The Decision That Changed My Life Forever

I get asked all the time how I ended up in a wheelchair. This is the beginning of my story...
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[@hilarybreedon3429]

Don't feel bad for taking the other patient's surgery time. You were a priority because you were in critical condition and he was probably more stable.

[@jimbo2325]

So sad. I am 52 and think of all the dumb things we did in our mid to late teens. Somehow my friends and I survived without any life long altering ill effects. God bless us all.

[@perfectlyhonest4139]

JimBo Yes except she wasn’t a teen when she did this . Diving is something we do without thinking. People usually turn out fine and don’t think this will happen this them.

[@scrumps101]

Amen. I”m 49 and I can’t count how many stupid things we all did that could have resulted in some sort of trauma. I’m so grateful that we all came out physically unscathed for the most part. I grew up in So. California and the amount of times we drank and went surfing alone it’s almost a miracle that nothing ever happened. We stupidly had that young invincibility fog that clouded our still growing brains. Now that I’m older I’m not nearly that adventurous or stupid. Now a dive or jump into a body of water however is seemingly pretty tame and harmless one would think. Seeing this young, intelligent woman so injured from just that is a strong reminder to the contrary.

[@denisepaulsenful]

@@scrumps101 Agreed. I suffered a spinal chord injury back in 2011. My situation was different. i simply fainted. That aside, most of the inhabitants of the rehab centre - where i was for 4 months post injury - they were predominantly young men between the ages of 18 to 25-yrs of age.

[@scrumps101]

Denise Paulsen I’m really sorry to hear that you suffered such an injury. My heart goes out to you. Now that I’m older and wiser than my stupid teen years it’s situations like yours that cross my mind. Sometimes things are so beyond our control. It’s crazy the amount of fluke things that can happen just by living our daily lives. We put ourselves in harms way so often at younger ages and it makes me wonder how so many people make it passed 25 nearly completely unscathed. I hope you are doing well and have had success in your recovery.

[@jimbo2325]

@Carson Lowe Amen

[@tinacollins9213]

I was 24 when I broke my spine life has been hard but you do cope ,be strong love 💕

[@abhitaratanjee4381]

My niece is now paralyzed at 24. It's just been a few months. I have been finding it so hard to deal with this. Esp to see my niece like this..can you help me

[@Danybella]

@@abhitaratanjee4381 Alwyn Uys

[@detroitfettyghost8492]

OMG. I jumped off a similar bridge so many times, I didn't realize this could been me! You are so tough and courageous- bless you

[@ProTipsForParas]

Thanks for watching. Right! I didn't think beyond that moment either.

[@adrieanajosephine6938]

Yea sometimes hitting the water wrong that happens not only that but from certain heights hitting water is like hitting concrete

[@daviddo2783]

It’s a tough process and lots to handle but I’m glad you’re doing well! I’m a C7 incomplete. Was paralyzed from the chest down but 8 months into my recovery I’m walking with a cane and progressing. I can only thank God everyday! God bless!

[@apexpredator5428]

My spine was shattered August 8, 2004. I still haven’t brought myself to talk about it although I think about it every day. I suffered so much loss. I have recently started watching and subbing to channels such as yours. Watching you tell your story kind of makes me feel like I could share mine with somebody. My story is pretty radical like yours and people say I’m so lucky to be alive but on the inside I don’t feel like it even though on the outside I play the games of bubbly life.

[@rmorell28]

You already have started! You just shared a part of your story and it moved me to reply. I can sense the reluctance you have in sharing your experience and how it must make you feel vulnerable. It takes great courage to communicate to others the devastating aftershocks of spinal injury, especially in response to insensitive and intrusive questions so many people may ask seemingly unaware of their own casual indifference to a subject matter so obviously and exquisitely emotionally intense. I admire your brave courage. I hope you continue to share your story. Thank you!

[@jennifersinclair7249]

This is why I am so upset with my mother. Because she acts bubbly and cheerful but really is not so, inside. I tell her to be authetic. Don't act happy if she isn't. It has caused MASSIVE problems - the lack of authenticity.

[@apexpredator5428]

Jennifer Sinclair I genuinely am so sorry to hear about the problems. I don’t know your situation but I’m sure there are some similarities to my situation. I feel compelled to try to give you words of wisdom but I have none. I know that I try to act like it’s OK because I don’t wanna burden the people I love. I think my family has read my lack of authenticity I don’t know what else to do because if I told anyone what goes on inside my head they would lock me up. If I had any advice to give it would be to try to be patient (I know that is super hard) and just keep that door open with your mom and she will go thru it when she is able. I would want someone to let me know that. My family is jacked up big time and I don’t have that option. You can only make her know you will be there You cannot make her act differently and it’s not on you to do. Don’t make it a crusade to change her behavior. Live your life and move on. I don’t know if this is good advice or not but it’s what I think.

