The Male Feminist ft. Dolly Singh with Siddhaarth Aalambayan, Ep 55

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In the 55th episode of The Male Feminist, we invited Dolly Singh, famous for her character as Raju Ki Mummy. Dolly discussed her conservative upbringing, societal taboos around menstruation, financial empowerment, experiences with eve-teasing and gender bias in Delhi, and her strong belief in gender equality and mutual respect in relationships.
Dolly Singh with Siddhaarth Aalambayan for the 55th episode of 'The Male Feminist'
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2:21-2:48 - Growing-up
2:49-5:30- Family Restrictions
5:31-7:11 - Eve-teasing Incidents
7:12-10:30 - Period Awareness
10:31-11:37 - Sex Education
11:38-12:37 - Pleasure Discussion
12:38-13:56 - Cultural shock in Delhi
13:57-16:26 - Importance of Consent
16:27-17:33 - Gender Inequality in Career
17:34-18:41 - Casting Comments
18:42-19:30 - Financial Literacy
19:31-20:22 - Bullied
20:23-20:49 - Red Flags
20:50-21:06 - Green Flags
21:07-21:33 - 16 years old self
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@dollysinghofficial 11 ай бұрын

Ye karke boht boht acha laga. So grateful. And to the commentors too💖 thank youuuu

@nehaaentertainment2106 11 ай бұрын

Same means same ditto u like me....even family, thought process ❤️❤️ n many more ..

@anuradhamishra163 5 ай бұрын

Mere bhi teeth aise hi h ...aur mujhe lgata h ki ye achhe nhi dikhte bt after seeing you mera bhi confidence badh gya

@theglamword1870 3 ай бұрын

So proud of you ❤keep breaking stereotypes and keep shining

@lalaland8112 Ай бұрын

The incident you said na ,uncle aise nahi bolte. I connected so much to your story, I have always been overweight teased all my life. I lose weight but this was after my son was born I was 32 and carrying my 6 Month old son in baby carrier and wearing my footwear outside temple and overheard 2 aunties talking pointing at me, dekh dekh Kitni moti hai, they were so old,sitting in a temple and commenting on a woman carrying a little child, I turned around and said loudly, Haan acche se dekho, paas aake dekh lo They were embarrassed, I felt so good on calling them out. But that's how people are and we should shame them. Kudos to you.

@poojaghatuary2643 11 ай бұрын

This is the most relatable interview, a generation of girls have gone through the same issues that she called out, it's so obvious how deep is the conditioning. And the sad part is knowing or unknowingly we are taking these misogynistic thoughts ahead . It will take some conscious effort to break the wall and think before we speak to young girls that do things differently than us.

@ForaFortnightt 5 ай бұрын

She's such soo nice, honest and pretty. This is no doubt one of the best honest and relatable talk show episode I have seen till now. People really need to realise that this is how you inspire people and actually make people love your voice not by some fake interesting or charming stores.

@kayinatkidunya 11 ай бұрын

She's So Relatable And On Point And Authentic 👍

@supriya55 11 ай бұрын

such an open & honest conversation.. so necessary, so important as Indians to acknowledge the reality we live in.

@gautampatil1680 11 ай бұрын

I am sorry but I am so happy and relieved to know you have also faced the same difficulties or say still facing difficulties and insecurities like me or most of us out there, I want a part two where you can discuss how to step by step overcome this scenarios.

@dr.aashnasharma5598 2 ай бұрын

Yes same right 👍

@gautampatil1680 11 ай бұрын

Kudos to all the independent and confident girls but listening to the same struggle and insecurities face by or still facing is also empowering at another level.

@taniya_05_ 11 ай бұрын

Dolly your story is so damn relatable. Thank You for being you and I love you. ❤

@varnikashukla7438 7 ай бұрын

Living in a small city and moving to delhi for higher education , this interview was damn relatable , i am watching this at 6 in the morning just because I saw a clip of it on insta and I could not resist myself

@aasthasharma1267 11 ай бұрын

16:15 the most unspoken real shit ever

@DarkPsychologyofLove 11 ай бұрын

Dolly Singh has arrived! Period

@soloman3005 11 ай бұрын

She is a Rockstar. So darn relatable.

@kritisharma5020 Ай бұрын

100 % relatable.... thank you so much mam....for shearing..

@anjalichandna3240 11 ай бұрын

it’s all about conditioning we Indians need normalise periods , teach children good touch bad touch , sex education etc

@priyankatilwani7709 9 ай бұрын

Wow I never thought of you as you actually are, thankyou for telling us your truth it brings you to a new light and helps us look at you and other people with more empathy, no wonder everybody goes through their own struggles… more power to you woman!

@Aneyongppl 6 күн бұрын

Her thoughts and experiences are very relatable man

@Influencer_by_chance 7 ай бұрын

The most relatable person ❤ following you since... Forever

@swingitwithanu3258 11 ай бұрын

Love this woman ❤

@shaheenkhan21 10 ай бұрын

You are very cute n sweet dolly singh❤

@faactivate1 11 ай бұрын

was this me giving the interview?

