The Empty Feeling Is A Goldmine - Kyle Cease

A lot of magical revelations arise in this incredible episode of “Hot Seat” where we discover why empaths lose themselves when others are around.
In the process of listening deeper, we see again that we haven’t allowed ourselves to be heard in order to not cause drama with others.
This is a fun one on one that opens so many new doors for so many new possibilities.
Transcend guilt, awaken your soul, and see so much in you. Become a better friend, partner, or parent as you learn how to hear what everyone including yourself is feeling simultaneously.
It would be impossible to not grow after watching this.
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[@NichtNochEinGluecksguru]

Edit: Omg, your comments are incredible! We all are really one, we struggle the same way, we feel the same way… appreciate all of you! Thank you so so so much!! Much love to all of you!!!💕💕💕 Thank you so so much Kyle for your open heart and hearing me and my inner child at the hot seat! It has opened a new world for me! Sending so much love and appreciation ❤

[@lisaduhrssen7741]

Give yourself a break,you are amazing and you are enough♥️

[@Mailika]

Wow i feel you are speaking from my heart. Thank you both for this video much help from it❤

[@WiebkeDirks_Training_Beratung]

Thank you from a German sister for sharing those healing moments ❤🙏

[@tanyacarlyle1422]

Thank you Bahar for your vulnerability 🙏 beautiful work 🙏 💪 💕

[@arianabiren6850]

Bahar thank you so much for so honest opening your heart feeling and sharing with for healing altogether ❤❤❤

[@lovingliberation]

I remember the phrase 'shut up or I'm going to give you something to cry about'

[@dianawhite8692]

I remember my mother saying that too! I hated when she said that. It was usually as we were leaving my grandmother, who was the only love I knew at the age of three, and I was crying b/c I didn’t want to go back home with my narcissistic mother.

[@KekeLight8]

This is how we heal the world I believe

[@sandrabrown6932]

Wow…72 years old and I was so moved .Bahar you have opened and seen my little child…I love you!🇨🇦

[@Olovoll]

❤❤❤ 🥹

[@yogawithoutagenda]

This is why normal talk therapy doesn't work so well. I was saying the same stuff as Bahar and the therapist sits pretty much silently for the hour, I pay and around we go next week. It isn't enough to say it, you need the metaphors, the explanations!! Thanks Kyle and Bahar❤❤

[@dianahartley9866]

This so me. I am thrilled that I am not the only one. Attachment is exhausting, not love. Love is different. Never heard this before. Wow

[@enough1494]

I just called my sister to congratulate her on the announcement of her very special and long vaca to Japan. As always within a few minutes the conversation switched to her rage about being the legal guardian to her very handicapped adult son, my favorite nephew. I am the only one who talks to him every week, conversations are extremely challenging, for us both…but will never miss them. Anyway, for the first time I cut her off. I had to tell her I am hanging up now….3 TIMES….then I did. Of course I already have 5 long text. Not reading them! I am LEARNING….THANKS TO YOU Kyle! Blessings and much love and gratitude!

[@Flowergirl222]

Both of my parents are narcissists and I had this pattern my whole life. I made connection with my inner child and learned how to love her. Sometimes a mild version of that pattern still surfaces but its nothing like it was. You will get there beautiful soul. Keep seeking love 🤍

[@ozi1578]

How did you connect to your inner child? I’ve recently started inner child work but can’t seem to get through a wall

[@Flowergirl222]

@@ozi1578 It didnt happen all at once. It took time, love, and patience. That wall is only in your mind. You have to make it back into your heart and connect with infinite love again, then little by little you will clear that old stuff and replace it. Don’t beat yourself up for hitting that wall. Have patience whenever you can and when you do, celebrate it, because thats big. Im really sorry you didnt get the love you deserve as a child. You are worthy of it 🤍

[@jodiegall3366]

I feel the same way that I lose myself when there’s too much energy going on in the room with my family

[@alinajo3582]

Thank you Kyle and Bahar. This was my favorite so far! ❤ I cried so much watching this. I have experienced daily horrors in my childhood home and realize today that even though I seem cold and angry towards family, deep down, I've still been harboring a lot of guilt for walking away from them 25 years ago. I want to practice allowing all of it (including they did the best tbey could, as sick and twisted as it all was) so I can finally be freed, I hope.

