The FINAL straw that made me QUIT my 9-5 job (& red flags) ❌

[@NaeOnYT]

Over the past year, I've learned that a lot of employers will not fill all of their open positions, then will act offended when you don't do the work of three people. I've decided I refuse to feel obligated to work on my days off, to kill myself to do extra work when there should be at least two more employees to help, etc.

[@PaigeWestCo]

That is honestly so true!! And so ridiculous. The amount of stress that puts on an employee is so unfair!

[@AAAAAAAA23909]

@NitroFairyWing happens in every industry. When you're burned out and have cancer, you're thrown away. Derrick Soo.

[@shawnjenkins7469]

Gawd, they’ll miss your productivity.

[@loknos1253]

They expect you to be a robot then ya drop dead and they finally fill the position

[@Angela-lp7zw]

We're sled dogs and the last one standing after getting overworked gets whipped even harder.

[@bagobeans]

I've witnessed good people leave because of bad management. People who are in management who know nothing about managing people. They drive their employees to the ground and talk down to them. So they leave. Having people skills is becoming a lost art. We are not dogs or robots..we are human beings and they have forgotten it.

[@PaigeWestCo]

So true and so important to remember! Keeping that human connection a part of our work is essential💜

[@astr0al3x]

Happened to me

[@JimmyJaxJellyStax]

Yes, a lot of management thinks "professionalism" means all employees must be impersonal workaholic robots. A lot of toxic owners and managers tend to be patronizing to those below. The more narcissist coworkers also focus on lateral patronizing attacks, inappropriately deeming themselves managers of their fellow coworkers as well. Chronic interruptions, aggression, fear-based tactics - gaining energy through theft of energy from others, not so capable of generating it within. Somehow sarcasm takes greater precedence than compassion in emergency scenarios now too.

[@deeee7833]

It means that they see their best staff leave. Having less, and poorer staff

[@artbyddp]

That's because they expects employees to be at the mercy of the job so they think they can get away with degrading them.

[@Blichens]

Sadly, you are so right. I'm quitting my corporate job on Monday. The last straw was when I had to cancel 1 day off I booked months ago for my daughters birthday.

[@nivea878]

2 years later i guess you still have a 9 to 5😂

[@javipena93]

I just quit my 9-5 & I'm around your age. impact on my health was the biggest one. Constant panic attacks on weekends and during the weekdays I was just trying to manage stress every second of the day.

[@PaigeWestCo]

So glad you quit if it was affecting your health in that way.. so sorry you went through that❤️

[@javipena93]

@NitroFairyWing dude.. during my going away 'happy hour' I started laughing like that when I realized 4-5 of the people I've gotten "close" to, started sharing the same information with everybody else. I started to realize.. wait.. I was never close to anybody. It's all a huge facade they use on everybody. I started laughing at the table and they all thought I was crazy. lmao. I'm glad I'm gone.

[@meliss9536]

Sounds like when I worked in a call center

[@shawnjenkins7469]

OMG. You poor victims! And they kept you from working somewhere else of your own free will? Monsters!

[@user-zu6fe9nk6u]

Jealous much? You sound bitter

[@seth3525]

I resign my IT job 3 years ago,the best decision I made ,am happier,emotionally satisfied and just loving life,these companies demand too much but yet most of then never share the profits with staff

[@falsesatsuma]

What are you doing now?

[@seth3525]

@False Satsuma I am kinda freelance, still working IT but on my own time and pace, private contract here and there and spend time with my 2 daughtera

[@Lizbeth36961]

I'm looking for a way our of the office environment. Can I ask what are you doing for work now?

[@rsoulinternet]

I find it frustrating when employers bite off more than their employees can chew.

[@PaigeWestCo]

That’s definitely frustrating😓

[@alphaomega1351]

They don't. Most of the time they hire too many people. It's their inefficient processes that are the reasons why more bodies are assumed to be needed. 😶

[@rinkydinkron]

Brilliant!

[@danjones3009]

yep.

[@gchase9433]

I just quit my job also. My last day of work is on friday. Your videos are inspirational.

[@PaigeWestCo]

Congratulations Grace!!! That’s such a big but exciting step in taking back control of your life! So glad the videos are inspiring🥰 keep me updated on your journey!

[@rachelwd]

I def resonate with this. Most people at my 9-5 weren’t married or having kids or able to save for a home bc we got paid so little. I realized this job will not give me the finances I need to move forward in my life in ways I want to. It was a sad moment when I realized that!

[@PaigeWestCo]

Yes!!!! Totally resonate with that too! Especially living in DC.. like it’s not possible to buy a house unless you’re rich rich😅

[@linehempel162]

Recurrent nightmares regarding my job,not sleeping,binge eating and shopping,treating my family unfair

[@RockyMtnVintage]

This comment I relate to do much. Helping me solidify my decision. Thank you!

[@BukwaseMgidlana]

The way I could resonate to everything you're saying...I'm even nearly crying at work. I'm on coffee, sleeping pills, supplements, alcohol, a gravity blanket. Nothing is cute. The only thing that keeps me going is bills. I hate management consulting so much. Its broken me forever. I work at night and over the weekends....nothing is enough.

