THE GREAT VALUE LIE (What Women REALLY Want)

You’ve been lied to. In this video, you’ll discover the truth about what actually makes a man high value in the eyes of women.
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📑Outline
00:00 - Intro
01:25 - Lie #1.
05:00 - Money.
08:12 - How to gain STATUS
12:00 - How to use game to be high value.
17:00 - Why game works.
18:30 - LMS?
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[@ToddVDating]

Hopefully this clears up a lot of confusion for you. I have found that when you get the overall understanding of a situation right, the specific "what to do" details become a lot easier.

[@tocandoenlacalle2024]

So... It's all about attitude and character, cool to know, and obviously with attitude and character you also achieve Money and Looks after right, thank you Todd

[@PremiumUserUltra]

Thanks for all the work you do Todd

[@asdashopperrr]

Excellent video, goes into detail with examples, explains it all from top to bottom, eye opening and really tied it all together for me about what the framework is behind everything. Thanks Todd 🙏

[@josephsanchez8246]

So we should build a network. A strong network and community where we give back and where we're appreciated. Build the status and the rest of the blocks fall in place as long as you know how to use them appropriately. nice vid.

[@alexanderschwaiger9548]

Howdy. Is Owen Cook really gay?

[@sumandas-wu8so]

I lost 4 years of my life trying to look good, become high value and still wondered why I did't get girls. Now I know it was because I had no game and approached zero girls. Thanks Todd for clearing the confusion. This is a great service to mankind which will help future generations of young men

[@THaNaS1s]

You didnt lose those years. Being better loking or having wealth is useful you just need game too. Also, you cant be high value if you did everything just for girls.

[@GentleBongRips]

@@THaNaS1s Factual. To be in a position of power, options are key. Not choosing a option, having options. I do not have a hopeless mindset but I do believe putting too much effort is similar to spinning you're tires so be persistent but not needy as in it needs to happen today.

[@user-oy9zy4ds9m]

Wealth is still extremely important because it gives you the freedom to be able to go out on your own time and practice. Also wealth can help keep your health better and buy you nice things make your life more comfortable etc

[@lolfirepoisonftl]

I would argue it actually require more time and effort to improve your looks, especially if you're obese or super skinny to begin with and you're going to be much better off when you combine both looks and game. Note - Game still requires a lot of practice and time to get good but I'm saying that it doesn't require as much.

[@tonydiesel3444]

Height is important to very very very important unfortunately I believe there's also one other Force involved but I cannot explain it

[@lorax2013]

Personal experience in my 20s and 30s was pay, net worth, height, all in top one or two percent, plus looks were OK - none of that mattered much if you were nervous. Job interviews, dates, you name it, if people see you are nervous/desperate they foolishly discount you and go for a less qualified person who doesn’t give a F and is therefore confident. All other things equal, I prefer nervous people because they actually care. Cant say the number of bad hires I’ve seen managers make by thinking like teenage girls.

[@battragon]

Yeah, funny how I'm long gone by the time women know how to spot quality. (When you understand the Dunning-Kruger effect, you understand like 93% of human behavior.)

[@battragon]

@Nick Austin That's why here in the Netherlands we say "het leven begint na je 40ste". (Life starts after your 40th.)

[@nunyabeezwax6758]

@@battragon the Netherlands ladies don't fuck older men who ARE NOT RICH. They will NOT do an older white man average or poor/disabled... (or both average or poor and disabled)... I knew of one of your kind, she came to the states... went out of her WAY to signal I was a piece of shit... FML

[@jfkst1]

@@battragon Many wealthy men say the same thing in the US. Not so much for women.

[@battragon]

@@jfkst1 Yeah, that's the thing with equality: it always manifests, be it sooner or later.

[@catharsis222]

I love the fact that you’re older and didn’t betray the game or treat all these valuable teachings like they were a lie. Go get it, Todd!

[@JesusChrist5000]

I have discovered that women respond to the overall energy and vibe of the guy. Energy, confidence, intelligence, humor, fun loving, fashion sense, etc. And the sustainability of that energy.

[@gtvibes8]

And what are they bringing to the table to match all those awesome.qualities?

