Thank you to everyone who opened up about their issues with ED. So important to bring awareness to this. Support the channel on Patreon: patreon.com/colehastings
@hawtdawg38234 жыл бұрын
In addition to patreon do you do anyone one on one paid coaching?
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
I do. You can usually apply on my website but applications are currently closed until February
@hawtdawg38234 жыл бұрын
Awesome thank you man, I’ll check it out. Keep fighting the good fight
@johnhanson25144 жыл бұрын
Thank you Cole. You are a pioneer. One of the few men around who actually talks about this issue, even when it affects so many. I struggled a lot with the fact that I felt totally alone with this issue, like I was the only one around having to deal with it. But to hear your story and others that there is light at the end of the tunnel, has given me inspiration to turn things around.
@seriesbookman13 жыл бұрын
There was plenty of performance anxiety before Internet porn. But there was nowhere to talk about it except to a therapist. There is a whole world of sex therapy to help with the problem. Using porn as a scapegoat helps nobody, and trendy fads like nofap can be harmful and interfere with the way a man's body works. Young men with this condition need to seek the proper information, and help.
@davidbarreras30944 жыл бұрын
Bro if this man doesn’t get a million subs in a year 😤😤
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
@abdelraouftria42474 жыл бұрын
I started stopping since i watched the video "Why Men are Weaker Than Ever". So now im 17 days free, Thanks man :)
@tristanforgberart54944 жыл бұрын
Well done keep goin!
@benjaminmena3234 жыл бұрын
10 for me atm
@deadcell48374 жыл бұрын
How do you feel bro?
@abdelraouftria42474 жыл бұрын
@@deadcell4837 i feel good and proud about myself
@gavinburbank12943 жыл бұрын
I hope you’re still going strong!
@MJA54 жыл бұрын
I had the opposite issue in my 20s but it's a different world than 1989. Good luck, fellas. Stay hard. Pun intended.
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
Nice
@MJA54 жыл бұрын
@@ColeHastings you are giving good advice. Doing manly things make your performance, well, more manly.
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
@@MJA5 Cheers brother
@benjaminmena3234 жыл бұрын
this boomer passed the vibe check
@Bdi821834 жыл бұрын
@@benjaminmena323 oof
@RealBigDLil4 жыл бұрын
It’s been 7 months off of porn and I feel so great! I also deleted both Facebook and Instagram because what’s the point of liking someone’s pictures if they don’t like yours back? Thank you Cole for being a blessing to all, and may your journey with God be broader.
@gurmailsingh66982 жыл бұрын
is your Ed cured now
@RealBigDLil2 жыл бұрын
@@gurmailsingh6698 yes
@gurmailsingh66982 жыл бұрын
@@RealBigDLil Im on my day 3 im heavy porn used im 23 i cant get jt up witj even new women , after how many days u saw improvemnt In ed
@RealBigDLil2 жыл бұрын
@@gurmailsingh6698 I kinda get what you’re saying. But keep it up!
@joshjahn90282 жыл бұрын
@@gurmailsingh6698 going throught the same thing it has improved ALOT for me and i consider myself a SEVERE case, it takes time dont give uptook a long time to see some improvements so be patient man
@parkerrish90244 жыл бұрын
Isn’t that crazy. America is easily killing itself with our culture
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
In some cases
@Baphomets_Kid4 жыл бұрын
"America", more like all of the developed world.
@desirefusion5324 жыл бұрын
@@Baphomets_Kid america generally leads the culture whether people want to believe it or not; the leader of the free world has a massive responsibility
@desirefusion5324 жыл бұрын
@redwill17 I’m not disagreeing, I’m just saying that American culture massively shifts the culture of the west
@aidan96564 жыл бұрын
More like white america
@Munahidfrommars4 жыл бұрын
Proud of you to be opening up about something others find really hard to open up about!
