The EASIEST way to declutter clothes (in my opinion ;) Quick & Stress Free Closet Declutter

[@vedUtube236]

Start wearing the clothes that you don't like/ wear but can't get rid of them. You will end up hating them and it makes easy to declutter. This is helping me. Oh and no shopping until there's space for them

[@ruthdennisKnits]

youtubelover I like this idea. I already do it with bras, you know if it doesn't feel good wearing it, I throw the bra out that very night. Need to do the same with outer wear

[@CTChick2011]

Yes! I've done the Marie Kondo declutter method in my closet many times. Always refining. And I always have the maybe pile. I rehang them in their own section of the closet and wear them over the next few weeks. After a day in the maybe clothing, you will def know what sparks joy and what sparks: Good bye!

[@dsmith9796]

That's one of the best suggestions I've ever heard. From now on if I'm sitting on the fence post and can't decide about an articles of clothing I'm going to wear them all within a week and then decide!!!! Great idea.

[@dsmith9796]

@@ruthdennisKnits , just cleaned out my bra drawer and I have three bras that I didn't want to get rid of but probably won't wear - you have inspired me - over the next three days I'll know what to do with them!!!

[@vedUtube236]

Yes. I do this for shoes as well. It basically works for every items.

[@erindennis9881]

So, while I didn't use the "build your wardrobe" method, there was one thing you said that was my light bulb moment and caused me to get rid of EIGHT bags of clothes. You said we deserve a wardrobe that makes us feel good. I went through each piece and asked myself "does this item make me feel good when I have it on?". If the answer was no, I got rid of it. No other questions asked. It worked great for me!

[@dsmith9796]

I use your method too! But I also like the idea of shopping in my own closet and pulling out my favorites to make a week's worth of clothes that fit and look the best. I think combining the two methods could be a winner for me.

[@pilatesyogataichifit]

So simple but so true...

[@dianareynolds2171]

Using this advice now, so helpful!!!! Thank you

[@idid138]

Yes, Dawn really knows how to put things in perspective and that is the biggest key to decluttering.

[@13utoober]

So true!

[@thisuniquechica]

The first minute in this video made me realize that your superpower is your empathy. 💚

[@jennylhenry78]

Yes! This may just be the reason Dawn is so relatable.

[@imaginarysea]

I think that is EXACTLY why I love watching her channel.

[@Antistylestyleclub]

And her smile, definitely also her smile :)

[@sarahill4408]

Yes! Seriously it's like she's in my mind. Thanks Dawn!

[@curiositydrawsme9180]

I noticed that too!

[@jacque403]

I take it one step further. I assemble outfits for events-funeral, wedding, church, etc. Then, take a photo of the outfit. This helps me quickly and easily decide what to wear. Also less stress because I know I have what I need.

[@ihartsacto]

That’s really good so you can also see if it looks terrible.

[@HereIAm247]

I keep a visual board on my computer, with every item in my wardrobe. Then I can mix and mach on the computer by dragging it around, and seeing them all together helps inspire me for new combinations. :) I can't go too minimal with my clothes, since there are two laundry machines in the basement for 15 apartments in my building. So I created 3 capsule wadrobes (1 week each, though jeans are shared; I only have 3 pairs). I keep each of the two 'pending' ones in a small box, and the active wardrobe is hanging on the hangers. This way, I can go about two weeks without doing laundry, if there are no available laundry times. I also have 3 bedsheets, 4 towels, 6 hand towels, etc. But because I have a good laundry system, and two machines, I can usually fit it all within the time slot of 4 hours (1 laundry time). Plus, because I 'cycle' through the clothes, they get less worn from the laundry machine, and lasts longer. :)

[@Mamacatwoman]

I LOVE this idea!!! Thank you for sharing it! ;)

[@allisonlunsford7659]

Anybody else just turn on a Minimal Mom playlist and listen like it's a podcast while doing housework? 🙋🏼‍♀️ Just soaking in the motivation!

[@TheMinimalMom]

Thank you Allison, I appreciate that!!!

[@christined2495]

Yessss all the time, but then I have to rewatch so I could actually watch Dawn lol

[@OneFellSwoopDesign]

Love doing this! So encouraging while working around house! Thank you Dawn for your videos and clutter free January!

[@kgibbs2805]

Yes, it's like a friend talking you through the work. Good motivation.

[@popovka]

I've been doing that for about a year now and last week i started a huge decluttering tour in my appartment and it was.. so easy. I think that's because I've taken in, as you say, all the motivation and knowledge, and that makes it easier and even fun to declutter or just pick up and clean.

[@daniellemccray3735]

I'm not a commenter. And I've seen zillions of declutteting videos. This one is so completely straightforward personal. Targeted to the individual struggles. Fantastic way of encouraging and motivating.. to overcome those emotional setbacks. 10/10 review on this one.

[@daniellemccray3735]

One suggestion. You appear to be looking at something on top of the camera in all your videos. It's the only 'glitch' I feel when watching them. Maybe, try looking at the point that makes the viewer feel like you are looking at them.

[@tracygellatly1267]

My revelation: I need a lot fewer clothes for my lifestyle than my fantasy self thought I needed. I'm a proud member of the "outfit repeater" club now and couldn't be happier wearing the clothes I love over and over, sometimes several days in a row!

