Women Getting Mad When Brothas Move On

[@KtotheG]

The female ego is 10X worse than the male ego. Real talk.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@legendarytonyclutch]

especially when a woman's ego is shattered

[@redaquarian8665]

I was once in a relationship with a young lady when we were in our 30's. She decided to cheat. Then she decided to up the ante and "try" to bring this guy around me as her coworker/friend. I was chill! Dude was nervous as hell. I just packed my stuff and moved on with my life. No arguing, no groveling after her or nothing. I simply left her to do what she wanted. After two weeks she started blowing up my phone. I didn't answer for several days then on the day that I did she was hysterical and crying and had the nerve to try to turn things around on me by saying that "I abandoned her!" WTF!!! I HUNG UP THE PHONE AND never looked back. Pops always told me and my brothers to never stay around a female who gets your blood pressure up (in an unhealthy way) Lol ! It's all about keeping that blood pressure down (both yours and those around you). Fellas, if she is not bringing you peace of mind (and you her peace of mind) then the sex is not worth the trouble NO MATTER HOW GOOD IT MAY BE.

[@RomWills]

Great testimony and great advice.

[@RockwildazFamily]

By default, they are trained to say they were ignored/not much attention/affection. Its all rigged. They want the male who is on his purpose and can provide, yet, they want every single second of his attention. You can't bro, it's rigged. Just do you and keep it moving. If she cheat, yup, pack and go on to the next one. My only issue is, DON'T get married, that too is a con. Frankly, marriage is for Kings & Queens to join their Kingdoms together to be bigger to fight the biggest Kingdom to concur them and maintain rule. New age marriage is, females to trap and manipulate men until they drain them off all they got.

[@emachineseventyseven7164]

When U got that Billy Dee Williams spirit we don't chase them they'll be back when they come back we give them da thumbs down👎off top.

[@bromack3]

We used to say years ago, she don't want you, and she don't want no one else to want you.

[@RomWills]

LOL! That's accurate.

[@truthhurts3305]

💯 It’s interesting to hear the older generation address this because I used to think it was just *me* but as the saying goes “There’s nothing new under the sun” many years ago my black ex left *me* despite me treating her right, yet she even had the audacity to get MAD when I dated a Latina who actually accepted me regardless and me and the Latina are married with 3 beautiful children now 🤷🏿‍♂️ Never take these broads seriously. They don’t want you but they don’t want no one else to have you 🤣🤣🤣 it humbles them when they realise that you can find better and that you ain’t tripping over them

[@bromack3]

@@truthhurts3305 And here's something else I have learned along the journey... its not she will really miss you, its only your attention that she misses. Now you're giving it someone else. Yep, when a woman puts you in the friend zone, its only because she still wants your attention. Thats why she gets pissed when she sees you with someone else. Men should never accept being put in the friend zone.

[@TheRoyalFlush]

@@bromack3 Amen. If we aint actively sexually involved, no free attention whatsoever.

[@jjsmithlago1234]

"HOW DARE YOU LEAVE FRIEND ZONE!?!?!"

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@CartierChapo]

THEY WERE RAISED WITHOUT FATHERS .

[@jervishorton7372]

some times a relationship or even friendshio runs its course and its better to move on then beat a dead horse

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@wentworthtaylor2391]

Rom Wills u

[@hiteckniq9691]

They do not want him, they want him to keep giving them attention.

[@legendarytonyclutch]

They dont get mad when we move on they get mad when we are better off without them

[@ms-vv2gg]

Reject a woman and you'll forever haunt her could've been would've been dreams.

[@RomWills]

True.

[@duke45jp]

@soul sessions tv Bdhrh Please leave 🙄

[@IWantMyVisionBack]

Women put too much importance on male atention especially male sexual attention. These women may already have a man, or be dealing with several other men but the guy they don't want pulls back? Their mind goes haywire, lots of insecure thoughts run through their mind like "Why isn't he contacting me? Is there another woman? Has he moved on?! Why isn't he paying me attention anymore!!!" LOL. It's also why people hit you up after y'all broke up to see if you moved on, have someone else etc. These type of people are selfish and only care about self.

