The Harsh Reality Of Relationships

[@APThunder_]

“Nothing can prepare you for the real thing like the real thing” - Shimon Davis 2024 That line hits hard and it’s so true.

[@smoothduck7151]

I might be sad rn but I’m still breathing and I’ve been sad before this will also pass

[@mohametgiapra9932]

"If something can make you happy, it is going to destroy you if it makes you upset" you have no idea how much I've felt this phrase during this time in my life.

[@souldierkid]

"I just care about my people" hit different 😢

[@novaswraith596]

😭

[@nyc.chris.]

Finally someone who gets it.

[@AskShimon]

definitely

[@nyc.chris.]

@@AskShimon been waiting a while for vids like this since I could relate to em

[@DuchessDawning]

I think a lot of people get it, but we tend to be secret about it because of the fears or the embarrassment

[@sandrosablone7524]

how the hell do you put out videos which completely reflect my life in this present moment. Guess its luck of the draw, but I'm grateful for these. Its helped me hearing someone say it other then me. Nothing makes it better then effort from both sides, honesty, commitment, and ZERO judgement. Thank you.

[@AskShimon]

It much us feel less crazy🧘🏾‍♂️even when you know the truth, it’s hard to grasp when you’re the only one seeing it

[@paratpargoud3789]

alignment ma guy....sm of us going through the same boat

[@furryvibez7078]

Most of us are literally living the same life, shit crazy I'm in da boat too

[@daan9058]

More than anything the algorithms these days just work too good. They know exactly how you’re feeling or what you want to hear purely based on the content you consume.

[@AceeTheChosen]

@@furryvibez7078me too bro..

[@furryvibez7078]

"I stopped doing everything I love except loving her" bro i FEEL you, and it hurts, stay strong my people 🙏🏾 🙏🏻🙏🏽

[@Cloverlyradiomedia]

Damn too real

[@I_Can_Relate]

I miss our friendship more than our relationship. I just want my best friend back...

[@IGetBuckets98]

“It is what it is” the only quote that can get you by a tough situation. Especially when it comes to someone you thought was about you, but ends up being the opposite.

[@kaylinstites1819]

This video came across my page and I don’t know why I clicked it because I’m in a happy and healthy relationship. I listened to it anyway and it really hit me deep. I am seeing things from another perspective. If I’m honest, I am the person that blocks you. I have many blocked contacts in my phone. I get so hurt, sad, and broken that I don’t want to hear from you. My anxiety starts churning and I get too scared to hear from you again or to never hear from you again. The contact being left open brings me hurt, so I remove it. This video has lightened a new bulb for me. Hearing the other perspective. Hearing the hurt that comes from the receiver of my cut contact. I’m sorry to those I have cut contact with that just wanted to say congratulations to me. To those who didn’t deserve it. And thank you Shimon.

[@navoNavo826]

Damn. I'm almost 21 and haven't been in a relationship yet. Recently I've really been feeling like I want to be in one. This video put a different perspective on it.

[@Septicshites]

dude im 21 and in the same spot.

[@cherryblueduckies]

It trips me out to hear younger generations share how the love relationship life is going. It feels like there's less pressure to be with someone and more disillusionment amongst people in general. The timeline (not sayin you feel like this, just personally) feels as though we went from liking pixie dream girl/sad boy rhetoric to being like: "nah dude I'm good on all that, single life is bomb." I think that the extra time you took combined with your found enthusiasm for relationships will ultimately serve you well.

[@navoNavo826]

@@cherryblueduckies Well said. I don't like hookup culture, plus I haven't seen anyone thats my type yet. I'm just working on myself rn.

[@tikigeek8431]

On my 21 heading to 22 and I screwed up 2 relationships a few years ago... well, second one, first one was because of a bad third, but still, I'm glad you take your time, most people can't hold relationships in such a early age, and the cases that happen is very rare, I'm glad that you take your time to see what you want and like, no need to hurry, man, stay cool

[@duderitoz6953]

No rush, but your options slip by your late 20's.

