The cost of ACADEMIC VALIDATION you pay in medical school

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@mistake.journal Ай бұрын

For all those of u asking, I passed 1st year MBBS in first class🥹. Results were announced just today. No supple, thank-fucking-lord. I know it is no extraordinary score, but mark my words, if I am unable to score a distinction in 2nd year mbbs, I’LL WIPE OUT MY ENTIRE EXISTENCE ON ALL SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORMS. I’d be done. I know u can tell me scores in mbbs don’t matter, but oh sweet lord, my ego will gobble me up inside out. And more than anything, it is to prove to myself that I’m not wasting a seat by being just another average doctor. Regards, Shreya

@vedantgurav9621 Ай бұрын

Wait a min count me in..I’ll be there w u … i promise I’ll get 80+ … “SHENGI APNA TIME AYEGAA!,”

@ravichaudhary4330 Ай бұрын

you go get a distinction and i'll let you know my distinct rank in neet 25, not a dumb student but still taking third drop, as a courtesy the digits of my rank will not exceed 3 digits.

@anonymous-ml9yk Ай бұрын

Been there faced this . I'll suggest focus on learning things rather than distinction. Just be consistent , don't procrastinate in any case. You'll eventually get distinction

@DoctorAniGoa 18 күн бұрын

Hey Shreya, Let me give you a reality check you need. Medschool is simple. You're falsely equating good marks to be a good doctor. Let me tell you a secret that the best doctors don't score the best marks. You'll not realise it now, but the way you talk to patients is not determined by your knowledge but how you convince the patient, build rapport, communication skills etc. for which you need to have a life outside of medschool. I haven't learnt fhow to talk to patients in the class, I've learnt it by talking to my non medico friends, general public, football boys etc. If you think your marks will satisfy your ego, well then you're setting yourself up for constant failures. My MBBS aggregate is 69%, stood 26th in class of 150 at the end of 5.5 yrs of mbbs but got AIR 2556, probably top 10 in my state rank list for NEET PG while the competition is my juniors, my batchmates and 3-4 senior batches. MBBS is not the time to put yourself in 5th gear. No matter what Anuj pachhel or your topper feels, let your life not be mbbs. This is a marathon, your knowledge is not determined by marks, but by how you talk to patients in layman language using knowledge. Apart from that learn what is important in syllabus don't run behind knowing 100% of all subjects. Wishing you all the happiness:)

@samrubenabraham6979 7 күн бұрын

Hehe, didi, look at me... Im doing my 2nd year in a BTech course and yet my CGPA hasn't risen past 8. I'm waiting for my villain arc to kick in but I'm still falling back down, but yeah, I haven't given up on it. Look at you, be happy that you passed with a distinction! You can do it, sis, you can prove your adversaries and adversities wrong, time and time again. Btw I'm subscribing to your channel because you look kind of nice + you remind me of a friend of mine from my school days + I was intrigued by the video since it randomly popped up in my feed.

@adooon Ай бұрын

hey stranger i dont know who you are, i got your video randomly on my fyp. seems like things are a bit messy for you right now. i hope things will be better for you, you are a strong person, take care

@Denji029 Ай бұрын

Absolutely

@AmanSafeer-e7t Ай бұрын

hey @adooon just wanted to say that the fact that you took time to type this out shows how kind and empathetic you are - keep being you dude!

@AKMukku Ай бұрын

Hey girl… i just ended my internship this year. And im 25 so i can say im like a senior to you. Trust me when is say this i feel you. Ive been there crying at 2am questioning my life choices i still do. But trust me things get better. For me they did. I realised medicine is a part of my life NOT MY LIFE. I am a human a woman who loves rain and reading manga and loves watching anime … who cries when someone screams at her… who loves dogs and is scared of cats , who has different opinions about the ongoing trends and most of all i am someone who is loved. I hope things get better for you Like they did for me. You seem like a beautiful soul and i would have loved to have you as a junior in my college and i hope someday i meet you

@mistake.journal Ай бұрын

@@AKMukku this fills my heart with such joy. And yes, i REALLY did feel it when u said "i am someone who is loved". It's always the little things Thank u for commenting 🤍

@anonymousneeteducator9660 Ай бұрын

Heyy , cats are cute though:(

@bksama8314 Ай бұрын

Whats ur fav manga, its rare to meet someone

@anonymousneeteducator9660 Ай бұрын

@@bksama8314 was it for me ? Because I got the notification. Nonetheless, I'm gonna act as if it's not for me to avoid any communication as I'm socially awkward.

@Basuwans Ай бұрын

Aren't we all scared of cats with different opinions on ongoing trends??

@anujapakhare5588 Ай бұрын

I am a final year mbbs student rn and I had failed first year anatomy, I was soo devastated until 3rd year !! i would always feel that people are thinking that i am incapable, inferior, not valuable etc, till this date i have same thoughts sitting deep subconsciously but believe me once you begin living at your own pace you will learn to not get bothered by others opinions. Believe that your speed, time, way of studying and pace is different than others, you improve at your own pace and improving later than others doesn't mean you're less intelligent or less capable than others , it only means that sequence of events in your life is different than others, this applies to everyone btw. Also, go to the hospital wards frequently , observe the patients and realise how important treating them is and study keeping this in your mind , make friends but never emotionally invest in them much. Try to be independent but sweet and empathetic towards your batchmates and you'll be fine!

