The Good Husband

[@jimmydean1341]

I lost my partner this last December. He was just like Alister and then he past away. We were the perfect match. We were each other's rock. I woke up to him dead next to me. We were going to get married on my birthday. And now all I have is memory's. Just keep yourself close to him because you never know what can happen in an instant. Keep the love for each other and Alister thank you for your service to our country. My man was a Navy veteran

[@Tymmy66]

So sorry for your loss Jimmy Dean. Its hard when you lose the one you love, but remember there are people to talk to when you need to. You may never get over it, but you will get through it.

[@audreytegeler9131]

Jimmy Dean my heart aches for you. Thank you for sharing.

[@brianmaier7529]

I loved the part where Alastair thinks he's going to get to top. That was adorable. Come on Zach, you've got to bottom every once in a while.

[@fb668]

I firmly believe Alastair was sent to from above. The true and real love you both have did not happen by chance. Nurture it and cherish it together for the rest of your lives!

[@JohnLeslie68]

This is what it's all about guys. Once you joined together, once that ring is on your finger it's "US" not you, not him. Bronson is lucky to have two loving caring dad's now. This is what being married is all about. And there will be other rocky places along the road. Health issues, money issues, family issues. Hopefully nothing too severe but hey that's life. It's a trip meant to be shared. You've got Alistair's back, he's got yours. Thanks for putting yourselves out there to show the world a same sex union is no different than a opposite sex union. All our Best from NH J&K

[@HusbandandHusband]

It's going to be the best year EVER! Can't wait to follow along, guys!

[@carrchrist1965]

I died laughing when I heard, "Is he gonna bottom?" I had to shut my door at work and replay to make sure I heard correctly! 😂

[@Megmac1987]

It's awful when pets are in pain and can't tell us what they need. I'm so glad Bronson is okay. This video is completely adorable xxxx

[@BrokebackBob]

You two are THE REAL THING. Cherish it and value it above all the daily ups and downs, and appreciate each other. I am 61 and completely alone.

[@bowhunter8235]

BobEckert56 .... I'm 63 and alone.

[@drewsean2816]

Alistair saying "Oh my goodness" was really cute too.

[@Bill_Russell_aka_Coolbreeze]

Ok, you guys are the epitome of what everyone wants a real relationship to be. One can only hope, time is a very precious commodity, dont waste any.

[@DAD6911]

"Is he gonna bottom?" Hahaha... And Zach's face!!! Priceless!!! I love this great couple. They are so nice together!!!

[@paulandrews298]

That was really sweet! I had a tear in my eyes at the end of the video. I wish you guys years of happiness.

[@christheskibum4970]

Zach, this video is a great reminder of why so many of us just frickin' love you. You open your heart to us, you invite us in and you show us your deepest feelings. You are always so emotionally honest. Your love and inner beauty just shine through. Thank you for doing this and for sharing your life with all of us. God bless you!

[@robertewing6460]

I just found you channel yesterday and have watched all you videos. You guys show the hope for the lgbt community. It has changed so much in my life. I’m 52 and I could never come out in my younger years. But 4 years ago I finally stopped living my lie and started being the true me. I still have a long way to go but it’s so much better for me. I had to hide for so long all my time in the Army was on big lie because if any one know I would have been thrown out. I wish you and Alastair the best enjoy your freedoms they have been earned..

[@neliniasty]

I hope that someday I'll find someone who will love me the way you love Alistar.

[@yojiviriak675]

you need to be cute like them for that

[@alperalta2562]

Simon the Drifter yes you will find in the right time and the right person

[@jimmydean1341]

You will I found mine man this last December after four great months to an enlarge heart and that's hard. I woke up and found him dead. I am hoping this next year I can find someone if not then I miss my chance keep the love and peace.

[@leeannmarie995]

i agreed...his genuine

[@anugrahahmadmarwan7843]

"is he gonna bottom?" this, is... so CUTE? 😭❤

[@auto137226]

Anugrah Marwan he should bottom, slow, easy and lots of lube!

[@pearlsaremybestfriend]

I started crying about the dog and ended up hollering at the OTHER comment by your husband. OMG you guys are great. Sending happiness and blessing !

