The KEY To Self-Improvement | Jordan Peterson's Life-Changing Advice

[@LanaBlakely]

"Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today." One of my all time favourite JBP quotes.

[@vishvnaik2756]

Lana Blakely most favorite of mine.

[@jcronin3155]

The only thing is that isn't Peterson's idea. That was said years before by John C Maxwell.

[@vishvnaik2756]

John Cronin what’s in a name!!!

[@joanneg7646]

Puts it all in perspective doesn’t it

[@solxplosion1978]

It appears we're getting the same recommended vids, except I get them 4 to 5 days after you do. Lol

[@lesleyhubble4969]

I'm 58 and no longer fear other people and situations like in my 20s and 30s. Life does get better with age especially listening to this guy. Wonderful

[@hansomekim1219]

Very glad to read this!

[@a.t.6322]

Thank you Lesley.

[@gerardjones7881]

A man who fears God fears nothing. Men who don't fear God are afraid of the world.

[@gambit_toys6554]

Did you talk to alot of strangers?

[@deanpd3402]

Very true. We get to the point where we stop beating ourselves up about what others may or may not be thinking. It's liberating. I care not whether I have friends or not. I care about listening to the wise. These days I meet people whose biblical knowledge and understanding astounds me and they are good to listen to.

[@KRIS-sh8wp]

03:50 He Who Has A Why To Live Can Bear Almost Any How. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche

[@gypsylee73]

KRIS2323 Check out Man’s Search For Meaning by Viktor Frankl if you haven’t already ☺️🌹

[@KRIS-sh8wp]

@@gypsylee73 Thank you. I'm writing your book suggestion down right now so I can start looking for it asap. Thank you again. I can't wait to read it. Be Blessed ~ Happy Holidays !!!

[@gerardjones7881]

Science only answer the how question. It cannot answer the WHY.

[@someonesomeone25]

I have no why.

[@jodihouts6032]

Jordan Peterson has helped me out of a very dark place. I am eternally grateful for his courage to speak hope, truth and our ability to overcome obstacles.

[@tirezarne5266]

No emotional music, thank god we need more videos like these

[@thesleep6408]

His words have been literally saving me lately.

[@VinnyTheory]

Goes great with a morning coffee

[@donnadizucchero]

Aahhh yeeesss! I meet every day with JBP word of Wisdom for past two months,since i first was offered a parts of his lecture by YT algorithm)) Hard to judge oneself objectively, but i like to think i am improving. At least my clinical depression is less harsh, despite i am next to my seasonal peak.

[@bluewrenreilly129]

Love you Jordan Peterson and Pray for your Protection to continue contributing to our worldAmen.

[@raewynurwin4256]

Arohanui from New Zealand, I'm a 71 yr old woman and have learnt so very much about ' who it is I'm meant to be to myself. I'm grateful and humbled yes I am.

[@edithnogueira7899]

Life is about learning and growing. There is no failure, only lesson to be learn. I dont have problems in my life, only challenges, and If I change the way I see it, the thing I'm observing also change. I woke up every day giving thanks for everything the universe provides me, including the opportunity to be here. Dont compare yourself with no one, you are unique.

[@zugzug9969]

too much of anything is bad for you, but how much is too much when you don't know how much you get to start off with... Thank you again Jordan you are amazing

[@ErikaK]

Work on your self improvement every day and become the greatest version of yourself. Everyone is different, we all are wonderful and we all have a purpose in this life. Create your own path, your own rules.

[@gerardjones7881]

Trust God. Clean house. Help others. Saying is from alcoholic anonymous. Not Peterson.

[@someonesomeone25]

There's no realistic or possible version of me that is worth striving for.

[@godanlp5589]

@@someonesomeone25 you good Mate?

[@someonesomeone25]

@@godanlp5589 As good as can be expected when there is no realistic possible future good enough to care much about.

[@markraymondgratil164]

The only person you should compare yourself into, is you, yesterday. Those words were golden.

[@carolirene49]

How can you not appreciate this articulate, insightful, brave, helpful man!

[@a.t.6322]

Get well soon Mr. Peterson! We need more men like you.

[@SaifulIslam-xs9fx]

A.T. What happened to him?

[@TheArizonaRanger.]

My favorite Pat Macnamera quote is "If I cloned myself today, tomorrow I should be able to kick my clone's ass."

[@azizikasi3671]

All Dr. Jordan Peterson speeches make me speechless. ❤🙏he is The father of youngers mens . God bless him.

[@robgoodsight6216]

Some people never had anyone to follow, hear and listen to. JBP is the father figure that many men never had.

