The fall and rise of a gambling addict | Justyn Rees Larcombe | TEDxRoyalTunbridgeWells

[@ugglanvu]

The day you quit, is the day you start winning. Believe me.

[@Mattblairdrums]

Facts. Just quit ban myself from all My accounts today and I feel like the weight of the world just fell off me

[@gtaverse6333]

@@Mattblairdrums How are you doing? Still on a no betting streak, I hope.

[@brynlpz83]

1 more spin never hurt no-one lol

[@santhoshr455]

True

[@robertolugo9727]

Thanks Bro..I won $1,000..$600..$250..& LOST WHO I AM!! PRICELESS!!

[@Dan-oj4iq]

It's not the losing that destroys every gambler, it's the winning that does it.

[@JustinLT212]

100% I acc think casinos work together all part of a bigger web to see if you have signed up before, first time I put £100 in won £1,200, from a £1 SPIN!! I thought this is madness carried on, won another £800, about 12 months later I’m maybe £4000 down. More importantly I spent all that time.

[@D_Thang]

@@JustinLT212 I won 9000 Euro with roulette and kept playing. Lost it all.

[@chrissysmith1198]

I felt this

[@oRoligk]

it doesent matter, we produce the same amount of dopamine as winning when waiting for the resualt of our gamble

[@catalinone5666]

@@JustinLT212 1

[@Burago2k]

Win = wanna win more Loose = wanna get the money back You never win, thats why the casino exists, its not a charity, its a scamming machine

[@Chico_Lachowski]

It’s not a scam. It’s just taking advantage of our dopamine receptors.

[@Burago2k]

@@Chico_Lachowski what you are saying is right but i was too, the odds of casinos are very bad and they can manipulate them even if the odds are on display

[@rickquesada925]

The House Always Wins.

[@mikea3118]

I've lost a lot, but not nearly as much. I give this guy credit, because I spent so much effort to hide my losses. His courage to share save him grief and also helped others avoid pitfalls.

[@WickedxAngel]

I got into sports betting last year in may & stopped exactly this may ( full yr later) & I kid you not. I lost over 30-40k & only won 12-15k max. No kidding, if you don’t got it just stay away. Doing better now atleast have 4k saved up from stopping last month. Take it easyyy

[@mr16325]

@@WickedxAngel how much were your units? I’ve never heard of a beginning gambler use units that large

[@WickedxAngel]

@@mr16325 Well lets just say Im a trucker w/ a good amount of $$ saved trying to figure ways to multiply my income & I stumbled across sport betting & I was live betting 250-500 & doing nothing but impossible parlays of 100-300 & surely not it added up drastically paying up a sum of -2k/-3k per week. Glad thats over with. Live & learning experience.

[@mr16325]

@@WickedxAngel yeah it really sounds like you struggled with bankroll management that’s what gets a lot of people

[@WickedxAngel]

@@mr16325 most definitely man. Rookie mistake by far you dont know what you’ve lost until its needed & gone.

[@sungs3917]

Don't ever start to gamble, it is so destructive. Casino should be banned forever everywhere in the world.

[@livedoglefty4995]

You can’t just remove everything that maybe harmful to some people, the only hope is to educate people

[@losted815]

It can not be banned everywhere but there can be solutions like a losing limit for each +18 person monthly...

[@mikieger6001]

All sorts of addictions originates from traumas. Wrongly choosen tools to cope with hard feelings. Groups and theraphy can help. Dr Gabor Mate has smart insights about the topic.

[@ghenghiskhan6703]

Lefty TBN agreed. If that were the case, we would have to remove alcohol, cigarettes, and all fast food

[@swojnowski453]

You gamble all the time in life. The trick is not to chase loses. There are always loses as there are bad days.

[@guliegirl]

Don’t gamble, worse then the loss of money is how sick you feel and how hard it is to not obsess about what you did.

[@thomasmcglone754]

Have you tried out trading stocks and shares, earn from investing.

[@thomasmcglone754]

I’ll assist you, you can trade and earn comfortably

[@thomasmcglone754]

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[@thomasmcglone754]

W h a t s a p p available ☝🏻☝🏻

[@timothyernest6429]

Both equally painful and sad.

[@siddnadeem1]

What an amazing speech. Coming from an ex gambler he deserves nothing but respect

[@johnsmith-rl7yx]

True brother. I can feel his pain. I probably didn’t lose much like him but I have won a lot and lost a lot too. I notice now that most of the time I won but because we are human being and not a machine. We get off track and emotional get involved and that how I got out of my system and lost. I played baccarat and roulette and especially in baccarat I have won more than $120k usd in 3 days. Not lying but in 30 minutes of getting mad because of emotional s I lost it all back and including my 10k bank roll as well. I have a good system but I know now that it’s almost impossible to do it alone because no one can keep themselves under good control for a long period of time. So now I know that only play small sessions. Making a little bit then leave. That’s the best only of you have bank roll and system and know what you doing. Never walk into the casino and thinking luck alone gonna win. Because if there’s luck there’s a thing call bad luck too but ,most people only think of good luck and not bad luck lol

[@abishouse7910]

How did you stop

[@Real2k25]

Facts

[@timyatcak3292]

don't CHASE...Have a pecentage of your bankroll and when it is gone, STOP for the day

[@battleborn8658]

@@timyatcak3292 I've tried that it doesn't work.