[@lisaduhrssen7741]

I grew up thinking I was a dissapointment to my parents,and I never wanted my daughter to be dissapointed!Allow the feelings if sadness ti be ok

[@Naqikaph]

This was so incredible I first thought it was staged. And then the following came up in my soul: I wasn’t allowed to cry Even though I just watched my middle brother die I was shooed out of the room Like a dog with a broom Get her out of here I don’t want her feelings and tears near So for 2 years I held them in And the nightmares began Didn’t know that I was an empath Until I watched this video and did the math I just thought I was an introvert But I noticed I held on to others Hurt And when they left I was drained Wouldn’t answer my phone everybody complained Didn’t answer my phone Felt all alone I knew the conversations would be 1 sided Because in me they confided And knew I would tried to fix whatever was wrong And then they are gone When I was with them I would barely look at my phone But have yet to be returned the favor I thought this was just normal behavior That maybe I was more evolved But while listening to you both a light bulb came on and tension in my left hip started to dissolve I began to see I can include them and me I’m allowed to feel ignored in my body It’s nobody fault It’s just how my inner child was taught With my parents I was brought up not to offend them Dad’s been dead 17 yrs now I still blame and defend him A Blk child is seen and not heard Little girl sit down be quiet don’t say a word All my problems I thought they were hers and his Learning to love what is Now I’ll sit daily in the silence to listen to hear And I’ll will welcome every tear Thank you Bahar & Kyle This kyleleggo? has introduced me to my inner child She said hello it’s been awhile

[@vaniaelise]

I just wanted to let you know that your poem is beautiful and it touched me. I hope that you are sharing your talent with the world. ❤❤❤

[@tracyfarrag1252]

Beautiful poem! It touched me deeply. ❤

[@LightLoveConnection]

You are a very talented writer. Wow. Thank you for sharing your gifts with us.

[@AoibheannDoyle-SoulTherapist]

Wow 🩵

[@BeTheNow]

Wow. Just wow. You are gifted. Truly. Sooo beautifully written. Thank you for sharing this!💘❤️‍🔥

[@LeilaJane]

Feeling that anger feeling I find can be a tool to push you toward more self loving action, that anger is what you need to feel first before moving in your authentic direction. It’s true that those feelings don’t last forever if you finally allow yourself to feel them and accept the reality of what you went through.

[@igniteyourflow]

It is super hard to be a mom! I resonate with this. Not enough moms talk about this. Something that has helped me so much is looking at a pic of my child self at 3 years old everyday. I kiss her and say I love her and hug her. Now I am able to be more present with my kids. You must give it to yourself so you can spill it over to them with out feeling depleted.

[@OllieSmiless]

I can relate to people pleasing, losing myself, fear of conflict, fear of people getting angry at me, feeling guilty if they do, having no space for myself, being an empty space, not allowing myself to take up space, not being significant in my own life, my life is not worth living if not living it for someone else (for me, it's not a child, but it's a romantic partner). Working through this right now.

[@funcereal]

I struggle with this completely! It's so hard to remain in my own sense self around others, and all of it is exhausting.

[@nishasankaran]

‘Attachment is exhausting, not love, love is energizing.’ Wtf. What a crucial differentiation. Amazing ❤🙏🏾

[@Virvepaulina]

Oh, I cried so much and I feel dizzy. I'm at a crucial point in my own journey rn, a lot of stuff I've held on to for half my life and finally letting it go, and there is space for many things to come up that were covered. Anger for one. I need to let my child guide me and see me as well, through me seeing me and allowing... thank you.. ❤

[@ninasvetlin-kn4qh]

Thank you denar Behar, I always wished I had a daughter to share with her my Love. In have sin and I am so grateful that I growth in my awarness so much that I can be all the Love for him too. I am having difficult situation with my mom and now I understand why. She divorced from my dad and she is full of anger for him. I am not. I Love them Both and help them as much I can with my Love. Thank you and take care of your Love, your daughter and your family. Love from Slovenia❤️

[@Olovoll]

My heart broke into a million pieces for her, and then felt great peace and joy for Bahar at the end. Just two beautiful souls healing….this is a good world and worth living in!