@photographylover7546 8 ай бұрын

Really very relatable ❤

@nitija 9 ай бұрын

I loved this interview. Good one Sid ❤

@Sammy-sm4yg 11 ай бұрын

And then some fragile men say that feminism is not needed

@toobarahmankhan4998 11 ай бұрын

I remember Dolly from the days when she was famous by a different name aka "Spill the Beans"

@SimpforAreason 8 ай бұрын

Spill the sass

@voidsleya 2 ай бұрын

it’s spill the sass

@andriavinithalobo5813 11 ай бұрын

Dolly❤❤❤

@swarali1365 7 ай бұрын

shes literally me, we have the exact same opinions

@hauterrfly 7 ай бұрын

❤️❤️

@amritamallik8728 11 ай бұрын

Han kapde change karne se kuch nahi change hota he

@LabeenaUsmani96 8 ай бұрын

It feels like this is my past.

@chaitalinaik5212 8 ай бұрын

Darr ki baat bilkul sahi hai

@AmanPratapSingh-fw5jg 11 ай бұрын

❤❤

@nightqueens9838 5 ай бұрын

❤

@sukritimhjn 5 ай бұрын

A feedback for interviewer….the interview doesn’t seem a conversational flow. It feels more like some preplanned questions are thrown one after the another to the interviewee. A flow is missing. Also you shaked hands with the same hand with which you scratched your feet. A little unhygienic! Apart from that, liked Dolly’s openness on the interview.

@srey2006 2 ай бұрын

I felt like meri life k baare mein koi bol raha hai 🙂 It was so relatable ❤

@bhagyashreesingh491 2 ай бұрын

I liked this statement being called out..is this bcoz of that day of the month... seriously..what rubbish

@archanakumaridasgupta5536 9 ай бұрын

Aesa hua h ki tumhara favourite word war- no. And then tumhari mummy dheere se chhup k cheenti kaatti thi ki bolo yes. Bhakk. So weird. 😂 Nhi ladko ko bhi milta tha sunne. Aese gaon me jab ladke "chhust pants" pehen k nikalte toh daadi naaniyan bol deti ki "jujjikass (bra) pehen k ghoom ra h". My mum was like, tum aurat ho Jo suit salwar pehnogi? Jeans peheno ... (Fir ek din suit hi to pehenna h) mtlb.. wd the narrative ki ek din yhi pehenna h.. which is.. weird because u can look indecent even in a saree. N u can look very decent even in a jeans. Glamorous or fashionable and vulgar are two different things. Nhi, mekko periods hote thhe to mujhe dard itta hota tha n I was still a kid 13 ish to mere poore colony ko pta chal hi jata tha ki I'm down😂... So then my brother had to know We remember our teachers, right? Humari bio teacher awesome thi, just like miss briganza from k2h2, wo ekdum acting krke, kuch zyada over krke, voice modulation krke btaati thi ekdum larger than life bna k sab kuch. To osmosis bhi unhone wese hi smjhaya tha n reverse osmosis was the funniest class ever. To soch lo ki reproduction wala chapter to kesa hi hoga... Wo bhi wd examples. ... If ur 18, n ur boyfriend tells u, don't be stupid. If ur 25, n ur husband tells u, think about it. But if ur my age, u can do as u please. 😂 We were like..... Pta ni konse karm kiye hn jo miss gulaati milin... But nt bad! 🤣 So, our discussion used to be ki condoms me flavour kyun hota h... Cz bj. Baad me pta chala Haiin?? Mekko laga ulta inko train krna pdta ki aese kro. Etc. Mere sath bht bura hua. Mekko apne school k frnds mil gye yahan Jo ki nhi hona chahiye tha, I think. I was partly in my comfort zone I used to be a very no nonsense person at one point of time. Ab to itna nonsense h ki kya hi bolke apna dimag kharab kro. But I remember once my then boss was cracking some joke about office politics n why it's important n archana doesn't do it becz whatever n utne hi volume me mene jhel diya usko beech me ki na, pankaj, janaaniyon waali harqat kum kro. Aur maal phhook k aao kum. ✨ Mere sath ye ni hua kbhi. Cz Im towards the wheatish texture n skinny but more like women wanted to be skinny, until I met some of my folks from my hometown who themselves are brown but think they're not cz comparatively the rest are brown-er. Which is so funny.. ki mtlb.. it's so lame. But that's very much the truth that is very prominent there. Ladkiyan khud brown hn aur same skin waali k samne khud ko fair smjhti hn becz I dunno kya reason h. Technically North India k alawa everyone is the same skin tone here which gets richer as u go south. N body type, I've seen many women envy me so Im least bothered. Some have even put in efforts after coming in contact with me to 'appear better ' which makes me sad becz it gives off the vibe that u never liked urself. Agar shyd main co-ed me hoti to ye feeling mujhme bhi hoti... But when ur so surrounded by women everywhere, u don't even give a fuck. 16 yr old ko- it will grow. 😂 N it will come to use more than u think. (Actually, lot of women would say this) I would say that, pta nhi sahi hi chal ri thi main..