Start wearing the clothes that you don't like/ wear but can't get rid of them. You will end up hating them and it makes easy to declutter. This is helping me. Oh and no shopping until there's space for them
@ruthdennisKnits3 жыл бұрын
youtubelover I like this idea. I already do it with bras, you know if it doesn't feel good wearing it, I throw the bra out that very night. Need to do the same with outer wear
@CTChick20113 жыл бұрын
Yes! I've done the Marie Kondo declutter method in my closet many times. Always refining. And I always have the maybe pile. I rehang them in their own section of the closet and wear them over the next few weeks. After a day in the maybe clothing, you will def know what sparks joy and what sparks: Good bye!
@dsmith97963 жыл бұрын
That's one of the best suggestions I've ever heard. From now on if I'm sitting on the fence post and can't decide about an articles of clothing I'm going to wear them all within a week and then decide!!!! Great idea.
@dsmith97963 жыл бұрын
@@ruthdennisKnits , just cleaned out my bra drawer and I have three bras that I didn't want to get rid of but probably won't wear - you have inspired me - over the next three days I'll know what to do with them!!!
@vedUtube2363 жыл бұрын
Yes. I do this for shoes as well. It basically works for every items.
@erindennis98813 жыл бұрын
So, while I didn't use the "build your wardrobe" method, there was one thing you said that was my light bulb moment and caused me to get rid of EIGHT bags of clothes. You said we deserve a wardrobe that makes us feel good. I went through each piece and asked myself "does this item make me feel good when I have it on?". If the answer was no, I got rid of it. No other questions asked. It worked great for me!
@dsmith97963 жыл бұрын
I use your method too! But I also like the idea of shopping in my own closet and pulling out my favorites to make a week's worth of clothes that fit and look the best. I think combining the two methods could be a winner for me.
@pilatesyogataichifit2 жыл бұрын
So simple but so true...
@dianareynolds2171 Жыл бұрын
Using this advice now, so helpful!!!! Thank you
@idid138 Жыл бұрын
Yes, Dawn really knows how to put things in perspective and that is the biggest key to decluttering.
@13utoober Жыл бұрын
So true!
@thisuniquechica3 жыл бұрын
The first minute in this video made me realize that your superpower is your empathy. 💚
@jennylhenry783 жыл бұрын
Yes! This may just be the reason Dawn is so relatable.
@imaginarysea3 жыл бұрын
I think that is EXACTLY why I love watching her channel.
@Antistylestyleclub3 жыл бұрын
And her smile, definitely also her smile :)
@sarahill44083 жыл бұрын
Yes! Seriously it's like she's in my mind. Thanks Dawn!
@curiositydrawsme91803 жыл бұрын
I noticed that too!
@makingithome84933 жыл бұрын
P.S. just think: your current size is someone else’s dream goal size. ⭐️ don’t beat yourself up ladies.
@XtraSparklesPls3 жыл бұрын
Ooooh! I like this one! JUST the words I needed to hear today. Thank you Laura and God Bless. ⭐️
@shantedewise73453 жыл бұрын
You are soo right..thanks for that!
@mckenzieholstine93913 жыл бұрын
O my goodness. Your so right. I just posted a comment about my current size and how i really don't like my current size that much.
@mckenzieholstine93913 жыл бұрын
I feel like i am beating myself up because of my current size when reality i just need to find and buy clothes that make me feel like i am pretty, beautiful, worthy to have beautiful clothes. I need clothes that make me happy. Right now and every day i don't like getting out of my pjs because every time i try to go to put on a outfit well i really don't end up liking the outfit but i end up staying in that outfit because i just don't know what to wear and i don't know what i all want or need out of a outfit. So i really struggle with clothes and i hate it so much but i don't know what to do about clothes. I think a lot of it also has to do with i really don't know my style all that much either which doesn't help.
@makingithome84933 жыл бұрын
@@mckenzieholstine9391 I hope you’ve gone and gotten something that you can wear that fits!💗🤍 I have gained and lost from having 5 kids, so I know what you mean when you start feeling frumpy and give up because you don’t really know what your style is anymore. For me, I love to be comfortable. I am not the most stylish or trendy person, but I like comfortable, yet modern-ish clothes lol TJ Maxx or Ross are my main stores☺️ I finally bought myself a pair of jeans from Marshall’s that were $16 last week. They are a stretchy type of Jean material and feel good! I’m so glad I finally bought some😆 Then just get a cute top that can be casual or dressed up…I like soft tees, and black or a cute print you actually like (it does not have to be the latest trend!) to go with it. Just one outfit for you to feel human and yes, you are worthy. ♥️
@allisonlunsford76593 жыл бұрын
Anybody else just turn on a Minimal Mom playlist and listen like it's a podcast while doing housework? 🙋🏼♀️ Just soaking in the motivation!
@TheMinimalMom3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Allison, I appreciate that!!!
@christined24953 жыл бұрын
Yessss all the time, but then I have to rewatch so I could actually watch Dawn lol
@OneFellSwoopDesign3 жыл бұрын
Love doing this! So encouraging while working around house! Thank you Dawn for your videos and clutter free January!
@kgibbs28053 жыл бұрын
Yes, it's like a friend talking you through the work. Good motivation.
@popovka3 жыл бұрын
I've been doing that for about a year now and last week i started a huge decluttering tour in my appartment and it was.. so easy. I think that's because I've taken in, as you say, all the motivation and knowledge, and that makes it easier and even fun to declutter or just pick up and clean.
@jacque4033 жыл бұрын
I take it one step further. I assemble outfits for events-funeral, wedding, church, etc. Then, take a photo of the outfit. This helps me quickly and easily decide what to wear. Also less stress because I know I have what I need.
@ihartsacto Жыл бұрын
That’s really good so you can also see if it looks terrible.
