The Dark Side Of Spirituality

[@livingtheskylife]

I really didn't want this video to be "negative" in any way, but I felt strongly that I needed to talk a bit more openly about this. Toxic positivity is a form of spiritual bypassing and I felt it was important not to sugar coat anything. My intention is that this video can be supportive to you on your path and bring awareness to some of the "dangers" of this spiritual realm so that you don't get caught in a web or stuck down a rabbit hole.

[@Astrology_Witch_DJ_Lifestyle]

Respect that ❤️

[@CherryBerryFashion]

We get it babe, don’t worry. We know your heart, thank you for posting this x

[@livingtheskylife]

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[@livingtheskylife]

Thank you @@CherryBerryFashion !

[@alfredopasta218]

It is such a red flag when influencers partner with Better Help. Please please please research before any decision to use their services. It's been a very well known issue for years now.

[@medorakea7327]

the people who are genuinely the “most” enlightened are the ones who know that everyone is on their own path & don’t have any moral judgements about where other people are on their journey

[@aleanna7477]

Sky, you are so spot on with the spiritual arrogance. We are meant to share our love with those around us. We are not meant to stay in insular communities and look down on others who are not on our level. It really ticks me off that my spiritual friends are doing this. And the lack of integration of running rampant. It’s like spiritual consumerism…more, more, more. More ceremonies, more plant medicine, more books, more teachers. I understand the excitement and the thirst for knowledge but one can definitely go too far to their detriment and those around them.

[@livingtheskylife]

It's absolutely a big issue in this space and it's also inevitable I think, so it's just something to be aware of!

[@ibizawavey8630]

I remember the first time I heard 'chose ones' lol It is just all dressed up with so much ego and just tells me there is no ego death (which is what i want the most). I see so much ego in this world, and I think everything happening is to humble us, to make us more empathetic towards each other but we're doing the opposite

[@breannarg]

So we’ll said. There are people in my circle who vibe much lower - have a long journey ahead. But they want to take that step, it just takes time. My patience, my grace, my firm boundaries and critical thinking, that’s powerful to that person. We have to of course protect our peace, but there is so much othering that happens 😢

[@alionaikonnikova5975]

In fact we get so high on spiritual insights so we get addicted...

[@akherashepsutera2013]

Absolutely! This is WHY I haven't dropped into any spiritual community I've experienced in the West yet. I just love on and commune with those with integrity and compassion from various backgrounds whenever I can. As Sky said, INTEGRATION is what's needed. It's one of the most important and missing pieces of this puzzle. People are not realizing how the culture of greed, consumption, and fast-paced waste that many have been conditioned by is what they need to shed in order to see more clearly with their own eyes. Plant medicine, kambosito, crystals and all of the modalities are beautiful carriers for medicine, but so are WE! And none of us should be abused!

[@breaklunner]

As someone who has always pursued SOLO spirituality due to the deep knowing of the narcissism and manipulation that can propagate in spirituality groups, I appreciate you being brave and sharing the truth with those unaware especially young vulnerable innocent souls who don't understand that true evil exists even in the most seemingly beautiful spaces.

[@violetblythe6912]

Same here. Unfortunately I have had bad experiences and seen the massive red flags every time I try to be more social around spirituality. I have made some spiritual friends but it was by coincidence (or destiny) bringing us together, not by seeking out any of these groups.

[@breaklunner]

@@violetblythe6912 omg so true.... so true! I'm so happy you have made authentic spiritual friends amongst it all.

[@coolbreeze5683]

Unfortunately, some use spirituality to try to build their egos. To me, being on a spiritual path is personal, quiet and introspective. No idolization, no consumerism, no money to be made, no dopamine hits.

[@livingtheskylife]

I don't think that a "spiritual person" needs to look one way or should look one way. I also don't think it's wrong for a spiritual guide or teacher to be successful and make money sharing their gifts. But there is a line between this and straight up exploitation.

[@alchemyofthephoenix5576]

Sky honestly this video I truly think will save lives. It came to me during a time I so needed this validation. I was also sexually assaulted by a "healer" and as of several months ago I thought I was receiving simple reiki which ive only ever benefited from but this energy worker gave me no informed consent that her energy work was so potent that it can cause retraumatization - I had truly the most horrific experience of my life and I am still not okay from it. Her work was NOT reiki her work was ascension and completely messed with my root system. Since her session I have felt out of my body and like I lost myself. Dissociation daily - severe depersonalization which sadly many ascension people call "enlightenment." These "healers" out here bypassing the body are so dangerous. I wish I was given informed consent of her work but I wasn't and she offered me no crisis help after and shamed me saying "its just your ego wanting to come back to your identity." And I told her prior to our session, which I tell every energy worker that I have Complex PTSD. It was clear that her intention and beliefs to go into my energetic field and cause such an uprooting of truly my life was driven solely by someone who is not intune at all and unaware of how gentle one must be with their energy and others. I hope others read this and are warned as well. I never would of imagined energy work could cause this level of harm. And if anyone has had this experience and can relate I am here. This may sound bizarre but it was like my entire energetic field was assaulted. This was by far more horrific than being psychically assaulted. I know that can be hard to imagine. Sorry this is so long winded. But I hope someone reads it and like you said really listens to themselves and really thoroughly vets all "healers" and "energy workers" prior to any sessions etc. Sky truly thank you for this video. It's a HUGE deal.

[@livingtheskylife]

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. There are many “healers” who unfortunately do not know what they’re doing or may make things worse, or violate their subjects. And there are some incredibly powerful and pure true healers that also exist. It can be so hard to navigate, which is why I wanted to speak to it in this video. Thank you so much for listening and I’m so happy that it might have a positive impact.

