The Drama That Comes With Having Roommates Rants

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Dee’s African perspective

Dee’s African perspective

Күн бұрын

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@BREEZYM6015
@BREEZYM6015 25 күн бұрын
As long as I can continue to pay the mortgage and bills on my own then I'm going to keep living alone.
@LamarcuesAnderson
@LamarcuesAnderson 25 күн бұрын
Amen, I would do the same, some people don’t take responsibility for themselves.
@pablodelsegundo9502
@pablodelsegundo9502 24 күн бұрын
Same, even apartments are no-go for me at this point.
@involuntarilycelebrate
@involuntarilycelebrate 25 күн бұрын
I used to put my roommate's dishes that she left in the sink on her bed. Only had to do that about three times and then she started washing her dishes.
@malcolmhodnett8874
@malcolmhodnett8874 25 күн бұрын
You’re wild for that
@saritamoorebansa4485
@saritamoorebansa4485 10 күн бұрын
I learned this valuable lesson in life regarding roommates 1. Friends have a very difficult time living together who have the same circle of friends. Two strangers with different and separate lives live together better. 2. 95% of the time if someone is paying rent to you, some situation is going to cause them to stop paying rent to you ( job loss, critical illness, their family drama… etc) The person will justify why they can’t/shouldn’t pay you rent. Both lessons are personal learned and made life extremely stressful.
@SweetJones-In-Foriegn-Car
@SweetJones-In-Foriegn-Car 25 күн бұрын
Never stay with friends.
@GrimLion
@GrimLion 25 күн бұрын
People not flushing the toilet, vomit in the garbage can, landlord not having the heat work consistently, fruit flies, mice in the apartment, people cooking vulgar smelling food every day, people leaving pots and pans on the burner when not cooking, dealing with a cat that escapes the apartment. Just some of the issues I've been dealing with. I am stuck here until I find a way to make more money.
@brieanastraiton3665
@brieanastraiton3665 24 күн бұрын
That sucks. Been there. I made my own space that no one else was allowed aka literally locked. That was MY home and haven. Not that house only my room. Well it was the basement room so I did have a lil more space than an avg bedroom but there was my hubby and I. We had everything we needed down there. Made it where I could make small meals down there and I shoved a mini fridge with a lock to hold MY drinks. Lived like that for 2 years til we got our own place. The house was trashed 100%. My room was the opposite cuz I can't handle that kinda clutter!! So idk if that's an option for u but if u can lock your door DO IT. Keep YOUR space clean and clear. Get a hot plate to avoid the kitchen. Locks r ur BFF. Good luck cuz
@pablodelsegundo9502
@pablodelsegundo9502 24 күн бұрын
"vulgar smelling food" 🤣🤣🤣
@GrimLion
@GrimLion 24 күн бұрын
@@brieanastraiton3665 Thankfully I have my own room with a lock and it's spacious. Got myself a "mini fridge" as well. I'm working on making it a comfortable environment
@GrimLion
@GrimLion 24 күн бұрын
@@pablodelsegundo9502 I emphasis this because one of the people that lives on the floor cooks food every single day and night. I have a sensitive sense of smell + I don't eat meat. I don't even know what they are cooking but it's never the same. I don't want to know. The food they cook absolutely permeates through the apartment. It lingers in the air all damn day and night. I've smelled it outside the building sometimes. Then the smell gets into my room and it upsets me. Can't do anything about it. I've never mentioned it to them but it's always been an issue for me while living here
@brieanastraiton3665
@brieanastraiton3665 24 күн бұрын
@GrimLion good for u dude! It kept me busy and helped my mental health significantly when I added those locks. U have to get creative if u have ppl who want in to take ur shit and have no qualm breaking a pass thro lock. I had a full exterior key lock I bought and installed on the door to the basement. There was a walk out so I had to get one for that too. It was a rental so he wasn't willing the straight break the door to get in but picking the locks he did no problem. So keep that in mind if u do decide to lock your kingdom up lol. Once I knew no one could get in and mess it up I instantly felt better. Then finding fun ways to decorate and arrange things. I'm a big DIY and craft person. So I built shelves and painted. I made it my peace place.
@unbiasedtv6525
@unbiasedtv6525 25 күн бұрын
Im roommates with a family member and its very peaceful. We're both respectful ppl and stay out of each others way, and we help each other when needed. This video made me appreciate my situation.
