The Catch Up Effect (Why We Really Fear Change) - Teal Swan -

[@shaykell100]

I love how she doesn’t wast any time with long intros and promo talking bout “like and subscribe/share “ etc. She gets STRAIGHT to the point lol

[@coolsdebristv489]

True never noticed but I'm sooo with you fr fr

[@theanonymousseeker3952]

She also shortened the intro in her newer videos.

[@Mojojojo-92]

I’ve never noticed it but makes me like her even more

[@AaronDoughty44]

It all comes down to resonance. When I went through my awakening years ago my vibration changed so much that many people faded out of my experience. At first I thought I did something wrong but then I embraced the fact that as I change so will the people that resonate with me. The good part about it is that it makes room for people who do resonate and have similar interests. Great video Teal.

[@melonsoda123]

+Aaron Doughty You took the words right out of my mouth.

[@theforg8014]

Well said

[@YourWingmam]

Aaron Doughty going through this now, Teal's video (and yours) are so helpful for this process! 🙏🏻💖

[@cleopaehua9337]

But where do you find them?

[@yanzi8543]

@@cleopaehua9337 follow your dreams

[@Karmascandids]

Just her voice alone feels like a hug to my inner child

[@complexjanedoe]

She is so damn authentic... idk how anyone can have a negative thing to say about this woman. I guess we only see what we want to see and some people are not ready. Its nice to have a spiritual teacher who keeps it real and shares her flaws man!

[@takealilpill347]

She's truthful. For some people that's absolutely terrifying, they'd rather believe lies.

[@rayleenmarks7573]

Amen.............she is a master..

[@rayleenmarks7573]

@@takealilpill347 you are correct i belive in that belife,she IS real...

[@colleenmitchell5208]

100% agree she so damn authentic.

[@faheeta5036]

damn good video, The Secret is the watered down version of the law of attraction. It's good for beginners, but Teal is where you go for your masters degree.

[@corsicanlulu]

yes so true

[@tamelashafer8852]

Yes, indeed.... 💜♾🙏🏼🕉

[@evabb506]

yep

[@KM-po5kk]

You should look into David R. Hawkins. That’s your PHD!

[@nadinegregorio3382]

It's just amazing how I get myself in a situation and seek advice on your channel, and boom! here it is.. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

[@JayCreates]

Yay!, no coincidences, your call is being met by the universe )

[@thaik56]

IT! That's exactly the kind of relationship I want to have and always wanted, being together so as to expand together and stay a match as long as possible, so when it ends, it should be for the best of the two with no hard feelings, we're simply parting ways, no need to hate or blame each other. But each of them should strive to expand especially if they want to stay together. It's a beautiful motivation if you ask me, expand for as long as we can so as to stay together. That's the ideal type of relation ship if you ask me, a relationship that aligns with your life and soul purpose.

[@glesiaful]

+thaik56 me too :)

[@lainiegrainger3076]

:)

[@evernynemarions567]

Why do you want relationship that pulls apart over time instead of getting stronger for both people? Sounds like a waste of time ending in someones heartache

[@thaik56]

@@evernynemarions567I never said or implied that. However, the constant of the Universe is change so nothing is permanent, it's a universal law whether we want like it or not. When two person move apart it's not because they want to. It's the natural order of things. So rather than fighting that law, one should flow with it. Everything changes and people too for the best or for the worst. Either way they change. They could be together and be a match for their lifetime too. That's why both should strive to be their best version and if they're still a match, that's wonderful. However I'm against staying together just for the sake of it and limiting one's expansion and evolution. Relationships are partnerships, not slavery, for mutual personal growth. Ultimately that's what relationships are for, to me at least. :)

[@leonnaraine5332]

Mugiwara

[@joy-lopes]

This video applies so well to my life right now. I've taken a leap of faith and made a huge change in my life right now.. it did cost me my (ex-) partner. It's so scary but I know I've done the right thing. Now I'm just in this zone of uncertainty, the transition to my next new phase. I'm excited and I'm scared.

[@wildnourishingway]

How did your new phase turn out if you don’t mind sharing? 🙏🏻

[@zbdot73]

I might add that this "link" can also be to a younger self of you. I other words you suffered some trauma when young and your subconscious is maintaining a link with that younger you, forever trying to "fix" that event or events which effected you. Thus you fear moving forward because you'll disconnect from that younger self, forever leaving behind the possibility of "fixing" the younger you. Hope this makes some sort of sense.