[@aikighost]

@@gtvibes8 many times honestly not much, this is one reason why often the best looking women are the most boring/annoying to talk to they have never had to be interesting or funny to get attention.

[@johny16G]

Love you Todd. The uncle/dad we never had never fails to deliver!

[@hobosapien7735]

That's why he is the Todd Father. ❤️

[@prashunpcchakraborty70]

I have always looked up to him as the cool older brother. How young is the average viewer of this channel I wonder.

[@eisz16]

Status is soo true. I'm not tall and good looking or have a ton of money. I dress well, never kiss anyone ass and I know my shit but that's not always been the case. Before I couldn't get almost any girl at all but now (with your help) I can attract most of the girls (even married ones! - it is not my thing though) without even trying to. So it was basically a twist in my thinking and all of a sudden I am a different man with a lot of options.

[@adamm784]

What did you do to change your status?

[@axelnett8067]

Yeah, what did you do?

[@filipbelciug]

u got superpowers from todd

[@chriba6815]

_(even married ones! - it is not my thing though)_ The married ones are often easier, because they are already disillusionized

[@bigvalexander8917]

This is such an important and underrated video. It clears up a lot of things that should be self explanatory but aren't. Thank you Todd

[@Alebib]

Conveying and creating status, game and frame. Lots of praise and applause to Todd for the outstanding content! 👏

[@KristianKasanova]

Todd, you absolutely nailed it with this video brother. From the thumbnail to the title to, most importantly, the actual message conveyed. I'm not crazy familiar with your content but this video was superb and I hope guys continue to listen to the things you preach and use your teachings to become the greatest version of themselves. Thanks again bro, top-tier content!

[@arnauadell4824]

Looking good and being fit COMBINED with learning some things about social interactions helped me a lot more than focusing on game alone. I don't think it's so much the "looks" as in being handsome, but rather as looking masculine / dominant. As a very skinny guy, it was okay to talk to girls but no one wanted to be in bed with me.

[@zaubaschnutemajestat7796]

"Learning some Things about sozial interactions" This is learning game

[@marioottaiano475]

About this there is the concept of the right balance between value and comfort that Todd explains in an excellent way in all of his videos and no dating coach explains this. Sometimes you can be extremely handsome, but at the same time you convey too much comfort and the girl puts you in the friendzone that's why they don't go in bed with you, other times you can be extremely high value and dominant but you don't convey comfort and the girl gets scared feeling inadequate compared to you and even if she is completely attracted by you she never dates you because she is scared, this is a concept Todd explains in a master way, anyway as the user above me says with Todd you learn "game" which is definitely another thing. I spent a lot of time understanding this, at the end I understood that "game" is on another level, it helps you not just with women, but in life in general, if you properly learn "game" you become a better person, you become persuasive and you can strive for the life of your dreams

[@js83]

It's not just that...its about dressing well too...doesn't have to be too fancy...just wear clean well fitted clothes..and clean shoes...

[@arnauadell4824]

@@js83 Yeah, the right clothes help project that masculine look.

[@marioottaiano475]

@@arnauadell4824 inner game vs outer game: this is another concept very well explained by Todd. Essentially when you are skinny and dressed let's say bad, you freak out yourself feeling inadequate and you convey a low status just because inside your mind you installed a thought that you are not good enough based on external appearance, instead when you put on some muscle and you dress well you start to think that you are good enough and you feel confident and you base your identity on what people think about you and not on what you think about yourself, believe me I'm really skinny, I'm not even able to lift a fly and my wardrobe is not that one of a millionaire, but my game thanks to Todd works like a nuclear bomb, I suggest you to work on game, it really improves your life in general

[@kaizenpropertiesgroup2444]

I was hooked from the start. (even though I had a pretty good idea what you were going to say) Great intro! Still killing it my brother - been following you since the RSD days

[@Dan-bz8zh]

Finally. Great to hear someone actually break down what status is. I've wondered that with other content creators. "Looks, money, status." Like, if status is something separate from the other two, what actually IS it?