[@alchemyofthephoenix5576]

Thank you so much Sky ❤ so much love to you. Appreciate you and you’re exactly right - I have seen some amazing healers as well so never expected this sort of thing so your video is so important - thank you again ❤

[@gldnsunrising7761]

​@@alchemyofthephoenix5576OMG! You poor thing!!! I have been a Shamanic Practitioner for 16 yrs and this just blew me away! I am SO.FREAKING.SORRY. that this has happened to you! Oh honey.. it sounds/feels - to me anyways- that you might be experiencing what we call soul fragmentation. Jeezuz i just wish i could reach thru the screen and hug you! By any small chance if you live in Florida and are open to recieving some help I would be totally willing to try to help- no charge ❤ This just hurts my heart that you trusted someone into your feild and now this is the result. And no aftercare???!!! Wtah??! I had an experience many years ago in 2008 when I was a student apprentice, when we were practicing a technique on each other in class and something effed up happened to me, and it was so freakn awful that I was dang near su*c*dal and unfortunately it took 2 dang weeks until I could get in to see my teacher so she could rectify what had happened (she traveled to Peru alot and I wasnt willing to let anybody else try to help me), and she did help, thank God because I literally could not take it for one more day, but my gosh.. those 2 weeks were freakn HELL, so I really do have an understanding of what you mean. But that experience scared me so bad - and it was no fault of the other student apprientice who was just learning as well, no nefarious ish at play or anything like that, but it made me really see that this stuff is no joke, and ever since then if I have ever needed a session for myself, I have only let 2 ppl work on me, one being my Master Teacher, who TRULY IS a freakn phenominal Shaman for real for real, and the other being my friend who is the owner of the Shamanic School that I am a Lead Teacher at. She had the same Master Teacher as I and so we go way back and I know her deeply personally and know her level of experience and that she works strictly in ethics, which is of extreeeeeeeme importance. I wont even let ppl practice on me lol or in the rare case that I do because we are split up into groups during class and I am over seeing my group practice a technique but in the case that we are short one person, then i will let them, BUT- I consciously close my energy off and hold it in lol this way they are still practicing the movements and steps to start getting a muscle memory down, but I dont let anybody actually manipulate my energy. If you dont mind me asking, do you believe in Jesus Christ? For me personally hes the top dawg, if you do believe, then try praying. I find it best helps to repent to him first before asking for the help. Thats just me though but hey, its worth a shot because your suffering sounds intense. I truly hope you can get back to feeling yourself again, and as I said, if you are in Florida, and are open to it I would do my best to help ❤ Big hugs to you honey ❤

[@lacarmen112]

I believe you and if you feel in your gut that this is what has happened, that is your validation in itself.

[@ResPieces]

scary...i never thought of this side of things..brilliant share, thank u

[@roseinthedesert3911]

It’s so telling that we feel like we can’t be “negative” and call stuff out. There are sooooo many demons and possessed people in the spiritual community. After 10 years in it I honestly just want out at this point.

[@astraetluna]

No such thing as demons. I’m a seer. I would know. People new age and not can have attachments that means you need therapy. Andy spirits syphoning energy will drop off.

[@roseinthedesert3911]

@@astraetluna why is that so triggering for you? I’m glad you haven’t had an experience yet but they’re definitely real. And demons siphon off energy so what exactly would “drop off” if they’re not demons?

[@Crysalis-bd9so]

​@@astraetlunaI'm a seer too, and believe me, they are real. Maybe you just aren't seeing them 😅

[@gazster]

i think it's safe to say the astral is like russian roulette and you think how many people in the spiritual community dabbling away and get frightened when they experience negative entities, it's like the astral has a mix of negative entities, earthbound spirits, lot's of astral beings travelling. it's like all these starseed people relying on channelled messages but it's a question of trust as there's talk of false white light being's misleading people, you gotta be extra careful but i think a medium with experience could feel the energy and detect if it's safe.

[@BernardoRojasdeLuna]

Demons are definitely real! The occult practices open up doors for unclean spirits. I got saved 2 years ago. God is real, Jesus is real, and He paid the penalty of our sins to save us. Call out to Him, ask Him to save you. You will understand me later.

[@julietbewitched]

Always ask why, always think for yourself and always remember your journey is specific to you and no other human other than yourself should or can dictate your personal path. Let your higher self be your inner Guru.

[@emilyroseayres84]

Very well put Juliet. I love this!

[@hollandblue1]

Bravo..The truth told!! We lost our family to a cult and a false prophet. Still fighting to get back a part of it. Love you from my heart Dear Sky.

[@apila1070]

I remember this one story where a young man tells his father about meditation and how it helps him to quiets his mind and is so so excited. His father just looks in the fire place, observing the flames. Slowly turns to his son and says "My mind is already quiet"

[@Huyahhhh]

Yeah except it doesn't work that way

[@jacquelinesavageau]

Discernment is such an important skill to learn on the path❤

[@JaniceSatterwhite-cz2yn]

How do you learn discernment? Whenever someone says trust your intuition, lol. I just shake my head. I don't hear it clearly.

[@rachelina97]

You really hit the nail on the head with this one! I’ve definitely caught myself in each of these illusions and traps. Seeking outside myself, looking to specific leaders for alllll my answers rather than looking within; buying into scams or just overdoing it with even the legit programs, hopping from one to the next, burning myself out not integrating my experiences. Buying tons of crystals because I thought they would solve all my issues alone. I appreciate you sharing this valuable information because, with spirituality on the rise becoming more common, people need to be aware of these red flags!