[@breakingthemasks]

God.... This resonates with me. I had so much pain as an adolescent, and I know I can't go back in time and fix that. And that truth gives my present self so much pain. But "moving on" feels exactly like I'm admitting that no resolution will ever be possible. Ugh. Well said my friend.

[@drdemi]

@@breakingthemasks actually, you CAN go back in time and fix those things. this is what teals "completion process" is designed to do. and any other shadow work / integration / process work method.

[@apprenticeofsilence]

I got emotional! This is my fear!! Have you guys tried the completion process on this fear?? I feel like I keep looping back and retrieving more and more aspects of self. I sometimes wish I saw the changes faster…. But clearly not all of me is Agreeing with that ;)

[@zbdot73]

​@@apprenticeofsilence Hi my only advice is keep moving forward. One foot in-front of another. When I wrote this statement 6 years ago(!) I was a lot more 'stuck'. I still have issues with procrastination and having lack of drive but I'm also a lot more calm in myself. For me the universe opened up a meeting with a spiritual healer who was able to (as in her words) put my broken inner-child on 'life support'. From that point onwards the broken child inside me, which was holding me like an anchor, was gone. So I can't say I fixed myself, I did try for a very long time, but it seems it was enough for the universe to go ok we'll give you a helping hand at this point. Is my life shangri-la at this point? No, but again I'm just a lot more calm and really the motivational issues I now face are more 'normal' (?) rather than the insurmountable damaged boat anchor I was dragging around. I really, truly wish you all the best in your healing journey.

[@apprenticeofsilence]

@@zbdot73 I love you so much! The Shangri-la made me laugh haha! I appreciate your honesty about where you're at! I admire that and I feel much more positive! Thank you x

[@jackscholze]

Teal, Your clarity of expression, and empathy and understanding of our human psyche, particularly with regard to our emotional lives, is helpful and healing for me. I look forward to your videos. Aloha

[@ralsumaaji]

I even resisted to continue watching this video, because I knew once I did there's no way back. And I was right. Thank you so much Teal. Always exactly what I need to hear when I need it most. Thank you.

[@Anon8848]

Thing I noticed when I was a little kid: when I experience a lot of joy, the lives of the people around me start falling apart 😬

[@MrJuliathecat]

Thank you for sharing

[@MariaM-qq6kv]

Thank you, Teal. I needed to hear this. Just ended a 6 year relationship with my boyfriend. We are both in different paths in life right now.

[@meaning-mcmeaning]

Do you regret it?

[@birgitweersma4973]

Thank you Teal! My whole life changed recently having to move from Indiana to Connecticut, leaving behind my 27 year old daughter. I know I will never loose her but we now communicate by phone. It will.be hard when she has a child and I can't be there. your video helps me realize that there is a reason for all this! Thank you so much!💖

[@hobbytreyi]

11:09 important the connection you are afraid of losing doesn't compare to the connection you'll have on the other side of the change.

[@johncox2912]

What's interesting is that as I expand and grow, others around me have the opportunity to expand and grow as well, too. Wow. This makes all true spiritual growth really super special.

[@user-xj1fn2se9e]

LoL . . . How on Earth do y'all know what video to guide me to ? I'm shedding tears more and more with every video ! Thank You ! This is sooo strange !

[@yeseniaorozco3463]

Now I see why I'm so scared of changing. Thank you Teal

[@shespeaks1971]

