The Female Gaze Being Free is the Source of Many Modern Relationship Issues

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[@THEUNCHAINED3607]

What I found works best for me and for others is when you let women choose you and you interact with women who are interested in you, the only way her interest is gonna be high all the time is if your interest towards yourself is high all the time. She chose you because you were different, don't get comfortable, don't lose your frame and your standing, if you do, she's gonna start losing all that attraction.

[@caribbeannites8461]

Couldn't have worded it better myself player exactly concentrate on you 👏🏿 👌🏿 👊🏿

[@andoniades]

She gna try to change you. If she succeeds, then you'll lose what attracted her to you. So keep her on her toes

[@UnknownUnknown-cd4hh]

Basically, you’re saying we gotta be perfect with everything we do. Even one ounce of bad posture is going to make her unattracted to you. We’re fucked.

[@andoniades]

@@UnknownUnknown-cd4hh I took his comment as, "you do you, don't change for anyone "

[@brianmeen2158]

“Don’t get comfortable, don’t lose your frame and your standing” Damn please sign me up for that! And what reward am I getting for all this work? A little companionship and sex? Hmm doesn’t seem Worth it

[@StillLearning888]

At this point seems like it’s best to be single and deal with women on your own time 😂

[@naamanmagnusanthony9035]

If you let women choose you all the complaints of bad cooperation goes away. As a man you could be happy being you and following your purpose, meanwhile the woman feels happy because she wants to be with you.

[@tasante27]

💯

[@barackthecomposer6642]

Yes. This is why it’s important to stay in our lane, with our tribe.

[@tasante27]

@@barackthecomposer6642 Truth

[@banderas2000]

yup.

[@giovanniosbourne1819]

Boom. Thank you!

[@barackthecomposer6642]

Pursue women who choose you- NOT so-called “Queens” who see you as taboo!

[@ajtaylor8750]

The title of this video couldn't be more accurate. The female gaze sees a lot of women going after the men they truly desure as opposed to settling, which makes perfect sense but it can end up coming back to haunt them because a lot of good things in life come from compromise. Also, the person you desire may not desire you back so then what?

[@RomWills]

It is what it is. There are always consequences.

[@simonsays5193]

Let their gaze be free. It forces men to get off their asses and improve because women’s standards are now higher than ever. It’s a blessing in disguise.

[@perfectbeat]

For most it will come back to haunt them.

[@Mr.rukus1]

​@@perfectbeatwhy is that? Or is that your ideal

[@perfectbeat]

As women age, their sexual market value goes down. They may want to settle down, but can only attract men they don’t want for a long-term relationship. If they aren’t looking for an ltr, cool. But they still need a man in some fashion. And the quality and status of men they can pull as they age goes down. @@Mr.rukus1

[@jamellcarter5299]

Women with money be easier to sleep with in my experience. They too busy for all the games. They just want what they want to scratch that itch so they can get back to work.

[@stilljocelyn_]

Hi Rom, I’m here because of the algorithm and have been binge watching your channel. I’m a single childfree woman open to a long term relationship. I see you are giving advice to the men and I think something you could add to your list of advice is men need emotional intelligence and prioritize mental health just like men go to the gym. 🙏

[@always_spring1735]

I’m just happy that women are choosing themselves and being okay with being childless or single instead of settling with anything.

[@_7.8.6]

Still not the case for 95%

[@barackthecomposer6642]

The hens who gaze at the rooster will use and abuse ones “below” the rooster.

[@ristobenjie]

Tell it

[@ohKemo]

That’s the reason why I prefer western women. If they’re with you it’s by choice

[@tasante27]

😂

[@kennethyoung4892]

I agree with you that the political establishment has ruined manufacturing in this country.

[@RomWills]

I can go deep on that subject. It was for those in power to make money money for themselves. With anything, follow the money.

[@meuniversity8681]

​​​@@RomWillsYESSS...something I'm waiting for someone to touch on is the bedroom conversations that took place between politicians an they wives in the early to mid 1900s that had to do with the wives informing the husbands that something had to be done economically to assist and keep desperate women from coming after their high status husbands and wrenching power from the wives with their outside babies, which I believe had a HUGE reason why much of the ultimately money-grabbing legislation took place..... Of course it was coming ever since the age of enlightenment in the 1500s after the Dark ages where philosophers and scientists began to take prominence, but I'm just saying..

[@jammerabni9784]

@@RomWills Once upon a time, there use to be laws/regulations in place that prevented corporations from seeking cheaper labor offshore. We gave up our crown jewels of manufacturing / industrial power over to China & have the nerve to call them the "bad guys"

[@brianmeen2158]

@@jammerabni9784everyone at the top that is on power are not the “good guys”.. you can’t rise to the top and keep that power and still be nice or good .