[@livingtheskylife]

Thank you so much for sharing this Rachel!! We have all been there. That's exactly why I felt that it was so important to make this video. I hope this is a reminder that you got the power girl! Keep listening to that brilliant intuition and gut!

[@user-km9ci8yn9s]

I love that you are addressing the polarity of the spiritual world. You sound strong and resonate when speaking on this topic. I love that you are warning people and keeping it real. Keeping it real isn't negative, it's just real and there is so much to learn from this type of dialogue.

[@kierstynsaoirse]

i started my spiritual path about 8 years ago, but ive been taking a break from IG for the past 6 months and ive noticed that since im not really connected with the spiritual community there anymore, I've become more aware how some things are kinda BS. for example, there is a lot of blame and guilt. if something bad happens to you - it's your fault for not trying hard enough. if you have a chronic illness, its your fault for storing trauma in your body that caused it, and its your fault for not healing your trauma and getting rid of it. this is something i really used to believe and i would constantly wonder what I did in a past life to have my chronic illness and suffer so much in this life. "its my fault for having a chronic illness because im too low-vibe to heal it." "im sick with the flu because i wasnt happy enough and i WANTED to be sick." (which is actually something i read in a book.) its like victim-blaming yourself when sometimes shit just happens. its not a healthy mindset and books like "you can heal your life" perpetuate this notion of self-blame and can be dangerous. there's also the whole manifestation thing. sometimes fate and luck is involved and no matter how much you manifest something, you might not get it. you can also blame yourself and feel guilty for comparing yourself to the success of others when you manifest a certain thing every single day and wonder why those people have success and you dont. i also watched this documentary on KZbin that explores manifestation and it turns out that these gurus like esther Hicks and abraham are just a sham, and i used to be obsessed with their books religiously. we need to be more gentle with ourselves and remember that as long as we are doing our best, that is all we can do.

[@livingtheskylife]

This is such a huge issue in this community! What you are talking about is definitely a part of spiritual bypassing. I agree there are a lot of dangers to the "manifestation promise" but I have also personally seen how powerful some of this work is in my own life. I have witnessed pure manifestation unfolding for me, so I know there is some truth to it. love Abraham Hicks and every time I listen to them or read their books I feel amazing and incredible things happen in my life but I would love if you could send me the doc!

[@akherashepsutera2013]

I agree. I can say the same regarding manifestation. And though there is some truth to some of the other things you mentioned Kierstyn, none of it is your fault. Nowhere where blaming or shaming lives is there healing. And, you likely already know this, but the antidote to blame and shame is forgiveness. That's real talk. And powerful medicine. That said, I'm sorry you've had the difficult experience you've had. As long as you desire to know and love yourself and others more deeply, you will always be in it. But how you choose to move through it is totally up to you, and it doesn't have to involve any of these "new agey" teachings/practices. If you choose to include them, take your time. Make sure YOU really understand what is being taught--that it resonates. I have first-hand experience and knowledge of some of the concepts you mentioned, and my experience with these things isn't harming me or anyone else. They're actually very nurturing perspectives and practices I hold. So I definitely caution anyone "entering" this "journey" (any journey in life) to take things with a grain of salt. It's important to learn what resonance feels like in your own body; and, in everything, take what resonates and leave the rest. For some, that may also mean learning how to advocate for yourself and empowering your voice. All of this takes time... Give yourself some time and space. And learn how to trust yourself. That is a practice all unto itself, and so crucial.

[@afrozenmind]

From my understanding you are definitely NOT supposed to hang on to guilt and shame. While I do believe I am the root cause for everything that happens in my life I've gotten really good at self forgiveness and the art of letting go. It's at this point, forgiveness and detachment, that illnesses begin to heal and circumstances begin to improve for me. My guide says that "manifestation" is actually somewhat of a misnomer and he instead encourages me to go with *focal correspondence* because you get what you focus on invariably. But yes, being nice to yourself is imperative. I see many others putting gurus on a pedestal and begin the comparison process which is where everything goes off the rails and the ego takes on the spiritual persona instead of dissolving (technically it's expanding but story for another day) like it's supposed to.

[@afrozenmind]

@@kyleydiamond What if indeed. I believe we aren't supposed to be trying to save each other (directly) per se. I think that's where a lot of issues come in when one starts trying to judge what should and shouldn't be happening and what others should be doing about it. Were I in the hypothetical situation you described I would understand that even though I didn't start the war, me being in it is something I signed up for and I would pray for guidance while working diligently to stay in grace(not let the war corrupt my heart). Who's to say war, as ugly as it is, isn't a necessary growing pain type experience for us as a species. Yeah it sucks but so does falling down when you're learning to walk. Anyway the best way to "save the world" is ironically to just save yourself. That ripple effect historically travels further than those endeavoring to be a hero. Those guys just end up becoming someone else's bad guys. Now for a what if of my own: What if the whole point of this thing is to figure out how to withholding judgment for EVERYTHING not just what seems subjectively right from our flawed perspectives?

[@afrozenmind]

@@kyleydiamond I only said withhold judgment, not humanity. And if you feel that your purpose is to be helpful then that's what you should be doing. All the people "impacted" by war that you spoke of is the point. You can judge the impact however necessary but THAT is what we are all working with, the impact of life. My point is, if you allow that impact to make you judgemental then YOU will inevitably torture YOURSELF because judgment can't lead to anything else even if it seems cathartic or righteous when you do it. It's not a being holier than thou or morality thing. It's a put your mask on before helping other's out theirs on. If the plane is going down and everyone is having trouble figuring out the mask and you figure it out first thereby showing everyone else then you're on to what I'm talking about. Better to be that guy than the one judging the pilot and the plane and the passengers imo.

