The First Two Months City Living In My Van | Storytime

[@cryptopeter1]

I'm Peter and with my awesome 87 year old Italian mom. We love you already! You are authentic and THAT'S what we love. Subscribed!!❤❤

[@WaywardAbode]

That's so cool, Peter and Mom! Nice to meet you!

[@kts7113]

Please ignore the hater’s, if it’s legal to park overnight then park overnight!! Most Karen’s are just ignorant or jealous!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@WaywardAbode]

Thank you for this important reminder! 😊

[@57bebe]

the problem is that while it’s legal to park overnight, most cities have ordinances against sleeping in that same vehicle. 😢

[@ssudan-g8c]

@kts7113 "WHO" would be Jealous and WHY? 🤣🤣🤣

[@Lisa-r6u1w]

​@@ssudan-g8cask the Karen's they know the rest of us think live and let live they're not bothering you or slinging drugs or have rotten children that steal or destroy your property .

[@LetitiaViolet]

Just wanted to say that hanging out in libraries in the city is great. Heat in winter, ability to charge electronics, free wifi without needing to buy a coffee, and fill water bottles. Oh, and activities to hang out with other adults. (At least at my local libraries)

[@cherylwills236]

I'm with ya. My friend.😊😊

[@PatrickFoley-vf3lr]

For a person with severe mental illness as you have said, you make more sense than most people I know.

[@WaywardAbode]

That's nice of you to say. It's weird how that works out sometimes. ❤️

[@eyeswideshut_icu3426]

Yeah I thought the same thing..

[@jonesbluesandjam]

👍🏽

[@SimplyHerJourney]

I am so grateful for this alignment. I too suffer from mental illness and my children and I were forced into this situation. When I realized that this would temporarily be our lives, I tried to plan and failed. Lol! Failure is a part of success so here I am. Still pushing. We’ve got this! I now understand that my story can help others see that it can be done and it’s ok to fumble, in the beginning. ❤

[@creinicke1000]

You remind me of my 37 yr old daughter.. She has said to me that she is sad because her life is NOT what she wanted.. An alcoholic, mentally ill with depression manic episodes. Unable to have a child, not married and boyfriend who isn't going to really commit, and she can't really function in the world. We keep her in an apartment... but she can't support herself.

[@maxinee1267]

Thanks for being real. I am 80 years old, and at the start of covid my husband passed away, and rent was horrendous. I found a mobile home I could buy. but its old, needs lots of fixing. which I can't do. The rent was reasonable, until it wasn't! it started out at 558, its now 729 and the rules and regulations are nit picky and endless. I thought I could find a kind person to live with me and we could share a home, that was a fantasy. and no one can even stay more than 15 days and there are rules about that. I often wonder what I am going to do if something goes wrong and believe you me living in a park you get to see what all can go wrong. I have a Van and wonder sometimes If I shouldn't have someone build it for Van life just in case. but with all that's wrong with me I doubt that I could do it. I have watched a lot of videos about van life. I have to give you all credit. your doing the best you know how. I like that your surviving though, and on some level thriving. May you stay full of love and kindness, may you be well, may you be peacefull and at ease, and may you be happy.

[@WaywardAbode]

I'm so, so sorry to hear about your husband passing and all the difficulties you've faced since then. I hope with all my heart and soul things get easier for you. Sending you my love.

[@rubychurch3466]

Maxine, sorry for your loss. How awful not to have security and comfort at 80, I wish I could help.

[@Happy2beher]

You should check into a senior living facility..I know a lot of seniors that live in the buildings..they go by your income.

[@andrathomas2497]

Sending you love and hope.

[@Joce123]

​@@Happy2beherThe waiting lists are endless.

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

I am now homeless myself. Staying under my daughter's basement stairs. Wondering if I should just put my mattress in my van. I too am grieving the loss of my home and my old life. It's been less than a week. Thanks for this video. I need real van life talk and this is it.

[@incywincyspider8748]

I am sorry to hear this. I hope life treats you well soon.🤗🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

[@michelepettigrew7119]

Sorry you are homeless! I am, too. I just hope and pray we will recover. I believe that God isn't done with me yet

[@SimplyHerJourney]

Yes! ♥️

[@christinalively8292]

😢😢😢

[@sandrawilliamson8108]

Prayers

[@emeraldkei]

This has to be the most raw and realistic telling of van life experience. She is absolutely honest about her expectations and lack of preparation. Thank you.

[@gaypreator8547]

Appreciate her sense of humor, life is real how grace for yourself gets you through it - that’s the blessing. Coming across so many, what to do, how will I do it, makes me so thankful that some how I have managed to be (hopefully stay) comfortable.

[@kevinmcmahon6910]

You are a natural communicator and extremely engaging. You are going to be a KZbin star.

[@WaywardAbode]

You are very sweet. Thank you! 😊

[@MM-xy5xs]

I thought the same thing.

[@sheilarandall4025]

You are a gifted story teller…..you could write a book…thank you for making me smile.

[@WaywardAbode]

That's really sweet of you to say. Thank you!!

[@gdgbd_joan]

"I had had a busy day looking at people in a parking lot all day." 😂❤ subscribed

[@WaywardAbode]

Hello. It's awesome to meet you. Thank you so much!

