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The Birth Story of Lumi Ryze

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Veladya Organica

Veladya Organica

Күн бұрын

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@veladyaorganica
@veladyaorganica Ай бұрын
welp, story is out. and now it's time to get back to youtube posting every week. what do you want to see first?
@freetheflower1749
@freetheflower1749 Ай бұрын
The garden!
@jasirahsayyad8499
@jasirahsayyad8499 Ай бұрын
Day in the life are my favorites, along with nutrition and exercise
@Ky.arazier
@Ky.arazier Ай бұрын
Motherhood tips, the difficulties and sources that have helped you and Matt as parents of two! 🫶🏾
@smartsavvyandloved2095
@smartsavvyandloved2095 Ай бұрын
The garden.
@gabrielle5213
@gabrielle5213 Ай бұрын
Updated list of favorite herbs/ natural supplements routine to promote overall health and wellness !
@dearklove
@dearklove Ай бұрын
Welcome backkkk ❤ Matt is giving mature dad vibes lol
@electricbeing993
@electricbeing993 Ай бұрын
Lol, I noticed that too. I like jt
@lifeofmim
@lifeofmim Ай бұрын
I love the mature energy Matt is exuding. Beautiful family and congratulations
@NerissaTuti
@NerissaTuti Ай бұрын
💙💙💙 So happy you shared this story.💚
@janeeaiken9138
@janeeaiken9138 Ай бұрын
As a birth-worker, I'm sooo grateful for your vulnerability. It is so validating to hear the nuances of labor and birth. The way you balanced your spiritual understanding and then the practicality of it all was really humbling and it made me think of myself in various situations and moments. My favorite part is when you said "maybe my cells knew i'd feel safer here..." was a powerful ass statement. You are a healer Veladya, I've been a supporter for a long time and just by sharing your truths, you're healing so much for us all. Thank you! And shoutout to Matt, you're a real one!
@veladyaorganica
@veladyaorganica Ай бұрын
I'm sorry about the video quality, ya'll. I tried something new and it messed up the quality. :( never again! hope you just listened to this like it was a podcast hehe
@millerlena2208
@millerlena2208 Ай бұрын
Video is fine how it is
@beyoutifullynatural9451
@beyoutifullynatural9451 Ай бұрын
We here however y’all come!
@arlenem521
@arlenem521 Ай бұрын
I thought it was my phone lol 😅 girl I watched the whole thing glad to see yall back it’s been a MINUTE! 🎉❤
@ilovemytribe
@ilovemytribe Ай бұрын
Love Matt's hair
@lisasiawild5816
@lisasiawild5816 Ай бұрын
What the world really needs right now is nuance. Living in either extreme is always far from the truth. Thank you for integrating and sharing your truth, this is the way forward. Not avoiding or thinking we can bulldoze the things we don’t like to the ground and live a utopia tomorrow. Integration and holding the complexity is key.
@patriciaferrer3935
@patriciaferrer3935 Ай бұрын
This is true
@muminahq
@muminahq Ай бұрын
Love this comment ~ indeed ❤
@cicada.k
@cicada.k Ай бұрын
As a midwife I just want to say thank you for listening to yourself, your body, and your baby. There are so many factors that go into birth that unfortunately the free birth community doesn’t consider that we all need different things physiologically, mentally and spiritually
@BohemianHealingCo
@BohemianHealingCo Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this story! It is so reminiscent of what I experienced with my birth. I took the courses, had the freebirth hippie friends, and still chose the hospital after 3 days laboring at home. Took the epidural and felt inferior or ashamed for quite awhile. Told myself if my labor was shorter it would have ended differently for me. Its been 2.5 years and I still think about the what ifs, but stories like yours help me own mine and I am grateful! 💕
@pineandginga
@pineandginga Ай бұрын
Lumi Ryze is absolutely gorgeous! Velayda, you are stunning, and Matt, this change looks so good on you! Beautiful family! So inspiring and validating, thank you for sharing.
@mahrysa12
@mahrysa12 Ай бұрын
Ugh, I’m so sorry mama. My heart is sad you didn’t get the birth you desired. Hearing how they treated Lumi after she was born, my gosh. All the feels, I was over here tearing up. Every single feeling you have surrounding this is VALID.
@traceymohan9915
@traceymohan9915 Ай бұрын
Ya'll look gooood .Congratulations on the new baby .
