The Ideal Seducer

Robert Greene is the author of the New York Times bestsellers The 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Seduction, The 33 Strategies of War, The 50th Law, Mastery, The Laws of Human Nature, and most recently, The Daily Laws.
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Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
0:26 - Arm Yourself With Weapons of Persuasion
1:17 - Choosing the Person to Seduce
3:03 - People Are Dying For Adventure
3:51 - The Types of Seducers
6:24 - What Makes for a Good Male Seducer
7:25 - Confidence in Seduction
7:50 - Vulnerability and Empathy
8:51 - Pleasures of Seduction
10:50 - Not Always so Nice
12:06 - Letting Go of Defenses
14:31 - We Want To Be Seduced
15:26 - Enter their spirit
16:22 - Why You’re Attracted to The Wrong People
17:23 - The Art of Charm
18:21 - The Anti-Seducer
19:16 - Keep Seducing
20:17 - What Makes a Great Seducer

[@RobertGreeneOfficial]

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[@tongobong1]

You still didn't get the essence of men seducing women the natural way like our prehistoric ancestors did it.

[@TrietLyCuocSongGSH]

I am Vietnamese, I am having difficulty ordering the book from you

[@ReadingRainbowPantyhose]

I just purchased mine :) Thank you

[@CuriousAdarsh-mu3mo]

Robert greene is one of those writers who only writes masterpieces or whatever he writes becomes a masterpiece

[@mrpandabearofficialchannel673]

You haven’t read other books then

[@acid_thund3r]

Are you insinuating that the comment is not true ?

[@CuriousAdarsh-mu3mo]

@@mrpandabearofficialchannel673 I would very much like some example. As for me, i have read mastery, strategies of war, laws of human nature, 48 laws of power and the art of seduction. Yes its true there are other books like the 50th law which i haven't read yet but all those books above are to the point, no self help bullshit just pure knowledge and very much applicable. Aint that enough to appericiate the author?

[@SiriNoloc1012]

Accurate!

[@Banita-1]

Right

[@Jollofpappi]

Robert, your book on seduction is the most potent. The stories of Mark Antony, Charles de gualle, FDR, cassanova, Eva Duarte etc are mind blowing! Your teachings on the power of words, gifts, absence, charm, boldness has tremendously improved my love and social life. God bless you brother

[@TheExistenceClass0]

Over Boldness So called Being Inginited With Desire makes Her Afraid she Thinks You are Childish And A Threat To her Body !

[@TheExistenceClass0]

2nd Thing The Sudden Surprise! It doesn't Work Too I did It She Was Terrified! Only those Surprise Are best Which She Must Be Expecting from you

[@Jollofpappi]

@@TheExistenceClass0 that’s why you have to maintain neutrality before surprising her with your boldness and desire. Read the book again brother

[@TheExistenceClass0]

@@Jollofpappi hh Homie I Printed the Book From my cousin friend's Computer Bcz It was Not Available In our Country! I Bunked The Classes and Readed It Alone With Passion & Love ! I Was Reading and Applying The Information At the same Time talking With Women ! I've Read It More Than the Hairs on Sheep body

[@TheExistenceClass0]

@@Jollofpappi I will Say That You Must Not Feel You Know It Before Applying Just by reading it

[@AzuraNZMetal662]

From a young man who was going down a dark road in life - thanks for your books. I really believe you have helped make me a better person.

[@eleanorwalmsley635]

How wonderful 💖

[@skanderbenamor4411]

I wish for a Robert Greene's book teaching us his complete process of creativity and how to write... That would be a game changer.

[@stanleyvenge]

Go through the clips and you will see

[@skanderbenamor4411]

@@stanleyvenge 30 seconds clips or 5mn videos are not enough to cover all the aspects of a process like writing books. Personally I prefer books like Mastery or maybe courses!

[@TishLiddell]

The Art of Seduction is the only book of yours I've ever read, and it was decades ago. Like you, I enjoy any information, text, or media that informs about the people in our lives. I've probably used your book more to avoid more toxic types over the years. And I've really needed it. Knowledge can be the best defense. Thank you for giving this piece to the world.

[@GlassCannonGaming-so5yh]

You really need to read "law of human nature" and "48 laws of power" also

[@ericO141]

There is a fine line between being a “pleaser” and making the other person feel important or heard. I think the difference (from this video) is that one is insecurity (still self-centered) and the other is from genuine consideration of the other person (outward-oriented and generous). I think that’s one of the most difficult things to balance.