@HereIAm247 Жыл бұрын
I keep a visual board on my computer, with every item in my wardrobe. Then I can mix and mach on the computer by dragging it around, and seeing them all together helps inspire me for new combinations. :) I can't go too minimal with my clothes, since there are two laundry machines in the basement for 15 apartments in my building. So I created 3 capsule wadrobes (1 week each, though jeans are shared; I only have 3 pairs). I keep each of the two 'pending' ones in a small box, and the active wardrobe is hanging on the hangers. This way, I can go about two weeks without doing laundry, if there are no available laundry times. I also have 3 bedsheets, 4 towels, 6 hand towels, etc. But because I have a good laundry system, and two machines, I can usually fit it all within the time slot of 4 hours (1 laundry time). Plus, because I 'cycle' through the clothes, they get less worn from the laundry machine, and lasts longer. :)
@Mamacatwoman Жыл бұрын
I LOVE this idea!!! Thank you for sharing it! ;)
@tracygellatly12673 жыл бұрын
My revelation: I need a lot fewer clothes for my lifestyle than my fantasy self thought I needed. I'm a proud member of the "outfit repeater" club now and couldn't be happier wearing the clothes I love over and over, sometimes several days in a row!
@jennylhenry783 жыл бұрын
For the past 5 years (after baby#3) I've instituted the rule in my home that me and the children wear the same thing two days in row (they know to get new clothes MWF) and then church clothes Sunday. It means you need less clothes and can fit way more laundry in one load. At one point I was able to wash all four of my childrens clothes for the week in 1 load. Now I've got my 10yo washing her and her 5yo brothers clothes and then the next day my 8yo washes her and her 3yo sisters clothes. I personally only have to do three loads a week (sheets, cleaning rags, and me + hubby's clothes). 🙌🏻
@samanthab32923 жыл бұрын
My favorite joke is "you've worn that before/out fit repeater!" "Yeah I own a washing machine" 😂✌🏻
@T.T.M.603 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@Smallsizedgarden3 жыл бұрын
This realization helped me so much! I started buying clothes for my real life and not my fantasy life!!!!! In the past I would buy fancy shoes because they were cute or on sale!!! Then I realized I need great looking comfortable shoes.
@daisybuchanan53783 жыл бұрын
We do the same with meals - cook once, eat the same thing tomorrow night too.
@brookesmith73593 жыл бұрын
We went through my 11 year old daughter’s closet after Christmas and I was prepared for a nasty battle, but when I told her that she should have a closet of only clothes that she loves and that is easy to keep clean, it just shifted her mindset and we knocked that afternoon long project out in 45 minutes. Plus, we also found 2 things from Christmas that she decided she didn’t love, so we were able to return them and get her something else! 🥳🥳 Thank you Dawn, for helping this tired, stressed out Momma out!
@abbyjoy99573 жыл бұрын
My husband and I went through our closets together and allowed our spouse to speak honestly about what they liked or didn't like in the other persons wardrobe. So now we only have clothes that we both like. We had a good time doing it together.
@returnofthereasoner32003 жыл бұрын
Great idea, Abby!
@solidstate94513 жыл бұрын
My husband loves colourful clothing, I only feel comfortable in black. We hate each others clothing. But that's o.k.
@cogit8able3 жыл бұрын
That sounds hazardous to my emotional health. Not gonna lie.
@Isabel_fit3 жыл бұрын
I’m glad that works for you and your husband! My husband loves so many of the clothes that I either hate wearing or hate washing (some are super delicate and I can’t stand hand washing) so I end up keeping things bc I feel unintentionally guilted into it 😂
@mistyazaleski65423 жыл бұрын
@@cogit8able you could ask the person getting rid of it first then if the person says “yes I like this” then the spouse/partner can give their opinion. If the person says no then the spouse/partner probably shouldn’t give their opinion 😅
@emilyl43423 жыл бұрын
I like that you added the bit about "just because it looks good on the hanger, doesn't mean it will look good on me". It took me years to realize I had been buying clothes for the body I wanted, not the body I had, and then I'd feel bad when it wasn't as modest as I anticipated or that it made me look like a square. Sometimes the most obvious advice still needs to be heard!
@paisley85193 жыл бұрын
Ah ... finally, someone has addressed my issue! I have a closet half full of clothes that spark joy ... on the hanger. They are so adorable that I can’t get rid of them. They make me happy ... on the hanger. I imagine myself wearing them and having them make me feel as cute as they look ... on the hanger. Not so much on me. Ok, I get it now. Sigh. 🙄 Thanks Dawn, I needed that!
@rosemarycornwall51623 жыл бұрын
You put that very well, I'm with you on that one.
@dsmith97963 жыл бұрын
Very well said. It's a lesson sometimes hard to learn but we are all better off getting rid of those kind of clothes. I bought several items that fit the description of "great on the hanger" over this past fall - right before Christmas I got real with these clothes - tried them on, even took pics of myself - the pictures didn't lie!!! I returned about ten items to stores that still had the tags. I will do better in 2021.
@Dbb273 жыл бұрын
You’re too funny! You hit my problem on the head! MY head!
@Dbb273 жыл бұрын
@@dsmith9796 I love the take a picture idea!
@phoenixrising80073 жыл бұрын
Radical acceptance 💥🎯
@daniellemccray37353 жыл бұрын
I'm not a commenter. And I've seen zillions of declutteting videos. This one is so completely straightforward personal. Targeted to the individual struggles. Fantastic way of encouraging and motivating.. to overcome those emotional setbacks. 10/10 review on this one.
@daniellemccray37353 жыл бұрын
One suggestion. You appear to be looking at something on top of the camera in all your videos. It's the only 'glitch' I feel when watching them. Maybe, try looking at the point that makes the viewer feel like you are looking at them.