@itsflorahmonae
@itsflorahmonae Ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤ Even baby, the whole family is glowing
@RT22444
@RT22444 Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing!!!! Been waiting for this. This story is such a great example of the importance of doulas and midwives! I hear in almost every birth story the moment of “this is so hard, I’m so scared, I can’t do this anymore” and the doula steps in and helps mamma push thru. I wish you had that but I’m glad everyone is here healthy and happy!
@TheHeartXCrownConnection
@TheHeartXCrownConnection Ай бұрын
In reference to feeling safer at the hospital on a cellular level let me say this… As indigenous/women of color we have centuries of free birthing BUT we also have centuries of putting our births in the hands of others (forcibly and on our own accord). I say this to say some of our deep inclinations do not even come from us but they manifest through us. Our lineage is not just warrior women stories we have stories of vulnerability and “weakness” and guess what THATS DIVINE. Those stories are how we transmute pain and learn to be so so understanding of others. Sometimes we go through the shame to reveal to others how to heal from it. Beautiful family, beautiful story ❤.
@rachelstarkk
@rachelstarkk Ай бұрын
Your honesty and vulnerability at the end about your feelings was so comforting and resonating❤️thank you for that. I have a 3 month old and had a very similar birth story, shoulder dystocia ect. Solidarity ❤️
@bajacowgirl3228
@bajacowgirl3228 Ай бұрын
Glad to see you guys back! You are all looking good. Give yourselves some grace. Births never completely go according to plan. To think you can "plan" a birth is setting yourself up for failure. There is NO SHAME. A healthy baby and a safe birth is the PLAN!
@maraw888
@maraw888 Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this! I’m a doula who supports mainly home births and there I birthed my daughter - tried to at home - I ended up going to the hospital for an epidural only for pain relief and sleep after a long labour - and really relate to the feelings you went through it just feeling I can’t do this anymore. And I struggled to accept that was a part of my birth story. Thank you so much for sharing. Also love how supportive and together you and Matt are in all this. Beautiful to see your evolution as a couple and family.
@hello_mamalark
@hello_mamalark Ай бұрын
Veladya! So much honesty, humility, love, opennes and authenicity. Thank you. So much of my two birth stories share sooo many similarities to yours. I appreciate you sharing. Love you and yours.
@organicallyme
@organicallyme Ай бұрын
Veladya, you are a human! it is a painful process to bring a human to earth side! I know you have healed this experience already but if I could just say to you that you did what was best for you and your daughter!
@Blissfuljourney_
@Blissfuljourney_ Ай бұрын
Glad to have you all back and Matt love the new hair!! It fits you!!
@millennialauntiejess7177
@millennialauntiejess7177 Ай бұрын
The moment we have all been waiting for ❤❤❤
@yinflower10
@yinflower10 Ай бұрын
thank you so much for your transparency! the personal reflection shows and it's really encouraging. thinking about your comment around women's festivals and your epidural story being perceived a certain way - we've got to be able to hold nuance, and anyone who would be shaming you for your experiences would have a lottttt of personal reflection to do as well. i also struggle with optics but life rlly just be unexpected sometimes and a lot of the hills we're willing to die on end up holding huge mirrors up to us. been watching your channel since the beginning and it's just so healing to watch you come more and more into your power.
@feelsbyfatima
@feelsbyfatima Ай бұрын
You guys, from the bottom of my heart thank you so so so much for posting this. I have a similar ish story with my last baby and listening to your experience, thought process and healing journey was so healing to me. Matt had me in tearsssssss at the end of the video when he’s basically saying that if you had an epidural or things didn’t work out the way you planned them, you’re “not less than.” That touched my soul. Thank you guys for sharing such a vulnerable experience so transparently. I needed this. Thank you 🙏🏾 💜💕
@Not_again
@Not_again Ай бұрын
Lumi is giving me baby fever. Sooo glad to see u back, V. I appreciate the vulnerability about shame. I feel like that about stuff, and I'm not even a youtuber. Matt's hair is giving "zaddy" ❤. Looking forward to more content! P.S. What in the Mandela effect is going on, I could have sworn we already saw a birth video for Lumi and knew u eventually went to the hospital...
@satyaboo7670
@satyaboo7670 Ай бұрын
We all hit that point where we think we are gonna die! You did so good Veladya ❤
@sunshineand
@sunshineand Ай бұрын
Right my brain had me thinking the worst!
@mamimelusine
@mamimelusine Ай бұрын
Oh my goodness I remember so well. I remember thinking one good time, “there is no going back, I get this baby out or I don’t make it.” And then I did it. Birth is something else, just a magnificent moment. No matter how it happens.