[@johannastaylor4719]

Chin up bro. Don’t look back. You feel how you feel but some people just don’t understand the value of genuine, unconditional love and care. Some people just don’t deserve it. Even if you’re willing to

[@kristijanknezevic4725]

Yea but it so hard to believe that she is the one of them,the one that dont deserve it and not worthy,everybody around you is telling that but I just can not believe it

[@Kyle_Hiroki]

@@kristijanknezevic4725 truth hurts.

[@ejplayzzz]

@@kristijanknezevic4725took the words out my mouth man

[@forevera5241]

It's the breakups that you don't see coming and the absolute silence you're gifted with afterwards that leaves a small void within you. You do what you need to to heal and mourn and move forward from that relationship but there's always a little pain left behind that you have to make peace with.

[@theheroinemother8205]

The raw emotions and genuine feel of this whole video makes me believe, that there is still hope in society.

[@sevivas15]

Very recently I broke up with someone I loved more than anything, and man was it hard. It felt like a part of me was literally ripped away from my body. But just like you said, life is life, you gotta keep moving or you'll just get stuck like a pebble on a wave in the shore, reliving that moment over and over again and stopping yourself from truly healing. It was actually around the time I first discovered your channel, and I admire the way you look at situations in life, and the way you can openly talk about stuff that, not only for me but I believe many more people, are very hard to express and put to words. I just wanted to thank you for being like a role model to me, and to tell you that I appreciate you. Love you man, and keep being who you are and doing what you're doing, because you are a wonderful human being ❤

[@2100m]

how do you get over them? i cant stop checking their account and hurting i cant eat or sleep

[@correykay7028]

@@2100mget therapy your sick! & it’s okay to get therapy its better to get help than let your brain rot ruminating over an ex

[@yabyflamie7996]

Been in a fair amount of relationships but the one that really hit me is a long distance one, alot of strengths from the start i myself took for granted till one day she fell out of love because the one thing we had, which was communication felt less intimate or important because of the stuff i didn't show or expressed. Sometimes you think you deserve something but i realized i had to grow up and be better for situations like that because it's ongoing. You can't get comfortable, you always have to move and express your care and feelings.

[@nateshaff7297]

I’m proud of you for finding yourself here you’ll heal from all of this pain

[@yabyflamie7996]

@@nateshaff7297 seeing them change up like that was really difficult but there's a cause and effect for everything

[@oren28994]

this is exactly word by word what have happened to me as well, its been 5 months and it still hurts a lot...

[@Phil-j7t]

Long distance break ups can be absolutely devastating especially if you had plans to move and live together

[@yabyflamie7996]

@@oren28994 the crazy part is the opposite person who wanted to drop everything will just use the excuse of "oh it's just a ldr it's not that serious" after love bombing you for months 💀😭

[@Carmona.x]

Shimon, I am a Spanish 16 old guy, and the next year im going the whole year to USA, I have a girlfriend, weve been together for 2 years and I have to break up with her to not hurt her a lot of time, it hurts me so much we have to split not because we want, just because we have. Your words help me so much Shimon, thank you so much.

[@ilykiyah]

Best of luck for you in the USA 🙏🏽

[@Preppybabiess]

hey so

[@shaughnmay7501]

It’s Got out of a 5 year relationship last week. Never felt heartbreak like this before. My whole life changed with one conversation. Thank you for the content you put out. It’s invaluable

[@keith.anthony.infinity.h]

When you give love to someone which you eventually have to let go, do not regret giving love. Unconditional love is not a feeling or an action, it is what we are at our purest being when you let go of all the superficiality. Unconditional love is abundant. Unconditional love is so infinitely abundant to the point where you can constantly give it to yourself and others without any expectation of anything in return. Unconditional love is like an eternal flame with heat and heat does not stay in one place, it spreads. Even after death comes to take you in the end the pure and unconditional love which you gave out is left behind as an echo which time never forgets. So why not let it burn warm and shine bright in such a dark, cold, and hateful world as a guiding beacon for others and yourself?