[@lavenderjane4379]

Thank you so so much for sharing your story of abuse during that healing session. That was very very courageous of you to do that for the sake of helping us understand more. I’m so sorry you went through that and I am so proud of you for doing what you have so far. Look at you now!! You are bright and radiant and so resilient.

[@livingtheskylife]

Thank you so much for this support and the kind words. It is definitely not something I enjoy speaking about and I really hesitated to share it but I think it's incredibly important!

[@lavenderjane4379]

@@livingtheskylife It absolutely is ❤️❤️

[@dianevierra781]

I think you articulated all this very well, and this is absolutely something that needs to be discussed. I've had some life changing experiences on my own path, for better or for worse, and we need to talk about both sides when it comes to spirituality. (Also, thank you for being so vulnerable with your story, Skye. I'm so sorry that happened to you.)

[@livingtheskylife]

Thank you for sharing this! It's something we are all navigating. And thank you for the support!

[@nofearonlylove21]

Nuance and discernment on the spiritual path (and all paths of life) is incredibly important

[@nictothefields191]

Thank you, Sky. I did actually end up in a Spiritual Cult myself because I followed my husband. I did not believe in the stuff at all, because it was way to negative and I hated the way they talked about people outside, while still saying they are not a cult. After living with them for four months we actually fled in March this year. And regarding the spiritual arrogance... well, that is how I just lost my husband. He went to a dance festival, met his soul partner and came back a completely different person. Saying things like "You would not understand." and "I wish you could open your heart."... so 2023 was really something of a journey. for me, too. 😅

[@livingtheskylife]

Wow, this is wild story. Thank you for sharing. I’m so sorry to hear this happened to your husband. Sending all the love!

[@Boulderman]

Just curious but what was the name of this spiritual cult?

[@emilyroseayres84]

I am sorry that you went through such an ordeal. I've learnt that that sort of "spiritual" talk can be used by people to excuse their own selfish behaviour and avoid accountibility when they have hurt someone. The whole "You would not understand." Well, of course you wouldn't understand nor should you try to. Having your husband leave for a dance festival and come back a different person, saying that he's met his "soul partner"...how could anyone, in that moment, understand that. I hope that you have found peace within yourself and wish you a Merry Christmas and very Happy New Year. Here's to fresh starts in 2024.

[@cassidymenger9236]

I read this thing the other day that said something along the lines of 'trees are their most powerful when their leaves are shed. This is because all their nutrients drop from their leaves down to their roots and they become their most grounded even as they are their most vulnerable'. I believe we are always in tune with nature's seasons so this video of you being raw and vulnerable came at a good time for me to watch and reflect on. My dark night of the soul was when I got to know how my ego has processed my past wounds and trauma and I could have easily gone down the rabbit hole and never came back.. I appreciate you sharing this side of your experience into ~spirituality~ and I just wanted you to know that it resonated with me.

[@dedeslaboratory_]

Thank you for bringing this to light. Lots of people have no idea what they get themselves into, always stay cautious.

[@livingtheskylife]

Yes it’s so important!

[@GodHelpMe369]

I long and ache: to be wanted and needed and loved and cherished and desired. I pray for this. I pray to (re)unite with my twin-flame/soul-mate/true-love...

[@JaniceSatterwhite-cz2yn]

Same here. God be with us.

[@ElizabethOnTheLake]

I felt this way in my 20s. It led to two abusive marriages because I was so vulnerable. I’m now married 10 years to a very good man. He is not my twin flame, but we have a good marriage and are best friends. I learned through this process that we don’t need to be wanted, needed, and loved by someone else. The point of this human experience is for us to learn self love. If you truly have learned self love you won’t end up in predatory relationships like I did. Also, you might just end up with your best friend when that desperate yearning has been fulfilled by yourself. ❤❤❤

[@JuriAmari]

Thank you so much for talking about this. I do empowering card readings and did a master’s in world religions to train to become a priestess and interfaith minister. Spiritual grifters and abusers make this job a lot harder and is a big reason why I’ve got one foot in the closet, but I make it my duty and responsibility to make sure people’s well-being and free will is preserved. If something requires you to give up an aspect of your free will, walk away and know there are many avenues for help if you’re in trouble. Most importantly, don’t let the noise of the grifters make you lose sight of the genuine people out there. To those who have survived spiritual abuse, exploitation, and/or bypassing, know there’s a way through. You are not alone. ❤

[@HeartOfLightning]

I really appreciate it when people consider this, thanks for sharing. And I've been very reluctant (resistant) in my own path partly due to those who give such practices a negative reputation. That's really cool that you've followed your joy and studied this in such detail 🙂🙏💚&🌞

[@JuriAmari]

@@HeartOfLightning thanks for the support! And I totally understand the reluctance. This journey’s a challenging but worthwhile one. The best things you can do are to follow your instincts and do plenty of research. The best teachers make you even more confident in your self authority and autonomy. There are a lot of good people out there so don’t give up. They may even be someone in your neighborhood; I found out via one of Sky’s videos that another spiritual KZbin creator I follow lives in the same home state as myself and there’s an energy vortex not too far from my house!

