The Fannita TikTok callout didn't go as planned

[@chillarypuff]

As a fat person, when fat people lose a significant amount of weight, sometimes they become EXACTLY who used to bully/hate on them because their identity and appearance changes so much

[@purpleonii]

chubby person hera, yea

[@rockabyeruby0370]

It’s true it’s like a power move to them

[@doggwater]

Watched my ex best friend go through this. Girls treated her horribly her whole life as she was overweight, at 20 she got a gastric bypass and lost over 100lbs, then I watched her slowly turn into the kind of girl who used to bully her. The moment she started projecting that behaviour onto me and bullying me, our friendship was over.

[@gh0stcup]

Congratulations on getting away from that toxicity ​@@doggwater

[@mariaiss]

as someone who got weight loss surg, drastically losing the weight like that, it's very hard mentally .You start seeing VERY FAST how people treated you before and after surgery, which is kinda crazy tbh. So I guess portraying the mean girl persona is just a defense mechanism or just to try to look very confident to others. No that I condone it, but just my perspective.

[@deadlynightshade9094]

Fannita: "I faked my personality so y’all would like me and give me money" Also Fannita: "I’m real, raw, and authentic" 🤨🤨🤨

[@anahill2366]

💯💯

[@user-uc5dm9bm7u]

I was wondering why nobody else is saying this 😭

[@freememewhore5359]

So is no one going to call a spade a spade. The definition of racism is “having prejudice against a group based on stigma or physical characteristics” so why does everyone pick and choose which races you can be racist towards? I’ve been bullied for my skin tone by people of colour.. yet I’ve never once made fun of someone for being born with dark skin. If you replace the word white with black in all the shit she was saying she would never have a platform again. The hypocrisy is crazy on the internet.

[@KS-ev2zu]

Literally contradicts herself in the same breath

[@blub_655]

She has literal consistent crazy eyes 👀

[@OfficialJuanCamacho]

Fannita literally turned into the people she mocked.

[@p-__]

My farts are better than Austin's farts.

[@Mooseinclusivity]

I completely agree

[@Phil-tn5ny]

Dude... she's gone pre-karen (mini karens before they evolve intol legendary karens)

[@dismurrart6648]

This is my thing about "the angry fat" as she put it. I'm fat I get how mean people can be. If you gave a test Holliday or a fannita a magic pill that would make them skinny overnight, they'd become the fatphobic skinny people they complain about.

[@AlfieDog4]

When the victim turns into the perp

[@emma-sk3jw]

did she forget she can be correct but also narcissistic and rude 😭 like her points are so SO valid but the delivery really took away from it

[@MikuH8sU]

for real. it’s a shame because she could’ve opened a more genuine dialogue about it all and raised awareness,, not everything needs to be watered down and digestible for white people but my jaw fr kept dropping w how hard she was going w everythinggggg

[@thotsandpears]

Right it gives me a bad feeling even though I agree with her

[@katietree4949]

Boiling things down to a digestible and cohesive argument and debate is something that needs to happen, not just for 'white people'. Girl went too hard and let her emotions run. She woulda hit a wider audience if she didn't drag on the way she does. Fr one of those scenarios the teacher asks for a paragraph and she delivers an additional 6 pages repeating one paragraph seven ways. Coulda made a proper argument if she put her ego aside but lost half her audience attention half way through.

[@MikuH8sU]

@@katietree4949 EDIT: I am addressing the first part of this persons comment, as they edited it late :/ adding this for transparency so my point doesn’t get lost/skewed further I don’t think you understand the point I’m trying to make. For too long people of color have had to talk about their struggles in a way that protect white peoples feelings and peace. It’s just a fact. In the States so many of them spend a majority of their lives trying to make themselves palatable- especially when concerning white fragility. I am literally white and understand that. While yes, obviously discussions should be cohesive and understandable, it’s back-handed and out of touch to expect to be spoon fed each and every time - especially when it’s about the same issues that aren’t new. They shouldn’t have to do that in order to be heard or seen, equality/equity is not transactional. So when I say not everything needs to be digestible/watered down, it’s not me saying “yea use vile ostracizing language and belittle others” - I’m talking about the topics at hand. The reality of our world is not comfortable, and it shouldn’t be.

[@polynarcs]

How else is she supposed to deliver the message about racism 😂…

[@madelegg]

"actually its 25 dollars a month to gaza" coming from the girl who just said she made six figures in five months? that's not the flex you think it is lmao

[@chatoyantsfriend]

💯💯💯💯

[@valiumhime]

Was about to comment the same thing...

[@christopherhammond5142]

I mean, good on her, but it's certainly not worth boasting about, what does she expect from people?

[@TamTam-rq4nc]

spending $6k on a purse, but we're supposed to applaud her for donating the equivalent of a netflix subscription

[@naiadnb]

literallyyy all my working class friends are dropping more than that when they can

[@SamanDroid]

“Walk among civilians” 😭😭😭 girl you bought a thing and a half from Prada one time! Stahp. Lololollll

[@lurker616]

Not a thing and a half 😂😂😂

[@LoreleiCatherine]

A thing and a half 😂😂😂😂😂 one purse and one half used perfume tester 😂

[@brooklynsoleil-iq7sk]

watching the clips in the prada store are so cringe omggg its visceral, those poor salespeople

[@iioreo7015]

i cringed at every interaction

[@bubblezxallxaroundx]

it's so malicious too cause that man definitely makes his money in commission so she had him essentially trapped to say whatever the hell she wanted and he had to just smile and nod if he wanted the sale. gross.