[@RomWills]

That's how it happens.

[@elisagreene2504]

Some people need to understand that life is too short. If that man or woman wants to play hard to get and needs you to chase behind them without no attention then forget it. Move on the the next person who would appreciated you for who you are inside and out.

[@RomWills]

Well said.

[@adriantapia6199]

Facts

[@Daaashboy]

I always noticed that women who are usually used to receiving attention from all types of men become real bitter when a specific individual doesn't do all that. Happen to me entirely too many times where females will go as far as saying "He must be gay", or "he must think he the shit" cause I don't really pay them no mind lol.

[@RomWills]

That's how they do. I tell them yes I am the man.

[@underrated7725]

Bradley Perez Thats the sad truth too.smh

[@Dmvtrumpetman]

Dude lol nostalgia. I once pursued this girl for years, in love with her, we had a couple of moments, but she never saw me as more than a friend, and she acted like we never had those moments, I thought I was crazy. So after my final attempt and getting rejected I decided to move on.... to her best friend. Not maliciously, it just happened. All of a sudden she was like what about us? It was a complete 180! Anyways this was back in college. I had some simp ways. Good video, thanks for the insight.

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@davyjones-locker979]

"when that dude gets the mesage, and moves on; sistas are getting pissed"! Classic line Rom!

[@RomWills]

Thank you brotha.

[@dvquinn4101]

It's the attention. Women love to be worshipped as gods. It's how they determine their worth/ market value. When you spend your market currency (attention)on someone else they feel a loss of value. It has nothing to do with the man really, it's all about them as usual. As long as they are getting it from someone else who's attention they think is more expensive (so to speak) than yours they are cool. It's only when they don't have anyone to worship them, they begin to feel some type of way.

[@RomWills]

Correct.

[@aarongray1981]

The problem with men moving on is plain and simple, theres no more attention towards that woman and women love attention, even if they have no intention on getting with him. Some of the same women referring to me as lame back in the day have tried to talk with me later on. Its all about attention.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@reflection8599]

They complain and whine then come running back cuz that body game is on point lol

[@missk3429]

great video :-) The women that get mad are usually ego nuts, or they live for the approval of other people. 1. She wanted the man but dissed him because of what she thought other people would think. 2. She doesn't want him but she feels he should be depressed over her because "she's all that". "How could he move on"?"Don't he know I'm fine"? smh Both of these chicks are a mess. smh

[@RomWills]

You keep it real luv.

[@missk3429]

ROM Wills Thanx. Aint no need in lying. smh Facts speak for themselves.

[@jlemaire22]

Sis you just described my situation. Thank you for the eye opener.

[@missk3429]

jlemaire22 no problem

[@drellz9361]

Miss K exactly thats what all women are they are approval seekers they want to be approved by mommy and daddy and their friends but that shows the insecurity that all women have thats why i aint wit the games i went thru that shit with my last ex i never believe what a female tell me i go by how they move and most of the time they full shit they love to save face

[@SubwayFan83]

What I find very laughable about this particular situation is that they'll be quick to write off a dude, diss and dismiss him but go on without a care in the world to get their panties wet for another dude and feel that it's ok. smh It's very selfish but at the end of the day, they're attracted to who they want to be attracted to. And yes, they should let that man move on in peace.

[@RomWills]

Correct.

[@lsporter88]

Some of these Broads are delusional, and selfish. Good one Rom.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@doncalypso]

Rom, my dear brother, you are wasting your time trying to speak sense to these women... all this wisdom is falling on deaf ears.

[@doncalypso]

Guy King to be fair there are some who do take heed, but they will never publicly acknowledge that we're telling the truth out of fear of retaliation from the Black Borg Feminist Sistahood...

[@slimflex1]

doncalypso you have to understand that some women are willing to listen to what rom has to say. He can't save everybody

[@doncalypso]

slimflex1, you're alluding to the few... the proud... the Marines!

[@RomWills]

Doncalypso, Even when I'm addressing the women I'm really addressing the men. I want the men to know who they are dealing with.

