Relationship Revelations - Kyle Cease

[@colleenmorrow1962]

Listening to this just brought up how I feel the need to fix people. As a child I wanted everyone to like me. Fixing people made me feel like I was helpful and liked. I had no boundaries and was taken advantage of. I just seperated from my husband (together for 23 years), who maybe was a fixer upper as a teen. I am ready to not fix anyone anymore. I don't care if people don't like me. That's ok if they don't. I'm amazing. Those who like me for me will come and stay in my life. I do not need to fix anyone anymore. Thanks for this!

[@dawnm7450]

“Abandonment is asking the question, is he the one?” WOW!! Awesome! Thank u

[@ChassieNix]

One minute in and I’m like “yep, makes sense.” Thank You 🙏🏼 This made me realize the things I’ve been ignoring. Kyle is more helpful than the 10k publications I’ve read on mental health over 15 years.

[@richardw3347]

he`s good !

[@chandhinichenthilkannan108]

How is he this good?

[@RobinReedCoach]

I'm understanding the depth of the abandon wound at a whole new level as I continue to choose partners that abandon me. Although I've done my head & heart work, this is showing me the energy in my veins, like it's all being subconsciously recreated until I can fully accept/love myself. The part (@ 18:50) about "finding the most unavailable people so that I can fix them, then I won't be abandoned." So helpful to see my own ego in action and love that broken part. Thanks for showing up so strong, Roslin - you are loved.

[@chandhinichenthilkannan108]

This one came on my insta at a point where I was praying to god for some insight on what to do. It applies perfectly to me. Adopted, have darkness, afraid of darkness, rejection sensitive, can't feel passion with good guys.

[@marieseifert7105]

The same happened to me. I have never before had heard or seen Kyle. I am grateful for the gift. It is a very precious gift to hear his wisdoms.

[@Dawnofcreation]

Wow, what a mirror to me. It's exhausting caring about being abandoned. I said the very thing you did Kyle, last night to a friend, that I look so forward to when I don't give a shit if someone stays or goes. That is the ultimate liberation. I have found there is a fine line between not caring and blocking love, from the egoic perspective.

[@charityragain9353]

That was amazing!!! Couldn’t have been more perfectly timed💫. 2022 is showing me my co-dependency and abandonment wounds! Thank you 🙏🏻💗🦋

[@natachaOPN]

Same here : co-dependency and abandonment wounds are now healed 🌈 Lisa Romano is also great with co-depency

[@MrsAnaelimont]

This was gold. My beloved pet passed away last year and I couldn't let her go energetically because what Kyle said was true....it was hard not so much letting her go...but letting the part of myself that was a "pet mommy" go. I was attached so much to that aspect of myself.

[@shoneyluvsAmerica]

Kyle, how is it you don't have 30 million subs? Seriously. Thank you so much for following YOUR heart-- cuz look whats happening because of your courage! I'll be listening to this one several times. Gold!

[@szenka43]

Wow! 🙉🙈✨ This call was definitely amazing. It resonated with me soo much how and why she "chose" people to experience a certain feeling again and again instead of accepting the abandoned child inside. Definitely eye-opening! 😲😳 I experienced the same pattern with my closest family members, friends, romantic partners. It is so interesting how our soul can ask for our attention in form of these repetitive actions and happenings until we are truly able to listen carefully. Thank you for bringing more clarity into the WHY of this kind of experience.🌱🥰

[@hashighosh5989]

Oh my God... You bring up the terrible childhood believes in my head that I am nobody's child !!! I lost my mother by 2 yrs age i am the third unwanted girl child and with a very sick body. Nobody wanted me. Being here in this group helps me to check on myself. I feel save here. I am already become a soulmate of myself.

[@angelaisaac1601]

This was so profound! Thank you! I now understand why I chose the men that I chose. I can start loving the little girl who didn't feel loved, seen nor heard. I am exactly where I need to be.

[@roslinreal966]

Powerful. Thank you for sharing!!!

[@haleykristin]

I like what you said around 31 minutes. Basically about deepening relationship with the divine and with myself and I think you've said before like someone that walks you more towards God or even deeper levels of higher versions of yourself

[@lyndadaigle7620]

The best 48 minutes experienced since my spontaneous awakening in 2018! Thank You to Both!!!