@lrhudy933 жыл бұрын
Yes! I absolutely did that, too! Crying in front of the closet, not having anything to wear, and not wanting to attend functions. After I got a few pieces of clothes that FIT, I started feeling better about myself and got that motivation to take more self care and began losing weight. I've lost 50lbs and kept it off for 3 years now. I can attest that this strategy works!! THANKS, DAWN!!
@TheMinimalMom3 жыл бұрын
Wow!! That's so cool!!!!
@adrianasb42133 жыл бұрын
same in my case not buying clothes that fit a chubbier version of me felt like I can ignore/deny that part, later on I lost some weight and the bigger clothes went a little worn out in the process
@sonja_rademacher3 жыл бұрын
Good work! You can be proud of yourself that you accepted yourself.
@gwenj54193 жыл бұрын
I remember after gaining weight, not wanting to go to church because nothing fit right and it led to feeling of self-disgust. So sad that clothing can effect our worship of God.
@KatherineTheGr8t3 жыл бұрын
Wow! Congrats on the waistline - for 3 yrs! You have obviously made a lifestyle change and that's hard but so rewarding (I feel the same way about quitting alcohol, I never have to worry about people stopping by because I know I'll always be sober, but my clothes are a different story...working on that one)
@morganwickman84512 жыл бұрын
This is LIFE CHANGING! I've spent so much time trying to rationalize keeping full wardrobes because "one day I'll fit them again", meanwhile my closet is losing more space and I'm losing more sanity and confidence! Thank you for this.
@meganrasey43773 жыл бұрын
I just had my 4th baby 13 days ago. I'm so thankful that he is HERE and that his birth was complication free and swift. Now, I look ahead to the next 6 months where my body will be recovering and using up some of my stored insulation to feed my precious boy. Sometime in June I'll be ready to see if it's time to set goals for a healthier pattern or weight for myself. In the mean time, I need to celebrate the miracle my body was used for. 💪❤💙👶🧡
@northstar48513 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! Great view!
@northstar48513 жыл бұрын
Dawn, you looked so great in the lighter colors you modeled!
@suzih.66873 жыл бұрын
Awww Congratulations on your new baby! A friend bought me a two piece navy blue stretchy outfit for after birth and I practically lived in it. I put pjs on and took the outfit off to wash and dry and back on it went.
@SReid1113 жыл бұрын
Absolutely beautiful outlook...so refreshing!
@justkevinlol2 жыл бұрын
Here's a thought that made me cut down my wardrobe in half: "You are worth more than the clothes that are holding you back from your dreams. Let go of the past and chase the future" :)) I'll see you all in 2022 soon! Peace!
@33snowgal3 жыл бұрын
Fun fact in Saskatchewan we call a ‘hooded sweatshirt” a Bunny hug.
@colleent36313 жыл бұрын
Im from the kangaroo jacket generation,😊
@sonja_rademacher3 жыл бұрын
Cute 😍
@marycomstock60983 жыл бұрын
That was the best fun fact I’ve heard in a while 🥰
@gigics16123 жыл бұрын
I absolutely 🥰 the name, “bunny hug” for a hoodie!
@clairewillow64753 жыл бұрын
Adorable
@reallifelove3 жыл бұрын
I was so inspired by your videos that I immediately attacked my closet and turned out 3 huge sacks of stuff for donation! Thankfully the fighting spirit did not stop there - I started tackling the huge amount of toys and books we've been piling up, and have already found a new home for many of them! Feels so liberating! Most importantly: I shared these ideas with my 8 year old son, and instead of holding on to his old stuff, he hopped on board and helped me designate a big pile of his stuff for donation! Now THIS definitely sparks joy :-)
@sarapawsonherrington25953 жыл бұрын
It could be like packing for a trip we are excited to take, and we are choosing the clothes we want to look our best in for pictures. Really our life is like a trip, and we are traveling through time, birth to death. We should be excited to look our best each day on this gift of a literal trip of a lifetime!! That thought inspires me to get your process going! Thank you so much for the help and encouragement!
@lindaneese35863 жыл бұрын
Very well said because it is so true. Your comment really points out why it is important to feel good about what you're wearing. Thanks
@denisea34653 жыл бұрын
This is exactly how I see it! Packing for a trip. You always only take the stuff you like the best and are most comfortable in... or you end up regretting it while you are away, right? (I remember packing a pair of horrifyingly uncomfortable shoes that were ADORABLE and my feet so regretted that!)
@dsmith97963 жыл бұрын
That's such a beautiful way at looking at life!!! I'll keep your comment in mind while I work to curate my closet.
@pilatesyogataichifit3 жыл бұрын
Yes I noticed last year when packing for a trip that I did not want to take with me 90% of the stuff I own. In the end, I choose the usual faithful few styles and items. So not much point keeping the rest!!!
@calilayne55693 жыл бұрын
Well said! Thank you so much!
@aragan683 жыл бұрын
Your encouragement to only have things that fit made me realize how negative it was for me to dig through all my small clothes to find something to wear. I gained over 60 lbs in the last year due to a Med change and it has been devastating to my wardrobe. I reduced what is in my closet to a fourth of what I had, and pretty much emptied my dresser. It feels so good!
@TyMrs3 жыл бұрын
God truly brought me to your channel and you have been such a blessing!❤ I'm a SAHM and I had been praying for a better way to manage our home and keep my sanity 🤯with 3 children (1yr, 3yr and 8yr) while my husband works during the day. You have been such an inspiration and I have begun to release the emotions and fear tied to many items I thought I needed to keep. Decluttering has hands down been one of the most beneficial things I have ever done for my family. Thanks for being so transparent and encouraging! GOD BLESS 🙏🏾
@Michelle-by9fp3 жыл бұрын
I was in your boat 1 year ago 👐 my kids are similar ages, 2, 5, and 9 ☺. Going through Dawn's videos has been so amazing! I have made so much progress! My only issue is Christmas, I take a few steps back and end up overwhelmed all over again. But my clothing is decluttered and it is SO NICE having only what I like to wear in my closet
@charlottestewart45953 жыл бұрын
Slow and steady......🥰 Dawn's advice is so simple but profound and many times she sees things from an angle I did not. I have followed her over a year and have very slowly adopted many of her ideas.