[@operationblackbishop4785]

When you try both polarities pleasing and non-pleasing, agreeable and fully disagreeable, you understand that truth is the last law of power. Not having a form, being formless, or as Bruce Lee told being like water . Meaning, you choose tactics and strategy based on the situation, not in advance. There definitely can be situation that being pleaser can work better than anything else. You just need to calculate what you sacrifice and what you gain. It is all based on the situation.

[@blitzkrieg6872]

This comment is so thought provoking and true, that I just read it about 5 times in a row to really catch the gist of it. What you are saying is so true. My mother has always been a woman who is genuinely curious and interested in others and it shows. She asks important questions that are of the "safe" kind and very non intrustive. She is not interrogating anyone, nor trying to be a "pleaser". She has a way of drawing people out of themselves and makes them want to share their passions in life. It's very flattering to be in the presence of an individual that shows genuine interest in others.

[@pragneshbamanya5079]

@@operationblackbishop4785 could you please tell me more about it!

[@michelejosey1900]

@@operationblackbishop4785 this is also similar to something I read in the strategies of war. When we operate from a situational lens we will accomplish our objective more often than not.

[@operationblackbishop4785]

@@michelejosey1900 exactly Do you remember where exactly it is?

[@lauralyons3825]

I got today the 33 Strategies of War😊 I have the Art of Seduction and I keep reading it. I never thought that the 33 Strategies was also for me but I found it on my local bookstore and started reading it and I knew only one thing, that I couldn't leave without it❤ Gracias Robert,.

[@amitbarc]

My mentor, my guru in navigating life in these volatile times !!

[@lifevision1254]

Thank you Robert, absolutely cherish your insights, research and wisdom. ❤

[@m9j263]

Robert, more than 10 years ago, your books were a reference on some self-development/Pickup Artist person or community, and that that time I didn't took too much attention on yours books because I was not mature enough. And the sad part is I believe some people who recommended your books they also don't have the maturity, life experiences and sophistication to appreciate your works. Your works go across cultures and years - that for me is wonderful, I live in Europe. At 35 years old was when I finally had arrived the maturity to understand and appreciate your material. I am reading it now The Art of Seducation. Is a fascinating journey reading it.

[@xxmsp91]

Hi Robert. I have noticed that your stage presence in front of a camara had become noticeably more impressive as of late. It is inspiring for me to see someone I admire put his money where his mouth is and practice what he preaches - to be continuously learning. I have read all your books and your contents are an inspiration to my life. Thanks for yet again a wonderful content.

[@ameliarachlin198]

I can’t wait to read all of your books! Love your soul Robert! Hugs

[@stanleyvenge]

Bravoo🎉

[@dominik8371]

Great timing! Not only reading your books, but learning and analysing it!

[@TheExistenceClass0]

Sir I appreciate, How You Organized the works And Experiences Of Other Peoples Writings and Compiled Them For Us ❤️

[@jazminmi8617]

Your voice is so soothing! Love it! Thank you for the video!!

[@DouBBy-The-Great]

Your books are a magical experience to read... I swear i will read a chapter on something, once I go to school, i unconsciously apply what I've read 🥺It's just nothing short of magic, Words can't express my love for your work, sir

[@makeupbyizaaaa]

I am currently reading it and I’m just so fascinated about the history that you give examples and I love history just a different perspective in everything that you say in the book. Thank you, Robert.💓

[@louannegreiner]

Yes. Thankyou Robert Green.

[@anilthakor2329]

I wanna read what sir you read, the books behind you are making me want to read all of 'em.

[@dusk4092]

You are one of my favorite authors. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom, to help me see things much clearly. all your teachings has definitely made my life, as well as others much much better. Im sorry that I couldnt buy anything of you yet, but I read your writings very often.

[@user-dz1rc4wk2t]

After trauma i actually tried ridding my femine part as a preventive angle. I was terrifed attracting the wrong people. Then i learned it was planned. Now , i prtect myselt at all costs. I protect me

[@X66966]

Robert, you are an inspiration. I learned about you just one year ago, and I have read your two masterpieces, "The 48 Laws of Power" and "The Art of Seduction," which have been of immense help to me. I never miss your videos on KZbin, whether they are yours or a podcast where you're invited. Next, I am planning to read "Mastery" and "The Laws of Human Nature." I am eagerly waiting for your next masterpiece, "Sublime." Thank you so much for everything. Love from the Northeast of India. 🇮🇳

[@rohan01ify]

Even Bro I am from Assam,North East.Robert Greene is a gem bro!❤

[@X66966]

@@rohan01ify hello, North Eastern brother 👋🏻. We're neighbours man, I'm from Meghalaya. True that! He is a gem.