[@therealrawrachael]

The love you have for your daughter shines thru. She is so lucky to have a Mumma who is striving to work thru her own pain and grow. You are setting a wonderful example for her and doing a wonderful thing for yourself too.

[@deborahhelming7785]

You are me! OMG! I have German parents in USA and Phew! Still having issues with my victim Mom full of whoa and anger and all I want is to be happy!

[@deborahhelming7785]

I came from joy, but born into a family of sorrow and suffering…, a major bummer😢 To feel seen and loved by others is a gift from God!❤ I Love 💕 you all!!

[@TheWebRaven]

Thank you for showing us how to be open, vulnerable, communicate, and make peace with our inner child. You are beautiful and you are an excellent mother!!!

[@lindaolsen9167]

Thank you so much! Im so moved and greatful for you to hold this safe space for yourself and for me as I'm listening to this even 8month after you recorded this. I healed through your healing as I resonate with so much of what you went through in the call. I cried so many times in the call as i felt my own inner child needed attention and I could give her that 🙏❤ Thank you Kyle for holding this safe loving healing space for so many people 🙏❤

[@EmergingForward]

awwww that is so great. I too relate greatly to this call and heal much from Kyle...

[@theeffectiveprogressive]

I’m listening while working… she said “you are allowed to feel sad in my body” and I just started crying. Beautiful

[@saradaviswalker2996]

Same here❤🦋

[@weegizmi1]

Beautiful, profound, overwhelming. Thank you Kyle & Bahar. I'm no longer afraid to feel the pain or the fear. I know they will lead me to salvation. After 40 years of trying, I finally know what to do. Grateful beyond words. Thank you xxx

[@KasiaWeszczak]

I grew up in communist Poland until I was 18 years old. I am so familiar with repressed emotions, control, manipulation, be strong, don’t cry, be a good girl - freaking show pony! … and the list goes on. I am feeling freedom to Swap out ( Dr. Kim D’Eramo’s process) the anger that is there. My little one inside has felt her whole life like she couldn’t be herself with people … not really knowing what her TRUE self is really like. Not feeling safe. I loved this call! Thank you both ❤

[@trueidentitytime2shine862]

Thank you guys! I had 2 narcissistic parents. I never had a voice. They walked in ego and were easily offended. I am going through this session with you honey! U r so brave! Thx Kyle! Love u both!

[@sharonmontoliu6573]

when i read your comment i began to cry so much as i felt so bad for all you went thru. my dad was a 100 % narcissist and a monster who loved to torture so i feel for you so very much and i feel a love for you too. keep working with Kyle i am also he is a gift to us all. thank you for your comment really touched me.

[@woodspriteful]

As a single mother and single provider, I understand this mother completely. It's difficult being a mother in an individualistic society no matter what. I approached motherhood wanting to be conscious and attached, but I've felt those runaway feelings. A concept that has helped me is "mutually-arising." It reminds me that "either-or" is not my chosen path. Mutually arising as a mother-daughter was an attempt to heal the lack of bond between myself and my mother, not because she was a narcissist but because she was emotionally exhausted, physically and emotionally unavailable, and hadn't done her healing. It's really important for kids to see their mothers enjoying themselves, such as dancing or creating without necessarily directly interacting with them. Libraries, community dances, and parks have been helpful because the kids can be engaged while you do your thing, alongside but not directly involved. Mothers need that time. My daughter knows when the dance is my dance and when I can dance with her. Balance. I've also benefitted from my parents taking my daughter for 3 months twice in her first 8 years. It shows you that the you you think you are without your child doesn't really exist anymore. A mother can never undo being a mother, can never return to not being a mother. We're on call forever. A separation can really help reestablish the healthy bond. The relationship changes as they get older too. It's not as emotionally demanding.

[@allwellandgood8547]

Wow this was incredible! I just felt like 4 decades of confusion have clicked in to place for me watching this, I have never been able to make sense of it but you helped me so much sharing this. I feel a freedom and permission to just be. I wish I had felt this when my children were young. I'm so grateful for you and happy for you and your daughter. Thank you🙏❤

[@Teresatoole21]

When you asked her what her inner child was feeling and she answered I found myself in tears while driving because I didn’t know my inner child felt anything and she feels just like this! 😢Why is this not a normal thing for us to know to do?! 😢😢❤ Thank you for sharing sweet lady! You are a beautiful soul! ❤

[@Robert-di3kv]

Wow I didn’t realize this is something I suffer from. And you are correct they are acting like children.