This is what happened with me and my husband of 11 1/2 months as of now. So sad to realize this. I was going through Dark Night of the Soul when we got engaged and on the tail end of it when we married. Our marriage gave me the safety to feel able to expand and oh was I expanding. Empath Claircognizant, INFP, Virgo, automatic writing, downloads, all of which did not exist consciously a year prior. I remember where I was. I was in the kitchen, that moment I felt at my highest vibration. I didn't know at the time what I was feeling was a rise in my vibration. I do now. It took several months to associate that feeling with vibrational change. Over the next couple of months, things started feeling "off" - he was provoking me to the point of tears or anger. Subtle things, minor things on their own, but combined, it was apparent. When I sat down with him to ask him why (he had never hurt me in our 12 years of knowing one another) his mind "snapped" and I saw his shadow side (and this was before I knew what that even meant. I didn't need words). We've been in hell ever since. I'm at "Choice Point" as Teal calls it. He has wounded me so much in the last 10 months and I've hit some lows, but as of right now, I'm completely void of any reason to hang out on earth anymore. Him: CPTSD, CEN, Alexithymia like signs, oh and Alters, and if you've never met someone and gotten close to them and one day they act like a totally different person or shift personality patterns in the middle of a sentence because their fragments are so intertwined withe their core personality, it's a f***g shock,. pattern that he keeps replaying in our relationship thus creating this push pull love me push me away energy (and as a survivor of sexual abuse as a child and adult etc this behavior is corroding my soul. He also says he has alexithymia, information I found but I don't feel that the way he does. It's the inability to describe or know what you're feeling in the moment, he calls it a "delay" but if someone is familiar with this, please tell me if it's possible to have intermittent alexithymia, i.e, he doesn't always have this problem and it seems like it's always conveniently heightened when I need to talk to him about something that hurt my feelings or that is emotionally intense for him. If it's emotional but not emotionally intense to HIM or if we are having s*x, zero alexithymia. I feel so duped. So conned. He says he didn't know any of this before we married yet I've caught him in long conversations talking about how his alters and and concerns that he was "broken" some how and that this was why his relationships had failed prior to me (although up until recently, he always blamed the woman for why the relationship failed). Marriage triggered all of this and I am miserable. I an an Empath and just like Teal, I could snap my fingers and pop this energy bubble and all would seem warm and fuzzy and lovey dovey again but what's happening is a cycle, so I begin to vibrate higher again, feel emotionally safe again, and no sooner does that happen does some off the wall behavior change occur from him that catches me emotionally off guard and can also trigger my childhood traumas of "abandonment" (more like an environmental of there/not there love/not love) Worse, I toggled intuitively between this being a genuine disorder or some sort of misfiring in his brain as a result of severe childhood emotional neglect or vulnerable narcissism which I'm currently studying. I am so shattered and 2 years ago I was on top of my game professionally making great money 100% independent needing no one (for years, which I know is a trauma response too) But in one year, I went from liking him as a best friend (total friend zone) to over a few months falling in love with him when I let him live with me for several months when his place was permanently damaged and not repairs me. I never felt this way for him - EVER. I have a theory: Because he lacked a self identity due to childhood abuse and emotional neglect from fetus to age 16 (punishment for feeling or showing emotions) he HAD/HAS no identity. He never had the environment to develop his identity. So, whatever I wanted in a man, I imprinted on him and he saw me light up and he’d do more of THAT. I fell in love with someone who does not exist. Yes... I'm definitely at choice point, Teal.

[@leahflower9924]

When you are traumatized you are attracted to and attract people differently and don't realize it because we are not conscious of it many narcs and abusers appear the most charming in the beginning, the hardest thing to get over is deep confusion

[@yeuruuerueeheue]

damn

[@Drusillamac3]

again - Teal hits my "situation" right on the head - my frozen essence is awaiting the specific change - now that the decision has been made - my Pain is so great I have to - and I must trust all is in divine order for all .

[@Lara_GuidingStar]

We fear change because we don't want to loose people that we have around, we don't want to be the odd one out.But when we realize that change is good, that is is catalyst for our growth we loose fear, instead we embrace it;) Sending much love to you Teal, thanks;)

[@dianedonofrio8724]

AT 11:06, I had to stop this video, and comment here...I am absolutely blown away by this video...Teal is an amazing human being, and deserves all the support for her courage and for her deeper understanding she is caring to share with others...I can't believe how she has helped me make major shifts in my awareness, all towards healing and towards positive growth, and now this video is literally the icing on the cake...

[@littlestbroccoli]

Every day I listen to Teal and I'm still getting more than I can perceive out of it. It's been a good four months already and your insights, while I am relocating to a new country, are helping me in growing so much. Thank you for everything you do, Teal!

[@beautyalchemy584]

That's beautiful. Expansion should always be our number one priority, its for our highest good and for the highest good of all

[@martinjr9199]

I am becoming more aware of myself by watching teal I cant stop watching her videos now i am shock by her work. Since am doing self awarness I have notice how I react to my family or other people and am starting to look things so different and It takes some balls to take other direccions but We cant just be trap in someplace that we dont want to be anymore

[@filipgronlund1713]

Teal, just by hearing you say this helps me so much. It shatters me from the inside to face my deepest fears, but growth is about learning and acknowledge every part of yourself. It isn't the easy way out, it's the necessary way out.