[@mayagarcia-hector2732]

… at Prada. Ain’t nothing WRONG with Prada. I love Prada. But u can buy it with the grocery budget of a small family, is all I’m saying. It’s not a Bugatti. Pipe down, ya know?

[@bradynztunez]

it sucks so hard when she continues later on to mention that she donates $25 a month to the efforts in palestine. like girl, you can spend hundreds if not THOUSANDS on a fun impulse buy, brag about how many figures youre making in only a few months, and say you get big brand deals but youre donating maybe 1% of your overall earnings a month, if even that? she just so casually threw that into one of her responses like it makes her some form of savior for donating what is essentially her loose change to funding that needs huge support, both socially and financially, from creators that are as widespread as she is.

[@williammccann]

@@bradynztunezand what about the forced labor used to make the bag??? It's all just garbage anyway.

[@hails1136]

she ALMOST had a point when she said people wouldn't listen to her when he was bigger because that's absolutely true, fat people are generally taken less seriously and given less grace. but then she goes the other way and says "i've earned the right to say what i want" as if... fat people and/or "ugly" people... don't? she also had a valid complaint about racism in social media. black creators straight up get paid less, and people shouldn't necessarily have to say that nicely. but also, pointing out and targetting specific creators is not how to go about it.

[@pipeliner4029]

Good point. Fat women are discounted more often than not. I dislike the mentality that now that she isn't fat she deserves to bask in the thin privilege. It would be nice if she tried to make life better for fat black women, but she isn't obligated to in any way so I can't really hate on her for not trying to. She has a lot of good points and her take away from those good points seems to usually be "I'm going to get mine, I don't care about anyone or anything else".

[@KeitieKalopsia]

Yeah, she’s acting like those creators asked to be paid better than POC creators??? Unless there’s something else I’m missing

[@TacgnolGummi]

I mean that's half the problem, is so many people lack actual convictions. Once they've secured the bag, fuck everyone else.

[@SaintShion]

That's true, but what I found terrifying is her saying she knew she couldn't be mean and fat...so what? She manipulated her audience into thinking she was a decent person to get money to live a certain lifestyle and now that she lost weight she can go mask off?? So bizzare.

[@samanthaorologio6866]

Ehh idk yall… I was with you until that last little bit. I’m still halfway through so the only comparison I’ve seen thus far is herself to Alix Earle. Point blank she’s a beauty content creator. They ALL get paid more. I’d find it for compelling if she could find a BLACK BEAUTY CONTENT CREATOR, with as many followers, platforms, engagement, likes, same exact brand deals, watch time, etc that gets paid less than alix. Blatantly. And even then it can’t really be spoken to power to the truest degree until we know way way way more details than we will ever know. Who is their manager, who touches and speaks up for them. Who is accepting the money in this hypothetical creators place? Are they speaking up for themselves and advocating and demanding the same amount of money Alix makes from the same brand. And did they expressly reject the hypothetical POC creators demands? We will never know those details though. It’s just disingenuous and bad faith to pull someone out of thin air in an entirely different realm in general. Like 20k for a brand deal is a fuck ton of money. I’d be just as disingenuous to say I could probably find several white creators that ARE in her realm, that went from obese to thin, that are funny and talk shit and all the things she does in HER realm that get paid less than her. But I still bet we could 😂 and I bet we could find the opposite too. But she didn’t go there. She went for one of the TOP EVER EVER creators on TikTok lol. Idk it jidt feels icky to me. The same way the gender pay gap argument can be disintegrated by the same logical line here. They’re not accounting for so many things when they claim women are paid less than men. And it’s very much already been debunked. I just need more info first to get behind that. Personally. Nobody cares what I’m saying, I know, but damn does it feel better to get it off my chest anyway 😂

[@GSFL1]

The irony of her saying some people are just physically ugly then getting mad when people say she’s ugly lol

[@QayyaMUA]

LITERALLY 😂😂

[@samquinn2769]

the crazy eyes during her “yall don’t know me” rant is telling me everything i need to know

[@angelj4ne]

Literally

[@LatestCreatureFeature]

Oh yes the latest background video for eating dropped

[@p-__]

My farts are better than Austin's farts.

[@emma-sk3jw]

me eating dinner rn

[@autumnsprite]

REAL AS FUCK LOL

[@Mooseinclusivity]

EATING DINDIN AS WE SPEAK.

[@citrusuny]

literally eating pasta

[@Mooseinclusivity]

“ I’m walking among civilians again” girl what??? You were BARELY known.

[@neru1584]

Like I didn't even know who this lady was before this video 😭😭

[@Mooseinclusivity]

@@neru1584 agreed. I wasn’t sure who she was

[@christopherhammond5142]

For sure, she's not Beyonce, she's a fucking civilian, just like all of us.

[@Mooseinclusivity]

@@christopherhammond5142 my thoughts exactly. Or since she does have a SMALL following compared to other influencers or creators she should at least use it for good. Instead of becoming this nasty human being.

[@christopherhammond5142]

@@Mooseinclusivity That's a great way to think of it. It'd be so nice to hear that kind of story, wouldn't it?

[@JSouBK]

Fannita is truly exhausting. Such a mish-mosh of some good messages from the wrong hypocritical messenger, with fully egregious takes peppered in.

[@switzer_no_switzing]

💯

[@liranekm]

She is unhinged . Look at her eyes . SMH

[@catherinepowell4149]

She is VERY exhausting. Geez.

