The Effect of Sexualized Media* | Ande Burns | TEDxYouth@Dayton

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@pablo6614
@pablo6614 2 жыл бұрын
As a man. I'm eternally grateful to the girls that are calling these things out so that it can be addressed. If nothing is said, then we wouldn't pay attention to it. It's taking days, but I'm slowly getting around to being a better person and I apologize for all those who are affected by our sexualization of you ladies who never asked to be sexualized in the first place.
@shaos3316
@shaos3316 6 ай бұрын
Its all leftist b.s.
@JLHoskins
@JLHoskins 2 жыл бұрын
You could hear the fear and pain in her voice as she told her story. I feel like that alone shows the effect of sexualized media.
@andelynburns8894
@andelynburns8894 3 жыл бұрын
I gave this one year ago today! My One Year Talk-Aversary, if you will😂🥰
@Forcsythe
@Forcsythe 3 жыл бұрын
Hi.
@andelynburns8894
@andelynburns8894 3 жыл бұрын
@@Forcsythe hi
@IbrahimIbrahim-dm3tw
@IbrahimIbrahim-dm3tw 3 жыл бұрын
Is this really u?
@andelynburns8894
@andelynburns8894 3 жыл бұрын
@@IbrahimIbrahim-dm3tw yup!
@nariah2040
@nariah2040 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for talking about this :)
@missella3642
@missella3642 4 жыл бұрын
so sad how few views this one has.
@jacobleither4873
@jacobleither4873 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe if she was twerking she would get more views.
@zeljkaznatizeljka2758
@zeljkaznatizeljka2758 3 жыл бұрын
@@jacobleither4873 hahah yeah, or at the least if she was wearing a swimsuit
@some.generic.username5254
@some.generic.username5254 3 жыл бұрын
Also the fact that the channel has 30 million subscribers
@Jessby78
@Jessby78 3 жыл бұрын
People don't realize how important this is that is why
@grainbread539
@grainbread539 3 жыл бұрын
@@Jessby78 it was lame as heck.
@lisherlisher827
@lisherlisher827 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your courage and for your message. I am sorry for what you went through and hope giving strength to others has helped you heal. You are a great role model for your sister! Great job.
@Derlet30
@Derlet30 4 жыл бұрын
She is beautiful, but I feel profoundly sorry for what happened to her in childhood. She needs a lot of therapy, love and support to fully overcome whatever residual pain she still has from the abuse. She has grown a lot from the experience, but she is definitely still scarred. Her crying at the end and her overall downcast demeanor, makes that so clear. I thank her and the team at TEDx for allowing her to express herself. That in itself is healing and empowering for survivors of any kind of abuse. Very moving presentation ❤ So courageous amd brave!
@miliz5942
@miliz5942 4 жыл бұрын
Very interesting and devastating at the same time. She is a woman of great courage, and her words resonated with me. I also have younger sisters and I want them to be able to live in a safe world. I hope this video reaches more people.
@willsander6178
@willsander6178 2 жыл бұрын
I think a lot of people are coming to this conclusion naturally. The overton window has gone too far one way. Social movements get co-opted and make wrong turns all the time, but in time I think we will keep moving towards a better society, even with regressions like this. It's just important to keep talking.
@shareesekyle7587
@shareesekyle7587 3 жыл бұрын
Her ability to allow us to hear her passion was amazing
@grainbread539
@grainbread539 3 жыл бұрын
She looks like a stereotypical liberal
@R.U.E.Entertainment
@R.U.E.Entertainment 3 жыл бұрын
@@grainbread539 and what if she’s not a liberal?
@AirForceMDs
@AirForceMDs 3 жыл бұрын
Agree with the multiple comments of not enough views. Should be shared by everyone who sees it.
@skeliskellington5233
@skeliskellington5233 3 жыл бұрын
I have no words to say how much I appreciate this talk, you truly are an inspiration and a role model to look up to, I’m 16 but I want to help you and countless others to build a safer and more accepting world
@andelynburns8894
@andelynburns8894 3 жыл бұрын
I’m only 17, being young just means we have more time to fight for a safer world. I also have no words to express my appreciation, your response makes all the anxiety of this talk and it’s process worth it. So thank you❤️❤️❤️
@Aturmare
@Aturmare 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for this, we need more of these themes to be talked about.