[@larakathlenebuduhan6544]

I used to hate you, but here I am, now, expressing my gratitude because, there was one night (in my darkest moment) the universe knocked me over to one of your videos (once again) by chance and I took the bait (from one material to another) to listen to you yet again-- and I survived! I survived a deep battle inside my mind and you were the messenger. Thank you Teal Swan! You are really a lovely swan :)

[@jessyfasth9910]

Thankkkkk you for your existence in this time!!! Thank you for sharing all of your knowledge and reminding us of our spirituality!!! Thank you Teal for helping me soo much in my life! You are my inspiration! Have a wonderful week.

[@bornforlight446]

I am very addicted to change, I do like it and I try to hold on sometimes too , but it always push me and reminds me that I have to go. Always when I trust that change amazing things are happening.

[@yulchikv]

My friend shared this link with me, and I loved your channel! Also: the music that you have at the end of each episode is mesmerizing.

[@mewells]

I have been in idle mode with my spiritual growth and while meditating on why I realized I was afraid of losing everything I have...as a result I was lead to this video. Tears down my face I see that by not taking this next step forward I'm risking not only my growth (in an easier manner) but that of those I love. Thank you.

[@dawn9970]

I dated a guy that did everything he could to try to impede my growth. I understood that it was just his fear making him behave the way he did. Being an INFJ, I tried everthing to help him understand what was happening but to no avail. It was with great sorrow that I had to give him the "INFJ door slam" :( We were so connected and it hurt like hell but I know it was the right decision. I still mourn the loss but I have grown spiritually by leaps and bounds ever since we parted. I just wish he had wanted to grow along with me :/

[@fredrush534]

That's beautiful. I needed to hear this.

[@ckse7536]

I'm feeling this deeply. Especially the story about the relationship.

[@Adamkww]

Your getting so popular now teal! I've just had two old friends that I have not spoke to in a long while contact me to talk about spirituality, because I "accidentally" shared one of your Facebook posts onto my news feed and they both saw it, and realised I was also into this kind of thing. Now finally have friends to talk to about spirituality. Good to know I'm not a loner in this 😀

[@UVFirefly]

Thank you so much for posting this. I'm going through a lot of change right now, and this has helped me see and understand several issues I've been struggling with. The people around me don't feel right anymore, I've basically detached from my family (which was toxic anyway), I have left my old job and am waiting for my one to start, and I'm even moving to a new city. All this came on the back end of some serious health problems that nearly cost me everything. Now, looking at my life and everything, I'm realizing that I wasn't where or who I wanted to be. I'm actually actively seeking a meaningful relationship now after 8 years of being alone, following a terrible relationship with a narcissist. A lot of things you said in this video made a great deal of sense and provided much clarity. I also want to tell you, that when you shared your personal experience, it meant a lot to me. It mean to me that you do understand, and that you deal with these things to. Thank you so much for that. :) Thank you and Namaste!

[@Katchatiger]

Wow, I fond myself going through this right now. I had to end a relationship in order to move forward...i spent a long time in misery because I was afraid to lose someone. It was so hard but such relief when I finally stepped forward.

[@420CCH420]

Thank you Teal this is the second week in a row you've some how made the perfect video for my current situation! :)

I learned a lot from this specific video. I now know many couldn't catch up to me through my life. Almost no one. At first as a loner/einzelganger it bothered me then I got used to it.. but now it start to come up again. I often miss someone to grow with together.

[@desi4peace]

This is so profound! I am so glad I listened to this today, you are something else Teal Swan. Thank you!!!!

[@elizasnow9252]

It's actually amazing how the things you talk about each week are so in allignement with what I am going through and perhaps others!

[@atlantislife9245]

I think this content is highly underrated I think this is an excellent and important lesson.

[@christiankain9528]

This is beautiful, I always wanted this but never had the words to allow anyone to understand me. Have a good week Teal!! Wishing you the best in your development as well.

[@333freakflag]

This video was amazing. The night before I was thinking about how afraid I was of the positives changes that were happening. Love you Teal!

[@michaelschiffer4731]

You just answered a question that is going around in my mind due to my current´s life situation. Eckhart Tolles once said that the enviroment will raise with you when you start raising or otherwise you will leave your current enviroment. I currently feel like experiencing a mixture of that. People like my parents, brother and a collegue seem to be in a process of awakening and new awaken people come into my life. It´s such a great experience. Sometimes I nearly start crying. Thanks for your great videos und enlightening words, Teal.

