The "I'm Just A Girl" Trend Is Keeping YOU Broke, In Debt, and Lazy!

[@SocialSymone]

What part of the video stood out to you the most? Have you ever used the phrase "I’m just a girl" to justify a purchase or your actions? Is the arm just a girl trend just a harmless joke or should it be taken more seriously? Also, what percent is your phone 🔋on? It's 3:04 A.M. for me and I'm a 52%😭

[@lelo46]

21% and 3:53am

[@Hannahbets]

85% at 8:52am (here waiting for the video 🫶🏻)

[@PrinceJayMoriarty]

97% at 9:01am

[@SocialSymone]

@lelo46 oh my, you was early thank you!!

[@DeadDancers]

I have never and would never, but then I have genuine self respect and not hollow bluster.

[@alwayswondering127]

Imagine being blessed to have gotten out of a large amount of debt only to go into 40k debt simply because you spend too much money on your wants and not your needs. What a mess.

[@kittycake077]

a lot of these women keep saying, "I'm just a girl" need to grow up. it's time to be a women

[@Blakmagic88]

I can’t imagine! I paid off $50k in student loans and I refuse to get in debt again…

[@jojolyneee]

And she's a mom like what type of example is that?

[@ggez5890]

These women proving how right Islam is about women

[@justanoman6497]

Based on the things she said, it seems that they just took equity out of their real estate on the exchange--their old house had a good deal of equity, they took that out and got a bigger house with a bigger loan (mentioned increased mortgage). That's not "blessed", that in itself is potentially financially irresponsible. It is essentially a HELOC (as additional mortgage). I mean mortage should have lower interest rate than most other loans that were paid off, so in theory that could be a mathematically correct move. But given the unresolved underlying spending behavior, the feeling of "have money" and "no debt" is dangrous and could simply lead to more spending. This is the reason why debt consolidation often don't work out despite it being superior mathematically.

[@Flowercircle-o1y]

Can we stop calling each other “girls” lol we are GROWN WOMEN 😂?

[@ggez5890]

These girls proving Islam is right about women

[@dynogamergurl]

This! Like you a grown ass woman take accountability 😂😂

[@ggez5890]

@@dynogamergurl "women" taking "accountability".... That's such an oxymoron

[@nootnewt9323]

@@ggez5890 incel detected lol

[@valarmorghulis4801]

​@ggez5890 how do u red-pilled weirdos keep finding us?

[@sunset1952]

Seriously, these women are taking us back a 100 years!!

[@valkolakk]

I mean the Supreme Court has done that, but these "girls" aren't helping. The issue is a lot of these content creators are wealthy enough to get away with this, but others watching them need to realize it's a fantasy.

[@stephanietambwe7512]

Yes which is so frustrating!!!

[@MoncheriRous]

it's so degrading for women. Like we are just stupid..

[@100Stratusfiedx]

They’re using misogynistic stereotypes about women to excuse their behavior

[@nootnewt9323]

Yeah I know some people will say “it’s just a joke” defensively but it’s seriously not funny to be an adult and not be able to handle your finances. It’s kinda sad.

[@Mo-vu7jc]

someone please tell me Gwen Stefani didn't defy punk-pop boundaries in the mainstream in the 90s just so that we could all literally water down the actual message of Just a Girl 😭😭

[@marsryan7940]

@@Mo-vu7jc like did anyone listen to the song???????

[@aesinam]

​@@marsryan7940none of those "just a girl" types did

[@luiysia]

gwen stefani did not defy any boundaries she's always been a commercial pop product lmao she is not bikini kill

[@Gobbler72]

“Pop-punk” is an oxymoron

[@marinadotdot]

I think at least some of this behaviour comes from a place of privilege. Having someone else always take care of them allowed them to never need to take responsibility for their own life.

[@FreckledOne-d2e]

Agree. Some women and men who were raised in privilege expect to be treated in a certain way even though they may not have earned it.

[@SocialSymone]

It's sad because it's not until you have to be on your own that you realize it makes you very vulnerable and ill prepared!

[@majord7515]

​@@FreckledOne-d2e The difference is that men know that no one is going to make excuses for them or coming to save them.

[@majord7515]

​@@SocialSymone Regardless of age, women want to be seen as girls. Hence the 30-40 year olds going on "girl trips".

[@e8355.]

@@majord7515that’s funny because they sure don’t seem to act that way…

[@myself2861]

Girl FORGET social commentary... Start your singing career, I was boppin along with you 😂❤❤❤ You got the grooves and the moves on all sides!

[@SocialSymone]

LOL y'all trying to make me big head at huh? Just kidding I appreciate the love and support! This might be the starter something very interesting on this channel who knows 👀💓

[@tidegirl6526]

Wow, they really missed the point of the song. Gwyn was angry at the limitations people were placing on her because she was "just a girl" I'm sure she is cringing over her anthem being diminished to this brainleas activity.

