The KEY to Being Pursued by a Specific Person Once and For All!

[@ShellyBullard]

My 2 courses on Being Pursued: 🏵️How to be CLAIMED, CHERISHED, WANTED & ADORED by a Specific Person: yes.shellybullard.com/claimed-cherished-wanted-adored-now 🔮How to Be Missed, Contacted & Pursued by Your SP: yes.shellybullard.com/bemissedcontactedandpursued44786

[@michelleallison6577]

❤️ ❤️ ❤️

[@angelalacaprucia9407]

I look forward to your videos everyday Shelly! I’m beginning to understand more through you, but you’re truly my guide. Thank you for being you! 💗💗

[@angelalacaprucia9407]

God this video is sadly resonating with me!! 🙈 Lol, I think I may need to watch this everyday 🙃

[@sundayibhadon8429]

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[@sundayibhadon8429]

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[@rhirhi4726]

This happened to me, my sp pursued me and when I was interested and invested he pulled back saying not ready for a relationship. Now I have stepped back whilst he initiates texts daily, I then respond 💖 Thanks Shelly, this is so useful as I have always been an over giver. I guess it's never too late to learn at nearly 49!! 🤣🤣💖

[@ShellyBullard]

YAYYY! Happy you're learning this now! So good! You won't ever go back to the old way ;)

[@liuning7574]

This is happening to me now😂 exactly the same scenario! That's why I'm here seeking help from Shelly!

[@biakds5800]

Awesome I can relate !!! Great it’s never ever too late for learning!!!

[@juliarose9549]

I like this and I notice that I want to also be the one to text first at times and to initiate things....can there be a balance?

[@sandrafisherhayes3219]

Haha! So true RhIRhi you and me both! I am 59! So definitely never too late! 😄😄 I believe the alpha male in most men is so prevalent they need to pursue! They don't like it when the roles are reversed so they lose interest. This is based on personal experience. So now I know!

[@brunokilleen]

I’m going to repeat it over and over again “I AM OPEN TO RECEIVE”!!

[@ShellyBullard]

Love it!

[@samhitaparab]

I did it for a couple of times yesterday and it does feel awesome!😁💖

[@sunitafisher4758]

@@ShellyBullard 🌸 it works ! Thank you Shelly 💕

[@onlypositivevines4498]

@@sunitafisher4758 wat u did pls explain in details

[@Charlotteapaige]

This is definitely my pattern! Start as a receiver and then start pursuing and the relationship falls apart!

[@ShellyBullard]

So common. At least you understand it now though! That way you don't have to repeat this pattern again!

[@lisagutierrez8651]

Mine to relationship was great I shift roles was a pursuer I see my error plus was an over giver lead to a break up I desire my specific person back how when get blocked not talked over a week please Help !

[@sunitafisher4758]

@@lisagutierrez8651 🌸 sweetpea I reversed mine and he unblocked etc. Like you I wanted to show my love and gave too much I started by healing my inner child out of pure love for myself. Then I did self love, all of which are found on Shelly’s website or type it in (her name, inner child or self love). Shelly also has a vid called only one you need. kzbin.info/www/bejne/a4fSY2eJa7yJhM0 Also watch this one as she suggests kzbin.info/www/bejne/o3zae2ZpfLNkrM0 And kzbin.info/www/bejne/gYqvq4ejebx6o6M In your imagination recreate him as coming towards your with love, an apology, make him so that he can’t live without you etc. Do this for 5 days but have break for two, it’s fractionation I think that’s the word lol You have to feel it, your intentions must be powerful to override reality outside. Eventually your inner desires will become reality on outside ok 🤗✨ So essentially what I did in my inner world was knocked him off that pedestal and I elevated myself and placed myself as the centre of my inner world. I solely concentrated only on my goals, aspirations etc and I went out for grounding meditation in nature, I went for walks, runs etc. Or you can stay indoors & use chakra meditation, info free on internet & chakra frequency music is also free. That helped calm me and assisted me with placing myself as centre of my universe.

[@rafidaabdulmajid8988]

Thank you dear for sharing the tips... much love

[@sheffieldamanda]

Yes me too!