[@christinawolf8012]

This might be the most important video I’ve ever watched! This explains the last 10 years of my life and why I have (painfully) lost so many people and connections. They couldn’t catch up 😢. They couldn’t come with me. And I had to keep growing.

[@ravendluna369jasso8]

Going through that now..... it is a lonely path for a while until universe starts sending u matching vibrational ppl ...thank u thank u thank u Teal 🖤💚🖤 I love u 😎

[@Miszka0M]

I love you Teal. The timing of this video is so precise. It's completely resolved my problem with what to do with my relationship with my mum. We use to be BFF's but today we had a massive argument and we can't even spend a few hours together without getting some wires crossed, some type of miscommunication. She doesn't understand me anymore and it's been so frustrating because I'm TRYING (forcing) her to understand me so that we can be besties again but today I've realised that I have to let this idea go and move further away closer to nature which I've been postponing so I can be close to her.

[@lizcorbett2587]

this resonates with me so strongly. I feel like all of it I have a personal testimony to

[@sheenaryan508]

Thank you Teal. So much love to you, your team and everyone watching this video!! ❤🙏🏻🌎💫🧜‍♀️💕

[@hilmichildofgod]

Thank you for this! It resonates so much for me right now, I feel like crying!

[@julie-annepineau4022]

Great mind food! I have said for a couple years now that I am a catalyst for change. The closer people get to me the more change comes into their world. I try to embrace change, because change is constant. You might as well accept it because it is always going to be there and fighting it is when the worst pain occurs for an adult.

[@dianedonofrio8724]

I can't believe this video!!!! Teal is so dead on accurate in regards to why people fear change...and the fear she gives regarding living in fear of abundance, because of the people around you 'hating rich people',....is so dead on in what I am experiencing with my father right now in this moment...he 'hates the rich' and I am an interior designer, and work with rich people all day long, as part of my job...and its caused a lot of turmoil in my relationship with him, all I feel is his hatred, anger and resentment, and he's now aiming it at me...I live in fear of his backlash, and hatred, and fear of losing the father-daughter connection we once shared...and this causes me to hesitate on a lot of abundance that is around me, for I love what I do, love helping people create great spaces in general, and now its always something I feel deep inside, his hatred, and its created a problem for me...Teal has really been an amazing spiritual guide, for so many of her videos have helped me move out of despair, one video at a time, and now this video it feels, is literally launching out of the despair that I still have a bit of, aligning me with my true self, that which is love, not the fear caused by my fathers hatred of the rich...

[@robbinscott160]

It is true! Some people vibed up with me and some were lost...the ones that vibed up after me, I never thought they would even in a thousand years...they...impressed me!

[@Protesto2012]

Enlightening and a confirmation for me! Grateful to your willingness to share with us. Namaste

[@WillTalbot]

SO REAL!!! MUCH LOVE SIS

[@wolfkai82]

Thank you for encouraging me to keep going

[@niva-orruvio1312]

So true and so hard to even go there but hearing you say the “catch-up “ makes me feel a huge relief and positively possible, thank you as always for continuing to share your knowledge with us, xoxo

[@Breezybreenana]

I have watched this a few times in the last year but this time I noticed a few different perspectives of mine after healing quite a bit, and learning how to not abandon myself. Regarding people needing to catch up: Doesn't this mean we are too focused on the destination? Maybe we don't exactly want the partner completely as they are and we are so focused on fixing ourselves and not accepting that change will happen without rushing and forcing that we need to rush everyone else to catch up too? We feel the need to rush the whole process, because we don't feel we are healing quickly enough. But rushing doesn't always work..

[@DreamyJuly17]

to me this video is a proof of the law of attraction, as I'm currently facing this exact 'issue'! thank you for the guidance Teal.

[@aquariusstar7248]

I found this video at the right and perfect timing...maybe on the edge of a new beginning that may cause me to lose a connection. Not sure if the connection is really the best relationship for me but i realized a few minutes ago that i am energetically pushing the opportunity away because I am afraid of losing the connection. I'm not even sure if the person would really care, yet still the fear of loss scares me even tho i have been wanting this opportunity for a long time.