[@nestorv7627]

"we can try but we can't get pregnant."

[@OLDS98]

I am sorry to hear about your troubles. I am sorry about your dog Bronson as he means so much to you. You two will get through this difficult time. It happens. It how we go through it. Your husband really is indeed a true or good husband. You two keep doing for each other. I liked your honesty and you speaking your truth. It is great to see. Good video even at a difficult time.

[@PaulA-dy5be]

Great to watch your videos: so helpful and uplifting! For some of us "old folk," you are living what we could not/ were not allowed to even imagine. I was at BAMA '67-'71 and "gay" didn't exist. You couldn't even think it. We just trudged through the "frat" dominated mentality of "super jocks" and stayed on the sidelines. Going "neutral" and "faking straight" were the only options. Then came careers with security clearances etc. where even knowing someone gay got you fired. Thank God things have changed! Your videos bring hope and make this "old guy" happy that you are able to be you!

[@rland]

Zach, that is such a beautiful and wonderful video! You and Alastair are one great couple. Thank you for sharing some of your private moments with us. And you did a fabulous job on the desk and shelves. Hope B is doing better and continues to stay healthy for a long time.

[@boyglitter]

How wonderful and refreshing to see a young married couple working through hard times together! You made my day. How hope B. gets better.

[@DavidBeagin]

Wow! This video is packed with love. Thank you for sharing this incredibly tender and emotional moment. Life throws adversity at us at the most unexpected times. I love the way you handled it. My heart goes out to Bronson. It's nice to know that he now has 2 dads that love him and take care of him. GREAT opening to this video, too!

[@loveisanopendoor5745]

Hey. Coming from a 14 year old closeted, it means a lot to watch you two. I really wanna write more, but I wanna be the first comment. I LOVE U ALL.

[@loveisanopendoor5745]

nvm....

[@markanthony879]

A small heart you do not have far from. Your heart is shown in your love for Alastair and B. Many blessings for 2018. The best is yet to come. GOD bless.

[@Arahnk]

This video was incredibly heartwarming...it's so apparent how much you love each other. Really made me smile.

[@jimsegura8009]

"Is he going to bottom?" Boy, that Alastair. Zach, he's a keeper.

[@JasonTrahan]

Of all the couples I watch on KZbin, you and Alastair’s is the only one that makes me want a partner more than ever. Thanks for letting us get a glimpse into your marriage. So glad B is doing better.

[@shmiller70]

Absolutely your best video, imo, to date. Thank you for sharing your ups and downs and showing us what it takes to make a relationship work. I hope nothing but great things ahead for your entire family.

[@alexvalencia5080]

I STARTED SCREAMING AND CRYING WHEN ALISTER SAID "Is he gonna bottom??"

[@SDStitch]

Been following you for years. I think that this was one of your most honest and deep videos. You can tell in your voice how much you love your partner and what that means to you and how you show it. I think for all those who watch this video and others will get to see some good role models. Keep it up and keep going on your path.

[@AlphaXxRoxasxX]

Honestly the first 30 secs was the most amazing film work Zach has done yet. It was simple yet beautiful.

[@mrakguidry4228]

24! Lol I remember being 24, I wasn't where you are now. I was stuffed away deep in the closet. I've gone through 2 marriages, both to women, one lasting 18 years. Finally at 53 I'm where you are. Hold him close enjoy being young together and then enjoy growing old together, it's a beautiful life.

[@ak_0195]

i melt the moment you said you're gonna give Al everything possibly you can. I can see that how much you love to see him happy and the little things you do for him just touch my heart always.

[@iwnunn7999]

He thought Zach was going to surprise him with his btm!! How funny.

[@dapadilla1]

This video made me cry. So heartfelt. As a married man to my husband Brian, you really demonstrated the ups and downs of marriage. But when it’s good, it’s worth every sacrifice. I love watching you two grow together. It’s amazing how your spouse can fill your weaknesses with strength. And how we do the same. Love you both! 😘❤️

[@renesauceda3048]

Both of your smiles are goals. The love is strong. Sending positive good energy to both of you and Bronson.