[@liranekm]

The girl is feral

[@kodakoala]

Yah .... The hypocrisy of focusing on race then attacking all white woman is hypocritical. She's displaying horrible narcissistic traits that are vial. But I find all these videos online people seem to be the worst of society and too self important.

[@Blindfold-Me]

If Projection was a person

[@strawbemoji]

she genuinely sounds like she's going through a manic episode; it reminds me of the way Azalea Banks used to post on social media. like, I'm sincerely concerned for her mental well-being right now.

[@pip4773]

No fr

[@AlwaysM0ndayy]

I was immediately getting Azalea Banks manic episode flashbacks.

[@velocitraptor420]

this was my initial thought as well

[@organicallyhannah]

Fr, that’s immediately what I wondered. Her eyes show it when she’s *really* spiraling out of control.

[@paigeanguish6216]

the rambling and heightened audacity, bulging eyes, talking a mile a minute, feeling untouchable, aggressive tone, etccc it screams it to me. even pointing out in the alix video she isn’t on drugs lol i always feel the need to clarify that when I’m manic bc it really looks like ur on coke. she seems manic in a lot of videos, i have bipolar disorder myself so ik firsthand what it looks like. her points make no sense most of the time like these ramblings go nowhere. she says so much while saying so little. she needs therapy not a big following to profit off her unstable mental health. she’ll do or say whatever to keep the views and interactions coming in for $$ eventually.

[@HouriSamatsu]

She’s interesting because she recognizes very real societal problems that affect black women and bigger black women at that, but fails to recognize that while that stuff is true, people really don’t like her cause she’s bitter and mean. It’s almost like she’s taking advantage of the social truth that society as a whole treats black women poorly and using it as a shield for her bad attitude and bitterness

[@vanillaa_spice460]

Like my mama said, when some black folks get famous. They forget where they come from. They forget their roots, and how most black folks can't afford Prada or lux brands. She is a prime example. Especially with the section 8 comment.

[@ElvenHeart457]

She isnt wrong about they pay gap, but why tear down other women? It makes her come off bitter, cocky and so unlikable

[@Chaos_God_of_Fate]

*plays the coping and seething clip for her*

[@christopherhammond5142]

Yeah. You can tell the truth and still be a massive dickhead.

[@absolutelyridiculous6743]

Exactly. She's rude and misogynistic, and racist too.

[@MaryYYY_15]

Exactly she's right about the pay gap but mentioning Alex Earle without having a creator to similar following be an example was the worst move knowing people will just say that it's because Alex has more followers

[@WeShareTheSameAffliction]

There's no "pay gap" 🙄

[@Throwingstarlight]

Why do I have a feeling that the “dirty looks” in the mall weren’t because of her buying luxury items? 💀

[@CBrown86]

Yep. Its because she is obnoxious

[@samsuppa8816]

Probably because she is screaming into her phone not being mindful of her surroundings.

[@karlarosajohannajimenezort8118]

I mean, and I might be motivated back when she was “a fat bitch” I was a follower but I also stopped following her as the Tarte drama unfolded because I thought she was starting to get insufferable (and I was right) but… and not to cut Fannita ANY slack, but… she’s right about the dirty looks thing, just ask any brown, or black in particular person you know if white people treat them well when they’re doing great financially and getting luxuries. Fannita low key ate with that one. She has still had some of the worst downfalls ever. She’s become so unlikeable, wtf?

[@NoNameNomad....]

​@@samsuppa8816yep!

[@shellygarland8766]

Because you’re probably racist.

[@indifergi]

In my opinion, the way she talks about the pay gap issue devalues the seriousness of the issue. The execution was messy, cringy, and poorly done. There was way too much unnecessary, unhinged filler, it makes it hard to pay attention to the issue. She has not an ounce of humbleness so it makes it even harder to listen to her.

[@toniahanrahan]

Same. She’s right and she’s allowed to be as emotional as she wants, but she’s losing the basis of her argument. I can’t even remember what she’s mad at anymore.

[@Mothromance]

Its also how she makes it ALL about her. Even if youre right, talking about how youre rich and making 6 figures in a few months and buying two prada bags.. and then ranting about how you should get more money is just going to put people off. it wouldve served her to talk about it in more depth and build on what others in the space have said (eg, jackie aina) instead of essentially brushing them off and saying nobody listened to them, which felt kinda disrespectful tbh

[@yeah7519]

I don’t understand the appeal of the mean girl persona. Why do people like this???

[@women4569]

I know, right? With the rise of the internet people have become sooooo mean. And they just don’t care, they’re like devoid of empathy. So they like to sit in these echo chambers of just mean and miserable people.

[@mmem4264]

It's the whole I tell it like it is nonsense. Like being mean somehow makes it more true/honest/legit and less pandering etc.

[@HelloKitty-x3]

I personally blame the Mean Girls movie and other content that contains characters similar to Regina George. Over the past couple years, the "mean girl baddie" persona has become so glorified that some people try to mimic it irl to seem more "confident" or "iconic".

[@Pink.pillow357]

​@@HelloKitty-x3 a girl at my school what's to be a mean girl so bad💀

[@th1rt3n_tn49]

​@@HelloKitty-x3 mean girls, and dare i say heathers-- in general now girls bullying others is seen as exuding "confidence" and "serving"

[@gravejello2331]

No matter what your point is, ranting non stop into a screen by yourself will always make you look insecure and unhinged

[@869ofuncertainty]

I cannot imagine having nurtured this much self hate and releasing it so publicly and enthusiastically. This is a reminder that getting thy surgery won't always change how you feel about yourself.