[@sonyawilliams7732]

Receiving feels like quiet confidence , trusting in the process knowing the connection is genuine and all will be well ultimately. Thank you,

[@ShellyBullard]

You’re welcome 🙏

[@SF-pm1ov]

Love that 💖

[@sandrafisherhayes3219]

Absolutely! 👍💜💚

[@naomi503]

I woke up today knowing that i am the prize, that there is nothing that i can’t manifest 🙌🏻 Im being persued now and i am open to receive love 💕

[@ShellyBullard]

Love it❤️

[@Blessings313]

yay!! 💖👍🏻

[@SF-pm1ov]

A ‘receiving’ meditation would be so amazing 🥰

[@karinakarlainlondon]

I’ve learned that men are naturally pursuer and women the receiver, it’s part of their masculine and feminine energy.

[@ShellyBullard]

Yes.

[@krezbalezy8420]

The one who is pursuing is in submissive state, have less energy thats why women should pursue man. Only beta males pursue, alphas are pursued thank you

[@krezbalezy8420]

@Phoenix F-Zero u are not so convincing

[@Weeeelium]

@@ShellyBullard hi Shelly does it mean I have to be the pursuer? Or I can be the receiver when I pursue too much

[@Lisa_M_V]

Yes so men who expect to be chased by women are too much in feminine or very insecure. Alpha males go getters are repulsed by women who take the lead ❤ 😂 just Joe Mother Nature made men from beginning of time that hasn’t changed.

[@navreetdhillon4117]

Pulling back, opening and receiving almost feels like a physical change of energy. One that feels natural and warm.

[@richalfernandes7726]

How to be pursued by someone who you love .? * once we understand energy and energy dynamics we can actually create. Energy of being pursued . * And also see into why have we been not pursued yet by them and why only we tend to pursue them. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ * this is popular topic cause many of them caught in this cycle . * first when you come towards your sp they do all the greats stuffs for you . Thsi happens in beginning * Later you start to feel needy, wanting more from them , and you start to move twords them . * And if there is needy and grasping energy they tend to push out . And start running from there . * And at the end when you see the relationship falls off you think what just happend * one way you can look into this as Momentum of energy . * Typically in relationship at given times one person is receiver and one person is pursued . * This is not stagnate this can change . You can also have your personal preference in the relationship. Who wants to take what roles . * This does not me only one person takes and one person only receives . * you have to see this in terms of energy , going in one direction that is more predominant. * When the relationship goes in good way the energy is flowing in one direction where both feel good. * When we start to involve more with them we tend to give more than require , like I have to reach out , I have to pursue . * We don’t even know we are doing this , it just happens . * we the receiver get into Pursuing energy . * we do all the things that they do normally sending texts to making plans etc . * How you can think about this is what moment the energy is going is it going from you to them or coming from them to you . This is being pursued . ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ * when the person who naturally wants to be the receiver and they are overly pursuing this doesn’t feel good . * first thing you want to do is track your own path watch for your action . * Check on where you energy flows majority of the times . ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ When you are in the position of pursuer what you do .? * this is mostly shifting out of the unconscious pattern . * Regardless you are manifesting your sp or new relationship . * What you want to do is step back just take a step back from what you are doing . * take back your thoughts , energy , feelings . Don’t allow your energy to flow towards them . * Hold back your energy , texts , class. * Step back into the receptive mode. * Don’t think about tehm all the time , don’t text them all time . * It’s not like don’t ever respond just see how much you need to do don’t do extra . * In the receptive mode you gotta train yourself to be receptive . * if your programmed into oevrly giving . * when you step back and don’t do anything , you will feel more stillness , calmness * and you can see more things coming towards you , your sp coming towards you . * Pulling back Opening Receiving . * You must feel yourself into open to receive. * You don’t have to be literal about what you want to receive . * just feel the essence that you are open to receive. * this is important to shift the momentum. *if you want to shift this you just got to hold back and just withdraw what your doing currently. * If your meant to be the receiver then the other is meant to be your pursuer . Thank You Shelly ❤️

[@ShellyBullard]

Amazing notes!

[@Dimitririchi]

Richal Fernandes Thank you 🌹

[@richalfernandes7726]

Shelly Bullard thank you ❤️

[@richalfernandes7726]

Dimitri Baby you’re welcome 😇

[@niveditanarayan9140]

Richal Fernandes u r the best.. thanks again.. have a great weekend

[@dangerzzzone2925]

I realized to be a receiver trust is very important. It's almost impossible to receive in fear or lack.