@harry.12338 Ай бұрын

I graduated med school this year .....you are there coz you are capable of pulling it off....don't you worry my gurl....you ll turn out to be wonderful in your life ... inshallah

@ss-zz6ii Ай бұрын

Hi ,i am 30 year old lady doctor , please know this , right now this crappy med school might feel like the world , but hey its not even 1 percent of what life is . Life is great outside of medicine and medicine is just a way to make ends meet . And the whole subjects are like .1 percent ofnwhat medical education and real life practice is . Also u dont need to decide anything about med specialities right now . U need to get out a little , forget worrying so much , its literally overthinking and nothing else . THIS TOO SHALL PASS . U WILL GET OUT OF THIS RAT RACE JUST TAKE IT LIGHTLY ,. MEDITATE . GO AND STUDY A LITTLE ABOUT HINDU RELIGION AND GOD . FAITH IN RELIGION MAKES A LOT OF DIFFERENCE . MOST OF ALL HAVE FAITH LITTLE GIRL . SOMEDAY U LL REALISE THAT YE BHOT CHOTI M9TI BATEIN HAIN

@mistake.journal Ай бұрын

Yes yes, im a lot religious ever since i got into medicine not gonna lie. U could never explain why some things are jst so unfair, and that ultimately leads u to seek god for whatever reason. My ajji keeps telling me snippets of hinduism every now and then, and it is my absolute favourite kinda pass time. Thank u so so much for commenting doctor, u dont know how much this means to me❤️‍🩹

@ss-zz6ii Ай бұрын

@@mistake.journal take care sweetie . U have a great life ahead .just keep swimming , every hardship passes .

@That_nerdd Ай бұрын

I am turning 21 this year and about to give my neet 2025 next (4th drop) . And i know that this world isn't easy place to survive for ppls like me , there will be more challenges which are bigger than this part of mine and if i say that i am ready to face them i must be lying because i am scared to death because rn the life i am living in is fucked up too ! You are seeing ppl of your age doing grt in their life and you are just sitting in that room for hours to study to make your life better than yesterday having hecticness on peak of your bloody mind ! But i truely believe that there is always a way . And you are living a life i am dreaming from the very first day and idk but i am proud of you ! I am not your subscriber just your video popped up and i was eating and watching this! But seriously you look like a very kind soul and i just want to say that whatever you are going through hope you'll find your way ❤ .

@ayushiraj8750 Ай бұрын

Hi..this will be my 4th drop too..i feel so stressed would you mind connecting somewhere so we can maybe help each other?

@That_nerdd Ай бұрын

@@ayushiraj8750 yes afc give me your insta !

@That_nerdd Ай бұрын

@@ayushiraj8750 yes afc give me your insta id !

@fierysceptile8916 Ай бұрын

I'll be turning 20 in 5 months..I'm on my 2nd drop, not because I'm dumb but the fact that I procrastinated last year which is on my 1st drop year...it's fucked up for me too..the fact that it eventually means I'm dumb, now even 7 months left for neet 2025 but I'm still on a low level and I'm fucked from all sides now, everything is shit but I will get out of this

@mistake.journal Ай бұрын

There we go. One thing I’ve realised is WHATEVER HAPPENS, “you” shd NEVER be the one talking urself down, never. And I understand drops can be mentally draining, but in the bigger picture, “you” would first have to believe that “you” r capable. U too got this🤍 And I also know, after neet 2025, u will come down to this very comment to let me know u have cleared it❤️‍🩹

@amishapanda6686 Ай бұрын

i could very much relate to you

@Rakeshsharma32q Ай бұрын

Lol 100% same situation!!!!! It's my 2nd drop and I am procrastinating and doing time pass on KZbin quora reddit 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

@fierysceptile8916 Ай бұрын

@@mistake.journal I wish I do, actually I have to earn this now, I personally thought my 2nd drop would go in peace but I procrastinated again.. and also people and relatives do make you feel bad too, but I won't say they are wrong in my case..I could have cracked it this year but I did not. I wasted time doing the things which gave me nothing good and for things which gave temporary happiness I will come back on neet 2025 result day and reply again whatever my neet score is but yes I will crack this for sure

@Priyanka-tl8nj Ай бұрын

@@fierysceptile8916 I'm glad that you learned a very important lesson. You know what at the end career isn't everything, no it but the quality of person. To be wise and love good and truth, rather than have some name, money or power. I'm glad, that you're able to see your mistake and admit it. Thus, you got a second chance right? Now, get your attitudes right and belt yourself to face the battles ahead. I don't know you, but all I seek is your best. So, as being a Doctor- you learn and understand the subject - your body. And best understand how to deal with, to provide it with the nutrition, and conditions to keep it healthy and best. As you would go on your entire life teaching others, the wrong choices they make regarding it. This attitude to correct, will not doubt take you on pathway to life. So, why fear? I wish I could say more, Jaha v raho, may God be with you and He help you.

@Anika9691 Ай бұрын

Brah get rid of false standards 💀 its fine to fuck up. Standards are gonna fuck you harder than anything else.

@dantes-unl Ай бұрын

Without standards you can't get anything done, it's just so easy to say it's fine to fu*k up but I as a person can not keep excusing my mistakes Without changing myself and the mistakes, it's fine to fu*k up but it is also fine to want to scream on the top of your lungs or just cry abt it, we're humans.

@arceusgod6589 Ай бұрын

You procrastinated your physiology paper! I procrastinated and now I’m in third year. Yea I know, first year seems to be overwhelming. We all had that topper mindset from our school, but remember everyone in med school is a topper of their own school. So don’t feel bad. MBBS is a very beautiful journey. You will make mistakes but eventually you learn from your mistakes. Also, one more suggestion college exams doesn’t even matter. After becoming doctor, no one will ask your marks. Also these exams are far far different from pg exam. Join some offline coaching in 3rd year but till then study little and don’t forget to enjoy your life.