[@UpsetGranny-yr5wn]

I used to be a personal support worker visiting people in their homes. There were times when I would have to wait 3 hours between clients and I didn't live in the city. Gas was expensive so I would sit in car in store parking lots. Trust me it xan ve very exhausting especially if its hot.

[@maggieb99]

That's what got me!

[@AlohaTrolls]

That part made me laugh too. 🤣 That could easily be me. Lol

[@RecoveringHermit]

Karaoke at 11pm in a car park is wild 😂😂😂

[@speakingthetruthinlove9895]

The last thing I do is sit and stare out the window! I put up my window shields and stretch out, watching YT video's, reading my Bible. It's HEAVEN, no housework, I love it!!

[@ssudan-g8c]

A bonafide bum waiting for a monthly check

[@thisisnow7902]

My kind of person! You will NEVER go wrong staying in the word

[@keltait]

i choose to live in a vehicle, and i HAD the money to build it how i want and have all the amenities i want, and i still greived my house for thefirst few months, and 2yrs in i still dont tell my clients i live in a vehicle. I still dont like the judgment and i still feel weird about it, even though i love it now. This was a great real world video for folks. 🙌

[@HisgGalore]

💯🖤✊🏿

[@Leah-dl4yh]

Thank you for sharing that thought as I am grieving now my home of 20 yrs. being Sold and know it just part of the process of major, uncomfortable decisions.

[@terminatortsw8006]

Girl. You make more sense and have more insight than 99% of people without mental illness!!!!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@kyms9390]

You just popped up on my feed, what an absaloute delight you are, your funny, happy and incredibly positive. You have said you also suffer mental illness but despite that you have the strength to be so happy and you shine girl, you really do. I cant imagine how hard life is for you and humans can be very cruel. I just subscribed from Australia, sending you love & support. I hope you can see yourself as the wonderful and perfect being that I see ❤

[@SistahRev]

OMG, YOU ARE PRICELESS!!!! I had to pause the vid at 9:47 to subscribe to your channel. Your wit, your humor, your realness & authenticity, your insight, your intelligence, your wisdom, your transparency, the fluidity of your verbal expression, your gift for storytelling… I could go on, but I hope you feel me! You are a pleasure to watch and a delight to listen to, even when you are addressing difficult subjects. You randomly showed up in my feed with this video, so I don’t know how consistent you are, but in any case I hope my likes & views will contribute to your wellbeing and success. You are one of the EXTREMELY rare vanlife KZbinrs that I feel inclined to contribute to financially, because I want you to have what you need, and I want you to flourish, be well, and evolve in healthy ways and directions. Praying all the best to you on your journey!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🤗🌹🌹🌹 Edit: I recommend that you add one of those “thank you” or “buy me a coffee” buttons to your channel… though I dislike the “coffee” one cuz not everyone wants or needs coffee, and that’s prolly not where the donation will go anyway!🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️😂😂😂

[@WaywardAbode]

Wow, I am just SO touched by your message. I cannot thank you enough for the good feelings you have given me. I don't even have the right words to express it. I'm going to carry your words with me all day today. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. P.S. I might turn the membership thing on eventually, but right now it feels like I'd be leaving people out, and I don't want to do that. Thank you for making me feel like i might actually be worthy of that type of thing, though. That's more than i could ever ask for.

[@SistahRev]

@@WaywardAbode Awwwww!! It gave me so much joy that my message fed your heart; I meant EVERY word of it!! I’m sitting here now watching your “Shut Up Meals & Newfangled Gym Machines” vid, I’m only 1/4 of the way through and I’ve already busted out laughing OUT LOUD around 3 times!! I HATE gyms (there is nothing about the atmosphere or environment that appeals to me or motivates/inspires me to exercise; instead, I find them depressing and numbing for some reason), and I would TOTALLY be like you, trying to turn them durned over-complicated machines on and failing!!! I just love your energy, your honesty and your humor. I am SOOO looking forward to tracking your journey; you make me feel like I’d love to hang out with you once in a while (but not often cuz I’m an introvert!😉🤷🏽‍♀️😂😂😂). Wishing you ALL the best!!❤️🌹

[@laylareinhart943]

I can't say it better than this. 100% agree!! You are such a natural storyteller and so genuine and kind and funny and REAL and I thank you for sharing

[@WaywardAbode]

@@SistahRev Well, you've put another huge smile on my face! And, boy howdy, do I get the "not often cuz I'm an introvert" thing!! I love being social, but for short spurts. I need to refill my gas tank often! 😅🤣

[@WaywardAbode]

@@laylareinhart943 Thank you so much, Layla. You are so freaking nice!

[@ritachikita1468]

I’m thinking I will feel pretty much the same way when I begin. I’m a 70 year old, cancer patient, and although I see remission in my future, I know there will still be tests and crapola like that. I’ve come to the sad realization that I can’t go full time,but hopefully, I can go part time. I will need a home base and I’m afraid to try. Before cancer, I outfitted the vehicle, collected all the “necessities” and spent a few weeks on my daughter’s property doing all the Bob Wells stuff in a safe situation. I learned I can do it and was ready to head out. Then the brick wall with the big “C” jumped in front of me. I’m afraid again. But I’m more afraid of not being able to try again. I see your bravery and I pray I can do it again. Even if it’s only for a little while.💕

[@SistahRev]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️ I have heard and I believe that “Courage is not the absence of fear; courage is being afraid and doing it anyway!!” (From a 64 year old cancer survivor!!)

