The Biggest Mistake Men Make When They Catch Feelings

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[@MidwestMoney]

Once the respect is gone it's over.

[@OldSchoolStrength]

In most cases it doesnt take long at all

[@brianmeen2158]

That is true. Good luck trying to keep that respect over the course of 30-40 years .

[@CorbinB-Rax]

Nah you can get that back

[@lavatr8322]

MONEY is Respect 😂😂😂

[@retrovcr777]

This generation is so lost

[@ShockwavesFTW]

This guy is what men should watch instead of other dating coaches/toxic red pill bullshit. This is balanced, reasonable, and healthy advice.

[@vincewarren1271]

Don't operate in her frame. Have a world (frame) that she wants to enter. Don't make her the adventure. Take her on an adventure.

[@Hello2u3582mypincode]

Thx, making her the adventure would be putting too much pressure on her I just realised. Just like the whole 'let's meet at a bar or a restaurant crap.' I'd rather go on a cooking together (LoL, To-Get-Her............) adventure, because that would be fun and an adventure for sure with me haha

[@smokingcrab2290]

And even better mindset is this - success isn't happiness; happiness is success. And you can will and choose it into your life every day. Choose to be likeable and competent, and have hope that good things are coming your way. This makes you open. And when you're open, the doors open to you. You can't control everyone's mind or being, but you can definitely control your own. And THAT is how you create a frame that others will want to enter is by creating the best frame for yourself that YOU want.

[@vincewarren1271]

@smokingcrab2290 true. The right people (your tribe) will come into your life. The only time things can get controversial is when you speak your opinion about politics. Then no matter what you protect becomes irrelevant to people who disagree with you. You can have the exact same hobbies or interests and draw like minds into your life w that stuff but once they disagree w you politically, nothing you shared in common before matters to them. Like you said, you cannot control anyone's mind but your own.

[@marcoi7035]

💯

[@armandoguerra7658]

Not worth the juice

[@adlermann96]

Bro had to show us that pump lol

[@scuffedcomedy4819]

Never chase women, only chase your potential

[@twinlive5]

Interesting take. Makes sense actually. She can’t love you if she can’t respect you.

[@prussiansocietyofamerica]

The flip scenario is also true though too. Vvom3n don't love M3n that they respect. They also do not let Respectable M3n talk down to them or treat them badly.

[@lorenzodavila2780]

Just be yourself and proud of who you are the rest will fall into place.

[@Coldsoldja]

Even if you have everything dialed in and you have your own purpose and you're on a mission, there will still be toxic women like my ex who will use you for all of your resources. And expect the best of you without earning it. And then drop you when they don't get all of the lovey dovey validation that they were expecting. It's tough out there right now, the dating pool is pretty toxic, just got to stay strong guys and keep on going this is a crazy time to be alive. Hope everyone here reading this makes it and achieves and gets everything they've ever wanted

[@funkbros3141]

Yep or they wanna date for 5 years to "see if it works out" joke

[@RepentImmediately]

​@@funkbros3141considering the average first marriage lasts just 8 years, not sure what's wrong with dating for 5. It was at the 5-year mark that one of my ex's mental illness presented itself. He was jailed and institutionalized repeatedly.

[@LeeHarveyOswald.1963]

that's called a psychopath/narcissist not a woman mayt

[@KK-sg5gl]

@@LeeHarveyOswald.1963that’s the typical woman you’ll attract when you “play the game”.

[@rafiazmi]

​@@KK-sg5glwhat game? I'm sorry but I'm clueless

[@MoveitorLoseit2]

This was an excellent video. Spot on and it's what I struggled with my entire life with women. When you mentioned the 2 forms of attraction: Excitement level and respect level. I have done ok for myself with the first one. Everything is always great in the beginning, but I was never able to get them on the respect and admiration level. I always become far too nice and lovey dovey and eventually they get bored of it. Once the butterflies wear off on their end, it's basically over. I always end up scratching my head afterwards, thinking "what happened?" I think society and the media has set men up for failure. We have been brainwashed to believe that the nice guy is the one that the girl will stay with. In reality its the opposite.

[@Seanshank_Redemption]

Great vid LFA…”are they proud to be with you?” It’s that simple.