[@Paul-yk7ds]

I think most people view status as fame, important job titles, popularity, high followers or "verified" blue checkmark on social media, etc. But yes, Todd's view in this video was more complete and really nailed it on a more precise level.

[@Mybrothafromanothamotha]

Well said, well put together 👏🏾 thank you for breaking that down.

[@5675421]

I've watched so many videos on this topic and never have I seen the framework so beautifully explained. This is a truly unique value add to this space Todd. Well done and thank you

[@J0VIN]

YES!!! I've never seen these concepts sooo beautifully tied together! Wow.

[@Seby8844]

I am in the worst financial spot in the past decade and I get the most attention from the most beautiful women ever, a girl that I went out with broke up with her millionaire boyfriend and went out with me, paid for her own uber, came to the other side of town, just because I have a good sense of humor and I tease her constantly, even had girls that paid for my stuff, game is everything.

[@jamesmarsden7111]

What do you mean by tease?

[@jfkst1]

Then your charismatic game is certainly elite. Maybe your looks too. Not sure as I don't know you but well done nonetheless. It would still be augmented strongly with the financial status updates.

[@MASTERLUKEYSLOC]

Wow what an amazing concept! Thank you so much for breaking it down so simply

[@growinginportland]

This is probably one of the best videos you’ve done. Much to think about. Thanks for sharing dude.

[@marcokuhner2445]

Listening to Todd is so wholesome. It’s like the real red pill amongst “read pills”.

[@lakalajadizaja4332]

This makes sense! Thank you for putting in into words!

[@duderserious]

Absolute gold! Thanks Todd

[@julienatlas2313]

Its so true , i was confused before about all these terms but what u said was mind blowing, thanks todd

[@Amadeus_Flyfishing]

This explains a lot. Probably one of your most important videos, I'd say! The narrative in the industry was that you need to be an entrepreneur, look like a player, etc. to get girls for years. And they made a lot of money out of it. It made me extremely unhappy pursuing those things, because I realized I can never excell in all of those things and therefore it was impossible for me to feel good enough. Seeing it from only the perspective of two people, makes it much easier.

[@kaihentschelmann1246]

Great video, new thoughts, amazing.

[@ukaszzbrozek6470]

This makes everything much more clear to me. Thanks!

[@mariusmiron7525]

Amazing video Todd🔥

[@danialmr5960]

Keep up the great work

[@ronzopower5580]

You’ve Grown So Amazingly 😎 Gratitude 🙏🏾 For Your Message 🙌🏾

[@stevepoythress4678]

Perspective. Blown. Thanks Todd.

[@bukenyabatram9039]

Wow, this video has finally given me an in depth definition of game. I was having trouble figuring out what game is and what it actually does behind the scenes not just the desired results but now with an unsuspecting video everything is answered. Thanks alot Todd for your awesome lessons.

[@isagenesi1326]

Cool ideas Todd thanks

[@SidneyShema]

Very well explained. Thank you.

[@supgizmo5021]

There is good stuff here but as someone who is long in the tooth I've aways placed women in the third/forth class category: below health, friends/family and business/career. You can apply this stuff when interacting with them but you MUST have your days filled with more important things. You can't fake this : you actually have to be busy pursuing these more important things, making time for women but not wasting an entire day with her until she had earned it. Never ever give them too much of your time! This includes mental time, not just physical presence. They will love you for it, assuming you are perceived as a high value male..Which you will be now you have your priorities straight. No man lacking free cash to spend, no job or business should be pursuing women...Always get your priorities straight and then take stuff from videos like this, but never before which is why so many men are unsuccessful long term in my opinion. You can't pretend being a winner: you actually have to become one and all winners never prioritize pussy over friends/family, money / business / career and health

[@FireUpThePyroMania]

Amazing content, ridiculously powerful

[@brsrc759]

Amazing info! Thank you 😎🤘🤙🏽

[@andramelk115]

holy shit this is a truth so distilled, we should’ve realized this 20 years ago

[@rajnishsharma2084]

Brilliantly explained 🔥🔥🔥

[@yaw3629]

Crystal clear, best!

[@martinsvensson6884]

Fabulous explanation.