@Max-qk3xi
@Max-qk3xi 23 күн бұрын
Your lucky I’m in the same situation with a family member but it’s the total opposite that I much rather become homeless than to live here lol it sucks because I don’t want no problems with my own family
@Hersheydimples
@Hersheydimples 23 күн бұрын
Never had a roommate, but living with my husband now is driving me crazy
@BlueberryFundip
@BlueberryFundip 22 күн бұрын
That's sad
@Hersheydimples
@Hersheydimples 22 күн бұрын
@BlueberryFundip very sad
@xxhshrebyba
@xxhshrebyba 18 күн бұрын
my biggest fear is a husband that’s a slob 😢
@Hersheydimples
@Hersheydimples 18 күн бұрын
@xxhshrebyba my husband isn't even a slob, he's just man messy. God bless women with slob husbands 🙏🏾 ❤️
@xxhshrebyba
@xxhshrebyba 18 күн бұрын
@ man messy? UGHHHH i grew up with 2 brothers so i understand what you mean but it shouldn’t be like this at all we shouldn’t have to tolerate it at all chores should be equal
@ThatChickKim
@ThatChickKim 23 күн бұрын
I went to Job Corps in my teens, and had 12 (yes TWELVE) different roommates. Since I graduated, I REFUSE to have a roommate.
@vyperk.1074
@vyperk.1074 25 күн бұрын
I’ve heard nothing but bad stories about roommates. I’m fortunate enough that I never needed roommates, but if I had roommates two bathrooms would be a must! Ain’t compromising on that.
@laraantipova389
@laraantipova389 25 күн бұрын
I lived in a flat share with 6 women and it was a dream. Each woman took one night and cooked and for all 7 women. We cleaned the whole place together 1X per week. We had a rule that you do your own dishes or the dishes go in the trash. Everyone just ate lunch out (cafeteria) and just ate an apple or something for breakfast.
@lovelylady5313
@lovelylady5313 25 күн бұрын
First rant, no 😂 If you are a human being with full function of your hands and legs…..DO YOUR DISHES!!!
@WelcomeHome-e5t
@WelcomeHome-e5t 11 күн бұрын
What a complainer.
@Luci-pz8xx
@Luci-pz8xx 25 күн бұрын
I don't know if I'm unlucky, but I've never had decent roommates in the 10 different ones I've had. I've had people who barely cleaned up after themselves, threw parties until 4AM multiple times a week, thought I was their personal taxi service, and were generally not compatible with myself. It was my motivation to work hard and get a place all to myself.
@slavvalb3933
@slavvalb3933 25 күн бұрын
Well, I was in College dorms 😂. I had a roommate . But, having nasty neighbors that is as bad as having nasty roommate
@Deeafricanperspective
@Deeafricanperspective 25 күн бұрын
But it’s better than it being your roommate honestly 😅
@slavvalb3933
@slavvalb3933 25 күн бұрын
@@Deeafricanperspective yes, otherwise ⚔️ I feel 😂
@NicksHEAT1995
@NicksHEAT1995 24 күн бұрын
Maybe DON'T have 4 kids each. Just maybe. Just a fleeting thought.
@Hersheydimples
@Hersheydimples 23 күн бұрын
Thank you. Who tf is having 4 kids today?
@NicksHEAT1995
@NicksHEAT1995 23 күн бұрын
@Hersheydimples Stupid, irresponsible, selfish people is who.
@jadanicole8750
@jadanicole8750 23 күн бұрын
excactly but they never want to talk abt that
@joefer5360
@joefer5360 25 күн бұрын
Always remember. If you're the one cleaning up everything. You can throw away trash. I've lost count how many times I've throw entire sinks worth of dishes, piles of clothing, portable surfaces that weren't wiped cleaned - out in the bin to prove a point. Never had a uneven workload between roommates; they'd all leave. Lol.
@brg4622
@brg4622 19 күн бұрын
I live with roommate and i feel leaving dirty dishes longer than 24hours is inconsiderate. I wash mine well before that timeframe because my roommate usually ends the evening with a clean kitchen with dishes washed, dried, and put away. I’ve had roommates way worse.
@hemlocktea6643
@hemlocktea6643 25 күн бұрын
They refuse to clean their own dishes Not the roommates, the one on the lease who wants people to pay him for the privilege of being his maid I wont get another roomate. Literally I'd rather die,i am not paying hundreds of dollars a month JUST TO BE A MAID! IF IM CLEANING EVERYTHING I SHOULD BE THE ONE GETTING PAID!
