The Crisis of Addiction - Childhood Trauma and a Corrupt Culture

[@academyofideas]

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[@SnakeJones09]

Have you seen the recovery journal of Bidens Daughter yet. Jesus H Christ man. As a Recovery Coach and nearly a decade of experience working in recovery. That journal is real.

[@TheCed2011]

@@SnakeJones09 any links for that mate? I'd like a look.

[@SnakeJones09]

@@TheCed2011 James O Keefe Project Berita was raided by the FBI for the diary. Basically confirming its real. Just look that up.

[@TheCed2011]

@@SnakeJones09 yea I'm all over that mate. 👍

[@keyakaabag6017]

Fake news

[@a.bismail6492]

I’m fighting alcoholism. It ruined my relationship with my wife and family. It started in college and i downplayed it. I’m 6 months sober and healing everyday. Cheers!

[@glg210]

Keep up the amazing work 💪🏽, with every day it gets a little easier so they say

[@booksboundnoveljourneys1122]

Congratulations! Keep going!

[@theWinterWalker]

I've been sober 6 years. It runs in my family. My dad is on hospice and my brother is right behind him. I'm estranged from my entire family. My mother wasn't innocent in this, she didn't drink, but she drove us all crazy .... Be proud of what you've overcome 🥀

[@theWinterWalker]

Also, I HIGHLY recommend you do some deep introspection with a licensed professional to dig out the hungry ghosts or it WILL rear it's ugly head over and over and over.... My dad and brother refuse to do the hard work, they'd rather just be an alcoholic instead of a highly gifted individual that have developmental disabilities and who's needs weren't met. It's really sad, ESPECIALLY from someone who lived thru it and had to estrange myself to protect my boundaries that continued to be violated.

[@Stardusk.]

Keep up the good work!

[@TEAforMIND]

"I have absolutely no pleasure in the stimulants in which I sometimes so madly indulge. It has not been in the pursuit of pleasure that I have periled life and reputation and reason. It has been the desperate attempt to escape from torturing memories, from a sense of insupportable loneliness and a dread of some strange impending doom." Edgar Allan Poe

[@planetvegan7843]

Number one prescribed chemical dependency among worldwide humans is anti-cholesterol drugs. Just stop eating cholesterol but they can't.

[@Pomeray8]

@@planetvegan7843 that has to do with Ancel Keyes' bad advice. Dietary cholesterol has no bearing on your levels. Vitamin D3 is one molecule away from cholesterol. Your body is mostly fat, protein, cholesterol. It's a transport mechanism between cell membranes (also clean up microphage damage when fasting) . Those drugs starve mitochondria, via coq10 enzyme (which most drs don't tell patients to take). Cholesterol plays a roll in sex drive, immunity. All that's necessary to do is watch triglyceride levels, and see that ldl types (4) aren't indicating inflammation (oxidized). Avoid sugar, vegetable oils, grains as much as possible.

[@mikzin630]

@Planet Vegan you guys come up with something new every day, don't you

[@spellbreaker9384]

hey gryt, speak for yourself, go back to sleep and stop stalking me.

[@planetvegan7843]

Look it up. Facts.

[@UnschoolingCOM]

“The question is not why the addiction, but why the pain.” ~ Gabor Mate

[@egrytznr8893]

"The question is: have u had a cup'o lately?" -Yerba Mate

[@adudewithafairlyinternetco9454]

Damn

[@DemetriPanici]

*”You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.” - Marcus Aurelius*

[@ADcrackerjack]

Meditations.

[@markofsaltburn]

But you don’t. That advice is no use to addicts, whose unconscious has power over them. Aurelius is only useful to people who don’t need him.

[@maryfrances1307]

My now deceased boyfriend paraphrased this saying to me when I was a depressed teenage girl. I’m in my forties now, and it is still the best advice I’ve gotten in my life. He said, “you can’t control what others do, but you can control what you think about.”

[@rogosobe]

Not that easy, though.

[@SlickNick98]

No it's not easy but nothing actually worth attaining is gonna be easy ​@@rogosobe

[@georgianagheorghe8848]

There are cases when a child grows into a loving family, but it's destroyed by the corrupted system and sick society that cut his wings and brainwashes him into losing self-confidence and accepting society's sick rules.

[@satnamo]

The state of das world is a reflection of the state of people’s minds.

[@heavenwithin81]

That is also very true.

[@BeattapeFactory]

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[@SC-gw8np]

@@satnamo Very true. As within, so without.

[@TheKhaosDemon]

Just 22 days ago I dug myself out of a 10 year Opiate addiction with the following phrase: “No One Can Save You; You Can Only Save Yourself.”

[@nicoletrulyyours]

Congratulations🙌🏾

[@TinyHouseOfHorrors]

This is where I am now but I am still struggle at times. I hope with shadow work I can finally get past this. I see you commented a year ago, I hope your journey has served you well. 😊

[@dadon3455]

@@TinyHouseOfHorrorswhat is shadow work I am also struggling with opiate addiction

[@jeanniematson6291]

I love how you "I dug myself out". I finally came to realize I could only escape years of addiction to opiates and benzos, all prescribed, by myself. It was agony. There is no soft easy way. I told myself over and over in withdrawal "trust your body, it knows how to heal itself, relax and let it."

[@ronmexico79]

How's everyone doing now??

[@rubenmendezhoms3488]

This comment section is like a great therapy session for all of us. It's really nice to see so many people opening their troubled hearts. It seems like all we need is love, indeed.

[@gewizz2]

my heart is troubled by your comment

[@ZagrosKurdistan]

A great man once said "love is the answer" ❤

[@johndena2882]

God is love.

[@steelheron1309]

To me, addiction is the result of the shame and pain felt from sustained psychological injury caused by physical and/or psychological trauma that isn't accepted as a legitimate injury by society. The shame that comes from such trauma stems from the fact that society finds one to be weak if such trauma causes a psychological injury. It's embarrassing to express painful feelings as the result of a traumatic experience of a psychological nature. This results in the individual using coping mechanisms that are addictions to mask these injuries to give society the facade that you are impervious to such injuries. Eventually the addiction overwhelms the injured and it becomes detrimental to everybody causing trauma to the injured and to those around the addict. Now the cycle continues and multiplies.