@mochiipocky Ай бұрын

I simply can not thank you enough, ever since the start of the video up until the end i was straight up either nodding or crying.. everything that you said resonated with me and felt like it was directed towards me.. I’m wishing you all the best and I KNOW you can ace the hell out of this.. hundreds of us are waiting for your future to finally flourish upon you 💕💕💕

@aditya-ln2xm Ай бұрын

That why, my friends...NEVER procrastinate, acknowledge what your task and DO IT or else...i guess you know what happens otherwise

@blah___blah Ай бұрын

Ig its your bday today. Happy Birthday babe💜 From a 24 year old struggling CA student I can surely understand where you are coming from. Am still at inter with so many attempts attending classes with 18 year olds god it sucks but yeah we have to move forward. You are still young and so so much aware of yourself and your feelings bro. You are doing something so many dreamed of which is an achievement on itself. Surround yourself with genuinely nice ppl and do something for yourself be it a hobby or anything. You deserve those small happiness hun. In case nobody told you today, I am proud of you and I genuinely admire you💜💜

@sohamparikh3158 Ай бұрын

I can relate alot to your struggles. Im 19 and just about to begin my MBBS this year, but I still can understand the feelings of inadequacy you talk about, despite being in a position so many would sacrifice so much to have. I observe alot of what you talk about in myself too, from shortcomings to procrastination, beating yourself over the let downs, fearing disappointing those supporting you, running the rat-race to become 'someone' in this world, insecurities about being fat at a young age, and other such debilitating thoughts. You put the thoughts down really well, and Im sure there are many others that resonated with this. Glad to see that you are not beating yourself over your failures, and are looking forward to improving and looking towards the light at the end of the tunnel. I hope you stay motivated as such. I hope to see a day when you change the name from 'Mistake Journal' to 'Success Journal'. Bless your heart.

@mistake.journal Ай бұрын

Oh gosh, I was so very skeptical in having to put forth a video which I randomly put a camera to during my peak vulnerability. Your comment, I truly can’t express as to how much it means to me rn Soham. Honestly, at the end of the day, we are all just humans ‘trying’’. ‘Trying’ to make that first salary, ‘trying’ to retire our parents young, ‘trying’ to make something out of our own lives, ‘trying’ to put forth a ‘meaning’ out of this mere finite time we get in here. And yet here I was sitting contemplating what if my classmates find my video and make a complete fool of me in class. It’s trivial, I know, yet I’m too scared of the “image” that I so dearly guard with all my might. Too naive to realise that the “image” was something I crafted myself as a pass to dwell in this society. But the “image” is truly a joke when u r in ur 20s, isnt it? As the big shots tell u, 20s are meant to “explore”. So imma cut u and me some slack, and preach as many mistakes as one is capable of committing, BUT NEVER TWICE. U made my day, heck even a week Soham, much power to u. Thank u ❤️‍🩹

@pandapanda338 Ай бұрын

I feel the rawness of your thoughts cause this was literally me throughout my neet journey and I’m afraid it might not change for me in college. The way you are addressing yourself, the academic validation, the procrastination, it seems that the childhood trauma creeps into your life in ways you couldn’t even imagine . I feel you, I see you But I can also say this very surely “You’ve got guts girl” To put out this video Not only did you overcome your own fear You have become an inspiration The way you literally pull yourself back up at the end through your words is simply a proof that you can do it! ❤

@mistake.journal Ай бұрын

@@pandapanda338 ahaha i appreciate ur comment sm, thank u🤍

@Nilotinibisexpensive Ай бұрын

Currently in 3rd year MBBS I can totally relate! Please dont over pressurise yourself, MBBS is a long game, try to not get broken down when you face such huge walls, it won’t do good in the long run, it’s fine to not meet your goals, you can always get back up. My support and strength to you !

@AbhirajKumar-cy4uk Ай бұрын

so brave of you to post such a vulnerable perspect of your life. May god grace remains upon you

@saarth2678 Ай бұрын

Hey fellow medical student, Im a fresher still awaiting for my session to start, medicine is a field which makes u look deep into urself. It forces u to ask urself some questions about how much ur willing to sacrifice, it drains u but its a journey u need to navigate through and with that journey comes a lotta negative thoughts. Im stunned at ur maturity in communicating ur thoughts so well and wish u the best for the future

@Aspirant-1223 Ай бұрын

The perfect video to watch as a 20 year old , a few days before joining med school 💀. ( Bro our mental peace is already fucked up by the post neet trauma and all , i don't think med school will be more traumatizing than that ).

@zaynsaftab Ай бұрын

@HARSHYADAV-jv2ln Ай бұрын

Man! Personally I just don't feel too bad about anything anymore from the 11th class...Even Neet result didn't affect me very much, I was just like eh whatever at least I passed...Some people who did almost as much hard work or even more than me got 650 and didn't get the college so whatever

@jyggalag_ Ай бұрын

Hint : it will

@Aspirant-1223 Ай бұрын

@@jyggalag_ 💀

@jyggalag_ Ай бұрын

@Aspirant-1223 for me it definitely did bro, and same for almost all my classmates. Exceptions might still be there tho.

@shining_son1102 Ай бұрын

hey don't be sad med school is hard and everything will get better i am surprised how someone can put the emotions of how a lot of us feel in our mbbs journey so perfectly don't worry and keep trying

@user15239 Ай бұрын

Studying is the best distraction.❤

@sl3rpi-z-z932 Ай бұрын

@@RivenCharlie W rizz

@soso7611 Ай бұрын

Tbh many youngster get into this field without knowing the dark side of it and the famous quote "mbbs mai rona is far better without mbbs ke rona" Which is totally wrong agr mbbs nhi mila toh zyada se zyada ek sal ro loge but eventually *you will move on* and trust me this is not going to matter in long run when you are done with other degree which of course something which interests you lil bit but atleast you will move on, and there are so many opportunities that is going to fall in your feet and trust me you will think that there are better options other then mbbs. So trust in god, god has better plans for you.

