The Day I Became an Ironman

[@MarioSonicBee]

Cody has just been winning in life recently. I mean getting married, becoming a dad and now becoming an Ironman. You gotta really appreciate how far he has come

[@LessGo7921]

Truly a frictionless life he’s lived

[@joshuataylor3550]

everyone dies

[@SaloniBaloney_25]

Quite the opposite of a Mr. Struggle 😍

[@averybarrera]

Don’t forget becoming a DJ! WE ASCEND TOGETHER

[@MisterChubz]

I too wish I was born into a rich family and given great opportunities!

[@donskiski]

I had no idea how personal Ironman was to Cody, he basically grew up with it. His dedication for it makes so much sense and its so wholesome, congrats to Cody!

[@nicks3626]

our ‘little’ iron man

[@isaibustillos7293]

@@nicks3626iron grandpa

[@Yoyozworld19]

This really shows you the importance of having a healthy and loving family. You can tell Cody grew up around amazing parents that set beautiful examples for him and his sister.

[@iloveme4life]

this stood out to me too. Such a beautiful thing

[@blodstrm]

Yeah, made me a bit sad about the family I grew up in.

[@pizzacomananas]

That kinda explains why I'm a fat fuck 💀

[@Nova-Soul]

lucky 😒

[@7FT3GIANT]

⁠​⁠@@blodstrmI empathize with you but you should instead try to see it as an opportunity to give your children (if you choose to have any) the kind of support and love you might not have been fortunate to be given yourself

[@6thwilbury2331]

The cross-cutting between young and current-day Cody is priceless. Props to the editor.

[@Missymlk]

It has me SOBBING

[@jojobell_]

Cody was there for his dads first Ironman and now Cody’s son was there for his first Ironman

[@bloom.uploads]

stop i’m gna cry

[@kazakukog]

aw man

[@samanthajones4797]

It hasn’t been born yet ?

[@kazakukog]

@@samanthajones4797 the son was still there for cody tho.... even not born

[@SARAI863]

Stop im not ok rn

[@oxyroid]

when kelsey embraced you when you finished i could see how proud she was and how relieved you were and how safe you feel with each other

[@ilovebunniesooomuch]

that part!! i got a little emotional at that part. u feel the love and support through the screen

[@calebfabiano5498]

Completing an Ironman at 85 years old is an insane accomplishment, congrats Cody!

[@shubhangikundu2827]

Glad to see this joke is still running

[@ZombixMix]

@@shubhangikundu2827much like Cody 🏃🏻‍♂️

[@crucifiedangelss]

IM DYINGG

[@HalfNHalf.]

@@crucifiedangelssdo you need CPR?

[@qualiangelica]

LMFAO

[@Isabella-hp4mc]

The fact that Cody accomplished everything AND stayed consistent on youtube is crazyyy

[@andrealiu5106]

dedication and discipline for sure, i'm inspired

[@bluz1864]

Also helps when you have a supportive partner. 😊

[@pattykrabbies]

Absolute beast

[@danip2476]

Meanwhile kesley is the complete opposite lmao

[@Famousestephen]

@@TomChen-bi1fudude stop being weird

[@Maggie_mccann]

Cody is easly the hardest worker on the internet, he was planning for a wedding, djing, running a business, hosting 2 podcasts, 2 channels (all with consisten uploads), keeping up a healthy stable relationship, AND training for an IronMan is crazy

[@Flourfiending]

One of the most frictionless men in the ironman game. Truly inspirational

[@808szn]

I just beat it til it was numb

[@HandweIl]

So frictionless

[@OnMyWaytoKorea]

😂😂

[@bobbyhousel5846]

Cody dude you literally always inspire me. Thanks for being the man.