[@CaribanaLove]

Shimon, what you touched upon about being cut off and that in itself not making them a worthy partner, I resonate with this deeply in my current situation. Its not in me to do something to someone knowing it’s going to hurt them, I’d never be able to walk away without the guilt from my actions. When someone can do this it reveals a huge lack in their character, and it puts the other person in the worst position to have to heal from. To be cut off without any communication or insight is a tough battle to have to endure in your mind. I’d love to hear you touch more on how your progressed through this. In the end this exposed on a deeper level why we weren’t compatible.

[@pauligyarto3179]

Some people can just wipe you from their existence. I'll never understand it. It's such a slap in the face. It makes you question everything that happened. It taught me that I don't need to accept anything but love. I'll never allow myself to be crushed like that again. It's okay, you'll find exactly where you belong. I promise. Be strong ❤

[@drifty5554]

Hey man, yesterday you posted a video about p*rn addiction. I accepted the challange of no social media for 10 days. I ussualy spend 3-5 hours on instagram or tiktok but now, today i only spent 40 mins on both combined. Didnt have any urges. Thank you for everything thanks cannot make up for how you open my mind and help me mentally.

[@DariusThomas567]

What is crazy, is that what happened between us was bad but we left it on good terms. But i chose not to contact her after 2 weeks and cut it off and let go. But i still have that feeling of want and not needing. Love her, but i’m not gonna keep holding on. To all the homies, you’ll win in everything as long as you build up what you see and want in your life. They may come back or may not. But just let go let it be, focus on you and focus on your journey.

[@kinngKHI]

She gonna see this video and hear and feel ur raw emotion and how much u just truly wanted to congratulate her. Word 💯🤝🏾

[@tmrynne]

Recently went through this, I am now a better person than I ever have been. I learned how to love myself after months of blaming myself for the breakup, I couldn’t have done anything better, she just gave up on being with me and thats okay. You will always find someone that will meet you the way you need, It does get better. I still care about her but I am not what she needs. I hold no ill will and I hope the best for her, you live and you learn.

[@samautrey]

Gods timing is so crazy man. Last night I had a dream about my ex and then I ran into her in public today for the first time since last year. It messed me up a little bit seeing her in person so I prayed about it, then I see this video get recommended to me later in the day. You’re not alone brother, worry about nothing and pray about everything.

[@Duopierce]

I'm 37 and this speaks to me. Wisdom beyond years

[@issamboutallaa8722]

17:00 After hearing this sacred sentence, it was all wisdom until the end. Thanks man for the Immortal wisdom you gave us. Thanks

[@mage4585]

man, as sorry as I am seeing how u feel. It's not always "this person did horrible things to me, so I will cut all contacts". sometimes, It's " I am afraid I will string this person along and give them false hope if I keep the door open".

[@Sedite]

I relate a lot to you not blocking out communication with people you care about even if things had gotten bad. I remember when I was really young (maybe 14?) I had this girlfriend who after the fact we both blocked out any ways for either of us to reach out but a couple years later some way or another she got ahold of me and we talked. We talked about the past couple years and quickly things were kinda like nothing ever happened. We didn’t wanna get back together or anything but the openness that once existed between us during such pivotal moments in our lives never really went away. She’s one of my best friends now. And now with another relationship I just got out of the person has been unwilling to communicate at all so I’ve taken a step back. I wonder if history will repeat itself or not. Who knows

[@mthokozisimthembu6390]

I’m gonna tell you something cutting communication really helps it’s healthy for you and you get fully healed but you see that in a long term …try it sometime

[@soranaokiiii]

"It Is What it Is" Realest thing anyone can say

[@richardfierro2699]

I think the way you're feeling is the reason why you should cut someone off, regardless of the connection you had. Being friends with someone after a break up isn't a good thing for either person. There's very little reason to communicate with an ex, especially right after a break up. The inevitably of them finding someone else is an obvious reason, but when a relationship ends, both parties need to get over the grief without the other. The habits and routines that you built around them is already going to be a constant reminder of what you're missing. But continuing to communicate with them is harmful for both parties. It is disruptive to the healing process and honestly kind of disrespectful to yourself and the ex. Your priority should be healing and taking care of yourself. Maybe doing some reflection and introspection when you can. More importantly, you also got to start taking back all the time that you would give them and putting it into yourself, your own ambitions, and start building your new routine in life. It takes a lot of time, patience, and good grace with yourself to do all this in a healthy way. However, you can't do any of this if you're talking to them even once a month. It's too much headspace and energy, especially with all the emotion behind it, to give to someone who isn't a part of your journey anymore. All that energy and focus needs to be focused solely on you, or you'll just start missing your old routine and what used to be the highlight of your days. You'll just fall right back where you started.