[@jennylhenry78]

For the past 5 years (after baby#3) I've instituted the rule in my home that me and the children wear the same thing two days in row (they know to get new clothes MWF) and then church clothes Sunday. It means you need less clothes and can fit way more laundry in one load. At one point I was able to wash all four of my childrens clothes for the week in 1 load. Now I've got my 10yo washing her and her 5yo brothers clothes and then the next day my 8yo washes her and her 3yo sisters clothes. I personally only have to do three loads a week (sheets, cleaning rags, and me + hubby's clothes). 🙌🏻

[@samanthab3292]

My favorite joke is "you've worn that before/out fit repeater!" "Yeah I own a washing machine" 😂✌🏻

[@T.T.M.60]

Yes!

[@Smallsizedgarden]

This realization helped me so much! I started buying clothes for my real life and not my fantasy life!!!!! In the past I would buy fancy shoes because they were cute or on sale!!! Then I realized I need great looking comfortable shoes.

[@daisybuchanan5378]

We do the same with meals - cook once, eat the same thing tomorrow night too.

[@brookesmith7359]

We went through my 11 year old daughter’s closet after Christmas and I was prepared for a nasty battle, but when I told her that she should have a closet of only clothes that she loves and that is easy to keep clean, it just shifted her mindset and we knocked that afternoon long project out in 45 minutes. Plus, we also found 2 things from Christmas that she decided she didn’t love, so we were able to return them and get her something else! 🥳🥳 Thank you Dawn, for helping this tired, stressed out Momma out!

[@abbyjoy9957]

My husband and I went through our closets together and allowed our spouse to speak honestly about what they liked or didn't like in the other persons wardrobe. So now we only have clothes that we both like. We had a good time doing it together.

[@returnofthereasoner3200]

Great idea, Abby!

[@solidstate9451]

My husband loves colourful clothing, I only feel comfortable in black. We hate each others clothing. But that's o.k.

[@cogit8able]

That sounds hazardous to my emotional health. Not gonna lie.

[@Isabel_fit]

I’m glad that works for you and your husband! My husband loves so many of the clothes that I either hate wearing or hate washing (some are super delicate and I can’t stand hand washing) so I end up keeping things bc I feel unintentionally guilted into it 😂

[@mistyazaleski6542]

@@cogit8able you could ask the person getting rid of it first then if the person says “yes I like this” then the spouse/partner can give their opinion. If the person says no then the spouse/partner probably shouldn’t give their opinion 😅

[@morganwickman8451]

This is LIFE CHANGING! I've spent so much time trying to rationalize keeping full wardrobes because "one day I'll fit them again", meanwhile my closet is losing more space and I'm losing more sanity and confidence! Thank you for this.

[@paisley8519]

Ah ... finally, someone has addressed my issue! I have a closet half full of clothes that spark joy ... on the hanger. They are so adorable that I can’t get rid of them. They make me happy ... on the hanger. I imagine myself wearing them and having them make me feel as cute as they look ... on the hanger. Not so much on me. Ok, I get it now. Sigh. 🙄 Thanks Dawn, I needed that!

[@rosemarycornwall5162]

You put that very well, I'm with you on that one.

[@dsmith9796]

Very well said. It's a lesson sometimes hard to learn but we are all better off getting rid of those kind of clothes. I bought several items that fit the description of "great on the hanger" over this past fall - right before Christmas I got real with these clothes - tried them on, even took pics of myself - the pictures didn't lie!!! I returned about ten items to stores that still had the tags. I will do better in 2021.

[@Dbb27]

You’re too funny! You hit my problem on the head! MY head!

[@Dbb27]

@@dsmith9796 I love the take a picture idea!

[@phoenixrising8007]

Radical acceptance 💥🎯

[@emilyl4342]

I like that you added the bit about "just because it looks good on the hanger, doesn't mean it will look good on me". It took me years to realize I had been buying clothes for the body I wanted, not the body I had, and then I'd feel bad when it wasn't as modest as I anticipated or that it made me look like a square. Sometimes the most obvious advice still needs to be heard!

[@lrhudy93]

Yes! I absolutely did that, too! Crying in front of the closet, not having anything to wear, and not wanting to attend functions. After I got a few pieces of clothes that FIT, I started feeling better about myself and got that motivation to take more self care and began losing weight. I've lost 50lbs and kept it off for 3 years now. I can attest that this strategy works!! THANKS, DAWN!!

[@TheMinimalMom]

Wow!! That's so cool!!!!

[@adrianasb4213]

same in my case not buying clothes that fit a chubbier version of me felt like I can ignore/deny that part, later on I lost some weight and the bigger clothes went a little worn out in the process

[@sonja_rademacher]

Good work! You can be proud of yourself that you accepted yourself.

[@gwenj5419]

I remember after gaining weight, not wanting to go to church because nothing fit right and it led to feeling of self-disgust. So sad that clothing can effect our worship of God.

[@KatherineTheGr8t]

Wow! Congrats on the waistline - for 3 yrs! You have obviously made a lifestyle change and that's hard but so rewarding (I feel the same way about quitting alcohol, I never have to worry about people stopping by because I know I'll always be sober, but my clothes are a different story...working on that one)

[@katherinemerrilees5130]

The fact that you said that you get the clothes out of the laundry basket or OFF THE BATHROOM FLOOR, made me subscribe to your channel and watch to the end of this video. I feel that you are a real person, who actually wants to help me near where I’m at, and that’s good enough for me to wait through the adverts and sponsor messages. Good job x

[@33snowgal]

Fun fact in Saskatchewan we call a ‘hooded sweatshirt” a Bunny hug.