[@84953]

@@jennifersinclair7249 Jennifer, I don't see anything else from you that explains more, but from what is here, there is likely one of two things happening. If it's something that has happened to her, it may be that she is still in denial, or it could be that she is putting forth a brave face for you. That's something parents do. When I was young, we (myself and siblings) never realized how bad things had been for the family because we were protected from it by our parents. There were always ways to get around the issues and keep us clueless. We had a great time growing up, and I can appreciate now so much more how they handled it. Don't force it with her and don't get angry. Sometimes it's just a coping mechanism.

[@84953]

@@apexpredator5428 I think you're right on the money so far as your response to Jennifer. So far as for you, I'm not really sure what your speaking of, but I don't get the impression that you need to be locked up. I think that you are struggling with something and not doing well. What you need to do is seek counseling. It doesn't mean that you need to see a "shrink" or be hospitalized for a mental illness. (I'm guessing that's what you're referring to.) Perhaps you can see a licensed clinical social worker, or some other counseling help. Sometimes you need that help FROM the people that you love. How do you feel when you can help someone else either physically or mentally? Has it ever occurred to you that rather than feeling like you're a burden, they might appreciate the opportunity to help.

[@viorp5267]

4:53 ... that is done to check your mental state. Checking if someone can remember their name and address is done to see if they injured their brain. Sometimes they might also ask simple math questions.

[@charlaneachelsee3476]

Viorp she was soo snarky and rude I cant.

[@underthestarsoverthemoon4259]

Ikr that’s common sense haha “stop asking me questions” It’s their JOB to make sure her fucking head is okay. Idk why she was rude about it 🙄

[@underthestarsoverthemoon4259]

She liked a comment about her eyes being complimented but didn’t like this comment 😂 probably feels stupid

[@viorp5267]

@@underthestarsoverthemoon4259 Or didn't see it

[@Kk-kv1rw]

Y’all are being wayy too harsh, she just got paralyzed and could barely breathe obviously she’s not gonna be super happy about being asked seemingly unimportant questions while she’s basically on her deathbed. Y’all complain about her being rude retelling HER story y’all the type of bitches to scream at your barista for not giving you fat free milk smh

[@RubyOpheliaQuinn]

I wish people were aware of how dangerous jumping into water can be.

[@sarahh367]

U can become paralyzed driving home ..so , having fun is just that ..

[@RubyOpheliaQuinn]

@@sarahh367 Except when you're jumping from a height into water you have no idea what's underneath, you don't know how deep the water is and if you land wrong you can end up paralysed or dead. It's not like driving a car, it's like driving a car with a blindfold on.

[@jimbutler1189]

Mimi Everyone’s entitled to their opinion... no matter how petty and how many shards of glass fill their asshole.

[@viorp5267]

@Mimi Honestly you ain't wrong...

[@johngray9434]

RubyOpheliaQuinn Yip. Jumping off a bridge = death. Difficult to understand why anyone would risk their life for a moment of complete madness

[@redperk]

So sorry! Know body wants to be paralyzed from the waist, chest or neck down - I hope we find a way to heal and reconnect nerves! Stay strong and keep your spirit!!

[@paulbroderick8438]

So brave of you to relate your traumatic experience. My God, how a life can change in a split second. Since you are young, future medical advances will benefit you no doubt. God Bless.

[@amcgoo1135]

I was 20 when I became a T12 paraplegic and I had the absolute #1 traveling surgeon in the US put me back together, I got lucky to have such luck in that situation.

[@Gdesign959]

My story of being in a very remote area when injured is very similar to yours. Thank god for helicopters. 25 years later I'm still going strong and loving life. You got this.

[@RemiMW]

“God, In the middle of the woods in BC try to find 6 sober men” so true. Vancouver islander here! I do my fair share of jumping off cliffs and bridges in the summer all over the island.. This really hit home. You’re so strong and determined. Will definitely be starting a binge watch of your channel.

[@ProTipsForParas]

I hope my content production keeps up with your binge watching!

[@RemiMW]

Pro Tips For Paras watched them all in a day😬 subscribed and waiting for new videos!! Thank you so much for noticing my comment! Keep being the beast babe ass kicker you are!!

[@bridgettroup7946]

Hi honey my name is Bridget I am a paraplegic and am so utterly captivated by your story You made me feel like I am not alone thank you for telling your story

[@ProTipsForParas]

Hey Bridget, Thanks for taking the time. You are definitely not alone :)

[@celestephelps1717]

I'm a paraplegic, L1 incomplete. 17 years now. My doc said that you can still have a good life, and she was right! Have a safe journey!

