beginning had me laughing 🤣

[@starrperry6395]

Love the imaginative play ♥️

[@sheilascoyne861]

Happy Birthday Ron🎂❤️🙏🎁🎁

[@pamelafain8412]

Paige is so smart! "3, and 1 more makes 4"

[@limitlessintuition]

Paige is such a ham. What a character 😁

[@shaylat.2550]

Love your zip up crop hoodie Jess!! If I may, where did you get it??

[@robyne5419]

When it comes to Lucas hitting you I think the best way to tackle it is to say "No thank you, that hurts me. You need to be gentle" Then show him how you would do it gently. If he keeps hitting you then you can try fake crying as if he has truly really hurt you and then if he shows that he is feeling sorry / guilty then you can then tell him that your crying because he hit you which isn't nice and that you would like him to stop hitting you and give you a hug and say sorry. Then if that doesn't work then you can try saying "No hitting mum or anyone it's not nice. Do you want something that you can hit instead?" Then if he says yes you can then get him a toy drum or a cooking pot and tell him and show him that he can hit that instead of hitting you. I hope that this helps you and others struggling it is a tricky 1 😊❤

[@versteeghikayah]

Happy Birthday 🎂 to🎉❤ Grandpa Ron

[@brittperry7050]

Happy day and happy birthday Ron hope you had the best day 🥰

[@OHSloopyIO]

Happy Birthday Ron. 🥳🎉🎂🥳🎉🎂 I'll be 64 Christmas Eve.. And Happy Day to all from Ohio

[@lindagentile2380]

🎉HAPPY BIRTHDAY to Your Dad Jess &🎈🎁🎂🍦🥳🎊

[@angiehogan7718]

Happy birthday 🎂

[@nicolekelaher1979]

Lol i got the flowers from the dump that was cute 😊 poor lucas maybe he is teething.

[@LaeLiHeart]

this is one of the cutest videos ever

[@natashaw401]

HaPpY BiRtHdAy Ron 🎂 🥳 🎉

[@tonisargent4695]

the kids are getting bigger the grils are so sweet and baby boy is so cute

[@natashaw401]

So cool, fun cookie party

[@ameliequave7891]

you and austin should do another Q and A since you have had three kids. Love you guys!!

[@heatherk1792]

My little guy just turned 2. When he starts getting aggressive like that I take his hands and tell him no thank you, use gentle hands please. Then I’ll take his hands and mimic gentle touching so it’s more than just words. It seems to work for him more than just saying no.

[@donnaburnerslone]

Hey Spoomer Fam🙋‍♀️💙❤️💕🩵 Happy Birthday to your Dad 🎉🎈🎊

[@crystalpeacebear1985]

Happy birthday grandpa Ron. Sounds like grandpa would love to join an episode of men try

[@tammyflanigan6218]

Happy Day Everyone!

[@ashleyroberts8459]

With my son (hitting), I would grab his hand and say gentle, then show him how to touch gentle… put his hand on me softly etc. if he KEPT hitting me I would set him on the floor. He would cry, but I would say, “Mommy can’t hold you if you’re hurting mommy. You have to be GENTLE.”

[@amidthephantomsrose]

we do the same thing with our son. We say "gentle hands" and show him. If he keeps hitting we say "no, that hurts mommy. Or sissy, " insert whoever. If he continues we then put him down and say "you will not continue to hurt momma. If you do, you will sit in the naughty chair for x amount of time and think about what you did." We do a lot of suggestions from super nanny. In the end it's about letting him know that we have boundaries and that there are consequences to his actions.

[@catworld8119]

@@amidthephantomsrose I used to watch Jo Frost as Supernanny all the time and I didn't even have any kids. I taught school though and wished she had tips for large groups!

[@nancyfarkas3592]

It’s her kids. Let her handle it!

[@amidthephantomsrose]

@@nancyfarkas3592 definitely, it is her kids and she can and will handle it as she sees fit. I think people were commenting because she asked the question "how do you get him to stop?" When he smacked her chest. So people take that as an open invitation to give advice.

[@ivark56ofPA]

GOOD AFTERNOON SPOMERS .. Checking in..

[@carolynczajkowski7229]

We pretended to cry when my son would hit & said ouch or boo boo so he understood it hurt. When he realized it hurt he stopped hitting

[@Abbysbeadsandthings]

What’s Austin and the girls favorite colors?

[@katiedodge7394]

My little guy is a couple months older than Lucas and was doing the same thing and still does occasionally but when he hits I stop the action and show him how to use gentle hands instead and I say "We are gentle to other bodies with our body, gentle hands please." It seems to be slowly helping with some repetition for us. Maybe worth a shot 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@jorandle3455]

When my boys used to hit me I would cry out… ow then put him quietly on the floor and ignore him for a couple of minutes. They soon learned that if they hit anyone they would be without attention. Xjojoxx

[@asepbobby]

Just before this started i said to my wife. " wow doesn't Jess look good today. Looks really well" to which she said " she looks younger" no advice to give you've had plenty.

[@JamieyFox]

welcome to have a boy u just have to keep telling them to stop if they doing something wrong

[@Suebearish]

Teething?

[@amidthephantomsrose]

Lucas is very much like my sin Luke. I think that they actually are not that far a part in age actually. Lol. Bitbhe is definitely a mommy's boy and wants to be on me and with me constantly. He's very different from his older sister

[@dmlouer]

I told you right from the git go he was gonna be a mamas boy. They always are. The hitting is the rough and tumble. Have Austin rough with him and tell him its ok to be rough with dad but not with mom. You gotta nip that in the bud or it will only get worse as he gets into the terrible twos.

[@brendateague9111]

Austin is the reason Lucas hits. He’s always played with him like that. When he stops, and Lucas doesn’t get a reaction from him, it’ll stop. They all go through that. And, yes, boys are WAY different than girls. lol 🩵💙 But, you wouldn’t trade them for the world.

[@strawberrysoymilkshake]

Playing rough and pretend hitting and actually hitting mum are two totally different things. You're whack 😂