[@ratedpending]

the iron... man

[@AveryCoolKid]

@@ratedpendingthat is EXACTLY what i was thinking

[@ratedpending]

@@AveryCoolKid that's why ur the cool kid, avery

[@sariyahmaxwell6763]

cody is the best, thanks for inspiring

[@destinyscroggs9291]

more of this content, i agree. so inspiring

[@Alina-bs4ry]

Didn't expect to be sobbing by the end of this. Cody is honestly an inspiration. Good job, man. Extremely proud of you

[@YouTube]

congrats Cody, ur an iron man with a heart of gold ❤

[@adrianartzz]

Yoooo

[@EvilTim1911]

wtf

[@awkward_bomb]

Pee

[@corduroycal]

Fix the copyright abuse problems on this website

[@thors03]

is this fr.. lmao whoever runs the KZbin account is a fan of Cody, W

[@zori5086]

this was so incredibly well made, it made me cry seeing Cody cross the finish line and all the sweet and caring things Kelsey would say

[@brigzbee2303]

Same, absolutely sobbed

[@Lovejdrama]

Yeah some ❤

[@vhsyoutube1271]

I love how he don't bullshit us and try to make it corny and dead serious, he's just a real guy with jokes and that just makes him so likable, it's still emotional and inspiring

[@kristianbrannan9961]

It’s a fine line and he walks on it perfectly lmao

[@helili]

he knows how to make it inspirational and serious without being corny as hell

[@Fighting_Fatigue_117]

He's authentic.

[@JeffWittek]

Damn bro did two half ironmans 🔥🔥

[@CuanZ]

Jeff!

[@allison_diehl]

Omg lololol

[@katelynschneider5215]

Why was I expecting Jeff to chime in 😂 love you Jeff!

[@amberamber7841]

☠️☠️☠️😂

[@Mikekire3831]

The Snake 🐍 🤣 😂😂😂.

[@gideonsmith2642]

The fact he acknowledges that it is self serving and it's important to give back to those who helped support you achieve your accomplishments. Dope

[@seniegrant]

At the end when you ran into Kelsey's arms and just broke down with emotion, that hit me straight in the heart man. All the good feels. I've been watching your content for over 5 years now and the amount of progression you've given all of us as subscribers is so beautiful. Thank you Cody ❤ I've never had this many likes before and I'm honored that it was for Cody 🫡

[@sierrahultgren945]

I feel the same way! I’ve seen every video the last 5 years and his growth inspires me

[@katherinefotopoulos9244]

it hits different knowing kelsey was pregnant when he crossed that line 🥹

[@seniegrant]

@@katherinefotopoulos9244 i know right 😭 it's like he realized in that moment that he was going to be the role model for his son one day

[@Msft_Films]

That honestly made me tear up towards the end when he finally became an Ironman. Huge props to Cody and his whole family! All of this makes me want to start training for a marathon or even an Ironman!

[@amberrae5583]

Cody, I’m a big fan and I love all of your videos. However, I gotta say, I’ve been putting off watching this one. My uncle trained for two years for his Ironman, and he passed away during the biking portion of the race a few months back in September of 2023. He had a freak cardiac event and was one of the healthiest people I knew, only 50 years old. Watching this video has made me so incredibly emotional for a lot of reasons, but really it’s so amazing to see that you were able to complete such an intense triathlon. So because of Cody Trains.. and in honor of my uncle.. I’ve pledged to myself to make a complete lifestyle change and live healthier starting at the beginning of 2024. At 27 years old, I know my best days are still ahead of me. I’m already down 5 lbs and feeling so much better. You’re an inspiration to so many, keep it up 🫶🏼

[@declyn1380]

Keep it up!!! ❤🎉 Proud of you and i know your uncle is too!!

[@monniewashere]

good luck my friend! would love to hear how it's going, i believe in u!

[@nosir1440]

Good luck buddy. I hope it goes well for you. I know your uncle would be proud of you.

[@amandaclbn8324]

All the best dude ❤

[@galleryofnonsense]

I’m not kidding, I started crying watching this. Cody, you’re truly such an inspiring and kind person and the journey you’ve taken with so much emotion invested into it is incredible. I know that you’ll be just as good of a father to your kid/kids as your parents were to you. Keep going Cody, we love and admire you so much.

[@liv_hann]

no same i felt so silly crying but the parallels to his childhood and also talking about the future :( aw just made me so proud

[@okayokayokay111]

This was insanely well made, it actually got me tearing up. GAUR CORDY!!

[@xograyce]

This made me cry, so happy to see Cody accomplishing his goals even with all of the hurdles he had to get over. Truly inspirational

[@Belelelekake]

Cody is so insanely dedicated and he got this shit DONE. HE DID IT. That is so impressive man. Props to you.

[@Leonatheprofessional]

I was never interested in Cody’s training or the Ironman and prefer his comedy and button vids but seeing his passion and dedication combined with his family’s love and support in this video had me enraptured the whole video and in tears by the end of it. Damn it U2.