[@PrinceScotticus]

You said it yourself lil bro don't chase what's running away from you stay up stay blessed keep ya head up king

[@joshuawig3151]

I felt that "I just wanted to congratulate her" I understand how you feel

[@Elliottlickfold]

I watch one of his vids every night when I’m trying to sleep. They help me a lot when I’m trying to sleep and that’s when I’m most aware of things so I’m really listening deep and really taking what he’s saying to the heart

[@Adonais_bxby]

Imma be honest, a few days before my birthday, my first love passed on, and it was one sided (my side), and tbh when he died i genuelly felt like i had no reason to cry or be sad (cause he genuelly never liked me back)...and tbh i was so mentally drained that i didnt truly know whether it affected me or not, till now im so numb about that situation though i had some dreams about him... I pray his Spirit is Okay and that he is in Heaven

[@johncarlo4028]

I feel you man, like why does it have to be a cut off, makes me think like I've given her a very hard time when we were together, like I'm one of those people that caused her pain. It feels like my chest will explode being shut off like that.

[@isaiahjones5759]

God will is always great and better than ours. Keep Praying. God will always love and care and will be there for you and for us 🙏❤️

[@giga_chad911]

The way you did not cut out scenes, the raw emotion in this video...

[@kuyaazn3889]

I just recently broke up with my girl that I’ve been with for 5 years. I’ve gave her my everything and I thought this is the girl I’m destined to be with, even planned to marry this girl this year but it all changed after she left me. It’s honestly so hard to motivate myself to do anything. It’s hard to be happy but I’ve recently started to watch your videos and it’s slowly started to change my perspective on things. I’m glad to see that there are others who share my pain and someone who gets it and guides me in the right direction. Thank you bro❤ keep pushing out content

[@Gregness745]

Bro 5 years? 😕

[@Joutssen]

I went through a very similar scenario to yours, actually still going through it almost a year later. I couldn’t agree more with everything you said. And I wanted to tell you that I know how you’ve felt, and how you’re feeling right now. I’ve had moments where I found yourself hating my ex and blaming her for our breakup, even though I knew that it was no one’s fault, and later realised that it was my body trying to make me detach myself from her in order not to hurt that much. After lots of ups and downs I’ve finally realised that, as you said, it’s not about getting over someone, it’s about accepting what happened and move on, bringing all of it along with you. The other day I decided to send her an email where I told her that if she ever wanted to talk to me or anything else, I am here and I’ll always be, and now I feel like I can finally move on with my life, accepting everything that happened between us without blaming myself or her anymore. I feel like you made this video first of all for yourself, and I respect a lot the fact that you decided to share this with other people, it really means a lot. I wish you the best with everything.

[@pollyannakarina]

Absolutely stunning insight, Shimon. In tears here. Thank you.

[@andralici0us]

It’s beyond scary how everything you’re speaking of is everything I’m feeling at the moment

[@idroid2542]

Time to stay single for good, I sincerely thank you for helping me realize that, there won’t be any more wasted time.

[@joshuahoad7292]

No time is wasted, you wouldn't have come to the conclusion by yourself without going through what you have.

[@Gavinjames426]

Hey Shimon. I understand brother and I feel you. The Universe/God is sending you these challenges so you can untangle those emotional knots brother. I appreciate your vulnerability and your genuineness. Sending you strength and Love 🤘🏼🤘🏼

[@LetiziaFuga]

I love your videos,and man is this relatable to me rn...my ex broke up with me over text (we were in long distance but still wrong) and blocked me on whatsapp.I still have his number(I think it hasnt changed) and he hasnt blocked me on insta (unfollowed me tho).It hurts like hell and it left me wondering the same thing as u : was what we had even real?it really hurts.I'm sorry this happens to a lot of us

[@BamBamBamboozled]

Man, you are amazing. You quickly became one of my favorite content creators. Congratulations to you!