[@Selflovematters4life]

Amazingly well said. I look at my current relationship and see that while even though I consciously should have ended it over a year ago...I was simply afraid. Yet the universe continued to remind me over and over why I needed to end it. When I was finally able to let go of the fear...and realize we were no longer on the same vibrationally, it finally was "easy" to walk away. This is why I guess I don't get caught up into the idea of "bad" breakups. When you are moving in separate directions the end naturally happens....its ours fears and other negative reactions to the change however that cause things to end negatively.

[@whateverron]

I watched this presentation in it's entirety. I have never heard of Teal Swan. Fascinating

[@matthewgoulet2169]

my favourite video of yours. ive shown it to a few of my friends. for me its the most relevant concept that i return to most often. thank you!

[@discoteque7768]

I recently asked all my coworkers to move forward, by exposing their fears in order to grow from the ashes. Wow! It has caused a crisis in some way. They had never been asked to do it, so reality looked so gross. Some people are very afraid of change and hold back to the old principles. Others feel confident and embrace the shift. It made all us shake. We are still in the midst of the earthquake. I believe many possibilities opened up to make us all grow.

[@lupe6564]

I am 53 and that's what me and my husband did we grew together in love, and education and careers and it was awesome being each others best friend and growing together

[@celticnik8226]

This resonates with me on a level of deep sadness. As someone who has no other choice but to take my spiritual growth seriously because I chose this path, I have found it really hard to find one other soul to connect with, family included. And so, my life on this earth has been an exceedingly lonely place to be in from childhood to present middle age. I hide it well. The endless quest to fit in for the purpose of survival. Is that it?! I'm a happy person by nature but it's exhausting.

[@indigolynx1111]

celtic nik, you just need friends, I'm here with an open mind if you ever need to talk ✌

[@luvjoy1111]

Good one! Thanks for the understandings. You often touch upon things that I have experienced, but have not been able to express it in words.

[@unikadance5731]

Teal Teal Teal. your last three videos have shaken me to my core! You are a very powerful woman. This video is so spot on - as always - stay blessed babe! x x x

[@sevendata]

Thank you Teal for all of your videos and your amazing insights. I have learned so much from you and it has helped me tremendously! I am so much happier and self-loving because of what I learned. I'm so grateful for you and your videos!

[@AleishaE7]

Amazingly encoded with wisdom!

[@lizzie8091]

Thank you, thank you, thank you for all that you do Teal!

[@Kazechinko]

Something in this video is special. I don't know what but It IS special and not only for me. Thanks for this one :) Peace, love, and have a good week little girl!

[@thoomm]

This message Heals! Thank you all

[@annieruygt1194]

Very uplifting and insightful video, Teal. You have a way of clearing the emotions, make them a supporting roll in growth, not an antagonist.

[@Finace_chic_777]

What a great Video Teal Thank you so much for this. These words were EXACTLY what I needed to hear at this specific point in my journey.

[@aaliyahsworldxd9352]

This intro, the art and song, bring me so much joy. Also just found out my seven year old watches Teal when she feels stressed. Aww

[@TheCrowsnest86]

This is a wonderful video. It explained so much that I didn't realize was happening in my own life.

[@cynthiarose115]

Thank you Teal, for your Brilliance and Wisdom. I appreciate your sharing it with us. Many Blessings!

[@Jac0bIAm]

You forgot something Teal, there is another option. You can change and then help those you are connected with to catch up- you don't need to leave them hanging. If you advance spiritually, you can help those you love to catch up and support them on their inner journey ...unless of course they don't want to grow at all, even with your help. Either way there is no need to fear, eventually they will catch up, but sometimes it may take them a few lives to do so. Have a good day/week :)

[@KarmicBeats]

+Jacob IAm Sometimes that will work and sometimes you will need to leave those others behind or they will drag you back down. It is good to help others but at the same time sometimes you just need to move on. This is a good time to know and recite the serenity prayer: God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, Courage to change the things I can, And wisdom to know the difference. You can insert whatever you like for god.