[@WaywardAbode]

Hi, my friend. I am so sorry to hear that you are dealing with cancer. That is such a hard thing to go through. I hope you beat this thing quickly. So you can get out on the road. And maybe we can even meet up sometime. I believe with all my heart that's gonna happen. You're gonna be able to get back out there again. You're gonna live am awesome nomad life. We're gonna meet up and be silly together, and it's gonna be amazing. Thank you for being with me. 🥰

[@KetoCarnivoreLifestyle]

If you are able to have a homebase why would anyone want to be full time. Just weekend warrior it. 😀

[@ritachikita1468]

@@KetoCarnivoreLifestyle I would have to be a part time warrior for sure, but would stay out for as long as my medical situation would allow. I definitely would come and go. Thanks for replying.

[@Dustandfuzz]

I’m almost 70 too and I’m planning a big trip in August in my SUV turned camper. Because time went by and then covid came I had to forget my van life plans and get an apartment. After that I realized a van wasn’t practical (money) so I bought a RAV. I got all kinds of camping things for a van but had to sell some things due to space. I’m just hoping I’m flexible enough to move around inside the Rav. One big trip across the country and then just camping closer to home. Hopefully I can make it to August without any health issues. If I don’t go this year I never will. I’m not courageous but sitting on a couch until I’m dead scares me more. Biggest tip: Pack ear plugs Hopefully you will get to go again soon.

[@susansheehan431]

I've read the comments and can't say anything that has not already been said. You got this girl.

[@WaywardAbode]

Thank you so much, Susan. 🥰

[@kathyhatfield9649]

When you want to be a van dweller is one thing, but to be there because you have no home and are thrown into homelessness must be devastating. Thank you for sharing. ❤

[@blanchdubois398]

Agree I will be living in van when lease up june 30 Not sure how i will do it at my age with a dog and the heat What if van breaks down

[@bthomson]

Your speaking is acting! You are SO dynamic! Your story telling is electric! We feel what you felt! We see what you saw! We overcome the hardships you did and feel good about you and ourselves! Thanks!😘🙏

[@LeeAnnCarlsted-uy1fr]

Write a book, birdie! I have this belief and sense that if you journal every day a little bit before you go to bed, that you could turn this into a best selling book! This is my story, and I’m sticking to it! Be a millionaire and write a book, because the fact is, all of us, and even more people, will buy it! I guarantee it! Love you Birdie!! 🤗💕

[@TonyBar323]

You are a FANTASTIC story teller. Was hoping the video wasn’t going to end.

[@WaywardAbode]

That might be just the coolest compliment a girl could ever receive. Thank you so much for that!! 🥰🥰🥰

[@mareedawson8564]

I’m in Australia and am struggling with depression and anxiety so I’m hearing you girl. I’m very proud of you. Your a strong person and you deserve it all ❤❤❤

[@WaywardAbode]

Hi, sugar. I'm so sorry to hear you're dealing with such an awful fight. I hope you have people around you that can help support you. Thank you for being here and I hope like goes easy on you today. ❤️

[@innerjourneysascendingnow7937]

Hello,I am so sorry you are dealing with this, I hope you have love & support from family & friends!!! I discovered this as my son has depression & anxiety. B vitamins especially B- 1 seems to help people suffering with depression & anxiety! Also diet seems to play a big role in intensifying symptoms. Eating more raw meals seem to help also in my son's healing. Hope this information helps you in some way!! Your Awesome & Amazing! Wishing you healing. 😊😀🤗💕💜💕💜💕💜💕💜💕

[@innerjourneysascendingnow7937]

Oh also sugar & wheat & gluten made my son's symptoms of depression worse. Hope this helps in some way!! Hugs!!! 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@lisawanderess]

Hiya I'm a full-time caravan dweller in Australia who deals with depression and anxiety too. Just wanted to say hi 👋

[@AvalonbyNature]

Good on you ❤

[@beyond2roads179]

I sincerely hope by now you realize......You my Vanlife Scholar are not in these struggles alone. You have found a family among us. ❤

[@WaywardAbode]

I do feel that way. You're gonna make me cry! 🥹🥰 Love you!

[@katebriggs8380]

I second that! Well said! 😀

[@rebeccadear9190]

Omg..you are amazing! A real example of human strength. Ty for producing this vlog. You are smiling now, but that frown upside down is 😂😂was paved with tears. Ty for sharing

[@robertbirch4163]

Wow, a truthful video of becoming homeless a have to live in a van. So it's not all sunshine awesome days. Thank you for telling us the REAL DEAL !!!

[@wendyh9848]

My God, your story is a parallel to mine. I am 9 weeks away from being homeless. Obviously I am considering van life. I could spend a long time just talking to you. You have helped me be a little less fearful. Thank you.

[@WaywardAbode]

You're going to be okay, Wendy. Whether you end up finding another sticks and bricks to live in, or you end up living in a van, you will be okay. The transition part might suck. But it will work out OK in the end for you. I believe that. Please keep me posted. And let me know if I can answer anything in the meantime.

