I’m guilty of this. I mentioned before, I had 2 women who were in love with me. Fed me and took care of me. I had everything I needed, yet I wanted more. I believed I could find someone better looking. Eventually I did. And it wasn’t what I thought it would be. What I found out was that many very beautiful women don’t bring anything to the table outside of their looks. I’m glad I figured it out sooner than later.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Life teaches us these things.
@bobbyg56156 жыл бұрын
Darron Brown Those are the ones to really be concerned about. Fine and sexy but the lights are off upstairs. Been there.
@amazinggrace68813 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾 for being so honest... it’s the truth and nothing but the truth.
@Mcdowells6 жыл бұрын
Water your own grass instead of wondering about someone else's. Good stuff brother Rom.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@neanam6 жыл бұрын
Matthew Odom sweep around your on back door.
@Mcdowells6 жыл бұрын
Twistr yessir!
@omegamalerevelations75436 жыл бұрын
Yeah it's better to have one good woman then several headaches.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
BOOM!!!!
@markwhittaker68665 жыл бұрын
Black Thought PREACH!
@SikkDiggy6 жыл бұрын
When I was a lot younger a friend had once told me to never compare my life to that of another. For that other person may actually have it worse. Everything in life has it pros and cons.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
You got good advice.
@SikkDiggy6 жыл бұрын
Yes, I did. And from that piece of advice I got to observe the good and bad in every person's life. It made me more humble and grateful to live my own life. In fact, I would certain friends never to to wish to be in my shoes. Each of us had their own path to walk.
@22danewb6 жыл бұрын
Yes, I learned that too as a child!
@bobbyg56156 жыл бұрын
Social media feeds into this especially in the black community. We see people living life and having fun but we don't know the whole story.
@hurricane51256 жыл бұрын
Sir I've been telling the youngsters this same sh-t . Happiness comes from with in. People or a job don't make you happy. If so they have control over you. Which is not a good thing.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
You gave good advice.
@eddiewalker21556 жыл бұрын
So true. I noticed that those things only bring temporary happiness. After a while, those things will no longer excite you because you'll be used to it and you'll always be wanting more. Ive seen and experienced this myself.
@yassin54025 жыл бұрын
@@eddiewalker2155 thanks needed to hear that... my x choose a resort job over our relationship... txt me 3 months later saying that she thinks about me and misses me but her job was making happy...
@davewade67126 жыл бұрын
The grass maybe greener but there will be traps, pitfalls, snakes and predators in it. So stay in the safe zone
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Yep there are a lot hidden things.
@MiddyRules5 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this. God keeps giving me signs all the time. I told my women i still have that urge to talk to other women, but now im just thinking damn I'm one lucky dude to have found her.
@dongordito006 жыл бұрын
I've always took pride and appreciated what I have. My ex wife thought the grass was greener and went for more of the "romance." But when shit hit the fan, the lovey-dovey feelings mean nothing and now she wants my action...lol. See I'm like Michael Jordan when the game's on the line and can handle hard situations while the lovey-dovey dude folded.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Many, many, women do that.
@neanam6 жыл бұрын
Don Gordito I'm like LeBron...I'll dunk on a nigga.
@dongordito006 жыл бұрын
Rom Wills And they leave behind a disaster hoping for the men to clean up the mess.
@cygnusprime67286 жыл бұрын
yup, i know a guy who has 3 baby mamas and is with a new chick everytime i see him. yet hes attempted suicide twice and is always on facebook saying hes sick of drama.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Happens like that a lot.
@neanam6 жыл бұрын
Cygnus Prime he just need to get his life right with God
@bobbyg56156 жыл бұрын
Cygnus Prime Damn,he needs help.
@lionelkennedy13946 жыл бұрын
Powerful word, big brotha Rom, and very true. I was guilty of this way of thinking when I was married. Thought I wanted to be a player and messed up my relationship.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Learn from it brotha. I've had to do the same thing.