[@colleent3631]

Im from the kangaroo jacket generation,😊

[@sonja_rademacher]

Cute 😍

[@marycomstock6098]

That was the best fun fact I’ve heard in a while 🥰

[@gigics1612]

I absolutely 🥰 the name, “bunny hug” for a hoodie!

[@clairewillow6475]

Adorable

[@reallifelove]

I was so inspired by your videos that I immediately attacked my closet and turned out 3 huge sacks of stuff for donation! Thankfully the fighting spirit did not stop there - I started tackling the huge amount of toys and books we've been piling up, and have already found a new home for many of them! Feels so liberating! Most importantly: I shared these ideas with my 8 year old son, and instead of holding on to his old stuff, he hopped on board and helped me designate a big pile of his stuff for donation! Now THIS definitely sparks joy :-)

[@sarapawsonherrington2595]

It could be like packing for a trip we are excited to take, and we are choosing the clothes we want to look our best in for pictures. Really our life is like a trip, and we are traveling through time, birth to death. We should be excited to look our best each day on this gift of a literal trip of a lifetime!! That thought inspires me to get your process going! Thank you so much for the help and encouragement!

[@lindaneese3586]

Very well said because it is so true. Your comment really points out why it is important to feel good about what you're wearing. Thanks

[@denisea3465]

This is exactly how I see it! Packing for a trip. You always only take the stuff you like the best and are most comfortable in... or you end up regretting it while you are away, right? (I remember packing a pair of horrifyingly uncomfortable shoes that were ADORABLE and my feet so regretted that!)

[@dsmith9796]

That's such a beautiful way at looking at life!!! I'll keep your comment in mind while I work to curate my closet.

[@pilatesyogataichifit]

Yes I noticed last year when packing for a trip that I did not want to take with me 90% of the stuff I own. In the end, I choose the usual faithful few styles and items. So not much point keeping the rest!!!

[@calilayne5569]

Well said! Thank you so much!

[@EricaLucasLoves]

I deserve clothes that fit me and I feel good in. Love the things you say!

[@micheletopolosek8408]

I needed to hear this. I gained 30 pounds in 2020. I need to quit "punishing" myself for the weight gain. Again, thank you.

[@brendarobbins8832]

I remember something I heard years ago... you wear 20% of your wardrobe 80% of time. I’m cleaning out my closet/dresser this week and I’m keeping you with me! 😂❤️

[@TyMrs]

God truly brought me to your channel and you have been such a blessing!❤ I'm a SAHM and I had been praying for a better way to manage our home and keep my sanity 🤯with 3 children (1yr, 3yr and 8yr) while my husband works during the day. You have been such an inspiration and I have begun to release the emotions and fear tied to many items I thought I needed to keep. Decluttering has hands down been one of the most beneficial things I have ever done for my family. Thanks for being so transparent and encouraging! GOD BLESS 🙏🏾

[@Michelle-by9fp]

I was in your boat 1 year ago 👐 my kids are similar ages, 2, 5, and 9 ☺. Going through Dawn's videos has been so amazing! I have made so much progress! My only issue is Christmas, I take a few steps back and end up overwhelmed all over again. But my clothing is decluttered and it is SO NICE having only what I like to wear in my closet

[@charlottestewart4595]

Slow and steady......🥰 Dawn's advice is so simple but profound and many times she sees things from an angle I did not. I have followed her over a year and have very slowly adopted many of her ideas.

[@natalieeubank4533]

Here too!! Her channel has made such a big difference in my home!! I actually dusted yesterday because I had simplified what is on my shelves. I have kids that are 1, 4 and 6.

[@eleanorigby5881]

I'm feeling overwhelmed at how much left I have to declutter. Feels like a lot, and I still won't be nearly as minimal as dawn...

[@BettyBoop-bd3ru]

Nothing more disheartening than feeling uncomfortable in your current size then trying to squeeze into too small clothing because you’re too stubborn to buy new clothes in a bigger size. I finally got over this and went to a resale shop for some items that actually fit comfortably. I love how she explained this process. ❤

[@emilymcclain591]

Oh Dawn! This is one of THE most helpful videos you have ever done. This totally removes the emotion and makes clothes just clothes and my body something that needs to be covered in love. Thank you!!

[@TheMinimalMom]

Covered in love!! Yes, that gave me goosebumps-- well said!!!

[@allieblank5992]

Agreed!

[@pattytarnowski7740]

Absolutely! Your BEST clothes video yet!!!

[@aragan68]

Your encouragement to only have things that fit made me realize how negative it was for me to dig through all my small clothes to find something to wear. I gained over 60 lbs in the last year due to a Med change and it has been devastating to my wardrobe. I reduced what is in my closet to a fourth of what I had, and pretty much emptied my dresser. It feels so good!

[@meganrasey4377]

I just had my 4th baby 13 days ago. I'm so thankful that he is HERE and that his birth was complication free and swift. Now, I look ahead to the next 6 months where my body will be recovering and using up some of my stored insulation to feed my precious boy. Sometime in June I'll be ready to see if it's time to set goals for a healthier pattern or weight for myself. In the mean time, I need to celebrate the miracle my body was used for. 💪❤💙👶🧡

[@northstar4851]

Congratulations! Great view!