@harshitajoshi7828 Ай бұрын

Hey Shreya As ur senior I can very well relate to ur situation .. specially that procrastination part …I got supplementary in first year MBBS ….and had same line of thoughts as yours … I always felt out of place … According to me doing MBBS is difficult not because of academics …. It’s because of constant competition, comparisons and expectations of society ….. and in order to achieve all that sometimes we tend to lose ourselves …But believe me it’s a phase which probably comes in a life of every student….last month I gave my Neet pg exam and soon such fancy abbreviations will be added in front of my name too…So just believe in your self and show up everyday.. You r way stronger than you think.. you can contact me if you ever need someone to talk or just to vent it out😊..All the best

@mistake.journal Ай бұрын

"Amd soom such fancy abbreviations will be added to my name too" This has me so emotional haha. Thank u sm for commenting🤍

@heyprathere Ай бұрын

Hey mate, don't belittle urself plz. We're all by ur side, sry, didn't see ur video, now I had to go thru it. C'mon, ur doing way better than ppl out there. There's a reason this thought is stuck on to u. Ur amongst the very less ppl ik who doesn't give up. Ur efforts matter, plz don't self sabotage urself. And yea plz don't care abt what the other ppl have to say abt u. Ngl, u inspire many ppl. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP SOLDIER!!! UR DOING GREAT SHREYA!!!

@mistake.journal Ай бұрын

@@heyprathere ahaha thank u sm pratham, im always so grateful for people like u in my life 🤍

@jessicak2530 Ай бұрын

Virtual hug from a fellow medic from 3rd year. Im still struggling in medschool but this too will pass. ❤ we shall overcome this. Wish you all the strength to pass your future exams!

@Being_sharvarii Ай бұрын

I just want you to know that, It gets better..!! Cliche but true. And So relatable.!! Thanks for sharing

@RivenCharlie Ай бұрын

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@omaigawd7551 Ай бұрын

Happy birthday girl. Make yourself proud, you can do it. Fuck ups are essential in the path of achieving perfection and honestly anything big and small. Glad you were brave enough to post this on here. We’re all so proud of you Doc! 🌻

@mistake.journal Ай бұрын

The ‘doc’ gave me goosebumps fr😭

@arewecool177 Ай бұрын

You are a perfectionist, slightly impatient, wanting everything at THIS TIME AND I LOVE YOU FOR THAT..im telling you it doesn't get better, infact it gets worse but with time you begin to understand how we cant have everything and how to find happiness amidst stress. All the best to you, I know you'll be fine❤

@sunithapatel9266 Ай бұрын

Oh Dear, very glad that you are able to express yourself so clearly about what you are going through and how you feel about it. It's never too late in life. So much clarity is enough to make life decisions. Take a pause and speak to your parents if you want to pursue something else. It's never too late in life. At the end being happy is what matters.

@Tangoezz Ай бұрын

Hello, I don't usually comment on videos at all since this is an account I exclusively use for studying, but I couldn't help but click on this one and watch it in its entirety. I resonate so much with a lot of what you said and I don’t know why I'm telling you any of this, but after listening to you for the last 20 minutes, I feel some strange need to leave some portion of me under this video. I gather this channel is quite a personal venture of yours, and this video even more so. So let me start by saying I really appreciate how visceral and unrestrained this video was and that I have the utmost respect for you for posting it as it is. I have so much admiration for medical students, having witnessed firsthand the amount of hard work and persistence it takes to first set yourself apart from the masses and take your place among the few (the task I'm currently stuck at). So, I can’t imagine the amount of hard work it must take then to try and again set yourself apart from that very same upper crust of people, and how shit it must feel when you fall behind even after putting some degree of effort in, because that baseline level of effort has risen so much, now that you’re surrounded by so many similarly dedicated people. Almost every aspect of your prior/current life and education you brought up in this video, I resonate with in some way-from your desire to help people, your country, support your family, and ultimately... just make your mark. Being 18 years old, and a 2nd ‘Dropper’ having had Issues like Procrastination and the Fear of Trying disease the bulk of my preparation as well, I relate with what you said about showing up to an exam and feeling like you could’ve aced it if you just tried a little bit harder instead of leaving it for later when it was too late. Then again, the fear of trying is also so prevalent because what if you really do try for an exam and still suck? That’s when it starts feeling like a measure of your worth, isn’t it? But it isn’t. Not even a little. I apologize for the abhorrently long message, but after seeing how personal and vulnerable you were in this video and discussing quite a few of these topics that are so close to my heart-all of which I couldn’t even mention because they’d make the message even longer, ranging from childhood obesity to the way you speak to yourself, to trying to at least make your depression productive-I just had to share my thoughts with you. Getting to the main point I wanted to make, which prompted me to comment in the first place: I understand it’s quite rich for a second-year 'dropper' to be telling a first-year medical student this, but one shit exam doesn’t decide your worth. Some exams are more important than others, but especially in your case, where you’ve already worked so hard to get where you are, that one Physiology paper has absolutely- for lack of a better term- 'jack shit' on your worth. From one stranger to another, I just wanted to let you know that. P.S. You know what else you have in common with those Marrow doctors-the ones who’ve made their mark...the ones with those strange abbreviations suffixing their names-besides having once been undergrads? They failed too. Every good doctor has faced setbacks and screw-ups, whether in their exams or their preparation. Those screwups only ever added to their expertise (Why else is Seniority valued in the Medical Field? Because they’ve had more time to fuck up), as your experiences will to yours. I don’t know you, but I’m rooting for you. Maybe it’s not here yet, but the day you etch your mark onto this world, you’ll be there to see it. I hope one day to find your channel again, under more positive a circumstance, and to look to you as a senior when I'm a fellow medico. You’ve got this Shreya. Give em’ Hell. Oh P.P.S Happy Belated Birthday lmao!