[@ShellyBullard]

VERY TRUE. #wisdom

[@g0ldenh0ur7]

I can't tell you how many videos I've watched on LOA, and attracting an sp. Not one has ever mentioned this. It always leaves me so confused as to what went wrong. Thank you so much for making this video! I am open to receive now ❤

[@passionatesoul2658]

*I AM being passionately pursued by my sp!* 😭🔥 Love you, BEAUTY! ❤️❤️❤️

[@ShellyBullard]

❤️🙏🥰

[@MValdezxo]

Love that !

[@user-wh5mc6nz6y]

I had this happen to me, he pursued me alot and all of a sudden it changed, after 3 months i told him i don’t wanna talk for a while and just focused on myself participating self love for me and saying my affirmations (not even including him) tbh wasn’t doing it to get him.. it was because i decided i dont deserve this and not accepting bs anymore, one week after he called to check in and few days later invited me to an event but told him i was busy. You either want me or you want me my man🙅🏻‍♀️

[@user-wh5mc6nz6y]

Bubu 30 no actually i have an anxious attachment style but this was the 4th guy i start seeing in a row that this had happened with so i had made my intentions very clear from the very beginning and he started acting up made me really feel disrespected and i wasn’t having that this time

[@aditimajumdar2736]

I can feel myself recieving the love my SP is giving me 😊....he's giving me love that I'm flattered to receive ❤

[@ShellyBullard]

Beautiful ❤️

[@DDDD269]

I am so grateful to you Shelly. I had lost hope, no contact with SP, terribly brokenhearted. Last night I had a dream about him. I woke up feeling so happy and hopeful. In my dream we were in his car coming back to my house, he was driving a bit recklessly and hit a cement post but he did not care. Next we were in my kitchen, he was standing over the stove cooking and I walked up behind to see if he needed help and he looked at me and smiled and said OK, yes...I do love you! I was so happy and asked him to repeat it and he just kept assuring me he still loved me. I was beyond happy and we kissed and embraced. I do hope this is a good sign as I have felt such distance for months. I will continue to watch your videos, practice self-love and I will manifest my man back. Thank-you! Any prayers would be greatly appreciated! :)

[@DDDD269]

@@dailylifeprayer8185 Thank you

[@libertybell9594]

This dream says to me... Actions speak louder than words.

[@kenishalperkins]

This WAS my biggest problem !! As of today it is NO MORE !!! Thank you Shelly !!

[@ShellyBullard]

Great! I'm so glad it helped!

[@francescagreetham1804]

“My partner loves taking charge” 💖

[@watchitanyway7889]

I count on your videos to put me on track every time

[@ShellyBullard]

❤️❤️❤️

[@Amber-xj5bq]

Fear honestly has compelled me to be in that mode! Fear of if I don’t reach out, will he? I see it’s not the way to be! Working a lot on myself to change the dynamic Thank you

[@shreyaspanda]

Apart from manifesting my specific person (ex girlfriend) I am also manifesting winning Shelly's e-books Manifesting is such an amazing experience My ex is going to pursue me

[@ShellyBullard]

🙏✨

[@arvj123]

Pulling back, opening, receiving. Got it. I love how there's a mnemonic device for it.

[@ShellyBullard]

Glad you liked it!

[@holyhyenas1759]

I've been pursuing everything and everyone my entire life and had no idea 😯 I am an over giver, over doer. Wow. Great message today Shelly. I have always been aggressive by pursuing and that can be a total energetic repellant. Didnt understand that until now. Thanks!

[@ShellyBullard]

You’re welcome!

[@Ashley-rp8fg]

This completely makes sense! I think this is why it's so important to heal from past trauma. Sometimes the neediness or feeling of being vulnerable that leads to the receiver pursuing someone can stem from being hurt in the past, etc. We can continue to repeat these patterns without realizing and wonder why we continue to experience heartbreak. Gem of a video Shelly!!

[@ShellyBullard]

Glad you liked it ❤️

[@sandrafisherhayes3219]

You hit the nail on the head Ashley! I found this became a bad habit of mine. Needing validation, approval from outside of myself stemmed from my fractious relationship with my father! Let's say we clashed a lot! He was a control freak to be honest and yet I still craved his attention 🤔🤔☹☹ an unhealthy habit to say the least! It took me years to find I did not need his approval or validation and that I am a powerful person in my own right!