[@jammerabni9784]

@@brianmeen2158 The economy free falls without the consumer.

[@datguy9408]

That’s why when a chick gets with me because of me, I’m like okay now 👌 Sadly I’m not relationship material, I’ve never been on the deeper level with a woman but I have my fun because of my looks and personality.

[@brandonscott8334]

Great video. And it proves the point of one of my go to sayings in regards to women. Women want what they want, when they want it, how they want it & most importantly who the want it from.

[@Dan.50]

And that changes from second to second.

[@SocratesFeliz]

I see more women on campus than I do males/men.

[@michaelnafari2032]

Real talk brother Rom! "Nature is nature". Once you understand the essence of what that means, nothing should really bother you. You quickly understand your place and pecking order.

[@banderas2000]

believe in yourself. knowing you are worth a damn plays a big part. respecting yourself. not taking sh*t. knowing your worth. you have to put in the work though.

[@therealkrisrose7982]

I see both POV on this one. Yea most woman are not settling how they use to for sure. But they can go after or choose a man they want but at the end of the day the MAN has the ultimate decision on if he want to get in a relationship with her. Just as much as a man has to be the best man to get the best woman, a woman also have to be the best woman to get the best man. It goes both ways. And it get harder for woman when they get older in the dating game compared to MEN. So I’ll say it goes both ways UNK for sure. Because it’s a lot of beautiful quality women out here, compare to being a lot of Therl dudes out here which make it even harder for woman to find a Therl MAN

[@Simon-sw4ov]

@@jerraethomas2378Righton!

[@beepbopboop7727]

Aging hurts men more than women. Women are the more desirable gender. There will always be more men that chase women that women that chase men and that doesn’t stop with age. If a man can’t get attractive women in his youth, then he will definitely struggle as he ages. Especially when his hairline decreases, his belly starts to extend, and his ED starts to infringe on sexual performance. Money is the only real draw for women to date older men, and depending on how you look, you will need more and more of it to keep her.

[@Simon-sw4ov]

@@beepbopboop7727 I appreciate your opinion, however societally speaking I think this is untrue. Men are seen as providers of safety which doesn’t just concern financial aspects. Thats why I feel there definitely is a decent demand of younger women for somewhat older men. Mainly 30-50 depending on how he keeps himself. Especially right now since a lot of guys grow up without certain social skills necessary to attract women. I can get behind the opinion that this might be changing to where this becomes more similar for older women. But for different reasons. Let me know if you would disagree.

[@twinrivers6200]

My brother did you say "Sunny Delight" lol bro you had me dying here @ work.

[@perfectbeat]

😂

[@garrettcole2251]

Thank you female gaze for the challenge

[@jeronronnunkoffunk4691]

💯💯💯powerful Truth brother , what I’ve observed and learned over the years, embrace the truths , the truth about ourselves, the truth about the what women want, truth about the changes in our world and what we must overstand. From there we learn adapt and overcome. A mentor of mine always told me that, it’s what he learned as a Marine! As always great messages peace and blessings brother Rom!

[@eduardorivera9491]

Uncle Rom giving the solution body game charisma mouth piece becoming select.

[@ethansadberry6069]

Rom, you always bring some daily wisdom, thank you man. Hopefully young men in their early 20s are watching cause you’re giving some great advice forreal

[@Tephiffany]

Yes we (I) still need men (man) ... No we (I) don't have to settle...we (I) want what we (I) want. I tell men and if they can not oblige, no problem (especially when they've contacted me) cause I'm desperate for nothing! I respect men have options too! Great vid, I hope more men will start to realize this and yes men want women too!

[@dclarke2179]

I think it's beyond the settling, it's the cry for there are not enough good men. That last part of the statement creates so much contention. I don't think women should settle if they don't want to.

[@officialisaiahsmith]

This is the moment I knew for a fact that you know what you’re talking about ! You are 100% correct

[@drehill1276]

That camera is fire unc’

[@Tido_sav]

Wisdom 🙏 I’m 13th of 14….my father was a mechanic…

[@322Mermaid]

Love your channel and this video Rom. I hate that you had recent health issues......praying for your health and recovery, that the Most High uplift you. Im a wife and mother, and i cant agree with u more. My husband has always been athletic....he doesnt have a bodybuilder type physique, he runs and boxes. He played football in high school too. Im 5'10 (185lbs) and he is 6ft (240lbs). Perfect physical match. But besides that my husband has always self improved and i have as well......he wasnt perfect when we started and neither was i but we loved each other and werent hard and cruel throughout our relationship. I dont believe in sharing your partner (how i was raised) and i practice faithfulness. We have a baby and plan on another. I always bring my husband peace (and excitement lol😂).