[@KathyGaalaas]

Shes so beautiful and this hot seat was so powerful. Congrats to both of you!

[@JDavCam]

This call was amazing! This didn't just align with me but I felt that my sister would benefit from this call. She is struggling with her boys and what she wants and I think this might helpful to hear. Thank you!

[@jeantuite-actress--imdb]

i just realized that i do this sometimes to not get too close to friends or in trying to find someone new to date or of im in a room with someone i like i might avoid meeting them if i like them alot but on surface level i can be the type to never meet a stranger and be very conversational as long as the conversation doesnt get too deep.

[@barbaramarshall7165]

This is so powerful. My life will never be the same.. This is the golden key that has unlocked the prison gates in my mind. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Even at age 75, I can still have a new beginning

[@jomuldoon7003]

The timing of this for me couldn't be any more perfect!! I thought I was the only person that felt this & was ashamed2 share. Thank u for ur bravery & helping me learn more about myself!! It also helps me understand why my mum would barely play with me or want 2....its being passed down 😢❤ thank u

[@NewEarthLife1111]

I wish I heard this message 24 years ago. This was/is exactly me. I raised my daughter pleasing her all along the journey. At the time I felt I did a really great job as a mom. But as she got older when I started showing any difficult feelings or emotions with what I was experiencing she completely shut me out. I felt I would always let her show her feelings to me throughout her childhood. It’s like I wasn’t supposed to have any feelings. I was the youngest in my family too and was always yelled at if I had any feelings or emotions I was shamed. So I pretended I didn’t have any to keep the peace. They used “the silent treatment” as a way to let me know I was wrong and it sometimes would go on for days. They would ignore anything I would say. My siblings too. I was never seen unless I pleased people. Last May my 24 year old daughter told me I was the worst mother ever and will not speak to me anymore. Again, the silent treatment is being used as a weapon against me because I expressed some of my feelings to her. It’s so good you’re learning this when your daughter is young. I never even knew I had an inner child to take care of until this last year. Thank you for this message.

[@ahnaahna7278]

Actually….I went to Anglican Church today…..and I knew/remembered all the old hymns……but…..I cannot subserviently worship the risen Christ. I am beyond that viewpoint of the Christ. I fully embrace the Christ Consciousness and the noble Archangels as my collaborating groups on my behalf….and in my future service. I am not better than at all…..but I am in a different viewpoint/mindset about my Creator/God/the Christ. No shame anymore….from organized religion….but plenty self-responsibility recognition of my lesser actions. Christ is not outside of us to be invited in…..he/she is eager to be fully activated within us…..like a sweet non-invasive occupation within….to be…..allowed. This is a very different view…..but a freeing one.

[@roxiebeall9024]

Bahar ! That was amazing to witness! Thank you for the honor of sharing your growth with us. I know I personally came away from this with new insights about my childhood, as well as my role as a mother. You are an amazing person and your daughter chose wisely when she picked you as a mom! Thanks for sharing this Kyle! One of the best yet!

[@earthmagic22]

❤👍❤👍❤

[@teresaobrien8598]

i have got so much from this.

[@sandradee6029]

Thank you for having the courage to speak out for yourself, your inner child and for everyone in this community to learn from. This is EXACTLY what I'm processing right now. Not, with a child to take care of, but how to be seen in the world. I have crashed since I've realised I've been taking care of everyone else's emotions. Thank you so much for sharing your story while retaining compassion for your parents. I can feel how much you've shifted. I too have shifted and I'm sure many others too. Wishing you every happiness in all your emotions to come! ❤

[@edalong1064]