[@abas43091]

I needed to hear this today. Trying to cope with an addiction that is not visible. The hiding of my losses has driven me to have mood swings the likes of which I've never had. Listening to this man's story has brought me to tears multiple times.

[@fernandotorres6451]

Keep strong! Trust your loved ones.

[@mfh6817]

How it going now?

[@HP-rp5nn]

Prayers for you and I both.. it is serious

[@joecolucci]

I feel you big time. I hope you worked it out .Check out what I just said too, I understand

[@nonyabizz3533]

Dont give up.

[@hazimhashlamoun6785]

The more videos I watch for gamblers recovered stories the more I realize that there is no option but quitting

[@joeharding7356]

gamblers always know when to stop, but they always can't do it

[@NYFOOTBALLGIANTS94]

Joe Harding very true

[@bahasapaaja8040]

So many big reason for that

[@juliuscaesar1062]

thats true, and the last time i played, when i was at the peak of my game, i told myself to cash in but i became greedy and wanted more, ended up losing 500 bucks.

[@lollic307]

@Alex Geoffrey Thank you for the encouragement. Hopefully you meant funds to keep going the right path. I am an Lpn and thank God I have a job..I live in a tiny studio apartment in a rather depressing city. I dont belong here..but I've trapped myself. I am trying to make the most of it. God is keeping me afloat. I'm ashamed of what I've done with my life. It's not good enough. I want to help other people..and enjoy life. I've boxed myself In..when at one point I had freedom and didnt even see it..or have the courage to travel and socialize and live. I worked myself to death. I broke myself. I get by Alex..thank you for your kindness . I hope you are doing ok. God bless you. Peace

[@lollic307]

@Alex Geoffrey keep chasing? That seems cruel to say. I will chase life and God..I'm not running anymore. I do need support and a positive sober community. I'm ok.

[@Mark-lj1dj]

This guy has my utmost respect. He has excelled in everything. From success, to failure, to recovery, to success again. The fact that he gives back to others after his own recovery is fantastic.

[@OrthodoxHC]

I've been a social gambler for six years, and it was nothing crazy until now. The last two months are a nightmare. I'm currently in debt to my brother and my mother. Yesterday I've gambled my salary away which I was working really hard for, working overtime for it. Last weeks my thoughts were only focused on cutting my losses by placing a correct bet on the correct soccer game. The only way to cut losses though is to stop betting and focus on your job. God bless everybody!

[@Grissbane]

@cisty brown For now. I dealt table games. Quit while you're ahead

[@muhammadahmed1426]

Hello G.T how are you doing now? please let me know. Did you quit or continuing. what are your plans? Please respond

[@OrthodoxHC]

@@muhammadahmed1426 Didn't bet since then. I don't intend to get back. I'm doing decent for now with finances. Me and my brother are building a twin house.

[@muhammadahmed1426]

@@OrthodoxHC Great news, thanks for the update. Wish you all the best 💪

[@OrthodoxHC]

@@muhammadahmed1426 Thank you brother! Wish you the best

[@aaronsoto4622]

I been an addict gambler for 8 years now. I've gotten no where in life. Because of it. It halts your life. Until finally you find yourself in the streets. Just STOP. It is the ONLY WAY. .

[@ShupikayiMahwahwa-d4x]

Thanks

[@alejandrosandoval7582]

I have an addiction, it is killing me. I have 22,000 dlls in debt now on my credit cards and have no money in my bank account. I owe money to friends and family and the worst thing is that I won 3,000 dlls this weekend and lost them again. I am desperate, I cant sleep, I am in a bad mood all the time and currently I hate life and no one knows about it and I can’t tell no one. I just hope that I can return to this video one year from now and that my life will be better, debt and betting free. Wish me the best if anyone reads this, I hate myself. I am sick

[@MK-jl9zi]

Good luck, i’ll pray for you!

[@sbarney776]

A lot of us have been in the same position. Take small steps in your recovery. Exclude yourself from all gaming and be proud of yourself after doing so. It is hard to give up the thought of winning big, but you have to do it for your own self dignity. You will feel empowered after quitting and working toward paying off your debt. I promise!! Many prayers to you❤

[@billymanziel5666]

Good luck friend, you can turn it around I know it.

[@happykiddos7776]

@juankin the same with me 300K , there is a void in my heart that I cannot fill ,I feel like a failure , I should have left my job because I know I hate it so much and I lost all my hard earned money.