[@rohan01ify]

Meghalaya which place bro?

[@X66966]

​@@rohan01ifyShillong City.

[@X66966]

​@@rohan01ifyShillong bro.

[@samanthadudley9447]

Robert this was a great collection from your book. I just Loved listening to your thoughts out loud. I usually look at how much time the video has left, as I am watching. I was just enthralled in what you were saying, I was a little upset when it was over. Thank you

[@ronakvorafitness1684]

Thank you for all that you do Robert 🙏 Look forward to meet you someday and thank you personally.

[@doctormudbone4432]

Just finished AOS and this video helped bring everything together. Time to start Laws of Human Nature.

[@rf2632_]

This is GOLD! I love you Robert!

[@pretty_taurus11-11]

Agreed!

[@tacticaldagger]

Thank you, Mr. Greene.

[@Mperor_Niho]

You can’t take me for granted!!! Thank you sir for your knowledge

[@nooraslam2893]

You are providing such amazing stuff, thank you for educating us, huge respect to you sir. Love from Pakistan

[@itachiyt8525]

This is the best book and source about the topic. Thank you, Robert Greene, for that masterpiece, and I can't wait for your next book❤

[@EcomCarl]

Robert insights remind us that true seduction is not just about attraction but about deep emotional and value-based connections. Focusing on shared journeys and experiences can create meaningful relationships far beyond superficial interactions.

[@muhammad-emdad-rony]

Always waiting for your new speech from Bangladesh.

[@oli1949]

Such another great Video, thank you

[@TrietLyCuocSongGSH]

Your shares are great. You are the most inspiring person I have ever met

[@ricardomontalban2954]

My favourite book, i read in it every day ❤

[@stanleyvenge]

Include the Bible on your list...

[@emmettloyd7862]

thank you greene.

[@Tomisinshalewa]

The GOAT has posted again🤩

[@yudollia]

YASSS ROBERT GREEN KEEP SLAYING

[@qwertykiki]

Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge, mr. Greene ❤️. i love your book of seduction! A truly masterpiece!

[@Earthmuffin78]

Brilliant 👏 reading the book now

[@vamsisudhir8567]

My favorite author and a role model ❤

[@zap_sigma1]

Economics is not limited to just money (though we often assume such.) Economics teaches us vital principals for ALL areas of life, especially relating to others. Economics is based upon the scarcity of something determining it's value in terms of both quality & quantity. If the quality of your presence is very high, both qualitively AND quantitively, your presence is more likely to be desired & less likely to become common/unappreciated. As long as you are carrying yourself rightly, in this area, anyone who still doesn't regard you correctly just simply isn't someone meant for us. Which also challenges us to defeat tendencies to be codependent. One More Thing: Never confuse codependency for extroversion or introversion for social awkwardness.

[@Rosie-KM]

i like how you put this! Thank you

[@adamtalbi6232]

Great video as always ❤

[@AqibAli-ok8hz]

Sir I am From Pakistan 🇵🇰 I read your 48 laws of power book and this book very useful for me Thanks So Much❤❤

[@romeyo9588]

I'm currently reading your book " mastery". Since English is not my native language, I have some difficulties for comprehension. But I will try my utmost to figure out the ideas you laid out in the book.

[@EleganX627]

Saludos , Robert Greene! You are one of my favorite writers😎

[@TheLove1Makes]

Bought all your books.

[@Joelavar]

I have his book,The Art of Seduction..It's all worthwhile!

[@Omkar-221b]

I have sell it for 500 dinar to a person from Kuwait ...later he called me and asking for translated copy😂

[@alexplotkin3368]

Great book.

[@user-io5mt1hf5g]

Hi Robert Greene , question , between these men which one would you be if you could be one of them and why and this is just a question , so you are free to pick neither one if that the way you’re gonna be about it , all three are listed below ? The Man Who Has Everything The Man Who Knows Everything The Man Who Always Wins

[@Kevinj36541]

None of those men actually exist. They can try to lead you to believe those things though.

[@ajinkyavidwans4134]

A very interesting question indeed. The Man Who Has Everything: Nothing to strive for. The Man Who Knows Everything: No element of thrill or adventure. The Man Who Always Wins: The only desirable option, IMO.

[@user-io5mt1hf5g]

@@ajinkyavidwans4134 I picked the one who always wins ! Never change my mind about that !

[@migueladrianvalevelazquez8703]

I was just re reading the art of seduction and this came out simply amazing

[@yattatwork1118]

he is the legend, a living legend

[@torukmato9765]

The best all time 🙌🏿

[@gamerdjack]

6:00 to 6:20 is talking about Aura.