@shakurwonders52164 жыл бұрын
True
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@MeatBunFul3 жыл бұрын
More like soft lol
@victardoold4 жыл бұрын
This is my number one self improvment youtuber, great work man
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@kenneth_ol4 жыл бұрын
Cole = Goated
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
Kenneth = Goated
@melvin-fitnessproductrevie70824 жыл бұрын
Performance anxiety is real. I'd say it mostly happens when guys start wondering, "Am I doing this right?", "Is she enjoying it?" - these kinda thoughts can drop your confidence. I've found it helpful to just get lost in the moment and feel every sensation during foreplay.
@augustinebeeman77672 жыл бұрын
Why don’t you not do it before marriage? Find the right girl and have a Godly relationship??? Bro. If You are a Christian than you gotta get off this s*x outside of marriage and doing it with whoever- type lifestyle. Please don’t ignore this guys. Let’s change for the better
@granda36492 жыл бұрын
@@augustinebeeman7767 I'm worried that I'm gonna wait till marriage and have sex only for the sex to be bad.
@hunterhastings51024 жыл бұрын
Love the content Cole. Recently took up stoicism and it’s added a sense of positivity and hope to my life. A different perspective was much needed. Very seldom do I feel as though I can relate to people but I seem to relate to you in a multitude of ways. Keep up the work my guy
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
Love it, thanks for watching Hunter
@katkat78284 жыл бұрын
I'm a woman so this doesn't really concern me, but damn.. this is the first time I've seen a video with almost 3000 views thus far and not a single dislike. A legendary moment in youtube history
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
Annnnnd it's gone!
@katkat78284 жыл бұрын
@@ColeHastings ah...still a great ratio my man. All good things eh?
@AndrewTheAceMan3 жыл бұрын
Well women that can't have sex exist too.
@MrBooYa-yd5er3 жыл бұрын
‘doesn’t really concern me’ it should. People should be aware of male issues.
@titaa562 жыл бұрын
@@AndrewTheAceMan sadly almost all males get ED and most never recover. Scientifically backed up. 😔
@utkarshchauhan5884 жыл бұрын
I almost relapsed today and then this video popped up. You got my back.🙏💯
@tromboner60614 жыл бұрын
follow fap.control on instagram There was a post on it that helped me avoid dumb shit on ig
@utkarshchauhan5884 жыл бұрын
@@tromboner6061 I don't use Instagram.
@crisb2054 жыл бұрын
Nofap is key 🔑
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
Yessir
@ontheline30774 жыл бұрын
Amen to that
@tibalow4734 жыл бұрын
@XM just wait
@fastdeliveryl7084 жыл бұрын
Yes buti tried, almost a month nofap and then i got the encounter and i didnt do well.
@ProtoIndoEuropean884 жыл бұрын
You can fap, you should fap sometimes, but too much fap will tire your body and your sexual energies. this is why the "disfunction" but if you never fap nor have any sort of sexual activity, the sexual energies become blocked and it becomes equally difficult to get aroused.
@reallifepsych33094 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being brave
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
@jacobdebernardi43854 жыл бұрын
These videos are bringing a very important and socially taboo situation to light. I notice the mental effects for about 2 days after I partake, I'm always in a better mental place without porn. Thanks for what you're doing.
@Mainstreamj4 жыл бұрын
It’s simple fellas. Stop watching porn, workout regular and have a healthy balanced diet. That’s all you need to be good down there !