[@matthewsinclair2310]

I’m the same brother about £8,000 in debt but trying to get myself out of it, have a good paying job and nothing to show for it, we’ll both get there

[@jamey909]

Okay, I'm convinced now. He's definitely not performing for an audience. This is how he always speaks and acts.

[@kokoloko7509]

"It's always easier to cry than to change." I have been fighting to save my life for a long time, but addiction is hard to beat.

[@callumozz1880]

This has hit me deep, everything he was saying felt directly towards me, thank you for sharing your story

[@Clintsessentials]

Callum Ozz 94 agree

[@Clintsessentials]

Callum Ozz 94 agree

[@conor4846]

you've taken pity on a man that deserves none

[@motoforce7978]

I feel the same

[@johnsmith-rl7yx]

Tf Oh true brother. I have won a lot and lost a lot too. I notice now that most of the time I won but because we are human being and not a machine. We get off track and emotional get involved and that how I got out of my system and lost. I played baccarat and roulette and especially in baccarat I have won more than $120k usd in 3 days. Not lying but in 30 minutes of getting mad because of emotional s I lost it all back and including my 10k bank roll as well. I have a good system but I know now that it’s almost impossible to do it alone because no one can keep themselves under good control for a long period of time. So now I know that only play small sessions. Making a little bit then leave. That’s the best only of you have bank roll and system and know what you doing. Never walk into the casino and thinking luck alone gonna win. Because if there’s luck there’s a thing call bad luck too but ,most people only think of good luck and not bad luck lol

[@johnaustin9192]

I felt as if my addiction was getting bad, i quickly seeked the help i needed, and 4 months strong. Please get help before it gets worse, it can destroy everything

[@robinacosta1698]

What helps you?...I really need help but don't know what to do.

[@heiltecn9ne]

Addiction is merciless

[@madflava5101]

Thank you , I'm 19 and I know I have a problem. Its something I need to face but this video is something I will refer to as a regular reminder of how bad things can get. Thank you sir 🙏

[@ryandelsignore]

How’s it going?

[@ioneiroi8350]

I do hope you've figured it out!

[@uglyboijr3148]

how’s it goin

[@DJ-kk3co]

I’m 23 and struggling. I keep telling myself once I get back even or up that I’m ganna quit but keep digging a hole

[@donidog7493]

At least you’re only 19

[@sroberry7]

I'm in tears because I fully understood every emotion he described. I haven't fallen as far but I think I was brought to this video prevent that fall. When I (on rare occasion) get up the guts to gaze upon the box of lost scratch tickets, I wish I could take it all back. Not even a million dollar win could fill the hole those cards only made worse in me.

[@freddy-ip1pq]

hi

[@chriswoods662]

its not the money thats so bad its the feeling its so pointless (imo)

[@dizzysleepers5005]

No matter what, this guy was born to be successful at anything he excelled at, even debt. You can do anything you put your mind to.

[@nfloz11]

dizzy sleepers Not anything. Many things yes. Not anything

[@00Phat12345]

Except predicting who's going to win at sports.

[@robertozamorabritojr.8512]

This is true!!

[@angelanicol6721]

Massive respect. His honesty will save lives. I hope he knows that..

[@johnjonez8331]

I’m leaving the casino, just lost my last 5k. I am sick to my stomach. Thank you. I am turning over a new leaf. I can’t believe how fast this addiction took over my life.

[@abeltembe6179]

You'll gamble again

[@FuegoSavvy]

​@@abeltembe6179 you're negative

[@miket6915]

@john jonez I know the same feeling I just spent 2 whole days at the casino and lost 5k. I’ve never been more depressed in my life. It’s hard to keep going but knowing there are others with the same problem gives me hope that one day I will find happiness in life. Thank you for sharing your experience. I hope the best for you ❤

[@nonyabizz3533]

@@miket6915 Its just money bro. That's it. Just money. I am sure you have a roof over your head, plumbing, and maybe even ate today. Many cant say any of that. Bro it sucks, but it literally is just money. Break down life, money doesn't really matter.

[@mmm00910]

@@nonyabizz3533 IM CHESTER BENNINGTON IM AN IDIOTIC WHO KILLED HIMSELF

[@user-cv2qj4zj2p]

Don’t feel guilty anyone! The hardest part is admitting it’s a problem

[@lw3106]

The hardest part is stopping lol.

[@truegrit4752]

I once heard this: Do you know what makes a compulsive gambler? The first win.

[@GreensRams]

Never were there truer words spoken.

[@billsamuls7620]

YOUR SO RIGHT

[@thomasmcglone754]

7 2 7 8 9 9 6 7 5 8 w h a t s a p p

[@alexlewis699]

So true

[@billsamuls7620]

@@alexlewis699 100 PC

[@smith077906]

The rise and fall and rise again, beginners luck is always so unlucky long term

[@michealrawlings9281]

Respect ✊🏾. This message is to let you know never give up and family is all you have in this life/world. A loss isn’t a loss it’s a lesson.