[@LaCrownedGamer]

What makes it worse is yes it can be funny from time to time to just be nonchalant, but this could also be flipped if to be progressive but we have chosen not to. You can say "I'm just a girl" to getting a degree or getting the home or getting the dream job and like "this? It was no big deal because I'm just a girl" with a smirk or a wink demonstrating just how demolishing limits can let's us do amazing things with ease.

[@t_ylr]

Right, that's why you gotta listen to the whole song and not just short tik tok clip lol

[@RaspBerryPies]

Probably similar to stan being used in a positive light when it was literally meant to be a combo of the words stalker and fan lol

[@PinkAgaricus]

​@@RaspBerryPiesSadly, for lots of famous people that song is true. Though the whole plot was due to the fan (named Stan) wanting Em to respond to his letters ASAP, resulting in what led to the storyline of the song (Stan expecting Eminem to give him the time of day right away [the figurative "ToD"]). Also, sadly, there are fans that take that "title" to the extreme.

[@RaspBerryPies]

@@PinkAgaricus Oh yes I believe the famous people with stans know the true meaning, but it’s weird when fans and sometimes actual stans use the term as a way to show they support an artist. It’s like dude you’re literally calling yourself a creep! It’s like if someone willingly called themselves an incel or something lol I didn’t know it was just a guy named Stan I thought it was short for stalker fan but still it’s def meant to be that type of horrible person

[@RamenzillaX]

I get that this trend started off as a “joke” and that the nostalgia of childhood is comforting, especially in this economy… but to pretend you’re inept and financially irresponsible as a grown adult is not a good look. If you don’t take ownership of your finances and your decisions, someone else will - like the bank and debt collectors. It’s also just not very funny, in my opinion. Like…”Haha. You’re an idiot? Mmk.”

[@goosewithagibus]

Or an abuser

[@MoncheriRous]

but girls, like little girls are not stupid. I don't know why our society we keep trying to paint "little girls" as stupid. I remember being a child and thinking that being "smart" or to "mouthy" was not "girly" and that I have to fake being someones I wasn't in order to fit. It's just ridiculous..

[@stinks7065]

@@MoncheriRous I think it's interesting cause girls definitely get raised to be very responsible from an early age, we're expected to be mature and rational even when we're still little children, and we have a lot of responsibility pushed onto us at a very young age. So to connect girlhood with being irresponsible and stupid is strange, I don't think very many of us were ALLOWED to be irresponsible and stupid as children. Maybe that's a driving factor here as well -- now that these women are no longer under their parents' control, they want to go a little brainless and be irresponsible for a while since it's not something they were allowed to be earlier in life. Except now you have big girl consequences that can ruin your life, instead of getting detention at school or being put on house arrest for a few days.

[@MoncheriRous]

@@stinks7065 I think it's more like they want to be infantilized. This idea of you are just a girl and a man will take care of you. Something like "lolita" vibes. Having an adult woman to act as "girly" as possible so she can be more sexuality attractive.

[@destinydivine8465]

That man is supposed to take the plates off after he is done.The woman is right.

[@kay9056]

Except for her rational. He should have re-racked and he should have said because he placed the weight on. Not that she's just a girl. No "just" in being female, either.

[@Tneal78]

Yeah. That dude was wierd. Something tells me he's not very popular at whatever gym he's at.

[@saundra_janae]

I wouldn’t want to get a 850k house because we can afford it. Something can happen and one of us end up out of work. The bills need to be manageable for one income.

[@whatwasisaying1338]

I agree. A finance professor advised my class to purchase a home that's affordable on the salary of the spouse earning less money. If I make $80,000 and my wife earns $130,000, it is advisable to purchase a home that is affordable on $80,000. The all-in mortgage payment should not exceed $2,000/month.

[@TheBlackDorothyZbornak]

Exactly.

[@shieknel]

Exactly! That man's take is bad financial advise.

[@VBoo459]

I get that, but like that will you ever even buy a house lol

[@whatwasisaying1338]

@@VBoo459 With a sizeable down payment, it can work. Married people generally fare better financially compared to their single peers. My wife and I can stay in a 1BR apartment while we save for a down payment. If we assume I save $2,000 a month, that's $48,000 in two years.

[@alientingz7733]

She needed 12k for lingerie and other things? Girl if you don't go CLOCK IN and WORK! It's crazy how people have gotten used to BEGGING. Feeling entitled to everyone's money, crying about having to work, etc. Like get a grip and go to work.