@Chris-c5t3u
@Chris-c5t3u 25 күн бұрын
I have a roommate who's pretty gross so I turned my bedroom into a mini studio apartment a mini fridge,freezer,stove top, microwave my own dishes scented candles flowers a small waterfall display it took me months to do it but I love it also once I move I'll have a good amount of stuff I made a deal with my roommate to help me keep the bathroom clean because I cant handle a dirty bathroom as a gay black man I learned that gay man,black man and women,elderly are usually the cleanest
@Jem5122
@Jem5122 25 күн бұрын
When you mentioned the candles flowers and waterfall display it reminded me of the episode of zoey 101 when they turned a urinal into a girly fountain
@slavvalb3933
@slavvalb3933 25 күн бұрын
Dee is so pretty 😍😍. Face of an angel 😇
@Deeafricanperspective
@Deeafricanperspective 25 күн бұрын
Aww thank you Slav 🥰❤️
@lalogonzalez8536
@lalogonzalez8536 25 күн бұрын
Imagination😮
@slavvalb3933
@slavvalb3933 25 күн бұрын
@@lalogonzalez8536 u need to wear glasses 🤓
@ewidontlikeyou
@ewidontlikeyou 16 күн бұрын
the key is to find considerate and moral ppl to room with
@s.tiaira9081
@s.tiaira9081 25 күн бұрын
Listen, I just have to share this. I live in LA known as the La-land of the roommates. I’ve known people 40-50 with roommates and older. no judgment, but I don’t like people that much to see when I get off work. I am proud to say that for the second apartment I’ve had in LA. I do not have a roommate and I have a one bedroom under 2000 and I am just thanking the Lord every single day because I’ve had so many roommates up until 2021 and they’ve all been awful
@ShadowHolmes
@ShadowHolmes 23 күн бұрын
Feel good to be by yourself same with me I don't like people either to much drama and trying to be all up in your business.
@CuteAnimeGirl
@CuteAnimeGirl 25 күн бұрын
I had a dorm mate and they left all their dirty clothes on the floor all the time. Made the room smell because they would let the clothes sit for awhile.
@bryanzoom97
@bryanzoom97 25 күн бұрын
7:04 no because I was really invested and wanted to see the police pull up 😂
@marissa._
@marissa._ 25 күн бұрын
And this is why I'm so glad I live alone by myself with MY OWN amenities that only me, myself and I get to use! I've always been highly against roommates! They're dirty, nasty, disrespectful, the list goes on! I'm also against "lavender marriages!" No! I would've gotten a pro-bono lawyer and some eviction papers to get them out of MY home! I would've NEVER let them move in to begin with! I trust my instincts, intuition, gut and foresight too much to have anyone live with me! I wouldn't even let relatives live with me! HARD PASS!
@vjk4170
@vjk4170 25 күн бұрын
I don't think she can complain about cleaning if she paid zero rent or board or bills. This is why you don't freeloader. Nothing is free
@ewidontlikeyou
@ewidontlikeyou 16 күн бұрын
Ewww, I cannot even imagine what the bathroom looks like.
@ElbertJudkins
@ElbertJudkins 25 күн бұрын
I feel the goddess they thought she had a Molly Maid Cart going around I'm with her we take turns on chores one person shouldn't be cleaning up behind no grown ass people I'm not doing it Imma take the trash and put in in front of your door 🚪
@susiefairfield7218
@susiefairfield7218 24 күн бұрын
Played this for my 21 year old Son, who doesn't like living with his parents anymore..😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@angelastewart9497
@angelastewart9497 25 күн бұрын
I really feel like this first guy about my dishes. . I hate. When a person can just walk by dirty dishes 2-3 days not clean them
@MiserysLover1134
@MiserysLover1134 25 күн бұрын
I see why the girl with the neck tattoo is living in her car you don't dictate terms in nobody else's house they're doing you a favor letting you stay there the LEAST you can do is wash dishes and she has entirely too much mouth I see why the mom put her out and what is with this era telling all of their business to strangers online nobody cares about your life dear people are just watching and collecting receipts social media really has a lot of you extremely confused to the ways of the world.
@Jem5122
@Jem5122 25 күн бұрын
Yeah i was giving her the side eye and had to stop watching
@debbiealcimasrules9418
@debbiealcimasrules9418 24 күн бұрын
She's so lazy to the point where she don't clean up after herself and always have yo blame someone else for her own mess.