@mistake.journal Ай бұрын

The fact that u absolutely poured ur heart out in this comment makes 'me' feel accomplished in some sort cuz lord do i not deserve such degree of attention. I always be posting whatever cuz i always be needing some footage or the other to learn and experiment with the editing software that im using rn. So i am an avid video taker, anywhere and everywhere, u can ALWAYS spot me in the side with me and my shitty android phone ka camera tryna get the angles right lol And this video esp, i didnt pay much heed to the shit i do be blabbering. At that time after my exam, i poured my heart out cuz i had another exam the very next day which needed to be taken care of and i couldnt affford to sit and overthink every bits of it. So i jst needed 'a talk', some form of confrontation, and some form of reassuarance that i wont fuck up the upcoming exam given the today's state of mind which i was in the video lol But if anything, i find this video EXTREMELY funny, and so very cringe. Cuz im a very rational person in general and i do such a great job in keeping my mind in utter state of control, (gym helps mostly btw), so any form of self doubt, literally i go gym and everything gets quieter in my head. Only did i realise the kinda toll these exams had on me when i stumbled across 'this' and many other videos actually, which never will make it to youtube. But im fine honestly, im literally living THE best life, the ups and downs are a part of it. Heck, the straight line in ECG indicates the person to be dead. So ups and downs are more in our favour than we actually ever can rationalise. But, u my guy, u made my day, heck, even a week. Lemme know if u happen to get a medical college in karnataka, id love to meet u someday ♡♡

@Tangoezz Ай бұрын

@@mistake.journal Dude i love this reply, especially the ECG part and if i ever get into a MC here (turns out i live in Karnataka) I'd Love to get to know you too because i watched every other video you had after this and your personality's right up my alley(also you're fucking hilarious lmao), Here's hoping we both make our mark! ♡

@sanestcreature 8 күн бұрын

I'm not even on my own rn. I'm just a school kid but to discover I'm already fighting this phase of despair already, it sorta scares me often, that what is gonna become of me when I go out in the world on my own. But still, finding out that it's not me alone who fights these things alone kinda reassures me. Well... at least listening to you gave me the will to look after myself. Not even sure if I'm gonna fight this thing later or not, but the least I can do is to erase any chances of regret I might have to face later, such regrets which I wouldn't need to face if I had looked after myself. Gotta live in the present to enjoy the taste of the doughnut I'm eating, got no choice😞✨ Thhankyo sis

@Ineedgoodfriends Ай бұрын

It takes a lot of courage to put your thoughts forward this way. So, don't get disheartened because you are strong. I believe you'll achieve great things in your life if you have the ability to scrutinize yourself in these times. There is nothing that can stop your self doubt, everyone experiences them but it is through these phases that you learn to handle the pressure ahead. I have gone through similar phases and could relate to you but believe that the future ahead has good things in store for you! All the best ❤❤

@HARSHYADAV-jv2ln Ай бұрын

You would've gone deaf if you had heard the cries of my dopamine receptors in the beginning 1 minute

@charviparmar85 Ай бұрын

I’ll bet on you any day. You will become who you are. Who you are is fearless wisdom. Please keep choosing yourself. Life wants you to. People who love you want you to. And I promise you, your mum is proud of you and will always be, you can make mistakes, it’s safe, you’re safe. Life is hard at work to shape your heart to take its truest form. Give your people a chance to love you even in what you perceive to be your imperfections. Navigating uncertainty, not being afraid of who we are is so so difficult, resisting to take up an identity is so difficult. But, you/we are designed to not just survive it but grow freer and truer because of it. Forever rooting for you, Shreya. Big hug.

@HoodieGuyhere Ай бұрын

Hey stranger! its okay to not meet your parents expectations. its okay if u are fed up U said U want to provide smthng to your parents u said u want to serve india at this age u r so much mature so brave that you showed real you to the world... I swear you have a beautiful soul girl.... no matter how bad it gets jus dont quit yrr breathe breathe nd breathe... it will get better soon or later... filhal jus go with flow dont overthink! U r not alone ❤❤ good luck

@JuweriyaIffat Ай бұрын

hii stranger this randomly appeared in my feed and being in medical school I can totally feel your self talk...and i salute you to put your feelings out here. All the best ...you got this :)

@kimjongdaestwin3894 Ай бұрын

Seeing someone who's going through something similar in the same field as me feels a little validating at the same time eye opening on how people respond to same situations differently. As your senior i just want to tell you locking yourself up and studying mindlessly all day will get you nothing but ill health.....more so have a balance between your hobbies or things you enjoy and studying . Another important thing is having a network of medical students beyond your college so that you can get info on easy ways to learn the subjects.

