The Hard Truth About LOSING FRIENDS In Your 30s |

[@FONature]

26:23 I feel that Jared brought up the most important point of a relationship/friendship. Communication is key and when you feel like you can't communicate effectively, you must be able to take a step back and see if your point is getting across, or if your friend is just taking longer to process, to communicate...

[@KirbyOng]

…when I got retrenched couple of years ago, most of my so-called FRIENDS downgraded to STRANGERS

[@omega_3_998]

what did you want your friends to do for you when you were retrenched?

[@eugenewong9134]

Aiyo... This episode making me realize I have no friends lol

[@arsenal_84]

Better to have no friends than face value/fair weather friends.

[@angiemf9033]

I appreciate & respect JP. He is objective…could be someone or one’s own short comings.

[@esther340]

Living through debts is never a way to live, so don't lend people money. You're teaching them a life lesson by doing so.

[@1makeufreak]

Sometimes really because of work commitments cant really say excuse or not excuse and yes the lend money part definitely need to be selective as a lot of ppl is not upfront about lend money part

[@h3llmag3]

I lost some friends about Money and Time too

[@VICTORIAFORSS]

TELL YOUR TRUTH TO FRIENDS WHO NEED TO BE TOLD OFF ❗️❗️ NO PAI SEH❗️❗️ IF FRIENDS CANNOT FACE THE TRUTH.... THEN IT IS NOT WORTHWHILE TO CONTINUE.... THIS IS BEST POLICY THAN LOSING YOUR SLEEPS DURING THE NITES PONDERING IF YOU ARE HARSH TO THEM OR NOT FRIENDSHIP IS NOT GAINING VOLUMES OF FRIENDS....IT IS QUALITY ALL THE TIME ❤

[@angiemf9033]

Pls value your friends because when one grows older, our friends becomes lesser. Not because we fall out but they return to the Lord😢

[@skeet0000]

"Trust" was the reason that one has none on the list.. "I don't feel secure in sharing personal things with another"

[@scm9587]

Jared, your hair 😂😂😂

[@Emberpurple]

Can TDK do an episode about narcissistic parents?

[@GrannyPanny111]

Can we please have Sherms back to the left side of the podcast. Weird to see her on the other side. >

[@kelvinth30]

friends makes my energy drain , happier without them. Everyone changes around you overtime including yourself will change . We will never be in the same frequency as we age , and our priorities in life differs . So there's no point maintaining friendly , just Hi bye small talk a bit and call it a day will do.

[@frkzd]

i’m glad i’m not alone. there’s a lot of needy friendships that need to be reevaluated. if i don’t feed their need, they can find somebody else.

[@janeloh6064]

Good one JP! Think this is one video that you've spoken so much! Happy for you & your friend, that *DING* moment🤔💡

[@yangtzeling7468]

I disagree that there are people whom you know will be in your life forever. Simply because people change. And also, how well do we Really know a person ?

[@MsKhione]

Speaking boundaries, honestly, some people use "boundaries" as an excuse to talk about something that they truly struggle with. Some truths a person exude, can already tell you what the root cause is. And "BOUNDARIES" are a tool for them to use as a defensive mechanism.

[@creatine-pf3ip]

The funny thing is John Paul was probably that friend in mind when the other casts were sharing their thoughts.

[@nicklim19978]

JP's arm tat looks sick

[@lalalalaland84]

About lending money, if you can't even shell out $20 to help out a close childhood friend to sustain until payday, you're a shitty friend.

[@John_Smith_86]

Wah lau. That guy's hair is sooo messy

[@Garnishes]

it's just a hairstyle

[@benwong2061]

Algoooooooooooooo

[@eeto_plays]

[@charmingsmiles]

i dont even have one to begin with 🥲