[@Kingta17]

Lol lp

[@chasityyoung815]

God bless you! I needed this so badly today. My husband of 21 yrs has a big secret. I have asked him if he had gotten in over his head. I told him he could tell me and I would be right beside him fighting this beast with him. He WILL NOT admit it. He gets mad at me. We have nothing left of our once magical relationship and friendship. I'm lost. I don't know what to do.

[@frankwilliam8023]

I used to be an active gambler till I saw the better side in trading and earn multiple streams of passive income in trading in the stock market. All thanks to my forex and stock account manager Mr Harry Whyte, ever since I started trading with him for the past five years. I have never experienced any failed trade. You can contact him via his cellphone number on what's app [phone]

[@LayLoow]

Your husband is probably trying to fight his demon on his own because he got himself in the situation and feels guilty, it’s good you are being supportive, try taking his finances of him slowly so you have control and give him an allowance

[@Sophie-cr4xg]

God bless this man and his recovery. No word of his story should be missed!

[@JayDiamond]

Really brave to tell his story. Its a slippery slope, the self denial is strong. Im so glad he eventually recovered

[@ruleetteout43]

Absolutely. Telling your story is so powerful and the first real step in moving forward. No more hiding.

[@robinacosta1698]

How do you recover.?..I need help.

[@chaddi136900]

Kale here from India, I am 32 years old. I iam in addict..lost everything for my years hardworking money in sports betting and at the point where I have no money in my bank account. Thank to God I haven't borrowed money from anyone or do overdraft on my bank account to recover my previous losses. I usually never have tears in my eyes But watching this video of this when you share what if I have lost that first bet. I actually had tears in my eyes. Thank you for sharing your story. I have to live with this guilt for the rest of my life.

[@williamflinchum-qo6ch]

I've lost 2 million in my life time! And wound up homeless, I know all about it! It is a curse, a demonic bondage I had alot of gamblers in my family! It,s was a generation curse on me! I,ve found Jesus now and have slowly been rebuilding my life, it,s been very difficult so far! Boy have I learned my lesson in the past 6 years!! God bless you all😊😊

[@metsrus]

good luck

[@TheCommentsSectionATL]

Today I am committing to quitting. As I listened to this video, I realize that I have not acknowledged why I turned down this path, today I was made very clear why. Now I have to turn back around, face my challenges and know that if I keep heading down this road, there is a dead end. I searched for videos and this one helped me in just a few moments. I’m done

[@hayaglamazonluxe]

Very powerful speech and incredibly brave of him to share. Financial-related addictions and problems can be devastating.

[@nick6703]

Watching this at 3AM after losing $3 on pokerstars

[@michaelk9056]

5$ bet on Huuuugeeee Casino I lost it.. Bought a pizza and enjoyed it... Paid in full

[@vik4486]

Pokerstars is rigged.... don't play it

[@louielaolong2200]

I lost over $32

[@nzcc1503]

I have received my wages today. I knock off early visit Casino lost it all playing roulette Fks it's terrible

[@wintertarzanjagrup2527]

@Dankanomics What did you lost it on

[@nicholeanntimoteo4922]

I am struggling at this moment trying to find the will to dig myself & my family out of this hole I created. It took a lot to finally admit my addiction. I just need to find the strength to stay the straight path and not stray. The temptation is real but my family is what I need to remember to motivate me to quit.

[@kane5445]

I just want to let you know , Im here because I’m in pain and suffering immense mental breakdowns from my recent losses . I don’t know how to stop but today is my first time trying :-( . Hang in there . I need to get myself out of a 100K hole

[@xnjn_DKkn]

@@kane5445 stay firm and away from the bets friend, as the guy said in the video, don't let your pride make you try to recover again, just accept that you lost and keep living, treat it like it was some urgent fact that made you lose your money, like surgery or an accident with your property, and you never want to recover the way you lost it.

[@julianboakye8993]

I only come here after losing big and I get depressed. After a few days I get some money and I go back to sports betting. Hopefully , one day I can let it go forever.

[@DrJ-hx7wv]

My friend, we both know you can't win. If you could, these people couldn't be in business for long.

[@SoundOfaSoul]

I know it seems like such a big chance or percentage that you will win instead of lose that next bet but I can tell you. For me it helped to see working a job to earn that money is like a 100% safe bet. You keep winning and suddenly u see the money stacking up. Nothings going anymore. Youre safe again. Please try it Im just 23 years old and very weak in this kind of things buf I did it and feel truly happy again. you should be able to do it too. I believe it.

[@adjawoabdulrahim3580]

Julian Boakye bro, since I started sport betting I lost 10,000 Ghana cedis. If I get another money then i go back to betting then they chop me again. 😢 😢

[@adjawoabdulrahim3580]

Stephen Humphery such as, please introduce me to any becuz I'm full of debt

[@elbarto1200]

Same

[@rarity2006]

There is a great lesson to be learned by this mans story. I give him kudos for the courage it took to share what he went though

[@yandhikapamungkas5255]

28 apr 2024 i cry when i watch this because now iam in part that my wife and my 2 handsome sons left from home, hope i can through this like u sir

[@maccauwic]

You've reduced me to tears watching that. Thank you for your honesty. I will look to find a course near myself and I intend to join it.