[@JulieMellum]

Looking for a roommate in Wisconsin. Are you near by?

[@noname7782]

Alot of us older women are doing the van life, most of us, because it's the only option and we make it work. I'm an in the city van lifer. Costs me around $400 a month but the summers in Colorado Springs are the best, I'm from Texas where the humidity suffocates but here in Colorado Springs it isn't and doesn't get much hotter than 94 in heat of summer.

[@theresalowe1231]

Wow. I just tripped across this video. I am so in awe at your struggles and courage to overcome. Even if you felt you had no choice...you overcame. I’m an old lady who bought an older camper van 3 years ago and do not have the courage to go out by myself. You are like a super woman to me.. so go leap those tall buildings my dear. I’ll cheer you on.

[@WaywardAbode]

I'll leap them if you hold my hand. 🥰

[@montanawife4851]

Ah dear Birdie! I am not kidding when I say you could write a beautiful story about bravery,strength ,the grace that comes with trying . You are a gift and your smile is a treasure ❤I hope you know how lucky we are to have found your smile😊

[@theresaromeo5484]

Yes she really gets feelings across to listeners. Discribing feelings has to be one of the hardest things when telling a story. The way she talked about mourning her old life is absolutely the best way to describe that feeling when something life altering happens. Those feelings really are mourning but I have never heard it said that way. It fits that's exactly what it is.

[@WaywardAbode]

Y'all make me feel like the luckiest chick on the internet. Thank you for always being so sweet and supportive. ❤️

[@WaywardAbode]

@@theresaromeo5484 Thank you, sweet friend. I appreciate you saying that with all my heart. ❤️

[@catwoman2582]

Took the words out of my mouth, it's a truly beautiful smile.

[@AdaraAhab]

Thank you for sharing your experience. The rawness is refreshing. Always stay true to yourself. Also, growing up poor and not having electronics to escape from reality, I would rent books from the library and read. I read everything...fiction, sci-fi, documentaries, how tos...you can learn so much and entertain yourself with books. Also finding an inexpensive craft like knitting, drawing or painting is great. You can get materials from the dollar store. Hope that helps ❤

[@mojo4369]

The rumination fart loop and the zoning out with social media to numb the brain is so relateable. Even in the van life I still cacoon. Im so glad you got better

[@WaywardAbode]

Same. I'm only social online. Still very much a cocooner. :)

[@AnasAdventures111]

You are a natural storyteller. Bravo for persevering. Your story will help so many others who feel like giving up. I agreed that 4 inches is not enough. Sorry I had to throw that in there. 😂

[@WaywardAbode]

Lol I love you. Thank you so much. 🥰

[@maryyoung777]

I loved the video.

[@susantosi695]

I agree…smiled the whole video…so enjoyed YOU…I think your going to be fine…

[@WaywardAbode]

@@maryyoung777 Thank you!

[@WaywardAbode]

@@susantosi695 Thank you, Susan!!

[@nanslife]

I will never understand people having no compassion for the homeless, just remember you may end up in that situation one day. The whole world needs more compassion.

[@wendyrobertson-c6m]

Oh honey I know exactly what you went through. I lost everything multiple times and ended up homeless 3 times, but I'm grateful to be alive by the grace of God. I truly wish i could reach out and hug you right now because i know how much having a friends hug means when you're where you are at. Without the support of my friends and church family I don't think I would have made it. Just wanted to tell you that libraries, community centers and occasionally a hospital lobby are great escapes from the cold and heat and local churches are great places to connect with city & county resources. The library should have a list of local resources available for those in need. I'll be praying that your situation improves.

[@WaywardAbode]

Hi, sweetheart. Thank you for being so caring. I consider myself virtually hugged. I'll definitely look into those things. Sending my love.

[@isabelkassan5244]

From Australia! You are a hero and educating others! Contributing! You are needed!

[@lisawanderess]

Hi fellow Aussie! 👋

[@JourneyWithJoanne]

That ‘butt bump’ on your vehicle is a VICTORY scar … your triumph of overcoming the dead-end, getting hooked, getting stuck in the mud, being able to turn the vehicle round and surviving that awful road twice! Well done!

[@WaywardAbode]

That's awesome! I love that so much! 🥰🥰🥰

[@susie9893]

Yeah, should put a victory sticker on it or something 😅

[@tvc-u4v]

Wow Birdie, you can make people laugh and cry, you took me there to your first two months with your words. I wish you nothing but the best. Trial by fire, not the easiest way to learn, but you are helping others by looking straight into the camera. I'm two hours north of you and I am aware that Sacramento can be scary and sketchy in certain areas. Stay safe, thank you for sharing your life. Maybe adding a P.O. mailing box will give your viewers a way to help you out some. ✌

[@WaywardAbode]

Hi there! We're so close. Maybe we'll get to meet someday. Thank you for saying I'm being helpful. That's pretty much the best compliment I could receive. You are super appreciated. 😊

[@kateberger613]

I’m glad I found you. You are in inspiration

[@DazlinDesigns]

Thank you for your honesty. Other van lifers usually attempt to make it the best lifestyle ever in their KZbin videos. It is more challenging than most portray.