[@gerardjones7881]

He's not mine. If the role of God is not filled in your life you will fall for anything that sounds rational. Peterson is just parroting recovery talk you can hear in any AA meeting. The parrot has no song of its own. He has no recovery message because he is not recovered. Just as a stream cannot flow higher than its headwaters so a man cannot lead beyond where he has gone. I'm a recovered alcoholic.

[@robgoodsight6216]

@@gerardjones7881 honestly I am happy for you and dr. Peterson. For you you found you way out. You won your fight...extremely good result. For dr. Peterson...never the less has given to many young men a reason to better themself and find a centre in their life. Nobody else has done it so prominently. Dr. Peterson is also a human being, therefore fallible because human, but never the less he is fighting his own demons. As I am fighting mine. He has my respect for that...as you have my full respect!!! So blessed are the one who at least try with all the conviction.

[@penelopelambson9128]

A keeper. Will listen to this every day as a start. Many thanks.

[@skipd1112]

JP is a living saint. All the shit this dudes gone through, yet continues to inspire! Amen

[@ElliottHart]

Check in with yourself daily. Have goals for the months and years, though also have goals for the day. One day at a time mountains can be moved.

[@someonesomeone25]

What if I have no meaningful goals?

[@AnnabellaRedwood]

Jordan Peterson us my hero!!!!!!! He is saving my life every day. Helping me to be braver, to speak my truth, to choose my poison, to be assertive, to face my dragons. Jordan is one of the biggest gifts and I am eternally thankful for him and how he is helping me to change my life for the better and how to make sense of the recent chaos in my life!!!

[@punarnavamalhotra6433]

It’s so nice to see it when he quotes so many references from his book😊 I recently started reading 12 rules for life. I really love the explanations.

[@DocumentaryDoc]

I think this incrimental change thing might be my next step in life.

[@shachinartlab]

To be calm in stressful situations think of those situations as challenges or hypothesize them as just another challenge

[@adilscott6160]

Again another awesome sermon Dr Peterson God bless you

[@maidinulster]

Just WOW...what wonderful simple common sense for a better life. Have to admit, my life is become a tiny bit better each day after taking and listening to your advise Jordan. Isnt it strange all this good stuff doesn’t come natural, but then it may have done if circumstances were different in my upbringing. But I truly do thank you for the gems of wisdom you gave me. They are working

[@jenniferespiritu2172]

Interest and devotion the valuation of once success and to obtain industriousness ...God bless Professor Jordan Peterson.

[@levelUpmarketing0]

I find that activities such as meditation and reading and exercising to strengthen my neural pathways and help me focus and become more of an active and a hybrid learner but I’ve also realize that there are activities that we do use my newer pathways and my brain activity and make me less productive throughout my day and stop me from going towards in achieving my goals and working through my highest potential I have decided to be more aware of such activities and stray away from them so that I can reach my best and become the best.

[@charlesvincett84]

What a good man this person is! He makes sense and he is practical! Gotta love it!!!

[@ScottSwalwell]

A lot of the time it's taking the time each morning for you. Look for the incremental improvements and then at night make note of how you went

[@robgoodsight6216]

JBP...sending all my best wishes to you!

[@bogieviews]

My goal has gradually become more and more immediate. There is a long term, high goal, but on the way I try as an exercise, when I can remember, to look at how I have reacted in the previous hour. Sometimes it gives me the shivers to acknowledge the truth of my life. (A short while ago I wrote this, then after reflecting I realized it is misleading. Implied in my statement is that I am doing this exercise on and on, totally not the case. An exercise is only good for a few days, then it is time to look for something else. I look for something that will help me see how I mechanically react - like how do I open a door, or what leg goes into my pants first, etc. Not to change these things or make them better, but to bring to light that they are happening without any conscious attention.)

[@raisingtheconch6730]

JBP is so refreshing and emboldening to witness in an age wrought with such cowardice, lies and deception. Listening to him has become routine.

[@beckyfarkas1319]

You have helped me so much! Is anyone writing all these lectures down? A textbook for Life.

[@Daniel.1912]

Great video !

[@maryamkhan2978]

This is my all time favourite speech of JP

[@elenilouarasi2828]

Become a model for yourself by talking a little and doing more 🌞

[@benjaminkuti2009]

Wonderful video! JP advice is dope for life.

[@patricksinclair9252]

I read this book but this rule was one that didn’t really connect with me much. As a result I felt horrible. I would compare myself to others who are at the top for various skills. I would go 150% at trying to be like those people, but would ultimately fail and the give up. Comparing yourself to your past self and only your past self is truly one of the most helpful mindsets to adopt.

[@ashleybryant305]

Who the hell puts a 'thumbs down' to this video? People who aren't fans of self development? Jesus Christ.

