I have seen this so many times in media representations for decades. Here's the message that gets received. Coming out means taking your beating, nearly dying so that your loved ones can get over themselves and their issues and learn to love you . Somehow if you are young and gay, you have to either try to commit suicide, or get attacked to be fully accepted. Its a 1980's and 1990's message. We have to do better in 2024, than rinse and repeat.
@bigblockrc4 ай бұрын
It's still an issue even today though. Sad but true for some folks
@youngblazeproductions4 ай бұрын
This short film was initially shot in 2011 and couldn't be completed until now due to Post Production debacles. Still real issues though and I agree more needs to be done!
@BTURNER19614 ай бұрын
@@youngblazeproductions I am not saying that gay bashing and gay shunnings do not happen. I am not saying that there are not young shy passive gays out there. I am saying that this ground portraying young gays as victims post coming out has been covered as nauseum for decades. We need to see gay youth as the powerful force in their own stories, not passive recepticles of what comes their way. We want to see films where we WIN that fight, if there needs to be one.
@NoelCampbell-e2l4 ай бұрын
Was thinking myself, why people portrayed in the film seemed incapable of giving a hug instead of mere platitudes.
@nalandatendar42124 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, even in our Western cultures, where gay marriage is possible, there are still subcultures where bashing, hatred, prejudice are overwhelming present. I like the quote of the Dalai Lama at the end. ''Love and Compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them humans can not survive''. I have seen in the meantime quite some movies with positive story lines with mutual respect, sincere relationships and happy endings. But reality is, if we are looking at many countries and even 'modern', that there is still violence against gays from gross to subtle. It is all dependent arising, we have to start with well wishing for oneself as base for love, respect and compassion for people we meet in daily life and then see what we can do for society (by making these kind of movies for example). Never give up love for yourself, for close ones and strangers in society. And even enemies, as they have the potential to be our friends in the future.
@vk3crg4 ай бұрын
This film bought back so many memories of behing this boys age and going through the same thing. Coming out is not just a one time thing. I’m now 55yo and still find myself having to “come out” (kind of!) as life goes on and you meet new people. It definitely gets easier as you get older and get more life experience. While (thankfully) I was never subject to violence from strangers as depicted in this beautifully shot and acted film, I definitely relate to most of the story. Another thing that makes this film feel closer to home is its shot in my hometown of Geelong! 😎Well done to everyone involved including Grace Acting Studios. I’m a friend of Sarah Grace. She’s a beautiful soul and so very good at her craft. Congratulations to all involved ❤Craig
@youngblazeproductions4 ай бұрын
Thank you Craig for your very kind words. This film was an absolute labor of love for all involved! It was a very long time in the making and I'm glad now to finally be able to bring this story to a public platform so it can be a great discussion piece. To hear this impacted and resonated with you is truly humbling! Sarah Grace is an amazing individual and she runs a fantastic studio that helped play a crucial part in the casting of our little film! ❤
@davebarciz14724 ай бұрын
It won't feel like coming out once you/we start to think of telling someone that you are gay the same as telling someone you are left-handed; it's just the beautiful way God made you.
@MARKSVIGIL4 ай бұрын
Here here! We'll done! Brilliant film! Good actors. Gorgeous cinematography! Beautiful and profound message❤ Thank you
@redjupiter24 ай бұрын
We are rapidly sliding away from compassion as a society. Ironically the very institutions that profess that we love one another are creating some of the most hateful and divisive people in our society..... organized religion may well be the undoing of our species.
@NoelCampbell-e2l4 ай бұрын
Without organisation there would be chaos in society. Hate is not encouraged in my Church despite what critics may say. RC
@troubadour814 ай бұрын
@@NoelCampbell-e2l I rarely reply to anyone unless it's a reply worth the effort. As a Follower of Christ, I accept his Gospels in where he proclaimed that we "Love One Another" even our enemies. Especially our enemies. But he also stated that we must not yoke with them for they would corrupt us and our faith. This means not becoming friends, letting them into our home, nor congregating with them. This is where all of Christianity has FAILED in the delivery of the Gospels. That Jesus commanded us to LOVE, but not YOKE. Growing up in the Christian Church, I don't recall ever being told this. Other than not paying attention to other beliefs, including other Christian sects. NOT yoking with your enemies is not HATE, it is self preservation. Jesus would not have "included" unBelievers if they had not repented. Sinners would too have to repent before being "included" in the walk with Jesus. The same today, sinners and unBelievers can not walk with us, they are not like us. That's not HATE, that is preserving your Faith.