[@lovwe1490]

what’s so sad is that deep within the rant videos she posts is a true message about the pay gap between white creators vs poc creators and it’s truly sad and disheartening yet it’s the truth, you work twice as hard for half the pay just because the system was built that way. her delivery was a shame because a creator of her size with such a huge platform really could’ve begun an important conversation of the difference in pay and the unfair treatment of poc counterparts when working in the social media sphere.

[@acemyname]

exactly :(

[@justanittybittylittlefello4067]

do you have any examples of that pay gap?

[@Mooseinclusivity]

YESSSi want to agree with her so bad but her delivery is atrocious

[@CBrown86]

She’s not speaking for POCs. Shes speaking for herself. This is purely selfishly motivated. If she was, she wouldn’t just be talking about the POC demographic she fits in

[@ithoughtiwascishet1316]

@@CBrown86 why would she talk about a demographic she has no experience in? she's a black woman, so she talks about black women getting paid less. if other races have issues, they should speak up and we'll support them, not talk for them.

[@Starsongzz]

Okay so….this is a lot lol I’m a black woman, neurodivergent, 24, queer, I don’t know how I would be perceived by the average person, but I’m definitely plus size. I’ve been bigger, I’ve been a little smaller than I am now, I’m dark skinned, and I’m definitely not a quiet person, but I can read a room as well. Being in the south, I’ve had several negative experiences with white people, even when I was a small child. I developed quicker, and therefore, was a victim of overt adultification since age 12. I get what she thinks she’s doing, I really do, but this ain’t it. Something I’ve had to learn the hard way, was how to toe certain lines in life. Like the line between standing up for yourself, and attacking indiscriminately. It’s still hard, and sometimes I lash out at people who don’t deserve it, because I really do get her anger, but you have to direct it. As a sociologist, I’ve learned that there is no use in attacking individuals acting within a system, with exceptions. It’s not necessarily anyone’s fault that they were born a certain way, or in a certain body. Life is a huge gamble. I also don’t like how she completely ignores any sort of intersectionality when it doesn’t apply to her, which feels disingenuous. It isn’t productive to turn any group into a huge monolith, as you risk ignoring those who don’t necessarily fit comfortably into their group, based on societal standards, for one reason or another. It’s sad to see a woman, in one breath, admit the fickle nature of attraction, but then fail to mention how that affects others as well-even white women. Not to say that eliminates the disparities she mentioned, it’s just insincere to not paint an entire picture if you really wanna go there. It’s lazy and halfhearted, and clearly selfish. It’s also interesting that her first instinct was to resort to classism when she got angry. As a self-proclaimed comedian, this is *extremely* lazy of her. She didn’t use any wit and just lashed out like a spoiled teen. Also, for a comedian, she gets real butthurt, real easy. Her aforementioned lack of acknowledgement to intersectionality, caused many of the very people she is flippantly defending to catch strays…like…girl. Also she really just can’t say she ‘hates people and only wants money’ in one breath, then try and say she loves people and isn’t a raging capitalist. Something she’s realizing is that you cannot have your cake and eat it too, you can’t make people hate you and then expect unquestioning-support from them. It’s seriously giving ✨narcissistic tendencies✨

[@helmaschine1885]

Queer? As in a spicy straight or ACTUALLY bisexual or lesbian woman? Stop using a goddamn slur to make yourself interesting.

[@gleebybooer]

as long as you aren’t a trans predator who cares

[@chloecamille5390]

Yes! Some of her points mixed om there made sense but like you say some of her anger is misplaced. I really felt hurt and had to pause listening to her rant about how white women never experience hardships and dismissive attitude to brown women. Like girl sure I'm white but I'm also poor, disabled, neurodivergent and queer does she really think I get the benefit of being white when I'm constantly talked down to by doctors and jobs about how my disability 'REALLY' affects me. I dont really have the braincell rn to write much more but suffice it to say i strongly agree with your points and enjoyed reading your comment as a different perspective ❤

[@trala8911]

Growing up poor doesn’t mean you can’t be an elitist. If anything, the reverse seems to be true; people who grow up with fk all seem to be the quickest to turn around and insist they’re better than where they came from.

[@soniacabral5871]

Like damn Charles dickens didn't write a Christmas Carol for mfs to b acting like scrooge all over again 😭😭😭

[@venusretrograde6177]

That sales associate at Prada looks so uncomfortable 💀 lol

[@ptaylor7782]

right!! she was literally using him as a prop for her video, that makes me sick. if i was at work and forced to be in some influencers bs i would be so uncomfy.

[@kaylitobria]

"This is how you treat a boss" 🤢🤢

[@raindavisz]

he lowkey wanted her to get the f*ck out 😂 using him for online validation was so weird

[@thatbeaatcch9884]

They never act like they’ve been here before it’s actually hilarious and sad.

[@daniej.b6278]

She seems so bitter for some reason. Like she lost the weight and it's not doing what she thought it would do for her happiness.

[@catherinepowell4149]

I agree.

[@zizojaezekeom3565]

Give her some grace, she was bullied for years, you can't move on normally so quickly, she's bitter for sure but i think it's part of her journey and hopefully she listens to the criticism

[@acemyname]

as someone who used to watch her content every once and a while, i'm really worried about her, the way she's talking and how wide her eyes are in these videos is making me think she's either having a manic episode or is high on something like c0ke or some sort of upper, cause sure she's talked kinda crazy (for lack of better words) before but she's never had that jarring expression on her face, i hope she gets the help she needs, whatever that may be

[@rosawilliams9292]

I was literally looking for this comment!! Feels like a manic episode

[@sari9645]

You’re right! My mom is bipolar and she has the same look and mannerisms when she is manic

[@strawbemoji]

@@rosawilliams9292yes, thank you! I was thinking the same exact thing. I'm getting flashbacks to Azalea Banks.