[@dragosavo]

there are some very attractive, well maintained, I ( no doubt surgcially too )women in their late forties into their fifties who years ago married much older men. Typcially these older men have not taken good care of themselves, have become a bit sloppy, fat, and in their late sixties and seventies it shows they are not ageing well like their younger wives. Honestly it never occured to me until your video commentaries why these women were being so friendly, waving and smiling at me - even from across the street, these ladies are flirting with me seeking fresher meat it would seem. I am no youngster either but I am tall and very athletically fit and well groomed. These are things their husbands no longer care about it seems. I am not quite sure what to do about these apparent opportunity(s) - at least three of them - but it definitely fits your descriptions. Interesting no doubt . . .

[@Itslewieo]

Think of your sexual energy is currency, what do you actually gain by just giving it away for free ? You get a nut, which is your energy gone, I would get this women to help you improve your life in all areas, don't just give your energy away for free

[@kevylou378]

Dont get bitter just get better 💯💯💯👊🏿👊🏿

[@moniquem1873]

❤❤ always speaking facts 😊

[@BC-pl3df]

Actionable steps, got it. No use wallowing in pity.

[@paigeward27]

I just listened to the remainder of this one. I can agree and understand with about all that was said. Their Gaze is free.. A couple of thoughts though. Women are really cold blooded about their own money ( don't share much or not often)...dating .. relationships..and marriage. I know. Another thing they need the blue collar men for all their repairs and maintenance ( and cheap on payment). Lastly, with this "free gaze thing" they gonna stick about 8 years in marriage then hit the streets again. Rinse and repeat until their value is gone.

[@briantrek]

they want what they want…100% true

[@kennethyoung4892]

Sadly women are never totally satisfied even when they get the man they want. Once she finds one man that she likes then she will go after another guy that she wants as well

[@tzeimi_]

Not always true. If you have a good connection with her & she’s attracted to you for the most part woman are happy.

[@beepbopboop7727]

Only if the guy turns out to be not how she expected. Women can be very idealistic and paint a picture of a guy that isn’t actually true. When she realises she loses interest.

[@ChosenOne232]

@@beepbopboop7727 I agree with your statement. But doesn’t this apply to men as well? Women doll themselves up to attract the man that they want. Then, when said man sees what they really look like, without the enhancement, he’s disappointed.

[@K-Fetti]

It definitely works both ways

[@AndreTheGiant85]

Bodygame is the great equalizer.

[@bossplayermfs5972]

Preach brother Rom!

[@MikeJones-ne5ko]

ROM , another great video brother, u got a lot of knowledge man , SHOUT OUT PIMP GOD, "WHAT YOUR MOMMA SHOULDA TOLD YOU"

[@virgilf3]

Seen a video with average women saying they want guys who made 100k and up

[@MsJoyce31202]

Men, ignore women for real too, don't just say it but then you're steadily giving them the side eye.

[@jamellcarter5299]

You can also really see this if get the chance to date a attractive women from countries where women like property still. They get that taste of American freedom and they’ll easily sleep with you if you attractive and not judge mental. You just gonna have to be cool with being a secret 😂

[@ZoranJovic-li2ee]

there is nothing special about american freedom, other countries are free too. perhaps you meant they can sleep with black guys. being secret, why? well, some american women go to carribean islands , they don't want to sleep with you.

[@caribbeannites8461]

You getting there Hugh unk 100,000 🎉🤩💥

[@tzeimi_]

Very true. I refuse to settle for a man I’m not attracted to lol

[@gochetta9743]

Unc keep going 💪 💯

[@osundefosa]

Thanks!

[@RomWills]

🙏🏾

[@annadenise8902]

Good stuff ❤

[@quisylospeaks]

24:53 stop acting like you don’t want no Damn Woman. Say That Rom 💎

[@anthonyburwell2860]

Facts

[@victorscott7982]

Great great feeling! Second best thing to money 💰!

[@JayDizza-ln6bn]

See this is why you can't hate the player or the game.... But I think most people in this country are paycheck to paycheck so the ladies still need men for survival in the long run

[@TrillBill]

Let them choose. Who knows? You might be on her "hit list"

[@simonsays5193]

The future is polygamous!

[@mateaukalua4426]

Yo that's a major downgrade 😂😂.

[@rellconnects4695]

With Yet Another 🎬 #CarVideo #RomTalk

[@thomasvogelsinger4007]

Body game period

[@quay5664]

Let the choose you if they going for who they want

[@cousinttaw]

💯

[@RomWills]

You know what it's like being at the top of the food chain. #Apexman

[@cousinttaw]

@@RomWills That’s why Game is essential…

[@MsJoyce31202]

Good. Choose freedom. Gaze at what you want. 😏🫣😊

[@michaelnafari2032]

Thanks!

[@RomWills]

🙏🏾