@eugenefrankmd54334 ай бұрын
While I agree with the notion that religion serves only its own goals,, likewise Tromp is not the problem but his followers. Those people who harbour these hatreds, prejudices, and rage find support of their credos in the church. Isolated they are powerless but as a mob of coreligionists , co-conspritors, Trumpers adhere to their hatreds seeking support to light the fires under the witches...ignorance...the German public supporting Hitler, extreme rightwing Jews supporting Netanyahu How to cure these hatreds, these prejudices, how to humanize humans? A better job was done by Greeks during the Golden age of Greece (450 BCE to 150 BCE)
@ajjockboy4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your comment, Red, one of the most insightful I've read. Yes, preaching compassion and putting it into practice are sadly two different things.
@aidenfreedom4 ай бұрын
@@NoelCampbell-e2l Wrong, the church is responsible and all Western religion for 'hate' the narrative teaches it from start to finish, never teaches acceptance only conformity, Christianity took me to suicide at 16. So go shove your hateful belief system where the sun don't shine, if I had my way it would be BANNED. Love one another...my foot...I lived among them, all my growing up years. We would do fine with out it, even better!!
@LMays-cu2hp8 күн бұрын
Thank you for a very nice movie.😊
@davidjones69694 ай бұрын
I want to see a story where they kick ass. And the bad ones go to jail. Defend themselves.
@eugenefrankmd54334 ай бұрын
Kicking ass are now the aggressors
@mikemondano36242 ай бұрын
The bad ones don't need to defend themselves. They're just fine.
@dougmacneil25203 ай бұрын
My dear god. I hoped that we've come so far. I dealt with this stuff in the 1970's. I am so sad to see that kids are still dealing with bullies.
@CharlieLaMonteA321XLR4 ай бұрын
It shouldn't take someone getting nearly killed to be a parent I'm still angry at the Dad
@MARKSVIGIL2 ай бұрын
You're missing the lesson! It's all about regrets and forgiveness. Forgiveness is one of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves. It changes piss and vinegar to peace and love!❤
@patcomerford55964 ай бұрын
Another tragic gay tale, is there no end to them?😢
@horseman624 ай бұрын
As vk3vrg says below, you sort of "have to" come out in any introduction, but at 61, i just no longer edit......I don't declare "gay", but if I'm telling a story, I just don't edit out my "husband". that was the best thing about declaring it to myself. I no longer had to spend the energy to think a sentence ahead to change genders or change the name of the bar i'd gone to......Now, I can truly say that in 99% of the cases, i just don't care. take me or leave me......I'm here, and it's good
@Moise25924 ай бұрын
Where is the love ❤️ ?where is the compassion 😢?
@royhumphrey494 ай бұрын
It's 2024! Why is there shock and surprise???????
@CharlieLaMonteA321XLR4 ай бұрын
The dad is a jerk he should have been more loving and unconditional for his son
@d.j.70694 ай бұрын
"Gayness" is a perfectly normal difference from the "norm" that exists in most animal groups, as well as humans. It happens, and there's nothing that can be done about it. We have to accept it ... much like accepting people with different colored hair. Everyone's different, and all are perfectly fine and normal.
@victordcabral39854 ай бұрын
Having trouble with the audio. Only the music comes through clear and the female best friend's voice. Anyone else having the same issue?
@marcnoonan21874 ай бұрын
Please tell me Peter had nothing to do with the assault.
@doughmestic-bliss4 ай бұрын
Yeah my heart sank when he arrived and the place was empty, hope Peter was used and didn't maliciously set him up.
@Travelingman7243 ай бұрын
@@doughmestic-blisswhere was Pete if he didn’t know about it?
@scronx4 ай бұрын
Yep, being gay's a real picnic.
@philiphoel42904 ай бұрын
Yeah and we choose to be gay, and go through all that sierrahotelindigotango.
@scronx4 ай бұрын
@@philiphoel4290 We do?
@brianborchardt71984 ай бұрын
@@scronxYes, according to conservatives.
@scronx4 ай бұрын
@@brianborchardt7198 Well, according to all the naked and decadently-clothed hedonists parading down out streets in the name of (cough, cough) Pride. According to most gay movies being gay is a pain because of all the POISECUTION.
@kitty-cee3 ай бұрын
🥺@@philiphoel4290🫂
@jamesgavigan41793 ай бұрын
Enjoyed your video, Tom. Just completed your biography, Coming Up For Air. Well done at the Olympics
@RainbowLove4ever14 күн бұрын
❤️❤️
@dwp64712 ай бұрын
In so many films there is always someone who thinks they have the right to force someone else to come out. Why? People should come out when and how and to who they want to. It is not anyone else's business.