[@LeilanisJourney]

I am so glad you decided to do youtube and share your experiences with us. Thank you.

[@WaywardAbode]

That's so cool of you to say! Thank you for deciding to be a part of it. I appreciate it more than words can express. ❤️

[@debbieharrison4792]

Thank you for being real. The world needs more real people.

[@AnnettesVanTease]

I just wanna give you a hug. When the weather gets a little better, Nevada City is perfect and very van friendly. I just checked the weather and it’s going to snow this week, so it’s going to be another few weeks before it warms up. I actually stayed in town over the weekend, if you would like city tips I’m happy to help. We just don’t want your new friends to know where you stay at night. 🤗

[@WaywardAbode]

You're so sweet! Maybe I could do that sometime. Thank you for being awesome!!!

[@Crystalandlagreenga]

Heyyy Annette 👋🏻🤗🩵

[@AnnettesVanTease]

@@Crystalandlagreenga hiya Crystal! 👋🏻 Birdie and I are neighbors or so it appears.

[@Crystalandlagreenga]

@@AnnettesVanTease Oh that’s awesome. I know you can give Birdie some great tips on being safe and other important things you have learned throughout your experiences. Blessings my friend 🤗🩵

[@FeMiNem-Poet]

@AnnetteVanTease Thanks for that. Having a safe place to park is key.🌷

[@SoloSOLIVING]

Really appreciate your gift for telling your story. Finally someone relatable in van life videos! God bless!

[@WaywardAbode]

Such a nice thing to say! Thank you so, so much!! 🥰

[@PhiLeo7973]

The singer Jewel struggled before becoming famous. At 15, on her own, in Alaska, she left home in her car, and served tables,but she refused the advances of the Cafe owner and lived and slept in her car. You have such a unique personality. Perhaps you should consider getting a S.A.G. card someday, I could really see you in a series. In the meantime, we will enjoy your rising KZbin fame. Hang in there Birdie. Everything will work out for you and daughter.Stay safe and Happy Trails.🇺🇲💙🙏☘️

[@WaywardAbode]

I like Jewel and I had heard some of that before, but not all of it. I'm glad she was able to rise out of the pain. I would love to act. But I highly doubt I could remember lines anymore! 😅🫠

[@lcanaled3186]

Love Jewel, and yes, now she's dating Kevin Costner.

[@sarahpierson6937]

Jewel lived in her car with her mom too.

[@lindaltsteele1313]

Love you already … Your so honest …

[@PhiLeo7973]

@@siliconvalleyJT I do remember the Kilcher family, Jewel included, lived around Homer, in the Kachemak Bay area of Alaska.

[@sonyaskogstad3849]

Thank you so much for introducing us to van life as it’s been a wonderful insight. I would say you were lucky and privileged if your government looked after you as a citizen so you never had to live in a van. I wish you well lovely lady and hopefully I will see more posts from you. 🥰 I am in NZ and our country has gone downhill majorly over the years and rents the cost of living is high and we have many homeless ourselves and it’s the saddest thing I have ever seen in my life 😢

[@Scarletsky138]

You are cracking me up! You should be a stand up comedian! I love it!

[@Aspen_stitcher]

You are freaking awesome!!!! What adventures you had! You seriously need to start a journal, and write a book one day. You are my hero!

[@WaywardAbode]

You are beyond sweet! Thank you!! Who knows, maybe I will write it down one day. Stanger things have happened! 😊

[@Tina.Lucille]

OMG, I relate to you on so many levels. Just know how much you are helping people by sharing. Sending good vibes, hugs, and blessings your way.

[@WaywardAbode]

That would be awesome. I hope you're right that I'm helping someone. I love you. ❤️

[@msruby68]

I felt this. You are such a good storyteller. I can't imagine your youtube channel being nothing but spectacular and will grow leaps and bounds.

[@WaywardAbode]

I appreciate that so much. Thank you!! 🥰

[@donnakirk215]

If you can afford it, star link is, I think, a good internet connection

[@donnakirk215]

Hopefully you get some sort of disability income.

[@roxannesmith8355]

Every dent on your vehicle is a reminder of the bumps in the road you have overcome! You go girl!

[@susanlongstreet5481]

Thank you SO much! What a great video: while it is a hard story to tell you told it with such humor you should be a comedienne. I relate to the grief- forced to leave my house 5 months ago and am now living full time in a travel trailer, didn’t realize how much it would hurt leaving my home of 23 years. I’m 68 now and hope I can get used to this. You are amazing!!!

[@perrym9401]

Loving you all the way from the UK. Your sense of humour towards your trials and tribulations crack me up. I feel I’d react the same way if I was in your position, mostly panic and confusion with a lot of pondering on things. Being able to laugh at yourself I find is such an attractive quality and you have that in spades. I hope that in your difficult times you might get some comfort knowing there is a group of us out there willing you to get through the lows. So, keep up the good work because your fans obviously adore you.

[@WaywardAbode]

This comment is so touching. Thank you for being part of this with me. And thank you for letting me laugh at it all. It's so much more fun not to take things seriously, I think! 😊

[@angelaschaefer5883]

You deserve place to live everyone does. It makes me so mad. Don’t let other people judgement. Get you down.