[@quantumfineartsandfossils2152]

6:00 yup "making a difference" is literally all we have as the root of all life satisfaction, respect & mutual respect experience

[@Oneulchikinmukgeosseoyo]

I couldn't agree more with everything said in this video. Why try tirelessly to prove your love to someone when you yourself know that you do love them? if they don't believe you, then that's on them like life is too short to waste your time on people who doubt your love

[@RepentImmediately]

Love is displayed through behavior. That doesn't mean that you have to prove your love but, love is shown through behavior.

[@TrickNTricky]

LFA is growin’ world wide baby! You love to see it!😎

[@ZoomerRetention]

Be a man on a mission and respect yourself. Do not be a bum.

[@toxicmale2264]

The dating scene is going down faster than Kamala during a job interview. Thanks for the advice. Probing my psyche for _imp strain.

[@johnn.marshall4566]

😂😂

[@Thatdude64317]

Lmao 😂.

[@moto3463]

I don’t have feelings for love as I know it’s all a joke. You just get used and walked over. In my 25 years on this place not a single person ever loved me in a relationship. I’m going to live in a tent in the middle of nowhere. Away from humans.

[@gregorystinette8271]

Just get a dog. Woof !

[@marcosg7195]

You're way too young to have that mentality

[@norbatdepaname]

Come on don’t be so bitter. Don’t expect to be loved, just love yourself

[@oanamunteanu4744]

You are very Young and is plenty of Time to find love 😍☺️🤞but you must be ready for it, otherwise you might loose love even if she right on The corner 🤷‍♀️☺️

[@badgerproductions24]

I’m going on a farm

[@-glitch-8195]

I think the biggest mistake men make is they do not let the woman earn her position. There's been a change lately for the better. It's not your job to put her in such a high position when she's not even trying. Recently I was at the car wash. I parked my car so I can wipe it down. There was a guy who was filling his tires & a female who was parked in the vacuum section. Both of their cars were parked parallel to each other. Mine was next to his but not parallel. He finished. Then he backed up a little to get out. This female honked at him even though she could move easily since she was still in the driver's seat. However, she chose to give him attitude. I was still sitting in my seat about to get out & I see him in the mirror just looking like he's sick of it. I whipped my whole car around for that man. I'm telling you, Brad was going through it. She got out, basic Amy. Looking slobbish. I was weak😂 Lately, I been noticing a pattern of chicks who are rude but aren't even all that. Especially at work. I've had to check some female guests & coworkers. Not so much with the guys. It's been like a 1:8 ratio.

[@hanselito2416]

The modern woman is like genx guys when they were 18. They go to work, come home, and do do shit citing their work (which probably doesnt produce anything economically unlike the genx 18 year old).

[@williamchevalier2224]

I'm just above you in Kansas city and got to sing karaoke, eat barbeque, drink beer and made some new friends. It is a cool evening.

[@lakecityransom]

Scary to realize how programmed everyone is. A lot of people grew up with Disney as an example of how things should go instead of a real mentor. Unfortunately that leads to some soul-crushing results!

[@andrewmann4067]

It's Hollywood propaganda yes! But it's their parents and grandparents that threw marriage away and had/have multiple partners throughout the child's life. The family has been obliterated

[@TheVteX]

And at 35 years old I'm learning things that should have learned at 20 or less, I was raised with my mother and stepdad and this one dint really care about me and I understand why, now I'm focusing on myself, I really cant understand why women gets bored if they are well treated they show no empathy at least the ones I have crossed with.

[@LeeEverett1]

One thing I finally grasped is that it doesn't matter how good you treat a woman, if her feelings tell her otherwise she will drop you like nothing. As men when we catch feelings we invest alot of time, money, resources on a woman thinking that it builds some sort of rapport and that she'd be unlikely to leave us as long as we aren't toxic; truth is, NONE of it matters. It doesn't matter how many dates, experiences, trips, memories etc you've done with a woman; again she will drop you if her feelings tell her to.

[@bdsjr32]

And when she drops you, put all that hurt and rejection into the things that will make you a better man for someone better than her.

[@rodneyh1947]

Attraction is not a choice and it is not based on logic. This a fundamental law.

[@santieldasavage]

This is such a simple yet stern way to cut out the silly simp behavior thank you

[@mojoe6396]

damaged woemen don't appreciate men, good or bad.

[@daishan1234]

yeah, you can preach to men all you want, and you *should*, **BUT** the reality is that at this point, in america, and most of the western world, women are so damaged that there aren't enough quality women to go around. women's behavior has to be controlled (as does men's). we desperately *need* a functional patriarchy.