@regeneratetheland2933 жыл бұрын
Diet: plants ✅
@theovl3183 жыл бұрын
I do that seriously pls help me I’m eating healthily, exercising regularly did nofap for 20 days not even anxious WHY TF DO I HAVE THIS FKING PROBLEM
@kjbennie92453 жыл бұрын
@@theovl318 are u saying its not helping?? What helped me was stay away from sugar and keeps carbs low. Plus at the gym, ONLY DO REPS OF 5 OR 6 MAX. Do not do reps of 10 to 15. Up the weight so u can do 5 reps max. 4 to 6 sets. My testosterone levels jumped and dont do intense cardio. Bad. Kills testosterone. Do light jog or walk
@Mainstreamj3 жыл бұрын
@@theovl318 Pay attention bro because I'm going to break it down for you. Porn is the number 1 reason any man under 40 has ED. If you (like I did) abused porn for years then it will take some time to reset your brain and body. In my experience, it will take you around 90 days to achieve this. It could take even longer depending on how long and how often you use to watch porn. If you make it to 90+ days and eat healthily I can almost guarantee you will be healed. Tips on how to quit porn: 1. You have to identify why/when you have urges. really analyze those times you relapsed and the circumstances, i.e stress at work, boredom e.c.t. 2. You have to completely change your routine/habits to REPLACE those urges. This is the MOST important step because If you don't do this you will definitely keep relapsing. Things like cold showers or willpower will not work in the long term - you must channel your sexual energy in some way. These things I've suggested above have worked for me so hopefully, you can get value from it. I never thought I was going to be normal after watching porn for years but since I quit last year I haven't looked back. If I can beat this, you can too. All the best man !
@theovl3183 жыл бұрын
@@Mainstreamj thanks bro will follow your steps, on day 7 now trying to quit social media too
@Robert-hf5xr4 жыл бұрын
Instagram has caused countless relapses
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
I am guilty of this
@professionalcheekclapper76084 жыл бұрын
Dude... So true
@yasuotanaka46364 жыл бұрын
Fuck instagram, pathetic platform for even more pathetic people, I'm not joking
@Robert-hf5xr4 жыл бұрын
@@yasuotanaka4636 I agree I deleted it
@tyson57944 жыл бұрын
You are in control
@TheMellizification4 жыл бұрын
7:48 - Sex is better for both parties when there is an emotional connection there ❤
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
Completely agree
@afterworldstudios65394 жыл бұрын
I disagree!
@awesomenice7424 жыл бұрын
Yeah we don't see that, that often though nowadays :(
@DamianUtrecht4 жыл бұрын
22 years old here. Relapsed today after 16 days (attempt no. 6).. thanks for the inspiration bro.. it's though but we'll get to that 90 day mark.
@willcarroll97623 жыл бұрын
How’s it going now man? Better?
@titaa562 жыл бұрын
@@willcarroll9762 nope.
@throwcentral95844 жыл бұрын
This man is a hero for spreading his wisdom.
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
@timbailey203 жыл бұрын
If you can rid porn from your life, you’re ahead of the game. Most dudes cave in in a bad day were all guilty of it. but some men run to porn too much.
@randomuser15673 жыл бұрын
As a woman i appreciated this video , i never understood this and felt a lil bad because at instances i wasn’t too kind about it.
@YamPlugz4 жыл бұрын
I've watched him triple in followers in a few weeks🤯
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
Only going up from here
@johnoconnor76384 жыл бұрын
I'm 24 year's old fit and healthy and have literally never had proper sex due to this exact issue, went to 2 different doctors about it and medically nothing was wrong, also wondered if I even liked women as any time I found myself in a situation to preform either couldn't get hard atall or lost my erection More or less straight away, huge respected to you for opening up a conversation about something as taboo as this 🙏
@Omen0004 Жыл бұрын
How are you now?
@vanhorne87984 жыл бұрын
Great video as always man. I gave up social media and porn this past year and it has been a game changer . With girls and my life in general. Would suggest this to anyone!
@ianmacdowall40774 жыл бұрын
Kudos to you for talking about this topic and for creating a group dedicated to a community where people can truly talk about their struggles. I am currently going through nofap flatline (2+ months so far, lost track of days) and this is definitely something that I need to see. Thank you :)
@sunesnigel2 жыл бұрын
This is crazy. I listen to this along with many other KZbin videos and I don't have a big reaction. But to actually do this video must take massive amount of courage, I'm not sure I would've chaired such a thing. Kudos brother!