[@dheema6348]

The intricacies of a relationship that you touch upon is amazing.. The amount of efforts you take to make us understand to stand in our own power and make our relationship beautiful is highly appreciated... So grateful to you Shelly ❣️😊 ❤️🙏

[@ShellyBullard]

❤️❤️❤️

[@Dinah5822]

I now wake up at 2 to eat apples and hydrate myself . #things aren't working

[@kelloggs777]

This is so funny but I after watching this several times, the feeling of being an outlet it what is coming to me, lol. The female side of a plug or outlet is receptive, still, and more open, whereas the male end pursues and is more direct and has to go towards the receptor. Such a funny metaphor but one that makes sense to me and I can feel into the energy visualizing that very practical analogy! 😆😆😆

[@storm8254]

This was me until I started doing your courses . I feel so different now and its def changed everything

[@ShellyBullard]

🙏❤️

[@Dopelox]

We love you Shelly! Despite if you post daily or not, I look for your videos. I appreciate your teachings a lot. Thank you for everything that you’re giving to us. The resonation is Unmatched

[@ShellyBullard]

❤️❤️❤️

[@ShellyBullard]

Thank you so much!

[@Lu.J16]

This is without a doubt the last video I will be watching in 2023. I started this year full of hopes, one more time. I took courses, I'm still taking courses (including your 3.5 hours master class to manifest my SP), doing EFT Tapping, meditations etc. I'm still the one chasing. I had hopes of spending New Year's with my SP but just a few hours away from 2024 and considering my SP's complete silence I have decided that I'm not gonna chase her anymore, no messages, no nothing. My work from now on will be 100% internal and this practice you did at the end of the videos will help me a lot. I'm very good at imaginal acts, inner conversations, scripting..., but I like your approach on this video and I'll try that. Thank you!❤

[@ShellyBullard]

Wow! I am so happy you liked it!

[@PatienceMajasi]

I am pursued I am a receiver My SP person pursues me and I am happier that way

[@ShellyBullard]

✨🙏

[@samhitaparab]

Firstly, I big thanks to you for making me more aware of the unconscious patterns in a relationship, I have improved a lot because of you SHELLY ❤️ thank you! I love it when you said there are different times when one partner is the pursuer and the other is the one being pursued. That's the momentum me and sp would enjoy. In a way this gives us the chances to be both. I feel my man majorly wants to be the pursuer, at times when I overgive, he enjoys it, but If it's too much, he would want his "space". This has changed now. I can feel him coming in towards me🌸 I am meant to be pursued!💖 I am open to receiving all his love,passion, admiration and attention.💖

[@ShellyBullard]

Love this, you’re welcome ❤️🥰

[@ruthcarlisle2663]

@Samhita Parab this is true of me too, if insecurities kicked in i always started to chase. I have learned so much from Shelly, I understand now that things have happened through me. Its brilliant how it gets you to look at your relationships in a new light. You have everything amazing coming to you. ❤🧚‍♀️❤

[@samhitaparab]

@@ruthcarlisle2663 exactly dear ♥️ it's really surprising that this was coming through our insecurities. But now we're changed and everything amazing is coming to us! Our sps are passionately pursuing us🌸💖 Also, thank you for being my journey mate here on this Channel! 😁

[@ruthcarlisle2663]

@@samhitaparab yes yes yes!!!! I always think that even though we have come to learn this because of our sps, we go away with so much more. ( if you take away our sps) we have all gained so much confidence from the process, you can always see in people's comments how much better they / we are from learning everything. ❤❤ I have said a few times that I would have been so different with my sp had I understood E.I.Y.P.O before. But we can get it good this time 😁🙌 I love that we got chatting through here, its lovely to share our journeys to our sps ❤❤ Everything is always working out for us. ❤🧚‍♀️❤

[@samhitaparab]

@@ruthcarlisle2663 exactly! Even I was thinking the same that had I known about eiypo , life and our relationship with our sps would have been different! But now that we know it, Iam sure we're creating magic!💖

[@decemberclouds]

I sometimes think back to the energy of the relationship when it began, when I wasn't trying to pursue and was letting things just be. That was a much better space! Thanks Shelly.

[@ruthcarlisle2663]

@decemberclouds that energy you are describing at the start is amazing ❤❤❤ Its such a lovely place to be with them. We are getting back to that amazing feeling. They are pursuing us right now. 🧚‍♀️❤🧚‍♀️

[@ShellyBullard]

Yes. Meditation on that memory to get into the state of the wish fulfilled. ;)

[@decemberclouds]

@@ShellyBullard Thanks Shelly!