@az71003 Ай бұрын

this is so me literally same, everything you said literally same, I'm in the exact same position. yeah medicine is not hard, it's just getting yourself to do it. but what holds you back is what people will think. and some professors don't make it easier. this video feels like me talking to me we'll make it big together same about the habit, except for me it wasn't the gym, but it is something that needs a lot of dedication and a lot of adults don't have it. medicine is not that hard anymore because of amazing resources. fear of failure 10000% prioritise energy over time 100% no competition got it

@mistake.journal Ай бұрын

Ahaha this is so wholesome Thank u for commenting🤍

@drkartikk Ай бұрын

Exactly! Crazy that how much I relate to it

@az71003 Ай бұрын

@@drkartikk I think all of us go through the same thing but we're too afraid to talk about it so we all struggle alone

@drkartikk Ай бұрын

@@az71003 yes 🥹

@AasthaTiwari-hd6ud Ай бұрын

Hey Doc❤ Happy Birthday Doc Gear up champ,u are champ, randomly found ur video watched it completely,related so much,i m from non medical background, basically jee dropper, preparing for jee,this year has been one of the toughest years of my life..ik u r 1-2 yrs elder to me,u are more experienced about life..but one this definitely i want to say that uk only one thing is constant in life that is change.. Idk randomly found your video,i cried wd uu,i m also a fat kid, eventually going gym from past 3 months and lost a lot many inches and kgs from my body and i m proud of myself..Gurl u came long way na..u survived from almost so many tough battles,and this is another oneee.. U are champ fr ❤

@Silverlining647 Ай бұрын

I’m 26 and a medical graduate and I still relate with you.

@Yoyojojo27 Ай бұрын

I was in the same boat 2months ago during my proff. Its good that you vented all these out. Now no going back Kuddos!!

@lmao_oaml Ай бұрын

I'll be 21 next week...from the last 2years my mental health is not going well, but from the past 3-4 months i have been only told why i look so pale so down so UNHEALTHY? not a single time anyone asked if I'm okay, the urge to end it all is screaming in my ears, being born in a family where every sibling looks like a runway model and im here looking like an absolute trash..this does not feels good.. nothing feels good... All those hobbies that use to get me excited, nothing work now Life feels like its stuck on the same page and its REPEATING on LOOP Bathing? Brushing?..i just cant Bed rotting at a point when my bladder starts to hurt cus i have no energy to even go to the washroom ( No im not asking for attention,i just wanted to take it out) YES IM 21,YES I HAVE NO FRIENDS!!

@PNSTUDIOS_100 Ай бұрын

Girl same😭

@lmao_oaml Ай бұрын

@@PNSTUDIOS_100 damn..I hope we all heal🙁🤝🏻 much love 💕

@PNSTUDIOS_100 Ай бұрын

@@lmao_oaml girl I have alot of plans going on in my mind it's a ducking mess But hope we heal and do something for our country Xoxo❤

@lmao_oaml Ай бұрын

@@PNSTUDIOS_100 same..the plans that are going on my head are definitely not good💀 ik alot of you who are going through this phase don't like to hear this but PLEASE JUST DONT UNALIVE URSELF... It'll take time but we sure will get better.. (I'm a guy btw)🤝🏻💕

@PNSTUDIOS_100 Ай бұрын

@@lmao_oaml bruhh😭I'm honestly done comparing myself with my schoolmates- Like they're partying, attending concerts and going for movies and I'm here studying and working out in the gym Idk why I feel like the main character lol

@luck-y8y Ай бұрын

Remember, your work in the medical field touches lives every day, even when it feels heavy. It's okay to seek support and take time for yourself. Your strength and compassion are vital, and brighter days are ahead. Keep going; you’re making a difference.

@KalyaniGautam-h8y Ай бұрын

Stay strong sister everything will be okay in the end if it's not then its not the end. Take care of yourself ❤

@Mee12394 Ай бұрын

If it's any comfort, I failed through every single internal viva test etc through the 1 yr. All when I had worked extremely hard for each test. I was going spirally down and withdrawn day by day. Eventually I passed the finals . Things became a Lott better after that. It's ok...Take things lightly .. something i wish i should have learnt to do myself

@bandana339 Ай бұрын

this is an instant realisation when you feel you have to make your own decision from now on,take responsibility, lead your young ones and manage things on your own from now on, this is the end of a teenage life and just the beginning of the adult one Time flies dear Hope you do well lot's of love❤

@Summerw00ds9 Ай бұрын

Sounds like you're living for your mum and not for yourself and maybe you have some kind of childhood trauma. You don't HAVE to get married or HAVE to have kids , it's a choice . Stop putting your parents on a pedestal when all they did was provide for you (basic needs), I mean that's what they were supposed to do after all it was them who decided to bring you to this world. It wasn't your choice to be born anyway.

@nonsensecontent1885 Ай бұрын

Please don't expect too much from yourself it will just cause you to suffer more, I'm not saying that you should not work towards your goals but pls be aware of who you are and act accordingly, know when to take rest, do things at your own pace and most importantly keep yourself away from looking at these so called young/early achievers, take your time everybody is different. I use to do it as well and only after ruining my mental health I understood the root of my problem and meeting a good counselor. MY BEST WISHES TO YOU!! & STAY HAPPY!!

@629hg Ай бұрын

Not a med student . But going to give my first attempt of cma intermediate this December. Hell afraid of failing because this year almost all my friends are doing well in their respective fields , they are busy now . And here i am sitting with pen and books with a pale face like a dead body. when you broke down that got tears in my eyes.

@sneha_562 Ай бұрын

Hey didi...though i am younger than you but i face a lot of emotional ups and downs too..and i relate to that academic Validation throughout my life i have always been thinking or making my worth validated by my academic results...so i never really saw downs in academics till this year in my life..when i failed in Neet for the very first time in my life i was being called a failure...UK I REALIZED HOW HELL THIS WORLD IS...PEOPLE REALLY VALUE UH UNTILL THEY ARE GETTING SOMETHING IN UH WHICH THEY SEE VALUABLE...so for me i really don't have any other qualities (That's i used to think) but now i have a different view...after neet happened to till now...i was in a very worse condition mentally...i am suffering still now but feeling better than before...ik i have less time left for neet 2025...but THIS TIME I AM NOT PUTTING MY WORTH TO ANY EXAMM..that's what i learned..UH ARE A HUMAN BEING WHO HAVE IMPERFECTIONS..BUT STILL A PERSON WHO IS WILLING TO LEARN AND GROW IS ALWAYS PERFECT even if it's imperfectly perfect..YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY ohk❤PLEASE UNDERSTAND UR INNER CHILD..UNDERSTAND UR INNER WORLD GIVE IT TIME...WHAT SHE WANTS AND NEEDS Understand it...if uh can't understand by urself consider seeking professional support...i bet once uh understand what uh really need from inside uh will be able to like Do really great in each aspects of your life...Consider loving urself first making urself happy first..put urself first because it's you Who have always really been with you in your low phase...it's you who is fighting all the days and nights for being a better version of yourself..DON'T UH THINK THAT HARDWORKING BEAUTIFUL SOUL DESERVE LOVE CARE AND KINDNESS?..it does deserve right..? yep so give it...Ik didi you will become a good doctor fr but BE A GOOD DOCTOR FOR YOURSELF FIRST❤