@hirosdailyvisualdiary20354 жыл бұрын
thank you for talking about things others are afraid to
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
Always
@Jedram4 жыл бұрын
Cardio is key got to get that heart pumping.
@ewan12kd4 жыл бұрын
Tried nofap entirely but didn't see any huge benefits apart from the first 6 days but then It flatlined my testosterone. But I am on Day 203 of absolutely zero porn and it's the best thing that I've ever done. The mindset that you depend on porn effects all other aspects of your life as well as the direct dopamine link created by it. Since quitting porn everything in my life has benefited and I have a gf now too. Loved this video.
@filefile49810 ай бұрын
And u are able to keep it up and have a normal sex ? After quitting porn ?
@PrashantKumar-fv5wk4 жыл бұрын
Totally relate with you Cole❤️
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
@yovannyflores48204 жыл бұрын
Another thing that migth effect you is the exuses that run through ones head, also be very aware of these because they can defenetly get into your head. Hopefully everyone becomes who they want to be. Keep it up cole👏.
@andrek73024 жыл бұрын
Cole thanks for these videos you are saving us for real bro.
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
Of course Andre
@tejassudhakar92664 жыл бұрын
Hey! I resonate a lot with your opinion. Am from India, and I see lot of youngsters in their 20's getting influenced by the western culture. And dating in India is totally in contrast with western dating culture. And now a days the western dating culture is rubbing off on eastern countries as well. Especially India. What you say makes so much sense. Keep up the good work!
@tejassudhakar92664 жыл бұрын
I agreed dating is important. but at same time it's not that important that youngsters focus more on dating than career. And it's sad people are not realising. And rightly said. VICIOUS CYCLE
@chitranshsaxena594 жыл бұрын
Did not expect anyone ever to understand reason #3, but trust me, that is a reason, guilt kills both heart and libido
@andrewgoldman92794 жыл бұрын
Cole’s subscribers are growing, no pun intended
@HalzornPS34 жыл бұрын
Your effort is amazing on this Cole. Your're helping a lot of people with this, thanks for sharing :)
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@legoboy-ox2kx3 жыл бұрын
Performance anxiety can definitely be related to too much porn consumption as well, I'm by no means qualified to talk about this, but my strategy is to go at least a few days, preferably a week without hitting it at all beforehand to make it easier to get up, and then ease into it, don't expect too much of yourself or your partner and don't stress about it, because that only makes it harder.
@summerbreeze24864 жыл бұрын
Soy un hablante español y me encantan muchos tus vídeos, sigue así, me has hecho reflexionar sobre muchas cosas en mi vida y justo paso por una situación cómo está, en verdad muchas gracias. Saludos!
@rafaelmorenov68384 жыл бұрын
perdido entre tantos gringos
@summerbreeze24863 жыл бұрын
@Weedgy Apex Ya no le di más bola, pero si bro, ya todo tranquilo 🤙🏻
@skillrix14 жыл бұрын
your channel really grows on me, you seem to really care about people and genuinely help them no matter what about.👍
@WompWompWompBump4 жыл бұрын
Keep up the good work man
@Abstract_flow4 жыл бұрын
Interesting I’m a gay man and ran into a couple men that had ED issues. This isn’t just a challenge for straight men. I didn’t shame them, I just tried to understand why. This was really helpful, to understand the issue some men go through. 👍🏼great video
@invaderjet59464 жыл бұрын
It's called eating healthy and exercising daily
@invaderjet59464 жыл бұрын
Also not having an addictive personality will help too lol
@Abstract_flow4 жыл бұрын
@@invaderjet5946 it’s funny because I said that... I said hey I eat well (vegan) and exercise, just do the same.... but apparently it goes deeper then that 🤷🏽♂️ idk. well whatever it’s at least, good to get a different perspective on this situation. I don’t like staying ignorant to things so I research and ask
@victorlincurve6753 жыл бұрын
@@Abstract_flow vegan is not a healthy diet lol
@titaa562 жыл бұрын
@@victorlincurve675 scientifically proven, a vegan lifestyle is the best lifestyle. Live longer healthier all around. I’m not vegan, but plan on being one soon. Many of my vegan friends are so healthy and happy and never had issues with ED.