@natalieeubank45333 жыл бұрын
Here too!! Her channel has made such a big difference in my home!! I actually dusted yesterday because I had simplified what is on my shelves. I have kids that are 1, 4 and 6.
@eleanorigby58813 жыл бұрын
I'm feeling overwhelmed at how much left I have to declutter. Feels like a lot, and I still won't be nearly as minimal as dawn...
@BettyBoop-bd3ru Жыл бұрын
Nothing more disheartening than feeling uncomfortable in your current size then trying to squeeze into too small clothing because you’re too stubborn to buy new clothes in a bigger size. I finally got over this and went to a resale shop for some items that actually fit comfortably. I love how she explained this process. ❤
@gingersnap15683 жыл бұрын
Put your clothes in a "Time out" when they are not conforming to your needs at the moment.
@njmaryannez3 жыл бұрын
@@LarryNewmanSusanNewman Not necessarily that “you don’t like them.” More often, it’s that you need less formal, dressy clothes; or you are ten pounds heavier, so they don’t fit well; or they are for a different season. Not conforming to your current needs - but they may fit your needs once we go back to the office, or lose the weight, or it’s summer.
@debbiemabrey92403 жыл бұрын
Love the idea of time out!!!
@karensawyer36393 жыл бұрын
I love "a time out bin" phrase & think the word "quarantine" sadly became associated with this pandemic for some, but I STILL think it makes sense for it too, & use that word for my stored unused clothes/ items. ( Dawn, YOU were the 1st person I had ever heard use that word for decluttering items, so when I hear U say it, it does not make me think of it in any other way than intended. 😁
@katherinemerrilees51302 жыл бұрын
The fact that you said that you get the clothes out of the laundry basket or OFF THE BATHROOM FLOOR, made me subscribe to your channel and watch to the end of this video. I feel that you are a real person, who actually wants to help me near where I’m at, and that’s good enough for me to wait through the adverts and sponsor messages. Good job x
@micheletopolosek84083 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this. I gained 30 pounds in 2020. I need to quit "punishing" myself for the weight gain. Again, thank you.
@lizzieamw4977Ай бұрын
Getting ready to welcome our baby in December. Baby stuff has snuck in and all of the sudden we have so many clothes to the point where I was sitting on the floor crying because I was overwhelmed with laundry. I'm going to do this thank you for the motivation again!
@patsavinda17033 жыл бұрын
Great advice, good points! I want to share something I started doing a few years ago while in the dressing room looking for clothes. When changing into the store clothes do NOT face the mirror. Take yours off put the potential clothes on , turn and look at yourself in the mirror- trust your first reaction when you see yourself. This has been working great for me!
@anitas58173 жыл бұрын
Great idea!
@cynthiabooth10 Жыл бұрын
I wear a cute outfit to go shopping and whatever I put on HAS to be look as nice or nicer than what I wore to the store!
@brendarobbins88323 жыл бұрын
I remember something I heard years ago... you wear 20% of your wardrobe 80% of time. I’m cleaning out my closet/dresser this week and I’m keeping you with me! 😂❤️
@marilynham27773 жыл бұрын
1) acknowledge that you deserve to have clothes that fit and you feel good in 2) build out wardrobe on clean slate based on what you are currently wearing (e.g. work or at home); how many do you need: leggings, casual tops, etc. Only select things you like and feel good in. 3) make a plan for what's left. Three possibilities: pack it away, donate it, sell it.
@EricaLucasLoves3 жыл бұрын
I deserve clothes that fit me and I feel good in. Love the things you say!
@AZHITW3 жыл бұрын
I live in the valley (Phoenix area) so no winter wardrobe necessary in our climate; I did a total closet clean out several years ago, I mean I donated every single thing I owned (minus one outfit, PJs, and a coat), and then went shopping with my BFF and bought everything new. Now everything in my closet fits, I love it and wear it, and everything fits onto one 6 1/2 ft. rod (everything spaced 1 inch apart), and four drawers. Best thing I ever did for myself.
@pacempire50462 жыл бұрын
I got rid of over 50 items from my closet after watching this, thank you for the inspiration!
@adriane5223 жыл бұрын
I use my bed like when I pack for vacation (not that I've done that lately, ahem). So, the way you're building your wardrobe is kind of like planning a trip from one laundry day to the next. 😂
@saraburton90373 жыл бұрын
Love that idea!
@Dragonridermom3 жыл бұрын
I love this thought. I used to travel regularly for work and had no problem knowing what to pack for a week away. I am going to try using the same thought process now that I am working from home.. "packing/planning from one laundry day to the next.
@T.T.M.603 жыл бұрын
Well put and I do the same thing when going on a vacation.
@patsycathcart13 жыл бұрын
Yes! I thought of the same thing! I could do this like I’m packing for a trip... that I’m not going to take. 😜
@nikkistasiak77772 жыл бұрын
I have been putting off decluttering my closet for months. I finally made myself start with a goal of 30 minutes last night. I turned on your video playlists and I have to say I am so proud of myself. No I’m not to a minimalist quite yet but I got rid of two full trash bags of clothes that don’t serve me anymore. It’s an incredible shift! Can’t wait for the rest of the house!
@emilymcclain5913 жыл бұрын
Oh Dawn! This is one of THE most helpful videos you have ever done. This totally removes the emotion and makes clothes just clothes and my body something that needs to be covered in love. Thank you!!
@TheMinimalMom3 жыл бұрын
Covered in love!! Yes, that gave me goosebumps-- well said!!!
@allieblank59923 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@pattytarnowski77403 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! Your BEST clothes video yet!!!