[@ProTipsForParas]

Life is good :)

[@peaceonearth351]

Same, L1 incomplete. I am wondering if you get the pain in the legs. I've had it pretty much since the injury and I've heard something about its at that level where people get this a lot.

[@victornyamu2547]

@@peaceonearth351 God be with you.

[@peaceonearth351]

@@victornyamu2547 Thanks, bro.

[@victornyamu2547]

@@peaceonearth351 no problem. Stay safe. Cheers

[@rollwiththepunches5932]

Thanks for sharing! I broke my neck surfing in 1998, i have shared my story many times at schools and corporate company's to inspire and educate people for years, i just started a you tube channel to reach more people. thanks

[@tameikabrown]

Is U Back Walking Again Since Breaking UR Neck During A Surf Accident

[@rollwiththepunches5932]

@@tameikabrown no. i been in a chair 23 years

[@tameikabrown]

@@rollwiththepunches5932 Damn I’m So Sorry 😞 For UR Situation IK U Wish U Could’ve Done It Differently If U Could Go Back To That Day

[@nm2795]

I was in a bad car wreck. By the grace of God I made a full recovery. I had a brain injury. I was very young. But can remember bits of it. They was asking me the same questions. At the time I just wanted to sleep. But they saved my life by asking those silly questions. It’s to help keep u awake But those questions can give them a sense of what’s going on and how u really are. I’m very grateful for EVERYONE that helped. It’s bc of our. Small town Volunteer fire Department, EMT s that got me to the hospital. God Bless and sending prayers

[@ProTipsForParas]

So grateful for the rural health care workers! Their knowledge has to extend so far

[@jimmurray9214]

You have the prettiest eyes I’ve ever seen.

[@ProTipsForParas]

Flattered thank you. My great grandmothers

[@KKuurus]

@@ProTipsForParas Does she know you have them?

[@patrickkeefe3679]

@@KKuurus that's a knee slapper.😂

[@obscurelyvague]

@Catherine Hart You probably did it yourself

[@JMac-27]

my daughter's are pretty special and yes she has mine but they can be seen on my channel photo if you click on my profile pic thing. bright light blue but my son has light amber that are pretty damn incredible too

[@nancybeveridgetaylor3256]

I was assaulted at work by a patient and got a brain injury as well as other severe injuries, I am a retired nurse, the questions they asked you on site served 2 purposes, 1, assess your cognition for a variety of reasons 2, keep you awake until the air ambulance arrived and you were sufficiently stabilized.

[@ProTipsForParas]

As someone educated with first aid I do understand the purpose of the questions. In this video I am relaying only what was going through my head at the time... lack on logic in the midst of catastrophe.

[@DJcyberslash]

I thought the second one

[@deborahdennehy9937]

My heart goes out to you my friend. It must have been the most traumatic thing ever for you. I am fortunate enough not to have your terrible problem & wish you well for now & the future. xx

[@ProTipsForParas]

Like I said it has been an uphill ride since then. Definitely some downs, but the friends I have made that help me through these are tried, tested and true! :) Mostly smiles these days. Thanks for tuning in to my story.

[@tinat5484]

Thanks for sharing your story. I’m sure it wasn’t easy. You have helped a lot of people injured and not injured.

[@Postthisvideo]

Thx 4 sharing. One of my buddies whom I grew up with was a bmx rider and a damn good one. He went over a jump he's could do blindfolded and something went wrong and he ended up 90% paralyzed. Just like I sense with u his attitude is so positive, and inspiring. I'm so glad u seem to be in a good mindset, and ok. Wow, what an ordeal.

[@needmetal3221]

I can't watch this all the way through. Even though I dont know you, people like yourself renew my faith in humanity .

[@pointingdog7235]

I hope your recovery is going well, thank you for posting this.

[@justinsalaskanadventures]

Incredible story, your a bad ass, I’m happy you survived and very impressed on your resiliency! I’m writing this with limited cell service in the far reaches of western Alaska in my off-grid cabin. Your a true inspiration :)

[@dotcassilles1488]

Hi from Southeastern NSW

[@unknownRebelPL]

There is sadness's in your eyes.. Keep the smile on and the head high ;-) Will be fine !

[@Lollita23]

Yeah ya think? She's describing the most traumatic event of her life.

[@shelbygrl29]

I have CES- Cauda Equina Syndrome- and then had a car accident in March 2014... same year as you- T12 injury. I'm wheelchair bound also. Best wishes hun. Life does get better!!❤❤❤ Luv Michelle Ontario,Canada

[@ProTipsForParas]

My life nearly six years post injury is absolutely wonderful!! thanks for taking the time to tune in and watch my story.

[@JWW922]

I couldn't blink watching her tell a painful story, what courage she has, it amazes me!