Oh wow, Bahar, Thank you so much. I am 77 and you so described the rage and anger, rebellion of my inner chi;ld that I had never given space to just to feel okay having all that anger. I love and forgave my parents long before they died and am grateful I recognized them fully for all they were and went thru. However, all the work i have done on myself for the last 40 years did not ever give my inner child space to just be okay in the painful emotions. I have loved and cherished, rescued my inner child and done a lot to heal. Yet, this session touched deeper and more honestly and authentically than other work has done. I am new to hot seat and am clearing and healing so much going thru these journeys. Thank you with all my heart. This is huge for me and I may have to sit for many days before I can go do another hot seat episode!!! Thank you Kyle for your incredible gifts and gentle, knowing and supporting heart. This work is incredible beyond words. Oceans of gratitude and love, blessings and joy~ Eda

[@astridgotuzzo3533]

Thank you, this helped my inner child ❤

[@Joyous1Now]

This was truly beautiful! I was opened to my inner child in a whole new way. So much to unfold from this! I remember when I heard Bahar about a year ago, the things going on in my life...they all now seem like a movie I watched about someone else. I am so healthy and happy now! Having allowed my precious inner child to be fully present, loved and heard has been the magic elixir for this past glorious year! I am so appreciative of Kyle, Bahar and my beautiful inner child for being a part of my fabulous transformation! Only bigger, better, and more of the Divine ahead! I'm so excited about my flexibility and joy in moving forward! ❤❤❤❤

[@Virvepaulina]

This is me 😭❤

[@staceyrodrigues2477]

Bahar, I have pure respect for you. Kyle you ARE AWESOME. Thank you both.

[@nireeburr]

I’m watching this a year later..I don’t have kids .. never my thing.. but I felt my little inner child talking when it resonated .. so the adult in me recognised the call . Received the message. Felt like the first time … I could fall asleep .. it’s been years since i felt like going to bed at 10 pm .. I don’t Sleep normally til 5am I! I’ve a question… that cough u have in this video.. it’s a sign of needing to speak your truth from deep with in the chest 😮…Louise Hay books how to heal yourself with heart..

[@lorimayo3586]

Hot seats are amazing. Love this group

[@nivet81]

This made me see a pattern that needed to be released within me. Thank you Kyle and Bahar ♥

[@the.kai.eros.experience]

Omg. “Either I’m pleasing or I am empty.” Wow do I relate. Just starting to listen but I feel you so much. Thank you for sharing your heart. ❤

[@RoseMatter44]

So beautiful thank you. Just what I needed to help me to heal and to let go of my own rebellious anger. You are a beautiful soul❤

[@anitavangerrevink5335]

Great topic; Thank you for sharing! I was very controlled, lied to and manipulated as a child. I so relate to the fear of disappointing my parents and having to prove my love in order to be good and enough etc. Leaving that paradigm, was a challenge. Telling ourselves "They did the best they could" is often just a trigger to keep us away from the hurt feelings. I felt so much confusion. Later I saw that that came from their words being not the same as their behaviour; they didn't walk their talk. Heart and head were not aligned. Children do mirror our feelings and it is so wonderful to recognise this gift they gave us! What a great present you gave your daughter by being courages and willing to be aware and change💞

[@jansimpson4364]

Bahar, you just described my family. I was the youngest by a lot - my family was chaos when I arrived. It was when you said that you felt you couldn’t do anything that would increase their problems, their sadness - exactly what I felt. And what a thing for a little child to feel, what a burden to feel their entire happiness is on your shoulders! Thank you, Kyle, for pointing out that empathy and narcissists are opposites - all me/no you vs all you/no me. The good news to me is that even just starting down the path of more me for an empath starts to change that dynamic and stop the attraction of and to narcissists…

[@betzyberumen6910]

This was so powerful for me I just had a daughter she's 6 months but now I know how I can let go of attachments and honor my inner child and my daughter too and my spouces inner child. My parents were very controlling my mom's a narcissist so I completely understand. This was so powerful for me thank you 😭😭😭💚

[@the.kai.eros.experience]

Thank you, Bahar. My childhood and parents feel so similar. They love me and would do anything for me… AND I was controlled and repressed and never felt safe.

[@reconnectwithtrue]

Thank you SO much for sharing this with us. So powerful. 🙏 new realizations… wow!

[@Cherryfitgirl]

How can you see past these patterns wow ?!!! Fantastic !! I can definitely relate to this WoW !! Thanks for sharing this message.