[@miladydewinter8551]

Entitled women don’t appreciate men.

[@bdsjr32]

This is really good stuff. A man must always be evaluating his purpose on the planet and seeking excellence in that pursuit. Without it, you will feel hollow inside. For 32 years, I did just that professionally before retiring. Finding the next purpose has been difficult but I will pursue it until I take the dirt nap. I think it’s what makes us a real man and grown heterosexual women seem to be attracted to real men.

[@travryger635]

So much wisdom and good advice in just a 15min. video. Every man should hear this and about the kind of man your coach was. It perfectly Illustrates what we should all be striving for.

[@krillansavillan]

I agree

[@primalstudies]

Be THAT guy 👍 💯

[@KristopherStidd]

Thank you for the video LFA. Damn this is good. 👍🏿🔥

[@nicholastracy4915]

Some of the realest shit. Proving yourself is actually veiled manipulation, because the desire to prove is a nice-guy people pleasing trait that inadvertently proves your secret self: passive-aggressive. By truly rocking out as a good, solid dude you will win.

[@LifeJourneyUnity]

Hands down best channel of this type I've seen! Good work and potentially life saving for some. Straight up talk and honest

[@straightdownthebarrel]

Yeah high test angry stocky guys of the 90's seemed to pull broads as they were so intense and high energy combined with confidence and passion.

[@BigG6179]

I recently started to just be flirtatious and be exciting. Shocker I got better results in text and woman saying they want to hang out. That was my missing link. The RP made me hyper analyitcial instead of displaying my positive up beat emotions. And yes, some woman are going to be annoying, you just move one.

[@JohannaWayne-es1el]

Thank you. Feelings are fleeting. What people do speaks volumes. What your coach did for that community earned respect by action.

[@indianastoned8234]

Honestly, best explanation of this discrepancy between what society says to do and what women actually want. Legit, thank you. Could not for the life of me figure this out.

[@blackwolverine1]

Those effin love songs, whether Power Ballads or R&B songs got many of us men effed up.

[@bdsjr32]

Especially since the guy singing the song is the one she fantasizes about.

[@zuhairreza]

It's nice to see you. Whenever I see/hear certain male KZbinrs - you included - I feel a bit more powerful and masculine, and therefore, a bit more confident in the way I am supposed to be in life. Thanks for it.

[@deekay12758]

Thank you for thinking so deeply, This message is making it clear for all men out there what is their actual position should be. We can now pick our best position (Exciting or Respectful) and improve life.

[@Jaapst]

Yeah man dated girl three months she liked me very much until I got feelings and it went wrong in 2 days lol

[@AndrewTheVikings]

That’s really good what you’re saying.

[@badgerproductions24]

I’m pretty much done with women or dating whatever it’s simplfyied my life so much tbh giving me time to focus on writing I don’t even know why we need em 😊

[@funkbros3141]

Yep

[@zacharynelson541]

This was a great video!!!

[@Ryan_Martin_Music]

Among Gs you are elite. Much Respect Brother!

[@Enricopoli78]

You're one of the coolest , wisest men I know of. Thank you brother

[@csselement]

The mistake is catching feelings in the first place. That's the woman's job.

[@edgarsoto2533]

Happen too me couple months ago never again for sure

[@SavageSanto]

Facts bro, feelings and emotions are for woman. Men are logical.

[@JoeKen3]

@@edgarsoto2533 It happened to all of us man.

[@RepentImmediately]

​@@SavageSantothis type of statement is one reason men are generally so emotionally messed up. In my opinion, emotional issues are what makes the vast majority of men undateable, regardless of purpose, income, height, etc. I know lots of driven, purposeful men and most of them have the emotional maturity of an adolescent. A lot of married women actually have very low standards and that's why they're married. My older brother, for example, is determined to see himself as a life-long victim and he's been married for 20 years. I don't respect him but somehow his wife does? I don't think she actually had another option. I've had grown men in their 50s, men in the upper echelons, flip out on me for challenging their perspectives. Men are generally highly emotional people who never learn to process and deal with their emotions in healthy ways. I finally met an emotionally grounded man last year and he's awesome. But I abstained from dating for 11 years before I met him because men are generally too much to deal with and for many men, their concept of love is a woman just tolerating their emotional foolishness forever.