[@yrankin1]

I live in my RV full time, struggling with depression and anxiety. I have been through many of these situations. I appreciate your honest appraisal of the situation. Hugs to you.

[@ToyoteroMundial]

Reading Books about things you enjoy will help you pass the time.👍🏼

[@cindyshank5265]

Life is one long learning curve, you are surviving. Thank you

[@kaiju42]

I just wanted to quickly say: I think you are very, very brave. You are a hero in my eyes and you remind me so much of my mum💜 you are a beautiful soul and I wish you all the best

[@WaywardAbode]

Wow, to say that I remind you of your mom. That's a huge compliment. Thank you so much. I'm so glad you're here.

[@Hiker_who_Sews]

I love your comment about van life in the wilds, where all you had to worry about was bears finding your peanut butter.

[@abcnoyes2]

You are amazing. You could have allowed yourself to dive into your depression. You didn’t. You are thriving in your new life. Take the journey at your own pace and nothing will stop you.

[@WaywardAbode]

That's a really sweet thing to say in a lovely thing to hear. Thank you so much.

[@DottieStanley]

Great story teller! You need to do this full time! Very important, reality, of the situation we all have to figure out how to think through. Not all of us will go thorough the same grieving process about our old life. Many of us are thrilled to have this lifestyle as an option at this time in our lives. So glad you are taking care of yourself and sharing your experiences with others.

[@WaywardAbode]

Totally agree that everyone will experience it differently. Thank you so much. ❤️

[@janegallagher6162]

Awesome video, an absolute breath of fresh air, and so funny 'I was so tired after looking out of the van all day' lol. And such a comfort hearing your honest struggle with mental illness. Your a star.

[@annehamilton8977]

Hi Birdie, you have a great sense of humour & you tell a good story. I agree, in that it's good to hear about someone's journey from the beginning. It's not all a bed of roses & it helps others to know that as they prepare for their journey. I think it's harder parking in the city, you always have to be on people watch. Of course, anywhere, but more so there. I cant remember if this has been mentioned, but it's always good to park facing the entrance, just in case you have to exit in a hurry. Scary situation being stuck in the mountainous mud & it's hard not to panic, especially when you're on your own, but all your experiences, good & not so good, just adds to the wonderful, never to be forgotten Adventure that you're having. An up & coming female Bob Wells in the making. And your sweet little home on wheels suffered a War Wound & lived to tell the tale. I can feel your sadness over what you feel you have lost. The bricks and mortar home is not there, but your little home on wheels is still a home, your precious little place that you can fill with love, physically, mentally & spiritually. A home that will care for you as you care for it. And the most important & precious thing you have is the love that others have for you. Your darling daughter who loves you very much. Good friends who love you & care about you, some will be your subscribers, people who genuinely care about others. It can be very hard to quiet our minds, but in my own life, I use meditation, music, a good book, and so on, not just for the enjoyment that comes from these activities, but i find that they are useful tools to help me cope in a world that is not always a happy one. I think we can all, with practice & perseverance, have inner peace & happiness that the world cannot touch. ❤

[@WaywardAbode]

Hi there! So true about people guarding in the city. I do have a slightly scary story about someone out in the wilderness, but I have way more scary stories about folks in the city. :) Thank you for that tip about facing the insurance when parking! Gonna remember that one. I love that you called Tammy Lynn's butt bump a war wound! That's amazing. And that's what it is in my head now. A war wound! :) You're 100% right about my precious little home. It feels more and more like home every single day. And I'm so, so lucky to have it. And I'm so, so lucky to have y'all. ❤️ Thank you for the tips about quiet in your mind. I have tried meditation in the past. It didn't go well for me, but maybe I'm in a better place for it now, so I'll give it a go. Thank you for being here for me. I really appreciate it. I hope you have an amazing day.

[@annehamilton8977]

@@WaywardAbode ❤

[@sherryhicks4156]

I've been doing this 6 yrs part time and I have had the same things happen to me. It's some how a right of passage. You have ARRIVED once you have experienced it!!

[@WaywardAbode]

Will that's cool! I've been through a rite of passage. I like that! 🥰

[@mcdowell1953]

You seem like a lovely lady. I ve gone thru anxiety and depression, so I understand. I will pray for you. I m hoping that your story gets better❤✝️

[@WaywardAbode]

Thank you, sweetheart. I'm sorry you've had to deal with that. But I'm grateful for your understanding. I hope life is treated you well. ❤️

[@briennesfatsister4788]

Wow girl! I appreciate this so much. I have been watching all these van life videos in anticipation of living in a van when I retire. I'd see these folks talking about how "my dad, or my friend, or whoever with all these power tools helped me build this van out." That's not going to happen for me. I also see them hiking here and there. I'm not really into all that. Your experience sounds 1 million times more realistic for what my life will be like. Thank you so much for sharing. Can't wait to learn more about your experience.

[@WaywardAbode]

Hi there! I hope so much you end up enjoying your new chapter in life. Please keep me posted! ❤️

[@TimTamRipple]

Gosh I love you - lmao , I needed to hear your story because, like you, I have a mental illness and thinking of living out of my carsvan/camper/van/car (not sure yet) . Youve given me something to think about. Thanks- you are great!.