[@darrylbailey8397]

doncalypso@ the Black Borg Feminist Sistahood! Ha, LOL! I'm going to steal that, thanks Bro!

[@Tigerdriver93]

The reason why they get mad when a guy they rejected moves on is because that’s one less source of validation that they’re going to have. Women love that. It’s like a drug to them.

[@Bronxguyanese]

Good video Rom Wills. Here is my take on this and I have been in a similar situation with a woman like this some years ago. Mind you she is not black, but a Latina. I kept on chasing her, kept on chasing her, not aggressively, but I would go up to see her, and nothing. Took her out and nothing. She admitted almost a year that she needs to be with a man that is sexually attractive. Also she was already pregnant for someone else, and ask if I still want to see her. I did my signature President George Bush Jr 9/11 Nod, and said no. Why. Because it makes no sense to be with a woman who has already intentions created a history, is already pregnant with someone else. She has to work with what she has, and she said she did not find my sexually attractive. I never called her texted her back again. As a man, notice a woman's body language, if she wants to be distant from you is a bad sign, no kiss is a bad sign. Body language speaks louder than words.

[@RomWills]

Very well said.

[@Bronxguyanese]

***** yes you are right. I agree with you. But I was not having it.

[@KlngVJames]

I had a very similar situation

[@MrJRD827]

They NEVER want you or catch the hint you won’t be chasing them forever

[@shadowgiest22]

This reminds me of another woman I interacted with when I was in Hawaii. After chatting her up in person she followed me on IG. later she posted a meme on Instagram talking about how when a man says he only like short girls. Then the supposed reply is, "You're only 5'8". You ARE a short girl!" now this woman was really tall so she proceeded to troll the men who responded to her saying "That all the short guys are the ones who are upset lol!" at this time I chimed in saying that usually women don't care about your height if you know what to do when you are both horizontal. Then after that she said "No not me! Height matters!" and then I asked, "So what's it to you if they like short girls?" Never got a response.

[@RomWills]

Interesting convo.

[@dwohntanywilder6889]

Or tell you they want you to move, know damn well they don't want you to be happy...

[@RomWills]

Seen.

[@dwohntanywilder6889]

Rom Wills , Wish I'd seen this video after my last break up because I put her as she on blast. True enough I had to do some soul searching and figured where I did have my faults, but I'm correcting them slowly but surely one step at a time. The real disrespectful part about it was when she had the audacity to ask me if it was OK for her to bring the Guy she cheated on me with to the same church we go to. Right then I knew she didn't have any respect for me at all.

[@mikeprat1]

i enjoyed that. these women are fearful and selfish and want to conduct affairs on thier terms.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@flexwashington638]

Time to move on...time to be strong lol.

[@RomWills]

Correct.

[@flexwashington638]

Rom Wills i have to say in my senior year of high school I was trying to pursue someone but she would play. Eventually I tell her about herself and of course she does not like it. I hit her literally the next day because I kind of snapped and she tells me shes dating another dude at school now. A couple weeks latee me and another started talking and out of nowhere I hear the one I wanted before is bad mouthing me while having a new man lol. She was fine, thick and a virgin, I wanted that lol.

[@therealflamelit]

prob wasnt really a virgin, but its all good lol

[@healthyhabits3406]

She wants everything and nothing at the same time.

[@iggit2]

My man's ex who "doesn't want him" stalked me, called me at my job, etc.. It is just crazy

[@RomWills]

Women have told me similar stories.

[@Unknownpalo]

I would wish the women that left me the best but that’s not even being reciprocated back…

[@sammoe1292]

If you’re the best a woman has ever had and she decides to think she can do better, this is a sure fire sign that she is not a worthy woman. It shows she was always about herself to begin with. Be glad when they leave. It’s more time for your craft and less time sacrificed on someone who doesn’t give a damn about you.

[@walterbassiv7170]

Mr. Wills i prayed and ask GOD too give me Game / Wisdom with women because.... later i found you on KZbin i said prayer answered thk u GOD....

[@RomWills]

I'm honored brotha.