[@gypsylee73]

Ashley Bryant Scared people 😎

[@richhall1808]

Here in 2019, nothing people do should surprise you.

[@cucicearoland5949]

Marxists and Cathy, that lady from the news (I think she's from CNN)

[@ashleybryant305]

@@cucicearoland5949 I believe she works for ITV in the UK..... unfortunately.

[@PowerfulLighting]

People who don't aim high...

[@ikawinner960]

Mr. Peterson! There is situations in life, that i need to do some steps , with less damage to me and to my Children, I don’t want to live on anyone responsibility, I want to makes less Problems to other people and to fix my deme problem, as I can , And to live my rest of my life, in some way of little bit silence, not more

[@FelipeCM123]

Great video! Thank you!

[@geology9005]

Great stuff from JP

[@rosettesekabanja82]

Thankyou so rmuc h for sharing that life changing messge. Please kindly advise if there is an audio for the book 12 Rules of life

[@WordToTheWise]

Yes there is an audio version! You can get 2 free audiobooks using my referral link: amzn.to/2MRvzxL

[@withsilk3619]

the key is to never give up.

[@ianstevenson1324]

Jordan Peterson should seriously run for president or something

[@saadia4009]

You want him to become a puppet?

[@ele7520-h2m]

Break down the 12 rule of life pls

[@makobobinzers]

i love jordan peterson and i love your videos how did i only discover you now

[@AnnaLVajda]

The thing is if you were at your best when something awful happened to you it does not motivate you to be at your best because there was a negative emotional association with that. If bad things happen when you are underperforming you expect that but if you consistently got good results from doing good and suddenly you are attacked or punished for being at your best it is debilitating you feel like you can do nothing right so why try to improve if your best isn't good enough?

[@gambit_toys6554]

I've talked to 516 women (strangers in public) and counting! It used to scare me, now I have soo much fun! Didn't know how little I knew about people and myself until I did it! LIFE CHANGING!

[@dickensdickenson7879]

Legendary man. Very good.

[@10lobster19]

Maybe starting a journal on what you did yesterday and could have done better at is more important than keeping a journal of what you did today.

[@lenlagadvocate8852]

Have tried to but have never been able to say it better.

[@gerardjones7881]

Be rid of self or there will never be improvement. Suffering has always been the touchstone of spiritual growth. People grow spiritually as self recedes.

[@nancyjb7080]

wise words from Jordan Peterson

[@alejandrodelabarra2838]

"¿Cómo tendría que ser mi vida, de tal manera que si la tuviera, no necesitara ser: Amargo, resentido, embaucador, arrogante y vengativo?" 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏👏👏👏

[@sheapollock256]

He who has a why can bear almost any how. Hearing that😯

[@gerardjones7881]

Science answers the how but never the why. Different magisterial.

[@someonesomeone25]

I have no why and cannot find one. Im not sure everyone can. Maybe some people are literally pointless.

[@afrasiabkhan8749]

Share the link to the full video

[@deanpd3402]

All I have to do is be a little bit better than my miserable self yesterday.

[@gypsylee73]

These videos are great, thank you 🌹☺️❤️🌻

[@prico3358]

Jordan "thats another way of looking at it" peterson

[@Wilson_Enyi]

Do you notice something, most of his videos starts with a sentence that has the word “Idea”. Eg: “so the idea is....”. In fact he has founded quite some phrases I like “It’s like.., Jesus!!”, “what the hell is the alternative ”, “for example, imagine that you...”, “set the damn schedule ”, “that beats the hell out of zero”, “it’s not to be recommended”, “it’s a good strategy ”, “responsibility”, “the probability that it might occur” etc.

[@BradThePitts]

If only people could quote Jordan Peterson like people can quote lyrics from their favorite rap stars...

[@ohcrikey9560]

Brad the pitts. THEY CAN.

[@Aer0xander]

Rage against becoming the #10 lobster.

[@zerozilch]

Its funny the ones judging the my conditions are the ones responsible for the condition kinda like a double edge .

[@23.10-k1v]

1:05 what if your children are straight monsters , grown up beasts , i think it depends on the situation

[@eagleeye182]

Easier said than done

[@brendankennedy4758]

Just stamp out one little fire at a time.

[@Pankaj-Verma-]

Gazab bola be !

[@cissehadimohamed1575]

first comment good job

[@WordToTheWise]

Thanks for watching :)

[@janasty08]

I surely wouldn’t want to be that #10 lobster 🦞

[@sebastianarora1969]

What does he mean when he says “...it starts to generate Pareto distribution-like consequences”? I’m aware that the Pareto distribution is essentially the “80/20 principle” but how does that relate to what he is saying?