[@jankuchel7]

Oh Bahar and the energy shifted and I was blown away. Watching the replay we can go back and see the moments where your light clicked on more and more and more. Your confidence will remain ❤

[@Oliviaaaalove]

I can AGREE with her 1000% as a mom of 2 boys, not always wanting to play but having to play as a mom I suppress a lot of feelings, I feel the same feelings she feel, angry, & I want to run as well !!! And my son starts to act out! Thank youuu BOTH FOR THIS 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@glrs.8889]

Wooow. Amazing call. Thank you both for All the teachings from this...Blessings 👋🏾✨️

[@teastaegemann805]

For me a parent crying (as a mother) is a sign of weakness. So I try I not to cry in front of my kids because I don’t want to be weak and then they grow up thinking and believing that women are weak and victims. I know I am not doing them a favour 😢but I also don’t want them to be weak! Messed up childhood trauma patterns …

[@alexandrasky4952]

This was wonderful! I appreciate Bahar for being so brave and open and sharing all that she's feeling. It really resonated and helped me sort through some things of my own!

[@kamilynbonham5245]

Bahar you are so intuitive and self aware and im giggling alot because Our childhoods are Almost exactly the same , as far as energy goes its crazy, and I combat lifers shinanagins with humor. That being said, I was listening and found myself in awe how intuitive you were , but then giggled because you are super intuitive but that intuition is not intuittting your amazing intuition😂 I laugh hard because us humans are so silly and complicated. I'm only 25 min into the video and I am gonna listen to jt at least 5 times more.

[@loveleeconcepts]

The bravest love of a mother knows no bounds! ❤I see you and love you ❤

[@haileypeterson989]

I love her, God bless her! She is so articulate and insightful and I can relate on so many levels that I didn't even realize ❤ this Dynamic applies to all types of relationships. The way she describes the boredom in The Emptiness is so true to me and I never correlated that with the pleasing and so this is fascinating I'm going to think about how those play into my emptiness.this is deep , I'm glad this video came up! The pain of the cognitive dissonance of the rebel and pleaser....wow! "Its not me and me or them" Nails it. Sending love and peace you're way! ❤🙏🤲

[@nannyfunwitheva4875]

This was so amazing. I am 61 yrs old and finally understand for the first time in my life. You did amazing Behar. You are a beautiful soul ❤

[@confidence763]

Bahar thank you being brave on this call, u helped me see what I had been going through as a child and how it has effected me and my two daughters and why they are so angry with each other… 37yrs and 34 yrs old… I’m 66 😢 I always tell them to sorted out what happened individuals in the family as a unit and it will give so, much clarity. I think they still rebel because of the work they have to go through so proud of you, girl your daughter so blessed…my youngest is working on the shadow side now. 😊❤❤❤ much love

[@hajarharrar4720]

Sending her so muuuuuuch loved. I cried many times watching this video, beautiful releases. My heart is exploding with love to all fellow human beings doing their best in this journey. I love you

[@NichtNochEinGluecksguru]

I love you too!!! Thank you so much ❤

[@ruthbiafora5443]

One of the BEST sessions ever. You are so authentic❤

[@GlobalDeeW]

Kyle Cease is a genius and a blessing. Thank you both for your bravery.🙏🏽

[@whatsitallabout2901]

Just getting this... when you offer to the feeling 'you are allowed to be in my body' ie the feeling of being controlled is allowed to be in my body, there is support for the part of you that feels controlled - and that support is love ❤

[@soulineegoetsch5786]

I learned that I have done a similar thing with my son. It was very enlightening to me , thank you so much for your authenticity.

[@Themacintheroni]

Thank you both beyond words ❤

[@PAWright2770]

Thank you. An Empath here raised by a Narcissistic parent..I don't believe I've ever felt love from humans, only animals, but you really hit the nail on the head that ATTACHMENT is exhausting. And ATTACHMENT is what makes me feel emptiness inside--like playing hide and seek. Attached--I have to go looking for myself in a black empty abyss...and very often I can't find me.

[@FreeDom-dh5mf]

Have worked on this issue a lot. But, this got into some crevices that needed to be seen, yet. So true for me. Thank you, Behar and Kyle and your children and parents.