[@falsesatsuma]

This is the most accurate description of what I am going through. I work in IT making $48k and recently applied for a job as a baggage handler at an airport which pays 22k, I have been offered an interview and I'm going to go for it as i have no dependents and live in a one bedroom apartment. I just can't think anymore. Thanks, also you're very pretty your husband is a lucky man. Thanks again, from the UK.

[@PaigeWestCo]

That’s amazing and such an empowering decision although society may tell us the opposite. I found that my brain was able to progress much faster when it was focused on things I actually found interest in (and especially things that didn’t drain me). I worked as an Instacart driver and pet sitter after I quit and it was the best decision I ever made! And thank you!! I think he’s pretty lucky too😂😂

[@CutiePieAsUsual]

@@PaigeWestCo​​⁠​⁠I was wondering what you did after you quit!!! I had assumed you had another job lined up in your field. This made me really happy to read. So I am in my mid 30s, just got my degree and landed a decent corporate job - for once in my life, I am financially secure. But I have never been more miserable! I am so depressed, lost so much hope, anyways. I thought this was my dream. Now, I look back longingly on my days in more simple jobs, especially when I did Uber eats. I dream about those days. Despite my utter despair currently, I force myself to do this new job every day, I have gained 45 lbs, my eye never stops twitching, I am sick to my stomach at all times, I cry all the time, and I am so, so angry. I see my life flying before my eyes. Thank you for showing me....kind of allowing me, to allow myself, to go be happy again. I keep kicking myself about this. No one really gets it? But I am glad you do and have shared your experience. Thanks again ❤

[@CutiePieAsUsual]

@@CAPS_AMERICAthank you for sharing this!!! It means a lot to me.

[@PaigeWestCo]

@@CutiePieAsUsual so sorry you’re going through that❤️ but happy that my story can give you some reassurance!❤️ I shared a lot more of my journey doing Instacart shopping and pet sitting (petting sitting was my favorite and made the most money too!) and ultimately transitioning into freelancing! Hope things get better and you find the right balance of feeling secure but also doing what brings you the most joy❤️

[@blackhoodiefitness5862]

I just worked on paying off all debts, bought a cheap non-fancy home almost paid off. Not being a slave for anyone anymore I will play video games, workout and do what i want. I hate working 1st shift and 3rd shift. I’m a bad employee anyway lol.

[@PaigeWestCo]

That's amazing!! Looks like you are on your way to true financial freedom!

[@blackhoodiefitness5862]

@@PaigeWestCo yes I hope so! I will be a lot happier working on my own business things, and part-time work.

[@libertysprings2244]

When you said the 5 year bit, it reminded me of my job where they sent us all to a class where we have to describe our 5 year plan. I quit after that too, after 10 years at the company. I definitely didn't want to be there (also engineering job just like you!) I much prefer lower pay jobs with less stress. Money isn't worth it if you lose your health.

[@sculptureshard377]

I'm an old timer now and must say that I accidentally came across your channel and decided to give this talk a listen. Glad I did, and in short, l admire your wisdom about the matter. For me this means you've rejected the lie of career first, and everything else second or third and so on. In my opinion, each of us must ask ourselves this question as we age, "Will I die well?" The question is answered through the legacy of our children. Do they choose wisely in terms of what's important in life, i.e., immediate family first, are they positive in society, and do our grandchildren repeat the cycle well?

[@PaigeWestCo]

Thank you so much for this comment! It’s really reassuring to know someone with more life experience and wisdom than me feels that I’m on the right track with my life and priorities! Again thank you.

[@nikkicas260]

I love this question…

[@happyone444able]

Oh my goodness! The red flags. My direct report, the CTO, ATTENDED A MEETING (that really wasn’t that important) while he was in the ER with his only son who had been sick for 5 days! I knew then that he can’t preserve/defend his own boundaries, let alone have realistic expectations for others. I quit Friday, and not looking back!,😊

[@bont1059]

Yea. Good rundown. Video triggered flashbacks to my own similarly stressful 20 year 9-5 left going on 3 years ago. Trying to bury these negative memories but they too often come to front of mind. Trying to get over it but there it is, as ever, still smoldering. Am in a better place today doing better things so it worked out.

[@PaigeWestCo]

It’s crazy how those negative memories can stick around!! Glad you’re in a better place now though💜

[@ThatGuy-mf9ye]

Funny, your videos mirror perfectly my experience going from a technician (no stress, easy to mentally check out and not let it physically effect you) to engineer (high stress, unfulfilling work). I instantly knew I couldn't do it and my body was rejecting it in ways I didn't even know were possible.

[@dutchbachelor]

This rings so close to home... They treat you like you're replaceable. But if you go on vacation, all the work you turned over is still waiting for you when you get back and then some. And then they ask you were you want to be in five years.

[@Tania-rg7jp]

I switched industries and one thing I realize is that many people spent their 20’s being burnt out and taking the brunt of lower level positions for a future “dream career” with no autonomy and simply do not care by their 30’s. Working in a field and talking to people makes you realize there is NO DREAM CAREER, especially for WOMEN. It’s all about money lifestyle and life balance in your 30’s. By your 30’s you have very little interest in being micromanaged and being a slave on other people’s schedule as well. They need to give people more money and autonomy.

[@PwnZombie]

Not sure why you’re making this a gender issue but ok.

[@lindybright1938]

Wow! This is so me!! I work for the LA School District and omg, it's beyond stressful, I can't even find the words to describe how awful it feels. Thank you for describing it perfectly.