[@ranirathi3379]

wow! you pretty much summed up what i was thinking. it is like, the traumatized child is stigmatized and marginalised and shamed and considered as broken or defective or lacking by society. so now not only he feels NOT SEEN by the ones who were SUPPOSED to provide emotional nourishment; but the SHAME about BEING SO EMOTIONALLY STARVED makes one keep everyone else at an arms length. bcz if they saw the love starved overlooked and abandoned child, they'd abandon them all over again.

[@AlastorTheNPDemon]

...then we get this fun little complex called "pathological narcissism" where shame is the axis of all thinking and doing. Shame of being ashamed, shame of being seen as defective, shame of being seen as needing, shame of being seen in any negative light, shame at being "caught in the act", whatever that act may be. What might the act be? I don't know - my moral compass is screwed from so many different authorities forcing incompatible ideas down my throat that I've pretty much delegated that function to whoever can see me. There is no right and wrong - only the vested interests of present company.

[@aakkii2123]

*Childhood trauma can lead to an adulthood spent in survival mode , afraid to plant roots , to plan for the future , to trust , and to let joy in . It's a blessing to shift from surviving to thriving . It's not simple , but there is more than survival .*

[@satnamo]

De mystery of life lies not just in staying alive; But in finding 1 thing to live and die for.

[@raw_dah]

Strength to you my friend!!

[@lunam33]

100 very vicious cycle, hard to break.

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[@aeoteroa818]

@@satnamo thats an extremely shallow trope

[@leekelly1718]

Starting at 13 I got blind, falling down drunk whenever possible. I did every drug I could find. I’m now 55 and still haunted by my fathers tyrannical, narcissistic, cruelty.

[@smileyface5908]

To leave addiction behind is to learn to be comfortable while being uncomfortable.

[@philcooper9225]

My mom was a neglectful Narcissist who covered up the abusive methods of our psychopathic rather. Both were diagnosed later in life. I was an alcoholic until age 32, when I forgave my parents and discarded them forever. My father recently died and I was able to properly mourn instead of hate him thanks to having forgiven him. Haven't had a drink in 2 years. Mom's addiction was abusing religion, worshiping herself. Dad's was booze. They were both addicted to their horrendous methodology.

[@CHITOWNDEECON1]

Using psychedelics with intent helped me more than I ever imagined they could... they're so much more than the party I thought they were when I was a kid

[@theinkbrain]

Its a wonder that any of us get through childhood alive - let alone to become functioning adults.

[@iPostiPodiEatiYuri]

miracle. grace of God

[@theinkbrain]

@@iPostiPodiEatiYuri Well then, God needs to get off his ass and get a whole lot busier.

[@iPostiPodiEatiYuri]

@@theinkbrain Amen

[@theinkbrain]

@@iPostiPodiEatiYuri I like you and I bet you are a great human being. My guess is that you are tolerant and have a very lovely sense of humor. At any rate, God bless you.

[@iPostiPodiEatiYuri]

@@theinkbrain woah appreciate the kind words!!

[@RnBandCrunk]

Indulging in addictive behaviour to flee from the reality in our lives. It just shows how intense life really is.

[@FixItStupid]

When You See THE LIES = DEATH & You, Cant' Fix IT That Makes Me Sick See Fake Money & Nuclear lies Come DUE

[@suryacoapy5129]

I know a man who smoked heavily all his adult life. Around 60 he got throat cancer. He gave up smoking. He told me he'd tried many times to give up and constantly failed. But when he got sick he succeeded and he said "It was the easiest thing I've ever done". I think habits and addictions seem big when we have them and smaller when behind us. Addictions are truly crippling, and are definitely a part of us trying to tell us something.

[@vaporware666]

As someone who's struggled with addiction for 15 years, and has quit smoking multiple times, yeah smoking is vastly easier to quit than anything being used as a crutch to be social/get through life, that shit's difficult and soul crushing

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[@teekalsang]

Thank u for sharing this 💗🙏💜

[@SOLIDSNAKE.]

That's insane he smoked that long

[@SOLIDSNAKE.]

@@vaporware666 smoking is my crutch.. For life and whiskey.. I'm dying I can feel it

[@Cyyanss]

Painfully poignant as ever. Not going to be too obvious but this cuts deep. Best of luck to the others that know the horror of the cycle.

[@erinnelson434]

Thank you. I am eagerly anticipating the upcoming episodes mentioned in this one exploring the possible options for taking on a healthy and addiction-free life.

[@kiqyou]

@collin 🙏 same

[@luckylove72]

It’s over.

[@SOLIDSNAKE.]

I'm dying

[@BlackestSheepBobBarker333]

Yup, I hear ya. It helped dealing with my crippling speech problems. I want to drop out of Society and can't due to financial reasons. I hate it

[@divelostmind]

The uncovering of trauma has been a major theme in my life for the past few months, and I've been doing a lot of self therapy, writing, memory analysis and shadow work to try and figure it out and deal with my neurotic tendencies/ addiction(s). So good timing on the video once again, and hope this helps some people out.

[@beyond-journeys-end]

A odd ? Ever heard of persona games? i haven't hear about shadow work but i know the concept though persona.

[@egrytznr8893]

@@beyond-journeys-end the "Persona" games r all based on Carl Jung's theories on the self and personal/collective unconscious, the game "Control" also is heavily inspired by Jung's theories. U should watch this channels vids on Jung, they r a good introduction, they have a whole set.

[@beyond-journeys-end]

@@egrytznr8893 While thank you, i bein thinking about learning more sinces Persona 4's classes.

[@egrytznr8893]

@@beyond-journeys-end no problem, u should learn more it's very interesting

[@andredelacerdasantos4439]

Thats really cool! I've been composing a piano sonata titled "Neurotica" with the same purpose.

[@thechancellor-]

To the *incredible person* seeing this, I wish you all the best in life❤ don't over blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn the skills needed and get after it, all the keys to a happy life is in your hands. Keep pushing.

[@satnamo]

I must imagine him happy pushing that boulder up mountains because de struggle itself towards great heights is sufficient to replenish a man’s heart.

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[@SOLIDSNAKE.]

🙄

[@sriku1000]

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[@rileywallace1132]

I'm so grateful for the perspectives that exist that tell me I'm not alone.. not that I'm addicted but that I'm not the only one who sees the condition of our falling western society.. thank you sir.