[@decemberclouds]

@@ruthcarlisle2663 Every day, Ruth! ♥♥♥

[@ruthcarlisle2663]

@@decemberclouds its all coming with Shelly helping us to get there is ❤❤ That amazing feeling is coming 😁 ❤🧚‍♀️❤

[@sweetsue4204]

This is so funny 😄……. This morning , long before I watched this video, I found myself shifting my body orientation from shoulders rounded over - which feels like chasing to me - to shoulders back and scapula neatly sitting in their proper pockets. The whole day I’ve been shifting as I repeated out loud, “I’m not chasing him, I’m receiving him.” You must be getting through to me in a deeper way than I suspected Shelly. 😄 I’m big on using effective inner language with positive energy, so I think I’ll rewrite that into something like, “This says, ‘chasing.’ (shift position) I’m receiving.”

[@ylf191]

Shelly! Your glow just keeps getting brighter and brighter everyday! 😅 Ps : it's 1 am here but your videos are so worth it!

[@ShellyBullard]

Thank you sooo much 🥰🥰

[@TheGanjaGroove]

You're a very pretty human objectively but your energy makes you SO beautiful. Love your videos

[@ShellyBullard]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@paularizzo7764]

Thanks for this video Shelly, you described my situation perfectly. Last week I decided not to text my sp and let him do it first, but on Friday I started feeling anxious and texted him. Although it took him many hours to reply, his response was nice and he said that he wanted to facetime with me... I told him that I had some free time during the weekend but he just vanished. Watching this video I started to cry, it's really hard for me because I miss him but I don't want to ruin my manifestation. Thank you very much for opening our eyes, Shelly. Many blessings for you 🙏

[@FilipAngelsson]

Wow, this video and the overgivers video have been so eye opening. I finally realised the patterns for why the past relationships failed, when I started, in a sense, chase for attention, when from the beginning they were the ones that initiated contact. It definitely puts things in perspective for how to move forward. Thank you so much!

[@giuliamon326]

This is exactly what happened to me! But now I'm the receiver again and my sp is reaching out 😉

[@iados]

Love how you explain this energies and dynamics! It’s fascinating to understand and being aware of them... I’ve also experienced that ‘usual’ relationship dynamic, it took me to this self-growth journey

[@ShellyBullard]

Beautiful!

[@Brendtl]

Thank you shelly when it comes to manifestation videos I always come to ur videos for the "feeling" part I actually have a healthy balance of pursuing and receiving in my relationships but in the past due to some "fears" I turn into chasing mode Now I manifested my SP back and I am learning how to recieve more

[@rozyndeto]

It feels so light. I love how you break down energy-momentum and direction.

[@RachelAnnie]

Verrry interesting response I had to affirming I'm pulling back and open to receiving... I felt anxiety and I had the visual of inviting my SP to come closer, but I had my body in a fighting position like hands up protecting my face (I thought of muy thai for some reason lol since I've done martial arts). I would have thought me saying I am open to receiving would be easy, but I could see and feel my body position when I affirmed it with you and my arms crossed in front of my body protectively, not openly. Not sure what it means, maybe I feel defensive, afraid of whatever I receive being not what I want, a preemptive move to ward against potential rejection, or even the need to control. Thank you Shelly -- this tells me what I need to address within myself to get more comfortable with this. The feelings within the body truly reveal all!!

[@ShellyBullard]

Beautiful inner awareness and tracking. Yes!! This gives you a great clue on what can be practiced now... "It's safe to receive, it's safe to be open, I will keep myself safe," things like this. :)

[@holyhyenas1759]

Your subscriber count just keeps going up !! 💕😊

[@loveisreaal]

So true 🙌🏻🤍💗 we naturally learn this in life. But I am so grateful to listen to you and understanding deeply why this dynamic happens

[@maryv.6545]

Wow! I’ve never heard it explained like this before! What you said makes total sense! I will never forget this advice moving forward from now on; and I will keep this in mind with my SP. I’m starting my quest to being the one pursued & receiving today! Thank you so much! I feel liberated! 😁🙌🏻

[@sundayibhadon8429]

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[@sassyclassy3316]

We pursue each other,we are sooo in love💕💕💕🧚‍♀️

[@ShellyBullard]

Loveee

[@chicfay]

This is def a pattern with my SP. After months of no contact (and me deleting him on social media) he randomly sent me a friend request on Instagram. No message or text from him yet. I caught myself looking at his pictures again all the time and this video really helped me to understand that I need to step back and just chill. He is the pursuer and not me. But I am so grateful for that friend request and that something is happening, I can feel that he is coming toward me.Thank you, Shelly!