[@TXtoTN]

14:30 that guy is a douche because it’s common courtesy no matter if the next person is a boy, girl or even if nobody else is in line. This one definitely doesn’t apply, they guy is just being a jerk

[@joanicooper1422]

fr you put it on, u take it off. even if the next guy in line would just put them back on plus more. HES lazy.

[@jamalj8660]

1 jerk guy in the video vs 10 i'm just a girl bimbos 🤔

[@cynabonabelle]

Yeah my boyfriend is a gym bro and even he agrees thats proper gym etiquette. This dude might just be tweaking from a lil steroid use 👀

[@luiysia]

also, some people can't easily move a 45, there are beginners at the gym too. and he had eight 45's on there that's so obnoxious lol

[@Loool_7656]

ALso, hm saying "female" told me everything I need to know.

[@shaneilellis9832]

Delulu isn't the selulu.

[@bre9612]

🤣🤣💀

[@stephanietambwe7512]

Haha!! I’m gonna start saying this 😂

[@cloudstrife3074]

Women (and even men) be saying this like their big ass ain't pushing 30.

[@SocialSymone]

we all gotta grow up someday 😂 😂 😂

[@randomlyswatching9481]

Even in 40s they saying that😂...grown old women Like me

[@JumpCutThis]

Nope they’re not women and you can’t convince me otherwise. Grown women know better and don’t use gender as a ridiculous excuse to be absolute garbage.

[@Brycasey]

I’m a stay at home mom and these women thinking it’s just getting pampered and doing whatever you want is not real life. They will know hard work when being home with kids. This is the hardest job I’ve ever done, staying at home is not for weak.

[@Mistysilvermist]

I mean some ladies do get spoiled and don’t have to do much

[@ishwaaq191]

@@Mistysilvermistbeing a stay at home *mother* required work and labour even if you have a supportive spouse. Acting like it doesn’t require work is undermining everything that goes into being a stay at home mother

[@Mistysilvermist]

@@ishwaaq191 I simply said some women get that treatment

[@Brycasey]

@@Mistysilvermist yes some do, but the majority that isn’t their life.

[@amilton1911]

Should be I’m just a dummy.

[@SocialSymone]

😂 😂 😂

[@user-nd3tg5zn1b]

Yes 😂😂😂😂

[@lianicole2526]

😂😂😂

[@dreaarzu157]

😂 I was jammin to “debt ain’t nothin but a number” 😂🎵

[@SocialSymone]

THE "DEBT MIX" 😂 😂 😂 and thank yoooouuuu!!! What song needs to be on there next lol

[@genzillennial]

No because she can actually sing low key 😂

[@frankr.]

I was swaying and snapping fr 😂

[@Richard-Reloaded]

Coming soon to all streaming platforms.

[@SocialSymone]

Y’all are hilarious 😂 I love yall!

[@BloodClotCryin]

And "boys will be boys" harms other people.

[@NJNOTMJ]

Whataboutism at its finest. It's OK, im sure "you're just a girl".

[@Luvs2spwge-xu6rd]

It’s started cause of that…saying they’re getting back at people for saying that… But being bad back to a bad thing just makes it worse?? It reinforces that girls are stupid and can’t do anything I need men it’s not making men think “oh they’re so funny” it’s making them feel like “OK I’m correct”

[@Kay.lon.]

Both true.

[@VBoo459]

Very very true, factual. In fact “boys will be boys” destroys other people’s lives, especially women’s lives. “Just a girl” only damaged your own, but they’re still both stupid.

[@sebastianmosqueda5959]

Depends on the context. Originally, "Boys will be boys" came from how we used to fight eatchother when we were boys. For us, it's the natural progression into becoming a man. It got ruined when people started to use it as an excuse for other things. Just like "I'm just a girl" is being used right now.

[@alwayswondering127]

Sorry the gym dude was in the wrong, who doesn’t take their own weights off? Is he actually just taking the piss?

[@verov9234]

He obviously doesn’t know gym etiquette. Loud and wrong smh how embarrassing for him 😬

[@BuyLessJess]

I am not working for us to buy a $800k house, I work to pay off a $400k house early.

[@LADYSILVERWOLF028]

Yes!

[@just_another_random_viewer_]

The intro was giving Hamilton 😭🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@SocialSymone]

I had to look it up and it said it's some musical 😂 😂 😂 thank you!

[@kay9056]

​@@SocialSymone it was a very high compliment. Hamilton isn't "some" musical. It very well might be the musical of all-time or in the modern era, at least in the top 3.😊

[@cheyanneturner5158]

It was VERY Hamilton

[@Smileychild22]

I hit the LIKE so fast after the rap 😅😅

[@SocialSymone]

@@kay9056Thank you for letting me know, I appreciate the love from each and every one of you ❤ ❤ ❤

[@Eddysig]

0:39 SHE'S GONE ROGUE Y'ALL 😭 I'm dying you're so sweet and fun girl this is why I'm watching

[@cclee6987]

I'm saying no to the $800k house because why tf do we need an $800k house? Qualifying for something and needing something are far different. If my partner qualifies for $400k then we should start by looking at houses half that price. If the logic is the same we can go in on the

[@EtherBunny-z7k]

It’s giving strategic incompetence, and it’s gross no matter who you are.