@Ky.arazier
@Ky.arazier Ай бұрын
Gave birth in August this year & I will never forget about just letting my body do what it naturally does. No tensing and just remaining noodle like and it helped sooo much ! So glad you’re back to KZbin! You have helped me grow so much, before pregnancy and through motherhood as well THANK YOU GUYS !!❤
@ablacksquare
@ablacksquare Ай бұрын
It is so nice to see y’all again. I respect your decision to wait to tell the story when it felt right. Despite your intentional planning, research, and efforts, yall birthed a beautiful healthy bambina. There are so many wonderful elements to this story and your journey!!! Your mom and Aura were there. Though we have never met it felt like hearing from old friends. Been watching y’all since Van life, NYC, etc. (I have a lot of perspectives on why y’all were treated that way in the hospital but imma keep it lovely and fresh). They did what protocol dictated. Your love is powerfull enough to grow beyond this experience. She lifted her arm! lol my favorite part. Stay blessed y’all.
@cassaroll-80
@cassaroll-80 Ай бұрын
I love how honest you are with your self. I feel like that is the most important thing now a days. Erykah Badu was just talking about the " audience" right now is so quick to judge and spit hate on artists in this modern time. I couldn't agree more. I feel authenticity is truly the most important thing, and you are very genuine. Peace and love. You two are amazing and thank you for sharing so vulnerably.
@baileehenson1106
@baileehenson1106 Ай бұрын
I've followed you guys for a long time and I of course love and admire your spirituality and connection to nature- but I became a mom around the same time you did and my absolute favorite thing is just to watch y'all be human parents. The toys, the treats the things that kids like.. navigating and reevaluating things like school and activities for them.. accepting that life often doesn't go as planned. It's beautiful. Since becoming a mom I've just realized that connection with my spirit can be found in just simply being a human navigating parenting in the year 2024. It's divine and colorful and messy and almost never goes the way you thought it would. ❤️
@exveganbadgal
@exveganbadgal Ай бұрын
Thank you for this! Totally agree. I needed tje reminder ❤ Parenting is enough!
@Siayya
@Siayya Ай бұрын
Lumi is a good mix of the both of you. She definitely is V and V mother twin. I really appreciate you guys sharing her birth story and thank you Matt for your encouragement 💜
@dianagg1800
@dianagg1800 Ай бұрын
I think one of the things I have learned as a parent is that some things never go as planned and we cant shame ourselves because spirit would never want that. Spirit is here to help us feel vulnerable and raw and really shows us how complex human life is, all we can do is surrender. Sometimes surrendering doesnt feel all too good but I think that is ego ~ which is okay too, we are human. Its all a learning experience, and we are always walking each other home even though we forget sometimes, thank you for sharing your story. Lumi is already teaching you so much, your lil twin 💜 I hope you have been giving yourself extra love lately, blessings to you and your family! 💓
@holistichearts
@holistichearts Ай бұрын
You all look amazingly healthy & happy ❤ Wishing you and your family many blessings & love ❤
@sunii275
@sunii275 Ай бұрын
My story was quite similar.. and I had so much shame, anger, and deep sadness around my birth not being the way I wanted it to be. I am so proud of you for being so open and vulnerable, that takes deep courage. This was my mantra as well, It couldn't have happened any other way, because it happened this way. Blessing to you and your beautiful family mama. Y'all are loved.
@nixerone5954
@nixerone5954 Ай бұрын
The way I cried hearing your story as if you were my daughter shows how connected mankind is…. All these feelings- anger, sadness, joy, resentment, judgement, care, empathy, my goodness girl!!!! Thank you for sharing your story!! She looks like you!!! I pray you and your family continue to heal from all of it 🙏🏽💝🙏🏽💝🙏🏽💝
@DisneyHalll
@DisneyHalll Ай бұрын
V! You have been my internet twin for so long in my head lol this video made me cry. I’m sure you already know, but sharing this is freeing to so many of us who have the same mentality as you do, but now through your story we know we have to remain open to change even with our “plans” and set beliefs about how things should go. The wisdom is you birthed two beautiful baby girls, who are going to do amazing things in this world. Your journey and initiation to motherhood is truly admirable. Your vulnerability, accountability and acceptance is your super power. Sending you even more happiness and joy. Be proud mama. Thank you for sharing!