[@Nicocotier12]

So clear, thanks for the clarification. It is so obvious when you explain it

[@maxmustermann194]

A high status can be conveyed through expensive clothes and accessories, which in turn require money. When you see someone drive to a meeting in an S-class wearing a nice suit, you automatically assume it's a high status important person worth your time investment. Just an amazing perosnality without money is hard these days.

[@lint8391]

When I see someone driving an S Class I think that their miles per gallon figures will suck and I'm glad that I drive more economical cars (a Volvo XC90 and a BMW 330D)

[@thesquad2253]

Bmw sucks ass

[@user-ix2uv9er1v]

Yea but what’s the point if they have no personality or game

[@AllanRochez]

This might be one of the most dangerous/ powerful video you’ve ever made good stuff man

[@madness5693]

thank you so much man

[@lorenzocardenas5071]

Bro your speech is crystal clear and more amazing than ever wowwww

[@aaronjohnstone2800]

Game is conveying the elements of status in an efficient way

[@mr.fillupbanks8125]

My guy Todd I appreciate this video.

[@stevekinsey2695]

AWESOME TODD

[@dimidzam9794]

Todd once again you're a legend

[@josealbertorio5533]

It is said that "life's a game"... and if so you play to win and have fun in the process, enjoy the pain and learn how to properly game. The learning process

[@michaelhurin]

Brilliant definitions. Thank you Todd! Much clear now

[@SillyGoose2024]

if you are older and have none of those 3 things, you're phucked.

[@marioottaiano475]

In the dictionary the word "Value" should be substituted with the name "Todd", absolutely master video, perfect, brilliant! Thank you Todd!

[@Daniel-px8xg]

I go to Owens videos when I need someone to make me laugh and I go to Todd’s videos when I need to learn

[@rafizxDx]

A great way to create game and status is to befriend several women without the intention of hooking up with them, or dating them. They will introduce you to other women, women you can get to know and invite to a date. That will be so much better than trying to approach women by yourself, relying solely on your own skills.

[@memeticmindset5474]

Preselection works very well. The key is to truly have no interest in thr women you befriend. You've got to friendzone them first and truly. If it's false they'll feel it.

[@AV-kr6gc]

So friendzone yourself? Let’s be real, why would you need her to introduce you to other women anyways? Unless the initial woman couldn’t be pulled

[@AV-kr6gc]

@@memeticmindset5474 I agree, pre selection works even better if those said women are interested/attracted to you, even if showed subtly

[@CyrilSneer123]

@@AV-kr6gc Yes friendzone yourself. You're seeing women as only f potential and that's wrong and women can spot that from a mile away. Women value the opinions of other women when choosing a mate. It's a survival instinct. Having a female friend qualify you as a fun, decent guy who isn't a creep like many guys helps you past the cold approach stage. I've met many women through other friends. You're playing the game on hard mode if you don't have female friends that you don't f.

[@josephthefirst1]

I love this video Tod

[@Yan-ww2gd]

most valuable class of all time.

[@samlloyd672]

Had a total mental flip understanding STATUS is the one and only thing to attraction. Thank you.

[@samlloyd672]

Plus the distinction of "objective status" vs. "relative status"

[@peterers3]

One of your better Videos. Status social Proof and Game Well Connected.

[@darioscomicschool1111]

Todd Still going Strong!

[@aldorodriguez7310]

This one is a banger for sure🎉

[@Diao7]

I rely on chemistry to hit it off with women. I am not outcome depedant in my interactions. She either likes me or she doesnt. I have good looking photos taken by my barber. A nice dating profile. But I really narrow it down to how me and the woman interact. Whether she takes my jokes well. Or takes what I say the best way. From then on its just a matter of time. Also I am up front about my interest in a woman. Sometimes I mess up and show my intent too aggressively. Being direct has been a game changer for me.

[@JohnDoe-qq8et]

Nobody does it like slickback Todd. True OG of the game.

[@_mr_cat]

Oh yeahh

[@robertturner2516]

Great lesson in what status is.... at that fundamental level

[@americanexpat8792]

This man knows human psychology. Confidence, confidence, confidence. That's what it is all about.