[@maddratt]

Oh WOW. Where to start. You talk about what a man Alastair is... Zach it takes a big man to say what you said and do it in a way that not only is believable to show how humble you are and it brought about emotions. I was never really clear on Bronson's out come, could you address that or direct me to a video that you talked about it? There is no doubt in my mind you two are in love and are right for each other. I'm so jealous of what you have!

[@goldygoldygone4455]

"Oh my goodness" love it

[@AdventuresofZachandB]

That’s one of my favorite things he says haha

[@goldygoldygone4455]

Adventures of Zach and B Hey Zach. Just wanna let y'all know. You guys have been a major piece of my life. Been there since the beginning with your channel. I leave to Marine bootcamp in June. And i fucking hope I'll have something like the both of you. Thank you. Give B a pat on the back for me. Ooh-Rah!

[@affecttheeffect]

You guys keep getting better and better not just in these videos but in life itself; I am very much looking forward to hearing your many stories yet to come.

[@tominkerry]

The way you treat animals and particularly B makes my heart melt. Best wishes to you and your wonderful family in 2018 🐕❤

[@lonelyguy7619]

Just what I needed today. Was having a really bad couple of days. You just made me cry happy tears .. and then laugh out loud when Alastair said "Is he gonna bottom?" Hahaha. I said to myself "Did he actually say that on camera?" Hahaha. You guys are just awesome. Your love for each other ... really something to aspire to. Love you guys!

[@mysterywho66]

You both are just an amazing couple. One just feels like falling in love looking at you two. Stay blessed always.

[@777DVB]

Aww the good husband indeed 💖

[@apostrophe.t]

You two are doing awesome. You are such an inspiration! I do hope Bronson is well long-term, too.

[@denniskavanaugh8529]

Awesome....clearly you are speaking from the heart, and this is one of your very best!

[@robertminech8561]

Yep I bawled like a baby. Love you guys . Just make sure to keep making your videos too Zack. And I wish and hope for the best for you both. God bless

[@DiegoGarcia-xy3lt]

Thank you for sharing with us, we support you as a family. You are one of the sweetest couple out there.

[@seansullivan2283]

Another beautiful heartwarming video. The love you have for each other is tangible. Thanks for sharing.

[@horseboy3269]

Fav part He’s an amazing man and he’s MY man I was like that’s right claim yours😘😍😂👌🏾💍

[@O405N2]

What a beautiful video! 😍 Zach, it was wonderful the unexpected surprise for Alastair! You are very lucky having each other! 💖 You are also "a good husband"! Thank you for sharing...

[@kylepage9770]

I always love watching your videos but this is probably my favorite. It takes real love to be able to open up and be honest about how much you care about someone in that depth on a public platform. It also gives me hope to see my generation forming such meaningful and dedicated relationships. Far too often we find someone we are "in love with" but as soon as things get tough we tuck tail and run. Thank you both for setting an example of how a real relationship should work.

[@Mirrigold]

Your honesty, as always Zach, is an inspiration. I wish you and Alistair and B and Winnie a happier and healthier 2018

[@kappakappakappa1]

More often than not, I watch your posts and you make me tear up. Thanks for sharing.

[@JamesandLaurent]

We hope Bronson gets better 🤒🤒🤒.

[@AdventuresofZachandB]

He’s doing great right now

[@4EverATVAddict]

Fucking hell I was on the verge of tears when you were talking about how much you love Alastair. I'm sat here, almost 24, no stable job, back living with my parents, single.... and look at you. You're super lucky and inspiring, dude.

[@rickwalbu]

I hope Bronson gets better,but they only stay in our lives for a short time.I just enjoy the days you have with your little guy that are left.Best wishes to you and your man.

[@Tymmy66]

Zach you had me in tears when you spoke about Bronson. A few years back we lost our 17 year old cat and 13 year old dog with two weeks of each other...its heartbreaking when pets get ill or worse when you have to make that decision to let them go.But then I was laughing so hard when Alastair made his comment about what he thought the surprise was LOL. Zach the love you have for that boy is the reason you got married, its always a work in progress and you guys have strength to make it work. Sending love to B to keep improving, and love to you, Alastair and Winnie from Australia.