[@brookvalley907]

Another great (and funny) video. You’re profound even when you’re doing stuff off the cuff. I know that I complement Rom profusely, and some people may think too much. However, I make my living giving corporations advice on why they’re customers and consumers in general do the things they do. But I was not able to figure out why the women in my own life do the things they do. (Probably, because I was afraid to see what my wife might be capable of doing, given what I’d seen other women do.) So, when Rom laid it all out for me in his books, I knew that, as a consultant, I was reading the works of an expert consultant. On top of this, it took me fifteen years of searching to find an author who really knew what they were talking about. So, that’s why I give Rom so much praise. I know, as a professional consultant, that Rom is an expert. Back to women’s jealousy. I saw a TV show, “Average Joe”, several years ago where they pitted average (my wife said below average) guys against great looking guys for the affections of a beautiful woman (a version of the bachelorette). While the “bachelorette” treated the average joes well, she swooned over the gorgeous guys. In one episode the producers brought in another beautiful woman and had her go crazy and flirt with the average joes. The “bachelorette” said in an interview at the end of the episode, that while she was not romantically interested in any of the average joes, she was surprised that she felt extremely jealous that “that woman” was flirting with “her guys”. And Rom mentioned kind of off-handedly that guys could use women’s jealousy in their “game”. I think that is true. When my wife and I go to parties, I flirt with other women. I don’t think anything of it. It’s just part of the fun. My wife has only complained about one incident, so I don’t think she is that jealous. However, by accident, I think that I have been demonstrating my “value” to other women, and I think this is part of what helps keep my wife attracted to me. She once said that if she ever died, I’d probably end up married to a rich woman. This tells me that she still thinks I’m valuable, and I hope that means she’ll keep me. I think that guys do themselves and their wives or girlfriends a disservice when they stop flirting with other women out of respect for their significant other. I say keep flirting. It will help keep your wife or girlfriend interested in you. And, if you’re pursuing a girl, that hopefully has given you “the look”, keep moving in then pulling away to keep her interest. Make her jealous of other women flirting with her average joe.

[@RomWills]

I remember "Average Joe." The Average Joe won in the third after a makeover of course. Yeah that jealousy thing is a trip.

[@Blkh-e2s]

I know this is an old video but I love what you said!!!!! I’m an older Black American man, older than you, and I’ve commented on your videos before…. I have told so many women why I don’t play games…. Once you let me know you’re not interested I’m gone!!!!! And just like you said some women would say I didn’t try hard enough…😂😂😂 I’d tell them the same thing you mentioned… Many women play games and say that a man won them over because he was persistent!!!!! Then another man would end up being a stalker, creep, or with an order of protection against him and plus the jails are full of would be “persistent” men!!!!! And I wasn’t playing that game!!!!!!

[@papabatsy]

I work a woman who has squandered three marriages and is single now in her late 50's who cant keep a man because she doesnt know how to be appreciative. Was once very attractive. It's a shame that its turned out this way for her... she is very bitter.

[@raylove8473]

Great Video as always Rom. I feel that Women who have this Mentality should get mad at themselves. Also only a Simp or Suckerass Nigga would give a Woman another chance who didn't want them! My motto is this Rejection can be your Protection!

[@RomWills]

Good motto.

[@wattsreality5219]

They truly do brother Rom. In addition, when we bring to the light what we see from the outside in our sistas deflect and say things like you this you that instead of taking a step back to evaluate what's being said.

[@ruminantmelanoid5444]

+Rom Wills. You call it at the 6:33 mark. They really want you to go on the shelf and *WAIT*. That way if things don't work out with the guy she wants, you are available as a soft landing spot. You are supposed to wait while she engages in a relationship *for the length of their relationship*. Why? You answered that at 7:26. Her happiness is more important than yours. BTW you are incapable of *NOT* being deep, short of going Dragon Ball Z, or LOPHA.