[@hashh2019]

you guys are way immature - its all because of the lack of fathers and God in our lives. how come this is happening now n didn’t back in the day- because tv, media, bling, and out of marriage sex has corrupted it all. all this didn’t need to be taught about who should or should not catch feelings, how to act in love etc- things just flowed because people followed principles and morals. now it is a set of rules that ppl are trying to tweak for results- just follow God n leave selfishness and everything will follow.

[@daveo9844]

Awesome bro. Educating me one talk at a time 💪🏼

[@gmtully42]

Great video, very well put

[@jeffreyrothman3149]

Best red pill video I've ever seen...balanced message...idealistic but also realistic....great work man

[@jessebradford7130]

Great talk. The big issue, I believe is men get too comfortable. We need to be seen as driven, strong, no petty, on the run with life beings. You mix that with being loving, caring, there for her.... you're a drug! But it all has to be there. As men, it's true, we have more tension of being seen as attractive to women than they have of us seeing them attractive. To be seen manly and a kind badass at all times is fuckin hard! That's why single life is easier. But if you want marriage or a relationship, that thrives at least, there needs to be continuous strength and love simultaneously. Yeah, not easy. At least I don't think.

[@zuhairreza]

Everything you said in this video is SO true and important! Appreciate it.

[@kellylinda8678]

That is true… excitement and respect

[@TheSnoozeFox]

Its been 2 months and I still cannot let go I have gotten a better job, moved to a new place, made new friends and gotten new hobbies and I still constantly think about her, the thought of her with another man kils me and I know shes with someone else now who she actually treats well when she dismissed me like I was nothing after telling me how much she wanted to be with me and how safe she felt around me. Its actually traumatised me.

[@RepentImmediately]

You must master your mind and redirect thoughts every time you catch yourself thinking about her. It's very simple, but not necessarily easy.

[@gkauto1959]

I was there too years ago but Im not going to say just get over it. I found my way back to enjoying my own company through realizing I was deeply resentful of how she played me (just like your girl did you) and used me and threw me away, and deep down inside it pissed me off that I was so easy to use and had no self respect, and that translated into action; you are already on the right track but she has her hooks into you, and you think you cant get over it, but when you remember just how selfish she really turned out to be, how callous and cruel towards you, your feelings will turn to rooting out your deficiencies and dealing with them head on, now its time to see her as she really is, just another mercenary, looking to suck the resources out of you, and dont think for one moment that she'll treat the new guy any better, he'll get the same treatment and she move on to the next, etc. Face your fears about yourself and you will find out that you are really a good man, and she's just the reactant to start you on your personal journey. She wont change and will trigger depression in every guy she meets! But to waste your day away thinking about how much you miss her is really just allowing others to shit on you, and its time to appreciate your good qualities while not forgetting her awful manipulations that cause you all this grief. You will recover, it wont be easy or quick but it will give you yourself back and its time you remember that!!

[@TheSnoozeFox]

@@gkauto1959 Thank you for this, she is now trying to contact me again going off about how depressed she is but all her actions say otherwise, I will not fall for this again.

[@onceagaindc]

Your mind is lieing to you thats why. The mind will convince itself that shes having a killer time. One mans trash, is another mans problem. The guy shes with now has to deal with her baggage now the same way you did . One day you will die. It can even have been today. Clear your mind, the truth is , you were better off without her. Breathe. Pray. And live. It will all be over soon

[@chrisw7347]

She. Is. Not. Worthy. Of . YOU.

[@kthx1138]

I'm LOOKING for a deeper, more heartfelt purpose than just chasing the bucks or visual beauty. At this point, it's just being a loving, crazy uncle to my nieces and nephews. I'd make a wonderful husband and dad too.

[@RepentImmediately]

Adopt a teenager out of the foster system and help them get a good start into adulthood.

[@globalx6051]

Even if you don’t like people, you still need to communicate. You may not like them today, but later on as you grow you may change your mind set and you become in agreement with what you didn’t agree on before so Chill out! Living the rest of your life because you haven’t found the right partner will not provide stability inside of you ever. Doesn’t matter you are rich or poor. Stay strong 💪 Human are wonderful 🎉

[@cyberfist6568]

I find it helpful to accept i don't have much to offer in terms of admiration. Working, doing what i want, and committing to a religious life is not going to turn heads, and I'm not very willing to do more than that. It is what it is.