@selehadinhabesi3855
@selehadinhabesi3855 3 жыл бұрын
also dont forget sexualized fashion. which leaves no curve to the imagination
@iguess3900
@iguess3900 4 жыл бұрын
I love her, she is my new hero
@knack6157
@knack6157 2 жыл бұрын
I am so weak, I would never be able to do this, she is a really strong human being
@zaidhernandez4601
@zaidhernandez4601 2 жыл бұрын
Good, I'm glad someone spoke on this
@ticmanyt8539
@ticmanyt8539 2 жыл бұрын
She is veryyyy intellectual and informative.. She stayed strong through hard times and she's here educating us ! Thank you Dayton !!! Imma share this with allllll my contacts bye
@anityyu
@anityyu 3 жыл бұрын
She did so well and I'm proud of her! Agree with everything.
@AveryKoal
@AveryKoal 9 ай бұрын
This was a beautiful talk. Well done Ande Burns 🫶
@kauru11
@kauru11 3 жыл бұрын
If there's always these women who supports and release this kind of media esp. In music and entertainment industry like music videos and lyrics on songs sexualizing themselves without disclaimers AND if theres no women in the family who can guide or educate not just younger girls but also boys sad but this will never stop
@k.b.3683
@k.b.3683 3 жыл бұрын
Ande Burns, I love everything about you. I can feel your heart. I can see your spirit on your face. I can see who you are and hear it in your voice. You are an excellent person. Thank you for your wonderful research and speech. I want to watch it again. I hope you have a massively rewarding life.
@andelynburns8894
@andelynburns8894 3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@dipmallyagoswami2894
@dipmallyagoswami2894 3 жыл бұрын
Just a single word " INCREDIBLE" for this women who fought with the situation she was in when she was 8 years old.
@OziBlokeTimG
@OziBlokeTimG Жыл бұрын
Great conversation, nice to hear young people, women and men speaking out. Keep it going. 😊
@eline.v5670
@eline.v5670 Жыл бұрын
thank you
@VictoriaGarcia-cp4yn
@VictoriaGarcia-cp4yn 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t even have to hear her. I just love her.
@andelynburns8894
@andelynburns8894 3 жыл бұрын
☺️🥰❤️
@chocolatesquirrel2002
@chocolatesquirrel2002 3 жыл бұрын
bruh, yu just shitted on her TED talk mao
@johnnyjohn5751
@johnnyjohn5751 8 ай бұрын
You should probably try hearing her
@forest487
@forest487 3 жыл бұрын
i come back here alot amazing person thank you for speaking up for those who are scared to.
@dr.nwokeocha3974
@dr.nwokeocha3974 2 жыл бұрын
She gave an amazing talk. It was really engaging and informative, I feel like I learned a lot. Quite the generational download for me.
@emptyendeavor2762
@emptyendeavor2762 2 жыл бұрын
Do not get confused people. Young ones do bad because they are 1. Inexperienced 2. Insensitive hearts. Take ownership of your choices. Throw off inexperience, and think of what your parents think, think of what those who love you want for you. STOP putting your selfish desires first. Turn around, change before your heart is too hard to listen.
@Jakco808
@Jakco808 2 жыл бұрын
Really good presentation. I'm glad she was able to share these things
@hotdogjon6810
@hotdogjon6810 2 жыл бұрын
Please share this video everybody
@theshepherdsdog
@theshepherdsdog 3 жыл бұрын
needs more views!!!
@johnmorgan4124
@johnmorgan4124 3 жыл бұрын
Fathers need to get a grip of their sons. Down with toxic masculinity.
@lockandloadlikehell
@lockandloadlikehell 3 жыл бұрын
Lol right
@panchovilla1910
@panchovilla1910 2 жыл бұрын
What they need is to be more masculine, not more feminine.
@jeffharrods1549
@jeffharrods1549 3 жыл бұрын
Everyone is so sexuilzed
@briancurrysd
@briancurrysd 3 жыл бұрын
how?