[@Kya-Kitsune963]

Watching things like this always manage to make me cry or become misty. I am currently in the process of trying to upload animations on youtube. I realized almost 3 years ago (when I was 30) that this 9 to 5 is not for me. I seriously am trying my best to get out but it is so hard when you have bills pay and cannot just "quit." Honestly wish I could though. I do not have kids and I don't feel like I want any, but theres no way I can even factor a child in doing this job if I wanted a kid. It literally burns me out. I would continue going to college for animation but I do not even agree with going into debt doing classes that do not mean anything. I wish it were simple to just draw or animate one day and then BOOM make money that way. Let me know what you did if you can cause I'm seriously that desperate.

[@leeraxd]

I understand a lot of the issues with these corporate jobs. Esp in America and PTO. We all know “Unlimited PTO” is basically a trap lol but I actually had a pretty good salary and corporate job that I liked. They encouraged setting boundaries and we actually could use our unlimited PTO without the stress of judgment from managers or coworkers but maybe that’s because we were fully remote. But even with all that, I still quit my 9-5 to pursue freelancing and working for myself. It’s been 5 months now and I honestly don’t see myself ever going back to a corporate 9-5 hustle. Some people thrive on the corporate ladder and don’t mind doing anything and everything to get recognized or to make a higher salary. And that’s fine too. Just a reminder here that not everyone is going to be happier working freelance and not everyone is going to be miserable at a 9-5. You have to know what you WANT. I opted for freelancing because I cared less about making alot of money and wanted to focus on my quality of life and health. I now work maybe 20-30hrs a week and make half of what I used to but I’m 10000% happier.

[@rinkydinkron]

PTO?

[@Goddess_Infinity]

@@rinkydinkronPaid Time Off

[@IEgOImkAwx]

This is a pretty huge issue that needs to change in the United States. I've considered leaving the country because of how much our government favors corporations rather than the individual's wellbeing. Corps just bring people in, grind them to dust, and that dust just naturally washes away in the wind. We are abused consistently.

[@halfbakedproductions7887]

Bullshit. Americans get paid loads and everything is dirt cheap. You have to understand that here in Europe it's not possible for a toddler to earn six figures and for a 23 year old to buy a 7-person family home for the price of a Starbucks Latte. But that seems to be totally standard in the US. You have college graduates living in Asscrack South Dakota working as software engineers, earning more than a middle-aged and experienced senior engineering director would earn in London. Your trainee nurses earn more than qualified British doctors. I could go on.

[@wakeup6759]

I'm with you on this. I'm planning to leave as well.

[@kenyastewart22]

That question of where do you see yourself in 5 years, I can’t answer that either. I’m thinking of turning in a notice as well. I don’t see any development opportunities.

[@PaigeWestCo]

It’s so tough.. I hope you can find a place with the right growth opportunities for you!

[@softsophisticate]

If you enjoy your job stick with it. Over time it will change anyway. Maybe add on a small side task to give you a challenge.

[@ThraxMan84]

I’m in retail. I’m classified as full time but I’m not given full time hours. I’m concerned I’m gonna lose my health insurance. We’re always understaffed. We’re expected to take online classes on our own time and not get paid for doing so. Meetings are unpaid. IMO if any of that is work related then we should get compensated.

[@Rockin.Bakken]

Thank you so much for sharing this. It’s so refreshing to know someone else feels the same way

[@costalwest1231]

Omg 😢thank you so much for making this video! This is exactly what I’m going through right now. Omg!!! The freaking emails and the constant micromanaging, toxic environment, and the PTO situation. I can’t take PTO without feeling that I’m doing something wrong. It is a constant necessity to question why in the freaking world do I need to take time off! And that’s without counting the burn out sensation. Lord!

[@sharonfieldstone]

"You're usually trying to finish up like ten different things before your day off." I put in my two weeks recently then spent the entirety of my final two weeks doing 12 hour days to finish as much as I could and create guides explaining how to finish what I couldn't. Leaving the company and still in that immensely anxious mindset. It's ridiculous

[@robynwilliams9678]

Literally this. I no longer care about what I’m doing at work, I’m not passionate anymore, and it’s long days of manual labor, for barely a livable wage. I put in my notice today and I feel euphoric

[@schappell]

I think my light bulb moment just came when you talked about trying to change everything about your life and health. I'm feeling the exact same way that I don't want to be in anyone's shoes here in 5, 10, 20 years. I'm very stressed because longevity was heavily discussed in my interview and seeing as how I've only been around 6 months, I am right on that edge where I'm deciding if I go to my boss and say something and risk being pushed out or try and exert all my remaining effort to overhaul the symptoms of my stress to make sure it's not just stress from being new. It's killing me. But I think you are right. I think if my health was perfect and all necessary changes were made, I still wouldn't like the situational aspect of this work. Not to mention, making those changes is now required because of the job and stress.

[@JoATTech]

I have exactly the same feeling for my PTO in my company. For last 7 or 8 years it's always the same. I plan my vacations in January. It's supposed to be really easy time when I'm on vacations and projects always delay and it's the most busy time. There is no one who can take over ... and I feel big remorse putting this on somebody's shoulders.

[@KarisaKarmali]

Very true about the un-interrupted time off and 100% on the lack of alignment.

[@PaigeWestCo]

Yes!! Such struggles to deal with..

