As a man. I'm eternally grateful to the girls that are calling these things out so that it can be addressed. If nothing is said, then we wouldn't pay attention to it. It's taking days, but I'm slowly getting around to being a better person and I apologize for all those who are affected by our sexualization of you ladies who never asked to be sexualized in the first place.
@shaos33166 ай бұрын
Its all leftist b.s.
@JLHoskins2 жыл бұрын
You could hear the fear and pain in her voice as she told her story. I feel like that alone shows the effect of sexualized media.
@andelynburns88943 жыл бұрын
I gave this one year ago today! My One Year Talk-Aversary, if you will😂🥰
@Forcsythe3 жыл бұрын
Hi.
@andelynburns88943 жыл бұрын
@@Forcsythe hi
@IbrahimIbrahim-dm3tw3 жыл бұрын
Is this really u?
@andelynburns88943 жыл бұрын
@@IbrahimIbrahim-dm3tw yup!
@nariah20403 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for talking about this :)
@missella36424 жыл бұрын
so sad how few views this one has.
@jacobleither48733 жыл бұрын
Maybe if she was twerking she would get more views.
@zeljkaznatizeljka27583 жыл бұрын
@@jacobleither4873 hahah yeah, or at the least if she was wearing a swimsuit
@some.generic.username52543 жыл бұрын
Also the fact that the channel has 30 million subscribers
@Jessby783 жыл бұрын
People don't realize how important this is that is why
@grainbread5393 жыл бұрын
@@Jessby78 it was lame as heck.
@lisherlisher8274 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your courage and for your message. I am sorry for what you went through and hope giving strength to others has helped you heal. You are a great role model for your sister! Great job.
@Derlet304 жыл бұрын
She is beautiful, but I feel profoundly sorry for what happened to her in childhood. She needs a lot of therapy, love and support to fully overcome whatever residual pain she still has from the abuse. She has grown a lot from the experience, but she is definitely still scarred. Her crying at the end and her overall downcast demeanor, makes that so clear. I thank her and the team at TEDx for allowing her to express herself. That in itself is healing and empowering for survivors of any kind of abuse. Very moving presentation ❤ So courageous amd brave!
@miliz59424 жыл бұрын
Very interesting and devastating at the same time. She is a woman of great courage, and her words resonated with me. I also have younger sisters and I want them to be able to live in a safe world. I hope this video reaches more people.
@willsander61782 жыл бұрын
I think a lot of people are coming to this conclusion naturally. The overton window has gone too far one way. Social movements get co-opted and make wrong turns all the time, but in time I think we will keep moving towards a better society, even with regressions like this. It's just important to keep talking.
@shareesekyle75873 жыл бұрын
Her ability to allow us to hear her passion was amazing
@grainbread5393 жыл бұрын
She looks like a stereotypical liberal
@R.U.E.Entertainment3 жыл бұрын
@@grainbread539 and what if she’s not a liberal?
@AirForceMDs3 жыл бұрын
Agree with the multiple comments of not enough views. Should be shared by everyone who sees it.
@skeliskellington52333 жыл бұрын
I have no words to say how much I appreciate this talk, you truly are an inspiration and a role model to look up to, I’m 16 but I want to help you and countless others to build a safer and more accepting world
@andelynburns88943 жыл бұрын
I’m only 17, being young just means we have more time to fight for a safer world. I also have no words to express my appreciation, your response makes all the anxiety of this talk and it’s process worth it. So thank you❤️❤️❤️
@Aturmare10 ай бұрын
Thank you for this, we need more of these themes to be talked about.
@selehadinhabesi38553 жыл бұрын
also dont forget sexualized fashion. which leaves no curve to the imagination
@iguess39004 жыл бұрын
I love her, she is my new hero
@knack61572 жыл бұрын
I am so weak, I would never be able to do this, she is a really strong human being
@zaidhernandez46012 жыл бұрын
Good, I'm glad someone spoke on this
@ticmanyt85392 жыл бұрын
She is veryyyy intellectual and informative.. She stayed strong through hard times and she's here educating us ! Thank you Dayton !!! Imma share this with allllll my contacts bye
@anityyu3 жыл бұрын
She did so well and I'm proud of her! Agree with everything.
@AveryKoal9 ай бұрын
This was a beautiful talk. Well done Ande Burns 🫶
@kauru113 жыл бұрын
If there's always these women who supports and release this kind of media esp. In music and entertainment industry like music videos and lyrics on songs sexualizing themselves without disclaimers AND if theres no women in the family who can guide or educate not just younger girls but also boys sad but this will never stop
@k.b.36833 жыл бұрын
Ande Burns, I love everything about you. I can feel your heart. I can see your spirit on your face. I can see who you are and hear it in your voice. You are an excellent person. Thank you for your wonderful research and speech. I want to watch it again. I hope you have a massively rewarding life.