[@MatrixMutiGenreGameing]

"Her happiness is more important than yours." i agree, she surely believes that; and to some extent the rest of society in most places does too, Men are disposable. but it plays into that irrational social safety-net for women... women are simply considered more valuable, and it is therefore utterly unacceptable to let them completely and blatantly hit rock bottom when they fail at almost anything. Be it divorce, a false rape allegation, or the abrupt a long term relationship; there is always someone to white knight: scrambling to make excuses for a woman. Be it placing blame, minimizing her actions, or helping her discard her agency; anything just to try to protect her from the penalty for her own actions; by any means... ensuring that she in most cases gets little more than a slap on the wrist. You can blame Us men for a lot of that i guess.

[@ruminantmelanoid5444]

+Matt Matrix. You speak the truth, but things are changing. Women are beginning to experience Obsidian's consequential knowledge.

[@RomWills]

Ruminant Melanoid, Thanks. I need to do another LOPHA video.

[@MatrixMutiGenreGameing]

Ruminant Melanoid slowly but surely, their hitting the Glass ceiling with what ridiculous nonsense they can force on us all... it surely can get much worse than this BS. www.thecollegefix.com/post/30920/

[@jamanu223]

This is simply the "just in case" guy...if it works out with the other man, you're rejected without notice (hints) because they will never tell you and if the other guy reject them, now they gonna shift their eyes on you. It is just very important at least to know about these clandestine occurrences...

[@KurtisStryker2015]

yep they want the man to chase her no that going to happen you right about moveing on

[@RomWills]

Especially if you really don't want the woman.

[@KurtisStryker2015]

Rom Wills yes I had one few days again she black and got a boyfriend I hit a few times so we work at the same place we deal with customers so a day ago this white lady came to ask me a question so she came over to listen to us talking

[@theshield1613]

my wife left me I've been loyal to my wife but it's really sad she doesn't see it how rich my love is for her I know she will met and go out with cheaters or worse maybe she will regret leaving me leaving a true love loyalty honest good guy .

[@doreengartrell5428]

This video made me feel some type of way. After reading the comments though I realize just because I am not guilty of this don't mean it doesn't happen. I love the comments sometimes more than the videos. Now I understand why this guy I know doesn't want to be just friends although my intentions are true. I love him for him with no sexual attraction. He probably really wants me and fears I'll never come around. It's complicated but I get it. Really think he has a girlfriend anyway but it doesn't matter I just like him for him. You can't always get what you want, but you get what you need. I love men! Y'all fascinating.

[@Texas80sBaby]

Went thru this with my co-parent tried to make it work until I realize holding on was hurting myself more than letting go

[@carolborela407]

My grandmother told years ago before my life begin that these 3 men to avoid relationships with preachers , men that own and run clubs , some body elses husbands. Some men are in fear of telling you the truth about having a wife or a serious girl friend because there thinking about the extra benefits that they are not entitled to get . Ive talked to some brothers that where lied to as well by women tricking them in to getting into these dead whatever's. Great video Rom Wills.

[@quashantaylor4170]

"No means no" "No doesn't mean convince me" 🤔🤔🤔

[@andremotivation6561]

P.S. have you every done a video on why women think classic men as arrogant? I've heard ALOT of sista, like Uheardem1sttime, and Chrissie about how CM are arrogant.. thanks

[@RomWills]

I've addressed the issue in a video here and there. I'll put it on the list.

[@NathanielMeeks610]

Great one my brother 💯

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@LuFromThe041]

Great video Uncle Rom 👍🏿

[@khalidhasan5938]

Man Uncle Rom, I have this fucking argument nearly EVERYDAY! I keep telling women, your physical exterior is 1 of MANY attractive aspects/attributes! Men, NOT MALES, sought for what they feel complete balance is, in a woman, oblivious to her physical features. You have to accommodate the Mental and Spiritual in order to get chosen.

[@RomWills]

Exactly.

[@matador2554]

Had a black girl from the past show up in my life wit a baby and was mad I was wit a white giro 😂

[@kingleo393]

They make excuses when they don’t want you I’ve been on both sides of the coin and when they want you they just show up and spread them legs open without you doing anything 💯💯😂😂😂

[@michellewatson8477]

Why not focus on women who aren't like this? I'm a loner so when I hear men talk about women who are like this I don't have a response because if I reject a guy I don't want him EVER. I don't pay attention to who he's with after me. I think a huge part of the problem is that you men are picking women who are not interested in you. The first time that you see she isn't interested , move on. Don't do a cat and mouse game. Actions will always speak louder than words. If she says no then leave it at that.