[@KoboldAdvocate]

"2010's girl boss" is a statement that shouldn't make me feel as old as it does

[@marsryan7940]

All these takes are on, except “why’d you go to college if not to work?” Girl I went to college bc I HAD TO. I went to college bc I have a life ahead where I’m gonna need a place to stay and an electric budget and nobody gonna pay that if I don’t. I didn’t go to college bc I want to work, I don’t work bc I want to work. I work bc it’s the only way I’m going to not be on the streets and I don’t want to be in the streets just slightly less than I don’t want to work.

[@EverythingisWajo]

No Doubt’s song was pure sarcasm. Dear lord

[@Weyland_Yutani_Corp]

It was only in the mid-70s that women were finally given the right to hold a bank account or a credit card in their own name without needing to have a man (husband or father) to co-sign the application. If a woman were unmarried, it was practically impossible to hold an account. Is this where they want to go back to?

[@cinycaybudgets]

I bought my home almost 2 years ago, by myself, with my kids. Blood, sweat and tears. Just maybe a month ago, I doing my garden, and my kids dad came into town. And a neighbor kept driving up to my house, to then pull over and ask me who lives here. Yes, I'm the only black person who lives on my block. Anyways, the guy was talking to my kidd dad the whole time about MY HOUSE. I had to pause their convo and correct everything, and he was shocked that I could do that. So this trend pisses me off.

[@TheRealCatof]

If Trump gets elected, that is exactly what will happen

[@ashyroy9454]

Wow, so US was really that freaking bad? That's scary

[@JumpCutThis]

Wut? Who told you this? I’m afraid I’m gonna need some sauce for this. Congress _PASSED A LAW_ (equal credit opportunity act) in 1974, but before that, if women were widows, husband doing time, single mom for whatever reason, what do you think they did? Of course there were Neanderthals that worked in finance that didn’t think women _should_ be doing their own finances, but by and large that was the exception and not the rule. And there were actually laws on the books before ECOA, but no real way to enforce them; that’s what the verbiage did, allowed charges to be brought. I’m not sure how this wildly untrue rumor got its start, but I literally see this at least once a day. I know for a fact that it’s incredibly wrong because my grandma was doing her books for the farm since 1955 (which she owned outright after my grandfather’s early demise) and she successfully managed them until her own death in 1989. This included checking, savings, several lines of credit, and when they began coming around, a few emergency credit cards.

[@klt9874]

As a Gen Xer that actually listened to Gwen Stefani and this song, this is absolutely NOT what this song or her whole brand was about.

[@JumpCutThis]

Thank you. It was completely ironical in nature and meant to mock morons using that as an excuse.

[@girlysoap9031]

fr she even said "its all that u let me be" they dont see her as anything but a dumb girl and shes rebelling!

[@alientingz7733]

The guy who was talking about the girl at the gym was wrong. He should've put his weights back once he was done. I thought that was common sense. If you go get anything from the racks to use, after using them, you PUT IT BACK. That goes for everyone unless someone asks you to keep it there or asks for it because they've been waiting for whatever you have.

[@cammaster50]

Intro is 🔥🔥

[@SocialSymone]

thank you so much ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

[@majesticfoxes842]

15:00 bros crashing out about her saying I’m just a girl 💀 but yea matter of fact DO take the weights off acting all weird…

[@memefree3101]

The problem I have with this is its taking us backwards in time when women were seen as stupid and just property.

[@TheOpy83]

About the weights in the gym: yes, it is gym etiquette to rerack your weights. It happens a couple of times that I wanted to use the leg press, but probably a gym bro had used it before and did not bother to rerack them. There were 4 25 kilo plates on one side and 4 25 kilo plates on the other. It was an enormous amount. I was already tired because I was approaching the end of my workout, so I had little force left, so I just chose to do some other exercise, because I could not lift all that weight.

[@JordanClemons]

"Im just a....voiding accountability "

[@Truechildofgod]

Girl you killed that pretty Ricky remix for debt 😂

[@SocialSymone]

THE "DEBT MIX" 😂 😂 😂 and thank yoooouuuu!!!

[@stephanied6711]

I agree

[@meeshacrayton3412]

And did 😂😂😂

[@baby.nay.]

I’m really sick of the irresponsible driving if you’re bad at driving, don’t get in a car. I’m 36 in the amount of my friends that are dead now because they were hit by irresponsible drivers is a lot.