@husseinkhalid_3898 Ай бұрын

Hey, no idea how your video came on my feed but it's crazy how relatable these experiences were. I'll just leave bit of advice here which I wish I could tell my younger self, (which surely will sound cliched😂) "stop beating yourself up so much", and "bro, the longer you run unwillingly in the rat race the more bruised you'll end up. Life is not a race; breath in, look around and see for what it actually is to you." And yeah most advices in life are easier said than done, so...stay strong!

@mistake.journal Ай бұрын

@@husseinkhalid_3898 damn, this is EXACTLY what i needed to hear today, thank u sm for commenting, much power to u🤍

@mayankrathore5831 Ай бұрын

Dear sister i may not know how you may be feeling but the best thing you did was sharing your problem and just see how many people are giving positive response. Salute to your confidence and please give update on your current condition and please mail me to get any type of help you want . It just a low point everbody suffer and you are too suffering from it but realization and response is BEST THING TO IT THIS IS YOUR HIGH TIME. JUST COMEBACK SHOULD BE PERSONAL TO YOU❤❤❤❤🎉

@hyphen1210 Ай бұрын

Never ever feel alone when such people exist that have been to what u are going thru rn. They are doing well today and so will you mayne even better. You steer the way you want your life to face and its never too late for anything. Its life and you never fail, we just learn

@sonmlol3772 Ай бұрын

I don't know but you've to go through this storm once and you'll be a completely different person when you'll passs the phase you'll be much stronger more love to you hope you'll get through it be strong girl.

@vempire9530 Ай бұрын

I am 19.. scored 649 this year.... I don't think I'll get any gov.medical seat...not at least in my state(Bihar)....It was my 3rd time giving NEET. I think I'll try again next year..for the last time. I hope you will get happier in life.🙇🤍 And you do what you like doing...what makes you happy. I'll be doing the same.🫶

@samyogadhikari2748 Ай бұрын

The comments here are so wholesome. I am a M-1 too, and reading through these made me feel that I am not alone in this marathon🙃

@SwarneelBhattacharjee Ай бұрын

Hi, this vid popped up in my fyp randomly after messing up two quizzes back to back on the same day. I know exactly what you mean. We have a saying in my college that goes "take it lite", meaning don't ever stress out about anything, and trust me it works like magic. Once you start chilling out, the situation starts getting chill as well. Don't worry, you got this

@anshikasaini6838 Ай бұрын

Hey got ur video in my recommendations, viewed ur channel and the content is amazing You are so true and such a pure soul i would say.. keep going gurl nd never let other people ruin ur thoughts and actions never lose hope surely great days will come but never stop learning. Such a great thing u r doing on this channel. Many more to come just have patience and gratitude everything will pave out the way towards u at the right timmings just be patient little one❤

@yourefriend6326 Ай бұрын

It's will be okk After a dark night a bright day comess❤

@dis8924 Ай бұрын

Reminded me of the past, we all go through it, we learn from it, and these things change us, they make us better, they make us who we are, you'll be okk....

@Zexxade Ай бұрын

You''ll be the best doc ever! God will steer the boat but you must row

@ayushbhadoriya9337 Ай бұрын

Itss okay to feel low sometimes,I am also an aspirant who is annoyed with this year result😅😅,But again trying to get back to meet such strong and beautiful souls like you senior,Its okay to feel pain lonely sometimes you just need the right person of a circle ,your family to be okay .Take care senior, willing to meet u next year with both of us smiling😊😊😊.

@jsia315 Ай бұрын

Hi You, *virtual hugs from me to you* Its probably hard for you rn, and i know you may have felt like you have failed in life and future but i want you to know that it is not the Reality. It may seem so blurry right now for u, and positivity seems like so hard to take on, that is understandable. Whether you failed or almost failed the subject , please know that it has nothing to do about your capabilities, lets serve this as a lesson to be learned. I am so proud of you, coz first of all, you got into med school❤ i believe , truly believe you will be amazing doctor, please keep on fighting, the score does not define your entire being, you get up , try again, and do good !if not you will try again. I am sure you will make it in life and get back in this video and feel proud that yes you got it. ❤ All the best missy, 🦋

@sushant63 17 күн бұрын

Don't be sad buddy life is unfair but find some good moments in your life. Good moments are beside you you just need to see them don't overpush yourself you are unique I'll be sure will move out from this situation don't think you can do everything just do your think what you like to do to whom you are comparing yourself are also stuck but you don't know and still comparing. And I know you can do it add some physical games in routine and everyone knows it's a marathon. And plz don't go for substance abuse 😊. THE STRONG GIRL .. find someone to talk with you ❤️ and if no one's around you just comment hi on this I'll always there..chapm

@vaib_solanki Ай бұрын

dont suic*de that stuff kills you

@harnisha91 Ай бұрын

Dear you are stronger than you think. You are growing up and not old. ❤

@Aunsurestudent Ай бұрын

I can't exactly say I understand what you feel but just relating seeing someone who is struggling just like you and just seeing them talk about it make you feel safe and just that your not alone in this

@captainelgato8313 Ай бұрын

The COST OF ACADEMIC VALIDATION i paid by avoiding the med school even after acing 100 biology and joined the dark side of JEE. My philosophical side was in conflict ever since. Always knew the med were closest to the heart.

