THE EXIT PLAN | The Slumflower Hour podcast

[@tragimelody]

Coming across your podcast has been almost a religious experience to me. I've rewatched many of your videos, because they bring me so much clarity about both my past and my future. Thank you so much for what you do!!!!! ❤

[@sodnsty467]

💯💯💯

[@aintsheadaisy505]

Guuuurl! facts on facts on facts as always! I've ADHD & I'm a natural yapper, but I'm learning to shut up more, esp when dealign with men, yes even male friends, cuz sheesh they can switch up and use it against you when they don't get their way, or feel like they can't hold control & power you, or when they're intimidated by your success. Being truthful does not serve you when it comes to men. I am no longer telling men how much money I'm making, my deepest trauma, the mistreatment I've endured from other men... they're just looking for loopholes to use your weaknesses to exert their power over you. I'm learning how to lie! Thank you, Chiddy!

[@yasaman5283]

I love youuuu , serious ❤❤❤ I wish I could be your friend . I'm from Iran . 🇮🇷

[@KatieLeyden]

Omg nooo girl you are extremely logical and detailed and CLEAR when you explain your mindset and I know this because I came from being SOOOO opposite and yet I STILL wound up knowing you are so right. People will hear what they want to hear. The clarity and nuance with which you discuss your ideas is unmatched

[@GrungeGalactica]

Only 24 mins in and already being read to filth in the best, bluntest & funniest way 😂. For me every slumflower vid is like having an ice cold shower in the morning, getting through the initial shock & discomfort, to then adapt and wake tf up with a fighting energy. On a serious note I was basically conditioned to not judge people (including men) and to give them the benefit of the doubt. My discernment needs a lot of work let’s just say that. I had no idea about the phone number thing?!! It’s scary times out here. In fact it’s been scary, I was just never made aware of all this and have somehow, luckily survived to my late 20s in one piece (mentally is a different story but still). Thanks a bunch for spelling all this out for women like me. As a neurodivergent I relate a bit to the alien analogy she mentioned in a previous vid. Like I’m on this weird planet where everyone seems to know all this stuff thats so obvious in hindsight, but I feel like I’m the last to know 🙈. I’m so thankful that chiddy tells it like it actually is in an entertaining way that I can understand and digest. Cheers big sis 💕

[@hernameisch3rry]

The way I sit here nodding as I listen ✍️ 😂

[@khadijaacone830]

Almost 2 hours! We needed this!!👆🏼

[@olikah4667]

As a bi woman, all this is looooong for a man. Men drain me. Also, on the “obey” part of the vows, Kate Middleton had that part removed from her vows.

[@tinachristine4573]

And she's still being expected to wear funny hats and smile like a Stepford wife. So much for removing 'obey' and yet obeying the men in suits all day every day. Not a flex at all. Also she has no money of her own. So how will she not obey what she's told?? 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

[@olikah4667]

@@tinachristine4573I agree. However, she does have her own money. Much like the so-called royal family, it’s from the blood of the enslaved. That’s the money that paid for her education; a fund from a slaver ancestor of hers.

[@SanSanHylton]

I’m glad I found u😅

[@mieskaarendorf8247]

Man, I just love you girl.

[@olikah4667]

1:02:38 CHIDERA!!!!! Professor in the house

[@yasminwalker4966]

Hahahahahaha! 😂😂😅😅 I cant believe you said astronaut! ive been saying that to men for years! 😅 I used to put it on my dating app profile years ago. 😁 This is why I always say you are totally my spirit animal 🙋‍♀️💯

[@KatieLeyden]

Started welling up when u said u nearly didn’t put this one public LOL thank you🥺

[@sixtyblackmystictraveler]

Think for the future not for the now. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@olikah4667]

15:18 what’s that saying, “good women don’t make history “, or something like that 😂

[@choc_g5456]

Well behaved women don’t make history 😂

[@joymiano4385]

Girrllll

[@joymiano4385]

😂😂😂

[@sunlight8299]

When I get my direct debit I am going to use it to pay for the pattern to get more tips on how to get more for my life

[@Brownie101abc]

I’d really love if she had like a guest that was a gay male and just talked about her strategies in the queer community.

[@olikah4667]

1:14:12 😂 Pearl will never get picked 😅

[@ball-rf6zf]

Says you

[@powerpuffganza]

Are you looking at other people in the room? I miss your eyes staring at me 😢

[@kaysmellsgood]

Lmao not astronaut 😂

[@hernameisch3rry]

How do I meet my second man tho 😭

[@nablona]

Its not about the same email or number is the device, so annoying

[@Empre55]

🔖2:41

[@redavian]

Whether people like it or not, capitalism forces us into contracts. When the contracts are written down, defined, that breaks down the uninformed consent of capitalism. Writing out or clearly defining relationships degrades the power of abusers. Degrades the power of capital.

[@porche.edwards]

Yo …every time I listen to your pod I have to turn my volume all the way up babes you gotta talk which your big girl voice or get a better mic #sexywhispering