@arielmichel20996 жыл бұрын
All things are full of labour; man cannot utter it: the eye is not satisfied with seeing, nor the ear filled with hearing.- Ecclesiastes 1:8
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Truth.
@LordBanzai3166 жыл бұрын
A lot of times you have to water your own grass, your relationship, to keep it green and without torns. You can only grow what you are invested in, your positive energy. Jealousy and greed are at the roots of resentment and lack of appreciation for what you have. Yeah, it's gratitude! Great relationships are hard to build, develop and keep, even friendship and brotherhood. Peace brothers!
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Gratitude is the word.
@redaquarian86656 жыл бұрын
One of the twisted results of growing up in Amerikkkan Culture is that we convince ourselves that we "really desire something or someone" UNTIL WE HAVE IT OR THEM, THEN we start desiring something or someone else. We're doomed to this vicious cycle without any self-discipline and spiritual strength.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Truth.
@Malik_Hoff6 жыл бұрын
Nice So True. I Always say a Hater is Someone who Counts Your Blessing instead of focusing on their Own. Attitude of Gratitude :)
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
I like that statement.
@gigijones16305 жыл бұрын
This goes both ways Rom, women do the same thing. One man’s trash is another man’s treasure. Even a dog will go through trash because he knows and smells substance in the trash that can keep him going longer. Right now the dating pool is horrible. Down low men, players, dogs, and I can’t forget crazies. For men it’s trappers, whores, lazy, users, and can’t forget crazies. In other words take care of your grass. Trim it, feed it and keep it watered.
@beaboutpeaceandpleasure92306 жыл бұрын
I've heard many players say I had a good woman and I f***** it up. My intention was always to learn how to keep what I have....quality. I'll just be blunt man a lot of these b****** ain't worth s***.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
You're right.
@newdeep60866 жыл бұрын
In the immortal words of Hall &.Oates..."You have everything your heart desires, why do you want more" Excellent share, sir!❤️👍🏾
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@simplelife84596 жыл бұрын
This is some good stuff right here..... excellent words! The “watering” of the relationship to make it work. Lack of appreciation and greed will sabotage it.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Yep.
@megatron50476 жыл бұрын
some people dive into what they believe is a swimming pool,only to find out later that it was only some sand.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
LOL!
@Keith_J.6 жыл бұрын
Rom I swear brother it's like you're speaking directly to me, I just started a new second job this past Friday that pays more thinking it's going to be better because I'll be "ballin". Boy was I wrong because not only do I get just 3 hours of sleep between this job and my other job, but they work you like a dog. I got 5 injuries in just one day of work.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Wow. That can be tough.
@CurtisReese-tl7ip6 жыл бұрын
Green grass always turn brown at some point.
@DmarquettePainter6 жыл бұрын
So true. 10 years ago I wanted to change myself so badly because I thought who I was was unacceptable. I was trying to chase an image of myself I had in my mind thinking life would be better that way. but I was so busy chasing an ideal that I never took stock of my strengths. I’ve learned a lot and grown a lot since then but ironically in the end I didn’t change myself so much as improve on what was already there. And I’m a lot more settled now. Good video as always Rom.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Great testimony.
@alexandremonteiro12506 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much i can relate to this one my ex cheated on me and i moved on with my life and now she always trying to call me and etc...
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
They always come back to good ones.
@Malik_Hoff6 жыл бұрын
btw this is one of my favorite videos by you. it's a huge reminder for my life. it's simple but i think this could of been on the deep thought channel.
@TerryShabazz6 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you did this uncle rom I’m going thru this now but I gotta man up and deal with it until it ends
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Truth.
@Zhaturianvisionz6 жыл бұрын
So true. There are all kinds of examples for this. Some people dont even have to have a relationship you are right. you can just have some type of agreement with someone and between you someone always want better before it even gets worse. That person who wanted more always calling back....many times with more baggage talking bout dey fuckedup.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
That happens a lot.
@nomoreatall68126 жыл бұрын
At 22 I can support everything said in this video, trying to look for that fast life and its not what it seems. perfect way to come across some predatory females.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
You sound like an old soul.