[@allanathomas6977]

This video had me feeling all sorts of emotion. When you were speaking about Alastair all I saw was unconditional LOVE and admiration, it made me feel special to see that happiness pouring out of you. Sorry to hear about Bronson's health issues, I hope that he gets better. Alastair's comment about what he thought your surprise had to do with had me smiling like a CRAZY person. You four make a beautiful family and I wish you all a lifetime of happiness and love... Always continue to have each others back. Sending LOVE and happiness from JAMAICA to Zach, Bronson, Alastair and Winnie... 😘😘😘😘😘

[@JainMonroe]

this video shows how much you love each other and I find it wonderful that you bring it up. love and honor each other, sometimes there are big obstacles in life but together you will survive everything

[@Autumnaul]

This is literally so adorable. You two are such an inspiration!!

[@victoriakondo3118]

Aw you guys are so cute. That "oh my goodness."

[@platoman214]

Love the opening, closeups of the eyes especially, the metaphor for souls interpenetrating. Not too surprised about the hard times that come early; it won't always be this way. Always thank you for what you're doing to the perceptions of the world.

[@christiansamlaska8035]

More than 30 years ago- my husband and I were in exactly the same place. It IS those moments that - at the time - seem insurmountably tragic and that test the strength of a relationship - that create a true family bond. I love your stories. You’re a wonderful couple/family and such a positive inspiration!

[@raymondf3670]

All I can say Love is Love no matter the sex Man & Man ,Woman & Woman or Man& Woman or the color ....Love is Love

[@cope501]

You guys are so sweet. Don’t lose that hold on tight to each other man. This is just the start of your lives together. My husband and I have been together for 26 years . There are going to be many many challenges ahead for you guys. Just keep loving each other and being there for each other. You guys are amazing. I love Alastairs channel. Does he love Anne Rice or Dean Koontz?

[@stevevitale2986]

Once again watching you choke up about A & B makes me think how damn lucky they are to have you. You may think you’re the lucky one, which you are, but with your old soul mentality love kindness care and compassion they’re both EXTREMELY lucky to have you love them so much. Zach I’m thrilled to follow you. You are a real mans man (pun intended). Don’t change be you be true ❤️

[@mannygonzo]

Your love inspires me beyond words. You instill hope within guys like me who have yet to experience the true love you both have found in each other. Thank you for helping me to look forward to all my tomorrows. ❤️

[@json8288]

Cool backstory to Alastair's channel. I watched his videos last week, so this is a nice look back. Can you two set up an Amazon wish list of books he'd like? Would love to purchase one for him.

[@rickalamo3411]

Marriage is about sharing good and bad things. Glad Alastair was there for you. Prayers for Bronson. Stay strong!

[@harrybutler1828]

Oh My God Zach. I'm so sorry you had to go through that shit with Bronson. There is nothing worse than having a little animal that has been your best friend since day one, get sick. Unfortunately, there are some Vets out there that really work on that premise knowing that you will mortgage the ranch if you have to. You are fortunate to have Allister in your corner. He is a real gem. You both are actually. Keep the video's coming Zach.

[@bluboy4ver2]

If Aleister hasn't already he should read Call Me By Your Name and compare it to the film, or maybe you both can do it as a collab because you're really into film. The book and the movie are different experiences but compliment each other well and would make for an interesting discussion.

[@miket3360]

Beautiful video Zach. You are both an amazing people, continue to be there for each other and always have each other's backs. Glad Bronson is feeling better. 👍🍻

[@zachtong5985]

I'm on dogs 9 and 10 since a boy. These ones are from an excellent breeder which makes all the difference. One is 11 the other is 4 and they have never a serious illness. I paid a little more but what I've saved in vet bills more than made up the initial price, and saved heartache. The key is not inbreeding. My elder retired as a stud at the age of 2 when I got him. The second had been placed with an older woman who couldn't keep him and she sent around word she was looking to place him. His behavior has been an issue as he gets into stuff. Males are so affectionate!

[@johnpowers4730]

As an older person, I am so proud of you both, and what you contribute to the young generation of today is amazing. Words do not adequately express what an inspiration you both are.

[@danflor656]

You all are so lucky and blessed to have found each other.......happy for you two...