@pmikeymike4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing brother. It's something that a lot of guys deal with, and it's very self-defeating! You're Awesome big man!!
@boarhead55733 жыл бұрын
After my first relationship that problem pushed me into a stretch of 4 years being absolutely afraid of having sex. I'm still trying to get out of it, because it really influences every other part of your life. You're getting depressed and the feeling of being excluded from society, because everyone else seems to have sex easily, drives you absolutely crazy. Thanks to therapy and a growing will to get off that mindset, I feel better and have hope to get love and sex once again in my life.
@BambiBambino14 Жыл бұрын
How it's now?
@baljindersingh551 Жыл бұрын
I got same problem…just copy pasting my situation ahead- Hey doc…m going through severe ed….actually i never or rarely had any morning wood since my childhood….i almost never wake up with one…and on the otherside i am addicted to adult content n get good erections while watching porn….but i cant get it up during real intimacy….i did get erections 2 times in 20 attempts….m very confused and anxiety is on peak…i dont know if it is psychological or physical? I am almost 26 yr old….i hv been using viagra most of the times….i am physically fit and go to gym regularly n do all pelvic exercises as well with aerobic ones ….but mostly i feel like m not aroused at the moment of sex….thats why i dont get hard but i dont know if it is physical….i hv tried all supplements and meditation techniques as well….may b i am dating wrong woman…as i dont like her at all ….but still i should b able to get hard ryt? Plz help me with anything and everything….i hv tested my testosterone levels and blood sample as well but everything is fine…i dont know where the problem is …. I am so healthy and lean n mascular but still facing this….i hv quit watching porn recently from 10 days but tried intimacy again yesterday…it didnt work out…so i had to take viagra….i dont wanna take viagra…may b i should try with new girl or is it really physical? I dont know …..i hv little swelling in prostate due to which emptying bladder fully also becomes a reason fr pressure before sex…other than that i dont see any problem….do u think getting no morning wood means physical ed? Plz help me doc
@sumanthsaadam45224 жыл бұрын
Love your content man,keep making more videos.
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
Thanks man
@babbslab3 жыл бұрын
Cole wtf!! Spot on every time. I’ve had all of these thoughts and convos with myself. I went through this but I’m fine now. This is how I analyzed the situation. That feeling of not getting it up eats away at you
@babbslab Жыл бұрын
@@TheKnightsBurrito Most of the issue is tripping about it mentally. Just focus on your physical health, gain confidence, stop porn, and find the right girl. Good luck brother🙏
@babbslab Жыл бұрын
@@TheKnightsBurrito don’t touch that thing for weeks man. Hit the gym hard.
@LynnLeeTalks4 жыл бұрын
People seem to be getting younger with this issue 🤔
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
They are, it's a huge problem
@LynnLeeTalks4 жыл бұрын
@@silentbuddhist9951 That’s true. I knew about porn when I was still in single digits....back in the day when you could just run across a nude magazine. Everything is digital these days..
@danielsaunders40584 жыл бұрын
I’m 17
@evanrodriguez42344 жыл бұрын
Lynn do you think it’s how modern woman are acting that might be causing this? HMMMMMM
@LynnLeeTalks4 жыл бұрын
@@evanrodriguez4234 I’m actually Lee, lol. I actually think it’s a combination of multiple things though, which all come down to one main thing.....the emasculation of men, by society, in so many ways. Whether it’s women, video games, laws, gender biases, etc. Essentially, these things are slowly stripping men of what makes a man an actual man...