[@BibiProvenceBBSmoothMusic]

You should be a comedian, you make me laugh so hard with your stories. I think people would love to hear your lifestories. Bless your soul ❤

[@melodywalls4693]

I believe what my daughter says, "we are all one paycheck away from being homeless. " let me tell you. I have 13 siblings, a couple in heaven now. Only 3 offered me their couch when I was in need. Those 3 had just a couch to share. Those with plenty went silent....**I'm doing o.k. now. **

[@WaywardAbode]

I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you're doing better. I find that you're right about people with less giving more. Maybe they're just capable of more empathy? I don't know. It does seem odd. Please let me know how you're doing now. ❤️

[@dan-oe7yw]

You find out who your friends are when the bill comes due

[@nicola_k-s]

I believe that too that we are only one step away and have seen just how close recently which still may be a reality for us too as house prices for sale and rent shoot up in the UK still.

[@angelaschaefer5883]

I have been fortunate to have family and friends to stay with. From the times we didn’t have place to live. That your family doesn’t help you is cruel and wrong.

[@sandeedobberstine5591]

God bless you 🌈🙏🧡 I hope things improve for you.

[@darlene9154]

You are so sweet. I just want you to know that lots of people are in the same boat as you. I hope you stay safe and happy. 🤗❤️ I never, ever judge people. I always remember that any one of us could become homeless in a second. Never forget it.

[@WaywardAbode]

Thank you for being one of the bright lights in this world. ❤️❤️❤️

[@Badgrandmabarb]

I love your honesty. I have been on the road for 5 yrs. I finally think I am getting the hang of it. I can sympathize with your struggles. Hopefully we will meet and share stories. God speed my friend.

[@vickilucas4620]

It is so heart warning to watch how excited you get preening your focus that we all take for granted. You are so deserving.

[@einnockate]

You are funny and I love your accent!!! I will be celebrating my 3 yr Vaniversary in April.

[@WaywardAbode]

Three years, that's amazing!! Thank you so much!! 🥰

[@nancybeck5785]

New Subscriber, You are truly a breath of fresh air.

[@shirleyrowe4078]

Girl, you’re amazing. Please come to the WRTR in January. I would love to meet you as you have been an inspiration on so many levels🤞🏻

[@dumbartonyankee]

I really appreciate you. I'm very likely going to be moving into a van due to poverty. So I appreciate the stuff you're talking about.

[@WaywardAbode]

I hope everything works out for you. ❤️

[@michelleraney3577]

You told your story extremely well!! You had me cracking up at times!

[@WaywardAbode]

That is so awesome to hear! Thank you so much!

[@crabsoft]

I'm not out there yet, but I like your attitude. I dunno why folks don't talk about all these extremely common issues.

[@Mkropka.]

❤Oh my gosh I wish I knew you! I watched your video and believe me I'm in the same boat, every other channel that I've watched makes it be like they know what they're doing right off the bat. With no issues. Thank you for being so real.❤

[@WaywardAbode]

Hi! It can be hard, for sure. I hope you're finding a way to make it work for you. Please keep me posted. Now that we're friends, and all. :)

[@susie9893]

I watched a younger chic who started documenting from scratch. Was pretty interesting cos she was very honest about how freaked she was her first night and first week There are channels out there like that, just gotta look

[@kelleyhobbs4344]

Omg girl you are hilarious 😅 love it! Thanks for your story.

[@patriciafreyburger7910]

I always watch every video you make but I only ever commented once. I'm not a seasoned van lifer/traveler like you. I'm planing to make the journey from central NYS to the RTR 2025. Im kind of scared to be there on my own. Seems like we are similar in that we don't want to be joined at the hip with others. I do want to meet other like minded people and make friends and feel comfortable. You've said you will be feeling well enough to get back to your van and be at this years RTR. I hope that you will tell us about which part of the BLM you plan to be. I would love to meet you in person and I would feel better just knowing someone like you was around. ❤😊

[@cindychilders8138]

When “those “ people give you the eye- - - just give them a big smile and keep walking. You’ve got this and so many of us are here to support you. I’m impressed with your courage. Hugs, Cindy C

[@WaywardAbode]

Yes, I shall smile! I like it! Thank you. ☺️

[@Locd4life707]

@@WaywardAbode Most people thing vanlifers are sad or low lifes. No that's not the case. I'm almost two year's in come this May and I am happier than ever before. Trust me. You'll get to a place and you won't care what others think! If you're happy living vanlife that's all that matters! Live, and be happy!

[@kbarb1000]

Really appreciate your honesty. Bless you xxx

[@cgarcia660]

I love your sense of humor. Hardship builds humor and it is the best medicine. Yes, humans are so adaptable. ❤️

[@susan6880]

Thank you for all the mental health parts of van life/sticks & bricks existence. Keep exploring this part of the life because it is never talked about nor is it represented within the van life. Thank you

[@jarrineshaw2144]

Humans are amazing adapters and survivors and you are a prime example! Good for you lady, my hats off to you!!

[@Rich-xq8df]

Just love listening to your drop dead honest aliveness.

[@katebriggs8380]

Girl! You and I have so much in common! I have to say that even though I have never met you, I’m so very proud of how brave you are! Even if you don’t feel brave you are! I have a few mental health issues that have made my life a challenge over the years. I am your age. My kids are older though. (Let’s just say I was “that girl” who graduated pregnant!) Anywho, I can’t imagine starting life over in a mini van! Brave I tell ya!