[@sentaroll1565]

Kyle🥰 that session is EXACTLY what I needed right now!!!! I watched it a few month ago and NOW 25th of jan 2023 it is more true than ever!!!! Thank the both of you for this talk🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@SoCalFof]

Great call! This resonates with me 1000%! Thank you Kyle and Roslin for sharing this with us. ❤❤

[@Windsong71]

This is so mind blowing. So many answers to my questions of why I’m attracted to unavailable people. You are so gifted and helpful. I still need to heal and forgive myself of childhood abandonment.

[@Clucehilton]

One after another "aha" moment- this has been wildly eye opening for me and explains so much about my past relationships- I can't thank you enough! Cheers to 2023!

[@angelikalove3825]

thank you for this - this resonates so much . I push people away before they abondon/leave me, it feels so uncomfortable to be with people, my whole body is so uncomfortable that I have to get away. Not sure how to resolve this yet. I totally get this internal fight between ego and the other me :-) Wish me luck x

[@soultango8458]

Freaking amazing. Did so so much work on my abandonment issues. And it felt that this time it really clicked in on the deepest level. Thank you both so much for co-creating this space of intense healing❣️🙏🏼

[@leahredmond150]

OMG! Thank you for this.. I too was adopted- at 10 days old.. So much of this I can relate to and I can feel that things are shifting.. You truly have no idea who you will touch with this healing and this gives me so much hope and faith to continue and pursue my dreams of helping others..

[@teeshhh2951]

Oh wow! I found this gem on insta and I had to come watch the whole video, and I see myself in this soo much! It resonates deeply!

[@creativerebelution]

Oh my goodness feeling the pain of yourself as a baby, wow that's so huge. So happy for you to release that out 😞💖

[@loristarr9920]

This resonates so deeply with my abandonment issues. The timing is impeccable as I discover my past relationship choices fed these issues. My heart is thankful!! ❤️

[@karenross7391]

Kyle and Roslyn this is so welcomed - after many years of inner work Ive now seen a pattern of abandonment. The universe was always showing me through circumstance but I couldn’t understand this blind spot in my relationships and career. Relax and nurture our beautiful child within. No more patterns have to rectify situations because we just can just love ourselves 🙏❤️🙏❤️

[@Iamkathyking]

This deeply resonates. Thank you for making this available on KZbin. I wasn’t able to attend this live on AEP so now I will go back and watch the whole call in the archives. Pieces of Roslyn’s story of abandonment echos mine. This call was profound and illuminated more of my patterns and allowed for fuller compassion and acceptance of myself…being the soulmate to my abandoned, emotionally neglected inner child. Thank you 🙏

[@allysonedwards4792]

Props to Roslin💪for doing the work for all of us, bc I know i had a few breakthroughs with her ability to be honest with herself and us💙

[@antoniomorales5533]

This video made me shed a couple tears, I’m speechless. Thank you both for this, sending you all love and acceptance this month! 💕😇

[@maehatfield7721]

So helpful, this really awakened something deep in me about the feminine flow vs. masculine strategizing. Thank you, Kyle✨

[@NicoleWellness]

Same here!! I’ve been working on embodying the feminine and the flow energy more. This was such a perfect video in perfect timing for me.

[@menopostalsky]

I may have commented already but I just had to watch this again because it resonated with me so much

[@MsEldorado]

Thank you Kyle and Roslin for sharing this. It resonates with me on so many levels, opened my eyes to my own issues. xxx

[@sarahbitsinnie1278]

I relate to this . As I am listening I am feeling the conversation making feeling my anxiety.

[@tereanderson8456]

I love this! The absence of obsession is so disturbing for our ego! Thank you for your transparency this is amazing

[@kimjolicoeur9187]

THIS! Omg. Thank you. Also, following Aaron Abke, I have learned about masculine and feminine energy and KNOW I am in masculine as a defense mechanism. My abandonment issues abound and this has been huge for me too. Wow. I seek out abandoners. So true in my life.