@honeydipli
@honeydipli Ай бұрын
thank you for your transparency and humility
@RavenAllen216
@RavenAllen216 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this candid share of your birth story. I had a birth back in May that totally didn’t go as plan. Just now getting to a place of release. As a Birthworker and traditional student midwife it has been a real challenge to come to grips with the reality of my birth story. Birth is so powerful. When we can claim our individual birth story we become empowered. Appreciate you! Again thanks for sharing your real and raw truth ❤
@TunisiaNicole
@TunisiaNicole Ай бұрын
thank you for sharing Veladya! very brave of you to be so transparent with your journey + experience!
@Dez112
@Dez112 Ай бұрын
Love y’all so much!!! Such a beautiful family ❤❤❤
@tennamossin9554
@tennamossin9554 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing both of you. Veladya, this is the healing work and message of healing being passed on. I had a long first birth myself and sitting here watching being closing in on my second birth I know I have to sit with the fear and integration of having another multiple day birth. The trauma, the shame and the raw anger is honestly so beautiful and healing to witness and will help me and others integrate similar feelings and experiences. You don’t need to be anything other than yourself and that will be the most insta-worthy and inspirational content to share. Much love to you all.
@nikkolyn1122
@nikkolyn1122 Ай бұрын
Sending so many prayers for your birthing experience. I pray that it is healing for you and that you are nourished held and cared for. And that your baby comes with immense light and love ❤
@beyondinfinitemystic
@beyondinfinitemystic 19 күн бұрын
First of all I wanna congratulate you on how much courage it took to express this story and be in your honesty of your experience. You did so great! You pushed through to your limit, and when you hit your limit you looked to your partner and wasn't to afraid or ashamed to take the next steps twords what you needed. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Amazing. Second, I'm gonna up you even more for being so shameless in the face of those doctors when expressing how you didn't need their services. Also getting out what you could about the information you did know about your pregnancy. Third I wanna express how beautiful it is to witness the love and support provided by Matt during this entire process even in the story telling and promotion of your products lol. He did so great in his birth support it's clear he did everything he could and he did it with so much love. Just seeing him look at you is so amazing. Ik it's such a blessing to have that love, and it's such a blessing to see. I wish nothing but blessings and strength in for your family. From a mother of three natural births, two home births, one free birth. You did Amazing!! You deserve all the praise. Never again feel anything close to shame about this experience. It's just as beautiful as any other.🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻
@TaiJ-Aird
@TaiJ-Aird Ай бұрын
That is mommy's twin!!❤🎉❤ Congratulations on bringing such a beautiful light into this world! You are an amazing soul and no one couldve birthed this baby but you she is the gift you brought to this world no matter how she got here!!! Enjoy your amazing family we luv you!!!!
@HoneySnowflake
@HoneySnowflake Ай бұрын
1000% can relate to your realization of not meeting your expectations with birth. It's a hard but freeing truth when you accept the beauty in your rewritten story ❤
@TheGoddamazon
@TheGoddamazon Ай бұрын
This was such a beautiful and vulnerable story. I love that you were open about the shame because you didn't meet your own expectations but you shouldn't feel ashamed for doing what you felt you needed to do to be certain your daughter came into this world safely. Your being honest about the birthing process both in the wild and in a hospital alone is a testament to your authenticity of Self. Comparison is the thief of joy. Proud of you, and glad to have you back in the KZbin space! Such a beautiful and inspiring family.
@marleymars
@marleymars Ай бұрын
Thank you dearly for this vulnerable video. I had a similar experience with the hospital, hearing your story deeply resonated with me. Your words are very healing to the pain and experience, your courage is comforting&inspiring. Big appreciation for sharing your life in the most authentic way. It has been beautiful to watch your family grow from van life till now. I wish you more grace, healing and expansion on this journey 💗
@mckennasee
@mckennasee Ай бұрын
Nearly a year ago you introduced me to freebirth while I was pregnant with my first and planning on homebirthing with a midwife. Instead I birthed undisturbed with only my partner present. You started a domino and my life is forever different!
@ArubaRedOfficial
@ArubaRedOfficial Ай бұрын
So much love and I’m so sorry ❤ I hope realistic 2-3 day labours are normalised, 4-6 hour births, even 12 hours are so rare! Also birth keepers, pls always arrange a backup who the mother also gets to know and feels comfortable with and trusts, this really is a must 🙏🏼 having someone hold space during transition can be so very important for so many women ❤ and also all the fear release work!! Sending so much healing sweet Mama ✨
@LadyNique
@LadyNique Ай бұрын
I always appreciate yours and Matt's transparency. Thank you for sharing. Congratulations on conquering a deep and confrontational birthing journey. Keep up the awesome vibes!💜
@imlookinguptospirit1455
@imlookinguptospirit1455 Ай бұрын
Wow. I’m so happy to see y’all. So proud of you for being honest. So glad y’all reconnected. So so so happy. Literally stopping myself from crying because I gotta go somewhere. But y’all give me HOPE. For love and autonomy and authenticity. THANK YOU.