[@nathananderson8720]

This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my KZbin channel 5 months ago about self development. Now I have 312 subs and almost > 100 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.

[@klake4773]

I worked in collections for a big telecom company for a while and after 2 emotional roller coasters of being laid off and re-hired, having micromanage-y supervisors, lack of training but still expected to produce results, being openly shamed in a weekly meeting for not meeting goals and grilled on why (along with 30 other people.. what a waste of time.) I started to see the effects on my health. I couldn't sleep. I could barely eat without getting sick. I was stressed all the time. When I wasn't working all I did was think about work. I lost 10lbs per month for 3 months. I came close to committing suicide. And I finally just... quit. The effects of the job weren't just affecting me but also bleeding into my family life as I couldn't destress. I didn't have a backup and my husband didn't support me quitting, even if it was obvious I was becoming very sick from the job. Which led to more problems after I quit. But once everything calmed down, it took me months before I was able to go back and look for something. And it only got better once I did quit. Never again. LOL

[@sweetarts445]

I am so happy I stumbled upon your channel - I know there are a lot of stressful jobs out there, but it has encouraged me tremendously knowing you were also in consulting engineering because everything you listed is exactly how I feel about my consulting engineering job. I am one of the only females, and I can't relate with any of the other three women in my company who make work their life.

[@PaigeWestCo]

I’m so glad my videos have made you feel seen! Although I’m sorry you’re going through a similar thing.. i just read your other comment on the other video too! Just want to say that I know you can find something else that brings you more fulfillment even if it feels impossible or like a step backwards❤️ any updates on your journey? I know it’s been a bit since you commented!

[@sweetarts445]

@@PaigeWestCo Sorry for the double comment! Forgot I commented on two, they both just really resonated with me.◡̈ I have a few things to figure out life-wise before quitting, but I definitely intend to quit near the end of October. It's been rough honestly, to have an exit strategy, but to be given piles of work with fast moving deadlines and to continue the motivation to do all these; half the deadlines are due shortly when I intend to leave. I keep reminding myself there will never be a 'perfect time' to quit, this industry will always have something and I need to do what's best for me and my family, not the company. Thanks for making me feel less alone :-)

[@PaigeWestCo]

@@sweetarts445 omg don’t apologize!!! Loved both comments!! Ugh yes I remember that feeling.. I ended up quitting earlier than planned because I was just so overwhelmed with the build up of everything. Honestly wish I had stuck it out to my planned date though lol! You got this!! That’s such a good mindset and it’s so true. It will be forever busy in the field and there’s always another project starting as soon as one ends. It’s an infinite cycle I swear haha!! Keep me posted on how things go🫶🏻

[@TheGabyNya]

Paige I am so glad I found your channel, it re-assures my decision I made yesterday. I put in my two weeks yesterday at my job, I was having the same issues.

[@cassl.a.3332]

Our society has created such a vicious cycle... 😥

[@PaigeWestCo]

Right?😭

[@joaquinben4458]

Very true.

[@softsophisticate]

No the business owners have. They work hard because they get a decent reward and can delegate from the top.

[@gravenoxnero]

This video is so relatable. Being in client success, I resonated with these reasons 100%. I've been working in the role and experienced these issues in like 6 months. I'm glad I found this video. The story with the PTO and employees hit really hard. How is it that I'm new and know more about a new computer program than my colleagues there years before me 😅

[@vincebu6441]

Probably because the other employees are mentally damaged by a crappy Corp culture and psychotic job sabotaging managers. I'm living it...

[@colinmcgraw]

PAIGE! CONGRATULATIONS!!!! Glad you made the decision. I just did the same. It's hard!!! But glad you pushed through and made the decision. 💥😁

[@mbank3832]

i can totally relate to PTO and coverage parts in a way even during vacations, i can't really relax and enjoy myself because I subconsciously know I have to pick up the slacks once I am back because my coverage did a sh*tty job when I was away. and my company does not promote me to a senior, aka not getting paid as one either, yet, I am being asked to do senior level work...

[@istvanpraha]

Agreed. I got pressured to automate processes. Well, now I only know how to use them. My coworkers haven't upskilled to be able to use more computer programs. The knife in my back is my boss treats us like we're the same

[@sinshenn]

I love this video!!! I often feel like I don't reflect enough and actually take time to figure out the root cause. I'm so used to putting a bandaid over it, so this is definitely a good eye opener 👏

[@PaigeWestCo]

Thank you!!! So glad you loved it! I definitely tend to lean towards the bandaid method lol but I’ve been working on reflecting as much as possible😅

[@rwdchannel2901]

I got sick of working for employers when I worked as a security guard. I had signed up for the US Army for 4 years, worked in construction at my father's business for 10 years, and got an Associates Degree. When I was working as a security guard my employer didn't take any of my experience and education into consideration when it came time to promote people to a supervisor position. Younger people with no education and prior experience were promoted to be my supervisor. One of these supervisors was dumb enough to have 2 kids while he worked a job that paid near minimum wage. He got a government subsidized apartment where he only had to pay around $100 a month. He was coming into work and bragging about how much he enjoyed the weekend at the NFL football game he went to. Meanwhile, I was paying 50% of my income on rent. I quit the job and went into business for myself.