[@Mew2Win]

I want to see infield of a 5’2 balding Indian janitor

[@stillon7280]

I’ve watched 10.000 “the truth” videos on KZbin, but this might be the truthestest so far..

[@user-xn8wg6yw7g]

Smart analysis.

[@koenrouwhorst4173]

Masterclass!

[@k-baye6292]

Than you Tod you're a godsend.I was fortunate enough to learn game from guys like you, the guys at RSD. Max,Owen,Jullian,Jeff,Madison. guys like Corey Wayne and AMS and know that what you're saying is true. I believe having career and money and gym goals but i genuinely do those things for myself because they make me happy.and not to get girls.when it comes down to it it's really does comedown to game.

[@YungKingz__]

Todd can you do Make the Verbal Game Academy an ongoing course that you keep adding value to it... maybe add a monthly subscription to add more to it.. I love the course & I'm sure there more Verbal game techniques we can work on or maybe more formats we can get better at..

[@Paul-yk7ds]

He has the Mentorship program that is ongoing. A lot of the content is still related to verbal game and there are Q&As where you can ask verbal game questions

[@kunited9]

Excellent point

[@s.beccari4678]

It's about the ability to act like a adult. Congruently

[@freefinancialadvice]

Todd’s a genius

[@DreDredel3]

A friend of mine had told me that she found a certain guy very attractive depite the fact that he wasnt good looking & didnt have a chiseled body. What attracted her initially & caused her to look past all of that is the fact that he was well dressed, well groomed, smelled great and danced very well.

[@cakeboss1721]

Then why do women only swipe on 2 percent of men ? 🤔

[@epicbehavior]

That’s not cold approach. Just approaching puts you in the top 5%.

[@musawenkosibrianmajola6729]

I love youtube you have people who teach you so much like you , so much gleaning I have done this year I font even have time to read a book because I feel like a book focuses in one topic but you tube you ebb & flow gaining something new everyday

[@wildmanmike100]

Todd is the professor you wish you had in your first year of college.

[@secretbillionaire463]

Thank you for this video.

[@TheMaleRoleModel]

Todd is the GOAT. change my mind

[@amandaburleson2035]

status is the most important. when i was a CLUB DJ i had soo many women, and the hottest women of my life.. all thanks to my status. no money and no looks...

[@jameshumphries5059]

Do you have an online program that I can learn daygame from?

[@vethum]

Yes, you need 3 things: Looks, Money, Game. With Game being the most important one as at least Game makes STRs possible. They are all synergistic. You have to have game to back up looks and money, but also you need looks and money to back up the game. If you have great game, but no money,, this is not going to work long-term either.

[@Jc-sd2rj]

Social skills and game is all you need.

[@SPACEDOUT19]

cope.

[@jacko89d]

Be less needy + go for what you want. That's status game in a nutshell

[@Pawzitiv]

Todd is a god damn genius

[@Tower_Of_Light]

🚨 This is exactly why I became a meditation coach. At the end of the day inner game is the real wizard sh*t.

[@SPACEDOUT19]

no its not lol. height and looks are the only thing

[@amandaburleson2035]

todd youve been my favorite for a long while. one of the best, everything you say i can relate to becuase its exactly what i noticed as well, would love to do some night game with you some day.

[@trusty086]

Usually younger girls go for looks older girls want stability. Just stay in shape and follow your path and don’t over think about getting girls

[@fitfuelplanner]

For me, the goal is to improve my looks and money first. Then use both of those traits to improve my status and then afford high-end 1 on 1 coaching such as Todd's programs to actually improve game. Plus once I have my business making money while I sleep by it being a system that isn't totally dependent on me, I now free up more of my time to do game. I'm taking a long-term approach. People call it cope. But I'm enjoying the process.

[@joshranowsky8083]

Cope?

[@lukestrickling4950]

@@joshranowsky8083 coping hard. once he realizes that he cant get a girl because hes ugly is when he realizes its OVER xD

[@savepalestiniansnow]

I share the same dream with you bro. Let's keep it up

[@rexes92]

I don't think I've ever seen this much copium.

[@mayankravi6955]

finally someone said it!