[@marianaalxndra]

You are so real for this!!!! My respect for you is through the roof right now!!!! I've been watching your channel through all the phases of my journey, & I clicked on this video sooo fast because it's perfectly timed with where I am at & what I've also discovered. Every single point is so spot on! I stumbled upon 'spirituality' and the 'spiritual path' when I was seeking out relief from a lifetime of trauma. I've firsthand experienced every single point you mentioned. A lot of people seek spiritual transcendence from a place of complete vulnerability. They are looking for a cure, to be saved. Unfortunately the new age subcultures that are most popular, at least here in the West, continually fail to acknowledge one of the most basic principles of true spiritual & conscious awareness: that everything, including the day itself, has a LIGHT & has a SHADOW. Namaste, friend. Thank you for your words & the difference you make. ✨💖🙏

[@michaelamaestas4950]

I agree with all of this, 100% correct . I am an herbalist and healer in New Mexico. There is so much BS out there , thanks , spot on !!!!!!!!!

[@livingtheskylife]

Thank you for sharing! So much beauty and danger at the same time

[@Bronpon]

I see spiritual arrogance as a phase of the spiritual journey. It happened to me as well at the beginning of my journey. However, the more I continued my journey, the more it diminished. Of course, not everyone is like me and sadly, some people get stuck in that phase and harm themselves without even knowing.

[@femdivinemind7777]

💯💯 it definitely is a phase

[@willemfeather2655]

Thank-you for this video. Unfortunately, some "licensed professionals" are among the worst abusers/exploiters. A caveat needs to be clearly issued when making broad referrals to this group, especially in the so-called "mental health" field. There is no one more dangerous than a covert narcissist pretending to be a "psychotherapist."

[@miaq4820]

Agreed! I was so engrossed in this video and the advertisement for “licensed” therapist through me off. Paid advertising

[@BoxOfKleenex]

Exactly. Just because someone has a license doesn't mean they're better or worse than a spiritual healer.

[@cristinakalyani9633]

Thank you for this video! Working with healing arts for around 26 years, and totally agree with you on all of these topics. Charlatanism has always existed within all professionals and belief systems, and it is important for people to be aware of the importance of mental health and the professionals we trust. 🙏🏼 ❤

[@jennyserenityforestelgin]

Thank you for being so honest this is an important topic that gets brushed aside far to often. Im a licensed therapist by trade and am now working with all my intuitive gifts and taking things a different direction but Ive seen a lot of stuff over the years and have worked with many people who have beeen taken advantage of or traumatized by experiences like you described. I also work in addiction and it's interesting to me the similaries at times when i watch others, myself even, want to go from class to class to distract rather than integrate and practice for a while. Very interesting. Spiritual abuse is a real thing. Thank you for sharing. ❤❤❤

[@boinkboinkboink]

Thank you so much for talking about this, Sky

[@linxlatham47]

so curious who you're referring to now lol hint?

[@gldnsunrising7761]

@boinkboinkboink Are the initials E & S by any chance?

[@nickosborn2285]

SPOT ON!!! I've experienced every single one of these situations on many occasions, and yes I've been arrogant too. The exploitation of gurus charging a hell of a lot of money for their 'services' and and gaslighting the hell out customers for challenging them. One if my favourite gaslighting excuses is that the experience is a 'a co-creation' and so the customer is as much to blame for the unfortunate outcome of a process as the teacher - what a crock of sh*t! Thank you for your amazing video! Love your work!!

[@saige2975]

thank you for sharing your experience sky ❤ you’re strong to be able to speak up about this and spread awareness to your community. abuse happens so often in this community and more people need to be aware of it especially with the over saturation of the “spiritual gurus” that are popping up everywhere. i’m praying for you❤ i love your channel

[@livingtheskylife]

I’m so happy you love the channel! Happy I can be of service in this way 🤍

[@benjaminljcattana76]

Beautifully said Sister, Im very proud of you 🛕🪽🌈 See you on the world stage soon. May Light, Love and Wisdom be with all 🙏💚🧙‍♂️

[@AssertiveTarot]

I definitely would love to see more videos like this. Can you also talk about the dangers of spiritual psychoses… It’s a touchy subject but I feel like there needs to be more awareness around it. Love you so much and you look gorgeously beautiful as always ❤

[@ronjasvane]

The TRUTH IS EMPOWERING! The truth shall set us free 🎉 Always being positive and looking at the bright side is a huge pitfall in spiritual, in my opinion ❤ no judgement at all! We all do it from time to time. Share your honest opinions, Sky. Cause they are a blessing! 🎉 thank you so much for this video. Much needed. ❤❤❤

[@jenniferlee7236]

So glad you're talking about this! I've had conversations about all of these points with close family members and it's so unfortunate that vulnerable individuals are taken advantage of in a variety of ways when they enter into their "spiritual journey". I think toxic positivity and ego-driven thinking are some of the most prominent problems I've seen and people actually having psychotic breaks because of this. They develop a "god complex" and delusions of grandeur and essentially become disconnected from reality. I think bringing awareness to this can help prevent people from falling into their traps so thank you!!

[@milanakrondahl2511]

So so SO important video Sky!! I wish a video on this topic was accessible when I started my journey. Better late than never, you are saving people a lot of confusion and suffering. Thank you for being real about your experience and insight so publicly❤️

[@livingtheskylife]

Thank you for this love 🙏 that is why I felt so called to make it. I hope it’s supportive to people on their path, especially those in the early stages!

[@theeconsciousman]

thank you sky, ive met you once at a dance event. This topic isnt talked about enough and I see this so much in LA. thanks for using your platform for spreading awareness

[@aubreycs2743]

Thank you so much for posting this. This has been on my mind a lot recently especially after watching part of the Netflix series “Escaping Twin Flame.” Unfortunately spiritual abuse is real and exists in the spiritual community as well as every religion. Learning to trust your own intuition on your journey is a MAJOR part of the spiritual path and should not be given away to any spiritual leader. If something feels off, it probably is.