[@Jeracraft]

I've Been training almost every day for 8 months now, I hope I can do this one day but I'm not a fan of swimming in cold ass water 💀

[@boingoluvr]

how about blue ass water..

[@pancakes4140]

um.. wetsuit dude?

[@TheHeadincharge]

@@pancakes4140I mean, it helps, but it’s still cold lmao

[@duhduhduhduhDavid]

Wtf lmao I used to watch you so long ago

[@shelbynicole5019]

you got it tho!! maybe practice with ice baths and test how long you can sit in it

[@emwARMY0309]

I loved how raw this was. This just feels so motivating. No sugarcoating. Just showing the challenges of committing to something like this is and how rewarding it can be after.

[@nalaa9618]

THIS was so well shot OMG...Seeing Kelsey being named as his wife was so emotional! They´ve come such a long way without ever changing negatively. Gosh we love you both! CODY YOU DID IT!!!!!!!!!!!

[@MicoJoe]

Such an amazing told doc in less than 15 minutes. Props to you and your team for making this happen

[@gwynethrees1215]

One of the best KZbinrs of our time, Cody is a role model and hilarious. His support system with Kelsey and his family is so admirable

[@_tamia8902]

sibling rivalry at a whole new level. Congrats Cody, you deserve it 🙌

[@oliviarunhart]

this made me cry ☹️ i’m so happy for cody, he’s accomplished such amazing things that really mean a lot to him and it’s so inspiring and nice to watch. i loved this video and i loved seeing your dedication pay off. CONGRATULATIONS CODY!!!!

[@Belelelekake]

You’re a lucky man to have so much love and support from your wife, parents, sister, and millions of fans. Incredible job, Cody. You made it 👏🏼🎉

[@SenseiSeth]

Man as somebody who edits a lot, I KNOW finding those clips of you as a kid and seeing all those parallels must’ve felt so dang good

[@tiffanykendall3087]

Gahh this was SUCH a beautiful video. Like, actually brought me to tears. It's really cool to see this side of Cody and all the support of his loved ones. What a beautiful family. I've been watching Cody videos for years - Can't wait to tune in to Kelsey and Cody building a family of their own

[@a.m.b.e.r]

I CAN’T WAIT FOR THE FINISH LINE HUG NOW THAT WE ALL KNOW WHAT THEY FOUND OUT BEFORE THE RACE!! 😭😭😭💕💕💕

[@ArinTv999]

Wait what happened

[@ryanherrera9265]

​@@ArinTv999kelsey is preggers lol

[@Nathi98]

@@ryanherrera9265 SHE IS? THAT'S GREAT!

[@ArinTv999]

@@ryanherrera9265 LETS FUCKING GOOOOOOOOO

[@Victor-ks3sp]

I wish this was ten times longer, would honestly watch a full length doc. Loved it.

[@Poorsha88]

When you said your family was doing ironman with you, brought tears to my eyes! What a strong bond you have even as adults! Have no fears Kody you already know how to be an amazing dad... Just follow the footsteps of your dad❤

[@SparkyGecko]

Hearing Cody say he hopes he can be there for someone the same way his parents were there for him after announcing his son is so sweet I cant stand it 🥺😭

[@pc.102]

I think this video perfectly sums up what “energy is everything” means. Being surrounded by likeminded people, love, support, and inspiration. Very proud! I hope one day I can do this for myself as well.

[@immacroftbro945]

actually crying by the end, congrats cody! all of us internet strangers are so proud, this video really shows how much you have put into this and what it means to you!! and that line about being that role model to someone else is so serendipitous ♥️♥️

[@jrrrd]

This video was so unbelievably touching. All of us are so proud of you Cody, and although it really doesn’t seem personal, we’re all so happy for you. Whether it be this, your wedding, or your recent prosperous achievements, we’re so happy for you. This video was both inspiring and heartwarming, thank you, and once again congratulations.

[@boojersey13]

It really inspires me to go out and achieve, myself. Love this guy

[@kimia1664]

I like to think the entire race Cody was thinking "I'm doing this for Kelsey and the little man"

[@ninaricceri9564]

No I literally started crying at the end thinking about that!!!!