[@AskShimon]

Much love to you fam !

[@ro9062]

People are different and work in different ways. It's hard to just pick up a friendship after such an intense connection. I think it takes time for some people to transition you out of their affections. Her moving on with her career could've been held back by her attachment to you yknow and if she didn't cut contact it may have prohibited her from moving forward. We all are affected in different ways by things and people and we all have our own individual paths. It hurts for everyone

[@ishouldbesleeping1144]

What you’ve had to say is amongst the most enlightening perspectives, opinions & experiences I’ve heard thus far. It speaks through to me so much because of how much I relate to your experience, you’ve helped me assure and affirm a lot to myself when I was on the verge of entering a redundant phase of self doubt- when really I’m coping well, processing emotions, being social, focusing on what I enjoy, making job advancements- all whilst trusting the process and grieving the loss. We’ll all be okay 💯

[@ryanlion9197]

I wonder what you will think of this: I recently had a sort of situationship with a girl, we were together for about 2 months. We held hands, held each other, went on dates, etc. But then, she started to peel away... it's like she was very busy with other things and she preferred being with her friends than with me. I knew it was coming, and she ended it and said that it wasn't working for her, but she wanted us to be good friends because she still liked me a lot. I was disappointed about it because I grew connected to her and I felt like she gave up on us way too soon, but at the same time I respected her decision because I wanted her to be happy. However, she really wanted us to be friends. After a few weeks of kind of avoiding each other, she started to kind of try to reach me and form a friendship (inviting me to things, saying we should be friends more). At a certain point I said we should talk, and I told her I have nothing against her and that she is amazing, but I need space to let go. I just feel like I can't ever see her as a "friend" because I never saw her that way, I only ever liked her. She doesn't seem to understand that, and sometimes I feel like a jerk for not being friends with her. However, it would be too much for me to be friends with her, as I would always be holding back feelings. I feel like the best way for me to be happy is to just not be friends with her, even though that's not what she wants. As you see, everyone recovers differently from things... maybe in your situation she is hurt but cutting off contact is the best way for her to heal.

[@manifestingmillions8939]

Nothing last forever take the lesson my brother

[@yoshi4545]

Yeah man this is so real. Life is so coincidental it's funny. This happens to me all the time

[@DFIRKO0]

I feel you Shimon, I feel you 100% bro, couldn't have said it better if I tried for hours. My situation is just like yours man, and I feel what you said so deeply that it brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for sharing your story, it made me feel that I'm not the only one who feels like this, and that means from the few other comments that I've read that other people feel like I do, and it fills my heart me with joy to see people understanding each-other. With people like you looking out for us, I feel confident that the world will be a better place for the future generations.

[@juliantellez8164]

Shimon, thanks for sharing your stories, wisdom, openness, and transparency, it truly helps others feel like they’re not alone. Keep moving forward brother, you’re doing great❤️

[@FEEN1X-N0VA]

They most down to earth guy on yt luv u bro you've genuinely helped me through a lot amazing vid ❤

[@AskShimon]

I love you fam

[@FEEN1X-N0VA]

@@AskShimon 🤗🩷

[@speedygonzalez1624]

I subbed awhile ago , you have the ability to save souls young brother. I pray peace to you and protection. Stay focused

[@amyzhu5187]

You out videos that reflect my past. I too cant cut people out that easily, I get ghosted and blocked (or unfollowed). But, still, I know I have value and don’t deserve to be treated like this. But, sometimes I still want to reach out, but I know I shouldn’t.

[@Klover_pearl]

What you experienced, I experienced it too and I can’t help but cry as well, it has the same implications and this is much a phenomenon in every relationship break ups worth to be studied. I highly recommend your video and to those who feel lost after break up or are about to go into relationship. I think your advice would help them get ready.