@luisamaute47833 жыл бұрын
This is the easiest closet declutter system I've seen EVER... and i've watched a lot of videos lol. Thank you!
@NatalieBennett3 жыл бұрын
*Love what you had to say about the emotional implications of the roller coaster that is CLOTHING! 🎢Love this objective approach, Dawn! Thanks so much for asking me to be part of this collab! Love spreading the good news with you about a simplified life!* ♥️♥️♥️
@karenm6563 жыл бұрын
Just came across one of your videos for first time yesterday, and loved it.
@NatalieBennett3 жыл бұрын
@@karenm656 ♥️♥️♥️
@gailtester87493 жыл бұрын
Natalie, I found you through Dawn and am enjoying your channel very much!
@minimalzebra3 жыл бұрын
Natalie 👍❤️
@crystalcsuka22053 жыл бұрын
If your looking for another channel to add, “Small Changes” with Sarah and Caleb.. They’re an Australian family who’ve been minimalists for a few years now.. She is one of my fave minimal family channels to watch along with Dawn and Natalie.. You 3 are inspiration and my down time.. 💕
@creekhouse94152 жыл бұрын
This is much better than throwing all of your clothes in a heap on the bed or floor just because some "expert" tells you to purge that way. Too much work that way. But this is sensible. Thanks!
@cherylr71803 жыл бұрын
You’ve said before that no one needs clothes in their closet that “taunt”them. So true! No more keeping things because I paid too much, I like it but it doesn’t fit, etc. I want to open my closet and see only things that make me happy and comfortable. Thanks for another awesome video.
@suzy16763 жыл бұрын
So glad you are acknowledging the relationship between clothes and how we feel about ourselves. Watching someone sort through clothes who is thin and in shape can be discouraging. But Watching someone who understands what it's like to have NOTHING to wear that you feel good in due to weight issues is so refreshing! I like that you are recognizing the issue but coming up with a practical solution. ❤
@patriciavogelsperger96453 жыл бұрын
When I have spent a lot of $ on clothes and then changed my mind about how I felt about it.....donating it is like giving to charity. Someone will be so happy with it who, perhaps, couldn’t afford it. That makes me happy knowing someone will wear it and love it.
@michellewalker71493 жыл бұрын
Great reminder. Most of my best clothing purchases have come from thrift stores, and I am very grateful for the people who let them go because I couldn't afford to buy that level of quality in new clothes.
@janstanley5383 жыл бұрын
I LOVE this way of decluttering my clothing. I have learned so much for you. BTW I am 62 years old!
@karenm6563 жыл бұрын
Love how real you are about how little emotional energy we all have these days😄
@alexamunoz79433 жыл бұрын
Good perspective to just pick and save your favorites. That’s what we subconsciously do on a daily basis anyway! Thanks :) Recently accepted that I do not have a 20 yr old body anymore and that my “mom shape” is good too. There is something beautiful about the fact that motherhood changed me inside AND out.
@TheSecretSlob3 жыл бұрын
Love the 'building' on the bed' method! I am totally a visual person and like seeing everything at once in one place! Cheers to getting rid of too-tight jeans! :)
@ChocolateHeart903 жыл бұрын
Just from the first 3 minutes I fell in love with you 😍 We care way too much about how we look to others instead of just rocking our bodies the way they are any time and feel comfortable
@beccagiessing38903 жыл бұрын
I'm a clothes hoarder/fashionista! Building our home, we had to extend the walk-in closet 3'. Tips that have helped me: 1) Only keep 1 size above and below your current size 2) Rather than removing all of your clothes (kon-mari method) pull out the 20% of your closet you wear 80% of the time. It really makes decluttering what's left in the closet much easier. 3) Turn all your hangers backwards. At end of the year, any hanger that wasn't turned around, you didn't wear, and it can go in the donate pile! 4) Have a donate bin in your closet 5) Create a "hold" box (if you can't make a decision, and you get stuck, put this article of clothing into a "hold" box) Set a time limit and once you hit that date the clothes left in the "hold" bin are expired and move to the donate box 6) If it's damaged and you haven't taken it to the seamstress - donate it! 7) If you don't want to pay for dry-cleaning any longer - donate or sell high maintenance clothing. 8) If you've spent a lot of $$ on clothing, it makes donating more difficult. Try selling higher priced articles of clothing on Mercari or Posh Mark.
@suzannefield75833 жыл бұрын
Yes yes yes! These are great suggestions! Thank you!!
@janetjaken13893 жыл бұрын
Great idea! The first time I didn't say "Ugh, too overwhelming." I love it!
@annarepke11183 жыл бұрын
Seriously! Has ANYONE been motivated to lose weight by keeping smaller clothes? NOT ME EVER!
@TyMrs3 жыл бұрын
No, no and no! Lol... After having kids you always want to go back to the 'before'. Keeping the old clothes never works. We just need to throw out the scale with the old clothes! 😅
@mjcossel61363 жыл бұрын
Actually, yes. 🙋♀️ I’m almost ready to put on an old but beautiful pair of jeans! So excited to get there! I’m gonna be so pumped when they fit me again! It shows me I’m getting my life back (after babies).
@sahdogwrangler55943 жыл бұрын
@@pixi78 what a great idea! I have suitcases taking up room in an extra closet & I've never thought of putting my extra clothes in them! Thanks!!
@laurahanson51793 жыл бұрын
So true! My smaller clothes didn’t motivate me to lose weight, but it sure was fun to put them back in again after I lost 50lbs in about 5 months!!!
@Laura55sere3 жыл бұрын
I have too many clothes because they are in three different sizes
@kimberleymckay59493 жыл бұрын
Ok, now this sounds doable. I swear, I just freeze when I stand in front of my closet thinking of cleaning and organizing.