[@Nevyana89]

That show was wild

[@Rebel5050]

Won’t mention which religion I joined in 2020, but was told I needed ceremonies bc I was having constant spiritual attacks on me. All these ceremonies consisted of me being naked in front of my so called god parents. I looked up to them too for almost 2 yrs. I get so mad at myself for believing and trusting them. Not only was I in a vulnerable place, they took every penny. Ty for speaking up about this. Wish I had known sooner

[@Theophanes-qw3fs]

Awe my sweet friend, I just wanna hug you.. I love you and thank you for coming forward with your story. ❤❤❤

[@Somebody-ok2rf]

I was aware of these things but they felt distant. You bringing light to these topics feels like the puzzle piece I was missing. Thank you ⛅️

[@livingtheskylife]

I’m so happy to hear this! They are very real and existent in the space so I’m happy to bring more awareness to it

[@sniperwarrior646]

Definitely was skeptical because as you said there are so many out there just spitting the 'spiritual dogma'. Glad I heard you out. Super important to be aware of these things. Thank you!

[@samanthagrey2737]

I'm so glad your speaking up about this. Its happening so much more then before and unfortunatley, especially for people who are in a fragile state.

[@SpiritualSoul33]

So glad you made this video! The only social media I have is KZbin.. My daughter mentioned a couple years ago how popular things I do at home and have been teaching her for years has become online. I was amazed but scared for people because it is so true what you're saying .. Mind body and spirit come together ! There are professional mental health therapists I've seen .. No long term results. Shamans.. No long term results.. Exercise classes .. No long term results. All three alone changed my life and I'm grateful.. But all three combined changed my lifestyle and my mentality on an every day basis.. And that's what I teach my daughter. I'm glad she knows this is not some trend to be spiritual.. It's a serious thing and NOTHING is rainbows and butterflies all the time .. But that is ok ! We're meant to grow .. ❤

[@alyxiajohnson6604]

its kinda hard when your family and others dont want to hear an ounce of your path, and start becoming rly toxic towards you. I feel like this is the reason for a lot of spiritual people as well. Its not arrogance, its actively choosing not to put ourselves in the path of people who only look to tear us down.

[@alviscardi]

I totally understand that and agree with you. For many others, they have to learn the difference between “This person is low vibe and bringing me down.” to be able to discern that they are actually being abused and that is why they have to cut that person out.

[@naomiw3961]

This has for sure been on my heart lately! Spiritualism has become so outwards and materialistic in recent years and it’s so easy to get pulled in with words and quotes that resonate and pretty flashy trinkets 😥 It’s a constant reminder that the spiritual path is a singular path within.

[@heatherlynn77]

💯💯💯 I've been on this journey for over a year and have encountered MANY people like this! Especially on social media! The fakes and scammers are EVERYWHERE and even the truly gifted exploit people. It's so sad! Thank you for sharing!!

[@averybailey77]

Hey Sky, I love your videos. You are absolutely incredible! and this topic is so important, especially for those new baby witches out there going in blind thank you so much for bringing this to light ❤️ but please look into your sponsors better. Better help isn't what it's cut out to be. Please look into this ❤

[@TheQuixoticFruitopia]

Sending so much love, Sky. Bravo to you for being vulnerable, putting yourself out there for the benefit of others. So selfless. You are a beautifully awakened spirit. Sending Hugs from Dallas, Tx. :)

[@ripleyshipman8368]

This is why I trust you and your channel cuz your honest about this and your not full of shit. You actually care about your viewers!

[@livingtheskylife]

Thank you!! I really do my best. Not perfect but I’m just out here doing the best I can!

[@ripleyshipman8368]

@@livingtheskylife that's honestly all anyone can do is their best and your doing an amazing job! Your definitely someone that ppl can trust and you inspire so many! You've really found your voice and I can see that you have a genuine heart! ❤️

[@anyakuling8894]

This didn't feel negative at all. I loved the topic and it made me reflect on things i've experienced. Super interesting!

[@Ajay-kn4hz]

Thank you for sharing. The Truth is all the answers we look for are within us and we can't escape challenges as we grow spiritually.

[@chialara5302]

I have been on this journey from 10 years old, I’m 40 now… have witnessed the rise of ‘spirituality’ as a fashion especially in the last decade. My last partner had a disturbing ‘session’ with a man we met at an aya ceremony, the guy double dropped him lsd and proceeded to give him a blow job! He was tripping so hard and super confused about the ‘modality’ when he questioned the guy he was shamed and told he needed to loosen up and the guy left him there alone. I’ve had a similar sexual assault during a ‘kundalini’ massage. This needs to be spoken of and I wish we had a directory for all practitioners where people can leave reviews and testimonials and we can out the dodgy people!

[@NefeRa-k1i]

Hello sky, if you read this. Thank you for opening and sharing your experience. Your words is appreciated and going help more to others. 🙏🏻

[@Hummingbird25]

As someone on the spiritual path those 5 points are absolutely correct. Your list is similar to my list I made before I even watched your video. When I first started my spiritual path, I hadn’t found a Guru or mentor (I thought I was supposed too) but later I understood why, as I am meant to learn my own power and not be inclined to give it to someone else. You’ll be surprised how much wisdom and knowledge your soul has to share. I’ve learned more from meditation, channeling, and self tarot reading then I had doing random courses.

[@alexsmith4982]

SUCH an important topic. Thank you for speaking about something that's not talked about enough. I've seen too many people in this community unconsciously give their power away. The importance of listening to your intuition in this realm cannot be overstated. And when in doubt, it's probably best to sit it out.