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[@JoDo777]

Intentional design

[@7fg9sd8a9]

I have a food addiction. It is absolutely killing me. I need to focus and conquer this. I've been suffering my whole life.

[@MakeMeLo]

It's probably an oral fixation. Try looking at food as an energy source. Starvation diets don't work. Reduce, instead of eliminating junk foods and small and often. So instead of 3 large meals a day, divide your macro needs into 6 smaller meals and go on moderate cardio walks for 30 minutes each day. Eat more soluble fiber too. You can speed up your metabolism with this method and not have to work so hard. It takes 21 days to form a new habit to replace the old ones.

[@sasanr1]

When i ended 10 years of opiate addiction i was so happy that i could feel sadness stress excitement ... Again i rather feeling depressed or anxious than feeling nothing ,living like a zombie , we can't emotionally evolve and grow and heal if we don't feel Deep change only happens when you see and feel something with seriousness then your mind moves and grows , an addict lacks of emotional which is created by substance prevents him to change his life ,which creates a unsolvable loop

[@fauberkaupfmann982]

I feel like cigarettes are killing my ability to feel anything, or to strive for something better, but everyone around me (especially my cig addicted dad) tell me that "its okay, you can stop another time, just focus on this or that problem" which makes me think they dont really give a shit about me or they really secretly hate me and wish me nothing but dread and misery...

[@sasanr1]

@@fauberkaupfmann982 hopefully you overcome it but cig doesn't have much effect on emotions or mental health ,on the contrary it's your mental condition that causes your addiction and other issues it's common for all addicts to downplay the dangers and seriousness of their substance , I'm sure he could react differently if he wasn't a smoker or if he could have stopped smoking himself ; if i don't really care for myself how can i care for someone else Though regardless of what he says ,it's how you feel and think that is the important thing! On other hand what do you expect of him or anyone else to do about you smoking cig no one can do anything even if they truly care , the sooner you realize that only you're the problem and solution and no one but you can sabotage or heal yourself better , same as any mental issue addiction also is always only yours to bare , at best others can only feel sad and sorry for us in the end we are the only one that suffers and can do something about it We must first know and understand ourselves to find any resolve and peace

[@iPostiPodiEatiYuri]

@@fauberkaupfmann982 they are just dying corpses who dont know anything about love and health

[@nicoletrulyyours]

Congratulations!!!! It’s been 4 years for me

[@Automedon2]

I know exactly how addiction begins, being very susceptible myself. I've had alcohol, sex and gambling addictions and am currently addicted to the Internet - it's obsessive. As I conquer one addiction, the next one always kicks in. In everything that can be addictive there is a moment of elation that strikes you. The makers of casino games use that moment, when even a small win on a slot machine triggers a bell or tune. Then, like a lab rat, they forever chase that moment, but it's never the same elation as the first time you experience it, so you keep chasing it trying bigger and bigger doses of whatever triggered it the first time. There is a thing in animal conditioning called 'intermittent reward. If the behavior is only rewarded at random times, the animal becomes even more desperate and learns the behavior quicker. Now, if you want to talk about how one develops the type of personality that is stimulated to that degree, so easily, then I might attribute it to childhood trauma, abandonment, being an outcast. I have no idea how that link to addiction, but every addict, of any habit or substance that I've ever met shares that past.

[@Shlogger]

yeah. When people say "addictive personality" that always felt kind of lazy to me. It goes so much deeper than that. "What caused your personality to be so susceptible to addiction" is what should be discussed. I'm sure there's examples of it but I've never met anyone who just spontaneously decided to give up their own self control for no apparent reason just for giggles. There has to already be the right conditions in place for a habit to transform into a full blown addiction. I'm kind of in the same boat with the internet but mostly this stupid site right here. It's very tricky because it's not like any other addiction at all. Just a constant flux of gorging on information and content to an unhealthy degree but also simultaneously providing great content like these videos and countless others that inspire and enlighten. It's kind of twisted because even very positive and educational things get caught up in the addictive mix which makes it all the more confusing. For me personally I think at least as far as all this goes as well as plenty of these other vices at least at the moment, stem from my sense of almost complete isolation from the outside world for several years now. I work from home. No close, or really even distant friends to speak of. Family are almost all dead or unresponsive and far away. Even as I struggle desperately with the aspects of my addictions the crushing weight of loneliness is always there to constantly try and convince me that it's all quite pointless and none of it is worth fighting for or caring about in the first place. Everyday is a constant battle against those thoughts. Fought alone. In solitude. These stilted brief little messages back and forth with strangers is more or less my only communication with the outside world. And it's perpetually unsatisfying but go out and try to meet people now in real life. See how that works out. Good luck. People are completely locked into this technological trance. Unable to hardly even make eye contact for longer than a glance or two up from some kind of screen. It's pretty horrific honestly. And I'm not excluding myself entirely from that but I will say I'm not really lost in my phone really. I try to appreciate the experience of being around other people and pay attention to what they're saying but it is seldom returned or even acknowledged. Thus I end up retreating back to my solitude and chemical bandages and the vicious cycle continues.

[@bigbadlara5304]

As a young kid I felt anxiety all the time and was scared to ask for help. I began watching TV in all my free hours and later gaming all the time to supress my anxiety and negative emotions.

[@stephen6739]

@@Shlogger resonate with this, thanks for putting into word's

[@Automedon2]

@@Shlogger My first (lengthy) reply to your well written post disappeared, but let me say. I am 65 and struggled my whole life to be sociable. There were times when I was in a very public job and I forced myself to be sociable, day after day. And I became more and more depressed about living a lie. That was not who I was. The day I gave up being someone other than who I am, the weight of the world lifted from my shoulders. I once asked a therapist if he thought it strange that I have always needed to be alone and he said that he believed it was a definite personality type. The only hard part about being a loner is if you feel that you shouldn't be. Apart from the 3 days a week that I work now, I am completely alone. I love it. Sometimes I actually feel ecstatic that I've finally accepted who I am. No more pretense of any kind. Good luck on your life's journey. I hope you finally find the self acceptance that I have.