[@ajabreu2657]

I'm praying that your dog B gets better. love you guys

[@mdy1232]

Having a pet get very expensive when they get sick, but we will pay anything to keep our pets with us!!! Best of luck with his surgery!!!

[@CarsonMoss]

Winston got a really bad case of pneumonia a week after we got him. He ended up spending two nights in the NC State Vet ICU in an oxygen hood. Poor guy would just cough non-stop until he was too tired and would fall asleep until he woke himself back up coughing. We came close to losing him, but thank god he recovered. I'm sorry you had to experience that fear, i'm sure it was even worse since you've known B for so long. But yeah, ER Vet bills are EXPENSIVE.

[@drewsean2816]

I loved this video. So glad you guys are doing well and making your partner feel appreciated goes a long way. The small reveal towards the end and Zach's face was priceless too!

[@xaulmando]

Ok who put the onions near me?? You two are so lucky and blessed to have found and have each other.

[@zanadu4]

Zach and Alastair I cannot wish you enough good fortune. And, Zach your love for Alastair shines thru this video like an evening star. Zach you have a way of stirring up beautiful emotions. God love you both.

[@hm2746]

Man, i feel sorry to see you tearing up like that. It sucks what you're going through right now. Bronson has a good family, you guys are awesome. I hope he gets the right medical treatment. Stay strong. Sending positive vibes for this little Dude. ❤

[@benoitcesoir]

I loved seeing the love you two have for one another. Never lose that! Life will always throw challenges your way. Meet them together knowing that there is always a way and a path through them.

[@nuclearswan]

Your marriage to Alastair is so wonderful, and I’m so glad you have each other to lean on. Great video man.

[@MrGebbo1]

You guys are great together. You did a fab thing for Alastair, it looks great and we're loving his new channel 👍

[@cartoonice1]

You guys are so raw. It is real. And i can feel your relationship grow every single time. You two are seriously amazing.

[@seamusconnor9055]

You made me cry at the end..... Love to you both.

[@rdjubels1]

Love the sincerity and simplicity of the video. A nice message to give and a wonderful gesture to your husband. Stay strong in 2018 and beyond.

[@HilltopFarmHomestead]

Sorry to hear your first 6 months have been tough. I truly hope things get easier from now on. Hugs.

[@davidmccann1951]

Some amazing footage here, made me so proud of being a part of your channel as a subscriber. Thank you for being so good at what you do. As always be safe. Hugs

[@robjones8300]

Love all three of you. So much love between the two of you. Don't think about it as bad luck. Think about it as LIFE. Life is amazing and wonderful, however in life there are also things that just seem like your world is crumbling. It's not that you have bad luck it's that you are experiencing new things in life and at time they can be challenging. I think for the most part you have a very blessed life.

[@calistrohernandez8130]

You guys are so ridiculously awesome. I love you guys, to see you together. Aw. And Zach, I like the hair.

[@-myatlanticblue-3636]

Through the eyes of love - very heartfelt video indeed. Thank you for sharing.

[@thedoctorjoe1]

You guys are such an inspiration.

[@sublimelyh70]

You're truly meant for one another Zach; don't even think that Alastair doesn't think just as highly of you. Happy to know that Bronson's feeling better.

[@westz4206]

The beginning was so moving! and just like a film! Good job.

[@Hapuna24]

Happy to hear Bronson is doing well. And that you're both continuing to "grow" as one. Keep that love alive, support one another and be there for each other. The 2 of you are among a few couples that the love for each other is real and doesn't seem played for the camera. Aloha! Mahalo for such great vlogs!

[@ThiagoSilva-so9vv]

I want a relationship like this.

[@Ltnsr4me]

OMG this video is great!!! I was in tears when you were talking about B and how sick he was. Partially it brought up memories of when I had to decide to let my little Lobo go a couple years ago. Also you can feel the emotion and fear/pain in your voice and body language. You showed a really tender and vulnerable side to you that I don't believe I ever saw before. The other thing is the comment about you, Zach bottoming. I thought that was such a funny moment and a bit telling....LOL. It was great. I have said it several times before I want your AL cap and I hope when I move to TX I get the privilege of meeting all of you. No offense but especially B. Much love to you guys.