@msadviceisnice
@msadviceisnice Ай бұрын
Welcome back and thank you so much for sharing your birth story of your beautiful baby girl! I too have had to do a lot of work around healing, shame, disappointment, anger, and just a overall feeling of being hurt by what I thought would be versus what came to be as a relates to birthing our baby. Thank you so much for, your bravery in sharing your story.
@kimaroo82
@kimaroo82 Ай бұрын
This video has validated SO much for me in my birthing experience with my daughter. It definitely did not go as planned and that’s ok. Thank you for sharing. It’s such a vulnerable space to be in and means a lot. 💕🥰
@EllaSol-v5s
@EllaSol-v5s Ай бұрын
Veladya, your way of being with your "weaknesses" or should I rather say vulnerabilities, makes you so strong! It's so inspiring and encouraging to be exposed to your raw humaness. Im so touched by your story. Thank U for being U
@2SexySoulSister
@2SexySoulSister Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. I'm currently 5 months pregnant and thinking about soooo many decisions on how I should have my gift. This video really was able to calm my mind and give me a sense of peace on things. I love the love. Thank you and your beautiful family for all the gifts/ blessings y'all bring us.
@TheMedicineWomen
@TheMedicineWomen Ай бұрын
Wow mama !! Welcome back and thank you so much for sharing this. I did not have the experience I desired when my baby girl was born and went through all the emotions. You did amazing !!❤❤
@joyceinbloom
@joyceinbloom Ай бұрын
Welcome back! ❤ I’ve definitely missed you all! It’s so great to see you and hear the story of Lumi Ryze! 💫
@HomesteadFarms
@HomesteadFarms Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing even if it wasn’t the moments you had imagined. Held some tears and validation as I related very closely with my thoughts and experience birthing my first this year.
@_divinemama
@_divinemama Ай бұрын
Congratulations on little Lumi! 💕 I pray for your healing regarding your birth. You’re amazing regardless.
@lovelyrocky24
@lovelyrocky24 Ай бұрын
What a beautiful story. It was really vulnerable and raw to witness such blatant honesty with yourself. It’s beautiful. It’s honest. And it’s something we can all relate to (plans going differently, ideas of who we want to be/ who we are being shattered). I’m grateful for you sharing!
@breakfree2154
@breakfree2154 Ай бұрын
Now when your husband says "Everything happened as it should happen" you can see the validity. The Universe gave you a way to see who you are now. No shame in wanting to be a certain way. No shame in finding out you're not that now. We all have to tame the Ego. Choose to stay as you are or develop the skills that let you alchemize into who you want. Life is a learning process All are lessons. NO Shame in learning the lessons of life and no Pride either Thank you for being who you are. We love you both and learn from you sharing your experience. Conscious expansion is the Goal
@roseinthedesert3911
@roseinthedesert3911 Ай бұрын
My baby is 12 days old and I really wanted a pain free homebirth (with my midwife) and that is NOT what I got, like if I could have been airlifted out of there I would have😂 it was so much harder than my last natural birth and I initially felt ashamed and embarrassed by it because I feel like the free birth community and all the other pain free birth communities blame you for not “getting there” mentally but I realized it was exactly the birth I needed and it was still badass. Thank you for sharing your story Mama and your journey to understanding it’s worth!!
@ShonteiRobin
@ShonteiRobin Ай бұрын
back again.. thank you for sharing and being completely open about the shame.. i really LOVE that you spoke into that..Honouring you, your experience and your birth story
@kiluvv
@kiluvv Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing mama, we always appreciate your transparency and story telling. Matt hit it on the head with mentioning that you are a healer to the world by even just sharing your truth ♐️👑 more love to your family and more life always!!!