[@ProTipsForParas]

I suffered a recreational injury. Life goes on :) Thanks for watching

[@yellownaped2577]

Your story blessed me with love and courage to be strong with life’s challenges. Big Hugs❤️

[@eddieluvski4499]

You will be your old self again! Mark my words! Hope they didnt do anymore damage when they moved you. Cant wait for you to post a video dancing with your two beautiful, strong legs. Keep strong. God Bless you!😉👍

[@TheJohn93226]

You're beautiful the way you are no matter what and never let anyone tell you any different

[@andrewp4220]

I’m sure this took a lot but thank you for telling your story. People (myself included) take for granted the “given” things in life. This video has probably helped others that are in the same situation but also those who are not. Keep positive !!

[@DocP4ra]

Thanks for sharing your story! I think a part of recovery is acknowledging what happened and dealing with it, just like this. Your story is similar to mine, as I am also a T6 complete (snowboarder vs tree) and struggling to breathe is the main thing I remember doing till they got some oxygen going in the helicopter and knocked me out.

[@ProTipsForParas]

Thanks for sharing this Dave. Crazy how stories align...same same but different.

[@torbinator9729]

The wherewithal you had to essentially direct your care during such a critical moment under such stress is amazing. "Get me the choppa!" That's fuckin' bad~ass! From one injured person to another, keep fighting the good fight!

[@ProTipsForParas]

haha appreciate this comment very much!

[@bethpeters3187]

Your such a brave woman. I admire your strength to talk about your injury.

[@georgemark8484]

God bless you for the life changing experience that you have endured . Something that all of us dont think of and take for granted!

[@samuelseager6785]

It is so amazing and wonderful that you had a relationship with your exboyfriend that you felt you could still reach out to him in your time of need and trust him to make decisions for you.

[@ProTipsForParas]

Thanks for the kindness around my mention of that :) Have a great weekend Samuel.

[@icannotpretend5834]

I thought that was pretty great too. "Listen to my ex. Hes making all the decisions." That was some serious trust she was able to put into him.

[@malibustacy3333]

❤ Hi Beautiful! Thank you for your video & bringing some awareness to this! My uncle is a Quad, who broke his neck jumping into a lake on spring break. My whole life I've known him to be a fighter with a wonderful attitude! You seem to be the same way girl! Many prayers & love to you n yours! Stay Beautiful & Strong, like you've ALWAYS BEEN ❤

[@ProTipsForParas]

Thanks for the love Stacy. Sending love and light back to you, your uncle, and the rest of those closest to you.

[@malibustacy3333]

@@ProTipsForParasThank you so so much! All my love n support from Michigan. I'm sure you've got GREAT things ahead! ❤

[@glee_again2594]

Thank you for being candid. God bless you in your journey. You’re an amazing woman !

[@ProTipsForParas]

Thank you so much!

[@MadisonJehle]

Nothing but best wishes for a full recovery from Alabama 💖🌹

[@Hopeandpeaceinjesus]

You did awesome. You’ve got this. Much love from 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 U.K. 🇬🇧

[@caraevans2609]

I was born paraplegic (Spina Bifida 3-4 L) and I can’t imagine what it would be like to all of a sudden have some abilities taken away. Thanks for sharing your story.

[@bernardflint9338]

Thank you for sharing your story. You are tough. I wish you the most complete recovery possible. Be well.

[@bobscafidi9184]

My prayers and admiration for you. I admire your inner strength. I hope to god somehow research finds a cure. Best of luck.

[@hadendeal5727]

Thanks for sharing your story. My brother had a very similar experience in rural Oklahoma. It's hard enough as a family to deal with the changes that come with a spinal cord injury but I cant imagine being the one with the injury. Thanks again!

[@purselmer5931]

Was it at Turner's Falls?

[@cfdmedic78]

Sorry about your situation. Prior to my injury I was an Emergency Department Registered Nurse in a Trauma Center, as well as a paramedic for a number of years. Unfortunately, EMS in remote areas are often what you see is what you get. I'm sure they were freaking out in dealing with your injury. Bad EMS is usually better then no EMS. Thank you with sharing your experience with us. I try to latch on to tips that people share on KZbin to make my relatively new journey a bit easier. Again, thanks.

[@ProTipsForParas]

Being a resident in a small community for a long time I understand the struggles through all the levels of government employment, and people need to start somewhere. No problem with the kids that helped me that day, just mad love and respect for the air ambulance staff, the Top Guns! They really save the day! Merry Christmas! I hope that you continue to find this channel of value. Please let me know if there is anything you'd like to see covered on video :) I only know what I know.

[@adamh542]

It just shows how quick something can happen.