@RobsterCWell6 жыл бұрын
I like that saying that you should "mow your own lawn" That's how show that you appreciate your life instead of worrying about others.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@Bigcdt806 жыл бұрын
This was right on point I think a lot of peeps should here this... sharing this of you don't mine
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
You're welcome to share any of my videos. You don't even have to ask.
@Bigcdt806 жыл бұрын
Rom Wills thanks brother
@LydiaIsRedeemed6 жыл бұрын
I really like the way you broke the video down to cover various aspects. Very true, great podcast Rom
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Thanks sis.
@trendafile63565 жыл бұрын
my ex was constantly comparing our relationship to others. esoesially his two married sisters. he had it in his mind that his sisters never argued or talked back, everything was just perfect. i told him ur sisters are not going to tell u (the youngest) about their issues in detail. one time he did ask one of them do u fight sometimes? and the sister started laughing offcourse we do , why r u asking sutch a stupid question.
@alanfreeman73746 жыл бұрын
Preach Rom. Good stuff. We need these reminders.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@ModalSoul6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Ron.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
You're welcome.
@neanam6 жыл бұрын
Modal Soul rom
@charlesmerchant47626 жыл бұрын
A rare find......in Contentment
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@jesseb20116 жыл бұрын
Good video..sometimes I do look around and see what I got going on and try to appreciate it while having other goals to achieve
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Good move.
@anelesibanda93233 жыл бұрын
Rom Wills thank you. I was about to create a gratitude journal because I have been feeling low. I felt the synchronicity thank you
@mimia83886 жыл бұрын
Good morning Rom. So much gems in this message. Great video. Thanks.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
You're welcome.
@dysco696 жыл бұрын
Much needed thanks Rom. Message was definitely timely.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
You're welcome.
@YarroBello6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Rom. Needed this advice
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
You're welcome.
@eddiewalker21556 жыл бұрын
Thanks Rom
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
You're welcome.
@user-nq8nl4wh9w6 жыл бұрын
Alot of men and women sign up to climb mount everest and get surprised when it's steep.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Yep.
@markwhittaker68665 жыл бұрын
Cali Bred PREACH!
@donnelle2226 жыл бұрын
Good message Rom
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@jbraxtron35516 жыл бұрын
One word... Well rather two..... Facebook.
@EARTH08d2 жыл бұрын
Right words at the right time ROM!
@skinfanjay6 жыл бұрын
Spitting. Trurh. Bro. Rom. Appreciate. You
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@claraht.69996 жыл бұрын
Great message. Gratitude is ETERNAL.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Truth.
@yotamike4946 жыл бұрын
Thanks brother from a young brother thanksb
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
You're welcome.
@artbunker6 жыл бұрын
Bravo good sir, Bravo .
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Lion.
@ericjones6956 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the reminder
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
You're welcome.
@sameernelson31786 жыл бұрын
Ppl find out, when it's to late.
@aarongray19816 жыл бұрын
Rom your a genius...
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@bwheel29626 жыл бұрын
second that!
@kingk.254715 күн бұрын
You mentioned greed that’s on god seven deadly sins list
@sharifs6492 жыл бұрын
Struggling with this now
@lsporter886 жыл бұрын
Spoken like a REAL Player.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Bro. Leslie.
@Idontneednohandlers6286 жыл бұрын
Good message brotha 💪🏾
@everwonderful6 жыл бұрын
Don't know if the grass is greener if you accept complacency and stay in the same place.
@tymejefferson85156 жыл бұрын
so I'm curious why would a guy not be happy with one good quality woman?
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
We're built to hunt and conquer.
@bobbyg56156 жыл бұрын
tyme jefferson Mostly greed in my opinion.
@sharifs6492 жыл бұрын
@@bobbyg5615 greed and lust
@MsJoyce312026 жыл бұрын
The more you need, the more you want, the more you get aggravated and overehelmed. You get lost. Poor guy on suicide watch should have done the work of getting rid of all the women. He only needed one.