[@northstar4851]

Dawn, you looked so great in the lighter colors you modeled!

[@suzih.6687]

Awww Congratulations on your new baby! A friend bought me a two piece navy blue stretchy outfit for after birth and I practically lived in it. I put pjs on and took the outfit off to wash and dry and back on it went.

[@SReid111]

Absolutely beautiful outlook...so refreshing!

[@pacempire5046]

I got rid of over 50 items from my closet after watching this, thank you for the inspiration!

[@AZHITW]

I live in the valley (Phoenix area) so no winter wardrobe necessary in our climate; I did a total closet clean out several years ago, I mean I donated every single thing I owned (minus one outfit, PJs, and a coat), and then went shopping with my BFF and bought everything new. Now everything in my closet fits, I love it and wear it, and everything fits onto one 6 1/2 ft. rod (everything spaced 1 inch apart), and four drawers. Best thing I ever did for myself.

[@luisamaute4783]

This is the easiest closet declutter system I've seen EVER... and i've watched a lot of videos lol. Thank you!

[@patsavinda1703]

Great advice, good points! I want to share something I started doing a few years ago while in the dressing room looking for clothes. When changing into the store clothes do NOT face the mirror. Take yours off put the potential clothes on , turn and look at yourself in the mirror- trust your first reaction when you see yourself. This has been working great for me!

[@anitas5817]

Great idea!

[@cynthiabooth10]

I wear a cute outfit to go shopping and whatever I put on HAS to be look as nice or nicer than what I wore to the store!

[@janstanley538]

I LOVE this way of decluttering my clothing. I have learned so much for you. BTW I am 62 years old!

[@TheSecretSlob]

Love the 'building' on the bed' method! I am totally a visual person and like seeing everything at once in one place! Cheers to getting rid of too-tight jeans! :)

[@creekhouse9415]

This is much better than throwing all of your clothes in a heap on the bed or floor just because some "expert" tells you to purge that way. Too much work that way. But this is sensible. Thanks!

[@adriane522]

I use my bed like when I pack for vacation (not that I've done that lately, ahem). So, the way you're building your wardrobe is kind of like planning a trip from one laundry day to the next. 😂

[@saraburton9037]

Love that idea!

[@Dragonridermom]

I love this thought. I used to travel regularly for work and had no problem knowing what to pack for a week away. I am going to try using the same thought process now that I am working from home.. "packing/planning from one laundry day to the next.

[@T.T.M.60]

Well put and I do the same thing when going on a vacation.

[@patsycathcart1]

Yes! I thought of the same thing! I could do this like I’m packing for a trip... that I’m not going to take. 😜

[@ChocolateHeart90]

Just from the first 3 minutes I fell in love with you 😍 We care way too much about how we look to others instead of just rocking our bodies the way they are any time and feel comfortable

[@marilynham2777]

1) acknowledge that you deserve to have clothes that fit and you feel good in 2) build out wardrobe on clean slate based on what you are currently wearing (e.g. work or at home); how many do you need: leggings, casual tops, etc. Only select things you like and feel good in. 3) make a plan for what's left. Three possibilities: pack it away, donate it, sell it.

[@suzy1676]

So glad you are acknowledging the relationship between clothes and how we feel about ourselves. Watching someone sort through clothes who is thin and in shape can be discouraging. But Watching someone who understands what it's like to have NOTHING to wear that you feel good in due to weight issues is so refreshing! I like that you are recognizing the issue but coming up with a practical solution. ❤

[@karenm656]

Love how real you are about how little emotional energy we all have these days😄

[@kimberlystrickland189]

I love that you said getting rid of the horrible clothes that dont fit is self care. I heard that today in the correct ear. Lol. Thank you.

[@NatalieBennett]

*Love what you had to say about the emotional implications of the roller coaster that is CLOTHING! 🎢Love this objective approach, Dawn! Thanks so much for asking me to be part of this collab! Love spreading the good news with you about a simplified life!* ♥️♥️♥️

[@karenm656]

Just came across one of your videos for first time yesterday, and loved it.

[@NatalieBennett]

@@karenm656 ♥️♥️♥️

[@gailtester8749]

Natalie, I found you through Dawn and am enjoying your channel very much!

[@minimalzebra]

Natalie 👍❤️

[@crystalcsuka2205]

If your looking for another channel to add, “Small Changes” with Sarah and Caleb.. They’re an Australian family who’ve been minimalists for a few years now.. She is one of my fave minimal family channels to watch along with Dawn and Natalie.. You 3 are inspiration and my down time.. 💕

[@janetjaken1389]

Great idea! The first time I didn't say "Ugh, too overwhelming." I love it!

[@cherylr7180]

You’ve said before that no one needs clothes in their closet that “taunt”them. So true! No more keeping things because I paid too much, I like it but it doesn’t fit, etc. I want to open my closet and see only things that make me happy and comfortable. Thanks for another awesome video.

[@nikkistasiak7777]

I have been putting off decluttering my closet for months. I finally made myself start with a goal of 30 minutes last night. I turned on your video playlists and I have to say I am so proud of myself. No I’m not to a minimalist quite yet but I got rid of two full trash bags of clothes that don’t serve me anymore. It’s an incredible shift! Can’t wait for the rest of the house!