@mikemondano36242 ай бұрын
That girl started all this. Why couldn't she mind her own business? She's trying to "convert" him.
@saskiadetroyer60242 ай бұрын
Zo erg de jongen heefd niks misdaan ik kan daar niet tegen wat maak het uit liefde is liefde iedereen heefd recht om gelukkig te zijn
@db99289 күн бұрын
😊❤
@keithss674 ай бұрын
Yikes! They tuned him up pretty well
@redfern_mike4 ай бұрын
The Yarra is BLUE??? Fiction
@kevinhorne26466 күн бұрын
Anyone have more info on what end credits refer to with “In Loving Memory” and lists two names with pics? Google search yields nothing. Are they two actors in this film who passed (so soon)? Some other references? Thx.
@siliconvalleyattorney19224 ай бұрын
A coming out story in 2024? LOL absurd. Try coming out in 1974 in the US. /Boomer out.
@brianborchardt71984 ай бұрын
You think it's gotten better for everyone simply because you're a boomer? So am I. Homophobia still exists. Not everyone has a great coming-out story regardless of their age.
@niallschonce95054 ай бұрын
This was shot in 2011
@michelauger434 ай бұрын
Who was Jake Joyce ?
@youngblazeproductions4 ай бұрын
Jake was a talented member of our crew who sadly passed away in 2012. He is certainly missed!
@charleshdrinksjr29164 ай бұрын
What did I just watch?
@felipecarrillo345916 күн бұрын
it is hard to believe that after covid we got another chance to live and we just came back to be even more hateful and more aggressive, compassion no more, love no more, everyone is just full of hate and BS, This paradise called world will make us pay for been ungrateful very soon. Sad.
@ignaciofernandez58763 ай бұрын
A los acosadores hay que aplicar sin remilgos la última pena; el no hacerlo trae consecuencias graves. Luego los hipócritas se lamentan pero no se lamentan, interpretan el papel de dolidos, es falso totalmente. El remedio es el citado.
@andiidoode3 ай бұрын
Do Australians still use the "f"word in 2024?!
@tomstruth75224 ай бұрын
Can we just once see an uplifting film instead of this garbage. I swear these writers think this happens to everyone every time. They must be the saddest and most dysfunctional people on the planet.
@vk3crg4 ай бұрын
A bit harsh aren't you? Young people worked on this film. For all you know it was the experience of one of those involved. To call it 'rubbish' is belittling the hard work of all those involved and is damn rude. While this may not have been your experience in life, it's not too far from stuff that happened to me and I'm sure many others. There are "happy ending" shows..."Heartstopper" (which I love too!) etc. Fact it, life is not always a happy ending or easy journey for LGBTQIA+ people. To judge the writers so harshly when you have no idea who wrote it or why or how personal this story is, comes across as real nasty. The fact is, stuff like this does happen and pointing that out to a wider community doesn't make it 'rubbish'. Maybe a film like this may generate a bit of anger is some and make them think twice before attacking young people struggling with their own identity and sexuality. I look forward to seeing the short film you write and produce on this subject real soon. If you're such an expert that you feel it's your place to attack the hard work of young people, why don't you show us how it's done? 🙄
@tomstruth75224 ай бұрын
@vk3crg WoW, triggered or what? I say bullpoop to the entire novella you wrote. I know exactly what this film is about because I lived it. I lived a time when gay was illegal in this country. I grew up during a time when gay was considered a mental illness, and you could be committed. BUT that's all in the past and I live in the future. YOU are the rude one, according to you I'm not allowed an opinion, so take the chip off your shoulder and kiss off! You say that watching this might make someone think twice? You think that the type of person that would beat someone up for being gay IS SITTING AROUND WATCHING gay shorts? Seriously? ALL the writers of these movies are living in or showing the past. Young guys should understand the past, but not dwell on it, you have NO IDEA how good you have it today, so stop being an oppressed bleeding heart. My opinion stands, today's content needs to be much more uplifting, and the majority of shorts today are depressing.
@shenoahsuhan46074 ай бұрын
what is the point in ur comment? seriously if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t bloody comment.
@tomstruth75224 ай бұрын
@shenoahsuhan4607 my point is that we want to see uplifting videos instead of depressing videos. AND seriously, how entitled do you have to be to tell me I can't express my opinion? Sorry, but just because you don't like it does not make it invalid.
@brianborchardt71984 ай бұрын
You didn't like the content and called it garbage. How naive - and entitled - to be surprised you got some pushback?