[@WaywardAbode]

Hi, friend!! Thank you so much for saying that. I'm sorry to hear you, too, struggle with mental illness. I hope things are going easy on you now. ❤️

[@lisahaapaoja3838]

You are a delight!! If people would just take the time to speak to you and be respectful, they’d find a friend for life. I’m sorry for all the bad you’ve been through but I am certain that you will have increasingly more good than bad!

[@debsdaughter]

You are hilarious! Thanks for sharing your experience, both the exciting and challenging parts. I can’t stop laughing. You have a wonderful sense of humor. I also appreciate you candidly sharing your mental health struggles and the strategies you used to manage them. So many people, including myself, can relate to everything you shared.

[@WaywardAbode]

Thank you so much. I appreciate you saying that! ❤️

[@debsdaughter]

@@WaywardAbode ❤

[@fayebridges7024]

OMG, Thank you for you honesty! You made me laugh sooo much!

[@deborahsofia4732]

Thank you for sharing your story. I can "feel" how hard that was for you I am looking to retire and get into the lifestyle because I don't own a home and want to be able to travel around the US, I have a car and a tent and I've slept in the car many times, and I understand how hard it is sometimes to feel comfortable in your surroundings. You are a warrior - don't forget that. You have a lovely spirit and are so funny. Keep smiling and making the best of it.

[@WaywardAbode]

Thank you for your empathy. I truly appreciate it. I'm happy to hear you're gonna get into the lifestyle and explore this amazing country of ours. Maybe fate will be kind to us, and we'll actually get to meet somewhere down the road. How cool would that be?

[@PhilippeFernandez]

I love how sane you are!😁 you’re a joy to listen to.. thanks

[@WaywardAbode]

I mean, there might be some debate about how sane I am. 🤣 But thank you so much. I appreciate it! 😊

[@Galen-864]

😂 Bless you, dear lady! You had me laughing and crying at your adventures. My ❤ went out to you Not sure I would have made it.

[@WaywardAbode]

I bet you'd have done a lot better than you think! You gotta do what you gotta do, right! 🤣 Thank you, my friend. 😊

[@KatieT81]

You are a great story teller, I'm sorry it was a rough start but you are doing it! And you need to tell those negative voices in your head they are wrong. You are awesome, and funny! That is how I quieted mine.

[@jennifermassengill1635]

Mad respect...but when she said drown it out ..it reminded me of Lewis Black talking about having to drink so much so the dogs would stop barking in his brain and I felt that on a cellular level..no joke.

[@CountryComesToTown]

This is such a great and real video. You have an amazing sense of humor! You had me rolling in the floor when you said mother Tucker was singing karaoke and preaching! 🤣

[@WaywardAbode]

Lmao that's awesome! 😆 Thank you!

[@Wenowknow]

I swear the minute your video came onto my feed I said, "I know her!" We met momentarily in Q. In a store or something. You have all the skills you need to make it! I know while I snowbird all winter from my base in my cabin in the northeast, that having a routine not too closely followed, but a routine just the same helps tremendously. I look up new dog parks, history, libraries, tourist points of interests, rec day parks, etc. I have a 32 ft motorhome. I know I will eventually downsize and have to sell the cabin if I don't find a van dweller or two to join me there. I pictured installing a couple of electric/water hookups and renting very cheaply to help with expenses while also providing some security for a couple of people needing to get off the road for the summer. Summers are perfect there. I'm putting in a raised garden this year. There's so much to do in the area. It gets lonely though at times, so having a couple women like you would be lovely. I know you'll make it. Maybe you could dog sit a couple times a week. Maybe set up a cleaning job a couple of days? Good things are just around the corner! I'll be thinking of you and commenting on your videos. 😊

[@WaywardAbode]

Hello, there! If you remember how we met, let me know. That's so cool. I think your idea is an amazing one. Find the right people and it could be utopia. Thank you so much for your suggestions. I'm grateful you're here. 😊

[@REBECCA...]

You're doing an excellent job editing and telling your situation. 🧡🧡

[@WaywardAbode]

That's really nice of you to say. Thank you. 🥰

[@taketime0626]

I just found your channel today. I then noticed you uploaded your first video only 5 months ago but already have over 15k subscribers!!!! 😮😮😮. I’ve been binge watching your videos and now I know why!! ❤❤❤ YOU ARE AN AMAZING PERSON!!!! I’ve also noticed you haven’t uploaded a video in 2 weeks, and I’m really hoping you are ok.

[@irisandu2]

This is the first video of yours I have seen and I have fallen in love and can relate. It's August, and now I get to catch up with all your other videos. I can't wait to see the next adventure you get yourself into. You made me laugh watching you. Peace and Joy. Aloha from Alaska

[@betsymcgovern5672]

I am not certain if you get to read everything but I want to say you are such wonderful person. I hope things get better for you. I can not imagine going through what you did for those two,o Months. I wish the best for you. Keep on traveling.i will certainly watch your videos.

[@WaywardAbode]

Thank you so much, Betsy. I appreciate your caring more than I can say.