[@Sydonie-po8iq]

Met this boy online, then we met in person, 9 Months Past and he still didn't know what he wanted with me. He obviously didn't care to waste my time and that was the reality of it that I didn't want to accept because I "liked him". Didn't know why I Stayed for him decide smh. I went the extra mile as I usually do for people and always get manipulated, used or played. He just got out of a 3 year relationship by the way, and he still seem like he missed her. Safe to say I left and i'm never looking back because I don't believe anyone deserves to be treated like shxt because their still hurt from their past.

[@Golevelupj]

This exact video is what I’m feeling with. WOW.

[@duderitoz6953]

Time heals all wounds. Letting your own thoughts pick that scab will cause it to scar.

[@farrislanier6043]

I listened to this 3 times back to back, Wow im going through this situation now..Thanks for the talk brother

[@zaidhendricks2342]

Thank you. You make this journey a lot easier for so many people trying to better themselves for themselves, not for anyone else

[@legdary4247]

Hey Shimon. I jsut want to wish you best of luck in your life. You're probably going through a difficult state of mind. I had very similar problem and bad thoughts few months ago and I fell into a rabbit hole of red pilled self improvement and YOU were the one who helped me get out of this. Because you are a wise young guy I wish I knew personally. You showed me a healthy journey of yours, without toxicity against other people and I want to thank you for that. I just wish I could help you like you helped me, but I believe you can still get through this. Take care man.

[@kyleanderson2]

stay strong my man we here for you just as much as you here for us!

[@paulofaustino5372]

You’re a hero, so brave to put something like this out there despite how vulnerable you are. 🙏🏻 thank you

[@beverlymoore1846]

More likely she has seen this video. Take it day by day 😔. It’s always that desire to have closure. Not to mention how scary insane it is to be truly vulnerable with someone so long and come to find that the other doesn’t have the same or similar feelings towards you or to give you a reason to question was it real. I’ve been in that thought of state. Why pursue an illusion if it’s not real kinda concept. However, I learned that the uncomfortable stages in my life brought me closer and closer to pursue the unbreakable love that I have for myself. Love your content❣️ A nice pick me up for the day! Thank you sir Davis!

[@issker8840]

damn i saw 3 or 4 viedeos of this guy and he genuienly changed everything i see things so much diffrent and i just started watching him 2 days ago i love you bro

[@Mhdzzz214]

Hey brother your videos are great and help with the healing. From the 9 minute mark I can completely relate with you, and it's a terrible, terrible feeling. Just to be discarded like trash, sometimes you don't even feel like human. I look forward to more of your videos, god bless.

[@izthescientist]

I totally understand wym but I feel like with girls especially it’s hard to “just be friends” with someone like it’s either all or nothing and “just being friends” with ur ex tends to lead to so much unnecessary pain(at least in my experience). I really hope you get over this and keep on growing

[@Stevemaster67]

I'm in a very similar situation.. as you Shimon. only difference is my ex is still in contact with me even tho i hurt her feeling this one time. so I'm trying to make it up to her cause i care I've also been having dreams. of my ex but i didn't tell her. but its good dreams of us sending some time together.❤

[@kelvingutierrez4198]

Sometimes things end and it best to let it rest that chapter of your life is over and life goes on. But maybe meeting someone only to never talk to them again sucks

[@surbanpink]

Shimon always COOKS 🗣️🔥

[@tylersandefur3364]

I'm proud of you bro; you're doing amazing. Your people care about you too.

[@liloubidet9257]

I feel so much what you are saying. I loved and I continue to love this man that I thought was the one for me. I was giving him inconditional love, and I lose everything I loved to love him, to show him how much he was important to me. But the time goes on, he wasn’t the man I love, it was like, I don’t know him anymore, I love him but I begin to suffer from the relationship. He decided to leave our relationship for something I was really to fight for. I was ready to fight for our relationship and he decided to leave me alone. It has been a month and I am still loving him even if he has probably forget me. The worst part is that he has said to me those beautiful words, it was the first time I really feel loved and then he left me like everything we had been through was nothing. It makes me so crazy like I didn’t count to him like he had count to me. I have never liked a man like him and I will never forget him..

[@andrewrivera190]

The Madea talk about people being like leaves on a tree has stuck with me.