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[@veronicaeugenia2231]

All so true. Thank you, Academy of ideas for addressing this. I am lucky to have survived a childhood of profound trauma, very frequent beatings, physical torture, psychological torture, molestation and rape all well underway before I was in grade school. The trauma led to a variety of addictions that wasted so much of my life and talent. Healing, however, is possible.I am still not exactly sure quite how I have mastered all my addictive habits and behaviors. I experienced some profound moments of self-compassion that helped me make better choices. Vigilant self-care is required. For me, a balanced approach including exercise, diet, sleep, meditation, creativity, radical self-acceptance and plenty of time in mother nature are all key. I wish you every success on this path. I love you! I believe in you! You are worth it and you deserve it!❤️

[@sriku1000]

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[@SatanasExMachina]

As a prior addict to multiple different substances at different stages, I appreciate this video very much. Thank you.

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[@TheoHawk316]

I'm glad that y'all said the truth, that addiction can come from ANYWHERE (especially in mine and my dads experience) and not just videogames, some people tend to forget that excessive time spent playing videogames isn't the only issue society has today.

[@alexk48]

I'm from a different generation and mine was reading. I can see how any available distraction can be used as an addiction.

[@mr.knownothing33]

Yea Gabor’s Mate’s book was so good. I never looked at homeless and drug addicts the same. He really persuaded me to not look down on anyone. Epigenetics, toddler’s brain being 80-90% the size of an adult etc is brushed under the rug and the pull your boot straps myth that’s perpetuated in culture was implemented to get Institutions and social structures off the hook because of laziness and it saves money. Nobody likes the idea that they are a good person because they were lucky being born into the family, situation, and life experiences. Ego ego ego 🐍 CAN’T WAIT FOR HIS NEXT BOOK BREAKINGN ANOTHER MYTH OF CRAZINESS ✨ He’s so real 🔥

[@theaccountable]

Now imagine a society that creates environments and catalysts that become childhood trauma purposely.

[@ghoul4748]

Are you referring to circumcision?

[@stompthedragon4010]

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[@Illlium]

@@ghoul4748 You could also say China

[@HolyGround777]

EXACTLY WHAT I WAS THINKING!!

[@Paid2Win]

Genius is only permitted when harnessed by the elite. In every other case it is destroyed, nullified, or demonized.

[@Blackpilld]

Fighting a life of opiates. I narrowed it down to difficulty dealing with the new world. I’m clean now, and using delta 8 as an anti depressant to help me appreciate what’s out there.

[@nicoletrulyyours]

Remember one day at a time!!! You got this💪🏾

[@b0b0-]

How's your D8 substitution going? I found that stuff just as addictive as anything else. Were you able to not just become a D8 pothead like I did? Congratulations on being of the hard stuff, at least you know that you won't just die from that stuff like everybody else.

[@davidarundel6187]

This sounds like my life - my parents had the problems from their parents who went thru WW1, the Great Depression, WWll, with one parent being orphaned due to a major earthquake in 1931 . It was 'fun' growing in a whole community like that - PTSD, STRESS & more were daily events. My dads addictions were tobacco & alcohol, mum stayed off both as she had 4 miscarriages to live with. Surprised I turned out as good as I did - no alcohol, or addictions to pharmacutical drugs nor other drugs that come out of a laboratory. Hemp, is a herb & medicinaly useful, without addiction.

[@stephen6739]

Basically my life except ive ran through a few chems and gambling.

[@davidarundel6187]

@@stephen6739 I trust you have recovered as much as is possible now, and that you stay recovered. Namaste 🙏

[@bobbyjbear]

I have it together as far as work but beyond that I fail so often. The issue that eats me the most is my 5 year daughter not having a sober daddy. I can tell she can tell I'm a mess . She doesn't live with me but I see her most days as she lives only couple min ride away..... I'm 41 , veteran , been in fatal car crash that my friend died and I absorbed the impact suffering massive head trauma and it changed me forever, that was Feb 23 , 2002. It occurred right after I came home from 1/75th Ranger battalion which often times I point to as a major culprit for my shortcomings. One time in 2008 I believe I stayed sober 11 months . I've been using something the rest of the time. Beer daily , I am currently using stimulants. I became addicted to opiates while serving in army and its remained a struggle to this day although I went 10 years without touching an opiate into 2016 an oxy was put in front of me and as of today I'm on suboxen. Been to detox and rehab a number of times and what a waste of time and effort that circus is. Oh well. I guess i am pretty functional as I said the only thing in life I'm responsible about is my work (I also take good care of my teeth) , I try to be a good daddy , she will be here in about 2 hours and I believe she will spend night. I don't know what to do with her when it's just she and I. Her mommy is such a great mom , I struggle to find ways to keep her occupied.

[@andredelacerdasantos4439]

Stay strong, brother! Children are naturaly curious and will pay attention to you if you focus your attention on them. Something which might help would be getting a dog. You would have another sentient being around that depended on you and that could help you practice for when she is with you. If you choose your dog wisely, it could get along very well with your daughter (If exposed to in a young age, chidren will, generally, love animals.) When she is over, you could play with them both together and that would break the ice, so to speak.

[@kylemedeiros6907]

I'm a recovering addict of 6 years, an addiction counselor, a recovery coach, a man who is passionate about recovery....and I approve this message.

[@Weifs]

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR MAKING THIS! Addiction is such a complex topic when considered in context with the full scale of the human mind, yet so many dismiss those most heavily afflicted as being 'beneath them' whilst denying the potential for or presence of addiction within themselves, so much so that there is little shared understanding or, consequently, compassion for the afflicted within our current culture. Videos like this NEED to be made, seen, and understood.

[@brynleytalbot778]

If we made a rational assessment of addiction we’d conclude it’s more prevalent in society than is first thought. A craving for wealth or personal success or adulation by one’s peers, is seen as positive but the ethos is an addictive personality chasing something they’re powerless to control within themselves. When people have more money than they could spend in a multitude of lifetimes it’s an addiction that drive them into that state. Regrettably their power enables them to spin it as a positive behaviour. It’s an addiction, plain and simple, which they validate, as any addict does to dismiss their problem. As you say, it’s a complex problem.

[@kujjitafari8509]

Thank you! This is such an important topic that is destroying so many in this world. This brought me to tears , knowing what a vicious cycle this is. I'm so thankful that I have been able to conquer myself! 🙏🏽💕

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[@heavenwithin81]

Posted on my birthday...how fitting. Thank you for touching on this critical subject.