[@paulbrindley1874]

I bet you don’t 😂😂

[@mmm00910]

@@paulbrindley1874 Chester Bennington is a coward remember that

[@nadzyea9780]

Multiply his addiction by 3. So almost 10 years .plus add alochol and pokoes with it. Yea closing in over 400 thousand spent. Nothing to show for it. I only stopped a month ago. See how it will last

[@Itried20takennames]

If it doesn’t last, try again! Hopefully it sticks but if not it is not a failure, it is practice on your way to full quitting. Best wishes.

[@bassistvoil]

How’re doing man? 11 months now...?

[@bigkatspoker]

Remember you have everything you need right now.

[@uri469]

As an addict with teh roulette that completly change my mind, I absolutely regret spending each single dollar on the casino. Even though a part of me sill thinks that if ai bet i'll win for sure, the rational part is taking over and saying:" don't do that you will lose and you could save and spend it with more productive things. I thank you so much for changing my mind!

[@pbetftdi]

1/19/14 was my last bet

[@badofcheese]

pbetftdi Great effort that. I’m closing in on a year.

[@ellenjackson522]

Congrats One day at a time

[@RobertHurleyJr]

Stopped today

[@TheKidJswizzY]

Wow

[@shoromeo]

That's horrible. Get back to betting.

[@Timmysminivanventures]

Well done chap. Being reborn is an amazing thing.

[@Real2k25]

Yessir

[@WalkingOnWater86]

I hope i get trough this. The hardest part is when you stop there is no penny left and the urge to win it back is so damn horrible!

[@mikeprez8880]

How are you doing now?

[@xnjn_DKkn]

For sure, and than u go back and loss, and than loss again, even do an all win, and lose money that was essential to you

[@nohatenopain]

Amen man. When you look back and realize how much time and money you have lost in it, then you feel like you can’t stop.

[@ChannelTheGamer]

Only until your pride and spirit is broken can you really stop. You'll always find ways to get more money but the mental aspect is what really keeps you going.

[@fernandovisagie9389]

im so moved with your story. Im struggling with the same addiction now yesterday i had enough starting day 1 on my road to recovery

[@seasidemarksfleariddencarp9930]

what an inspirational guy!!! highly articulate - shows it gets the best of us from all walks of life

[@steffenworldcitizensurf5926]

Amazingly, I know so many truely intelligent people caught in this trap.

[@hairbyday5041]

Gamble free for 2 months now. 💛

[@martinandreev2722]

Text me please beaty

[@gemel7801]

I hope you kept it real and still free and also enjoying your life stress free

[@ubahjames811]

This video made me shed tears after a long time. I am gradually leaving sports betting because it takes one no where

[@dawids6450]

I really would like to say thank you 🙏 for this amazing speech. It’s just like listen the story about myself. I have 3 beautiful children and a lovely wife who is always right next to me. I know that I am pushing them away, loosing them every time when I gamble. Loosing money, dreams and everything I love, my family. I wish to be strong like you.

[@ruleetteout43]

You can be man. Keep on keeping on.

[@docjnsn73a]

What an amazing story. I sit at a slot machine as a way to unplug from the world for awhile. I dont lose a lot and even occasionally win (or at least thats what i tell myself) but watching this video i see so many similarities especially with the time im not spending with my family im ashamed of myself. The people in my life deserve better

[@chasinghorse4447]

Jeff, I hope you are ok. I work at a casino, and see many who are sick and broken. I wish I had a family. I hope you can keep yours.

[@docjnsn73a]

@Chasing Horse Thank you for your concern and I actually mean that. I'm doing okay but I'm glad I realized it was becoming a problem. Unfortunately I haven't quit completely as it's a difficult addiction but I can honestly say I have slowed WAY down with it and am working towards total abstinence.

[@jenniferramos2846]

I am the same. I sit at the slots as a escape & as a reminder of my boyfriend whom passed away in 2021 cuz it’s what we did. Now I talk to him the whole time I’m there alone. It’s not good n I need to stop. I’m not losing family or possessions but I’ve thrown away probably at least $10,000 that could’ve gone to my debt. I think I’m stronger now to stay away. 🤞🏼

[@AndyChesters-h3f]

I work with Justyn occasionally and he is very good at what he does. His message is very important in my humble. Stealing from employers I can't condone but I have not been in his situation. However, we all deserve another chance and good on him for his honesty.