[@peacefulguitar38]

Within the light there is always darkness. Best to stay grounded 🧘‍♀️

[@MysticCardsofLifewithDrea]

I have so much respect for you sharing your spiritual journey and keeping 💯! You could have spiritually bypassed this subject altogether, but u didn't. There's both light and darkness in every aspect of life which brings about balance; however, leaning too much on either side could lead to your own downfall like none other. Thanku love for this video. ❤

[@hannahclark258]

You’re so brave to share. Thank you for sharing and speaking up. It’s time those impacted start speaking up as a collective to bring it to light so that healing and positive change can happen to prevent it. This common pattern thrives in the shadow.

[@jenicamcdonald4838]

THANK YOU for hitting these points!!! I had an experience where I was constantly questioning my discernment about someone in my life who prided themselves as an energetic healer. From observing overtime I realized that they were not energy healers, but energy manipulators. It is SO important to be careful out there!!

[@lifestylelines]

Sky, I am so sorry you had to experience this abuse. Unfortunately it is as you say, people take advantage, and they often choose people when they are most vulnerable 😞 love your channel, I think with this video you’ve given a more balanced perspective to and towards spirituality. Because it’s not all flowers and sunshine. ☀️ as much as we would like that

[@ambermcstravick]

I just love how you are so authentically you and don't pussyfoot around some of these topics! This was a really enlightening video!

[@juliep1122]

Thanks for sharing. It’s good to keep these dangers in mind.

[@nortonshaw2100]

In summary I think you could say spirituality is as spirituality does-that the circle of “higher” experience always opens into the wider field of total interaction in “the whole” world SO is a constant learning not a fixed LEVEL.

[@JG-di8oi]

My favorite video of yours yet. Thank you for being so real and honest.

[@Spicey__b_itz]

I really love this video because you really speak out on a lot and that people need a reminder that spirituality is not just unicorns and rainbows and that not everyone has good intentions . Thank you so much for sharing ❤

[@ashitari7]

In addition not all teachers are Shamen or healers. KZbin channels like your are great source of information and exposure. I like the fact that you stay to remind open and experience these different spiritual practices. I loved the crystal lamerium doom. Thank you dear for what you do. Many blessing to you

[@flowpolaroid]

Such a good one! Thank you! :)

[@Konsciencia1111]

That's why, I rather find my own answers. It's like you've said Sky, we have our own answers within us. I try not to follow what people say because what work for them. May not work for you. I'm new to your Channel by the way. Nice to meet you. Brave you are!

[@the_inspired_coach]

This video is 100% spot on! And so needed! Every point is ON point! I hope many people watch this. Thank you

[@dianemorgan600]

Thank you Sky, I was not aware that there are healers out there taking advantage of women. I'm not surprised, being on my spiritual path for 10 years now I am very guarded on who I receive information from. Yes, when it comes to spiritual information, discernment is key. And yes, do not give your power away to no one, not even a twin flame. Thank you so much for sharing, I know it's not easy talking about what you experienced. I can see how passionate you are in bringing these dangers to the forefront and I am sorry that this happened to you. ♥

[@lunabee7804]

I really appreciate your honesty and gentle warning for predators of people starting their spiritual path. As your natural intuition will eventually guide you. Sometimes it’s hard to tell who’s really for the greater good &who is for themselves. I live by-if I don’t feel right about it then it’s not right. your intuition never lies to you .you shouldn’t have to convince yourself of something or someone it should just be. Also be aware of people who are asking you for your money , once that’s in the equation I’m done if I wanna help /heal people it comes from my heart. I would never charge money. Thank you so much.

[@Hummingbird25]

This video will save lives. It’s important to practice healthy discernment. A trance like state is a very vulnerable state and one should practice it only in a safe environment surrounded by trusted people. I’m so sorry Sky you experienced that form of abuse. Sending lots of love and healing ❤

[@Apollos2023]

Your story was very impactful. I’m very sorry that happened to you. Smh. Sending positive energy your way.

[@betzyberumen6910]

Yess so spot on! A true connected person will show you the truth and shine light on the darkness.

[@Jayathecoolkid]

SKY GEUSS WHAT I DID A RAGE RITUAL AND MY BUILT UP TRAMA IS GONE! TY MIA MAGICK AND YOU you dont even know how much i needed that you guys saved my life!

[@livingtheskylife]

I am so thrilled to hear this, wow. The rage rituals are so incredibly powerful and I am so happy it was supportive to you!

[@brandotex]

That new documentary on Twin Flames is spot in with you are describing

[@OMFGITSVIKKI]

This is so important to talk about. Not only are the super spiritual still human, but I think many times people who lean towards the extreme of becoming a guru or spiritual teacher, they’re often running away something or attempting to hide their true nature which may be ugly or toxic. It’s no surprise that many of these teachers get accused of SA and abuse.

[@Boulderman]

Yes, you are right. It's so easy to get lost in all the spirituality out there. I have always been a big-time seeker, so I have firsthand experience with all of this. I'm so sorry to hear about your violation from a so-called healer. Yes, definitely make more videos like this.

[@ephemeral_me]

So sorry you went through that Sky. That sounds horrible. Unfortunately the love and light of spirituality is the perfect place for bad people to hide. I lean a lot into Buddhism, and one thing that is taught is that everything you need is already within you and always has been. Obviously if you're using psychedelics you should have a trip sitter, but all of the same truths you can gain from that can be gained from meditation as well.