@sandihumeniuk44623 жыл бұрын
This is the first time I have watched a video that has addressed emotional attachment of clothes, and how we put too much emphasis on them. I recently heard someone say reverse the thinking just as you said, take out of the closet/drawers what you want to keep or use. And then do what you wish with the rest. This makes total sense!!!!
@sallydansereau12703 жыл бұрын
Purged my closet, and finally got my husband to purge his. Found we no longer need the extra wardrobe in our bedroom so now have a bigger space. Love your gentle approach to dealing with clothes that don’t fit.
@jonelledavenport87013 жыл бұрын
This is the 5th decluttering video in the collaboration I have watched this week. I purged twice this week. I'm now ready to fill in the gaps and buy with intent. You ladies have been a God send. Thank you so much 😊
@TheMinimalMom3 жыл бұрын
Yay!! So glad to hear this!!!!
@dsmith97963 жыл бұрын
I have also been watching Jennifer L. Scott's decluttering videos this month - great inspiration.
@therealfinnaspring85853 жыл бұрын
I'm just now getting through an intense multi year long depression (my husband is still struggling) and in our 2nd bedroom we just had TONS of stuff in there didn't even know what was in there. Went through it with my mom and we took 4 trashbags (extra huge trashbags) of clothes to goodwill and 2 trashbags of ripped and paint stained clothes out to the curb. I had NO IDEA we even had half of these items i couldn't even believe it. I think they start to mate and multiple when left unattended.
@homestead.hippie3 жыл бұрын
When you talked about standing in front of your closet in tears and your husband looking on like what's wrong lol. I have literally experienced that multiple times, i decluttered a ton of clothes and have finally started to build a functional wardrobe i still have some prices i need and some clothes to get rid but this is my favorite method, so thank you!!
@CourtneysCocoNut2 жыл бұрын
Rewatching because it didn't sink in the first time, I'm so overwhelmed with my clothes right now.
@Grandmahat3 ай бұрын
Me too 😂
@thisistheday336912 күн бұрын
I watched and rewatched Dawn's videos so many times before I actually dove in and really started decluttering. Keep watching! You'll build up your courage and one day it will all just click for you. Don't lose hope!
@thestorykeeper68183 жыл бұрын
Thank you for acknowledging that selling one's clothes requires energy... "You could always sell it" is often touted as a quick and easy solution as if it doesn't require any work...
@kimberlystrickland1893 жыл бұрын
I love that you said getting rid of the horrible clothes that dont fit is self care. I heard that today in the correct ear. Lol. Thank you.
@kellycarter24973 жыл бұрын
Hi Dawn. I learned about Joshua Becker from you. He wears multiples of the same clothing, little to manage, fewer choices. I bought 3 pairs of pants 2 black, 1 gray. And 5 sweaters -3 red, 1 white, 1 black. I have several other items, but it's so much easier to get dressed, not having too many choices. This works best for me. Thanks for all you do.
@Melessenz3 жыл бұрын
i always have the problem not to wear the clothes i love and instead wear the old clothes just because i don't want the new clothes to get old or break. I want to break through that habit. Maybe packing away more of the old stuff might force me to wear it. 😅 If there are more tips for this, i would love to hear it. ❤️
@hanneshuette3 жыл бұрын
Hi! I think perhaps you are looking for tips from Dawn but perhaps I can offer something too.... Diane in Denmark is a great coach in this area (you can find her on YT). She really encourages to dress well every day right down to proper shoes, wearing that special inherited jewellery, using the special birthday present scent etc. Don’t save things for a rainy day - you are worth feeling great right now and today. I don’t wear such dressy things as Diane but I do get dressed to shoes every day in things I like and even do the gardening, dog-walking etc. in them. Most of us have washing machines these days and clothes don’t usually actually get ruined - even doing messy things like housework, cooking, gardening, spending time in the forest or whatever - they just need washing at some point. I think it is, like Dawn says, about self-care or self-appreciation. You deserve to look your best and feel good about your self EVERY DAY. So yes, letting old stuff go that you don’t enjoy and giving yourself permission to wear the new is probably good. Perhaps you could take the approach of “I’ll at least try it for a while” and while you are trying it you could pack all the old stuff away so that you are not tempted for the “trial period”. Good luck!
@Melessenz3 жыл бұрын
@@hanneshuette i'm currently living in japan. didn't figure out how to wash clean with cold water here. But of course if i would life longer here i would get a warm water machine, which is rear but available. also buying clothes which fit my western body size is challanging. but we are moving back in to the west. then i guess i could try again to get ready more often.
@hanneshuette3 жыл бұрын
@@Melessenz I hope you find some tips that really work for you. Remember you are special and worth it 🧡
@KitKatUniverse3 жыл бұрын
I do something like this too! If something fits me and looks good, I think, I can’t wear it too much and wear it out. LOL it makes no sense!
@dianedevery37113 жыл бұрын
Love this idea, except for my 'forever shedding' dalmatian. ❤
@vivwootten68323 жыл бұрын
Be interesting to do the following exercise: if we had to move out for the next 2 months what clothes would we take?
@sharonproctor40792 жыл бұрын
Best video I've seen on tackling the piles of clothes. I lose clothes. So not finding what I want I end up buying new ones. Clothes are emotional. I have a skirt fri college decades ago because it was when I had a 23 inch waist which I will never have again after kids and menopause.
@lhumpy1903 жыл бұрын
That pink top with the gathered sleeves looks so nice on you.
@danyellesibert67242 жыл бұрын
Dawn I’m only halfway through this video and I’m in tears. Thank you! Of many many videos I have watched to help me with this, your has helped my journey and I’m doing this now! I’ve slowly become a minamalist. I thought I was. Then I cleared more and more and returned numerous times to the same spots. My wardrobe is down to a tiny spot in my closet, but none of it fits me and I don’t like anything. I have decided the tiny bit I’m holding on to doesn’t work because it doesn’t work. Time to grab a few shirts and pants I need. I’m so happy because I get to purchase something that I need. But I am real with myself that I don’t need that dressy outfit that looks so great right now. Thank you!