[@beccagiessing3890]

I'm a clothes hoarder/fashionista! Building our home, we had to extend the walk-in closet 3'. Tips that have helped me: 1) Only keep 1 size above and below your current size 2) Rather than removing all of your clothes (kon-mari method) pull out the 20% of your closet you wear 80% of the time. It really makes decluttering what's left in the closet much easier. 3) Turn all your hangers backwards. At end of the year, any hanger that wasn't turned around, you didn't wear, and it can go in the donate pile! 4) Have a donate bin in your closet 5) Create a "hold" box (if you can't make a decision, and you get stuck, put this article of clothing into a "hold" box) Set a time limit and once you hit that date the clothes left in the "hold" bin are expired and move to the donate box 6) If it's damaged and you haven't taken it to the seamstress - donate it! 7) If you don't want to pay for dry-cleaning any longer - donate or sell high maintenance clothing. 8) If you've spent a lot of $$ on clothing, it makes donating more difficult. Try selling higher priced articles of clothing on Mercari or Posh Mark.

[@suzannefield7583]

Yes yes yes! These are great suggestions! Thank you!!

[@alexamunoz7943]

Good perspective to just pick and save your favorites. That’s what we subconsciously do on a daily basis anyway! Thanks :) Recently accepted that I do not have a 20 yr old body anymore and that my “mom shape” is good too. There is something beautiful about the fact that motherhood changed me inside AND out.

[@jonelledavenport8701]

This is the 5th decluttering video in the collaboration I have watched this week. I purged twice this week. I'm now ready to fill in the gaps and buy with intent. You ladies have been a God send. Thank you so much 😊

[@TheMinimalMom]

Yay!! So glad to hear this!!!!

[@dsmith9796]

I have also been watching Jennifer L. Scott's decluttering videos this month - great inspiration.

[@leahgraham1016]

I like this strategy....I'm going to do this. I hold onto things I don't need...don't fit...or don't even like!

[@gingersnap1568]

Put your clothes in a "Time out" when they are not conforming to your needs at the moment.

[@njmaryannez]

@@LarryNewmanSusanNewman Not necessarily that “you don’t like them.” More often, it’s that you need less formal, dressy clothes; or you are ten pounds heavier, so they don’t fit well; or they are for a different season. Not conforming to your current needs - but they may fit your needs once we go back to the office, or lose the weight, or it’s summer.

[@debbiemabrey9240]

Love the idea of time out!!!

[@karensawyer3639]

I love "a time out bin" phrase & think the word "quarantine" sadly became associated with this pandemic for some, but I STILL think it makes sense for it too, & use that word for my stored unused clothes/ items. ( Dawn, YOU were the 1st person I had ever heard use that word for decluttering items, so when I hear U say it, it does not make me think of it in any other way than intended. 😁

[@declutter-newbie]

Another tip that I have found helpful (especially having lost weight the past couple of years) is that just because it's a smaller size and now suddenly fits doesn't necessarily mean that it's flattering and that you should wear it. Love going back through your channel library ❤😊

[@emmayeager5864]

Lovely as always. 💕 Vested Interests calls it her "Trial Separation Bin"

[@cindywilkinson1610]

🤣🤣👍👍

[@makingithome8493]

P.S. just think: your current size is someone else’s dream goal size. ⭐️ don’t beat yourself up ladies.

[@Love_sChild]

Ooooh! I like this one! JUST the words I needed to hear today. Thank you Laura and God Bless. ⭐️

[@shantedewise7345]

You are soo right..thanks for that!

[@mckenzieholstine9391]

O my goodness. Your so right. I just posted a comment about my current size and how i really don't like my current size that much.

[@mckenzieholstine9391]

I feel like i am beating myself up because of my current size when reality i just need to find and buy clothes that make me feel like i am pretty, beautiful, worthy to have beautiful clothes. I need clothes that make me happy. Right now and every day i don't like getting out of my pjs because every time i try to go to put on a outfit well i really don't end up liking the outfit but i end up staying in that outfit because i just don't know what to wear and i don't know what i all want or need out of a outfit. So i really struggle with clothes and i hate it so much but i don't know what to do about clothes. I think a lot of it also has to do with i really don't know my style all that much either which doesn't help.

[@makingithome8493]

@@mckenzieholstine9391 I hope you’ve gone and gotten something that you can wear that fits!💗🤍 I have gained and lost from having 5 kids, so I know what you mean when you start feeling frumpy and give up because you don’t really know what your style is anymore. For me, I love to be comfortable. I am not the most stylish or trendy person, but I like comfortable, yet modern-ish clothes lol TJ Maxx or Ross are my main stores☺️ I finally bought myself a pair of jeans from Marshall’s that were $16 last week. They are a stretchy type of Jean material and feel good! I’m so glad I finally bought some😆 Then just get a cute top that can be casual or dressed up…I like soft tees, and black or a cute print you actually like (it does not have to be the latest trend!) to go with it. Just one outfit for you to feel human and yes, you are worthy. ♥️

[@lhumpy190]

That pink top with the gathered sleeves looks so nice on you.

[@sallydansereau1270]

Purged my closet, and finally got my husband to purge his. Found we no longer need the extra wardrobe in our bedroom so now have a bigger space. Love your gentle approach to dealing with clothes that don’t fit.