[@NN-ks7px]

@@uhlexseeuhin the podcast Kelsey said that she found out she was pregnant before the Ironman, so Cody already knew

[@Zaynsg1rl]

who’s choppin onions

[@facumilhas]

@@uhlexseeuh the ironman was like 3 month ago, so more like May

[@emilyschreiber3834]

@@elin_the iron man was in may!

[@mayaringer5711]

Aww I loved the edits of you biking as a little boy and you biking now. It makes it even more touching and shows how important this is to you and your family. I liked how realistic this was.

[@taylorchristensen9211]

I don't ever leave comments but I just got to say, as a fellow son of a dad who's been an Ironman, this is inspiring me to check that box too and do what my old man did. I can only imagine what it was like to see the look on your dad's face and say "that's my boy!" I'd like to see that face on my dad one day. Thank you, Cody.

[@laurenlynn7992]

im crying 😩😩😭

[@mintyglamour]

Please!!!! You got this!!!

[@ayeyoedy9869]

You got this man 💕

[@absolutelynotarobot]

I normally cry hearing "It's a Beautiful Day" because my dad raised me with his love for U2, so this had me bawling in an instant. Your family is just lovely, and you are incredible Cody! Might be weird because parasocial relationships are weird, but we're all super proud of you.

[@laurensanchez7872]

To think I started watching him as a jokester and this wild parasocial relationship has led me to crying at watching this man crush his goals and dreams. Keep it up, Cody! 🥺💕

[@tmetm13]

This man has single handedly got my fitness back on track and I'm doing a half marathon next month. Without that Cody trains channel I wouldn't be where I'm mentally at. Love this family and everyone supporting everyone in the comments. Choo choo you guys!

[@hollykm]

LETS GOOOO

[@leonreds1383]

Im proud of you man! keep going don't look back!

[@reynajo669]

Aw man, this video made me cry. Cody, bother, you are truly so inspiring. You have made your platform such a beautiful place to display the triumph of the human spirit, specifically your own, of course, and I can’t thank you enough for it. You make me want to be a better version, the best version of myself. God bless you Cody, you are truly an incredible person, and as a long time viewer, I’m so proud of you brother. Energy is everything.

[@WhysEatingPeanutButtrStressful]

Cody is actually really inspiring, his ability to just do something without stopping is actually really refreshing to see in this world full of "just do what you can". Its not a bad thing to keep pushing yourself.

[@TomChen-bi1fu]

Hello dear nice to meet you here and I hope you don’t mind us to have a private conversation?

[@128treehugger]

He's also very smart; the kind of person who's good at everything. That combined with strong work ethic is like a superpower 😂

[@--Fullsun]

@@TomChen-bi1fuwtf 💀

[@Fighting_Fatigue_117]

​@@128treehugger Not to be pedantic but there's no such thing, but I see what you mean, he's a master of many crafts.

[@alyssaavery2087]

ENERGY IS EVERYTHING. so glad to see everything he’s been working for put together in a video like this. cody is always inspiring

[@MissFelice]

Following Cody Trains and knowing how it ended, I still got emotional watching this. What a wonderful way to bring the full story to life, especially now knowing you had just found out you were going to be a dad!! GAUR CORDY!!!!!

[@greengecko3536]

I can confirm Cody Ko is indeed a Genius, Billionaire, Playboy, Philanthropist

[@Skyschannel123]

This genuinely had me in tears, this was so touching. I’m so proud of you Cody, keep on rockin

[@joshualeblanc8598]

Cody you’ve inspired me so much with this series and watching you helped me to get motivated to start running. I was diagnosed with heart failure in 2020 and gained almost 100 pounds from having to be sedentary and all the medications and surgery. Today I’ve lost 70 pounds and run almost every single day and I love it. I’m getting my health and my life back and it all started with the motivation from you man. I hope you see this and know how much of an impact you’ve made on my life. Energy is everything!!

[@extreemguy19]

This made me emotional. A fantastic short documentary. Gripping story, impeccable editing, great home movie footage. Everything came together for this one man, you should submit this to a film festival or something.

[@michealjackson12121]

“Energy is everything” is actually a really amazing quote because everything is truly made of energy. This is one of the most important things you learn in metaphysics!

[@Hansjarrells]

Cody has really done the damn thing. Congratulations Cody! We’re so proud of how far you’ve come!