[@M.C.Blackwell]

Thank you for sharing your story, you are such an incredible and strong person. I wish you love and happiness

[@soggydogspaw4269]

Just lost my wonderful father that had been a quad for 41 years. His strength, attitude and the will to continue to live life to its fullest taught me more than anything else ever could. ❤️

[@IngridduPreez]

Awww... Very sorry for your huge loss. He sounded like such a good role model with a very positive outlook. May you one day become reunited.

[@ProTipsForParas]

You are worlds beyond in your compassion for others when you experience this with someone you love. Condolences.

[@tiffprendergast]

Soggy Dog Spaw sorry

[@barbaravyse660]

I’m so sorry for your loss 🙏🏼

[@daisytheunicornTV]

Beautiful testimony. I couldn't stop watching. You gave a really good description of everything. You can be a great motivational speaker. I watched this twice

[@michaelgrayson7400]

I hate that you got paralyzed but you're still gorgeous and have a good future ahead of you. God bless

[@ProTipsForParas]

Thank you for the kind words Michael

[@estebanperea5661]

I dont know why im enfatuated with you if its your eyes your looks your voice or your courage may your life be the best one you wana have blessing to you and your fam

[@ThisIsWheelLife]

Wow thank you for sharing your story! I’m a quadriplegic myself. Glad you were in good hands ❤️

[@ThisIsWheelLife]

I have a video on my channel about what happened.

[@marys3127]

I will find your channel and watch it!

[@MS-es9hm]

Thank you for sharing - very brave. I too am in a wheelchair and know it takes guts every day to push forward. Stay strong :)

[@sarahdanielle1985]

Amazing beautiful strong young lady. Thank you for your story. I wish the best for you which you will receive. Keep up your great work and telling people your story

[@SopranoFantab]

oK, What right do people feel they have to ask how you ended up on a wheelchair?! To me, that’s a classic case of *lack of social boundaries*. I just found your channel today. It was very enlightening to watch this video, but because you chose to share your story and tips with us. I’m sightless; and I just find it so bizarre and intrusive when asked how I lost my sight. I’ve shared how it happened on my KZbin channel, but because I made that choice. People need to respect other people’s privacy. Thanks for sharing your challenges and achievements with us.

[@EbayWay2Shop]

Your story is amazing... I was born with CP (brain damage at birth). I have always been unable to walk. I've always said I count (consider) myself "lucky" to have never walked. I don't really know what its like to walk-dont know what I'm missing. To lose the ability to walk... WOW!

[@relanaallen5513]

Paramedics are there to get you to definitive care as quickly as possible. They have to ask questions if your conscious because the info could save your life. Those men and woman may even be volunteers. I hope one day you feel a bit more grateful for their efforts at some point. I'm so sorry this happened to you. May god bless and keep you.

[@maree6250]

As a former paramedic her attitude bugged me too

[@seratonin7004]

I think you're seeing it from your perspective, which is fine, in the same way that she's seeing it from hers. However, unlike her, the paramedics are acting in their roles as professionals, are trained to consider the stress, pain and trauma the patient is under, and that the way they react may not be reflective of how they usually present. She also acknowledged the paramedic was new, had just been woken, that she was struggling to breathe and communicate, and was in immense pain. Her frustration was trying to answer basic questions relating to her contact information whilst struggling to breathe and with the world swimming above her head - she did not complain about assessment questions. I think her response is not only understandable and heavily influenced by pain, fear and trauma, it also does not mean she's ungrateful. I'm more surprised by the lack of compassion in these comments.

[@ProTipsForParas]

I was surviving. If you watch my TEDxLangford talk I speak of my paramedics as the Top Guns. I am grateful for them every day. I owe my life.

[@ProTipsForParas]

Thank you for explaining this for me. I am at a loss for words when people comment the way they do about my sharing the experience. Grateful for you.

[@seratonin7004]

@@ProTipsForParas having had many ambulance rides and been in agony, critically ill and fearful, I truly understand and have compassion for that experience. Especially the first few times, I didn't know the process or what to expect. The paramedics have been incredible, and some were especially great at helping with my anxiety and explaining what was happening, but of course, each has a different approach and manner. I'm also lucky we do have exceptional ambulance services and paramedics here, but I'm aware this does vary based on country, location and the skill set expected for the role. I'm also blessed to have paramedic friends who were able to explain certain aspects to me when I was not in crisis and able to absorb information properly. I didn't initially understand that seemingly unimportant questions were being asked in order to assess my cognition, for example. It's always problematic when a single video is viewed without great context, or the advantage of knowing the person and being able to interpret the attitude of the video through the context of knowing their values, personality and expression. Thank you for sharing your experience. It's always a vulnerable choice to share ourselves openly with the public.

[@Blackxs93]

Wow and you have the strength to tell your story your a strong woman

[@goldenboyi1989]

Your story reminds me of Charles Krauthammer. He was a young man who was paralyzed after jumping into a swimming pool but his life ended last year.-i hope the future is bright for you.