[@raquel.showza]

My thoughts exactly! The "jumbled" speech and the new "spending habits" make me think about manic episode... I really hope she can get the help she needs.

[@deadmansquestions]

its those pain meds from dr miami i fear

[@WhiteclawGremlin]

Its giving insecure, deffinately the vibe of someone who got bullied in high school so turned into a bully in their adult lives. I feel bad for her but at the same time she gives me the ick.

[@socialistcatdad]

She's right about TikTok (and basically every platform) screwing over POC, but She's wrong about basically everything else lol

[@WeShareTheSameAffliction]

The platforms are not "screwing over POC." Society is choosing who they want to engage with, it's not the platforms falt.

[@socialistcatdad]

@@WeShareTheSameAffliction they demonstrably are.

[@CasiNicole411]

@@socialistcatdadthis is the first i’m hearing of POC getting paid less than white creators on tiktok and i’d like recommendations of sources if possible. i’m ignorant on the topic and it would be nice if you had some. i know i could find my own, which i will do, but if you have sources then i’ll gladly look into them. mostly because there could be other factors such as engagement, following, the amount a brand is paying, etc. i don’t see how tiktok itself would be decreasing someone’s pay based on their skin color. this is purely to build my knowledge and not a dig at anyone or a denial of the possibility

[@TiktokBro154]

@@WeShareTheSameAffliction Exactly

[@spoiledddbrattt]

@@WeShareTheSameAfflictionbruh

[@justabear4712]

dude. holy fuck she needs to close her eyes or else they’re gonna pop out of her head😭😭😭 i was worried for her the whole time

[@squibsupreme]

👁👄👁

[@justabear4712]

@@squibsupreme literally

[@ptaylor7782]

her face the whole time: 😳

[@ashlynneoswald]

😂😂

[@defsnotdevyn]

I thought she was on drugs or something with the eyes lol

[@Bananabbyy]

To me this feels like a pretty sad story of someone going through the onset of a serious mental health disorder. While I’m not here to diagnose strangers, there are a lot of concerning things that stand out to me in her videos.

[@BluejThompson]

Dr. Grande, this your burner account?

[@helolady922]

That's the vibe I get. It's giving manic episode

[@resintom852]

“I *had* to go get a tummy tuck, I *had* to go get a boob job” Girl bffr you *wanted* those and now that you can afford it, you did, which is completely valid. But let’s not pretend.

[@Suzi3Anne]

Actually if she lost 100 pounds it would have led to excessive skin hanging from her body, and is covered by medical insurance as a necessity. So yes she had to, not because she wanted to.

[@absolutelyridiculous6743]

Exactly. "Had to"...naw. WANTED TO.

[@resintom852]

@@absolutelyridiculous6743 just screams of a lack of accountability for herself 😮‍💨

[@wubblebubbleball5433]

@@absolutelyridiculous6743ever had a gastric bybass? Ever wonder what they do with all the extra loose skin?

[@michelle1291]

I would maybe let her get away with the tummy tuck bc of the weight loss but the boob job? Girl that’s an elective surgery. 100% not needed. I was definitely turning my head at that

[@jilliansmaniotto2326]

0:05 the term “comedian” is doing a lot of work here…

[@deshailewis8210]

Right I immediately went 🤨

[@Heather-4444]

“I’m real as fuck I never pretend to be anyone I’m not” except I like to all of you to get to where I am now

[@blanketcat13]

when youre funny you don’t have to tell people you’re funny all the time lol

[@elxxii.04]

right 💀

[@TiktokBro154]

True

[@paigeanguish6216]

or pretty, nice body, make money lol can’t stand it and she’s all in one w it

[@twistitbopit]

It's exhausting listening to her rattle off barely connected sentences that are mostly bragging, but also trauma dumping.

[@candycoatedthorns2876]

E-begging after her bragging about her 6 figures by the time it's May and shaming her friends after E-begging to them personally is wild to me. I could understand most of her other points but yeah, no, you don't get to shit on the people who give you your views and money and then turn and E-beg like crazy. That's wild

[@CrippledSwagger]

I had to skip through this video. .she's hard to listen to

[@BluejThompson]

Somehow sounds like she’s always yelling?!

[@joelman1989]

My thought was she loves the sound of her own voice

[@slangoognals]

"I dont get paid" "Look what I just bought, look at my new boobs"

[@TiktokBro154]

lmao but we are suppose to feel bad for her

[@jillianwest9755]

it’s so frustrating to see someone not understand that aggressive confrontation is never going to come off as genuine critique or change anyone’s mind :/

[@LoFiAxolotl]

I had to get a tummy tuck, boob surgery and i just came back from my Miami vacation... i had no time to grieve the only father figure i ever had... TikTok has made these kids so freaking delusional...

[@LoveK1]

Just reading that sentence sounds unhinged let alone watching the person it happened to.

[@Ruebeabea]

the thing is, tiktoks algorithm does favor people based on appearance, its a well known thing, same w/ brand deals. if she just spread this knowledge further, and focused on tiktok and the big brands instead of individuals, she would have been peachy.

[@harushiki2446]

I fully believe that she's always been this way but now thats she's lost weight, she doesn't have to hide it anymore.

[@Thatgradgirl]

Yep!