[@808szn]

Tickle it with a feather

[@AlexLove631]

Putting the Oppenheimer theme in there just elevates this to another level lol. Congrats man! I love how you carry yourself with humor, but with also so much heart. This is awesome!

[@magix8009]

I agree, Oppenheimer has the best soundtrack

[@modelballer24]

This is some of the most refreshing content I’ve seen in a while. Been a fan of Cody since the vine days, but seeing him just be honest about setting a goal and working his ass off to accomplish it really made my heart happy.

[@rubyhughes2915]

Dude I’m crying watching this! My partner did the half Ironman in Australia and we cheered you on when you were on your last lap.. you inspire us!!! We love you ❤

[@MurphyMosby]

Cody Ko is just like the most wholesome guy to have ever lived. This video just made me love him even more. He deserves the world!

[@speaknowkelsey]

Thank you Cody for making this video. I am disabled, and this is not an experience I will be able to have myself. Being able to experience your Ironman secondhand through this video was both fascinating and moving, and in some small way I felt included. I unconsciously found myself yelling “GO CODY GO” at the tv when you started the race. I’m so happy for you achieving this goal, and shoutout to Kelsey for being a wonderful support especially with all of these overlapping life milestones in mind. Congratulations, Ironman!

[@stephaniem9996]

Imagining your son watching this video in the future and feeling the same way you did watching your parents makes me so emotional, you’re such an inspiration Cody and we are all so proud of you! Congrats on becoming an Ironman ♥️

[@maggiebee619]

This is so amazing. The fact that you can feel how much Cody cares about Ironman through this video is really something special. As well as the splicing together childhood memories. This is the truest form of art and it truly is admirable. Congratulations Cody on being an Ironman and a father (you have to say I love you 3000 to your children now). Thank you for the time & care you put into this video. Big up Cody, Austin, Matt, Thomas, Brooke, Dan and all others who worked on this for making this come to life!

[@EffortlessSwimming]

This was an incredible look under the surface of what you went through. Hats off Cody! 5am swims are where it’s at! Yewww!

[@hypanthia]

Absolutely cannot believe how far you've come man. To think I saw you a few years back reacting to MattySmokes and now you're married, having a kid, and fulfilling your goals. What a beautiful and inspiring story dude.

[@DYLBKR]

This is beautifully done, interweaving the family footage in to parallel with the struggles faced was neat.

[@stathisfragoulis6040]

i would've never ever thought I would tear up watching a cody ko video. (im proud of u dude)

[@sydneylynns]

Honestly Cody, everything you mentioned in this video I’ve thought about over the past 6 months while watching your videos. I see how much you are taking on, from training for the Ironman, DJing, putting out your KZbin content on THREE channels, and probably so much more. It’s unbelievable and it’s so inspirational. For someone who’s struggling hard just working 28 hours per week, this gives me so much inspiration and drive to achieve something better for me in my life. Thanks man for being so god damn incredible!

[@lizwewel8680]

This video made me tear up. It’s just so inspiring too see the work Cody put in to do the Ironman. Also the clips of his family and what it meant to everybody involved was just so special. It’s cool to see how far Cody has come.

[@emilyarrington320]

I agree with every sweet and emotional comment here ❤ but “Cody *Kod-zick-juh* ….you are an Ironman” killed me 💀 HAHAHA 11:48

[@sneb602]

I remember being six years old and running the final quarter mile with my dad as he finished his Ironman in Phoenix. The picture of him and I crossing the finish line together, little kid having fun and completely exhausted dad smiling bigger than he ever has, hangs on my wall and has for over 15 years. Your ultramarathon video really got me going, as I had run my first marathon a year before that video came out. I was looking for the next thing. Recently trashed my knee and I’m starting to come back. Watching a comedian that I’ve been watching since the Vine days blossom into one of my favorite KZbinrs AND have the crazy tenacity that it takes to exercise on an elite level is incredibly inspirational. Thank you. Never stop. Energy is everything

[@katieturnbull7881]

this is why I love Cody, his cut videos keep me going, but then, every once in a while, he’ll give us something really serious and personal like this that’s really meaningful. Keep doing your thing!!!

[@jackberry]

Dude, Cody. What the fuck man. You, your family, your team... What a phenomenal piece on your journey. With all the parallels from your childhood. In absolute tears watching this. Inspiring as hell!