[@natureshorts6657]

Thank you for this video. This is a very important subject that we all deal with either directly or indirectly. For anyone reading this, understand that addiction largely stems from trauma. Heal the trauma, and kicking the addiction will be 100X easier.

[@Illlium]

How do you heal the trauma of the world being wrong? Is there a pill for that doctor? Should I see a therapist to tell me who needs to be culled to make this better?

[@PancakeGuy98]

I could not agree more with the points made in the video. Wishing everybody who struggles with addiction the power to overcome the "hungry ghost".

[@jcllien6932]

What sets my mind on fire is silent weapons for quiet wars against the family

[@natashamudford4011]

Did anyone right a prequel to Brave New World? Seems like we are living in that realm.

[@brynleytalbot778]

Natasha Mudford George Orwell did. His work, 1984, described the means of control whilst Aldus Huxley’s Brave New World depicted the result.

[@bionicgerbil]

"My sharpest tool is my broken mind. Can it fix itself, be realigned?" -Me

[@Illlium]

How do you want to fix it? Do you want it to cut better or be safer? Cause you can't have both. - Dr. Worm

[@geraldfordman7474]

You are spot on. I look back, shake my head, and realize I'm only half the man I could've been. I wonder how I was able to get through and hold down good jobs. Childhood trauma left me vulnerable to addiction. I don't want to feel sorry for myself nor blame my parents when I realize they did the best they could. It's time to take personal responsibility and reclaim what's left of my life.

[@amycaprari9951]

That's a very healthy way of thinking. I feel the same. Have to enjoy some of the gift called Life.

[@HighSpeedNoDrag]

I am the Scapegoat of my family but my parents were never abusive, nor became angry with me unless I did something knowingly wrong or stupid. I had a wonderful child hood but I am alcoholic and I started drinking in high school and then in college via my fraternity, consuming beer. The consumption with my Frat Brothers contributed to my drinking momentum at around Mach 1. I never married and experienced difficulty maintaining long-term relationships with women. The glitter of being a bachelor has been long gone for decades @ Age 56.

[@andredelacerdasantos4439]

Stay strong, brother, focus on a craft

[@darkwinterprepper8495]

This video perfectly describes me, everyone I know and maybe even humanity itself.

[@markdelgado6984]

Relax. This is one mans view of the world. Take it for what it is and use it to help yourself and others.

[@satnamo]

To suffer and die is your destiny- Now shoot each other’s with guns and cannons; And they do so!

[@ZagrosKurdistan]

I love your videos. You are feeding a hunger that can't be satisfied with bread but with knowledge.

[@RohitPant04]

Very well presented, Sir. Addiction is one of the most misunderstood topics i come across in society. As a budding biologist, it's troubling to see not just the common people but authorities as high as the judiciary see addicts for their desposition rather than their despair. I will do my part to share this video & again, thankyou!

[@dixonpinfold2582]

Desposition doesn't seem to be in my Oxford. What do you mean by it?

[@RohitPant04]

@@dixonpinfold2582 I apologize, i meant to say disposition!

[@spiritualantiseptic]

You know, I think the truth lies somewhere in the middle. There is an underlying despair factor but the way out of it lies in their will to abandon their disposition. There's a difference between an addict who copes and reaches out for help an addict who's aggressive and is unreachable.

[@SOLIDSNAKE.]

True.. They want me dead.. I've been fighting back for the last 9 months

[@sriku1000]

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[@Thejackofirishdiamon]

I smoke pot. It's my last vice. I have a deep hatred for my addictions. I've fought and defeated alcoholism(4 years), nicotine(7 years), video game obsession(lifelong and although i still play on occasion i have moderation now), facebook(3 years), and energy drinks(7 years). My spine hurts to a degree that i have difficulty breathing and i force myself to suffer through it daily. The loneliness keeps me smoking pot but i will defeat it. It's always a matter for another day in better circumstances. Each time i buy more i feel disgusted and weak, I really wish i had more strength to face this world uninhibited.

[@DEADIKATED]

Great video once again! I have learned the best way to deal with a problem is to acknowledge it. I am the Son of a Heroin addict and feel I have learned addictive behavior from Him. Although I never tried that Drug even though I have been offered many times, I have struggled with Alcoholism, excessive thinking, even Shopping. The past 2 years or So have added many stressors that have prompted me to indulge in my vices, but This Channel and many others help me get back on track. Thank you!

[@shrunkensimon]

Solution: Sit in silence, observe your internal state, deduce which thoughts are yours and which are not, discover that the observer is not the mind (thoughts). Once you find your real point of reference you can divest yourself of thoughts that are not conducive to survival. Thoughts remain, but they don't catch. The hidden problem is that not all thoughts are generated by us.. we are susceptible to external influences that can trigger or inject thoughts i.e. possession.

[@theundertaker5963]

I am forever grateful for all the work that goes into putting each and every single one of your videos up. Of all the channels that I am subscribed to, this is literally the only one that I have have the bell on to be notified the moment there is a new video. Amazing work, and awesome insight with every video without fail! thanks you.

[@njongomato]

I needed this. I'm still struggling with alcohol addiction and working to beat it everyday.

[@codyhughes1147]

Day 1 of quitting a particular drug. Here we go. Thanks for the vid. They help.

[@YourMomsFavoriteCommenter]

I wish you well, and just know it's not easy but it's worth it.

[@nicojacobs3959]

If ever a video sums addiction up this is it. Listened 4 x times now and agree totally . Ffwd this clip to my family that also suffered due to my addiction. This is not an excuse to them for my addiction. But to beat this we must all understand it. And i am beating this at the moment. Mostly due to a renewed sense of taking RESPONSIBILITY for my life. It doesn't owe me ANYTHING. My thoughts are with the suffering person if it is you. I know it is a prison of the mind. May you stand up, take this and BEAT this. You are better,,,, than you think....

[@Mwuhahaha]

Thanks for this. I am an addict, and two months sober.

[@nicoletrulyyours]

Proud of you🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@skrwdUNi]

As Alan watts said- the very act of obsessing over quitting an addiction is just another form of the trap. Universal knowledge makes these things make sense & people need to realize that they have free will. If we weren’t so afraid of death and didn’t see ourselves as separate from nature and all of the greed and duality of society, we wouldn’t need drugs.