[@jamiekay7481]

I love you so much Behar! I cried when you cried! I healed when you healed! I smiled when you smiled!💝💝💝

[@amberscottcmt7400]

I faced something similar to her in my journey single parenting twins. By the time they were 4, these two little humans I adored and so willingly surrendered to my role as mother, had over time, become a sort of eclipse of self. It wasn't an issue of pleasing them, just the reality of being outnumbered by littles without any parenting partners, that setup my inner conflict. I described it as a war within, between the mother in me and the individual... Eventually when I got certified in NLP we did a parts process where I was able to take these two aspects of myself and integrate them, so they no longer were at odds. It's HUGE when a split off part of you returns to the whole. Everything changes.

[@clairekirkwood8939]

Wow! Amazing! Helped me sit with myself and be okay with not being okay, but to sit with and honour those feelings. Good luck on your journey of growth x

[@carinalindberg7377]

This opened up a whole new awareness for me. I've done inner child work before, deeply so, but something just clicked differently listening to this. My son is an adult, and I'm healing as a mom as well as a daughter, sister, granddaughter, partner, friend - as me. I feel me. Thank you, Kyle, and thank you, Bahar. 🥰🙏💞

[@annevettestad8210]

Just bumped into Kyle videos today. I'm so grateful. Devine timing. Everything happens for a reason. Thank you for being. ❤ Anne

[@NichtNochEinGluecksguru]

Hi Kyle, almost one year later i'm watching this and actually truly undesrtand what you were telling me. I feel the truth of your words now. i was in such inner resistance back than. A part and me did understand all what you were telling me, but another part was in reistance. But now i feel this truth in my bones :) Still so thankful for this experience! Sending much love❤️ Bahar

[@sabine824]

♥♥This is the best video I ever seen, now I can understand what's going on with my inner child. I have so much anger, sadness inside for not be seen that needed to be seen and acknowledge. I'm so grateful for Bahar for her openness, vulnerability, it will help so many people. So much gratitude and love♥♥

[@mariaturner8121]

Getting goose bumps why do I feel like this is a resurrection.

[@edalong1064]

Bahar, You are so beautiful and your daughter is blessed to have you as her mom and guide. You are so brave and courageous to sit in the Hot Seat! with all of us. your vunerability is such a great gift. Blessings and love, Thank you so much. E

[@dittunikajagamandalovgren123]

Thank you is not enough. You are so brave and continue to shine ❤

[@saracarolineoakley]

Thank you 🙏 This resonates with me so much. I’ve been resistant to my daughter and feeling controlled by her in a way and just wanting to escape.

[@FoundRetreat]

A beautiful unfolding, my soul was changed 🙏🏻💖

[@traceyvaccarino]

Wow! My first son never wanted to be a bother. My second son wanted to control everything.

[@greendragon135]

I resonate with this so much, and I haven't even watched the whole thing. Thank you for hosting this brave soul. So much love. ❤

[@samanthaspencer7404]

Bahah thankyou for helping my child to lift her head up and see the possibility to be heard and shine. Beauty and love❤

[@annevettestad8210]

Sending her love and kindness. ❤❤

[@jgun8062]

Thank you! My inner child has been so angry and sad today. This was so helpful. ❤

[@CharmaineIronside]

incredible shifts!!! I got so much from this. Especially how anger towards our kids is just anger that we are not allowing ourselves to feel

[@earthmagic22]

Wonderfull - thank you for showing this to the YT audience, Kyle. ❤️💫🙏🏼💫❤️

[@Amyglowsup]

That was everything my inner child needed to feel and hear, cried the whole way- thank you

[@EmergingForward]

I never thought of my mom as narcissistic, but I totally feel that I didn't get validated how I needed and reflected: like when Kyle says she wasn't asked "how do YOU feel? what do YOU want?" yessss, I did not feel as a child that what I thought or felt or wanted mattered at all. I chose to just lose me, and agree w mom. Anyway... thanks for this wonderful episode!

[@brittanypowers7893]

Oh dang. I need that yearly pass. Happy Easter Kyle!

[@nishasankaran]

‘Emptiness is not the bad guy’ another gem. Wow! ❤🙏🏾

[@alexandradouros488]

My word for this year is 'surrender'. I had no idea why or what to do with it. This was such a beautiful insight. Thank you Kyle and Bahar 💗🙏