[@cherryivana1129]

I’m so sorry wtf🥺🥺🥺

[@jdeux3677]

Just saw a 30 yr old using that to justify her bankruptcy, talking about a "new start", yeah in 7 years

[@Ayami861]

Bankruptcy at 30?!?! What did she do??

[@raylayaaaa]

@@Ayami861you only file bankruptcy if you are depths and depths and depths into debt

[@jdeux3677]

@@Ayami861 credit cards. They were flaying her in the comments for being so non chalant

[@Ayami861]

@jdeux3677 She had to have opened every credit card known to man and maxed them out. Sheesh! If she thinks it's a new start, she'll just do it again...she hasn't learned smh

[@jdeux3677]

@@Ayami861 probably, she travels a lot.

[@vl9290]

Attemptedsoc laid it out like I would. I'm highly independent despite my disabilities and it drives me wild the women around me that fall on this excuse so much. It's wild

[@SocialSymone]

Yes, she had some very good points and was well spoken ❤️

[@NunyaNomi]

Struggle makes us resilient and women like that either have no life experience, are lazy, or have never truly struggled. Adversity exposes our true capabilities and I am so happy you are on that path with me. Love from Minnesota!

[@vl9290]

@NunyaNomi with absolute, I disagree a little bit. Are a portion of these people entitled folks who have never suffered? Yes, absolutely. I'll be the first one to say that I don't know the statistics, but my personal experiences is not with folks who grew up with money or without adversity. So many of these are people who grew up in poverty themselves (and I say this as a person who thought she grew up poor due to parents framing when in fact I was on the higher end of lower middle classdonmy instinct is that social media is encouraging it while also making it more apparent. Nevertheless, sending love from Philly. I love my little community that is all about mutual support. I don't go it alone, but it is always a two way street!!!

[@chegu613]

​​​@@NunyaNomi nah I don't agree. I struggled a ton and I could abolutely see someone who struggled acting this way. It can be a form of resignation, e.g. when you have been parentified as a child and always had to have it together for everyone else. Pushing away responsibility as an adult by claiming "I'm just a girl" can totally be a response to such an upbringing, since they might have never been allowed to "just be a girl," they had to be an adult at 5 years old. Parentification of children is a serious issue that is unfortunately very common - resilience only takes you so far until you resign.

[@Emmere]

You can’t tell me that there isn’t a bigger agenda at play with the “trad wife/soft life/I’m just a girl” trends. I swear the more women achieve in career and academics, the more of these weird videos promoting helplessness and dependency comes out. There’s nothing inherently wrong with any of those things, but I feel like it’s something more sinister at play.

[@caramel_belight]

I started background singing with you 😂 Debt is “nothing but a number” until you start getting denied for a NUMBER of loans, regardless of the amount. “Being a girl” doesn’t stop the consequences that come behind it.

[@SocialSymone]

Exactly! You are spot on!

[@neneoneal4369]

Your videos are getting more and more interesting and funnier! I appreciate and love this content. My daily reminder that I don't need something lol!

[@Soonhun]

As a progressive, liberal, feminist man, I have realized how self-serving some people are. I am a restaurant server with high income, good benefits, and money saved up for things. So many of my women coworkers come off as progressive until it becomes about money. I had one coworker who tried to convince one of my other coworkers that just because she and her boyfriend has sex when they want, that he should be paying all of her bills. Like, what? I am sorry but is sex a transaction and not an expression of love anymore? It is disgusting how some people, men and women, approach relationships nowadays. Everyone is a prostitute with extra steps.

[@trishul_astradharini]

This behaviour and mindset is irksome. Considering how previous generations of women have had to work so hard for us to finally get taken seriously whether it is at our workplaces or society in general and here we are dismantling that. I work in a male-dominated field and I have to listen to taunts and references about girls and women being divas and inept and I cant even defend that because such behaviour is rampant. Seriously , women of the world , lets do better.

[@catherinewisniewski4333]

Oml I’m so glad you took the time to break down the difference between poor choices, and gendered preferences 🤦🏼‍♀️ too many people are continuing stereotypes by acting like women naturally love to have unhealthy spending habits!!!

[@kallistoindrani5689]

God. We are really helping the world see us as less aren't we?! And it's not as if the world needs help with that because there are a lot of places/countries/people that still view us as less smart, less strong, less worthy, less human.... All these sort of videos just add to that. The fact that other woman are doing it drives me crazy.

[@gokuwrightattorneyatlaw5227]

Which kinda has me worried. Alot of women before been through hell to over come impossible odds to ensure we were treated equal. Women with this bad "im just a girl" or "girl math" mindset seem to want to tarnish that. But that just how I see it

[@whatwasisaying1338]

@@gokuwrightattorneyatlaw5227 I agree.