[@kevinmcelroy1849]

Alan watts died of alcoholism .. lol

[@skrwdUNi]

@@kevinmcelroy1849 does spreading misinformation help your cause? Bc if it does that is very sad, mr. CIA agent 😂

[@kevinmcelroy1849]

@@skrwdUNi I like Alan watts a lot but look into his alcoholism. Doesn’t mean he was a bad person

[@rogueelephant7994]

Ppl like to stir shit up and cause more complexity within situations or conversations than needed, because theres something in us that just likes creating conflict...someone is always going to find a problem(s) in what you say no matter how upfront and direct and true it is because we simply aren’t completely entertained or satisfied with simplicity...some ppl just won’t listen to someone giving advice about not smoking cigarettes if that person smokes cigarettes...or in this case here..which happens to be about alcohol....so since he died of alcoholism basically means that he’s not allowed to say anything about alcohol addiction that can possibly help someone save their own life....it means he must not have anything good to really say....he’s not taken serious...he has nothing viable to say regarding alcohol addiction whatsoever because ultimately it was the thing that took him out in the end....ppl love to focus on the dumb shit away from the point when really it’s the message that matters...and not so much the messenger.....

[@skrwdUNi]

@@rogueelephant7994 he died of natural causes in his sleep

[@harshwankhade8364]

Man I love your channel! I have been battling mild and seasonal depression since almost 5 years now and just now am I starting to understand the real causes behind it. Your videos have helped me a lot in coping with it and keeping a positive mindset in these tough times. Keep up the good work man!

[@jul8803]

This video made me think about my abusive ex who came from a dark place of toxic parenting. She had an history of multiple addictions. I feel sorry for her and wish her to one day be able to leave her survival mode to actually live her life.

[@Dk-tt4yc]

I don't know who is behind those videos,but you bring light in a world of darkness.

[@andredelacerdasantos4439]

I find it very annoying how he keeps shrouding himself in mystery like this, as if he was just a desembodied voice, which he isn't. He doesn't even aknowledge any of the comments on his videos.

[@whatyouwaitingfor1027]

I Love this channel. I tell people about it if they seem to be struggling in life or experience dissatisfaction and as it goes, this channel helped me a ton whilst I was waiting for treatment. That was 2 years ago now. Oi Oi to all fellow travellers trudging the road - what a blessing 💛

[@kylec1411]

Much love to Gabor Mate and those involved in making this. 14 year cocaine addict here whos been clean a year and a half. And i dont still know why to be honest. Life hasnt gotten better... but its gotten easier. The highs are almost non existant... but the lows are too. I was suicidal and trying to die. So thanks for videos like these... which have helped me in such hard times to understand myself better. Love and light to those who struggled down any similar path.

[@Leo-mr1qz]

Being a product of an alcoholic and emotionally distant mother, I do understand the facts that are stated in this video, quite well. I've been sober for 5 years now myself. But, my addictive behaviors play out in other ways of my life, such as compulsive exercise. The feeling of it all is trying to feel the void; the deep, dark, black hole, that can't be filled.

[@justust4872]

The only one who can fill that void is Jesus Christ. Ask Him to reveal Himself to you and He will. God bless you

[@Leo-mr1qz]

@@justust4872 JeeZus! He can't do anything, Bruh. My own self determination and self compassion is what gets me through the day. 😇

[@codyrobillard4063]

Thank you. I am an addict myself (about 11 years now) and would have to say that you described addiction very well. Probably the best explanation I've ever come across. Glad your on this topic and hope to see you go further in depth with this.

[@jacobmiles1886]

Excellent work. My mind was in a cage for thirty years. The substance used or behavior enacted was irrelevant as long as the common denominator was satisfied: a release of dopamine in my brain. Somehow the words of Marcus Aurelius, Epictetus and The Dark Philosopher inspired something within me and I am now free. Thank you.

[@fierypickles4450]

Always synchronous when these episodes drop. Ive been noticing this phenomenon recently, staring at the hallowness i feel after i gave into them, how apathetic, regretful and sad. Like i was outside of myself after the fact.

[@furryballsploppedmenacingl8534]

This month, the month of November 2021, I'll be 6 months clean from xanax after nearly 7 years of physical dependency that started when I was 15 And it makes me glad that I've been able to quit as I see people who I went to middle school and high school with who've been taking the stuff since age 14 and have never quit, and some even moving onto harder drugs.

[@dorismahoney1440]

Congratulations.

[@Shlogger]

Benzos are rough. They steal the part of you that loves life and twist it into something unrecognizable. Sadness barely even touches it when they really get hold of you. A lot of people don't make it out of their clutches. I almost didn't for sure. Congrats on your sobriety.

[@jordanhess2061]

I love your name, my sister gives me shit about how I wont take the vax, but I will gladly inject heroin.

[@Pazaluz]

Your're doing well! 6 months is already very impressive 💪

[@LUImusic856]

Me too from opiates! November 21!

[@smelltheglove2038]

As an ex-addict, I have to admit, I had a fantastic childhood and life. I just always had to push things as far as I could. I loved to party. What helped me get clean was getting on methadone, staying away from 12 step programs or any sort of out patient program, and just seeing how disgusting and degenerate addicts are after I had a little “clean time” with the help of the methadone. I didn’t take the doctors advice and continually up my dose. No, I regularly lowered it instead. I refused to go to any of the therapy sessions because being around addicts made me want to use. All the “proven” methods didn’t work at all, for me or 90% of people. Rejecting the idea that it’s a disease also helped because it just makes addicts hopeless. It’s just as bad as someone constantly giving the addict money to get high. It’s equally enabling to the addict.

[@natashamudford4011]

"Being around addicts just made me want to use," even though you "saw how disgusting and degenerate" they were. This seems contradictory to me, but I'm not trying to put you on the spot. I'm just wondering if you can elaborate a little more. Your comment reminds me of the YT channel Crappy Childhood Fairy, as the content creator reveals that seeing a therapist did NOT help in her attempt to overcome childhood/complex PTSD. She said that talking about it made it worse. On that note, feel free to not elaborate.

