The Difference Between being kind and being nice

[@MatthewDillon-u2p]

But when i set those boundaries, they perceive me as being unreasonable.

[@yvetteschaerer]

Great video. Likes your example. A few days ago a new friend stood me up when we had 9 am breakfast appointment. I messaged her that I was waiting but I didn’t hear from her until when I was about to leave the restaurant after having my breakfast. She apologised and said being late is acceptable but not missing an appointment, please don’t be upset with me she said. I told her it happens and that I wasn’t upset. So did I do the right thing? What else I could have said or done. She said if you wait I’ll be over there. I said I had planned my day around our appointment and that I have other things to do, and we can meet another time.

[@MatthewDillon-u2p]

I never seek the approval of others. I only speak truth and I answer only to my Sovereign.

[@allthingsnu4673]

I wish I had learned this when I was younger. I've learned it since then, but I still have a lot of resentment for all the times I put up with disrespect in the past... it's like I want to go back and have those interactions with those people again but this time speak up and stand up for myself. I'm learning to let all of that go and to just be the person I am now. Thank you, Dr. Marcia!

[@fireboltzer0634]

Thank you I wish I learned the difference when I was a kid.

[@beverleyreid7572]

Perfectly said. The word “nice” is not in my vocabulary. Thanks Dr. Marcia

[@KeithS-sl6ii]

60 years old and learning slowly

[@richardw3347]

Good solid video. One of the best I've seen on this topic. I like that you mention being kind to yourself just as equally that really hit home. Thanks,

[@JA-vg8dk]

That was an amazing explanation! Great example also! Thank you.

[@indrasenbhattacharya24]

Thank you! So insightful and wise.

[@joejohn8274]

Unless you're dealing with a malignant narcissist the just get more disrespectful and ramp up all kinds of manipulation and evil towards you they don't understand no or boundaries

[@brianna094]

Yep. The more you set boundaries, the more they see it as an insult to them

[@ilikeitlikethat7305]

I LOVE your videos!! So grateful I stumbled on your channel🌸

[@scaredsinger0808]

Wow, the power one can have by manipulating a definition, and coming up with such a convincing concept, that every one in the comment section are now believers! Impressive.

[@TomasGarza-b5d]

There is no difference. Being kind , respectful and polite means being nice and everybody should be.

[@heart_of_black]

I dont believe in being kind or nice, i do whats best for me and i will use whatever i need to succeed in life. Use your fists when needed, never give and always take and just dont take any crap for anyone,

[@stadiumarcadium2351]

dont worry not only will you be unhappy you will have a lot of competition from other human toilets.

[@scaredsinger0808]

lol, heart of black, can you be more obvious that someone broke your heart and you clearly haven’t healed yet? I mean….😬