[@lilibeth8500]

I loved the topic! When you show us exactly with the movement of your body, words and the tone of your voice the way to handle it, it makes sense and i can feel this works! Thank you Shelly!🌞🌺👍

[@ShellyBullard]

You're so welcome!🥰

[@sandrafisherhayes3219]

Hi Shelly! Thank you for posting this! I found it so helpful! Pity I didn't know this 20 years ago 😄🙃 this was the trap I found myself in too many times. It took me a while to realise that very few men (if any) like to be pursued...and yes it was exhausting! It only occurred to while watching your video how much energy I was using up chasing them and yes it was out of fear! It also took me along while to find out whether a relationship was meant to be. If it IS meant to be it will last. I know now I was giving away my own personal power which resulted in a very tired, very drained Sandra! Thank you again because it really has resonated with me! I will certainly keep all of what you said in mind! Practice, practice, practice...❤💜💚

[@dedemomo4193]

Pull back, open, receive, love ya Shelly 💚😽

[@ShellyBullard]

🙏✨

[@sweetsue4204]

So he needed time away…..again. 😐 My initial reaction was frustration and a tinge of grief, for a short time. Then I shifted into my celebratory mode of being grateful that I even had the marvelous times with him I did. Part of my realignment project was to take time every day this month to sit at the beach and drink my first cup of coffee in the morning in stillness, a decision you validated in this video. That made me smile. We’ve been down this road before, he and I. Every time it happens I realign and he returns. This time, if he does return, he’s gonna find me more confident than he remembered. 😄 I use these “down times” to shore up my self image and expand my powers of energy management and come out stronger every time. It’s almost become like a game, and I’ve come to really appreciate being able to play with the cosmos in this energetic way. Thank you for all the delicious tidbits I’ve gleaned from tumbling through the videos. You’re doing good work. Keep it up. 👍🏻

[@MichaelGackler]

Wow!! This is incredible. It totally explains my situation, and I did not think anyone else quite experienced it like this. Thank you Shelly!!

[@Alwina578]

Thank you Shelly ❤️

[@nancysamoilo7219]

YES, I CAN FEEL BEING OPEN TO RECEIVE ~ THANKS, SHELLY ~

[@fannyhuang1898]

I am embracing more of my feminine energy 🍀 and observing where all my energy is going

[@karenlawrence5773]

After listen/watching this video I realized that I to sometimes fall into the pattern of pursuing. I definitely wish to be pursued to I'm going to begin practicing what you suggested. Thanks, didn't know all of this.

[@erintraylor6794]

I have been such an active doer and giver my whole life so it’s been hard for me to feel into which energy feels best and most natural to me. I use my masculine energy a lot. But truly it hasn’t been working for me in relationships for years. Really I believe I want to be pursued, and this will be possibly the first time in my life I have fully stepped back and opened to receive. I feel like Bambi on ice with this new energy but I’m ready to flower into my full essence and let beautiful things come to me.

[@Melissa-bg8uy]

I love this video so much! This is so helpful. And I will watch it any time I feel a shift in my relationship and or a need to take action. Thank you!

[@ShellyBullard]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@christinebrooks5258]

Being open to receive feels powerful

[@ShellyBullard]

Yes it does!

[@marybethhaniford2679]

This was so helpful! I definitely have moved into the pursuer role. I have listened to many of your videos today that are helping me to have a mindset change. Thank you!!!

[@lionesssai5957]

Awesome video.. just what I needed. This clears my doubts. I am pursued 😎😍❤️ I am open to receive 😋

[@ShellyBullard]

Glad you enjoyed it❤️

[@ruthcarlisle2663]

He's already pursuing me 😉😉😉 Its all unfolding in the most amazing way. 🤵👰 🦄❤🧚‍♀️ I might miss the Premier, but will catch up later. ❤❤❤❤ HAPPY MANIFESTING 🙏🌌🙌😘

[@ShellyBullard]

🙏❤️

[@decemberclouds]

Happy Manifesting!!!