[@RedDevilStudio]

Don't worry 'the world' knows its just Americans.😂

[@bnomaid]

I know this is completely unrelated but I was watching that show Under The Bridge last night & (spoiler alert) a murderer, Kelly said “but I’m just a little girl” after her lawyer told her she’s being held without bail. I paused and just had to take a moment to laugh about the similarity to your question yesterday. Like this teenager killed someone & pulls the “but I’m just a giiirrrrllll.” Straight up unaccountability is EVERYWHERE!! The show is based on a true story so I’m sure that part was dramatized but it doesn’t mean we don’t have lunatics out here who don’t act think that.

[@SocialSymone]

No, I can see why you said it! I do think that a lot of times we as women get passes for things based on our gender, and I won't deny that, but overall excusing bad behavior just because you are a woman is dangerous. Just like what you said about the show, Life will show you what he really is! Sometimes that statement is not gonna be enough!

[@Pinkclouds512]

That was a poorly noted spoiler 😒

[@lisahance]

Those words will never come out of my mouth!

[@SocialSymone]

😂 😂 😂

[@HorrorBiscuit]

@@SocialSymoneWhy can’t we have “I’m just a girl” when men have their weaponised incompetence? 🙃 But what do I know? I’m just a girl 😉

[@aesinam]

Two wrongs never make a right. Why stoop down to their level? ​@@HorrorBiscuit

[@SundaySpeaks]

I needed change for $100 bill that I got from an atm next to Sephora aha they told me that I had to buy something 🙄 I was annoyed and got the cheapest thing which was some makeup remover wires for $4. I do not need makeup remover wipes and am seriously considering returning them and getting my $4 back after this video😂 I’m mad at myself for not thinking of returning them immediately after I got the change yesterday 🤦🏾‍♀️ $4 could buy some noodles, avocados, tomatoes, a load of bread- something I could actually use.

[@SocialSymone]

You know what.... I'm not mad at this level of not wasting money. ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ always do what's best for you even if it's four dollars!

[@DeadDancers]

Do you mind if I ask why you got a $100 that needed breaking almost immediately? Am curious because I live in a mostly cashless society where $100 only exist in old people’s purses and they get dirty looks from the staff when they try to pay at the cafe with a $20 bill.

[@kay9056]

​@@DeadDancers old...smh ..the ATM didn't giver her a choice on denominations small toddler. Not all ATMs do. Cash is a great way to monitor spending and keeping on budget. Yes, as more and more of society falls into debt less and less cash is being used.

[@veronicashields4405]

I will tell you they legitimately probably couldn’t do it because most registers now program lock it unless it’s for a cash sale. I worked for Victoria Secret for years on the side, and it’s only in the last two that they’ve added locks on the No Sale function for opening the drawer. It requires a managerial override in most cases, and if one isn’t available, you’re stuck. It’s an anti-theft mechanism that causes more problems than it fixes.

[@crazy4beatles]

I totally would have returned it right then and there. Same cashier. No nastiness, just, if that's the policy then that's the policy. It goes both ways

[@thehobbiist]

I’ve been subscribed to you but this video touched my heart lol. The freestyle, the pretty Ricky reference yassssss

[@stephanied6711]

I haven't heard Pretty Ricky in a min

[@imaginarypotato9312]

Neither my boyfriend and I WANT to work. I think most people would prefer a life of luxury to a life of responsibility, but that’s not reality! I’d love to spend my day snuggling with my dogs and watching KZbin, but we have bills to pay - and it wouldn’t be fair for me to expect him to work his ass off to support that lifestyle for me and not for himself! But we own our home, we own our cars outright, and we are both student debt free. So while maybe we don’t luxuriate in designer bags and international vacations on the regular, we are taking care of our sh*t and preparing for a future of stability. I think THAT is what I deserve to do for myself as “just a girl.”

[@buntyjoy1800]

I'm just a girl = I take no responsibility due to having learning difficulties

[@demetreusd.robysr.8446]

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I’m just a girl, I need $12,000 dollars! Boo hoo for stuff I like 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 this can’t be real?

[@gokuwrightattorneyatlaw5227]

The video barley started and I'm already annoyed by these type of women making dumb excuses to make the rest of us look bad. Stop making bad stereotypes with "girl" this "girl" that. The intro was 🔥. You should make a diss track about these type of women that make dumb decisions 😂

[@babifacedcutie09]

It’s absolutely good gym etiquette to take off the plates. Idk why he’s yelling 😂 15:00

[@kay9056]

Her songs need to be part of her brand and i need a collection!

[@SocialSymone]

👀 Thank you so much for your compliment, I appreciate it! 💓

[@panamera53]

Gym etiquette is a must or get your own at home gym equipment....