[@mikecornell5604]

Good stuff

[@quantumfineartsandfossils2152]

7:30 + "& he was about to change her sons life right?" awwww just gold angels, angel work :}*

[@svilenivanov3621]

Wise man, respect!

[@agentfifteen]

When I first saw your thumbnail, jacked dude with sunglasses, I thought this was gonna be super superficial but from the moment you started talking i knew you were a real one. Great video, and I completely agree it’s definitely all about being a high quality man for yourself with good intentions and sense of purpose in order to make a high quality woman interested in you. Thanks for the advice KING 👑

[@mikepaul396]

great story. thank you

[@SR-hf3hx]

I rarely if ever get caught in an position of feeling something....im 38, only once has it happened until last week...the first time I spent years with the woman. So this is new to me, I came here having my own answers just say to hell with it. But when you spend you whole life worrying about surviving, bills etc. there's not time for this stuff and when it happens you get caught slipping

[@brianbachmeier34]

We're all gonna make it brazzz

[@bas1171]

By coincidence ran into this video, very informative and enlightening, straight to the point and no bullshit. Great video thanks man!

[@mvp77MX]

Another great video LFA .. simple and clear , not like all the red pill bs .. thanks for sharing these thought’s … excitement is the first part , but respect and admiration is built over time with consistency and courage. Saludos desde Mexico

[@MaryAnnMaher]

I really believe that the sexiest thing a man can do to attract a genuine woman and a genuine, deep relationship is to want to share who he is and really want to know her. That provides a continuing experience where they can walk, hand in hand, through life exploring each other as they explore each day in the future.

[@gregorverstraelen3347]

Is this a Clint Eastwood version of Rich Coopers videos…?! 😂😂😂

[@JeffRamblin]

I search for sources of power everyday , I'm never disappointed

[@varislizbovskis]

I am glad to see your channel growing over 100k it took long time but your channel is one of few manosphere channels I'm stil watching. You have valid information.

[@quantumfineartsandfossils2152]

13:21 "respect & admiration is at the back end it is what really matters" yes the wolf bond, she probably treated him super well & it was easy for her & he knew that & wanted that it was easy for him to treat her well just based off of that chemistry work & knows how rare that is so he kept her glowing & that energy spread into the whole community

[@johnhanson4795]

love yor intelligence on the subject it all makes sense!

[@idolbass]

Thanks for the heads up on that attitude put me back on track.

[@geoffreylane5606]

You are giving these men very good advice right here keep it up. You have to have a real purpose in life. A purpose in life could be helping people during the coming events that are going to happen in the near future.

[@Zone_Stomper]

Subscribed earlier today. You're probably the most intelligent KZbinr that I've ever listened to. Keep it up. You're doing good work here.

[@Pazuzu-]

The biggest mistake is to have feelings.

[@LetsGoforDabash]

That's literally female logic U r a human being. U will feel emotions n the feelings are outcome The logical way is to acknowledge the difference between wrong n right Because feelings comes n goes

[@Pazuzu-]

@@LetsGoforDabash thats cute.

[@scowlsmcjowls2626]

Be distinguished and if someone puts you down dont f..i.n take it

[@quantumfineartsandfossils2152]

11:40+ yes respect is the language that builds life satisfaction & meaning with the tools that you work hard for the tools alone are nothing without respect respect cannot be fake in any venture or it will fly in our face

[@colinsweller]

Great video. I never encountered anyone like the man you described...Im striving to be like him

[@milesarcher735]

The truth stated here is often easy to forget

[@SeanRussell-r1z]

So easy…

[@Tyler-wl8kq]

I absolutely unequivocally LOVE this video, all facts purpose out does looks all day long for women, respect is where it’s at ! 💯

[@zandig666]

Im guilty resently she gave me the silent treatment and i fkn walked it was hard really but its about your frame and standards men

[@xthemidnightspirit]

Very interesting analysis this time, well done.

[@endofus]

She's not playin me, we were eating at Taco Bell

[@SeanRussell-r1z]

Nice

[@muhammadbellaftouh5802]

Still too much in my opinion

[@Ciclopea2]

“If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things”- Albert Einstein.

[@quantumfineartsandfossils2152]

13:00+ yes "none of that means anything" mutual "respect" is how inspired by each other they inspire everyone else too passively discreetly & directly like your mentor friend & his core life experience with his partner & daughter spreading the self respect & the mutual respect to weave it into life gold & life satisfaction & health

[@tuinov6286]

Women don't respect anything stop yapping.