[@dkliving6876]

Happy for u that u can see your worth like that! Just started a software engineering job so I’ll defo keep these points in mind 🙌🏼

[@PaigeWestCo]

Thank you!! Definitely has taken some time and I still struggle with it😅 but I’ve come a long way!! Good luck with your new job!😊

[@dale116dot7]

OMG this is me! I’m an engineer. I just don’t bother to take PTO even though I get 25 days a year. HR gets upset with me every couple of years for me not taking time off for letting the days accumulate but I just ignore them and they forget about it for a while.

[@halfbakedproductions7887]

What bothers me the most is that you're the _only_ one not taking your holiday allowance. Everyone else just fricks off without warning you, and you're left holding the baby. The amount of times I've thought "I'll speak to X tomorrow" and their Out of Office is on for the whole of the next week - you talk to that person every day and they never warned you. Great job. Line management also just blithely approve everything without checking whether it's appropriate or reasonable based on what the rest of the team are doing. There is a certain point in the UK calendar year when all the schools are off and people take family holidays - that causes total carnage in the workplace to begin with, but then childfree people are also permitted to use that time? Come on. That is actively harming the company, nothing is getting done and this should be more tightly controlled.

[@softsophisticate]

There is an obsession with some people that everyone should be moving up the career ladder. What is wrong with sticking in the job you have if you like it?

[@francisbureros]

They want the status, prestige, power

[@vincebu6441]

Eventually they will sabotage your job too. These sick lunatics go after everyone..

[@learningtogetheredu]

i really resonate with this. i have been contemplating quitting my job since January. i have started a youtube channel which has been hard to grow with the job i have in accountancy. the environment is very toxic. i finally decided to quit last week and focus on my KZbin channel and i really believe that this will give me time with my children and husband. so i really understand. thanks.

[@morganmcintyre5871]

I love this series! 😊❤ Currently in the same situation… is there another video where you explain how you actually quit? I want to maintain my professional integrity, but I’m SO nervous and such a people pleaser.😩 I know it’s like ripping a bandaid off but we are low staffed, and our managers don’t even work near our district. I tried to push myself to stay for a year, but I’ve been hazed throughout training which is considered normal here. My mentor was the main perpetrator 😔 I moved alone across the country for this role and was totally shift-shook when I got here! 😅

[@PaigeWestCo]

I’m so sorry you’re going through that!😓 totally understand moving across the country for a role and not being happy in it.. I surprisingly don’t think I’ve ever actually talked about “how” I quit.. TLDR is I called the person who was our like regional manager somewhat. The company was flat structure so I asked around to figure out who I should call. I did it pretty abruptly on a Friday afternoon and put in a three weeks notice. I explained that my main reasoning was mental health and burnout but didn’t go into a lot of detail during that convo. Luckily the person I was supposed to notify was a woman so I felt pretty comfortable and ended up crying during the call lol (a little embarrassing but what can ya do). It ended up being a good thing though because they were so shocked by me quitting for burnout reasons that it sparked a lot of conversation with the company and I ended up having to do a lot of calls to talk about my experience. They were trying to understand what had happened so they could improve for future employees which I appreciated! For people I didn’t feel super comfortable giving the whole story at my company, I said I was leaving to take a break for awhile since I went straight into corporate after college with no buffer time (which was all true as well). They all understood and I had other managers keeping in touch and trying to convince me to stay! If there is anyone you feel comfortable discussing it with then start by talking to them! Even if it’s just someone in a similar role to you! Talking it through with other employees helped me feel so much more valid and gave me the courage to finally put in my notice! Well this ended up really long but I hope it was helpful! I’ll have to make a video on this topic in the future! Wishing you the best of luck❤️

[@morganmcintyre5871]

@@PaigeWestCo update!! I quit yesterday. They didn’t take it well but it’s over with 🥰

[@PaigeWestCo]

Congratulations Morgan!!! That’s a huge step and I hope you can celebrate even though they didn’t take it well❤️ Good luck and cheers to a better future without the stress of that job😅💜

[@FlavourlessLife]

That's so interesting about changing everything in your life before realising it was your job. I've been doing the same for like 4 years now. Handing my notice in next month.

[@hollywinchell3412]

I totally relate to having to explain my work to those who would be covering for me during PTO almost negating the ability to enjoy my time off. I was perceived to be "on call" all the time and have been interrupted on vacations numerous times (desk job, not a life or death medical professional). Not surprisingly, the company and I parted ways.

[@bankruptpensioner]

Very sad that you felt the need to quit. First thing, do you own the company? No. Then why do you care so much? Annual review going to be tough? Don’t worry about it, it really doesn’t matter. Everyone is in the same stress position in your corporate ladder. Do your work, go home after doing your contracted hours, and enjoy your life. Do not work for free. I did 80 hours a week and got paid for 40, how crazy I was. I then went down to 40 and nothing happened. Nothing. Stop worrying about so much, it just is not worth it. And, never work for someone, always work for yourself 👍

[@lolomissa]

thank you for the video! im sure its helping so many people! i personally hella appreciate this video! and yes!!! on all counts yes!!! thursday nights are the worst for me because its towards the end of the week where i feel like i cannot go on. the stress is nuts, my energy levels are shot, and its the moment where i just wanna run away to a small town where i can sleep in my car and get a barista job 😅😅 luckily we get paid friday morning a few hours before i go in and that is often times the push i need to even get up to make it in on time that day 😮‍💨😮‍💨