[@billymanziel5666]

He seems like a good guy

[@jay-rus4437]

After a similar story, on deferent specifics, I too climbed out of the hole that I dug and put my family and myself in. Priorities HAD to change. This isnt about having stuff....owning more....making more. The selfishness that I lived makes me sick today. Am thankful that my wife didnt take my family away from me....that was now 7-1/2 years ago. What an amazing family that I have the opportunity to be a part of. I also learned not to be so judgmental of others in difficult situations, even if it was caused by poor and self destructive actions. I can assure you that it can happen to anyone given the right circumstances and frame of mind. Wont bore anyone with the details, but life is not only better now, its better than its ever been. Even so, I wouldnt wish that path on anyone

[@robinacosta1698]

How did you stop?...I need help with my addiction

[@jay-rus4437]

@@robinacosta1698 … I’m honestly not a professional counselor, so I would hate to give inaccurate advice. Addiction can be extremely complex. I in fact did see a counselor that brought to my attention that there were underlying issues that were coming out in misbehavior and self inflicted harm. I would highly suggest that you reach out to a professional. The money I spent was minimal compared to what I would have spent continuing on the path I was. It’s been almost 10 years now, and I still have to consciously be aware of my mental health and what effect it can have on my actions. In short though, I can say with confidence that stepping away from a certain level of lifestyle was important for me. Keeping things simple removes a level of anxiety that tends to influence my seeking out what I feel at the time is financial success. The less my “need” for financial gain, the less likely I am to make rash decisions that I tend to justify in the moment.

[@AbhishekAkhani]

Great lesson for all gamblers like me. I am on the same way. Already lost around $6000. I keep on betting whole day. Its really an addiction. Need to stop it.

[@andrewtodd5203]

Ive lost 100,000$

[@hobonation5260]

Dang man I lost 940,000 and the loan sharks want me dead

[@DrJ-hx7wv]

"If I stay long enough, I HAVE to win, right?" The law of averages isn't real.

[@telemundo38]

Only $6000 lmfaoo if only i was that lucky. Sounds like you winning to me.

[@bodyloverz30]

@@DrJ-hx7wv The problem is that the law of averages, is based on a long time and very large budget. Also, most casino games have a house edge, "The Vig", or Vigerish; so the longer you gamble, the more you lose.

[@rayofhope8703]

Praying 🙏 for my brother to recover from this

[@Tazxding0]

i search for this on yotube finally and i think this story is just.. spot on what i needed to hear, and the comments, on the bright side i guess i didnt went into any debt, but this has been crushing any progress in my life, for years now.. i cant even imagine how much better my life would be right now if i didnt lose all that money, i worked so hard for some of it and thats what kills me, i have been stuck in mediocrity for years because of this sh*t this is just soul taking, i have been corrupting my soul with shame and lies, i hope i can leave this forever i really want to i swear.. and i will try again.. hopefully this is the one for me now and i really hope is the one for all of you.

[@Reddevil514]

Seen this guy live today at our army camp very inspiring!

[@petereriksson1390]

Respect man! You are 100% Belivible in this Tedx Talk. So i say from the bottom of my heart, thanks Sir! From Peter Eriksson Sweden Europe with Love to freedom, not free bets!😊😊😊

[@bigalexander]

I find my self in everything that you said here. My last bet was on 14.10.2018 . One day at a time.

[@jylessa_spiritgem4736]

Oh my apologies, to the side who's story this is, I commend you for your openness and your willingness to share your story and in such a way it will inspire and encourage the next person to fix their addiction! May you and yours be blessed

[@yoroller7359]

I'm broken deep down my soul. I am morally crushed and destroyed. Yes you got it right, I am a gambler, who destroyed his fortune. Robbed his own house.

[@MrAnthonyVance]

The best bet in any casino is the Exit Door.

[@rickquesada925]

Ha ha!

[@flashyjoeflashyjoe2787]

Thanks you Justin. I’ll never forget the impact of this video on my life

[@thomasmcglone2727]

+ 1 7 2 7 8 9 9 6 7 5 8 w h a t s a p p

[@deejayforreal4189]

What a noble and satisfying story to reinvent yourself from the person you were. Excellent!

[@SebastianDiaz-zq7nx]

It's true, I won in one night playing around 4 hours in 3000 dollar machines, with small bets and I thought this is my day, I started betting big and lost everything in minutes.... worse was the feeling of guilt knowing I I could have gone with a sum that would have changed my economy for many months... addiction is not always visible, it is difficult to accept it, and most can tell you to stop going to the casino and it's over... but your brain works on you the mind...

[@petiepab123]

Strangely enough, a HUGE part of the addiction is becoming addicted to LOSING - its easy to think its all about that rush you get in that moment while its all on the line, but its more about LOSING...you dont realize it at 1st, or while its happening, or maybe right after the dust settles, but eventually you realize that you had been addicted to that massive rush of losing - losing $ you needed for bills, $ you needed to pay someone back, all of it, and once you realize THAT part of the addiction, and the lies/sneaking around/etc you have to go through to maintain it have dominated your life, you can at least START to put it behind you...