[@beautyallaroundme724]

"I'm getting sick of the word." I've felt that way for a long, long time. I'm impressed to see someone else who can see this. Usually nobody understands my POV. Gurus--I've seen through all of those I've encountered. I've also been taken advantage of by a "healer" when I was in my early 20's. And another tried after that, but I saw through him in time (and nobody would believe me in that social circle. Years later, he was arrested for basically going around impregnating women, saying they were sacred babies, all over the US). I'm also sick of the whole you can't admit anything negative thing. I saw through the whole commercialized new age movement a very long time ago-even though I still do a lot of things that might be considered a part of it. I have also also been disgusted with the spiritual snobbery & competition since the early 90's. Glad to see someone else speaking up about it. Every time I've tried, I've just been put down for it, so I just keep it to myself mostly.

[@spacesausage3417]

I love you Sky, I’ve watched your videos for a while now but today I feel very safe and soothed just by listening to your voice and seeing your face. You appear safe to me❤ thank you

[@livingtheskylife]

Awh! That means the world to me ❤️

[@beau.and_arrows]

This video came out at the perfect time for me. Thank you very much for this.

[@livingtheskylife]

I’m so happy to hear that. Thank you for sharing! 🙏

[@heidizimmerman3050]

you go girl. love that you are bringing this darkness into the light. i too have experienced sexual advances from the "shaman" . it bet its really prevalent. so thank you Sis Star!.

[@clouseaux]

@10:00 so sorry that happened Skye, it's an absolute epidemic in the spiritual and religious world. Women and girls especially but boys and men also are abused by these predators

[@debraarnold5250]

This is sooo, true…I am into the healing arts, and will definitely say protect yourself.

[@jolenecarley3154]

Thank you so much for talking about this! Incredibly important points and I too have been in some terrible situations with so called "healers" or "spiritual people", I've had many positive experiences too...awareness is key, best advice if something feels off it probably is! Thanks again for all you do!! xoxoxo

[@livingtheskylife]

I am so happy I was able to do this and share this video. It is really important and yes there is both so much beauty and purity in this community and also some very concerning things happening and I just want people to stay safe and listen to their own inner guidance system :)

[@rominazarza5913]

Thank you so much for sharing ❤because yeah not because some people are spiritual doesn’t mean they can harm you in a way you know. So thank you because we all need to be aware that it could happen.

[@jburdick8611]

Great video. Those who are just beginning their "spiritual journey" can really benefit from this video. And even those who have been "seeking/learning/expanding" for some time might need to be reminded of some of the ideas you shared. 😊🙏💖

[@ellielynn8219]

This kind of info is SOOO important, especially during this time of spiritual awakening. Thank you for sharing 💜

[@MC333]

Actions always speak louder than words 🤝 good vid sky infinitely agree

[@hastijafarijozani5115]

so good, this is the level of responsibility anyone talking about spirituality or even psychology needs to have. thank you for always grounding your audience in reality...

[@Blueeyesinthesky]

I’d actually love more videos like this!!! I wanna explore spirituality more but I don’t know much about where to start

[@alyssahomen3753]

Thank you so much for this video!!! As a SA abuse survivor thank you for sharing your story and getting vulnerable because you may spare someone a heartbreaking pain. What are some red flags to look for in a “healer”? I wonder if before a session like that maybe mention that loved ones know I’m here, or maybe ask if it can be recorded? Maybe that will deter I’m not sure 😞. Also cult like behavior, leaders telling you to “not let the outside world lower your vibe” when active oppression is happening etc is very very common and concerning. We are human and not everything is rainbows and butterflies we can’t change to make a better new world if we turn a blind eye to our brother/sister/siblings suffering. Lastly, that arrogance and telling just let friends and family who don’t ascend to “fall off” like WHAT! One thing to cut off toxic/abusive people, but to recommend people leave loved ones behind because they haven’t awaking is wild and not in a good way!

[@Hedgehog3342]

I have experienced spiritual arrogance and it's one of the easiest traps to fall into. its easy to say to yourself once you gone through an awakening to that "i'm so awakened, while everyone else is asleep". but as you come to realize though later, it's your own ego speaking. after awhile you can catch yourself being arrogant to others. one of the problems i have when it came to spiritual arrogance was arguing with people and talking down to them, making them feeling ignorant. now while you could say that there is genuinely ignorant people, it's best not to be condescending to anyone. i try to humble myself and realize that not everyone will be capable of awakening and sometimes it's best not to get into arguments with others who can't or won't understand. it is dangerous route to go down if you don't catch yourself being egotistic to others and yourself.

[@bflaves]

this topic is not being discussed enough. thanks for making a video on it. when I was 24 I went to Costa Rica and experienced something similar. Emotional damage basically and took me a while to get over it too.

[@livingtheskylife]

I’m so sorry that happened. Ultimately these experiences although challenging make us stronger in trusting ourselves and who we are! Sending all the love

[@laurengeorge4671]

My spiritual path became a lot more personal to me after coming across some of the pitfalls. I realized exactly what you were saying, that some people are praying on the vulnerable. And secondly I realized many fields in spirituality are so unregulated that it's easier for scammers, abusers, and manipulators to operate within it. Discernment in spirituality is key.

[@mrszavaras]

Thank you for this. I’m so sorry that you were targeted, too. So many need to hear this. Xoxo

[@gerdalichtblume7989]

Great and important video and topic. Thank you!

[@kelliharper6163]

Yes yes yes! I also feel it's important to note going to the source of indigenous wisdom. Supporting the roots and lineage of these sacred practices, when accessible 🙏 supporting the communities that these ceremonies come from.