[@yoyojuana2054]

Naah, Todd missed this one. I've noticed in recent times he's over trying to just have edgy opinions than Red-Pill philosophy, when all it says is to focus on yourself before twerking around females. Also, a lot of guys pointed out that Red-Pill made it Men vs Women, I beg to differ, it made men question whether the women they are looking for are worth their efforts or not. That's it. Of course, if you have a large base, there'll be a small percentage of people who'll misunderstand the message behind it, it happens with every community and Red-Pill is no exception to it. Todd is great at teaching social skills, game techniques, reading situations, and a lot more things. I'm looking forward to more of that.

[@jfkst1]

I wouldn't call his perspective "edgy." I do think he is overly optimistic with modern females.

[@ChrisSimpiamson3]

Yeah exactly and I said in another comment that it's not really Men vs Women, It's more like feminism vs traditional masculinity. Plus RP has saved so many men by opening their eyes to the fact that A. Most women are liabilities and don't offer anything outside of box, B. Most of them want traditional men without being traditional themselves and want to have their cake and eat it too and C. Most of them don't care about what men want and won't ever accept or care about men's desires. The best solution is to find a trad wife in a small town.

[@jasperlachance6211]

Guys don't ovethink. This is what you do: Focus on yourself, that alone will cause you to be more open to people and therefore people will be more open to you. It will catch attention from others, more people will come into your life giving you a different perspective on life in general. This will allow you to have more confidence in yourself by being competent in the things you do and accomplish (true confidence). This is literally how I was able to get the hottest girls my school. I worked on myself from the outside-in. Went to the gym lost weight, focused on my studies, changed my clothes to tighter fitting clothes since I lost weight which showed off the muscle I unknowingly built by going to the gym, etc. You understand? Everything comes from you just working on bettering your life. Especially making yourself happy which makes you glow and walk/talk differently. Much love my dudes!

[@element720]

Absolute gold

[@vinnievu1]

Looks, money, game and frame are most likely the correct terminology.

[@gabbypage6929]

Its confidence and someone who is fun.

[@jarnohealth]

Thank u so much for this video.. i was soo confused about this topic recently cuz like you said.. social media is FULL of this narrative that you should just work on yourself.. your looks money status.. and then the girls will come automatically.. and girls like only guys who have all these things etc.. i was rly confused and looking for a more objective truth about dating.. and i feel like u just gave that here! Like i wanna trust guys like fresh and fit, andrew tate etc.. cuz they seem to have lots of girls and confidence.. but something about their narrative just doesnt felt right with me.. i like yours a lot better!

[@dreamawake2670]

It's all about confidence and being able to show you status. A good job and sense of successfulness generates confidence and a balance in your masculinity.

[@jarnohealth]

@@dreamawake2670 Yes other things can help w your confidence thats why rn im trying to focus more on making friends and doing fun things, discovering things i like etc..

[@thesecret111]

Todd you're the only guy teaching real game these days. And yes I love Mr Mystery model but it feels like these guys taught just a model, I believe you and Tyler are the only ones who keep teaching real game. There was a recent video of Max getting out and he mentioned a bit of "predatory game" (or predatory market), so Max disagreed on this. Since I coached game for long, sometimes I feel kind of lost, should I do game more, or it's just a tool, or game was indeed a "predatory market" (to maybe bring insecurities to guys and then heal them). I honestly feel after all those years that game (and yes there are many types of game) that there's a good side to it and a (false) evil (maybe misguided/weaken) truth to it. So can game be trusted 100%, should I change the old methods, what is missing in the modern pick up today? Also do you feel that society changed. Do you believe it's more hard to do game these days that you need to go subtle sometimes?

[@Deluxe3001]

todd my bro looking more wasted than ever damn! party hard my boy

[@dieseljagwar6673]

This is the LITERAL secret to it all. Now everyone go buy this man’s program🔥

[@shauryasingh9203]

One fun fact I wanna add is - Looks and money gets you laid for short term relationships. Follow up process helps in building long term attraction but for short term looks and money are suffering without much efforts

[@0ijm3409fiwrekj]

Reminds me of Tate's rant on Just Pearly things about status