@jennylhenry783 жыл бұрын
A lot of people don't like the idea of a capsule wardrobe bc it's limiting. I was able to make one that's interchangeable within seasons. If you choose colors that all go well together you can make many outfits out of just a few things. What seems to work for me was 3 of almost everything; 3 pants (dark wash jeans, black jeans, white jeans) 3 skirts 3 shorts 3 leggings 2 tank tops 5 tops each of short sleeve shirts 5 long sleeve shirts 3 blouses 3 cardigans 3 sweatshirts/hoodies 3 dresses I even have 3 thsirts and 1 leggings for cleaning/exercise By having 5 tops and 3 bottoms you can basically make 15 outfits, and then when you have many bottom options it becomes exponentially more (over 65 different outfits bc I didn't include wearing a cardigan over a shirt or dresses)!
@xLovebirdx Жыл бұрын
I do a modified version of this. I have one light and one dark neutral in every item type. Ex. One dark grey and one cream cardigan. Then I have my two colors blue and purple for all additional clothes. Every statement piece can go with all neutrals and all the colors go together (except patterns).
@laurafindsjoy2 жыл бұрын
I just used this method to help my daughter whittle down her wardrobe and it was GREAT! She now has room in her drawers to put away clean laundry, and EVERYTHING in her closet and dresser is something she would actually wear. THANK YOU! Now to do my own! 😆
@emmayeager58643 жыл бұрын
Lovely as always. 💕 Vested Interests calls it her "Trial Separation Bin"
@cindywilkinson16103 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣👍👍
@dawandabocanegra89353 жыл бұрын
I did this after watching your videos and it was a game changer.Thank you Dawn!I used to be late to church trying to figure out what to wear. I had so many clothes that were my size but didn't look good on me.My clothes were either too fitted or too frumpy. I never wanted to buy more clothes because I had too many but they weren't real options. You gave me permission to grab a few new things that fit well to fill in the gaps in my wardrobe. I got rid of 70% of my clothes even clothes with tags on them which was why I hoarded them but you gave me permission to let go and not worry about money already spent.Now I have more to wear than ever before! I don't even miss all the clothes I held on to.All my clothes fit so I don't waste time trying on clothes anymore. Now I can grab and go. No more Beyonce/Golden Girls wardrobe for me.
@lucindawhittenburg88353 жыл бұрын
Maybe today is the day! I have been immobilized the last 2 years from emotions!!! Thank you!!!
@saly73213 жыл бұрын
Hi very good video on how to build a capsule. First time I understand how to do. Thank you very much. From Paris. Keep safe
@Kate.West.3 жыл бұрын
I love your method! I’m generally a very minimal person and don’t have a ton of clothes (I’m one of those freaky people that loves to be minimal and tidy).... but having permission to get rid of things that are too small or were a “mistake purchase” is so freeing! Your right, I do feel crappy when I open the wardrobe and see clothes that don’t suit me or are too small. Thanks so much!
@leahgraham10163 жыл бұрын
I like this strategy....I'm going to do this. I hold onto things I don't need...don't fit...or don't even like!
@conniesoares1573 жыл бұрын
I simplified my wardrobe back in the fall after watching your videos. I do like this method of leaving and just pulling out the “no” items! Last night I came across a picture of my past home back in the 90’s and saw all the Clutter of decor I used to have in my front room ...I was mortified! Thanks so much for all these Tips and Tricks for making our lives simple and home easy to keep neat and tidy!
@dianepetty96053 жыл бұрын
I have been moving stuff from one room to another for several years. Your videos have finally given me the freedom to let go of things I no longer need. We took 5 boxes to donate to the thrift store yesterday and that is only the beginning. Thank you for making this so clear.
@debbieclaassens7713 жыл бұрын
As always, Thank You Dawn, for presenting helpful, real life information in such a supportive and non-judgemental way. I love how you are so natural about saying, just grab your clothes, off the floor, out of the hamper or wherever - so good for making me (and I’m guessing many others) feel normal about not living in a show home. 💜
@loxleybattle25913 жыл бұрын
Yes, AND it means I don’t have to wash all my clothes before I start.
@declutter-newbie2 күн бұрын
Another tip that I have found helpful (especially having lost weight the past couple of years) is that just because it's a smaller size and now suddenly fits doesn't necessarily mean that it's flattering and that you should wear it. Love going back through your channel library ❤😊
@anitas58173 жыл бұрын
I watched your video on Facebook about this too. This is truly the best video I’ve seen on decluttering clothes. Thank you so much for all you do to help people.
@TheMinimalMom3 жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you Anita, I really appreciate that!!!
@pegasus65003 жыл бұрын
The best tip I've ever heard. Much easier than deciding what to get rid of. Thank you and lovely greetings from Germany 🥰
@WallFlower813 жыл бұрын
Thank you Dawn! I feel like sometimes I need that reminder-“you deserve to wear clothing that fits!” Appreciate all that you do!
@katarina99832 жыл бұрын
So important to bring up the psychological part of this that I think gets overlooked. The most important part for me was realizing that I'm good enough and deserving of feeling good in my clothes, no matter my size. I've kept things that I used to feel good in, but don't now, and kind of beating myself up that I don't use it anymore. When I started thinking that my style and preference changed it got easier to accept myself. Passing time is not just all bad, it's also an opportunity to find out what you like. I no longer use polyester or uncomfortable clothes for example. I apply your method when traveling. I only bring clothes that fit, are comfortable and go together. A good capsule wardrobe. I think we get confused because we feel like we need to have a lot of clothes for different occasions when all we really need is everyday clothes for our main occupation and a couple of event outfits. I have a lot of looks I can dress up/down. But the most important accessory is the feeling of "I'm deserving". When that's implemented it's a lot easier to dress.
