The Hard Truth About LOSING FRIENDS In Your 30s |

What are the telltale signs of a bad friend? Do you follow the 11-3-6 rule? Is money the fastest way to ruin a friendship?
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Cast:
• Denise Oh / ohthedenise
• Jared Alex Tan / jaredalextan
• Shermane Wong / justshermz
• Jonathan Paul / jonathanpaul.sxw
Behind the Cam:
• Amirul Nashtrie
Edited by:
Jared Alex Tan
00:00 Intro
00:26 The 7 Friends Theory
03:34 Friends & Bad Communication
07:47 The 11-3-6 Rule
09:57 Friends Who Ostracise
11:12 The Importance of Good Storytelling
13:31 Friends & Money
17:03 Trust Bank & Trust Instant Loan
19:19 The 7 Types of Boundaries
23:21 Positive vs Negative Peer Pressure
29:37 Outro
29:59 Bonus Clip

[@FONature]

26:23 I feel that Jared brought up the most important point of a relationship/friendship. Communication is key and when you feel like you can't communicate effectively, you must be able to take a step back and see if your point is getting across, or if your friend is just taking longer to process, to communicate...

[@KirbyOng]

…when I got retrenched couple of years ago, most of my so-called FRIENDS downgraded to STRANGERS

[@omega_3_998]

what did you want your friends to do for you when you were retrenched?

[@eugenewong9134]

Aiyo... This episode making me realize I have no friends lol

[@arsenal_84]

Better to have no friends than face value/fair weather friends.

[@skeet0000]

"Trust" was the reason that one has none on the list.. "I don't feel secure in sharing personal things with another"

[@h3llmag3]

I lost some friends about Money and Time too

[@esther340]

Living through debts is never a way to live, so don't lend people money. You're teaching them a life lesson by doing so.

[@1makeufreak]

Sometimes really because of work commitments cant really say excuse or not excuse and yes the lend money part definitely need to be selective as a lot of ppl is not upfront about lend money part

[@Emberpurple]

Can TDK do an episode about narcissistic parents?

[@angiemf9033]

I appreciate & respect JP. He is objective…could be someone or one’s own short comings.

[@VICTORIAFORSS]

TELL YOUR TRUTH TO FRIENDS WHO NEED TO BE TOLD OFF ❗️❗️ NO PAI SEH❗️❗️ IF FRIENDS CANNOT FACE THE TRUTH.... THEN IT IS NOT WORTHWHILE TO CONTINUE.... THIS IS BEST POLICY THAN LOSING YOUR SLEEPS DURING THE NITES PONDERING IF YOU ARE HARSH TO THEM OR NOT FRIENDSHIP IS NOT GAINING VOLUMES OF FRIENDS....IT IS QUALITY ALL THE TIME ❤

[@scm9587]

Jared, your hair 😂😂😂

[@angiemf9033]

Pls value your friends because when one grows older, our friends becomes lesser. Not because we fall out but they return to the Lord😢

[@GrannyPanny111]

Can we please have Sherms back to the left side of the podcast. Weird to see her on the other side. >

[@yangtzeling7468]

I disagree that there are people whom you know will be in your life forever. Simply because people change. And also, how well do we Really know a person ?

[@frkzd]

i’m glad i’m not alone. there’s a lot of needy friendships that need to be reevaluated. if i don’t feed their need, they can find somebody else.

[@janeloh6064]

Good one JP! Think this is one video that you've spoken so much! Happy for you & your friend, that *DING* moment🤔💡

[@lalalalaland84]

About lending money, if you can't even shell out $20 to help out a close childhood friend to sustain until payday, you're a shitty friend.

[@kelvinth30]

friends makes my energy drain , happier without them. Everyone changes around you overtime including yourself will change . We will never be in the same frequency as we age , and our priorities in life differs . So there's no point maintaining friendly , just Hi bye small talk a bit and call it a day will do.

[@MsKhione]

Speaking boundaries, honestly, some people use "boundaries" as an excuse to talk about something that they truly struggle with. Some truths a person exude, can already tell you what the root cause is. And "BOUNDARIES" are a tool for them to use as a defensive mechanism.

[@creatine-pf3ip]

The funny thing is John Paul was probably that friend in mind when the other casts were sharing their thoughts.

[@benwong2061]

Algoooooooooooooo

[@nicklim19978]

JP's arm tat looks sick

[@John_Smith_86]

Wah lau. That guy's hair is sooo messy

[@Garnishes]

it's just a hairstyle

[@eeto_plays]

[@charmingsmiles]

i dont even have one to begin with 🥲