@Nonco-14 жыл бұрын
A life saving way to curb an addiction is to tell someone you love about what you're going through. And go into excruciating detail about it. For me, I told my mom because she'd understand the most. You have to put your pride aside for this because the shame you will feel when discussing this is unlike any other. However she was incredibly understanding and I've been away for a little under a month now.
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. Opening up is super important
@Nonco-14 жыл бұрын
@@ColeHastings Your point on removing sources of urges is also awesome. Shortly after talking to my mom, I went home and removed literally everything that could make me go back. I already dont have an instagram which is nice, I deleted twitter. I put an nsfw filter on reddit. I even put an nsfw filter on my steam account. And everytime I get recommended a video on youtube with a tiny bit of nsfw in the thumbnail, (like fan service-y anime thumbnails) I block the channel from getting into my recommended.
@Unye52522 жыл бұрын
Great👏
@joelovonlen-jones2554 жыл бұрын
Great topic man. We've got to talk about these things!
@TDOGONYT4 жыл бұрын
You still the man
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
Cheers
@huntersmith84774 жыл бұрын
You have really good content my guy. Please keep it up!
@yareunvus3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the app recommendations, good stuff
@xNIKEGOLFx Жыл бұрын
Absolutely huge problem. Finally coming to light!
@dmar94274 жыл бұрын
True, the same experiences with us who were born after or on the 90's.
@JNVTN4 жыл бұрын
Thank you bro, you are really giving me big motivation! Keep it up
@lover3308 Жыл бұрын
Wow please post more about this!!
@madmiky6964 жыл бұрын
Great video
@meditativestate24524 жыл бұрын
im on day 47 I failed many times but this time it feels different .Good Video mate
@robinbrik31104 жыл бұрын
Bro really good video, thank you I needed this!
@elibrooks16623 жыл бұрын
Just a tip on the explore page... if you click the "..." and click not interested and spend a decent amount of time actually liking the photos of what you do like and doing the not interested feature, you'll be pleasantly surprised. My explore feed is plants and art and that's it!
@Androide3234 жыл бұрын
Amazing video and tips for anyone who needs to hear this
@spanishDoll14 жыл бұрын
You are sooo real with this
@prosper1.724 жыл бұрын
Was in the same ED pool and had a heavy porn addiction, I've been clean for a while going to hit 1 month soon, 1 day at a time bros you can do it to i promise
@borisleoro89434 жыл бұрын
Great Vid sir
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching
@luiscastro-vn6jp4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it’s interior pelvic tilt or weak core muscles, exercises for these two might help
@AboveItsNeck4 жыл бұрын
Are u referring to hard flaccid?
@willcarroll97623 жыл бұрын
Lmao if that’s true that’s pretty funny cause I struggled with anterior pelvic tilt effecting me in the gym
@Gaze733 жыл бұрын
Basic squats work for me. 50 a day keeps ED away.
@georgemouxios82484 жыл бұрын
Love your content Broo!
@cfaz67633 жыл бұрын
You know it really sucks that males pressure each other to have sex.I am almost 40 now and I waited to lose my virginity to a male until I was twenty-three. And it was with a guy that I did not know, who had a thing for me.He had a whole other family that I had no idea about. I knew that he just wanted sex, mainly because I know how males pressure each other to screw, etc etc as you were saying in this video. Women definitely have caught on to men screwing just for bragging rights. I felt like I was finally ready to just get it over with, it was very disappointing, it was quick, and when I saw him and his friends again they were all smiling... and I knew that he had told them. But I knew that I was never going to have sex with him again for my own reasons and it didn't bother me as much as I thought it would. Now if I was in high school in this happened I would have been torn up over it. I wouldn't have had any kind of idea to why he would do that "to me". Banging women isn't really trophy winning. It's the chick bragging about how hot you were in bed that will actually make you feel great about the sex. I mean really I'm a lesbian now so that says a few things LOL. But I can promise you women do not want to screw you because we already know that you've got some bullshit behind it, like pressure from your fucked up, immature friends. Ditch them and you will see that respecting women will be the easiest way to get laid.... repeatedly!