@andelynburns88943 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@dipmallyagoswami28943 жыл бұрын
Just a single word " INCREDIBLE" for this women who fought with the situation she was in when she was 8 years old.
@OziBlokeTimG Жыл бұрын
Great conversation, nice to hear young people, women and men speaking out. Keep it going. 😊
@eline.v5670 Жыл бұрын
thank you
@VictoriaGarcia-cp4yn3 жыл бұрын
I don’t even have to hear her. I just love her.
@andelynburns88943 жыл бұрын
☺️🥰❤️
@chocolatesquirrel20023 жыл бұрын
bruh, yu just shitted on her TED talk mao
@johnnyjohn57518 ай бұрын
You should probably try hearing her
@forest4873 жыл бұрын
i come back here alot amazing person thank you for speaking up for those who are scared to.
@dr.nwokeocha39742 жыл бұрын
She gave an amazing talk. It was really engaging and informative, I feel like I learned a lot. Quite the generational download for me.
@emptyendeavor27622 жыл бұрын
Do not get confused people. Young ones do bad because they are 1. Inexperienced 2. Insensitive hearts. Take ownership of your choices. Throw off inexperience, and think of what your parents think, think of what those who love you want for you. STOP putting your selfish desires first. Turn around, change before your heart is too hard to listen.
@Jakco8082 жыл бұрын
Really good presentation. I'm glad she was able to share these things
@hotdogjon68102 жыл бұрын
Please share this video everybody
@theshepherdsdog3 жыл бұрын
needs more views!!!
@johnmorgan41243 жыл бұрын
Fathers need to get a grip of their sons. Down with toxic masculinity.
@lockandloadlikehell3 жыл бұрын
Lol right
@panchovilla19102 жыл бұрын
What they need is to be more masculine, not more feminine.
@jeffharrods15493 жыл бұрын
Everyone is so sexuilzed
@briancurrysd3 жыл бұрын
how?
@joshallenforpresident3 жыл бұрын
@@briancurrysd all started with the Instagram era in my opinion
@R.U.E.Entertainment3 жыл бұрын
@@joshallenforpresident I agree. But I would like to add that it would also be movies and some tv shows that also started this. (I’d say 2000’s movies and onwards in general)
@momsmushroomsjodyfoster57862 жыл бұрын
I too was molested at a babysitters house. Repeatedly!!
@Goodlookingloner19 күн бұрын
Question, why are men not involved in this discussion? We hate it too; it's not just about women. I always feel the conversation ends up being skewed to women being victimized.
@eigelgregossweisse95633 жыл бұрын
It may be that blaming men is one of the many things that is factually true. But as of this moment, it is worse than that. If women have accepted the image of how they should be, and how they can use their power to freely reject, but point the fault at men saying, it's your responsibility to not look at me, then, they have accepted defeated. Maybe nature has taken its rightful course. Maybe eugenics, evolution is an inevitable consequence of the times we live in. But as humans, who are gifted with reason, ought to do much more. Maybe as a whole, not every race, tribe is on that level yet. But we must make a difference, to freely give love and grow insight. Scarcity is a cancerous tumor.
@grownwoman7773 жыл бұрын
youtube will obviously not recommend this to a young child
@briancurrysd3 жыл бұрын
why not?
@sarahgaib91624 жыл бұрын
Amazing vid U have amazing strength
@spacesomeone3 жыл бұрын
@@maddymiller1002 no, she means she's developed this amazing inner strength from what she has been through.. but, damn.. the world is fuckin messed up.. the strong eat the weak
@rodrozil65443 жыл бұрын
Asian man here and I agree.
@faithyorke94302 жыл бұрын
Excellent talk!! 🙌
@justvibing51543 жыл бұрын
She got way more cajones than I do she showed strength most don’t have gang gang
@baruchespinoza47303 жыл бұрын
I personally think that many girls should wear clothes that cover themselves more. Clothes is over sexualized too and people think it’s okay, it’s sad.