[@ruthcarlisle2663]

@@decemberclouds 😘❤❤❤❤

[@Samrani282]

Fantastic video!!I love that ot was a little longer because diving deep cant be rushed and for some topics this really really helps hone in on things.Thank you thank you thank you!!!🤗🤗🥰🥰🌷🌷

[@ShellyBullard]

So glad you liked it!

[@ms.tanvi61]

Thankyou Shelly because of your teaching I started practicing self love, it's being a month now and I am much more into me😊 much stabilise. I used to write daily one page on self love and it's so amazing

[@marleenmoes9431]

Everyone is you pushed out. It doesn't matter. It your assumption that matters. Your are the operant power

[@SARA-jb8uo]

Pull back, open, and receive. I feel it❤

[@gio-elena1467]

🏅 I'm excited to see your new video. 💃🏽 It looks like I have won millions of euros when I see you post more videos, AHAHHAHA 😁😁😍 Yay! I'm happy. 🥰 Have a magical weekend Shelly 💚✨

[@ShellyBullard]

Aww thank you🥰🥰🥰🙏

[@tinalander5178]

Can totally feel it in a physical sense...being open to receive. I like the hand gestures, too, it adds to it tremendously. Thank you!

[@tiffanimilburn8885]

This was interesting. I honestly think pulling back and holding back is what caused problems with me and my specific person. The pursuing was usually mutual but I was mostly the pursuer until I got busy with life and other things and pulled back.

[@ShellyBullard]

It always depends on the state/beliefs behind all actions... remember that's what manifests.

[@nancysamoilo7219]

Yes, I understand ~ Ty, Shelley ~ 💙

[@ginnyviccyct8146]

Hard to hear but so true. My over giving stems from trying to please my parent with it never being enough to make them happy and immense guilt if I was to receive which in the case of gifts for example would be taken away or told I shouldn't accept This state of owing for my existence was instilled and no matter how much I did, paid for it was never enough. It has seeped over into so many areas of my life as automatic pilot. I now see how off putting it has been and is and is a full time job to be aware and recieve without feeling guilty or undeserving. Thank you for talking about this

[@ginnyviccyct8146]

Thank you for making this video it makes me cry in a good way. At least I'm aware at this grand old age

[@ShellyBullard]

You’re welcome ❤️❤️❤️

[@kell7422]

Soooo recognisable! My God. Thank you! Due to this video I am able to stop this pattern on time!

[@empresspa]

Thanks Shelly! You make a great point in this video about receivers mode

[@ShellyBullard]

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[@dle5045]

You're videos are teaching me so much and always bring me back to a positive mindset!

[@TheMimimoon]

I would take a meditation repeating: pulling back, opening, receiving 🙏

[@Linda-ju9wt]

When I pull back (absolutely hasn´t been natural for me) I feel mainly relief!!!!!!!!!! Such a nice feeling...Definitely worth of trying that again and again..

[@dagne2958]

This came at the best time! Thanks so much!

[@ShellyBullard]

You’re welcome!

[@Pearlofperfection]

Omg, thank you soo much Shelly, my guy pulled away. I honestly pulled away even more and stopped caring because I was going to manifest someone better for me but I felt really confused. In fact some days ago, I felt so blocked to trying to receive too.

[@ShellyBullard]

Glad you liked it!

[@pratimania]

Well morning itself was thinking about this topic and was watching one of your playlists and boom comes this notification! Thank you Shelly

[@ShellyBullard]

❤️❤️❤️

[@pratimania]

@@ShellyBullard how about a guided meditation on open to receive, it will be so good coming from you :)

[@ShellyBullard]

@@pratimania Great idea! I'll do that!

[@shasinair]

Requires lot of will power and self discipline.

[@ShellyBullard]

Until it becomes natural. :)

[@aditimajumdar2736]

Thank you so much Shelly 😊...I love your videos. Love you 😘❤

[@ShellyBullard]

You’re welcome ❤️

[@windyp.z8242]

This video is so real and amazing..Thank you Shelly. ❤🙏

[@mansardmanor3869]

A very nice video Of putting lessons in a beautiful emotionless way of saying When either person leaves love and becomes controlling & manipulate For both had love in receptive mood in the start of the relationship

[@carmaela2689]

This makes me laugh because it is so true. I have always naturally been the giver and pursuer in all relationships. Sort of more masculine in my approach. Then I met this amazing guy, who is also energy sensitive. He is so masculine that he automatically threw me into my more feminine side. It was a weird place at first but then I learned to like it. But once in a while, as I get excited about being around him, I naturally go into hunter mode. Like Miss Piggy, all in charge and chasing Kermit, it throws him off and he backs off lol. I think it makes him feel weaker or something. Every time I calm my tits and back off he comes back after me. Not a place I am used to but I'm learning.

