The Grass is Never Greener

[@DarronBrown88]

I’m guilty of this. I mentioned before, I had 2 women who were in love with me. Fed me and took care of me. I had everything I needed, yet I wanted more. I believed I could find someone better looking. Eventually I did. And it wasn’t what I thought it would be. What I found out was that many very beautiful women don’t bring anything to the table outside of their looks. I’m glad I figured it out sooner than later.

[@RomWills]

Life teaches us these things.

[@bobbyg5615]

Darron Brown Those are the ones to really be concerned about. Fine and sexy but the lights are off upstairs. Been there.

[@amazinggrace6881]

Thank you 🙏🏾 for being so honest... it’s the truth and nothing but the truth.

[@Mcdowells]

Water your own grass instead of wondering about someone else's. Good stuff brother Rom.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@neanam]

Matthew Odom sweep around your on back door.

[@Mcdowells]

Twistr yessir!

[@omegamalerevelations7543]

Yeah it's better to have one good woman then several headaches.

[@RomWills]

BOOM!!!!

[@markwhittaker6866]

Black Thought PREACH!

[@SikkDiggy]

When I was a lot younger a friend had once told me to never compare my life to that of another. For that other person may actually have it worse. Everything in life has it pros and cons.

[@RomWills]

You got good advice.

[@SikkDiggy]

Yes, I did. And from that piece of advice I got to observe the good and bad in every person's life. It made me more humble and grateful to live my own life. In fact, I would certain friends never to to wish to be in my shoes. Each of us had their own path to walk.

[@22danewb]

Yes, I learned that too as a child!

[@bobbyg5615]

Social media feeds into this especially in the black community. We see people living life and having fun but we don't know the whole story.

[@hurricane5125]

Sir I've been telling the youngsters this same sh-t . Happiness comes from with in. People or a job don't make you happy. If so they have control over you. Which is not a good thing.

[@RomWills]

You gave good advice.

[@eddiewalker2155]

So true. I noticed that those things only bring temporary happiness. After a while, those things will no longer excite you because you'll be used to it and you'll always be wanting more. Ive seen and experienced this myself.

[@yassin5402]

@@eddiewalker2155 thanks needed to hear that... my x choose a resort job over our relationship... txt me 3 months later saying that she thinks about me and misses me but her job was making happy...

[@davewade6712]

The grass maybe greener but there will be traps, pitfalls, snakes and predators in it. So stay in the safe zone

[@RomWills]

Yep there are a lot hidden things.

[@MiddyRules]

I really needed to hear this. God keeps giving me signs all the time. I told my women i still have that urge to talk to other women, but now im just thinking damn I'm one lucky dude to have found her.

[@dongordito00]

I've always took pride and appreciated what I have. My ex wife thought the grass was greener and went for more of the "romance." But when shit hit the fan, the lovey-dovey feelings mean nothing and now she wants my action...lol. See I'm like Michael Jordan when the game's on the line and can handle hard situations while the lovey-dovey dude folded.

[@RomWills]

Many, many, women do that.

[@neanam]

Don Gordito I'm like LeBron...I'll dunk on a nigga.

[@dongordito00]

Rom Wills And they leave behind a disaster hoping for the men to clean up the mess.

[@cygnusprime6728]

yup, i know a guy who has 3 baby mamas and is with a new chick everytime i see him. yet hes attempted suicide twice and is always on facebook saying hes sick of drama.

[@RomWills]

Happens like that a lot.

[@neanam]

Cygnus Prime he just need to get his life right with God

[@bobbyg5615]

Cygnus Prime Damn,he needs help.

[@lionelkennedy1394]

Powerful word, big brotha Rom, and very true. I was guilty of this way of thinking when I was married. Thought I wanted to be a player and messed up my relationship.

[@RomWills]

Learn from it brotha. I've had to do the same thing.

[@arielmichel2099]

All things are full of labour; man cannot utter it: the eye is not satisfied with seeing, nor the ear filled with hearing.- Ecclesiastes 1:8

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@LordBanzai316]

A lot of times you have to water your own grass, your relationship, to keep it green and without torns. You can only grow what you are invested in, your positive energy. Jealousy and greed are at the roots of resentment and lack of appreciation for what you have. Yeah, it's gratitude! Great relationships are hard to build, develop and keep, even friendship and brotherhood. Peace brothers!

[@RomWills]

Gratitude is the word.

[@redaquarian8665]

One of the twisted results of growing up in Amerikkkan Culture is that we convince ourselves that we "really desire something or someone" UNTIL WE HAVE IT OR THEM, THEN we start desiring something or someone else. We're doomed to this vicious cycle without any self-discipline and spiritual strength.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@Malik_Hoff]

Nice So True. I Always say a Hater is Someone who Counts Your Blessing instead of focusing on their Own. Attitude of Gratitude :)

[@RomWills]

I like that statement.

[@gigijones1630]

This goes both ways Rom, women do the same thing. One man’s trash is another man’s treasure. Even a dog will go through trash because he knows and smells substance in the trash that can keep him going longer. Right now the dating pool is horrible. Down low men, players, dogs, and I can’t forget crazies. For men it’s trappers, whores, lazy, users, and can’t forget crazies. In other words take care of your grass. Trim it, feed it and keep it watered.

[@beaboutpeaceandpleasure9230]

I've heard many players say I had a good woman and I f***** it up. My intention was always to learn how to keep what I have....quality. I'll just be blunt man a lot of these b****** ain't worth s***.

[@RomWills]

You're right.

[@newdeep6086]

In the immortal words of Hall &.Oates..."You have everything your heart desires, why do you want more" Excellent share, sir!❤️👍🏾

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@simplelife8459]

This is some good stuff right here..... excellent words! The “watering” of the relationship to make it work. Lack of appreciation and greed will sabotage it.