[@PaigeWestCo]

You’re so welcome!! I’m glad you appreciated it❤️ omg yes to the running away to a small town.. that definitely crossed my mind a ton😂 and pay day is always that hook that reels us back in!🥲

[@lolomissa]

@@PaigeWestCo hahaha glad to hear I'm not the only one getting pushed to my limit, glad you got out of the life 💜🥂🙌 only better things on the horizon for you! 🥳

[@Monkofthecaribbean]

@@PaigeWestCoI can relate to you about the sleeping pills, sleep rituals, outright INSOMNIA. Then to wake up, feeling like SHIT, then over caffeinate and overstimulated one self (I am addicted to kratom thanks to 9-5 sales office jobs) and struggle to fall asleep. Only recently I realized my sleep clock is 12/1am to 9/9:30 am. But of course a bs office job doesnt respect that. Im quitting in 2 months and will take my side business full time. Id rather fail and live under a bridge then to live a life of misery and regret.

[@PaigeWestCo]

@@Monkofthecaribbean I’m so sorry you’re dealing with that right now.. it really is the most miserable cycle to be in. Good for you for quitting soon and taking that next step!

[@butterscotch2086]

7:03 That basically happened to me too. I was asked if I saw myself working in my manager’s position because that was what I was working towards. I knew it was time to leave.

[@akhileshmehta94]

Thanks for posting. I relate with every point you made

[@jessicaturner7834]

Loved this video and the other one about the physical symptoms. I can relate to both of these videos! Love this and thank you so much for sharing!

[@lauraramosdelgado]

You have no idea how much I'm resonating with this video... OMG

[@lonelinessholder]

Thanks for sharing. I got burned out for my last job, a new job is much better.

[@PaigeWestCo]

Happy to hear you found a much better job for you!

[@joshuafaulks7230]

0:50 - My God, do we work at the same place? I have that EXACT same issue right now, except instead of weeks in advance, it’s MONTHS in advance. Guess them’s the breaks for working as a copy writer for a nonprofit.

[@septemberreign2310]

I needed to see this today. You helped me decide. Thanks!

[@caseymccauley4803]

I have watched a couple of your videos about quitting. I know that where I work now is not my forever job because I dream of becoming a video editor ( I have about 2 semesters left til I graduate) Yet I know the impact I have put into my current supervisor position has value. Since becoming a supervisor it has greatly impacted everyone around me in the company that I work for. I have tried to make change and bring fairness to all since becoming a supervisor but the other people in management don't want to be apart of the change I'm bringing to the table. My company has put management in management classes to help everyone. My biggest issue is the people that are managers should not be in the current position they uphold. It's frustrating that I know that I am doing everything on my part to make everyone a team but some people don't want to be team players. Everyday I have to step up to the plate and go out of my way for the process to not stop, but when someone is slacking, it effects everyone. And those people are being protected, favoritism. It's just hard to walk in with a mask everyday knowing that I am not happy, I am not myself, and no matter how much I complain or try to bring change. Nothing goes anywhere. I have mood swings I am constantly waking up with nausea and stomach aches. I over eat because I am stressed and find myself to comfort with food. I feel burned out. Yet I just came back from a vacation in May lol. I work with family too so its a constant world of my work is now being brought up at home. *It not like a family business or anything of that sort, fyi we all work in different departments lol. Along with that is that I am dating someone I work with the company. If I try to vent to family about work, then they turn around to make it seem like I am too sensitive.... At least my boyfriend is willing to listen but his approach to things is way different than mine. I am just finding it hard for someone to be on my side to understand. But now finding it hard to hangout with him because we work different schedules.

[@iggywobbles]

I had the same experience last year… this was so well said and I’m glad you were able to break free ❤️

[@Michevell]

Oh my goodness yes! I think these videos popping up on my feed is a sign from God to quit my job right now, but I have to get some things straightened out first, I’m in the process of making income another way because corporate America is not for me either sis. Like you said having to take time off being a hassle, poor work-life balance, and also I am SO unfulfilled at my job too…. Not worth it. I cannot WAIT for the day when I never have to step foot in my corporate job again. Keep going you got this 👏

[@Monkofthecaribbean]

Did you quit? Im quitting in 2 months, lets quit together!

[@Michevell]

@@Monkofthecaribbean yes I did quit very soon after that comment lol. Best of luck to you!!!

[@Monkofthecaribbean]

@@Michevell I got fired Monday 😂 so looks like im starting 2 months early. Thanks good luck to you too

[@Michevell]

@@Monkofthecaribbean oh jeez!!!! I guess your wish came true then huh 😂 I’m sorry that it happened like that tho :/

[@leongsgp2]

as a small business owner. i can understand how you feel. I dont get time off either yet I have to worry about my staff being taken care of. its a never ending cycle.

[@Naomi-gr7fm]

The PTO part played into being understaffed for the capacity of our role. It's like neither of us could take real PTO/vacation without the department falling behind. Like I don't know how many other ways you can notice or communicate YOU ARE UNDERSTAFFED. We all need breaks from being needed without everything going to shit. I am an arbiter for work-life separation.

[@grumpyschnauzer]

I’m seeing this at a mental health counseling center. And I feel like they ask that to push you out because they want to know how long you’ll stay and be invested whereas when I worked at a job I was happy at I stayed 13 1/2 years without constantly asking me.