[@ProTipsForParas]

Sending warm holiday vibes to the late Charles. Jumping/fall accidents account for a large number of paralyzing injuries. I hope the future is bright for both you and I!

[@goldenboyi1989]

@@ProTipsForParas Cool.I hope to meet you one day.Was in Vancouver last year for a few hours and Calgary too for a couple of hours.Studied out west though and live in the East.Ever been to the East?

[@kenwesters7834]

Sorry to hear. You are brave and strong! Also stunningly beautiful!!!!

[@littlegoatgt]

very

[@Mr07491]

I too got injured on 10 August, although in 2017. Subsequently, after almost 10 surgeries, we could not salvage my right ankle and foot. I got my below knee amputation of my right leg on 25 Nov 2019. Today after lots of physio and personal efforts in resisting to go down, I am walking on a prosthetic limb and it feels great. looking back I remember how much pain I went through and kept waiting for some miracle. Despite me being an Orthopedic Surgeon, I left my state into the hands of the surgeons and their team, never applying my knowledge upon my self. But now I'm free of the pain and suffering and freely moving around.

[@ProTipsForParas]

Have you gone back to your career?! How cool would it be knowing your doc has the same exact experience in life as you're now living. Just a thought!

[@beachbum2687]

I’ve always have an unexplained fear of my children becoming paraplegics, ever since they could walk and talk I’ve told them never to jump off anything. Well a few years ago he was at a party and his friend dove into a pool and is now a quad. His dad is head of the emergency room. Can’t imagine being a dr and your kid comes in

[@obscurelyvague]

"Beach Bum" you seem to have a psychic or paranormal type of talent to sense accidents that make people paraplegics way before it happens.

[@jacquelynfelstead5856]

These men whom you felt knew nothing, may well be the men who end up the paramedics in the helicopter one day. They were in fact doing their job in asking questions to assess your cognitive response in order to try and determine if there was a possibility of a brain injury. Be more gracious and respectful of everyone who had a hand in saving your life, it was a combined effort, from beginning to end. We doctors often get the accolades, but without all the links in the chain being there prior to you getting to us, how many would survive?

[@fredschmidt7023]

I so agree with all your commment. She is here today because of the first responders.

[@ProTipsForParas]

In my TEDxLangford talk I refer to my paramedics as the Top Gun of the field. I am very grateful for the people who took care of me.

[@JMac-27]

yes good grief how awful and condescending was that? in situations of trauma those questions keep you cognizant and even in cases of stroke using your brain talking and keeping those neurons firing can save your brain from damage. I really couldn't listen to anymore after that, really isn't a great representation for someone who should be beyond grateful to all who cared enough to help

[@mlfetterman]

@@ProTipsForParas but you were very dismissive of them in this video. People who don't see your TED talk don't know that you have said anything different. I'm so sorry that you had to go through this, but I am glad that you made it, you are strong! :)

[@4Dangert]

And you Jacquelyn should be more empathetic and gracious to someone who is simply sharing her story that changed her life. She was fine and not ungracious at all.

[@tariebarkley7736]

Wow! I'm so sorry to hear about your injury! My 3 year old son AJ is Paraplegic chest down but under different circumstances, he was born with spina-bifida & he also has Hydrocephalus, I've just subscribed to your channel to get tips on how to help my bubba, we're in the UK, thank you and God bless xxx

[@free2binnh]

I avoided watching this video for the longest time, but I did watch it today. I am an empath so could feel what you went though making the video. I believe this was your destiny, go within, meditate if you need answers.

[@ParalyzedPlinker]

I'm in the hospital with a broken neck and back. Paralyzed from the waist down. I've been watching so many inspiring videos and learning how to live this new life. Thanks for sharing your story. Blessings

[@ProTipsForParas]

Hope the new life and healing are coming with ease :)

[@BUBBLEGUMGIRLONE]

It’s wonderful what you’re doing to help people who are in wheelchairs live life. The things you talk about take years for people to learn and apply. You’re helping people learn things in minutes, that the doctors and therapist don’t talk about. Practical living skills, it’s wonderful what you’re doing. You could possibly be a paid consultant one day.

[@ProTipsForParas]

I do have a juvenile consulting business. Working on that along with the charity (RAD Recreation Adapted Society www.radsociety.ca) and this channel + social platform. Thanks very much for the kind words :) I find that I have a hall pass to ask all of the inappropriate questions. So I do, because I need the answers. And I am not hung up on people's opinion of mine, so I love to share all the things, expand peoples minds and my own through conversation and comments. please let me know if there are things you think of that I have not.