[@DamianBrownie]

Once you truly understand women, you will never ever are able to love them anymore

[@heavymetal3256]

Got this reality check at 26 approximately. I'm 43 and never "loved" another woman again. It's impossible when you truly know female nature.

[@OldSchoolStrength]

facts

[@FabianLimYT]

can you explain your reasoning?

[@Weezyfan0306]

@@FabianLimYTthey are incapable of genuine unwavering love

[@FabianLimYT]

​@@Weezyfan0306 could you give me an example? it's sad to hear that you guys have so little faith in women when you're likely just attracting the wrong (toxic) types

[@MichaelDeFillippo8889]

I genuinely would love to hear LFA just start with "snap into a slim jim !!".

[@azizbenromdhane6933]

Dear LFA, I am 23 yo men I workout 4 times a week I study in a prestigious business school in Paris and next year I will get my first internship in corporate finance. My Life is starting to get shaped, for now I do not have a lot of money and 80% of it goes into my nutrition. This year I cut binge drinking and going to parties. I wanted to know what advice would you give me to stay in this mentality and stick to my routine untill 30’s. The goal is at that age I will gain money and maturity.

[@mohamednadir8851]

Thank you bro

[@weskerEverKnight]

Thank you bro! ⚡👊⚡👍

[@dvo84]

I would teach this to my son 😊❤👍

[@Thatdude64317]

That line about fighting for a ladies honor and another man getting up on her has me cracking up 😂. Great video as always! You should do a video on LFA Powerhouse about your current nutrition plan and supplement regimen!

[@northa3617]

As a woman this video is so sad to watch. Because Women DO fall in love with you based on how you make them feel, how you feel about them and how you treat them, and that in itself affects how attracted they are to you. Ofc there needs to be compatibility, like humor, physical (if you're both active or inactive), cultures, communication styles etc.. And most importantly is there an emotional connection there, and has the guy embraced his inner child and let go of all the shame related to having feelings outside of rage. Please allow yourselves to feel guys, there is a woman out there that is your match. But in order to have a healthy relationship, you need to first create that with yourself, and more often than not that's doing attachment focused therapy, and figuring out what makes it so hard to connect in the first place. Much love to the creator of this video and anyone reading this

[@LFA]

What do you think about polarity theory?

[@horizon8529]

I am woman and what you say is total bullshit

[@tamaraye7110]

Women fall in love according to how you make them feel at the end it still falls on how she feels “She “ not him it’s all about her own feelings

[@endurance_pilot]

That's the ONE key to happiness 😪

[@stevekostakis2983]

LFA…100% on point. That’s how I originally met my wife

[@codeman9145]

Best video he’s ever done

[@JonathanMartinez-kv1eb]

Thank you LFA

[@stevewarner6621]

Thanks brother!

[@riverat7558]

You boys better think about money. And how to get it invested. Because when you get old nothing else is going to matter.

[@prussiansocietyofamerica]

At some point, even hyperinflation will wipe all that away and people's money won't be worth a darn thing.

[@kthx1138]

Yep, and even providing a comfortable home for love to flourish requires a lot of money.

[@kthx1138]

"They", global elites, are trying to seize control over all our accounts, tell us what to buy and how much to spend, so we will "own nothing and be happy".

[@garnetdavey8776]

If your bank goes under, guess what happeneds to your money?

[@KK-sg5gl]

These are all reasons why bitcoin exists. Don’t believe me? Good luck in the future if you don’t…

[@crackinlackin6189]

@LFA yo man sweet haircut, but hope you're doing well man. Missed your live shows to watch

[@Tcha1k0vsky]