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[@sharonthomas865]

Hi Shelly, I look forward to watching your Video, Thank, Have a Great Weekend, Be Careful, Stay Safe ⚘🙋‍♀️🌹🌺💐❤

[@ShellyBullard]

❤️❤️🥰

[@talengel9769]

Shelly, thanks for the great content and perspectives. I love your guided meditations and was wondering whether you could do a short guided practice to focus on the “receiving and being open” part?

[@HarrisKray]

Not seeing many men in these comments! Very useful information for us too 💪

[@mistresscreativ]

I have literally met “The One”. He persued me so hard in the first few weeks of our relationship and couldn’t get enough of me until I started reciprocating that energy. And boom! Out of nowhere he broke up with me. I really thing that was meant to be a roadblock for me that said “he IS the One, but you need to sort out your shit before you can be together.” I am manifesting him back and simultaneously doing the self work so when he returns to me, I am the recipient and I receive the love I deserve. Which I will give back to him of course, but in a different way energetically this time!

[@manifesting5000]

Aww I loved this❤ after watching this I think that's why my SP ended things but ofcourse he gave other reasons😅 I always thought everyone wanted to be pursued, I didn't think of it as some wanting to persue lol silly me

[@ShellyBullard]

🙏✨

[@loulou0122]

God i wish I'd listened to things like this 10 years ago!

[@Gloria37913]

This was really me. And I know it happened mostly because of my insecurities… But somehow it was hard to see when it happened. But I can see clearly now😉 Thank you Shelly🥰

[@devi.krishna]

Ah, now I understand the mistake I've been making all along. Thanks, Shelly.

[@brettdumbleton8068]

This is exactly what happened to me I became to pursuer and then the relationship broke down completely even after I stepped back and stopped doing this Now I’m manifesting to bring her back into my life but without any contact at this point

[@mixie094]

sooo good thank you beauty!!! feels soooo relaxing thinking about that!

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[@clariseboston-maroe568]

no contact from my ex in almost two months. i had been manifesting, trying everything, and just recently pulled back. i got a call from him earlier asking to see me but i had yet to respond... THEN he proceeded to show up at my house literally as i was watching this video. we went on a walk, talked and we kissed a couple of times ;) he told me he didn’t realize that we were supposed to grow together and apologized for not treating me the way i deserved ♥️ i can tell this is the beginning of a beautiful relationship and i can’t wait to spend my life with this man!! THIS STUFF IS REAL YA’LL!! don’t give up :)

[@ShellyBullard]

Omg! YAY! Do you mind sharing what you did to manifest this? So excited for you!💙

[@clariseboston-maroe568]

Shelly Bullard essentially letting go and letting/allowing him to peruse me this time :)

[@lvd1910]

Nice video Shelly!! Resonates... And explained very well with the energy part.

[@ShellyBullard]

So glad it resonated.

[@Nicole-xo3go]

I really needed to hear this, thank you Shelly!! ❤🙏

[@ashley__c]

Oh this was really nice! I know how to do it but I sort of don’t want to.. but I know it’s all about mental shift. But as I watch this video this quote popped up on my phone saying you gotta act. And be willing to fail without it you won’t get far. Haha . So whatever we want to do we should do it I think but from the right state of mind. Not having this needy energy but feeling relaxed EVEN if we are the pursuer ... we never know what’s going on the other side

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[@linda.ll.7744]

Hi Luv! 💕 Yes! I'm inspired and empowered as I watch, listen, learn, and LIVE it! 💃 Makes me think of Smash Mouth's 🎼"I'm a believer!" 🎶 Shell, I see you 🌱 growing and 🌻 blossoming so beautifully, as you cultivate your unique 🦋 and outstanding teaching style! Thank you for sharing it with the world. 🌎 💕

[@ShellyBullard]

Thank you thank you thank you darling!

[@ShellyBullard]

Thank you thank you thank you darling!

[@linda.ll.7744]

Much love sista!⚘