[@BUBBLEGUMGIRLONE]

Pro Tips For Paras that’s so great I’m happy for you. Thanks for asking for my in put or opinion. I can’t think of any thing. Let me know if you try the swim shoes? They help me a lot. You can buy them at a sporting good store. I find it much easier than using a towel. Keep up the good work you’re doing you have a great idea.

[@ingridgott1]

thank you for sharing your experience too many people ignored how dangerous it is jumping

[@marcelcoenen1437]

You are a wonderful lady and I like your way of talking and telling your story! Greetings from Germany

[@gregsomebody7247]

You're very brave for sharing. Respect.

[@Branman345]

Don’t ever feel bad you were a medical emergency. Regardless of your age. I worked in the ED and would admit patients based on the risk they were in and if someone is vomiting verses someone that isn’t breathing I’m treating the person that’s not breathing. Same with surgery if I see that it needs to happen not it’s going to happen. Don’t feel bad and I’m sure they explained to him what was going on. Keep it together and I’m glad you shared this with us. You gained a follower.

[@lindseybooth1393]

Your strength is so inspiring , thanks for sharing your story ❤️

[@bshadrick]

I had a heart attack and know exactly what you mean about laying in that gurney and looking up. My Gods blessing reign down upon you. Bill

[@Whitpusmc]

Kudos for sharing your story. Your bravery is only matched by your grandmothers eyes.

[@merrillcoates7493]

God bless you, you are such a inspiration! I was born with C.P. so I don't know how to walk quote normal, but I am blessed and I thank you for all you do to show people what we can do!

[@tendervittlesdoobiestein2145]

Don't beat yourself up about taking the priority in the surgical unit. If I had been that man, I would certainly want a much younger and more viable patient to go ahead of me. In a perfect world we would all have access to the immediate and thorough care we need at any given moment but that's just not always possible, so we have to work with what we have and trust that it works out as best as possible. You have certainly taken on this new direction in your life with dignity and grace, and I wish the very best in life.

[@SpencersMSStory]

Gutsy to tell your story. glad to find your channel

[@ProTipsForParas]

Thanks for this Spenser

[@phyllismontoroula6454]

I hope you have full recovery you are in my prayers. Thank you for posting your story

[@exchevelle]

Very sad hear your story. All best to you. Happy new year. Greetings from Finland..

[@ProTipsForParas]

Happy New Year from this side of the world! It is just my story :) no need to be sad. I am a better person with some perspective

[@exchevelle]

@@ProTipsForParas Need lot of strengh and positive attitude found new way to life when all things change. I`m just emotional person so thats why I must write comment to you. I don`t know any person in wheelchair, some reason in KZbin front page was your video. Whit no any reason I just want look it...

[@barryrothman7430]

Sorry you had gone through that glad to see you alive and well

[@findilk1753]

This caused me to cry. May you feel the presence of your Maker. The Lord, the Prince of Peace manifest full measure of His grace upon your blessing others as you administer comfort to them in their need.

[@kellywilliamson2187]

Yeah, the good old sky fairy . . .

[@occamsrazor9183]

It is nonsense to say all the obvious stuff, you just popped up on my algorithm. It is awesome of you to make this video. I have not had such a serious injury but somewhat severe right leg injuries and have had a hard time walking for the last six years and been a wheeler also since but I can stand with equipment. I know full well the absolute change in your life overnight feels like. Every little thing is huge. The word you were looking for was, "priority." I have jumped off some bridges also, many times but not sixty feet high. Nice to meet you;)...

[@ProTipsForParas]

Thanks for taking the time to watch. People jump off of bridges and cliffs for fun, all ages, all the time. I suffered consequences for my actions. C'est La Vie. Nice to meet you :)

[@northerngirl4924]

Triage is what it is. You were more in need than the man who’s surgery got postponed. That’s the way it should be. You are asked to state and spell your name to see how mentally cognizant you are when first approached on an accident scene. Such a terrifying event to go through and I am truly sorry for your situation now, and hope advances in medicine help you in the near future. Stay strong and positive.❤️

[@ProTipsForParas]

I know... I was a little cranky as I lie there. I'm always grateful for the team that came to my rescue. They definitely upped my survival rate

[@jackiemorris240]

Beautiful and brave,so strong.God Bless you🌸

[@DarrenHughes-Hybrid]

Since my accident, it physically (maybe mentally) hurts to hear stories of pain. I almost didn't make it through your video, but I forced myself to hear your whole story. The entire time I wishing as hard as I could that this had never happened to you. While wishing, I knew that if God could make it that you had never been hurt, then this video would never be. So, I found I was wishing this video away too. Sorry it didn't work. I'm thinking that there must be a reason for this video and I'm thinking that it's this video must help people. Maybe save some people from jumping of bridges. Who knows? I'm just sorry, I couldn't wish away your accident (or mine) but I won't stop me from still wishing!