[@homestead.hippie]

When you talked about standing in front of your closet in tears and your husband looking on like what's wrong lol. I have literally experienced that multiple times, i decluttered a ton of clothes and have finally started to build a functional wardrobe i still have some prices i need and some clothes to get rid but this is my favorite method, so thank you!!

[@therealfinnaspring8585]

I'm just now getting through an intense multi year long depression (my husband is still struggling) and in our 2nd bedroom we just had TONS of stuff in there didn't even know what was in there. Went through it with my mom and we took 4 trashbags (extra huge trashbags) of clothes to goodwill and 2 trashbags of ripped and paint stained clothes out to the curb. I had NO IDEA we even had half of these items i couldn't even believe it. I think they start to mate and multiple when left unattended.

[@sandihumeniuk4462]

This is the first time I have watched a video that has addressed emotional attachment of clothes, and how we put too much emphasis on them. I recently heard someone say reverse the thinking just as you said, take out of the closet/drawers what you want to keep or use. And then do what you wish with the rest. This makes total sense!!!!

[@justkevinlol]

Here's a thought that made me cut down my wardrobe in half: "You are worth more than the clothes that are holding you back from your dreams. Let go of the past and chase the future" :)) I'll see you all in 2022 soon! Peace!

[@vivwootten6832]

Be interesting to do the following exercise: if we had to move out for the next 2 months what clothes would we take?

[@Melessenz]

i always have the problem not to wear the clothes i love and instead wear the old clothes just because i don't want the new clothes to get old or break. I want to break through that habit. Maybe packing away more of the old stuff might force me to wear it. 😅 If there are more tips for this, i would love to hear it. ❤️

[@hanneshuette]

Hi! I think perhaps you are looking for tips from Dawn but perhaps I can offer something too.... Diane in Denmark is a great coach in this area (you can find her on YT). She really encourages to dress well every day right down to proper shoes, wearing that special inherited jewellery, using the special birthday present scent etc. Don’t save things for a rainy day - you are worth feeling great right now and today. I don’t wear such dressy things as Diane but I do get dressed to shoes every day in things I like and even do the gardening, dog-walking etc. in them. Most of us have washing machines these days and clothes don’t usually actually get ruined - even doing messy things like housework, cooking, gardening, spending time in the forest or whatever - they just need washing at some point. I think it is, like Dawn says, about self-care or self-appreciation. You deserve to look your best and feel good about your self EVERY DAY. So yes, letting old stuff go that you don’t enjoy and giving yourself permission to wear the new is probably good. Perhaps you could take the approach of “I’ll at least try it for a while” and while you are trying it you could pack all the old stuff away so that you are not tempted for the “trial period”. Good luck!

[@Melessenz]

@@hanneshuette i'm currently living in japan. didn't figure out how to wash clean with cold water here. But of course if i would life longer here i would get a warm water machine, which is rear but available. also buying clothes which fit my western body size is challanging. but we are moving back in to the west. then i guess i could try again to get ready more often.

[@hanneshuette]

@@Melessenz I hope you find some tips that really work for you. Remember you are special and worth it 🧡

[@KitKatUniverse]

I do something like this too! If something fits me and looks good, I think, I can’t wear it too much and wear it out. LOL it makes no sense!

[@dianedevery3711]

Love this idea, except for my 'forever shedding' dalmatian. ❤

[@patriciavogelsperger9645]

When I have spent a lot of $ on clothes and then changed my mind about how I felt about it.....donating it is like giving to charity. Someone will be so happy with it who, perhaps, couldn’t afford it. That makes me happy knowing someone will wear it and love it.

[@michellewalker7149]

Great reminder. Most of my best clothing purchases have come from thrift stores, and I am very grateful for the people who let them go because I couldn't afford to buy that level of quality in new clothes.

[@dcooper6708]

Because I spent money on it makes it hard to get rid of....of that is so me! Thank you for the encouragement to let go.

[@lucindawhittenburg8835]

Maybe today is the day! I have been immobilized the last 2 years from emotions!!! Thank you!!!

[@saly7321]

Hi very good video on how to build a capsule. First time I understand how to do. Thank you very much. From Paris. Keep safe

[@kellycarter2497]

Hi Dawn. I learned about Joshua Becker from you. He wears multiples of the same clothing, little to manage, fewer choices. I bought 3 pairs of pants 2 black, 1 gray. And 5 sweaters -3 red, 1 white, 1 black. I have several other items, but it's so much easier to get dressed, not having too many choices. This works best for me. Thanks for all you do.

[@sharonproctor4079]

Best video I've seen on tackling the piles of clothes. I lose clothes. So not finding what I want I end up buying new ones. Clothes are emotional. I have a skirt fri college decades ago because it was when I had a 23 inch waist which I will never have again after kids and menopause.

[@anitas5817]

I watched your video on Facebook about this too. This is truly the best video I’ve seen on decluttering clothes. Thank you so much for all you do to help people.

[@TheMinimalMom]

Wow, thank you Anita, I really appreciate that!!!

[@kimberleymckay5949]

Ok, now this sounds doable. I swear, I just freeze when I stand in front of my closet thinking of cleaning and organizing.

[@conniesoares157]

I simplified my wardrobe back in the fall after watching your videos. I do like this method of leaving and just pulling out the “no” items! Last night I came across a picture of my past home back in the 90’s and saw all the Clutter of decor I used to have in my front room ...I was mortified! Thanks so much for all these Tips and Tricks for making our lives simple and home easy to keep neat and tidy!