@Ohmyuna3 жыл бұрын
There is a difference between oversexualised clothes and people oversexualising someone for showing skin (to a certain extent ofc)
@aymanbhatti99123 жыл бұрын
@@Ohmyuna no. You cannot just say that men should not look at what the women. As someone following religion it is easy but for other no can’t imagine it’s both ways
@Ohmyuna3 жыл бұрын
@@aymanbhatti9912don't mix stuff please, I'm talking about oversexualisation that people (wich you reffered as men) do to others, i didn't say men should not look at women wtf, i said men shouldn't oversexualise women when looking at her, oversexualisation and looking is not the same damn thing
@lockandloadlikehell3 жыл бұрын
@@Ohmyuna ♀️ should prob stop staring at my natty 18+" arms And 52" chest And massive 27" thighs Amd commenting on them Oh wait, no they shouldn't- that's how I get to breed 🔥🍑
@lynaaard3 жыл бұрын
🖤🖤🖤
@andelynburns88943 жыл бұрын
🖤🖤🖤
@lynaaard3 жыл бұрын
🖤🖤🖤
@fireferna3 жыл бұрын
That was beautiful.
@ayush88523 ай бұрын
The sentences makes me shameful as a male
@lopesia11 ай бұрын
thats amazing ❤
@saladlady84693 жыл бұрын
31 million subs yet so little views
@GuentherJohnny2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your bravery and bringing this helpful information out. If I can kindly add something, have you done a study on how immodest mini dresses affect men’s brains?
@robot77593 жыл бұрын
🙏
@sovereignlife49013 жыл бұрын
Beautiful
@armeenaa3 жыл бұрын
i made the like go 1k 😝
@nathanafoa65793 жыл бұрын
Just broke 444 with my likes
@partyinplantedaquarium73622 жыл бұрын
worse than Great Depression
@laiafairy81523 жыл бұрын
💞💞💞💞💞💞
@Americansikkunt2 жыл бұрын
My assumption: blue hair is a sign of an oversexualized mind
@Americansikkunt7 ай бұрын
@unixez it’s normal
@Forcsythe4 жыл бұрын
Bit of a mess, this one.
@Forcsythe4 жыл бұрын
@Judgement Kazzy I meant the speech, not her (and not the delivery).
@Forcsythe3 жыл бұрын
@beyonce queen I will respond, but I'm going to watch it again first.
@spacesomeone3 жыл бұрын
bit of a mess? have you went through what she went through to complain about her speech being a "mess"? she's still damaged from the experience! and it's emotionally overwhelming for her to talk about it in the first place, it's obvious with the way she broke into tears at the end. deciding to speak up about it in the first place is in and of itself enough. I thought the speech was more than perfect as well, in such circumstances.
@icyunvme24003 жыл бұрын
@Queen queen That’s sad😕
@Angel-lu3lm3 жыл бұрын
It was a good speech!
@Brucelee-vk9nn3 жыл бұрын
Sexualization of women is empowerment. As much they get sexualized men will enjoy that and it will be empowerment for women. Sexualization of women in media is good for men. That's why as a male I love feminism. Feminism allows sexualization of women in media.
@sharvimorajkar32543 жыл бұрын
Sexualization is not empowerment. It's just leeching off women.
@sharvimorajkar32543 жыл бұрын
Also it's not good for men as it clearly misguides them
@OBrien-hi9zq2 жыл бұрын
Never have a child
@Robynrrrr11 ай бұрын
That's what they don't understand!! The "empowerment" of women only benefits men, not women.
@neverthoughtiwouldsaythis2383 жыл бұрын
Sorry won't happen We are living in a world where everything is hyper sexualised so
@grainbread5393 жыл бұрын
This was boring
@andelynburns88943 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching bestie
@ihatecringepeople72003 жыл бұрын
Ofcourse people like you never listen
@yes-ft9ze3 жыл бұрын
@@andelynburns8894 I think it's a very very real problem. It's not talked about enough if at all and I really appreciate and love your speech. Great talk. This will be one of the biggest sociatel problems and the possible downfall of future generations due to Tiktok and other media. Amazing heartfelt speech.
@RedPillDosage4 жыл бұрын
Oh man, damaged goods. She's undatable now, that's always sad to see.
@pinkanime_cat14604 жыл бұрын
Can you explain more of what you meant by saying that?
@stand4justice48673 жыл бұрын
@@pinkanime_cat1460 forget about him, he's just a twisted animal.
@cian73023 жыл бұрын
You were never datable in the first place
@cian73023 жыл бұрын
@Queen queen LOOL ONE OF HIS VIDEOS IS ABOUT CHEM-TRAILS 💀💀💀💀
@mysteriousman49663 жыл бұрын
He’s right. What are you guys on about? I don’t see her having a happy functioning family at all.