[@michaelkim4703]

FACTS

[@hanihatoum2852]

Omg

[@hanihatoum2852]

Thank you so much

[@othervideos4002]

This is a very insightful comment. A spiritual teacher named Eckhart Tolle describes this exact phenomenon in his books. He says the ego (or what he calls the "pain body") is addicted to pain. It feeds on pain. It requires more pain to survive. Most people with a strong ego will seek out situations that are guaranteed to cause more pain in the long run. It is a deep seeded and hidden part of a person's psyche to need and want pain, so it is not obvious at first. It is exactly the same phenomenon with alcoholism, drugs, and most other compulsions/addictions. At the sick mind's core is an addiction to pain. Tolle and other spiritual teachers show you ways to transcend the egoic mind to get out of the cycle of pain. This man's recovery began when he got on his knees and asked God for help. Chapter 4 of the big book in AA talks about a spiritual awakening from the sick mind by seeking out a power greater than our minds. There are a lot of ways of transcending the sick ego/mind, but they all involve a spiritual awakening in some form or another. You cannot fix your sick mind with your sick mind.

[@UKJLo]

Very powerful, I wish everyone would watch these.

[@kellennickel4354]

first time i sat down at a blackjack table i won about 3k it was the start of a terrible addiction

[@antonsitcuk]

Are you still addicted? Are you down bad?

[@zachduplechin8352]

Great speech. I feel his pain.

[@Mr.MiddleClassPH]

I needed this. Thank you.

[@lucianmarius4132]

Last bet. December 24, 2019 - 300€ lost. Wish me luck guys to stop them because i'm going through a huge anxiety.

[@toptechtips187]

Last bet 2 hours a go £65

[@Ocean_of_Thoughts1]

Try to find a new passion so you can fill that hole when you stop gambeling. Regularly attendance is Key so you don't skip sessions and it prevents you from falling into that hole again

[@Kb_yyz]

Lucian Marius buddy I lost $3100 on dec 18 😂😂😂 get a job

[@chicagomojo]

Go to meetings, get a therapist. This is an addiction that can't be conquered alone.

[@costinnitu3813]

My last bet was today. Although I had periods of breaks and start over today I can say that I completely lost my appetite. It's simple: we must be aware about the fact that the house always wins and that there are so many variables that on the long run is just futile and destructive. Now I will go and buy some KFC and some chocolates and I will spend my time with my girlfriend/friends. The first sign of maturity is to know that success comes with extensive work...never by cutting corners. Head up, man!

[@Chikanini]

Man. Tedx is powerful. I gamble and think I have an issue. But I keep funds in my account for emergencies. I guess I have some self control. This is sad to hear. More people need to see this. This young generation now is screwed

[@itsbread839]

I cried knowing this is me I sold some of my possessions to think I can make it back and I even stole from my partner I absolutely hate myself. I appreciate you for sharing this.

[@joshbates669]

I’ve waged about 70k this month from just winning and losing bets, I’ve won just as much back as I’ve lost so in reality I haven’t lost anything, maybe 500 gain or loss if anything, i started with about 1k in my account and have just gone up and down throughout the month, it is very scary hearing his story because this could become anyone who gambles, I will come back to this video anytime I feel like I am losing myself

[@metsrus]

just walk away and find another hobby

[@rjg9708]

If I may ask how you doing now?

[@stCentury-yg8xc]

Hope u still doing ok ?

[@ChiefTerrell]

He loss like everybody else 😂

[@jeremiahharris4389]

Thank you for your experience,strength and hope! Great message!

[@gstacks510]

Damn what a compelling story, I'm glad he got his life back and is helping others.

[@venkat757]

Well said bro.... Mental discipline is very important... I won 31000 with 3000.. I lost all 31000 same day by night.... I wanted to quit but My mind didn't allowed me... So I was chasing my intial deposit 3000, I lost 55000 in 10 days....

[@nayankalapgarvlogs6613]

Same I lost 30k my friend in 1xbet and Dream11

[@g.sabatier5352]

I won and lost 94K within 5 days.....

[@g.sabatier5352]

Makes you feel horrible but ultimately gotta forgive yourself and move forward

[@user-yz8hg6qh5c]

Problem gamblers always lose money in the long run.. Expert gamblers make money in the long run.. n the house thrives on the multitudes of amateur and leisure gamblers out there There's a lot of discipline needed in multiplying money (passive income generation) fellas.. regardless of the process.. many problem gamblers end up blaming "the process" but in reality they had always lacked the skills necessary to generate passive income; which is what they were unknowingly trying to do

[@nagarajun5556]

On a long run no one will win...quit quit plese quit

[@cmc5666]

Went to the casino a few days ago with $60. Left with $750. Went back the next night and won again, another $650. $1400 I had. Went back tonight, lost everything. Absolutely torn up about it. Such a rush, but the self loathing hurts the most. Don’t gamble, use that money for something nice. Something you can use, be proud of.