[@kathleenberner9250]

I am so blown away by the things shared! I had such an opening of understanding that I am in a state of awe... even joy..Thank you from someone who has experienced so much abandonment in her life!!! I was even shunned by the Buddhist group I was part of for 11 years. Today, the depth of my belief in abandonment has just totally shocked me into accepting what you shared, Kyle. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.🙏❤🙏

[@HarmonyQueHolm]

Sooooo Good! I feel there is more insight here then years of someone being in therapy! I had a ton of aha's while watching this call! Thank both of you so much for sharing this. I know many of us will get so much insight from this! Thank you again 🙏❤👍💞

[@StephaniRoberts]

SO much TRUTH in this, especially around abandonment and choosing the unavailable. Thank you!! All of his resonates and is coming at synchronization time of major healing and releasing. Thank you both!!! 🙏🏼❣️❣️ Many Blessings!!!

[@FlowConsciously]

Thank you for being vulnerable and open with your experience. I'm sure there are hundreds of thousands with us (me too obviously) learning and growing in 22. Kyle - you rock!

[@balleirna89]

This video is incredible. I keep watching it over and over again. Thank you for sharing this gift with the world. ❤️

[@celestialluminosity8407]

Thank you Rosalyn for sharing your vulnerability. I have a similar story and really resonate with everything you shared. I just want to give you the biggest HUG!!! You are magical! You are so loved! You have so many angels around you! Big success is coming for you!! 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

[@roslinreal966]

Thank you thank you thank you

[@littleflower9827]

"Does he feel good today?" what a great question to ask for your relationship, and everything else. :)

[@glendapeglau4694]

Amazing insights here. Total truth bombs that I've lived out. Thank you

[@AurelienCarnoy]

I am so greatfull that Kyle stoped stand up comedy and is doing this. Whatva gift

[@moonlightmystic4878]

Hay Kyle love having a person join you to witness the transformation is profound blessings to U both

[@1datsunlover]

I don't pick abandoners, but I watched anyway. I'm so glad I did. I got so much out of this, thank you.

[@erin993]

Amazing call!! This could be me. I suffer horribly with abandonment issues and to realize why I keep picking the abandoners is so freeing. I have been working so hard on myself and learning to love me. I feel like this video came at the perfect time. Thank you for sharing it with us.

[@anon49ymous]

Holy SHIT sobbing YES

[@lisabarnetson1362]

I can relate..except I now hang onto people so they won't feel abandoned. When I was younger I would sabotage most relationships before they could leave.

[@greendrummers]

What a personal and mind opening conversation, l feel so much for Roslin for being adopted as a child - how beautiful of her to work on herself like this. l wish you both all the best. Thank you for sharing this.

[@roslinreal966]

That's so so so kind. Rewatching this video again and came across your comment. I am grateful for your words. All the peace and blessings to you!

[@b.l.a.c.k-shiva]

Just today Ralph Smart said that when two are gathered they are more powerful than simply the two together 💪🏼 These interviews 🙌🏼

[@MyZero1234]

Love Ralph!

[@katerina81731]

One of my favorite calls. Thank you both ❤...

[@OlgaFB1]

mine definitely too :) ♥

[@tanyavandeventer3377]

Very enlightening for sure. Would love to see this type of interaction more. Thank you for putting yourself in a vulnerable position for us to learn. Much gratitude and blessings on your wsy forward

[@astoll3813]

Beautifully resonate. 💖 Thank you for caring & sharing so, you two dancing with compassionate curious repairing magic✨! 🤗

[@victoriaholmberg8358]

So true and beautiful, thank you 🙏

[@debbietaft7817]

Thank you for sharing this was us via KZbin. I totally resonated with her! ❤

[@frommyhearttoyours5117]

Kyle thank you SO much for this. I have learnt so much about my own patterns from childhood that I’ve repeated over and over in all my relationships. I can’t tell you how much I got out of this clip and shit dude it could not of slapped me in the face at a better time in my life. As frickin always you are completely on point in everything you say. Bless the universe for you man, you’re an absolute legend 🙏💜

[@boyhappy24]

I just had a mind opening experience watching this , as many of us we have been through a lot and through that journey many of us have grown and learned and today I learned as many times that I have been abandoned or felt abandonment through my growth it is hard for me to grow because it is a feeling of abandoning my inner abandon child

[@RojitaCali]

“Picking those who harmed us” WOW! 🙃

[@yasminkausar5186]

Thank you Kyle...Fully accept the circumstances without wanting to control the situation👍🤍

[@chandhinichenthilkannan108]

I realised I became a psychologist because nobody connected with me and trusted me growing up, in school. So if I am a therapist, people will have no go except to tell me their secrets and trust me. And then finally I can prove to my classmates and rejector that I have been worthy of trust all along. Nobody gave me a chance.