[@Stachios77]

I see trends like this and I think about how to this day if a woman wants to have a hysterectomy,she needs a man to sign on for the doctor to proceed in a lot of states. How women are still being over worked and underpaid. How long and hard the suffragettes had to fight for us to have the right to vote. Every time I think we have made significant progress in society, things like this start up and I realize this, this is the EXACT reason why we are not progressing. Sighhh🤦🏾‍♀️

[@yourdadhasadogfilter2505]

A lot of influencers are selfishly playing into stereotypes nowadays

[@vvitch-mist20]

I feel for the woman who doesn't wanna work.I didn't wanna work either since I wanted to write for a living, which I also complain about doing lol. It's hard sometimes.

[@SocialSymone]

I know some women just wish that they didn't have to work and I can understand that but unfortunately, a lot of people need to work to survive and they still have that. I don't want to work mentality and they actually don't work. I feel like you, Gotta make a choice at that point! ❤️

[@vvitch-mist20]

@@SocialSymone I agree with everything. I will never give up writing bc while it can make me wanna pull my hair out, it's a problem I'm willing to put up with lol

[@mariegiardini]

They are right they are just an immature GIRL! They are NOT grown mature WOMEN! These social media "skits" are not doing this women any justice but making them put their clownery on full display 🙄and any man with an inkling of common sense will avoid them like the plague but what are the chances of that happening 😒...

[@kaaystackzz]

you had me with the rapping and singing!!😂😂😭

[@doublecommenter5161]

Women like these are great for the economy.

[@emilinebee6280]

Why would you want an 800K house? You should save. Also, not wanting to work with young children is completely understandable.

[@francesheredia86]

Girl! You were keeping that voice secret to us!

[@bobbyhinner3225]

This is actually a good thing. These women would still be horrible with money without this trend, but because of the trend, they're putting it out into the world, so we all know to avoid them.

[@Ms.AnnDrist]

11:16 - 11:56 I'm opposed because I would rather live in a $400-$600k house and live comfortably, and put a little work into the house. Live below our means with double income.

[@Magicwithizz]

Just wanted to note that the man at 12:00, while he has some points about certain types of women, he is using this to say all women (such as his comment on the dating pool) are lazy. Let’s be careful about who we platform. I can guarantee you he’s part of that manosphere shit

[@stolenart9290]

It's okay to be sarcastic, ironic and use self-deprecating humour but than trends like this that lump everyone with them.

[@cosmotzu]

that beat ATE!!! 😂😂😂❤️

[@SocialSymone]

😂 😂 😂 DID IT? THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! I was beating on my desk!

[@kimu.6227]

Your channel is a breathe of fresh air. Thank you SOOO much for letting me know I am not alone in this world.

[@SocialSymone]

Thank you so much!

[@stephanied6711]

I hate working too but I'm not over here being a brat about it

[@DeadDancers]

I wonder how much of this comes from the ‘born sexy yesterday’ ‘ideal’ that a lot of girls grow up saturated with. When I grew up, twirling your hair and acting dumb in order to appear attractive (and doing it, because you were too young and ignorant to understand that it wouldn’t attract any kind of good attention) was simultaneously looked down upon *and* recognised as the most successful strategy to ‘get a boyfriend’ that none of us really wanted but felt keenly that we were supposed to have - and nobody wanted the last ‘picks’. These days, with the escalation and oneupmanship of social media, it seems only natural that the ‘act dumb to get x y or z’ outcome has turned into what we see today. It sucks for all of us.

[@Vashthestampede967]

Aahhhhh i got a read!!! I love this so much! Thank you! .....sorry for the headache you likely had but thanks for the shout out! Hope you have a blessed day!

[@SocialSymone]

Yes you did and I hope you have a great one too ❤️

[@asimpleram]

Saying "but im just a girl" is so infantilizing. I'm just a girl! I cannot do adult things!

[@cannoncolossus2449]

Bro should have taken the plates off after his set. That’s common courtesy. It has nothing to do with gender.

[@license2Bort]

UNDENIABLE TALENT! 😂

[@Hannahbets]

Lol I love confident people she's awesome

[@SocialSymone]

Thank you ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

[@suvi1502]

If you fake laugh after every point you make in a short video to emphasize how ridiculous something is you immediately lost credibility because I’m just annoyed now. Anyways besides that annoying dude yeah I agree this trend is harmful. Edit: the dude freaking over the plates, he was def in the wrong

[@PookiesFriendRayRay]

Busting out into the Pretty Ricky was crazy 😂😂

[@ThePugPrince]

My wife gets to be a stay at home mom but people don’t realize that she most definitely is working harder and longer than I do when I go to work daily. These woman who want to be “pampered” haven’t done anything to deserve that. When my children move out I’m going to make sure my wife can do whatever she wants while I go work, she earned it.