[@softsophisticate]

Yes, what is wrong in staying in a job that you enjoy? Maybe a mentor could encourage you to be more efficient, or develope your knowledge in your role, or develope it sideways. I have done that, kept a job, but developed my own little added on roles that i liked to do. Basically took over some of the managers jobs.

[@brunoedson7330]

I don't know how long since the decision to quit, but I can see that the tension is still there.

[@PaigeWestCo]

That was about 6 months after quitting from my memory... definitely still felt that tension lingering..!

[@brunoedson7330]

@@PaigeWestCo Yeah. I'm passing through something similar. I entered in an I.T. Company that promised me training and they just left me behind for at least 6 months. One member of the team sometimes mistreat me. Right now i'm doing some online courses to prepare for leaving and feeling kinda crushed.

[@PaigeWestCo]

@@brunoedson7330 sorry you’re going through that.. that’s rough. But glad to hear you’re taking matters into your own hands and preparing to leave! Keep me updated on your journey!

[@JCC56]

Definitely an eye opener, I have a great 6 figure job, but currently burnt out n fatigued. Shorthanded so do the work of 3 people.

[@jasantana]

lol I had to drink coffee to stay sane and stimulated at a job I do not enjoy, quietly quitting and making moves by end of year.

[@PaigeWestCo]

Totally relate to that😅 love that you have a plan!! Good luck on your journey!😊

[@coralarce9816]

I agree with finding a fullfilling and meaningful career.

[@Cloninginvesting]

You are true to yourself, that is a good sign and good for your entire life

[@PaigeWestCo]

Yes! That is my number one rule!! Thanks Mohan!

[@jessherac]

Going through this right now. I feel sick everyday, taking pills for my head, stomach, colesterol etc and I am 30. Trying to look for other opportunities because my mind and body are exhausted after a year and a half of a stressing job

[@FluffyKittenofMordor]

Real managers that want to make a difference give support to their employees instead of using punitive measures all the time. The least competent ones in my experience are usually the ones that never get involved with your projects. Egregious apathy for extended periods of time. They turn a blind eye to your needs, but when the problems come their way, they require you to deal with them.

[@Rollonfriday39]

Brilliant video. I work in engineering consultancy. Biggest thankless career ever.

[@JaneGo]

I'm so looking forward to the day I make my "I quit" video. My corporate job is killing my spirit (even though I went part time). All my coworkers are stressed and work on their days off. It's not a lifestyle I want.

[@jaishriiyer1563]

Wow.. Straight from the heart. Way to go !! I did the same in India. I quit my IT job as it was giving me headaches and not to mention the toxic people I had to deal with everyday. Everything you said is a norm here. I thought it happens only in India due to more supply of resources and lesser jobs. I am surprised to see that it's the same scenario in US. Don't you have labour laws which limits the working hours and where you can sue your employer if they break those laws.

[@dominiquedominomitchellcoa8860]

I quit my 9-5 healthcare job finally and now working from home in tech support

[@joaquinben4458]

Great!!!

[@augustusbrown5320]

Does it feel like a call center?

[@Reloaded2111]

I like that you have put a lot of thought into everything, but what's your plan if 5 years from now you become a single mom with two kids and no job? It might sound overly pessimistic, but I always follow the mantra 'hope for the best, plan for the worst'.

[@Betsy-LynnVedrine]

Today I left my badge and office keys on my desk and emailed my resignation letter after my shift. In the letter I asked to mail my check to my address (even though I filed a direct deposit) two days prior). I will mail them my parking pass and make sure to have them sign it. However, I received a voicemail stating to come into the office and sign a formal resignation letter in order for them to release my check. Seriously? I choose to be at peace with all this.

[@Dreamcatcher0007]

I am in corp comms consulting still the same issue. I think it's a problem with consulting work environment.

[@feliciaallen6228]

Great video. No one talks about having no bandwidth to take time off.

[@sharonrossow5423]

I’ve been punished at several jobs for taking a vacation. I accumulate my PTO and take long trips. That is a no no in the companies I was at.

[@igboyaalale6145]

Thanks for the advice.

[@dympnac3871]

i just did the same and i feel guilty. its only been a week and ive had freelance jobs ive had to do. but i feel so anxious, so scattered, struggling to sleep now still. I think its because i fought so long and hard for this career.

[@thewasserrecord4513]

Final Straw for me was getting kickback for trying to use my vacation time I earned, talking about "you don't have enough sick time banked for emergencies to take all your vacation days" Umm maybe because I was SICK from work stress and burnout? Then when I re submitted my time off to fit their policy I STILL had days rejected "because business needs, we're short staffed and going through department transitions" on top of getting lied to about training id get, and being lied to about a lunch break law, and the cold depersonalization from management in their emails, I'm done. Putting in my two weeks tomorrow, even though they don't deserve it, I don't want any negative reputation for quitting on the spot like everyone else has.

[@PaigeWestCo]

That’s sooo ridiculous. I’m sorry you had to deal with that😓 hope you’ve moved on to better things💜 wish you all the best!