[@laurawells1711]

Thanks for this!

[@smelltheglove2038]

@@natashamudford4011 I didn’t really stop until I was done the mandated classes that were three nights a week four hours each. Six weeks of that. When I just came and got the shit and left it gave me space from all of it and over time I became disgusted by it all.

[@smelltheglove2038]

@@laurawells1711 cheers.

[@StainsStainsStains]

"just seeing how disgusting and degenerate addicts are" You just climbed on the wagon (with the help of methadone) and you turn your nose up at your former fellow addicts? I mean, good on you for getting clean but you aren't above them in any way, shape, or form. You seem a little pompous and more than willing to pat yourself on the back for getting clean while denigrating those who wallow where you once where. Its a very ugly look.

[@HIPPIETHUG92109]

To be strong one must first be broke as it's during the repair where one finds their strength, courage and wisdom. One will not know one's true potential without the suffering and repair.

[@satnamo]

Das greatest glory of life is not to never have fallen down but to always get up every time I fall.

[@gabrielWachong]

Interesting take. Seems similar to how exercise tears the muscle fibers and it is when they regenerate that the muscle fibers become stronger.

[@spellbreaker9384]

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[@brynleytalbot778]

Absolute crock of shit! Empathy isn’t your strong suit which is why this selfish entitlement generation is leading the decline of society into an oblivion its illusion of self strength won’t save it from. The self help books you obsess on are an addiction in themselves. Potential is destroyed by addiction. It’s an illusion to state an addict is cured because their potential was released when they gained a positive addiction by societies definition. People need to cease swallowing hogwash masquerading as wisdom.

[@DemetriPanici]

*”Success is based off of your willingness to work your butt off no matter what obstacles are in your way.”- David Goggins*

[@brynleytalbot778]

Success is based on chance presenting itself when you can follow it. Obstacles can be construed in positive ways if they direct you to other better routes. Working your butt off blinds you to opportunities chance brings your way as you deluded yourself about being right about your path and missed them.

[@johncarroll772]

Goggins suffers from addiction

[@Thabigchance1995]

“Take the attitude of a student, never be too big to ask questions, never know too much to learn something new.” -Augustine Og Mandino LOVE FROM A SMALL KZbinR .

[@robertdabob8939]

Love Gabor Mate! I've found him to be particularly inspiring is his humility, his identifying with the addicted souls he sought to help, and in that recognizing his own addictions, all despite his personal success.

[@spellbreaker9384]

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[@brynleytalbot778]

Personal success becomes an addiction in itself. It’s the definition of an addictive positive that fools society into encouraging this behaviour when it’s equally destructive to a negative addiction. Every businessman is an addict riding the highs and lows of the next deal. As wealth concentrates in these people poverty increases and negatively viewed addictions result in the lower end of society. We’d do well to consider what constitutes an addiction and remove positive labels from destructive actions.

[@robertdabob8939]

@@brynleytalbot778 Amen!

[@davidwallin5734]

4:52 If you've ever heard the song "Sober" by Tool: "Mother Mary, won't you whisper? Something but the past and done." Addiction has roots in the past, and no amount of substances or behaviors can truly fix it (no pun intended).

[@sehrschee]

My man CG Jung.. i can recommend the current publications released by his son Lorenz Jung. Those are essentiell works. On the other hand i think the true cause of addiction cant be fully understood without looking at the biological factors of the human body. Everything from missing neurotransmitters to constant bloodsugar imbalances can deepen addictions.

[@johnjones.3427]

This makes sense & everyone should listen to it.ill send it on,a lot of ppl suffer addiction.quicker they get into it & more encouragement youth get to avoid addiction the better societies will become.

[@angeloanderson2568]

A very hard hitting video especially since I just failed nnn... That tragic and brief moment of euphoria only cost me disappointment and shame in the failure to uphold a promise to myself. I've prayed for forgiveness and redemption. This video serves as an answer to that call. Looking forward to your upcoming content!

[@bigbadlara5304]

I haven't made nnn ever :( I'm getting better though.

[@crosstolerance]

It was quite refreshing to hear about addiction that did not revolve entirely around drugs and alcohol. An addiction can be any behavior that stimulates an excitatory response that is repeated many times over. A very well presented video.

[@EranHertz]

Good job bringing up Mate message, when I grew up I always thought "it can't be that everyone except me is crazy - so I must be the problem" but it turns out that our entire culture is based on trauma and is deeply sick. But try to open with his line in a party see what it gets you.

[@hawks2501]

I am so thankful I watched this video, as a 30 yr old who has experienced all what is talked about in this video, it has really helped me to relate to my feelings and understand them a bit better. Ps. I appreciate all the other commenters on this video as well

[@paulbundi6067]

hits different when you've just came back from rehab, the human library.

[@rebeccaaldrich3396]

Never have I heard truer words! Well said.

[@kenkeyes8148]

I recently partook in Jordan Peterson's "Self Authoring" program. It really sorted out a lot of pain and trauma I experienced as a kid living in a home with a Borderline father and an alcoholic mother. They were so immersed (addicted) in their toxic relationship that they had little interest in parenting, or that I even existed. That atmosphere defined my life in a profound way I had not realized. I thought it was normal and it wasn't.

[@EtherealOblivion]

Please be careful with this road stranger. Jordan Peterson is not a good person to take advice from, he teaches men "self-care" habits rooted in insecurity and perpetuates the underlying issues that cause our noticable difficulties while making it seem like the surface level issues have been worked through. I don't say this as a personal attack, as a fellow human who is familiar with his work, stay away for your own health and safety. Check out the resources in this video and go from there. Please stay safe. I wish you all the best.

[@kenkeyes8148]

@@EtherealOblivion I don't take advice from Jordan Peterson. I did his "Self Authoring" program which he advised on with other clinicians.

[@oldskoolordie]

Peterson isn’t the Mecca many think he is, he’s a plant by corporate algorithms to bring back disillusioned men onto the consumer plantation in which they are hated. He can’t fix a broken society.

[@apebass2215]

@oldskoolordie he's doing more to heal a broken society than you ever will.

[@kenkeyes8148]

@@oldskoolordie ...as opposed to remaining on the plantation of disillusionment, where they hate themselves. You don't have to clean your room if your don't want to. Your choice.