[@natachaOPN]

Thanks 🙏🏽 I was abandoned too. So yes the Universe is the One 🌟💎

[@dcooper2664]

Got it!!! FINALLY!! I want to be the one they finally don't leave 🤔😉

[@AngelaKirbyonbeingyou]

Powerful…..I received loads of insight as an adopted person also ….. thank you x🌹♥️🌹

[@JosephineSheppard-LiveinAAWE]

Same here. Namaste ❤🌹

[@nancygaudreau5297]

Thank you for this !! I can totally relate, as I was the same way! ❤️🙏🏻

[@skittleydodaday.9299]

….and I love that ♥️ Kyle THIS needs a LOVE button !!

[@user-bk1ez4sz8t]

Seriously, like looking in a mirror. I definitely leave first. AND in non-romantic relationships, work specifically, when 1 person doesn’t like me or want me around, I abandon EVERYONE and push them all away secluding myself from everyone and everything. It’s very disruptive to all aspects of my life. It’s 100 million times worse after a break up, where I push everyone away for a long long time before even considering letting anyone get close.

[@isabellev5281]

This one resonated so much! Thank you for sharing 💛

[@TheMatrikaP]

Beautiful call!🥰Thank you so much.🥰

[@peacequeen2579]

Wow....my father abandoned me and every relationship I've had abandoned me. Almost 60 and I've lived my entire life not feeling loved. Now it's too late.

[@Just...Peachy]

As long as you're still alive, it's not too late 🤗

[@leighsmith739]

This is soo where im at.. i haven't had a intimate relationship for years... but i so resonate with this as it appears im now losing friends.. and in the confusion i cant work it out. I do do this to everyone.. i look to being abandoned. I realise that i will say something off the cuff to people out of the blue... so they'll abandon me that way as well. Then ill beat myself up for that and abandon myself. What a cycle.. Im soo greatful to hearing this video. I feel abandoned by the Holy spirit as well.. yet that cannot be true as i was lead to watch this video. Thankyou Kyle for what you do.. and for this lovely lady's open truth. Xxx❤❤

[@Sunshine-lg8su]

🫣🤯…..I am so relating to this conversation my jaw is on the floor…. So many aha moments - I know I will listen to this many, many times. Thank you Thank you Thank you!❤️🙏

[@shaunaarthurs]

Thank you ... going through some remarkably similar things, appreciate this. ❤️🙏🏻

[@darshanlabang3246]

That was eye opening and heart opening. I learned so much

[@tazzyhb70]

Incredibly insightful. Thank you.

[@JilliansNL]

This was so powerful!

[@lotus746]

This resonates so much for me. Such an aha moment. Thank you so much 🙏 And also try EFT for the abandonment issues, easy gentle tapping with Brad Yates on YT❤️

[@ViagensGringa]

Same woman on the Abraham Hicks vid! I relate to her so much

[@trishneavez7797]

This is so needed Maybe a mass collective thing. Thank you so much Kyle

[@sinvermerlas5331]

i don't know how many times people had been awed by what you give and share, Kyle, but im quite sure this vid is one of them. Thanks as always! ^_^

[@jenniferdahl-olsen6294]

omg Kyle.....story of my life! thank you to you both!!!!

[@trustyourself144]

This was SOLID! Thank you so much for sharing!

[@QuontumGnosis]

Brother, ALOHA DUDE..🤙🏼Keep shining. Bright as ever..

[@sonja897]

Thank you for sharing. Brought things in me to light.

[@nadanassar8176]

Thank you Kyle 💖

[@5757Beth]

wow Kyle...Amazing insight you have given me for helping heal past relationships!!! Thank you so much

[@sheepmellow]

This was so damn special and sweet. Kyle, you're so insightful and delightful!