[@TheEnigmaticBM39]

michelle watson thing is , most women play these games instead of being honest about their intentions and accepting rejection when they don't get their way

[@Bronxguyanese]

What I do now is that I give women my number. I don't ask for women for their numbers anymore. Why? Because if a woman is interested, she would and will call me. Women play way too many mind game these days. Don't get me wrong, nothing wrong with women playing games and I respect that. According to my aunt, women lie and play games because they have more to loose. And I agree with her, she told me something that my late mom lever told me. With women I try to keep things real and honest with them. That's why as a man, you must need to know how tto read body language, read the art of text messaging and with those you can tell a woman is not into you. Also men my best bet is try to be good looking, loose weight, fix your teeth, if not looks than have lots of money, and or both. If I don't get a tongue kiss between dates 1-3 and no sex between dates 3-5 than their is a 100% chance that woman is not into me. Ladies cant be upset and mad these days, that they cant find a decent man, not getting married, being a single mom and stuff like that. Ladies have to look deep down in their souls with what they truly want. This is way women should start proposing marriages with men that they truly really like and want, even if that guy is a serial dater, a cheater, or even married to another woman. Also black women are not the only ones that do this, white and Latina women do it too.

[@TheBackOfTheClassroom]

(here we go...) Once again gentleman another _"it's your fault"_ post from a female. The entire video is about men who get the message (of rejection) and move on and women who get upset when we do. The overwhelming majority of men are not trying to pursue women who openly/obviously don't like them. I'm not sure what didn't make sense in this video.

[@Bronxguyanese]

This is why some women do the friend zone. Not to reject men out right, but keep him as an future insurance policy

[@darrylbailey8397]

Benjamin Gibson+ Or as Chris Rock once said "A dick in a jar, break in case of emergency!"

[@stephensmith5724]

Anita Hill Long Dong Silver that's what Clarence Thomas supposed to have said

[@seanwiggins1633]

very true I see it all the time

[@RomWills]

Very common.

[@olivierjoseph2681]

girls my age are the same way

[@TheImplerazure]

Great truth.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@eunicereynolds3378]

Clarence Thomas my homeboy from Savannah!

[@RomWills]

Cool.

[@olivierjoseph2681]

same with girls

[@brionbraziel7968]

Fragile...

[@sagetscippio8878]

💯💯👏🏾

[@vanaphill2454]

Of course, because men have more options than women. After a breakup, she is home sobbing and he is out with the next woman withing hours of the breakup.

[@RomWills]

Not necessarily. Check out many men's videos on KZbin.

[@hannah60000]

The notion that “no-one in your own race didn’t want you” is false. The real deal is the person didn’t want the people who wanted them in their own race / group. Fair play, but let’s acknowledge this too. Just my thoughts. Peace.

[@RomWills]

I've been researching this since the 80's. Rejection is a big issue.

[@SatanTimeIsUp]

first

[@RomWills]

Yes you are.

[@SatanTimeIsUp]

like the video. i had rejected me than move out and and started feeling bad that i working , being exposed at a artist(drawing and painting) and getting freelance jobs, the same women that rejected me is still in the same place i left with u like to say mr goodbar that not taking em places like i was

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@jackmanslightpepper]

Just a few weeks ago I had an experience like this. There is this woman I had been pursuing for quite a few years ,I lost my temper with her several times because she always had some excuse why she couldn't see me, but was always asking me for money, which by the way, I never gave her. She's also on my whatsapp, and I had quit talking to her for a few months. Suddenly one morning after a long silence, she goes "hi".I go "How may I help you?" She then asked what my problem was.........guess she didn't like my tone. well I no longer contact her and she doesn't contact me. I guess my response said "moved on" all over it and she got pissed. Ah well........

[@RomWills]

You did the right thing.