@Unye52522 жыл бұрын
👏
@tarunsiddartha86354 жыл бұрын
Dope content as always.. That thumbnail though 🔥😂...
@cfaz67633 жыл бұрын
The garden hose in the pool LOL
@TheRealJaded3 жыл бұрын
There's a huge psychological aspect to getting it up.
@allhavesaidtheirprayers34342 жыл бұрын
I'm dead inside, and nothing makes me stop. Until... I thought about my wife's feelings and the pain it causes, or has caused. She deserves better, and if I don't get my shot together, then I hope she does leave. I will fully deserve the pain. I'd prefer to avoid that. Thanks for the vid.
@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate28624 жыл бұрын
Its actually crazy what pmo does to your brain. I had the same problem and once I stopped watching p*rn everything got better
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
It can really destroy many parts of your life
@Unye52522 жыл бұрын
@@ColeHastings Kesinlikle çok doğru.Bu tehlikenin farkına 4 yıl önce vardım, ve şu an 55 yaşındayım. 40 yıllık porno bağımlısıyım😣Mastürbasyonu bırakmayı başardım fakat bu lanet olası porno alışkanlığımdan vazgeçemedim.Ama kendime o kadar güveniyorumki uzman yardımı olmadanda çok yakın zamanda beynimi esir alan bu kahrolası zehirden kendimi kurtaracağım.Çünkü kendime söz verdim.Kaybettiğim yıllarımı asla geri getiremem ama zararından neresinden dönersem kărdır.Ben Türküm ingilizce bilmiyorum.Sadece çeviri yaparak yorumları okuyorum.Insanlık adına faydalı bir farkındalığa katkıda bulunuyorsun.Seni takdir ediyor, ve başarılarının devamını diliyorum.👍
@DisciplineShift4 жыл бұрын
This guy has a very bright future
@melonie_peppers3 жыл бұрын
Porn addiction is thing in women too. Use the "block explicit results" setting on chrome
@Mon-hv2hq4 жыл бұрын
My son is experiencing this too! He is now 3 months old.
@icedynamite15604 жыл бұрын
Lmao damn why bro
@echidona2933 жыл бұрын
This video was well explained and I agree with mostly everything.
@marieholmes64803 жыл бұрын
#driyaremoses Herbs and body cleanser cured me permanently from hyperthyroidism with in 3weeks.
@dansmith68563 жыл бұрын
Also quit my PA and never been happier and more energized, ED completely gone👍
@eyes1168 Жыл бұрын
I struggle with the female version of this (as a bisexual woman), and this helps a lot on quitting p, it made me objectify women so much and completely separate romantic attraction from sexual attraction. Interesting how different it is when it comes to women vs men, it's like p brainwashed me into objectifying women but I never had the same problem with men. I know a LOT of girls who identify as straight yet they had the issue of only being sexually attracted to women without love yet were romantically attracted to men but weren't able to "want" them.
@JF-xm6tu Жыл бұрын
Then they aren't straight then. But that's normal nowadays most women aren't straight but bisexual in western countries. Over 56% of 18 to 30 year old women. And the numbers grow. It's because of social conditioning, media and pr0n.
@mildhotpeppers4 жыл бұрын
Appreciate this content bro. I was with a girl a while back and it literally just went from 8==D to 8\ and I didnt know why. Scared the hell out of me. I looked into nofap a little later and I have seen a little progress but man it is difficult to stick with. Longest streak was 40 days and I've been struggling to get back and past that. 7 days today. Stay strong kings 💪
@titaa562 жыл бұрын
Kings? 🤣🤣🤣 don’t think ED dudes are kings 🤣🤣🤣🤦
@narc4404 жыл бұрын
I don't have ED but my issue is that I want a girlfriend simply because I feel lonely and not properly loved
@ziommis4 жыл бұрын
Im 20 and im not even ashamed anymore to tell that i have problems with erections, i tested my hormones - testosterone 750, estradiol 65, i stopped watching p0rn week ago, and try to overcome anxiety.