[@frankwilliam8023]

I used to be an active gambler till I saw the better side in trading and earn multiple streams of passive income in trading in the stock market. All thanks to my forex and stock account manager Mr Harry Whyte, ever since I started trading with him for the past five years. I have never experienced any failed trade. You can contact him via his cellphone number on what's app [phone]

[@tarorune9466]

So u lost $60?

[@roselovesmakeup]

What’s the point

[@reencarl8998]

Winning is what gets you hooked. I won 4 $1000, jackpots in about 10 days a few years ago. I thought I was invincible. Not the case, then I began to lose a lot more than I won!

[@Liweiwestside]

Thank you for your message. I gambled today and that will be the last of it till the death of me.

[@lorrenlindsey6445]

I am glad you boldly took this step!

[@ikennakenneth1106]

😢

[@ikennakenneth1106]

I am finished with this mess

[@Liweiwestside]

Way to go king💪

[@ayomidefrancis-akinlolu3035]

@@ikennakenneth1106have you now finally quitter it?

[@rubberduckie9556]

wow this is inspiring God bless all that struggle through this addiction

[@vaughancapstick9961]

O Lucky Man ... That's some journey. 'Life is better now. Life is better when I don't gamble' And the kid replied 'Dad, you mucked up. Don't do it again.' It was that simple. The required wisdom the veteran needed to hear came from an innocent. Strong for each other ❤

[@bigyo3545]

Man I Really Needed To Hear This 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@riinasia]

All the best. Don't gamble ever again and thanks for your touching story.

[@spartanspartan497]

Thank you Sir for sharing ur story today in our camp. All the best for the future 🤙🏽

[@autisem5636]

Yesterday I finally got myself to push the big block button. Not a temporary block this time that I've been doing for the last couple of years, which always causes a relapse once it ends, but permanent this time. I'm feeling a mixture of emotions, which includes guilt and the losses, but also there is euphoria and the fact that I'm finally free and there will be no more losses ever again. And my addiction also began with a £5 free bet.

[@leanmicheal8721]

I'll recommend you invest in options and stocks ,earn profits as returns.

[@leanmicheal8721]

If you need assistance, i'll guide you .

[@rjg9708]

Hello, how are you doing now and may I ask how long it took for that feeling of wanting to do it again took to go away? God bless🙏🏼

[@shamshermanik775]

This man is sure example of excellence in what we should and are meant to be, however it is a cruel reminder of the times we are living in where we are subjected to the true reality we face everyday.

[@paulawagner6058]

Thank you for your brutal honesty.

[@ruleetteout43]

Brutal honesty is often what's required. Full disclosure and no more hiding.

[@ashishdevgan3808]

The day emabarks a new journey in my life, today I quit the strongest addiction I have in my life. I swear this on my words

[@xXKiller597Xx]

I won 2000€ and I couldnt stop and lost everything again :C

[@evieparada]

Lmao

[@leonfomuso7042]

forgive yourself and move on , but i feel you

[@timothywanjohi2604]

Lost just as much, I am distraught

[@g.sabatier5352]

Aww poor baby, well I won 94K and couldnt stop playing and lost it all again.

[@michealcarter5475]

@@g.sabatier5352 do you still gamble?

[@johncrazy8756]

great story and great man, that was able to overcome what many will never understand!!!

[@rodniegalvan8807]

Last Bet: May 26, 2024 3:08pm GMT +8:00 wish me luck

[@PJVist]

It’s BOTH the winning and losing that destroy every gambler

[@paulkeenan2691]

Oh the sensations of our cravings-and the attachments we acquire to them

[@alifeofjoy29]

Powerful testimony! To God be the glory! God is willing and ready to set free and deliver you from any bondage. He’s just waiting on you…🙏🏽

[@jeffkline9191]

So many land mines in this world.

[@Clintsessentials]

Yup

[@gratemusic3008]

Dammit, sad but true. I'm usually happy...until these proverbial landmines

[@RainsWorldVegasSlots]

Jeff Kline exactly

[@kylesimon7231]

I have a problem at 26, $6500 dollars into debt, i feel hopeless, but i still have a job in a great career path and i'm dedicated to move forward. I'm going to take back my life. If i can get any advice from someone i'd love to hear, thank you

[@aeromedical6750]

His story is exactly why I don’t gamble. I have no interest in risking my hard earned money on the turn of a card or the roll of the dice.

[@lynnkmiddle]

But I bet you have no problem buying a drink which for a lot of people turns into a problem, most gamblers don’t consider that they’re losing money that’s not what the addiction is about, it’s the dopamine rush that is the same feeling meth users get, it hits the same receptors so they are chasing the rush not the winning or losing of money. It’s about brain science something most people don’t understand they only understand money not the cost of gaining or losing it. You may never understand because your brain operates under another pleasure/pain receptors in your brain.

[@Indianastones.]

Lucky you

[@Srindal4657]

Well you must be very proud of yourself

[@nicolasweeney2084]

Good on you for your heartbreaking honesty x👏🏻👏🏻