@sallykaymills1007
@sallykaymills1007 Ай бұрын
Oh Veladya, I hope you read this... thank you for sharing your story as I had my first shortly after you had Auora and I'm now possibly pregnant with my second. Our stories are very similar and I am beyond grateful for your wisdom and courage to share your true story. You have been a bright light in my life ever since I found your earth mama medicine channel. I am so proud of you!!! You glow and are an amazing Momma!!! Thank you for all that you are. I needed your testimony as it is going to help my future "plans." ❤
@jenniferluersen8625
@jenniferluersen8625 Ай бұрын
Wow! I don’t think you realize how relatable this is. I can’t thank you enough for sharing! I have an eight month old baby. He was born February 22 and he is my first. I went through something very similar. I wanted to have an unmediated birth, birth at home for as long as possible, have such a raw and beautiful empowering experience, and it felt nothing like that at all. I felt like I was preparing for the buildup of this moment for months and months and months, educating myself, working on my mindset, reassuring myself that I was designed to do this and me and my baby were going to have the most wonderful natural experience. My water broke, and they instantly scared me into being induced I had Pitocin, which hurt like a bitch and wanted the epidural, which made me feel shameful like I wasn’t strong enough. When my son was born, they cut the cord against my wishes and took him away to be checked on and I just couldn’t understand why they couldn’t check on him on my chest or why they had to cut the cord when he was obviously OK When you mentioned that you feltrobbed from meeting her for that first time and had this beautiful image of it that was just ripped away I literally started sobbing. later, I still am processing the grief and trauma of his birth. I still have his placenta in my freezer lol because I want to do something special with it like bury it a beautiful ceremony with my family, but I literally have shut my brain off from thinking about that experience because it hurts my heart so bad. I finally feel like I’m ready to process this resentment and grief and move to acceptance. Sorry about the TEDTalk lol I say all this to thank you again for sharing your story and being vulnerable because I know it’s not easy. birthing the humans of the world is not easy!
@BySheridanScifres
@BySheridanScifres Ай бұрын
This hurts my heart to hear. What you both experienced was truly traumatic both physically, spiritually, emotionally….everything! 🥺With all the hormones raging-and emotions at an all time rollercoaster high, that energy can get stored in the body. I hope your doing better now 💞and allowing yourself the time and space to heal 🩷 sending love 🤍
@jenniferluersen8625
@jenniferluersen8625 Ай бұрын
@ thank you so much that means a lot 🥰🤗
@nikkolyn1122
@nikkolyn1122 Ай бұрын
I’m so sad to hear this as well. Please take all the time you need. Your placenta will be there. I made the mistake of letting mine go, and I wish I could at least bury it. You deserve all the love and healing in the world.
@gettingseriousgettingolder3011
@gettingseriousgettingolder3011 Ай бұрын
Could've, would've, should've. Your baby is healthy and beautiful. Thank God.
@AndreaGill-1230
@AndreaGill-1230 Ай бұрын
Nearly 4yrs after my first birth that was planned for at home and quickly shifted into a cesarean - and this video helped me heal a little more. Thank you both for that and congratulations on your bundle of joy ❤
@shan-sharay5622
@shan-sharay5622 Ай бұрын
I’m so excited for this! ❤
@wendyhawkins68
@wendyhawkins68 6 күн бұрын
I love the rawness of this video. I love the growth and transformation you both have gone through over the last couple of years. I really dislike the medical system in our country and I'm so sorry you and Lumi didn't get those first precious moments of skin to skin contact. I was really afraid for your family and the openness you had regarding your prenatal care because I've seen firsthand how particularly people of color are scapegoated with regards to their children being placed in the system for "neglect" and then monetized within the fostercare system. I'm so glad Lumi is here and she's healthy and beautiful. Sending your family so much healing and peaceful energy :) thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story. I hope you are able to find peace and grace with your choices. Have an amazing winter holiday!!
@nixerone5954
@nixerone5954 Ай бұрын
I’m heartbroken for you. Your story has me in tears. That is so traumatizing. My goodness, this is why so many moms are wanting to have home births!!!
@earthbbychris998
@earthbbychris998 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing, I know this was a hard circumstance to open up about. hearing your story will help others and your feelings are so valid.
@TalayaDavis-Baker
@TalayaDavis-Baker Ай бұрын
She is beautiful!!!. You're amazing. Don't beat yourself up. Trust that you did what you needed to. I know you know this, but you both are awesome. I appreciate you sharing your journey.
@angelawilliams5818
@angelawilliams5818 Ай бұрын
I have been following you for a long time, and I am so glad that you are still here. We love you please, please. Please continue posting your content. 🤗
@JoAnnHunt
@JoAnnHunt Ай бұрын
Yay!! My favorite family is back!!! Thank you so much for this video!!! So raw. You are a rockstar!!! 🎉 Blessings
@lovelysunshine1505
@lovelysunshine1505 Ай бұрын
Haven’t even watched yet but I just want to say I Love You Family!! So happy to be seeing you again and I’m happy the KZbin fam is reunited in the comments 🌸😌
@emily3333
@emily3333 Ай бұрын
I love yall love and transparency. I pray one day yall will share about your coming back together more. I have a similar situation with the love of my life and just hearing parts of yalls testimony is inspiring. To hear how yall held on to hope and didn't give up on the love during rocky times and how you knew it was meant to be yall at the end would be lovely.