[@JohnDoe-sr8vn]

I absolutely love how cinematic and professional this is. Congrats to not only to becoming an Ironman, but also for putting together such a great mini documentary!

[@janecat8753]

I'm not a fitness or sports person and I don't follow Cody Trains. But this did give me chills. Such a beautiful documentary, and congrats on becoming an Iron Man! Mad respect to you, Cody. I think you're going to be a great dad and a wonderful role model for your kid. 💜

[@taylorross6295]

Cody never fails to make me cry when he shares anything about his fitness or his family. So much love for you dude!

[@RicardoMoralesMassin]

this is the most wholesome video I've seen, man. Cody and Kelsey and the family are just so awesome.

[@georgethemonkey]

You’re a pure soul and deserve all the happiness you’ve been getting recently. Keep killin it, buddy! People dream of having a family like yours, so happy to see.

[@justme1220]

It’s so heartwarming to see Cody get and be able to achieve everything he deserves

[@michelleeliza4315]

It's really refreshing to see this vulnerable side of Cody. I had started a weight loss journey and have fallen off track. It's nice to have something to relate to in the sense that very few, if any, people can do a strict exercise regimen with 100% success and I need to be more forgiving to myself. Congrats Cody!!

[@zacksoulevolleyball]

The production quality on this is insane, so cool to see the full journey condensed into 13 minutes

[@stephaniechilders5176]

Wow Cody and Felix, two of my all time fav KZbinrs, just KILLING it at the game of life recently. Both became a dad and are accomplishing huge milestones. I couldn't be more happy for them.

[@dorosays]

Ikr!!! And Danny too! What a time!

[@stephaniechilders5176]

@@dorosays OMG I FORGOT ABOUT DANNY TOO! wild

[@sydneydowd8969]

As someone who cycles competitively, MAJOR kudos on that first 12 weeks. And coming back from injury!!!

[@chelseaputnam4456]

This is absolutely phenomenal! The editing, the story, the sincerity, the strength. Great work!

[@pontusjuntikka]

Amazing job and an amazing video. The Oppenheimer track combined with A Beautiful Day at the end gave me goosebumps and also made me shed some tears. To do something like this and to really push your mental and physical barriers is incredible, something that I believe everyone should do at some point. Congratulations on everything, I’m happy for you!

[@ryanbahnsen9639]

Been watching you since I was in high school and now I've just graduated college. I was a runner my whole life and a sprinter at a D1 school with no intentions of going back to distance running but after watching this video you've inspired me to train and run a marathon with my Dad. My dad has run 6 marathons and I watched his first one when I was in third grade. Congrats on this amazing accomplishment, I hope to inspire my children one day like your parents and my parents!

[@HasnaatKhan]

So Proud of CODY u r a IRON MAN !

[@kimberly.aerial]

crying so hard at Cody wanting to be the example for his son someday 😭😭😭

[@cosmokisses]

Got me crying and cheering when you crossed that finish line dude!!! Way to freaking go!!!! Congratulations to you and Kelsey on your future bundle of joy. So many great things happening for you. ❤

[@artianand846]

This made me cry, thank you for taking us through your journey Cody! You’re an absolute inspiration.

[@SideA628]

Huge congratulations, not just on the Ironman, but the wedding, being able to do it with your family, everything. Not a lot of people can do what you’ve done.

[@loganjames7080]

Truly inspiring. For an 86 year old man to make accomplishments like this….. I’m just at a loss for words right now.

[@pinkfeet518]

LMAO

[@mphangelasakala7088]

congrats cody! this was so real and so well made, it gave me actual chills. especially the bits with the Oppenheimer score. you should be very proud all around!

[@mrgermanungeidoppelziregle3766]

Literally started crying when you reached the goal and talked about your father. What a great family story! So much love between you guys, I'm so happy for you!❤

[@polina9466]

This was so wholesome and well-edited and I love how you commit to everything you do, but still don’t take yourself too seriously!

[@Miraeshi]

I have no interest in doing an Ironman, but seeing Cody’s motivation and determination was inspiring for any goal I could want to achieve

[@Ptint1685]

This quite literally made me emotional, just the connection with your family and your perseverance. Truly beautiful Cody, congrats brother!

[@jesseniarivera7171]

Got me tearing up over here!! That’s amazing and so cool to see that family dynamic, you really did that!