[@sweetifer]

What does disinterest in money signify? I think it could signal a placing more value on creativity or spirituality but it could also indicate something negative like "I can't fail if I don't try."

[@user-kb8qw7dy4t]

Having pizza at home actually sounds refreshing to me because my life is normal so hectic.

[@catherinemurray2211]

Love you what a great mind ❤❤❤

[@MuscleBandit]

Top bloke 😎

[@Irisheyes179]

That hand tho 😂

[@TheExistenceClass0]

Sir I Also Wish If You were Not Only a Reader And Intellectual but Experimentor and a knower ❤☺️🥇

[@brendasaller]

I just dream about a Elon-Greene dialog

[@simonmoss3457]

The Rizz ❤

[@probrogamer222]

Sir you have given us a big power but with that we have big responsibility so please tell people not to be over manipulative and live there life with great relationships and a good career. This nature of humans to manipulate others is great tool as well as a disaster because people try to get what they want without thinking about harms.

[@kingeeric9961]

Damn I think I have some 'Dandy-ish' and 'Starish' fire in me ✨

[@AbdallahBotan]

Again, Mr. Greene, can you upgrade your sound system. See your podcast with Mr. Andrew Huberman is so good. But when you go back to your home studio, the audio is not that good.

[@saokoc]

but how to become vulnerable tho, idk why this is so difficult for me

[@ddem3150]

I wish Dr Greene would describe how to live to 40 or 50 with low success and how its the most popular way.

[@chaharmaneelkaher1468]

Vous pouvez lui dire de faire les video en vostfr en français

[@missmurrydesign7115]

Dr. Greene is brilliant; he deserves a much better barber/hairdresser/stylist..

[@rhondafowler7936]

😅 God Bless him🙏🥰

[@Mperor_Niho]

How would someone want to live back their trama ?

[@ffriend258]

Thanks for making people behave weird these days, Robert! Its a great book that gives you a deep insight into people's psyche but I think these days too many people read it or somehow heard of these techniques. The result of that is people trying these techniques on others and making weird social experiments...

[@dinnuadaripersonalaccount]

Focusing on the person infront.

[@ayliea3974]

Robert Greene, I love your brilliance! It's very attractive.

[@BVLINS]

Great video, please stop the heavy cutting, let it flow more naturally.

[@Szymon_So]

This seduction guru is up on stage, laying out all these technical, step-by-step techniques for charming the pants off someone. And the audience is jotting down notes, nodding like, "Yeah, I got this, I'm gonna be a smooth operator!" But then, fast forward to the real world, and you've got all these people trying to apply these techniques, but it's like watching a baby deer try to ice skate. One guy who's supposed to be "mysterious and alluring," but he just ends up brooding in the corner, looking like he lost his puppy. And the woman who's attempting to be "confident and assertive" coming off like a human bulldozer, steamrolling over everyone in her path. Quite seductive the technique itself.. But the real beauty is seeing people embrace their quirks and imperfections, not trying to fit into some cookie-cutter mold of seduction. Love and attraction can't be boiled down to a scientific equation. It's messy, it's weird, and that's what makes it beautiful... and absolutely hilarious to watch unfold.

[@Szymon_So]

Besides that some of the insights of this gentleman are quite elucidating. Let's just not forget that perhaps the last thing one would wish for is to feel like being just a target in someone's elaborate seduction strategy - executing their game plan of interrelationships trauma therapy with military precision.. Like being trapped in a bad rom-com, but without the charming montage and happy ending in sight.

[@ronnie1638]

Hmmm name ?

[@kgwgaming]

Please sir translate the book in Hindi 🇮🇳

[@devangsingh1372]

❤❤❤

[@DwyaneWadeCounty]

Hello, Mr. Robert Greene. I own a physical copy of _48 Laws Of Power_ . I would like to see you and Psyhacks AKA Dr. Orian Taraban do a collaboration. Please make it happen, Mr. Greene.

[@akohlan198]

Agreed

[@monarehayem5263]

Israeli seduction work no more after the attack on Gaza . Criminals use seduction as well . We should be smart to resist this and just be truly good genuine human being . Kind is not love , love is kind . Thank you Mr Greene ❤

[@pablomacias7393]

Can someone have all this traits you speak about?