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@megatron5047]

some people dive into what they believe is a swimming pool,only to find out later that it was only some sand.

[@RomWills]

LOL!

[@Keith_J.]

Rom I swear brother it's like you're speaking directly to me, I just started a new second job this past Friday that pays more thinking it's going to be better because I'll be "ballin". Boy was I wrong because not only do I get just 3 hours of sleep between this job and my other job, but they work you like a dog. I got 5 injuries in just one day of work.

[@RomWills]

Wow. That can be tough.

[@CurtisReese-tl7ip]

Green grass always turn brown at some point.

[@DmarquettePainter]

So true. 10 years ago I wanted to change myself so badly because I thought who I was was unacceptable. I was trying to chase an image of myself I had in my mind thinking life would be better that way. but I was so busy chasing an ideal that I never took stock of my strengths. I’ve learned a lot and grown a lot since then but ironically in the end I didn’t change myself so much as improve on what was already there. And I’m a lot more settled now. Good video as always Rom.

[@RomWills]

Great testimony.

[@alexandremonteiro1250]

Thank you very much i can relate to this one my ex cheated on me and i moved on with my life and now she always trying to call me and etc...

[@RomWills]

They always come back to good ones.

[@Malik_Hoff]

btw this is one of my favorite videos by you. it's a huge reminder for my life. it's simple but i think this could of been on the deep thought channel.

[@TerryShabazz]

I’m glad you did this uncle rom I’m going thru this now but I gotta man up and deal with it until it ends

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@Zhaturianvisionz]

So true. There are all kinds of examples for this. Some people dont even have to have a relationship you are right. you can just have some type of agreement with someone and between you someone always want better before it even gets worse. That person who wanted more always calling back....many times with more baggage talking bout dey fuckedup.

[@RomWills]

That happens a lot.

[@nomoreatall6812]

At 22 I can support everything said in this video, trying to look for that fast life and its not what it seems. perfect way to come across some predatory females.

[@RomWills]

You sound like an old soul.

[@RobsterCWell]

I like that saying that you should "mow your own lawn" That's how show that you appreciate your life instead of worrying about others.

[@RomWills]

Exactly.

[@Bigcdt80]

This was right on point I think a lot of peeps should here this... sharing this of you don't mine

[@RomWills]

You're welcome to share any of my videos. You don't even have to ask.

[@Bigcdt80]

Rom Wills thanks brother

[@LydiaIsRedeemed]

I really like the way you broke the video down to cover various aspects. Very true, great podcast Rom

[@RomWills]

Thanks sis.

[@trendafile6356]

my ex was constantly comparing our relationship to others. esoesially his two married sisters. he had it in his mind that his sisters never argued or talked back, everything was just perfect. i told him ur sisters are not going to tell u (the youngest) about their issues in detail. one time he did ask one of them do u fight sometimes? and the sister started laughing offcourse we do , why r u asking sutch a stupid question.

[@alanfreeman7374]

Preach Rom. Good stuff. We need these reminders.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@ModalSoul]

Thanks Ron.

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@neanam]

Modal Soul rom

[@charlesmerchant4762]

A rare find......in Contentment

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@jesseb2011]

Good video..sometimes I do look around and see what I got going on and try to appreciate it while having other goals to achieve

[@RomWills]

Good move.

[@anelesibanda9323]

Rom Wills thank you. I was about to create a gratitude journal because I have been feeling low. I felt the synchronicity thank you

[@mimia8388]

Good morning Rom. So much gems in this message. Great video. Thanks.

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@dysco69]

Much needed thanks Rom. Message was definitely timely.

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@YarroBello]

Thanks Rom. Needed this advice

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@eddiewalker2155]

Thanks Rom

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@user-nq8nl4wh9w]

Alot of men and women sign up to climb mount everest and get surprised when it's steep.

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@markwhittaker6866]

Cali Bred PREACH!

[@donnelle222]

Good message Rom

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@jbraxtron3551]

One word... Well rather two..... Facebook.

[@EARTH08d]

Right words at the right time ROM!

[@skinfanjay]

Spitting. Trurh. Bro. Rom. Appreciate. You

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@claraht.6999]

Great message. Gratitude is ETERNAL.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@yotamike494]

Thanks brother from a young brother thanksb

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@artbunker]

Bravo good sir, Bravo .

[@RomWills]

Thanks Lion.

[@ericjones695]

Thanks for the reminder

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@sameernelson3178]

Ppl find out, when it's to late.

[@aarongray1981]

Rom your a genius...

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@bwheel2962]

second that!

[@kingk.2547]

You mentioned greed that’s on god seven deadly sins list

[@sharifs649]

Struggling with this now

[@lsporter88]

Spoken like a REAL Player.

[@RomWills]

Thank you Bro. Leslie.

[@Idontneednohandlers628]

Good message brotha 💪🏾

[@everwonderful]

Don't know if the grass is greener if you accept complacency and stay in the same place.

[@tymejefferson8515]

so I'm curious why would a guy not be happy with one good quality woman?

[@RomWills]

We're built to hunt and conquer.

[@bobbyg5615]

tyme jefferson Mostly greed in my opinion.

[@sharifs649]

@@bobbyg5615 greed and lust

[@MsJoyce31202]

The more you need, the more you want, the more you get aggravated and overehelmed. You get lost. Poor guy on suicide watch should have done the work of getting rid of all the women. He only needed one.

[@rahkeemthegreat360]

great video

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@tymejefferson8515]

awesome video

[@RomWills]

Thank you.