[@vargstrong9614]

+Jacob IAm NEGATIVE JOHN, YOU CANT DOIT BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT STRONG TO HELP, IT HAD COST A LOST TO GROW YOURSELF, FOR SURE YOU FEEL SOME INSECURE ABOUT YOUR ROAD, SO IF YOU TRY TO HELP YOU CAN HURT OTHERS, MAYBE THERE WAS NOT THEIR WAY AS YOURS, THE MUST FIND THEIR OWN WAY. YOU ARE NOT GOD TO SAVE OTHERS

[@iamchannelll]

Varg Strong we are god but that’s the point we are god so only we can save ourselves

[@kayteescarborough1658]

I am grateful for you, and all you do for humanity! From the bottom of my heart and soul, THANK YOU ❤🙏🏻🫶🏻

[@TheKristina-pz3dq]

You had me at 'dead jon snow pic/isolation worse than death' Great video as usual- thank you 💙

[@RC-ey4gm]

You are very fortunate in your relationship. That’s true love.

[@emilybrumm3683]

I really needed this today. How come no one else understands the real source of these fears?

[@samanthajohnson6229]

I needed to hear this so much, I feel like this is the exact reason I am resisting..

[@Michael7Communique]

After becoming of aware of this I watched family and friends who had resentments and never talked to each other, all of a sudden, become comrades and gang up to attack me for rebelling against their used-to-be, control strategies. Jeezz we actually try and survive off this stuff! Apparently this awareness collapsed and made "control" strategies useless. I saw the hypocrisy!. The emotional healing and feeling of liberation is so great that I see how I was fueling abandonment-anxiety, and falling back in denial to play BDSM games with them again. Thanks Teal for this empowering teaching!

[@sophiastoyanova6070]

In some moments it really seems that you are talking from your heart✨

[@jasonskirvin6296]

Thank you, Teal. This video helps with my current situation.

[@ralsumaaji]

this is one of the best by far, thank you so much Teal

[@andreperry3301]

Very true! Thank you for saying this in such an understandable way.

[@marylin_ninja]

That literally was the message I needed . Maybe it's a good thing to have explosive life patterns. I just have to ride the wave no matter how big and surprising the wave might be. Thank you , you are so helpful

[@huilesessentielles3993]

This os so true ! Thank you 🙏 Teal this made me cry, because I know this deep inside and I was just ignoring it

[@suzannebonham583]

I am SO grateful to you, Teal. Thank you so very much for all of your videos. I had to do a scary thing today, and I listened to this video, and to another one of yours on the topic of fear. It was very helpful, and I did that scary thing, and I feel a lot better. I have been listening to your videos for a while now. Be well.

[@swanstorycraft]

Hitting the nail right on the head. As usual. Thank you so much 💜

[@TeslaLives-pb2gu]

This is a timeless universal message

[@bluelunarnight3043]

Teal, hunny, you always speak straight to my soul!!! I am for ever greatful, Sister. Namaste💚✌🌈🌐🌈

[@MariamPareArt]

Most of what you said about fearing change, was about fearing change that was positive. What about fearing negative change? Like what if you were forced to make changes you don't want to make, that negatively impact your life, and take away some of your freedom and independence? I'm in that current situation. I happen to be a personal what spinal cord injury, I've used a wheelchair due to the paralysis it caused since I was 20 years old, I am now 40. I live independently in my own home with the help ofPeople who come by and Help me every day. I'm not sick, and I don't need a nurse. The current situation I am in, it is a new insurance/state regulation thing. I am being forced to do things I'm very uncomfortable with and to manage my life in a way that give me a lot less control over my own life, But don't have any other choice. The the stress And anxiety of it is really bothering me. I feel defeated. Knowing that there is no way to stop the change, makes me feel like less of a human being. Like my opinion doesn't matter, and that I am no longer in control of what is best for myself. I feel stressed out because this option that's being forced on me is not a stable situation like my life is now before the change. I'm not sure if I explained it right because I was trying to be vague about my personal details, but if you have anyAdvice that you can think of, I would appreciate it. I might not suppose to feel resistance to this change? If I can't do anything about it and it changes going to happen anyway, how do I not feel miserable while the changes taking place? How do I not worry about this change so much?

[@luticia]

+SomebodyIusedtoknow (Mariam Paré) I can't give you an answer to your question but I want to give you a big, a long and tight hug. xxxxxxx

[@MariamPareArt]

+luticia thank you so much for reading my comment and even if you can't offer advice, I very much appreciate the Kindness and empathy.

[@Suave162]

I needed to hear this, you are amazing. Thank you Teal.

[@sunstarsmoon]

Great info Teal, fabulous lesson here. It's tough to lose relationships but I guess it's part of the deal to learn and grow. Love to you!

[@Mattthemerciful]

Thank you Teal this was what I needed to realize to move forward