@Karen-DeMars3 жыл бұрын
Wow, Dawn - your approach to this was so thoughtful, sensitive, intuitive ... and still completely practical! It gave me a really healthy perspective to deal with my closet and the way it “makes me feel.” Thank you so much. ♥️
@allieyates5573 жыл бұрын
I was getting dressed for work while watching this and this is the first time a clothing declutter method has ever clicked with me! I have already pulled out 4 shirts that I'm not currently grabbing because they don't make me feel great about myself. Thank you thank you thank you! I've never been this motivated to pare down my wardrobe before! 😃🙌
@Belitabelita3 жыл бұрын
This is the first video I see that makes sence 100% and i've seen sooo many videos to try to inspire me, also loved the paper declutter ones, thank you so much, I've bein watching some of your videos and loved the editing on the minimalist video on things you dont buy anymore, very intertaning had me watching through the whole thing😊 blessing to you.
@T.T.M.603 жыл бұрын
Building your wardrobe on your bed and adding to it items that you wear now is a great idea! I get so overwhelmed trying to go through each item one at a time in my closet. Plus deciding how many of each item you need is so important, especially for me as there are definitely certain items of clothing I really love and tend to over buy.
@sonja_rademacher3 жыл бұрын
Emotions can really be a problem but I want to tell you about how happy happy happy I am since I put all the clothes that I "paid money for" or that "remind me of something" into a box. Now there are only clothes that I love in my closet. It is such a pleasure to open that closet! Maybe, one day, I can let go of the other clothes that are in the box. Until then I enjoy my tidy closet and all the clothes that fit me and that look great.
@lb95493 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being honest about where you are with clothes right now. My days are spent taking the dog and kids outside, sitting on the floor doing math, reading to them on the couch, cooking and cleaning etc. I need to be comfortable!! Life is too short for jeans that push into your stomach all day!!
@charissaeden96043 жыл бұрын
One of my favorite things about your channel is your intro. You’re straight to the point!
@franpatzcraig67133 жыл бұрын
Thanks for giving us permission to get rid of things that don't suit us! My mom died over 10 years ago. I took quite a few of her clothes because we wore the same size and because they were good quality, attractive, classic clothing that never goes out of style. However, I had never worn any of them in over 10 years because Mom and I had different lifestyles, different tastes, and different skin tone and hair color! I can smile about donating them because someone will get joy over owning those classic, expensive, beautiful pieces instead of them sitting in bins at the back of my closet.
@deborahdavis3433 жыл бұрын
I resently downsized my clothing. I bought some new hangers that prevented my shirts from sliding off, but only changed the hanger as I wore the items. After a couple months, whatever was still on an old hanger was donated! Now I feel like I can even go further! Thank you for your videos! They have changed our home from stressful, to peaceful!
@snowinspace12313 жыл бұрын
I’ve been doing this for a while the problem is you find your shelved clothes make sure you eventually go back to your piles.
@katel2042 жыл бұрын
I’ve come back to this video multiple times while decluttering. Thank you!
@tkka24183 жыл бұрын
This is the best advice/process of decluttering clothes I have ever heard. Thank you!!
@dig1272 Жыл бұрын
This is brilliant. Absolutely brilliant and it's going to work for me. Thank you, thank you, thank you!! I've seen probably 5 or 6 other youtubers techniques for this and this one is it for me!! Now I'm excited to do it!!!! 💃🤸♀️👊💕
@Myeverydaywifelife3 жыл бұрын
💜 Last time I cleaned out my closet I got rid of 35 shirts OMG! 🙀 and I still have 35 shirts 🤪 it’s a work in progress. Then I hung all the shirts on top rack, the when I wear it wash them they go in the bottom rack. In 6 months what I don’t wear goes bye bye. The turning the hanger thing around didn’t work for me. 💜 Great idea to pick out your favorites then go from there! 💜🌿💜🌿💜🌿💜🌿💜🌿💜🌿
@lynns72623 жыл бұрын
I love your non-judge-mental attitude!!! Your personality is perfect for this!!!
@melindastanners Жыл бұрын
Two years on this is still so inspiring. I have a lot of clothes from different occupations, ages, sizes, and going through every item is just too much for me. Pulling out the stuff I love and wear all the time, however, is easy - it's like reverse engineering the whole process and setting me up for success. I can't wait to get started!
@709sunshine3 жыл бұрын
I kinda do the same! My No Fail method is .. 1. Pull out all my favs (everything I wear all the time no matter what it is.. sweats.. jeans, tees whatever you reach for all the time. 2. Pull out all your Nevers (put in separate pile from favs) FYI there may be stuff left in closet these are just fillers leave them. Go through the Nevers .. separate into Nos, Not Now, Like but don’t know how to wear. Donate or sell No’s, pack up Not Nows.. you can revisit not nows in a few mos n see if you still want. 3. Incorporate your favs (your first pile) with the likes but don’t know how to wear. Make outfits! I’m a minimalist and go through my closet each season. Never really have many items to get rid of but this always helps me refresh my wardrobe without having to buy much or anything at all. Hope this helps!
@sandi-midnight-mueller65503 жыл бұрын
It's basically the same thing I do getting ready to go on vacation... Enough stuff so I don't have to do laundry the whole time I'm gone... That fits and makes me feel good!!
@joannashelton32532 жыл бұрын
this is so simple and so brilliant…and takes the whole person into account.
@kristaallmond20753 жыл бұрын
Your broken down steps for clothing are simply fantastic! I'm pregnant and am trying to declutter and clothing has been a huge road block. I'm going to be a 3 different sizes in the next year! The idea of sorting by size and storing, but ALSO only keeping the amount you need for a week right NOW is just what I needed to move forward. Thank you!
@dcooper67083 жыл бұрын
Because I spent money on it makes it hard to get rid of....of that is so me! Thank you for the encouragement to let go.