@lovemusic22221002 жыл бұрын
Can you update us please?
@ibadurrohmanhanif79922 жыл бұрын
u cured bro?
@3LZ0RR04 жыл бұрын
Pretty scary to think about what the future for us men will look like, because right now alot of men are down bad because of porn and how girls normalize such behavior, it's hard to quit watching stuff on the internet but we have to stop. nofap really changed my life for the better!
@aidan96564 жыл бұрын
What girls are normalizing watching porn? Most women don’t want a man who is a porn addict lmao
@marmello45664 жыл бұрын
your videos, specially about this subject are so good.
@beezneez20563 жыл бұрын
Porn is literally destroying relationships 😢
@syrgakomuraliev4 жыл бұрын
There’s one thing I noticed happens when I relapse - something really bad comes out... always... and sometimes it stops me from doing dirty things so that big good changes happen in my life
@thenattygorilla4 жыл бұрын
This video got recommended to me right after I came home from my girlfriend's house. And yes, I did have ED. It's a sign from the universe.
@nastyass44663 жыл бұрын
How did u overcome it?
@yasha39164 жыл бұрын
We are all useless to the world in the end .
@Angeldavidmartinez20044 жыл бұрын
Hi cole!😃
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
Hey Angel
@Fl4meFlow4 жыл бұрын
No dislikes. THATS MAD
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
Feeling the love
@BhobsonKatie3 жыл бұрын
I’ve had the same issues since I can absolutely remember huge performance anxiety still do to this day I’m 38 now nothing is changed and watching porn definitely definitely it’s not healthy
@33ggparv4 жыл бұрын
You should make more videos on this topic
@stephenmcdonald79924 жыл бұрын
Please stop using the stock footage, your videos seem so authentic and original because it’s 100% shot by you
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
There are certain things I'm explaining that require stock footage
@stephenmcdonald79923 жыл бұрын
@@ColeHastings thanks for the reply, I realized I sound quite a bit like a dick there and I apologize. You’ve just been such a huge inspiration for me with filmmaking because you’re not scared to post something that’s not filmed perfectly and it brings out the true law of learning from trial and error. Have a good day, I hope you read this 🤙
@elibrooks16623 жыл бұрын
I 100% had ED at 21 and it went away.
@OscarOffTheCuff3 жыл бұрын
From nofap?
@titaa562 жыл бұрын
I know a guy friend whose was 22 with ED and still 10 years later suffering from it. Never went away.
@malek.7044 жыл бұрын
5 years of what ! DYEL BRO
@ColeHastings4 жыл бұрын
Lol what
@malek.7044 жыл бұрын
@@ColeHastings do you even lift
@stargoldinum37983 жыл бұрын
Tbh I always felt weird when I'd be on any social media site and women shaking ass and dressing skimpy kept getting shoved in my face. Like its so rampant. One of the main reasons I haven't got on tiktok bc its so pervasive there
@astudent17433 жыл бұрын
Fax
@jasonn_lifts4 жыл бұрын
Don’t relate, but clicked for the algorithm 😂
@theronstrong87653 жыл бұрын
Let's not forgot alcohol and cigarettes making it more difficult to get hard. I went camping with a lovely lady and had three beers and some smokes and i found myself quite desensitized, it wasn't until the next morning that i was able to perform better and actually feel it. alcohol may not effect everyone this way but damned if it does
@lawrencebishton90712 жыл бұрын
There is a working cure for this
@MyEddy094 жыл бұрын
It would be cool next time to address it in a way for all sexualities. 👍