@JonnyDep-bn7px Ай бұрын

Hi Sherya, Life is like a marathon, and what matters is to reach at the end. You strictly need some rest and some time away from your current schedule. Go for a 2-3 day vacation if possible. After that you will be able to concentrate better.

@FOUNDEROFTJCO. Ай бұрын

NOBODY CARES , BE YOUR OWN SAVIOUR , I WISH WE COULD TALK .

@nitishathapa2532 Ай бұрын

Hey girl , Know that you'll really do something big in life Know that it's too steep at the top but have a believe in yourself you can do it Stay strong ❤

@sakshi7132 Ай бұрын

Hey my friend... I hope you are doing well now.. and belated happy birthday to you... 💛🌼✨ I know time is hard right now but everything will workout eventually.. I'm a second time dropper and I'm 20 now.. I feel messed up I feel I'm worthless, at times I find myself crying my heart out while hugging my pillow... Just remember that you are loved .. you are someone's inspiration and here I'm rooting for you... You'll figure out everything...here are some virtual hugs for you..🤗🌼🌷

@divyajindal3419 Ай бұрын

Dear, we medicos totally understand your sadness. I'm in BAMS 2nd proff I had to give my 2reappear exam twice. I also lost hope coz these private colleges r soo fucked up. Even now I don't love my degree/life/college. I'm not living bs nikaal rhe h din. Overload work, attendance, assignment, internals. It's my birthday today n I had my 1st internal today. And if we didn't pass these we'll have to give them again. Ye koi life h !!

@riddhimauraon1155 Ай бұрын

baby, calm down its alright , I believe in you , you can do this .❣

@SandeepSabarish Ай бұрын

I'm 19 I'm on my repeating this year. I fought my parents for noting deemed college. I want study in government College but this video is psychotic. Stay strong sister

@sohinigupta5938 Ай бұрын

You will do fine dear. One paper will not take away anything trust me. Don't take so much stress. Don't think about competition just read for interest and curiosity. Happiness is the most important remember that. Take care of your mental health ❤ I am in the medical field too and I understand your pressure but nobody is going to pull you out of it but you❤

@sougandhikabasavarajkori3890 Ай бұрын

Hey don’t worry The one thing I learnt in mbbs is to always “Trust yourself“ Keep believing in yourself You’ll reach where you always wanted to be😊 And happy birthday to you 🥳♥️

@sayantanchaki4066 Ай бұрын

Paper meh likh ke ana hota hai baas aur kuch nhi kuch aye na aye baas khali chorke mat ana, by the time you reach final year you will realize that's the entire game of the exam and you will stop beating yourself about it. My advice to you would be don't get into these marrow, prepladder online coaching videos this early, no matter what all these coaching Institutes and online gurus have instilled in your mind your primary aim should be to pass the prof exams first not neet pg. To pass the prof exams pls do the imp questions of your university early in the year by studying the easiest and most accessible books possible, don't get into the mindset of studying only from standard text books, often than not these are not useful for exams and are over glorified. The key to survival in mbbs is to accept failure and not take it personally . The more you are used to failure the more it would be easier to tackle things

@nell5588 Ай бұрын

Hey All I will say is Good Luck be strong especially emotionally. Its your life, don't think much just do whatever you like I don't think anyone will give you a straight answer, even if they do its not that simple Listen JUST LIVE have fun. try your best and update me

@aimersmotivation8158 Ай бұрын

Hey buddy..... I used to be good student bloody good i used to study like 1 day before my exams and scored top 3 above 90 percent from class 6 to 12th .....but in my first drop for neet i was fucked questioned myself what you did in your life .... Jab best shot dena tha tb hi asi tesi krwa li idk kya hua mai phadna hi chod Diya...... I started quitting before exams mocks ..... Now i am in 2nd drop turning 20 next year feels bhaut ajeeb because I want to study medicine but i also want to document myself and travel (chotu sa director storyteller hu ) but I don't where life is going now a days......2 am cry..... Playing maa song on loop amd crying for hours and showing everyone no no i am ok ....hahaha ........let my hardwork and shivji decide my 2025 exam......and ya also wanted to meet you agar kidi dimension mai likha hoga toh milte h :D

@Mahima-i9t 26 күн бұрын

See Ca Neha datta and have regularly Hanuman chalisa and Neem karoli baba will always with you

@ReensaraiArtbyReenaS Ай бұрын

Thank you for expressing your thoughts❤I felt that way decades ago🎉you will create your own freedom as you complete training,everything changes all the time❤you will learn you will grow and finally you will find what is aligned to you,medicine has many many branches.failing leads to mastery.mastery also leads to failure when it is time to learn in a different way by teaching🎉🎉

@ReensaraiArtbyReenaS Ай бұрын

I felt like you are feeling 2decades ago,there are also branches of medicine outside the hospital as business,tech,research,teaching.find a mentor in your campus,women in medicine,we must transition roles many times.

@ReensaraiArtbyReenaS Ай бұрын

Do an internal check in of why you entered medicine? If it is influenced by family,you must discover yourself and chart your path❤it's not a one time check in,you must check in with yourself often as medicine itself changes just as often.

@ReensaraiArtbyReenaS Ай бұрын

Nothing you learned is a waste🎉 it all adds up in the end whatever you decide to do.