[@RAGINGAIDEN]

I really appreciate your videos. As I am growing I look for people who give me guidance, and give me ideas for what I may want for myself. The problem is that most of these people have became cocky, weird, etc. It is really nice to have a teacher that isn't corrupt and is down to earth.

[@sypheye2412]

Hey man, just saying i love your videos and as a 15 year old you really give me good advise. Just remember maybe you already know but dont put people above yourself. You pobably know that already just making sure keep up what your doing man.

[@barrywyze8469]

BASED!!! 💯🤝 Love you for being so genuine and relatable bro. ❤ You've helped a lot of us see and acknowledge that it's not just us. Well done! 🙌

[@Johnny-e6x]

Not only are these popping up on my yt page as I'm getting closer with a girl you're literally MAKING them while it's happening. Crazy. Keep up the work bro

[@soniamatei8561]

Omg you have the same beliefs as me and its so fulfilling for me to see someone who is thinking like me. I hope to meet people like you in real life more often.

[@kindasomeviews]

A few thoughts on this. I feel like that event you had with the lookalike ex was the universe testing you, if you'd stoop to virtually getting back with your ex or not. I think you made the right choice but you should also seek companionship in others. That's the real way you'd recover and move on, especially when others can tell it's not easy to do on your own. Also I want you to know that while things can get worse, things can get Better too, and that's with anything

[@some_onzsomebody8575]

Ngl this guy gets me on a level I cant explain 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@onyxfeel4377]

This. I’ve been looking for this answer for 3 years now. Thank you.

[@Starberryyy777]

I want to congratulate you on being so open with your emotions to your viewers. I think this is a wonderful example of having emotional intelligence. Your voice is also very soothing. I enjoyed your vid & hope you keep being you. I know you gonna find the woman w the qualities u spoke about. Thank you so much for sharing.💯

[@SushiYT]

take care man , every video of urs hits so damn hard. love you

[@NwachukwuTochukwu-v7q]

crazy how you dropped this on my exs brthday bro. You are healing me thank you so much brother i love you brother.💌

[@anttheknee64]

I’m with you on disliking no contact, to love one so intensely just to be able to cut them off discredits the all care that was given

[@masoncampillo]

this video really helped man thank you so much

[@21reesethomas]

I’ve never been in a relationship and to be honest I’m not ready for one I just need to work on myself which I why I watch you 🤝

[@lewish1248]

Going through this now. Some past breakup baggage keeps rearing its head in my present love life and I keep wrong calling situations for the worst. Trying my best, yep, can’t really prepare for the real thing.

[@NariaStar-tk8qy]

Love ur content ur always giving out good advice and I love that keep going and making content I believe in u ur and always remember to do u and you’ll be able to be get through it especially during ur darkest times fight through those things and never give up

[@vi3366]

I find myself relating to you even more every video. Sometimes my thoughts are exactly what you say next. I love you man and wish you the best. I hope one day you could talk to her again.

[@exivir2010]

you're on the right track my man. things will get better!

[@antman5481]

I’ve gone through something very similar recently, you captured every moment of my thoughts. Thank you for your input tho. Much love brother and I wish you the best 🙏🏾

[@gamezod18]

This video resonates with me a lot because I did mistake and she just blocked me permanently at first she said we would continue talk then blocked me I made second account texted her she blocked me again I don’t have the heart to block I love and forgive so easily the memories still flow here and there but I gotta move on thank you bro for this video I hope you heal and I wish all the best for you bro appreciate what u do 🙏🏼❤

[@FeniX90202]

F**k i can see that you have been in pain😢 and it f**king hurts. But you still stay strong even after all of that.

[@noiiiverse5333]

15:35 this is what broke me because this part andnonward just reflected what has happened with my recent relationship, the amount of tears I've shedded has been astonishing., I just wish things were different...

[@eemfunnyasf]

I have cried in years and for some reason my eyes started watering within the first 60s of this video bro 💀 fuck is going on

[@SAMUELCRAFTER1]

Ur being human bro

[@topman_malo9292]

I always watch your videos to understand when I need help 😔

[@JASONVISION]

11:24 daaamn I felt that to the heart THATS MY G🖤