[@thewasserrecord4513]

@@PaigeWestCoHey Paige, thanks for the reply! Happy to report I was able to peacefully exit from that job and start with a company at an airport that aligned more with my career goals and were all around way more professional in their transparency and communication with employees. Please keep going with this sort of content. From reading the other comments, you are helping others feel not so alone in their work situation. Everyone dealing with hard management greatly needs the reassurance you provide in your videos. Thank you! 😊

[@PaigeWestCo]

@@thewasserrecord4513 I am so happy to hear this!! That brought a huge smile to my face this morning! I know it can be hard to leave any job (even the most toxic ones). but I'm so happy you found one more aligned with you and your goals. Good luck and congrats on the new job! I definitely will! That's exactly my goal and what I hope my content achieves so I'm happy to hear that😊 Please let me know if there's anything specific you would like me to talk about in future videos!

[@deniselopiccolo8237]

I was let go from a corporate job right after my 20yr anniversary. I went to work for a small business mainly because I was sick of searching for work. It was the best decision I could have made. I didn’t realize how unhealthy my situation was until I was a months removed from the corporate world.

[@Itravelbackintime]

Another reason I work for myself because I don't aspire to be like someone in another hamster wheel. Instead of using my skill to build someone's dream Im going to build my own.

[@PaigeWestCo]

YES!! That’s the mindset!! 🌟

[@halfbakedproductions7887]

My union rep here in the UK pointed out on a union conference call that you work for yourself and have chosen to offer your services to Company X. I relayed that to other people and they got _so_ triggered.

[@jordanhenshaw]

That’s such an f-d up question to ask though. Why can’t you be happy in your current role?

[@ExquisiteEtta]

I knew my job was not for me after my boss said it. And I had missed my period for 6 weeks due to stress. After a work day I am so mentally drained all I can do is sleep. I was drinking wine after work like every day! SMH.

[@KVatronic]

I literally only bought supplements and changed my routine to accommodate that I cannot do a 8-5 or 9-5. I mentally can’t handle it. It doesn’t matter what job it is, I’m done. Not even 30 yet. I’m a very responsible person and a superstar at work, but I’m burning out weekly and almost daily.

[@joaquinben4458]

Great Video!!!!

[@istvanpraha]

For me it was because my 9-5 was 9-730 doing other peoples' work and getting told I was complaining when I raised a real business issue...again. Also reporting to someone who doesn't understand your work is stressful

[@SpaceshipRocketFuel]

Its not that my employer is particular bad, but the final straw for me in the corporate world, on top of everything, was hearing once again - 'All-directorate staff away day...' No other combination of words can be as deflating as those. I'm now actively looking into the world of self employment.

[@JimmyJaxJellyStax]

Our time is already a major sacrifice for a job, our mental and physical health absolutely should not be getting worse from a job. Some jobs are more stressful and dangerous than others - we have to ask ourselves if these conditions are sustainable in the long run. The efforts should primarily reside on the actual purpose of the job, not handling a corrupt toxic workplace and coping with disease spiking stress on time off.

[@srujanadhananjeyan3900]

Every single thing you mentioned in this video is happening to me right now. Except I don't have a mentor to talk to about this coz I feel like nobody cares enough.

[@SmudgySage]

Applying Missed aligned pressure in order to stay connected to tasks for the soul purpose to deliver a project that has the ability to change a delivery date … will always result in dissatisfaction. Dissatisfaction is a direct result of misaligned pressure. (Either External or Internal or both) Which will ultimately expose the companies poor processes & the frustration of being able to successfully rely on those whom should be working with you. Sinking Ships are not aware that there are live viable human beings onboard. The ship however thrives on the basis on team work, healthy mindful decisions, discipline & the human basic understanding that rest keeps stress at bay. Doubling Down on Pressure will ultimately lead to a path of nothingness … because doubling down doesn’t produce a humane existence.

[@JoiLouiseReacts]

I just h r to say that this comment section is such a refreshing place. I’ve felt everything I’ve read here. I’m ready to move on too.

[@bunniewood]

why do companies NOT train managers how to be managers? People get promoted becuase they are good on the tools or they stay long...then they are on the tools less and now made to manage peopple and they have no idea or training to do so!!!

[@jennifermanian1420]

When i wanted to take a vacation, you had to do twice the work the week before and the week after. When you got back, all the paperwork no one wanted to do was on your desk.

[@57ashdot]

Hitting this exact same burnout cycle for different reasons. My team has been "re-org'd" 3 times in the past 3 years. I've had now 4 bosses in that time. At one point during that period I had an additional 2 'dotted line' bosses. My team went from 10 people with 10+ years at the company and industry to 6. Only 2 of the original 10 are left, the rest are new hires. Work has become a toxic politics match because of the big personalities they brought in to manage the company. Nobody, not a FUCKING SOUL can tell me what my job is anymore or what my tasks are because our management simply is in such chaos at all times that they can't agree on basic roles & responsibilites. Quite literally you have to inject insane amounts of caffeine into your system to summon the will to live your life of voluntarily climbing into the dumpster that is on fire to get your paycheck.

[@shannondavis1401]

Hi, can I ask what kind of company this is?? Is it health care?

[@vahnshlee1076]

My boss talks me to work on my rest day and compare me to our new hire who works on our rest day with no pay. She say this is molding me as a manager, I get that but I'm still not a manager so you must pay me . Plus she expects those on vacation, sick or rest day are expected to be online anytime. no rest at all and I felt that this is totally wrong.

[@jjjjjjj3886]

What the point of taking time off if you come back with double of your work need to be done in shorter amount of time