[@MThomasson88]

At first, sorting yourself out is extremely difficult to the point where people just accept they can’t ‘do it’, but if you persist, the next step becomes slightly less difficult, then a bit easier some more until the norm flips and you have more than you can handle. I think the point is continual growth is your best bet; have problems to solve, and notice that happiness is a by-product or side-effect of being in the moment rather than things to pursue.

[@sebastianarora1969]

@@MThomasson88 Okay, yeah I guess that makes sense, thank you for the reply!

[@somebodywhocares9293]

Jordan Peterson is a unique individual. If there wasnt a LGBTQ, There wouldn't be the famous JP. Thank You for sharing your knowledge. Funny how the worst will bring out the best.

[@1636276]

Has anyone tried this? Csn you compare your self now to the old you? Please tell me

[@joanneg7646]

Smoked weed yesterday well month ago now.. weed free today!

[@johnholland2825]

I've been 'weed free' for a year, nothing got better, worse if anything, don't blame the drug. Jordan said to get rid of the things that you know are bad for you, so I got rid of the girlfriend and stopped smoking, now I'm lonely and I got nothing to smoke, no friends, crashed my car whilst trying to self-improve, got banned from all the gym's for standing up for myself and now have no job and no money. Good luck.

[@joanneg7646]

John Holland im not blaming the drug i still think its good in the right dose and for certsin situations..But i was smoking an ounce a week of high test thc..I think that’s a little excessive.i also spend lots of time alone mostly because i have social anxiety but i use that time to study all the things that im passionste about. Sometimes we have to clean our plate right off and yes it will look very empty before we put the right things back on it. so if your girlfriend was not good for you or your friends then I say better to be alone in the corner of a house top then with confusion and strife that’s paraphrased out of the old testament. Suggestion take your time if you feel like smoking weed smoke it if you feel like getting a girlfriend get one but I would say take this time now that you’ve cleared your plate off and think long and hard how you want to put stuff back on there I don’t know how old you are but I’m pushing 60 it took me a long time to figure out some people are not worth the effort and a lot of stuff i allowed to happen had i learned to remove those ppl and restructure my situations sooner i would probably have been a scientist or doctor or into research..Don’t waste your time feeling sorry for yourself longer than you need to or kicking yourself it won’t get you anywhere look at your mistakes own your responsibilities and move along young man. Theres potential you have it. God allows us to go into deep valleys it’s a learning experience you’ll come up on the top of that hill and you’ll be a lot stronger than you are today!

[@alejandrodelabarra2838]

¡Qué lo pari*! He is incredibly wise!

[@gerardjones7881]

Wherever a man places his ultimate reliance in his life... That is his God. It ought to go without saying placing your ultimate reliance on a psychologist on KZbin is a catastrophic error.

[@ferdinandwang1165]

HE who has a why can bear almost any how.

[@antnfs]

- I’ve seen this happen in other people’s lives, now it’s happening in mine -

[@cosmicsprings8690]

Burger 🍔 King have named a burger 🍔 after him ..the whopper

[@WAKEUPARTIST]

“Baby Steps” from “What About Bob?”

[@mobi259]

Madness

[@petereastman2663]

If you are not ashamed of who you were last year you are not accomplishing much.

[@joanneg7646]

The goal fix my basement walls! Yipe Sounds silly but its freakin me out

[@pamspencer5733]

Funny,I've literally scraped my walls,next bonding primer,then paint. Its been slow going but realize I can do the worst,dirtiest job there is & survive.🙏❣️😷

[@maxbigwood2080]

My biggest problem is I'm content with my life and it's killing me!

[@ohcrikey9560]

Max Bigwood. Yes you are content with your life but are you really content with you? We all have our pain and weaknesses. Work on those if all the other stuff is ok.

[@silverwalker2465]

I have no idea constituites a high life-goal

[@garfromm75]

JP Hoça

[@mael-strom9707]

Psychologists build castles in the sky, psychiatrists rent them out and big pharma keeps the whole thing in motion. ^^

[@gerardjones7881]

Don't compare your insides to other people's outsides. Coined by some drunk in AA.

[@edzzha9487]

Nr 10 lobster could be a nickname

[@vishvnaik2756]

I think 🤔 he should do an analysis now of game of thrones, avatar: the last air bender, Jon Snow and the bhagvad Gita.

[@nascentnaomie]

✅✅✅

[@jesscarroll1915]

They use "too much" cocaine ..lol

[@tommieaho1016]

ba dum tsss

[@blair8225]

They use to much cocaine...how much is an acceptable amount? lol

[@cosmicsprings8690]

This guy wants a statue of himself..Great talker but he’s a really terrible listener