[@_bxnes_]

I’m Just a Girl (Social Symone) _____________________________ There's a trend called… “I'm just a girl” out (I’m just a girl) Inspired from Gwen Stefani, she from ‘No Doubt’ (I’m just a girl) And the really crazy thing about this trend is…(I’m just a girrrrllll) They say it when they irresponsible and reckless, ooh! You hit the curbside? You unfazed (Oopsies) Use a mascara brush for your braces (Huh? Wait?) And though we had a good laugh because it’s funny (I’m just a girrrrllll) You won’t be just a girl when you broke with no money, OOP!

[@SocialSymone]

I love it!! You was listening 👂 💗

[@_bxnes_]

@@SocialSymoneit was so good i had too😭

[@ewidontlikeyou]

I am a saver. Some women don't care about makeup or nails or going out which seems to help a lot lol. I'm blessed that I am almost ay my savings goal so I can be more aggressive with my brokerage/IRA.

[@raylayaaaa]

Dude tell me about it, I rather have that extra “spending money” sit in my SoFi account so it can grow over time lol. we have to live in the now moments all this “girl math” “I’m just a girl “ mentalities have to stop

[@raylayaaaa]

Dude tell me about it, I rather have that extra “spending money” sit in my SoFi account so it can grow over time lol. we have to live in the now moments all this “girl math” “I’m just a girl “ mentalities have to stop

[@nelliesmith5699]

If some man told me we could get a $800k house together I would have also said no😂. Nobody in the right mind should be wanting to pay for a $800k house.

[@flooshoomoo7104]

He know he needs to reset that machine

[@minji03]

Ok that guy with the weights was just wrong. I get really annoyed when i sit at a machine and the person before me didn't reset the weights.

[@MyeshaB]

Your Pretty Ricky rendition was hilarious😂

[@saybrittaney]

You betta hit them Pleasure P notes girl 😂😂😂😂

[@franforbes5103]

Baby, I love you, but I just don't want to sign up on an $850,000 house with anybody! My salary cannot make a meaningful dent in a mortgage payment that large. How about if we get the $400,000 house and I'll help you with that. But 850k is just too damn much. That's how a grown ass woman would answer that question.

[@SocialSymone]

I agree with you. I'm not a fan of getting more just because I would have thought the 400k house was fine! 💓

[@Human-lg8hb]

12:12 I would only pay if my name is also on the papers as an owner. If something bad happens then I am still entitled to half of the house. If I pay and get nothing out of it then, no, i’m not paying.

[@stephanietambwe7512]

😪😪😪 40K in debt??!! 😢 ugh this is so frustrating to hear. She’s gonna have to be responsible real quick cause her kids don’t need to be picking up on those bad financial habits. 😅

[@lisaleone2296]

I never call myself a girl, of any kind, or use the phrase "girl math" or "girl dinner". I am a WOMAN. I pay my bills, I handle my business. If you are over 18 and say "I'm just a girl", what you really mean is "I'm stupid, spoiled, selfish, and lazy." I'm glad you ended on the graduate student ... the practice of budgeting so that all of your expenses come out of one of your two monthly checks is very smart. Good for her.

[@shady4chi]

Grown children.

[@SigEMT09]

Number one hit of the week! 😂

[@shaylataylor9525]

It is absolutely gym etiquette to take off the weights you use and to clean the area you were laying on as well. He did neither. He also said "female"... Ew

[@SurfsUp993]

14:35 Oscar De La Hoya face is wrong af.

[@kingsgold]

Woman at 21:00 I think makes $150k a year, she makes too much to qualify for a Roth. $3400 per paycheck AFTER taxes is a crazy amount of money before taxes. We ware talking over $10k per month before taxes. She makes enough to max out her Roth for the year in 1 month. After that, she basically needs to open a post-tax investment account if she wants to continue to invest her money and save.

[@thecosmicbug]

BARS! 😂 Your videos get more and more interesting 👏🏿 -BUG🐞

[@SocialSymone]

Thank you so much, Where you been at sis? I ain’t see you in the comments for a while, but I’m glad to see you here today! Hope all is well ❤️

[@thecosmicbug]

@@SocialSymone I've been around big sis! I've been focusing on bettering my finances, momming hard and fitness 🫶🏿. But you know I had to check in on you! I hope you're doing well! ❤️

[@skeletonbeats6483]

An 800k house isn’t a smart idea anyway if you can’t afford it if your spouse gets laid off. You should strive for a cheaper mortgage, not try to get the biggest thing possible to your future self’s detriment.

[@伏見猿比古-k8c]

The song at the beginning was 🔥