[@RefineIrony]

Bravo. I hunger and can't get full. To watch your person be used against your will daily is akin to another torturous condition I've heard of. It's a marvel that anyone could remain in one piece, I have splintered into fragments trying to avoid [escape] myself. But I am at a turning point in my war. I finally have come to the path to wholeness. I have begun a healing process that was 3 decades in the making.

[@normanzimmerman5029]

Light and darkness inextricably linked. This site is primal. Thank you

[@mikeybars2200]

These videos are pure gold. Thank you for making them, and I hope you continue to do so.

[@HighSpeedNoDrag]

Hear! Hear!!

[@TheKnightXavier]

Wow, what a fantastic video! It is deeply encouraging to know there are people out there contending with these difficult subjects and seeking to overcome them! Thank you.

[@craeearc]

I always look forward to your videos. Thank you for sharing such calm, clear and conscious messages. You have a fascinating mind and spirit. Take care

[@satnamo]

Amen!

[@jzen1455]

life is boring, stressful, anxiety-inducing, and depressing when sober.

[@rubenmendezhoms3488]

Indeed. I envy the "I don't need drugs in order to feel happy" mindset.

[@garystringer2582]

It can create a chain, suffering addicts creating suffering addicts - my thought on it in any case. Great video. Thanks.

[@brynleytalbot778]

It’s epigenetic. The sins of the father borne by the sons. Until one who was abused breaks the psychological chains binding them its destined to be repeated. One wonders what the validation of narcissistic traits within social media will inculcate in future generations, though I think this trend has existed since consumerism became a goal in defining oneself in a societal hierarchy.

[@garystringer2582]

@@brynleytalbot778 Profound insight. Thank you.

[@camillapalmer82]

4 1/2 years sober. My sober date is my second child’s birthday. I guard my sobriety with all my strength. ‘The tree that grows to heaven must send its roots to hell’. Be well and if you’re fighting addiction, more power to you.

[@beejlesweete]

This is why I do the work that I do! Very inspired by your channel. Love your content.

[@MissVanHelsing]

I am an alcoholic and an addict. I started AA meetings 8 months ago and turned 30 recently. I recommend meetings.. You are not a bad person. The first time i felt i ever fit in, was not alone, had family and fellowship, non-judgement and had hope. It works. It doesn't have to make sense at first. Just keep coming back. You will be loved back to life. You will learn how to grow up emotionally and function. Its a program for growing up. If you are in hell, I have been there too, I care about you and send you love ❤ the trauma and mental health you experienced was not your fault and you played no role in it. The only role you play now, is using it as fuel to use or drink. It is human and natural to want to soothe ourselves from extreme pain and troubles. It is possible to rewire your brain. You do not have to do it alone. There is hope. I love you ❤

[@karlmiller7395]

When you REALLY understand this reality you begin to realize addiction is nothing more than demon possession

[@velevetyyflies]

and then what do you do

[@ebdavies100]

There is a real set of quality artworks accompanying the narrative here.

[@scottash351]

A brilliant video! Thank you. I can't wait to share this with my niece and nephew who I've been taking care of since they were young because their listeners were both serious drug addicts.

[@andredelacerdasantos4439]

Careful not to trigger them in a vulnerable momment.

[@scottash351]

Thank you for your caring. Yeah, I've been taking care of them for over five years now and have been slowly preparing them for the pitfalls that lay in wait for them. I appreciate your concern though 🙏

[@luckylove72]

Best quote by a psychiatrist: “You are doing this to yourself”

[@zacharysweet1849]

day 73 clean and sober, never give up on trying to be a better person

[@andredelacerdasantos4439]

Yes!

[@bigbadlara5304]

I've been addicted to gaming since I was 9. I'm 21 now and don't play games often but it's sadly the only thing that really gives me happiness. I'm numbed to everything else. Nothing else motivates me even though I want to do something else so bad but I just don't know what.

[@dlloydy5356]

Can you recall specific moments from a game you played say 5 weeks ago at midday, what happened, who or what you did, how you felt.....? They is the memories you are building.

[@bigbadlara5304]

@@dlloydy5356 I understand what you mean but for everything you can do it too much. My relationship with gaming is an unhealthy one, an addiction so I do have good memories playing games but it's a destructive force in my life.

[@dlloydy5356]

@bigbad lara I heard a psychologist talking about it & essentially summed up saying gaming, phones, tech in general are good however when it dominates large parts of life the people aren’t laying down memories. He went on to say will there be a generation in future care homes etc wit no vivid/detailed memories to look back on or discuss. As unfortunately tech only provides instant experience/memory as it’s a fleeting thing. Just something to consider I guess. We all have our ‘vices’ I guess it then depends on what/how we deal with them individually?

[@bigbadlara5304]

@@dlloydy5356 my real life memories are clearer but I definetly have memories of a lot of games. I Definetly remember survival games more than shooters like rainbow six siege though.

[@alfaisaac024]

Get into science technology philosophy evolutionary psychology or even a trade. See life as a game itself. Research and learn how to level up your avatar. And then level up. Don't level up alone, level up enough to find others around you also leveling up in flesh and blood. And Play. Dont take life so seriously by taking it seriously. Cry now. Laugh After. Laugh now about the fact that you will Cry after.

[@AllenLutchman]

Love an light to all going threw trauma and addiction, ❤️🌞

[@list3058]

Man up, deal with it, move forward. You wouldn't believe the crap I've been put through and done. Your brain is able to repair nearly any trauma. You can do it. It will suck. But you'll be better. That's how it is.

[@hamishsinclair4391]

This video brought me to tears, I’m a struggling marijuana addict and I think I’m gonna go and see a therapist now

[@lawofliberty3517]

🤣not addictive. It is a coping mechanism for what is inside YOURSELF. Admit it. I'm a smoker also, but dont desire it or think about it in the same way you do. I just merely enjoy it and been a smoker for 20+yrs. I have had to quit a multitude of times for mainly job related stuff. Take control of yourself.

[@beyonderaatrox1670]

Thanks man, a video on addiction like this helps conceptualize and bring to the forefront of my mind the thoughts I've been having for the larger portion of my life. Have a good day and keep up the great videos

[@waleedirfan5045]

Culture informs politics , a degenerate culture gives rise to degenerate politics