[@sylviaramirezcoach]

Thank you for this conversation with all my heart, Kyle

[@elleraeschaefer5450]

So many wow moments in this video. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@BeStillandKnow0000]

omg, it's like watching myself! hahahahahha I'm so thankful for Kyle and for Roslin for sharing. this episode is so helpful. Thank you

[@vickivanyo7222]

I was adopted. I was incubated. I have had several relationships with unavailable.men.. I have aborted my creativity and potencial ... But I keep on. The healer within is waking up.. and no longer partnering with my ego but now is completely side by side with my soul... I have had an exhausting month riddled with nightmares and he's y thoughts all in relationship to abandonment... So much purging. I would be happy to settle with a boring grounded and kind soul. My soul is honoring me and the work I have done and speaking quite los these days... And saying... You are healed... Go live in peace.... The addiction to the abandonment wound is dissolved... It's all in perfect timing to hear this... We as adopted child of the universe know deep down we are here to do big work and let that monster of a wound be liberated ...

[@creativerebelution]

This is the best ever. Reminds me how Sandy in grease decides to stay in her false self to be with Danny Zucho rather than feeling the intensity of his abandonment. Hmmm. This whole subject is so good for me to hear ❣️

[@whatsitallabout2901]

I just saw Grease for the millionth time last night and got exactly that - these movies showed us that we might need to turn ourselves inside out to be acceptable to someone ... aarrgghhh! Also done that a million times!!!!!!!!

[@creativerebelution]

I love this woman she is so brave 😍

[@bricac21]

I feel like I received the session. Thank you so much! Brilliant!

[@jacquelineormsby4503]

Wow! Yes! Love this!❤

[@SpoofyBlonde]

This video is a GIFT…..thank you so much 💖😭

[@GoodxJ]

✌🏼🙏🏻😁🧘🏻‍♂️🍵 peace & blessings!

[@mewells]

Through my lens I was also seeing her say...I want to have a family, I have a time limit to do this, relationships have to be analyzed to determine "are they the one", I thought this other person was the one & they aren't so can I trust myself now to even know if anyone is the one....her relief that the relationship was over (a "now I know" energy) to now she has to go back out there and begin the search again (heavy sigh)...cuz she has a time limit. I so wanted you to ask her what her "list of things" she told the highschool connection. And her changing to be what she thinks people want her to be may also be a disconnect from who she actually is authentically and maybe even "I want to be like this so if I pretend to be that now with them it will stick". This was a great session.

[@roslinreal966]

My three things: Communication, Open to have kids, and working on themselves :) Which in a year has totally changed. lol

[@MuzykAngel]

I have so many questions! I can ask does he feel good today? If one is married shouldn’t we make it work? Doesn’t the bubbling up of emotions we trigger with one another just mirror my emotions to myself and show me what I need to work on? Ugh. I loved Roslin sharing with us because I can really relate to this talk. Thank you for all you do Kyle. 💖

[@NicoleWellness]

Wow this hit me really hard… everything makes so much more sense. I knew this stuff, but hearing it just one more time made it sink in even deeper as I’m dating a wonderful, caring man. The last one was passion, ego, lust, and some of the deepest heartbreak I’ve ever gone through. Which propelled me to the next level of my spiritual journey. And lately I’ve been having fears of self sabotaging such a healthy and good relationship. And holy shit, it’s because of the abandonment! This is the new piece I didn’t have to my puzzle. I’m self sabotaging because I need to create drama and chaos because it’s familiar (alcoholic mother growing up), I need him to leave because I’m always abandoned (dad leaving when I was little). Nope, no more. I see these patterns now. I will most certainly be doing some more meditating on this tonight. Thank you Kyle for sharing this with the world. 💙🙏🏼

[@teeshhh2951]

Wow, I'm really really resonating with this and I'm at the same place as you! I've gotten to have such a caring and kind man but I kepo wanting to self sabotage it. I'm working through my healing and one thing my therapist mentioned is sometimes we sabotage good things a relationship in this case just because we'd like the end result to stick to what we lready know that is abandonment, not deserving, and it opened my perspective a whole lot

[@lauraapotter7911]

Kyle, I kinda have a little crush on you. So handsome w the dress shirt. Also great content, makes so much sense.