@joshallenforpresident
@joshallenforpresident 3 жыл бұрын
@@briancurrysd all started with the Instagram era in my opinion
@R.U.E.Entertainment
@R.U.E.Entertainment 3 жыл бұрын
@@joshallenforpresident I agree. But I would like to add that it would also be movies and some tv shows that also started this. (I’d say 2000’s movies and onwards in general)
@momsmushroomsjodyfoster5786
@momsmushroomsjodyfoster5786 2 жыл бұрын
I too was molested at a babysitters house. Repeatedly!!
@Goodlookingloner
@Goodlookingloner 19 күн бұрын
Question, why are men not involved in this discussion? We hate it too; it's not just about women. I always feel the conversation ends up being skewed to women being victimized.
@eigelgregossweisse9563
@eigelgregossweisse9563 3 жыл бұрын
It may be that blaming men is one of the many things that is factually true. But as of this moment, it is worse than that. If women have accepted the image of how they should be, and how they can use their power to freely reject, but point the fault at men saying, it's your responsibility to not look at me, then, they have accepted defeated. Maybe nature has taken its rightful course. Maybe eugenics, evolution is an inevitable consequence of the times we live in. But as humans, who are gifted with reason, ought to do much more. Maybe as a whole, not every race, tribe is on that level yet. But we must make a difference, to freely give love and grow insight. Scarcity is a cancerous tumor.
@grownwoman777
@grownwoman777 3 жыл бұрын
youtube will obviously not recommend this to a young child
@briancurrysd
@briancurrysd 3 жыл бұрын
why not?
@sarahgaib9162
@sarahgaib9162 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing vid U have amazing strength
@spacesomeone
@spacesomeone 3 жыл бұрын
@@maddymiller1002 no, she means she's developed this amazing inner strength from what she has been through.. but, damn.. the world is fuckin messed up.. the strong eat the weak
@rodrozil6544
@rodrozil6544 3 жыл бұрын
Asian man here and I agree.
@faithyorke9430
@faithyorke9430 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent talk!! 🙌
@justvibing5154
@justvibing5154 3 жыл бұрын
She got way more cajones than I do she showed strength most don’t have gang gang
@baruchespinoza4730
@baruchespinoza4730 3 жыл бұрын
I personally think that many girls should wear clothes that cover themselves more. Clothes is over sexualized too and people think it’s okay, it’s sad.
@Ohmyuna
@Ohmyuna 3 жыл бұрын
There is a difference between oversexualised clothes and people oversexualising someone for showing skin (to a certain extent ofc)
@aymanbhatti9912
@aymanbhatti9912 3 жыл бұрын
@@Ohmyuna no. You cannot just say that men should not look at what the women. As someone following religion it is easy but for other no can’t imagine it’s both ways
@Ohmyuna
@Ohmyuna 3 жыл бұрын
@@aymanbhatti9912don't mix stuff please, I'm talking about oversexualisation that people (wich you reffered as men) do to others, i didn't say men should not look at women wtf, i said men shouldn't oversexualise women when looking at her, oversexualisation and looking is not the same damn thing
@lockandloadlikehell
@lockandloadlikehell 3 жыл бұрын
@@Ohmyuna ♀️ should prob stop staring at my natty 18+" arms And 52" chest And massive 27" thighs Amd commenting on them Oh wait, no they shouldn't- that's how I get to breed 🔥🍑
@lynaaard
@lynaaard 3 жыл бұрын
🖤🖤🖤
@andelynburns8894
@andelynburns8894 3 жыл бұрын
🖤🖤🖤
@lynaaard
@lynaaard 3 жыл бұрын
🖤🖤🖤
@fireferna
@fireferna 3 жыл бұрын
That was beautiful.
@ayush8852
@ayush8852 3 ай бұрын
The sentences makes me shameful as a male
@lopesia
@lopesia 11 ай бұрын
thats amazing ❤
@saladlady8469
@saladlady8469 3 жыл бұрын
31 million subs yet so little views
@GuentherJohnny
@GuentherJohnny 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your bravery and bringing this helpful information out. If I can kindly add something, have you done a study on how immodest mini dresses affect men’s brains?