@tiffanyeliz5208
@tiffanyeliz5208 Ай бұрын
So excited that you guys are back to posting videos. This one was really appreciated as it must have been difficult to share. It’s real and raw and can happen to any of us so it’s nice to hear your story so full of truth. Thank you for posting, bless your family!!!🧡🪶
@christinemadera-jordan557
@christinemadera-jordan557 Ай бұрын
Ooohhh my GOODNESS!!! I’m just crying with so much JOY for all of you!!! The way the both of described baby birth was EPIC!! Made me want Tri have a RE-DO of my 3 BIRTHS!! Blessing upon Blessings!! So happy Y’ALL ARE BACK!!! LET’S GOOOOOOO❤️💯🇵🇷‼️
@calistorch5997
@calistorch5997 Ай бұрын
So good to see your face and hear your voice. Congratulations on your beautiful work mama.
@kutlwanomakgalemele2338
@kutlwanomakgalemele2338 Ай бұрын
Sweet sweet Veladya🎉 thank you so much for sharing. I am in the throws of shame after my manifested birth didnt work out. I am 5 month post partum and battling with my decisions. Your share helped me pour out my pain. Thank you great one! God bless you and your well and wise ancestors 🇿🇦 PS I also have a 1st born daughter that is exactly Aura age....thank mama for your essence
@karimaoneallee
@karimaoneallee Ай бұрын
I love you guys! Because I follow you on IG I didn't even realise that it had been so long since you posted on YT. I'm just happy that both, you Veladya and baby Lumi walked out of the situation alive and healthy. I know it was a long hard journey but I'm glad you have reached the point of acceptence and gave yourself the grace to share with us when you were ready even if it was eight months later. Thank you for sharing your lives with us! Nothing but peace and love coming your way from my little corner of California! ❤❤
@kellypnw
@kellypnw Ай бұрын
You are the only you and that is your power. Gratitude for your presence, authenticity and vulnerability, queen ❣️ ✨ fully embodied, wise, and beautifully radiant! Thank you for sharing what makes you, you. I love the story and im so thankful that you took the time you needed to process, reflect, heal and own it wholeheartedly. I have to admit that i felt some type of way when you shared before about free birth during pregnancy like surely projected some shame and jealousy because I probably just wished I was ever so confident and privileged as you. To come back and listen to this was really healing. Its so refreshing to be reminded that no one has it all figured out. Thats not why we are here! We are ever evolving on this journey earthside. We get to change our minds at any time. Its actually quite healthy to do so. True resilience comes with practice. 🙌🏽
@kimbyts9045
@kimbyts9045 Ай бұрын
Welcome back. I missed yall. At the end of the day you did what was best for YOU! Im glad you and baby are happy and healthy.
@LivingForTheSpirit
@LivingForTheSpirit Ай бұрын
Baby, Mommy & Family is home side now. YT is the only social media I have and can stomach since 2020 so its good to see your updates here. I look forward to continuing watching your family grow & thrive. Peace & Blessings.
@Pasanar5
@Pasanar5 Ай бұрын
Love you guys! Veladya...transformation is a biiiiiii, beautiful to watch you speak your truth! thank you for opening to us like this. So much light! so much!
@chasmine222
@chasmine222 Ай бұрын
this entire video is medicine. thank you & matt for sharing❤️ i love y’all downnnnnnnnnn
@tiffanyl3296
@tiffanyl3296 13 күн бұрын
I’m glad you have a healthy baby. It’s good that you didn’t leave AMA because the insurance companies won’t cover your hospital bill if you do leave AMA. I loved hearing your story, don’t be a shamed for one second-please.
@brittanyedwards8862
@brittanyedwards8862 Ай бұрын
thank you so much for sharing! at the end of the day, you pushed yourself to your limit. who’s to say that wasn’t your intuition sending you to the hospital? with how long your labors are, you could’ve birthed maybe 8 of the quick free birth babies! comparing yourself truly isn’t honoring what your body has been put through especially for the second time. it’s just not black and white. you are so strong.