@debbiealcimasrules9418
@debbiealcimasrules9418 24 күн бұрын
She's so lazy to the point where she don't clean up after her own mess and have to blame someone else.
@ShadowHolmes
@ShadowHolmes 23 күн бұрын
Thank you bro I been telling every single person that nobody cares we just here to enjoy the show and yall putting all of yall business on here everyday like bro straight facts what you saying.
@beastcoastvisuals3679
@beastcoastvisuals3679 24 күн бұрын
I got a roommate that complains about everything I do, so I got her pregnant. Make it make sense
@coryleblanc
@coryleblanc 25 күн бұрын
Why is the volume different for each clip? : (
@jokaresesmith1994
@jokaresesmith1994 18 күн бұрын
This is exactly why I’m happy I live on my own 😅
@NdathieMucii
@NdathieMucii 25 күн бұрын
I love living with a roommate but finding a compatible one is hard. Better to live a house than a cramped 1 bedroom. Esp since the pay doesn't allow for single income households unless you make lots of money.
@magnetohex703
@magnetohex703 25 күн бұрын
I hate hearing the word roommates once you become an adult and you find a building and it's a landlord the landlord needs to teach you guys how to call it a rooming house. The only time you use the word roommates is when you're in some kind of school institution like a college or even high school but when you are in the adult World especially passing 25yrs years old a landlord should always teach you the word (ROOMING HOUSE) you get your own key to a room you get a locked door and once you lock it it's a tiny apartment room and you go out you share the kitchen and you share the bathroom but never call that roommates. It's called (ROOMING HOUSE) and everybody has their own dishes. And I blame this on the landlord because it's the landlord's responsibility to show up and dispute the arguments between rooming house adults that pay the landlord rent in order to accommodate and the landlord is the one to enforce to say clean up after yourself and put away your pots and pans and there will also be most likely multiple fridges you're not going to have fridges sharing you will have your own fridge PERIOD.
@krn2683
@krn2683 25 күн бұрын
That's not how it works in America. The landlords don't usually live in the house. We have roommates even as adults. There's no locks on bedrooms unless you get permission to put one there yourself. Landlords aren't there to teach us anything, they just own the property, collect the rent and hopefully do maintenance on the property. Rooming houses haven't existed in the US since the 1950s. Separate fridges. 😂😂😂😂😂 I've never seen a rental with more than one fridge. Good god, how old are you? 😂
@kconway2263
@kconway2263 23 күн бұрын
Apparently rooming houses are still a thing. I only know them and SRO’s from watching old TV shows. Generally, though, Magneto, in the US, you rent an apartment or a house, and the landlord might be local or could be a Wall Street investor. Roommates usually share a kitchen and living area. They may have their own bathrooms.
@HunniGirl8
@HunniGirl8 25 күн бұрын
This girl said she was in a mid-life crisis at 18 because she wasn’t comfortable… this younger generation is delusionally spoiled. Try figuring shit out at 15 / 16.. wash the dishes because you’re grateful.. I didn’t understand her story. She was definitely out of pocket and the friend don’t owe you a ride because you think she can give you one.. do better and do it alone if you don’t want to accommodate your accommodators
@cynthiarouse
@cynthiarouse 25 күн бұрын
*Hunger Games America*
@taranatarana714
@taranatarana714 11 күн бұрын
They have to use their own cooking and eating utensils and get their own groceries unless they are my husband 🧿😍 also should pay for half cleaner charges and have their own spot in the fridge and also we can use disposable toilet seat cleaners and everything is fine then. Also disposable forks spoons are great and items that are not to be shared have to be discussed. Set the rules and it's all ok.🧿
@taranatarana714
@taranatarana714 11 күн бұрын
Toilet seat "coverz"
@Maxed2
@Maxed2 25 күн бұрын
I remember when people were bragging about getting room mates
@despinachristakis1050
@despinachristakis1050 22 күн бұрын
This is off subject but please make videos about Bill Gates and the WEF. People need to know what is really going on.
@WelcomeHome-e5t
@WelcomeHome-e5t 11 күн бұрын
worried about washing dishes?
@TheWorst_time
@TheWorst_time 25 күн бұрын
Police 10 live rundown.
@angelastewart9497
@angelastewart9497 25 күн бұрын
2 nd video if it work go for it
@jvees7916
@jvees7916 15 күн бұрын
Hi Dee! By any chance do you live in NY?
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