[@katel204]

I’ve come back to this video multiple times while decluttering. Thank you!

[@Kate.West.]

I love your method! I’m generally a very minimal person and don’t have a ton of clothes (I’m one of those freaky people that loves to be minimal and tidy).... but having permission to get rid of things that are too small or were a “mistake purchase” is so freeing! Your right, I do feel crappy when I open the wardrobe and see clothes that don’t suit me or are too small. Thanks so much!

[@heatherframpton9693]

I'd add "moving cross-country to a different climate" as a big motivator! 😊❤ Thanks for these tips, which are helpful for further purging my wardrobe. 😁❤️

[@debbieclaassens771]

As always, Thank You Dawn, for presenting helpful, real life information in such a supportive and non-judgemental way. I love how you are so natural about saying, just grab your clothes, off the floor, out of the hamper or wherever - so good for making me (and I’m guessing many others) feel normal about not living in a show home. 💜

[@loxleybattle2591]

Yes, AND it means I don’t have to wash all my clothes before I start.

[@joannashelton3253]

this is so simple and so brilliant…and takes the whole person into account.

[@thestorykeeper6818]

Thank you for acknowledging that selling one's clothes requires energy... "You could always sell it" is often touted as a quick and easy solution as if it doesn't require any work...

[@oatssettle846]

We all make mistakes. So true. Learn from them and move forward. I needed to hear this.

[@jennylhenry78]

A lot of people don't like the idea of a capsule wardrobe bc it's limiting. I was able to make one that's interchangeable within seasons. If you choose colors that all go well together you can make many outfits out of just a few things. What seems to work for me was 3 of almost everything; 3 pants (dark wash jeans, black jeans, white jeans) 3 skirts 3 shorts 3 leggings 2 tank tops 5 tops each of short sleeve shirts 5 long sleeve shirts 3 blouses 3 cardigans 3 sweatshirts/hoodies 3 dresses I even have 3 thsirts and 1 leggings for cleaning/exercise By having 5 tops and 3 bottoms you can basically make 15 outfits, and then when you have many bottom options it becomes exponentially more (over 65 different outfits bc I didn't include wearing a cardigan over a shirt or dresses)!

[@xLovebirdx]

I do a modified version of this. I have one light and one dark neutral in every item type. Ex. One dark grey and one cream cardigan. Then I have my two colors blue and purple for all additional clothes. Every statement piece can go with all neutrals and all the colors go together (except patterns).

[@dawandabocanegra8935]

I did this after watching your videos and it was a game changer.Thank you Dawn!I used to be late to church trying to figure out what to wear. I had so many clothes that were my size but didn't look good on me.My clothes were either too fitted or too frumpy. I never wanted to buy more clothes because I had too many but they weren't real options. You gave me permission to grab a few new things that fit well to fill in the gaps in my wardrobe. I got rid of 70% of my clothes even clothes with tags on them which was why I hoarded them but you gave me permission to let go and not worry about money already spent.Now I have more to wear than ever before! I don't even miss all the clothes I held on to.All my clothes fit so I don't waste time trying on clothes anymore. Now I can grab and go. No more Beyonce/Golden Girls wardrobe for me.

[@annarepke1118]

Seriously! Has ANYONE been motivated to lose weight by keeping smaller clothes? NOT ME EVER!

[@TyMrs]

No, no and no! Lol... After having kids you always want to go back to the 'before'. Keeping the old clothes never works. We just need to throw out the scale with the old clothes! 😅

[@mjcossel6136]

Actually, yes. 🙋‍♀️ I’m almost ready to put on an old but beautiful pair of jeans! So excited to get there! I’m gonna be so pumped when they fit me again! It shows me I’m getting my life back (after babies).

[@sahdogwrangler5594]

@@pixi78 what a great idea! I have suitcases taking up room in an extra closet & I've never thought of putting my extra clothes in them! Thanks!!

[@laurahanson5179]

So true! My smaller clothes didn’t motivate me to lose weight, but it sure was fun to put them back in again after I lost 50lbs in about 5 months!!!

[@Laura55sere]

I have too many clothes because they are in three different sizes

[@lizzieamw4977]

Getting ready to welcome our baby in December. Baby stuff has snuck in and all of the sudden we have so many clothes to the point where I was sitting on the floor crying because I was overwhelmed with laundry. I'm going to do this thank you for the motivation again!

[@danyellesibert6724]

Dawn I’m only halfway through this video and I’m in tears. Thank you! Of many many videos I have watched to help me with this, your has helped my journey and I’m doing this now! I’ve slowly become a minamalist. I thought I was. Then I cleared more and more and returned numerous times to the same spots. My wardrobe is down to a tiny spot in my closet, but none of it fits me and I don’t like anything. I have decided the tiny bit I’m holding on to doesn’t work because it doesn’t work. Time to grab a few shirts and pants I need. I’m so happy because I get to purchase something that I need. But I am real with myself that I don’t need that dressy outfit that looks so great right now. Thank you!

[@pegasus6500]

The best tip I've ever heard. Much easier than deciding what to get rid of. Thank you and lovely greetings from Germany 🥰

[@charissaeden9604]

One of my favorite things about your channel is your intro. You’re straight to the point!