@robot7759
@robot7759 3 жыл бұрын
🙏
@sovereignlife4901
@sovereignlife4901 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful
@armeenaa
@armeenaa 3 жыл бұрын
i made the like go 1k 😝
@nathanafoa6579
@nathanafoa6579 3 жыл бұрын
Just broke 444 with my likes
@partyinplantedaquarium7362
@partyinplantedaquarium7362 2 жыл бұрын
worse than Great Depression
@laiafairy8152
@laiafairy8152 3 жыл бұрын
💞💞💞💞💞💞
@Americansikkunt
@Americansikkunt 2 жыл бұрын
My assumption: blue hair is a sign of an oversexualized mind
@Americansikkunt
@Americansikkunt 7 ай бұрын
@unixez it’s normal
@Forcsythe
@Forcsythe 4 жыл бұрын
Bit of a mess, this one.
@Forcsythe
@Forcsythe 4 жыл бұрын
@Judgement Kazzy I meant the speech, not her (and not the delivery).
@Forcsythe
@Forcsythe 3 жыл бұрын
@beyonce queen I will respond, but I'm going to watch it again first.
@spacesomeone
@spacesomeone 3 жыл бұрын
bit of a mess? have you went through what she went through to complain about her speech being a "mess"? she's still damaged from the experience! and it's emotionally overwhelming for her to talk about it in the first place, it's obvious with the way she broke into tears at the end. deciding to speak up about it in the first place is in and of itself enough. I thought the speech was more than perfect as well, in such circumstances.
@icyunvme2400
@icyunvme2400 3 жыл бұрын
@Queen queen That’s sad😕
@Angel-lu3lm
@Angel-lu3lm 3 жыл бұрын
It was a good speech!
@Brucelee-vk9nn
@Brucelee-vk9nn 3 жыл бұрын
Sexualization of women is empowerment. As much they get sexualized men will enjoy that and it will be empowerment for women. Sexualization of women in media is good for men. That's why as a male I love feminism. Feminism allows sexualization of women in media.
@sharvimorajkar3254
@sharvimorajkar3254 3 жыл бұрын
Sexualization is not empowerment. It's just leeching off women.
@sharvimorajkar3254
@sharvimorajkar3254 3 жыл бұрын
Also it's not good for men as it clearly misguides them
@OBrien-hi9zq
@OBrien-hi9zq 2 жыл бұрын
Never have a child
@Robynrrrr
@Robynrrrr 11 ай бұрын
That's what they don't understand!! The "empowerment" of women only benefits men, not women.
@neverthoughtiwouldsaythis238
@neverthoughtiwouldsaythis238 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry won't happen We are living in a world where everything is hyper sexualised so
@grainbread539
@grainbread539 3 жыл бұрын
This was boring
@andelynburns8894
@andelynburns8894 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching bestie
@ihatecringepeople7200
@ihatecringepeople7200 3 жыл бұрын
Ofcourse people like you never listen
@yes-ft9ze
@yes-ft9ze 3 жыл бұрын
@@andelynburns8894 I think it's a very very real problem. It's not talked about enough if at all and I really appreciate and love your speech. Great talk. This will be one of the biggest sociatel problems and the possible downfall of future generations due to Tiktok and other media. Amazing heartfelt speech.
@RedPillDosage
@RedPillDosage 4 жыл бұрын
Oh man, damaged goods. She's undatable now, that's always sad to see.
@pinkanime_cat1460
@pinkanime_cat1460 4 жыл бұрын
Can you explain more of what you meant by saying that?
@stand4justice4867
@stand4justice4867 3 жыл бұрын
@@pinkanime_cat1460 forget about him, he's just a twisted animal.
@cian7302
@cian7302 3 жыл бұрын
You were never datable in the first place
@cian7302
@cian7302 3 жыл бұрын
@Queen queen LOOL ONE OF HIS VIDEOS IS ABOUT CHEM-TRAILS 💀💀💀💀
@mysteriousman4966
@mysteriousman4966 3 жыл бұрын
He’s right. What are you guys on about? I don’t see her having a happy functioning family at all.
@samarahroth7251
@samarahroth7251 2 жыл бұрын
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