[@MichelleKiwiGirlCrawfordvocals]

Thanks for sharing, all the best for the future!

[@ProTipsForParas]

Thank you! You too!

[@markhunt2515]

Hi beautiful.i myself had a accident .a drunk hit me on my motorcycle and my leg was off and twisted .needless to say it did change my life and not for the better.but m 66 now and there were times I wanted out but I'm still here limping in pain all the time.but hang in there you seem very strong.1 more thing ok.ask Jesus into your heart to save you .God bless mark

[@ProTipsForParas]

Thanks for watching and sharing your story Mark. I hope you are staying happy and healthy in this season of uncertainty. I am grateful for my injury experience, it feels as though this is another similar experience.

[@Shelilah41]

So sad. I pray that you will be able to get some movement back. I can see you still are thriving and living your life. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@ProTipsForParas]

Thanks :) I hope so too. Stay happy and healthy!

[@dojicatmaxonmaxmium8072]

I'm just in love with your confidence so much 🥰♥️

[@PDBenkert]

God bless you. What an eye opening experience you have shared. To many young people don't understand the blessing they have in a healthy body and they do dumb and stupid things not thinking about the price that they might have to pay for their fun. I hope your life only the best. Again, God Bless you for opening so many eyes.

[@shawndoucette724]

You are the light in the darkness of the world tanelle bolt 💜💕 you've heard it all before from me over time and it'll never change. The world needs more people like you in it, thank you for sharing your story and passion. FYI I'd give up a year off my lifespan if it ment you would at least get feeling back or hopefully walk again 🌹💪

[@mikecolburn2164]

You are an incredibly Beautiful Lady with a great attitude & outlook.

[@infantrygunner3444]

You think she has a good attitude lol you are distorted she is a spoiled brat

[@thehighpriestess8431]

I am sorry this happened to you. Thank you for sharing your story. Edit: I am happy for you that Canada is your homeland.

[@ProTipsForParas]

Me too :)

[@merlemorrison482]

to me jumping 60 foot seems a bit excessive.....

[@ProTipsForParas]

most people never have, never will and never should, yup.

[@littlegoatgt]

agree. Consider college divers jump off the 10M platform, fall the wrong way and can easily destroy an ear drum, concussion, collapsed lung, bruise kidney and liver etc. And that is a height they work up to. For someone with likely no training to leap twice that height is reckless. The part where she describes that she didn't see the need to notify parents because they were far away further shows the mindset of youth. Tragic that this happened. Get out and enjoy life but be careful.

[@littlegoatgt]

@@icanhelp4303 30ft seems reasonable but 60 is too much velocity. At 60 feet she was going 42 mph when she slammed into the water!

[@whereisthehook]

60 feet is a heck of a long drop.

[@katiepaladini1514]

@Mimi Lol no, divers don't have ear protection. Also, it wouldn't kill you to have a little empathy.

[@chadyesh7087]

Beautiful soul your inner beauty is incredible. Your outer beauty doesn't define who you are God bless you

[@jonathanhurd6460]

My heart goes out to you to be able to talk about it you r a very brave and strong woman

[@michaelmichaelfordloverman8332]

Your an awsome person I hope to see more videos of yours stay strong you are loved even if your in a wheel chair I have disabilities as well so I'm right there with you never give up keep moving forward

[@saraseelig6390]

PS: Concerning the gentleman who you think was supposed to be next in the o.r: They took you first because you were the one in most urgent need, not because you had the better chance at recovery. It's the triage concept; the most urgent need gets helped first, then the next urgent, etc. Don't let that hurt your heart; there's sound reason for that rule. And you don't know what that man's outcome was either; it might be a positive one. Thanks again for your great channel!

[@ProTipsForParas]

Thank you for the quick education Sara. I am not associated with how this all works :) and it makes me feel better about it

[@bigvolz7176]

I suffered a spine injury in 2009 from being run over ..I'm able to walk but suffer daily...you seem very strong and upbeat..don't ever lose that

[@keithcallaghan2934]

Thanks for sharing your story and making your videos, I was injured 5-11-18 and I’m a T6 incomplete, How long have you had this channel? because I’ve never seen one of your videos before today. Anyway after I fell, I woke up and just concentrated on breathing! Then I reached around for my cell phone and realized I could not feel my leg, so much was going through my head at that time, it’s crazy how similar our stories can be. And thanks for making these videos because they are very helpful and inspirational !!

[@ProTipsForParas]

Thanks for the message Keith. I have only had this channel for a few weeks, not long. Let me know if there is anything you'd like to see on here and I will try to make it happen. Hope you are doing alright in the early stages of this SCI life. Merry Holidays!

[@Zayyyfrm252]

Keith Callaghan how u fall or what u fall off of?