Great video, you made some good points. But @brianmeen2158 also made a very good point. He said "Good luck trying to keep that respect over the course of 30-40 years ." in response to @MidwestMoney pointing out that "Once the respect is gone it's over" which I also agree with. Once the respect is gone she's off looking (and trying) other options behind your back, as we all know (most) women are guided primarily by emotions, some rare exceptions at times where it's more balanced but we can't think based off of what is most unlikely to happen. Maybe you can do a video on that, this issue with many (not all but maybe the rare ones not in this group are the only ones worth a man's time) women where they seem to need you to constantly do more and do new things with them to keep them interested and maintain that respect beyond having a purpose. Because there are various forms of respect. And I'm sure you've heard the phrase "spicing things up in the relationship" a fairly common complaint from women, likely due to men becoming complacent in life, same old thing every day in the household, which to the average man is totally fine but the woman is quickly getting bored of the relationship. And many women themselves will proudly admit that they have short attention spans ("I get distracted easily" etc) to make matters worse, it just seems to last longer in a relationship in an effort to salvage the relationship, some emotional connection still there. Because while listening to this video and reflecting on the many instances I've observed of married women cheating on guys even though the guy seemed to be 'on his purpose', they get married and he gets cheated on down the line. For example I've seen even cops getting cheated on, the people you would think most women would respect the most. They're protecting the community and whatnot, definitely something admirable and respectable, meanwhile his wife is cheating on him when he's at work, this unfolded on KZbin right before my eyes. And that's just one of many examples, we hear it with even "celebrities" and other very successful people all the time. And if not cheating, the relationship/marriage just doesn't last that long, marriages lasting 30+ years are a rarity including ones where the man is 'on his purpose'. And I think this may have a lot to do with the woman not having respect for the man in other ways even though he originally excited her and has always been on his purpose. But you can let me know what you think, this is me just brainstorming and theorizing based off of what I'm observing in the world. Could make for a great video but obviously these things can be very complicated with women. EDIT: I just noticed what @brundamian5338 said which is " Once you truly understand women, you will never ever are able to love them anymore". And this is pretty much what I'm starting to realize as well. Because women are like cats, they'll be interested for a moment, could be a couple years but then they get sick of being around the guy for so much of her life. Same way a cat might want a little attention from you for a moment then they just want to jump off of you and run away and do their own thing. Then the emotions come into play, feeling negative emotions with you due to being around you too much, they run off to wherever, to 'have some space' from you, meet a guy who is now creating positive emotions for her and cheating happens easily this way. This is not all but definitely going to be the majority. So relationships, at least in America where the attention spans are so very short these days, are seeming to be pointless. Unless you get lucky and find one of the very rare ones who are the total opposite of this.

[@Skyhigh275]

Put the T-shirt link please.. it’s simple and cool.

[@MX-CO]

It's not the shirt it's him. Of course, he pulls chicks easily

[@LFA]

The link is in the description. into the am

[@StrongBodymindandspirit]

Hell nah I made my heart as cold as ice years ago. Never come back to a lovey dovey romantic. Been getting mad 🐈 ever since

[@George10s]

This was geared more for marriage and long term relationships

[@jlakra5729]

You can't be getting diff 🐱 all your life and call that a life

[@StrongBodymindandspirit]

@@jlakra5729 keeps things interesting

[@kthx1138]

Getting mad all the time ain't no good either. Be loving, but measured in your love, back away when it's clear, obvious you're being used for money, a taxi service and/or other favors.

[@StrongBodymindandspirit]

@@kthx1138 I always love unconditionally, the key is to not get attached 😉

[@rosamoreno4794]

Guys, if you have bad teeth and or poor oral health, that is your # 1 priority to fix and go see a dentist on a regular basis or you will always scare the women away no matter what. Then start working on yourself: heal trauma, clean up your diet and exercise and hydrate, get on a simple skin care routine, grow as a person for yourself first. If you have insurance/dental insurance and a wage, you have to prioritize those dental cost over dumb “stuff” such as smoking, gaming, and so on. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@tuinov6286]

How will you become a virgin again? Explain that for us.

[@rosamoreno4794]

@@tuinov6286 sir, you if you are not a virgin at your age you will not get a virgin. 🤦🏻‍♀️🥜 Plus with your grooming and oral habits, the only way you will get a younger virgin girl is a girl with some mental health problems or with the same traumas you have. You can “try” putting women down all you want but you fleaMales lose testosterone and sperm every year just like how women lose, we are all on the damn SAME boat. Buy a dog 🐶

[@terick7388]

​@@tuinov6286ur wild bro 😆😆😆

[@deagor4578]

Back to the kitchen

[@rosamoreno4794]

@stevo6891 you must have fallen and hit your head but most women bathe and groom. Just stay away from unhorsed women or women during the monthly menstrual cycle. I imagine women just stay away from YOU in general from how you type. You are the common denominator. 🤷🏻‍♀️ RIP 🪦 Buy a dog!