[@carnespecter]

so like... what exactly is her job online tho. like what is she doing. is she just buying expensive stuff and bragging about it? is that it? i genuinely dont understand social media stuff like this

[@nalanan]

Honestly, i think she makes good points when it comes to how POC are treated in the world. If she stuck to that content, i think she would have continued to grow. Unfortunately, she seemed to have let the bitterness get to her. On the other hand, I'm not sure if a white creator would have gotten as much hate in the end. I can empathize with her.

[@Arishé-04]

Like she has valid reasons, it's just like.... combating racism with more racism and being loud about being a content creator is insane. If you have a job that is solely based on the engagement of the public, you cannot shit on the public. And then she's using the struggles of her and others as excuses to be an ass to white people. And being fatphobic. Thaaaaat is super gross and counterintuitive

[@acemyname]

not trying to nitpick, but “POC” is already plural because it’s “people of color” so adding an S at the end just makes it seem like “people of colors” or something 😭

[@CBrown86]

Shes not speaking on behalf of POC. Shes speaking for the benefit of herself. To her, black women are the only victims of racism. That’s UNDENIABLY untrue. Its based on selfishness, not awareness

[@nalanan]

@@acemyname you're right 😭

[@leileyaravencroft]

I’m going to have to respectfully disagree because I feel that the problem is much more deeper than race. If it was just about race then it would be the same across the board, wouldn’t it? But it’s not. It has a lot to do with socioeconomics. Allow me to put it this way: is life easier for a white person who lives in poverty or a black person who has enough money to live comfortably? If we continue to just look at things as simply about racial background and not include things as environment, family background, education, etc. it isn’t going to help the situation. As for whether or not a white person would face this much hate… um… yes, yes they do. They face a *lot* of hate and heck, some have even had their careers ended over similar situations.

[@knowdaqueen177]

You forgot to mention the Pyrex situation with Fanitta that happened right before Tarte. You can see people mentioning it in the clip of her live while she was in Miami. She was crying about Pyrex lowballing her for a collab and her audience was supporting her and demanding Pyrex pay her fairly. Then when the Tarte situation happened she completely disregarded Bria’s experience and called her a liar.

[@AlwaysM0ndayy]

It's frustrating because she has a point about colorism and size discrimination, but it's dragged down by her narcissism. Also, not a doctor, but this seems like she might be having some kind of manic episode during these rants. Black women should be able to express anger without being stereotyped as "Angry Black Women", but this constant ranting is an abnormal amount of anger for anyone.

[@ryanpooley]

I feel bad for Fanita tbh Shes like the definition of "hurt people hurt people" and i feel like shes just crying out for help!

[@Nahbrochill]

She did it to herself She needs to take accountability

[@ryanpooley]

@@Nahbrochill I'm not defending her actions! She's clearly acting out in a crappy way! I'm just saying I empathize with her!

[@saiyamoru]

This is a terrible cry for help because it's actively driving people away from her. I don't want to offer help or sympathy to someone who lashes out at others - sooner or later, you land in their cross hairs no matter how much you try to avoid it.

[@kryssanrhule6401]

I think she’s just really insecure, that’s what it sounds like

[@kingchloris2]

Ah yes, the legendary “I’m not racist, my best friend is ___”. Never gets old.

[@lipsticknpistol]

When she started the sob story, all I heard was “and my sister had a baby, and my sister died, and they baby has no arms and legs”

[@sanrihoe777]

I’m bipolar and it takes one to know one, it’s giving manic and she needs help ASAP this is crazy

[@sadistfurret4205]

Why tf is she swiveling her line of sight like JFK should have in that parade

[@awkwardlymajestic]

LMFAOO

[@jillbunny90]

It's FREAKING me OUT!!!!

[@WeShareTheSameAffliction]

Omg, STOPPP 🤣🤣🤣

[@blurrydog1]

I’m sorry she is unhinged. “We’re already 6-figures in and it’s only may” implies she’s making like 200-300k per year. This is like, upper middle class in the USA these days. Why is she acting like jeff bezos😭

[@skelanimalsworld]

The wided eyed stare barely blinking cant stay focused on the camera is givinggggggg ❄️🥶

[@FaithTheZombieWolf]

I was thinking the same thing

[@crazyinnocentturtle]

It feels like she thought after she lost weight all her problems would be solved

[@isthatachicken]

Thank you for presenting this in the most factual way possible; in chronological order. I feel sad that she's going through this mental break in front of the world because even when she heals- people will still bring this up and be unforgiving about it. I think she's burnt out and doesn't know how to process all the changes that have happened in her life. Also, too much noise and too many voices around her. She needs quiet and time to process. Social media is not a safe outlet OR soundboard for when you have problems so personal and deep rooted. I do wish her wellness and healing and peace.

[@MzAlexa94]

She’s so exhausting.

[@samcarmen]

now that i'm thinking of it... fannita with (white) male influencers kinda gives off sienna mae and jack wright. like the constant sexual advances while they just "laugh" it off while always subtly rejecting or moving away from her...

[@blsmcherry789]

Omg yes that's the vibes I was getting... jokes or not you can tell when someone is uncomfortable.

[@samcarmen]

@@blsmcherry789 right bc if they were comfortable they’d be matching her energy but they never are… or they do at first but when she doesn’t relent they get uncomfortable. We saw it whenever she was with vinnie and now with any white joy she gets her hands on

[@Loading0038]

God, it must be exhausting to be so angry all the time. I hope she finds peace, and a personality. Making her entire life around being racist, hateful, and venomous to everyone, even to people who support her is such a sad way to live.