@beatricehuddleston9319
@beatricehuddleston9319 Ай бұрын
Welcome back guys 😊. Sure a beautiful family. Loving the new look on both of you. Ready to see more great content!!! 😊 Peace and blessings
@alleana642
@alleana642 Ай бұрын
Veladya, welcome back! I’m so glad to hear that you and your family are doing well. Thank you for sharing another beautiful birthing journey with us-Lumi is absolutely beautiful. God bless you and the fam! ❤
@Purplerainpinkclouds
@Purplerainpinkclouds 28 күн бұрын
wishing u all the love and peace and happiness ,,, may everyday feel like a fresh start
@indi888
@indi888 Ай бұрын
Thank you for your bravery, your authenticity and your determination to show up in your truth on your own time as you shed layers of shame and doubt of being received for how you choose to walk your path. We all have our own paths to take. So I am not here to judge. My understanding of life as a soul in a human vessel is that we are meant to include science and spirituality. To work together in unison to create something holistic and safe for everyone. safe in terms of what feels right for you as one tunes into their needs & inner guidance. It is the blending of the old ways with the new that we create something better, something long lasting, something fruitful and beneficial to us all throughout the many stages of our growth and existence. Blessings to you & your beautiful family 💗🙏🏽 Thank you again! Look forward to any upcoming videos you feel called to create and share from the heart!! 💗
@mamagigissafehaven
@mamagigissafehaven Ай бұрын
Welcome Lumi. I am so greatful you took your time, and kept true yourself. I love that Lumi, saw you upset and tuned the fork. Out here doing healing work. Congratulations on your increase. Also Matthew Happy father's day for the second time. The amount of love,grace, and compassion my heart is pushing towards you all. Congratulations, on your inner strength.
@ashleymarie681
@ashleymarie681 Ай бұрын
Matt's support and love 💕 Vaeladya's strength and transparency 😍 your stories are a gift to many. I am a long time watcher and I am amazed by this video. Disappointment is a human experience and Matt is right, you are a healer. I hope I can meet you one day! Much love, Ashley
@stephaniealston1170
@stephaniealston1170 Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience. I’m thankful to God that you’re alive and your little one is alive. Please DO NOT beat yourself up. Continue to give yourself grace. And dad, great looking out with the support, encouragement, being the transporter and just a great partner. So glad your mom and daughter made it to the birth. Girl! Please give yourself grace. It was already written. Blessings to you and your family!
@RachelleKirsch
@RachelleKirsch Ай бұрын
Loved every second of this. Been following since before aura was born! I had my first shortly after you and it didn't go as planned with the homebirth/freebirth. I ended up with a blocked kidney from chronic dehydration/HG and ended up with a csection and I felt all the shame and disappointment for a while.. I did what I could with the situation I had at hand ! So proud of you guys and it's really wonderful how yall truly keep it real 💯! Bless you and your family! Xo
@soleravioli
@soleravioli Ай бұрын
the GASP i GUSPED!!! I’ve been checking in on y’all hoping for an update/vlog and finally my dreams have come true 💕 thank u for sharing this very vulnerable birth story 🫶❤️‍🩹 i’m so sorry you went through what felt like a really traumatic experience. hopefully you don’t have to experience anything like that ever again.
@karybelle515
@karybelle515 26 күн бұрын
Veladya! Im from Puerto Rico…i follow u and Matt along for almost forever…i dont know if u are gonna be able to read this comment but OMG WOW!! I feel SO identifyed with everything you share!!!! I need to share my story with you! Its like you are talking for me. I just had my 4th baby on october 19 this year…just a little over a month ago. love you guys!
@cicada.k
@cicada.k Ай бұрын
For some clarity- shoulder dystocia 100000% happens in home birth. I’m not sure where this information is coming from. It is due to the relationship between the fetus and pelvis alongside various factors such as fetal position/ baby’s weight/ etc. I see dystocias even in the most undisturbed births. I’ve seen moms with 4 kids have a surprise dystocia and primips with dystocias. You being in labor for 12-13 hours demonstrates there was some sort of dysfunctional relationship between your baby and your pelvis. It isn’t your fault, it just happens.
@MusicIsMyAeroplane09
@MusicIsMyAeroplane09 12 күн бұрын
This is a really important comment!
@PhenomenalDoe
@PhenomenalDoe Ай бұрын
So happy for you guys!Matt said y’all got more content in the barrel/in the clip… I’ll be checking my notifications! 😂
@willowgoddess3287
@willowgoddess3287 Ай бұрын
Ex-L&D nurse here❤️‍🩹 I love your transparency, always have since following you two during van life. Despite the hiccups, you did amazing. ✨️
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