[@T.T.M.60]

Building your wardrobe on your bed and adding to it items that you wear now is a great idea! I get so overwhelmed trying to go through each item one at a time in my closet. Plus deciding how many of each item you need is so important, especially for me as there are definitely certain items of clothing I really love and tend to over buy.

[@tkka2418]

This is the best advice/process of decluttering clothes I have ever heard. Thank you!!

[@lynns7262]

I love your non-judge-mental attitude!!! Your personality is perfect for this!!!

[@Karen-DeMars]

Wow, Dawn - your approach to this was so thoughtful, sensitive, intuitive ... and still completely practical! It gave me a really healthy perspective to deal with my closet and the way it “makes me feel.” Thank you so much. ♥️

[@susana5052]

After watching dozens of videos like this this is the only one that makes sense to me. I can look at something on the hanger it might spark joy but that doesn’t mean I’m gonna wear it. My biggest hurdle is possibly getting rid of some thing that I will need. I grew up poor so throwing out for giving away some thing that I would wear such as to a funeral or a wedding really bummed me out. I’ll probably use this method the most but I still need to Declutter what I have currently but do it safely as you mentioned. Please pray for me.🙏🏻💖🙏🏻 I’m 100% disabled and I find myself having to work clothes that I wouldn’t normally wear because I don’t have the energy to do laundry. I’m scared and I’m alone…but I still want to get rid of stuff so my son won’t have to deal with my mess once I am gone.

[@dianepetty9605]

I have been moving stuff from one room to another for several years. Your videos have finally given me the freedom to let go of things I no longer need. We took 5 boxes to donate to the thrift store yesterday and that is only the beginning. Thank you for making this so clear.

[@franpatzcraig6713]

Thanks for giving us permission to get rid of things that don't suit us! My mom died over 10 years ago. I took quite a few of her clothes because we wore the same size and because they were good quality, attractive, classic clothing that never goes out of style. However, I had never worn any of them in over 10 years because Mom and I had different lifestyles, different tastes, and different skin tone and hair color! I can smile about donating them because someone will get joy over owning those classic, expensive, beautiful pieces instead of them sitting in bins at the back of my closet.

[@WallFlower81]

Thank you Dawn! I feel like sometimes I need that reminder-“you deserve to wear clothing that fits!” Appreciate all that you do!

[@bobbijonichols6786]

I just watched this again. And I did it!! AMAZING! I love this method. Thank you so much! If you were here I would hug you! What a difference in my feelings of going through my clothes. THANK YOU!!! 👏👏👏

[@Belitabelita]

This is the first video I see that makes sence 100% and i've seen sooo many videos to try to inspire me, also loved the paper declutter ones, thank you so much, I've bein watching some of your videos and loved the editing on the minimalist video on things you dont buy anymore, very intertaning had me watching through the whole thing😊 blessing to you.

[@jocelynsloan7801]

I love how matter of fact this is. Takes out the emotion. 👍🏻👍🏻

[@sonja_rademacher]

Emotions can really be a problem but I want to tell you about how happy happy happy I am since I put all the clothes that I "paid money for" or that "remind me of something" into a box. Now there are only clothes that I love in my closet. It is such a pleasure to open that closet! Maybe, one day, I can let go of the other clothes that are in the box. Until then I enjoy my tidy closet and all the clothes that fit me and that look great.

[@annemariesamples5582]

BEST METHOD EVER! Guilt free decisions! I love this video!!

[@annemariesamples5582]

What hangs me up... I'm at my heaviest weight ever, I cannot wear 90% of my clothes that mostly fit in August! And mostly bc my arms are huge! I've always been a med in tops, but have to buy sleeveless or 2x for my arms! So depressing. I keep tops hoping to fit someday soon... how do I shrink my arms?? I know, that's another video on another channel somewhere.

[@laurafindsjoy]

I just used this method to help my daughter whittle down her wardrobe and it was GREAT! She now has room in her drawers to put away clean laundry, and EVERYTHING in her closet and dresser is something she would actually wear. THANK YOU! Now to do my own! 😆

[@dig1272]

This is brilliant. Absolutely brilliant and it's going to work for me. Thank you, thank you, thank you!! I've seen probably 5 or 6 other youtubers techniques for this and this one is it for me!! Now I'm excited to do it!!!! 💃🤸‍♀️👊💕

[@Simply.Mariela]

It’s taken me a while to downsize my clothes. It’s been difficult but so worth it. Last month I did a video decluttering my closet and it’s the most simplified it’s ever been!

[@Myeverydaywifelife]

No worries Mariela, sometimes you can’t do things in one full swoop. Last time I declutter my closet I got rid of 1/2 my shirts, 35! 🙀 that means I had 70 shirts 🤪 Each time I declutter my closet I keep less and less. 💜

[@kelleyolsen702]

Literally have an entire closet and dresser full of clothes I don’t wear. I have my wardrobe in bins in my bathroom. Need this so much. Thanks for the tips!

[@kristaallmond2075]

Your broken down steps for clothing are simply fantastic! I'm pregnant and am trying to declutter and clothing has been a huge road block. I'm going to be a 3 different sizes in the next year! The idea of sorting by size and storing, but ALSO only keeping the amount you need for a week right NOW is just what I needed to move forward. Thank you!

[@brendajennings5438]

Thanks for addressing the emotional tangles that come with clothing! Off to the closet to sort!