[@mercedescheyenne]

It’s so funny when people say they don’t care about hate comments and then dedicate multiple videos about it.

[@Kaileighblue]

Why do people get so obsessed with looking like they have money, telling everyone they have money, and generally being a psychopath to others about money. Who wants to look up to this person?

[@ptaylor7782]

to be fair it does seem like she’s like that because of growing up in poverty , which i understand. It’s like a cat who is greedy with food because they were once starving. u know?

[@Kaileighblue]

@@ptaylor7782 No I don't. Having also grown up in poverty I would never fall into the culture of being rich that puts *looking rich* over everything else. Apparently to the point that you spend all the money you get and BEG for more.

[@blsmcherry789]

I think it may tie to deeper issues and insecurities. If you have to let everyone know ur rich, funny, a nice guy etc... are you really? I guess it could also just be the flex culture on the internet too.

[@munmunil]

what she said about the unequal pay yeah obviously it’s true but everything else…. girl have some class

[@lalverdakaraoglu]

she sounds like she's having a manic episode ngl

[@mica9159]

Fr she is actually crashing out you can tell by her eyes

[@JSouBK]

Made it to the end, but since I’ve seen most of these unbearable Fannita clips before I had to fast forward through them. She gives me a headache.

[@merritt0729]

I watched this entire video & still have no idea what this woman was yelling about or how anyone thinks she's funny. Maybe I'm too old 🤷‍♀️

[@absolutelyridiculous6743]

It's ok. I'm too old, too. 😂

[@biggestbeelstan]

i aint even old and i dont understand her.. trust me, it isnt age at all i think its js her 😭😭

[@GilEdSa91]

her reasonings are justify but her entitlement and egocentric rants are just delulu.

[@PthumerianDusk]

"I'm moving to twitch to make real money" girl... I've got bad news

[@perlyshell]

wow, i have a lot of thoughts from watching this. i never really got the hype around luxury items. her feeling above everyone just because she got Prada is really pissing me off. that just shows how she'll act when given a modicum of money and popularity. how do you change someone's mind about the important issues she care about when she's so combative?

[@wilfredoanunezpacheco5367]

To be honest, I’ve never found Fannita funny nor relatable. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@p-__]

My farts are better than Austin's farts.

[@alleycat9605]

I’m not being shady or white knighting Fennita or anything but maybe because you’re not her core demographic she didn’t seem relatable to you. 🧍🏾‍♀️🫢

[@artsyscrub3226]

@@alleycat9605 No shit that's why they said "to me"

[@lillianabright03]

i mean... ur white. obviously theres a certain demographic that cant handle her heat. no offence.

[@Poopcat928]

@@artsyscrub3226 They did NOT say “to me” 😹😹😹🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🤫

[@mayagarcia-hector2732]

Prada? Ur acting this deranged over Prada? Ma’am.

[@lilbleep566]

I choked when I heard “I spent 6k today at Prada, so they better send me PR!!!!!”

[@nickbyrd1027]

Who makes these people famous? How did we create a society where TikTok "creators" could make more money than doctors?

[@Hemogoblin127]

23:12 the way she is just incapable of reading the room and seeing that shes just in the wrong is crazy to me 😭😭 like girl you made everyone in that room uncomfortable bc you just said some mean ass shit unprovoked.

[@lilac841]

That's a whole lot of deflection for being a bully.

[@numurin]

Influencers trying to push a catch phrase will never not be embarrassing….

[@Iwo.Gina6]

We want her to be mean so she is? In her defense i lost 100 something pounds after weight loss surgery and i went crazy for 2 years lost my miiiiind was malnutrition and depresion so maybe thats what shes goin thru

[@middledog466]

that's a good point thank you for sharing

[@ellenicole598]

I’m so happy this is being talked about. I lost 150 lbs and it became a downward spiral for me. No one believes that extreme weight loss causes a lot of mental anguish. I looked like I was dying and developed an ED, plus a plethora of health issues. I gained weight back, but I am still so sick. I was fine before I decided to lose that much weight and now I can barely get out of bed most days because of how weak I am.

[@Iwo.Gina6]

@@ellenicole598 same I have severe anemia now plus neuropathy joint pain and a lot of mental health issues plus what feels like how people describe chrons disease and IBS I got down to 102 lost all my hair 6 years later and still have issues

[@ellenicole598]

@@Iwo.Gina6 I’m right there with you. I have hypothyroidism, low iron, vitamin d deficiency, and I most likely have POTS now. I scheduled my appointment with a cardiologist. My ED nutritionist said I should also make an appt with a neurologist and a rheumatologist. My hair and nails are finally healthy again, but I still have trouble eating. Oh, the mental health issues with an ED just make it worse. I was diagnosed with OCD that stemmed from my ED. It’s truly tiring because it feels like we are going to feel this way forever and it feels like a punishment. We tried to do our best, but look at what we are left with? You’re in my thoughts and I believe in us❤.

[@Stumblingthroughlife]

​@@ellenicole598 I don't know how old you are but look up perimenopause symptoms... doctors have very little training so if you're 35+ it's worth looking at

[@donzobonzo4535]

she truly, truly has some valid points. but her attitude of "i've done my time so i can now act how i want" is so unbelievably rude and out of touch. plus her popular mean girl persona is so unlikable, though that's not exclusive to her, that's alot of influencers. also, and this just might be a difference in humor, but everytime she talks about being funny is just her being mean :/ (though i literally have never heard of this woman before this video, and i will 100% forget her by the end of the week, as i do with all tiktok influencers who are somehow always involved with drama)

[@ThemisadventuresofLu]

“The amount of dirty looks I’ve gotten” Girl you’re wide eyed and ranting to your camera and threatening your imaginary friends. Yeah I’d look over too 🥴

[@LyssMckenzie]

I feel bad. She just seems filled with so much rage. A lot of valid messages mixed with hostility and unhealed problems. She just seems really hurt. I hope she’s able to heal

[@DixieLeann]

I’m on a roadtrip in a 7 person van with 8 people in it. Needed this.