[@cartermenz1536]

Break down the Kendrick Lamar vs Drake rap beef

[@incandescentserendipity]

Kendrick definitely used the laws of power

[@scorpiolove674]

🐐

[@user-cr6sz6fe6t]

Once upon a time, someone was trying to win me over and become my friend. He told me that everything is attracted to something that is its opposite. He meant positive and negative in the law of physics. What was I supposed to respond to him? It would be classy and would not hurt him and would not lower my status. I would contain it. For your information, he did not mean to tell me. With the information, he wanted to use the information to gain my friendship🐪🇸🇦❤️🙏

[@Someone-dq4zt]

Old age home here I come

[@olincekongo]

3:03 3:20 4:10 4:50 5:30 6:30 --> 7:20 9:00 10:40 11:20 11:50 12:20 13:20 14:08 14:50 15:30 15:40 15:58‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@olincekongo]

16:56 17:56 18:40

[@Tan.z29]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤️

[@princessesshusha8837]

❤❤❤❤

[@SheriArt]

👏👏👏

[@kellygdotart]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@Gravanohit]

Would you mind just connecting with a fam of your. My name is Ladaylyn Dew and I have an urge to talk to you. Reach out if you read this..

[@pharaohcaesar]

All of my life people always focus in on me. What am I doing? What am I saying? Who am I with? Who am I talking to? Who is saying what to me? Not that any of them are running up to me wanting to talk to me but everyone is all in my business like I'm some kind of celebrity even though I'm not. And I've always wondered why that is. Why can't people just see me and than look away. But it's never like that. Who is that guy? What is he doing? Why is he doing this or that? It's never ending. It's so bad that I've moved completely off grid away from most everyone except my little family. But even so they still talk about me and my kids and wife because people have a similar reaction to them too. Anyway, I've always wondered why. When I saw this video come up on my feed at first I didn't want to watch it because I'm not interested in seducing people. But I thought I'd watch it just to hear what you had to say about it with the initial understanding that I wasn't going to go out of my way to follow any of the suggestions you mentioned. What I find most interesting about most everything you've said is that you've basically explained how I act with people and with women and especially with women. You explained my exact attitude in dealing with women and my relationship with them. But I don't treat them that way with a motivation to seduce them. It's just that this seems the best way to deal with them to make the most pleasant relationship between me and them. So oddly enough, it seems that I've ticked off most of the boxes you've mentioned but not doing so with the motivation to seduce any of them but rather just acting normally. So I guess according to the things you've mentioned I'm a naturally seductive person even though that is not my intention. Anyway, that does better explain why everyone who knows me is all about my business all the time and why most of them seem completely addicted to me like I'm some kind of drug. Whether they be friends or enemies they are all completely addicted. Very intetesting. So to have more privacy I have to be less seductive so I have to be less like myself. How can I not be like myself?😨

[@pragneshbamanya5079]

just be normal uncle! you are different and people like individuals who are extraordinary and unique and not common. just be nice and clean . don't think too much, don't be too self centered about yourself.

[@cartiluscarlsky6127]

Robert your seductive book is the most powerful besides Mark Manson

[@servillanoamonciojr4614]

My ask sir robert greene how to escape bad habits 😢

[@Rope001]

Stop being a bitch

[@teenoso4069]

reaheated

[@a.maya12]

The only forgotten topic is the voice. Not all intelligent men have nice voice handling... And these are two best examples. Good ideas, good to be read, but no to listen for a long time.

[@elif-5349]

Some points I do not agree with. Like when a man needs to know when he needs to be invested and when he needs to know to disappear for one week. If someone disappeared for one week you”ll never see me again, most of us don’t have time to play along and just want someone who is as serious as I am.

[@TheJosiejumper]

Love is a dance you need to learn the steps there’s nothing serious about love it happens as is not with set rules

[@DP-qo9kl]

He means proper space.

[@christopherbramwell8262]

Think before you speak. And, seducing someone without being a people pleaser, takes making a GENUINE pesonal connection.

[@Hello-eg8fg]

Dr. Greene, random question. How can an attractive, kind, quiet woman who gets lots of attention from men repel them and let them know she has zero interest without hurting their feelings or even not saying a word at all?

[@Ammavirg]

Mens like impudent bitch. They dont like shy and kind women. Becose modern mens are silly and week perverts.

[@benzle93]

I don't think there's a good way. But, as a guy, I always appreciate a woman being straight with me..."I'm flattered that you're interested in me, but I'm not looking for a relationship. I do value your friendship, though."

[@pragneshbamanya5079]

just tell them straight its better to directly say no then be nice and hurt them in long run in thinking they have chance with you

[@tristecherie7464]

What makes you think it’s wrong to hurt feelings.

[@kitikadzo4980]

For Africans it is children/ people rather than animals