[@emmaloorose]

the ego on this girl is insane like girl u gotta prada bag and some plastic surgery u r not god

[@YaMother001]

She keeps talking about how talented she is- I’d like to see it

[@TiktokBro154]

lol

[@adoraolise1337]

Fannita really doesn’t understand how much damage she’s doing to the black community and it’s honestly heartbreaking.

[@shellygarland8766]

How exactly is she doing damage to THE black community?

[@PGOuma]

​@@shellygarland8766 exactly 😭 people never say this when there's problematic yt creators out there acting a fool

[@shanelbryant5638]

@@PGOumait’s projection. We don’t get the privilege of individuality to them. One of us is all of us and they never wanna look at the best

[@em84c]

She's just being herself..I don't know why she has to represent a whole community. I haven't finished the video though. But so far I don't get why people hating on her for accepting the trip. If she turned it down somebody else would have said yes. If they weren't black would they have gotten hate for it? She got asked out of so many influencers and people are telling her she's just a token black person and won't let her just be happy and excited for a paid holiday.

[@roxy4325]

Chile please. I just found out about this fannita person 10 minutes ago. I'll forget about her by end of day tomorrow. She is only affecting herself.

[@trendarella.truthfully]

Some people are really ugly on the inside.

[@roxy4325]

This 🎉

[@UltraMella]

She’s accusing everyone of playing victim but it just looks like projection to me

[@BluejThompson]

As a black girl, that used to be fat (not self disparaging I loved being fat). I have never been able to watch Fannita for long because making your race and weight the entirety of your personality can be so exhausting to listen to. Using it to defend any slight against you is an argument that lacks power the more it’s used. Not to say that in some ways your anger isn’t justified but to be in such a state that you can’t be pleasant for your own self in your career, means you need to take a break beloved. And not to say she doesn’t look good but she could stand to gain about 20 pounds because that’s why her eye are looking so big I don’t believe it’s drugs or mental health (at least I hope not). I know at one point I had dropped all the way to 145 and looked like a bobble head 😂

[@DommyMama]

Is she seriously saying SHE started that conversation? Girl. The narcissism.

[@Chaos_God_of_Fate]

She's Coping and Seething

[@elliottsalibi]

you’re becoming one of my favorite commentary channels on this app. your channel is so underrated.

[@Mynameisnotcollin]

It’s so crazy that she said “she’s not on drugs, she’s just funny” when after the point that she is clearly on drugs she stops being funny? Girl, where are the jokes? Talking with a little cokaine confidence just made her seem mean and cocky when she was kinda funny before

[@talkingtochapri]

14:35 the way she disrespected that guy 🤢

[@Chick3nSalad]

Urgh here we go with the victimhood again. Sponsors also look at how advertiser friendly a creator is, and I'm sorry to say, but this woman would completely put me off any product she's selling. She's incredibly abrasive. It's not always about discrimination 🙄

[@resintom852]

“I wanna be mediocre, too.” Mission accomplished, sweetie. 😘

[@gerubic]

I def sympathized with her when she started talking about her anger bc I’ve been there before and done and said some really awful things because I was angry .. but I also realize that those things were MY fault - not anyone else’s. that’s not to say I shouldn’t have expressed anger at how I have been mistreated, just that the way I did it was unacceptable. she has some really valid criticisms and her anger is also super valid but you can’t expect people to listen to you when you attack them.. you can let anger control you and make things worse or you can control your anger and express your feelings productively imo

[@carlacookingvegan]

They barely want to pay black creators. A brand offered to pay me with coupons to promote them, and had a nerve to have deliverables. A lot of what she’s saying is true.

[@WeShareTheSameAffliction]

Cause people aren't interacting with your content enough. 🙄 If they were then brands would pay you thousands.

[@carlacookingvegan]

@@WeShareTheSameAffliction whether people are interacting or not, I don’t work for free. I wouldn’t have had a problem if I was doing it on my terms, but since they had deliverables then they should pay. I’m sure that when you go to work you’re not doing it for free.

[@WeShareTheSameAffliction]

@carlacookingvegan That's still a form of payment. If they don't see you as valuable enough to pay money to, then they come up with alternative methods like coupons and products. We don't all have the same value to companies. It's not that hard to understand.

[@carlacookingvegan]

@@WeShareTheSameAffliction It’s easy to understand. Just like you I don’t work for free, and my landlord doesn’t accept coupons or products as a form of payment 🙃.

[@WeShareTheSameAffliction]

@carlacookingvegan Exactly. The companies are saying that your current value is only worth alternative forms of payment, not money to pay your bills with. Get your stats up and then you'll become valuable enough in their eyes to pay money to.

[@t.w.7872]

I have a bad habit of unintentionally mimicking people’s faces when I’m looking at them and I had to look away from this video because my eyes started straining from being so wide open for too long

[@ZoeNycole]

That was embarrassing to watch girl omg come back to reality, your true message was lost in your Tom foolery

[@minnecarroll7402]

wow that’s the first time i’ve heard “i have a white friend”

[@thelovewitch744]

The wide eyes are sending me 😭💀