The Man in the Arena

Sometimes no matter how much we try, we are not going to be successful. But the keyword here is try. It is much more important to be down in the arena, fighting, regardless of whether you’re winning that particular fight or not, then it is to be a spectator up in the stands.
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[@DryCreekWranglerSchool]

I did not realize that I had the orientation wrong until I had finished with the video. But it came out so good, I did not want to re-record it. I hope it’s not too much of a distraction. - Dewayne

[@KQwest98]

It's awesome actually! I think we enjoy your presence and just appreciate hearing what you say and how you break it down for us

[@Gergaloth]

Lol never been so close

[@frwystr]

its alright

[@Thomas_Angelo]

No problem man.

[@pauperslament3467]

Wait, so you're NOT sitting in the passenger seat? Lol!

[@pizzulo8111]

"If you try and fail, congratulations." "Most people never try." -Mike Tyson

[@richardmapa2585]

I love that.

[@tomwhent8073]

"Success is the ability to go from one failure to the next with no loss of enthusiasm" Winston Churchill

[@1Ringkiller]

Success is not final, failure is not fatal. It is the courage to continue that counts - Winston Churchill

[@JordanRants]

Love this one

[@kadeyt9637]

Winston Churchill was one of the most evil men to ever exist.

[@hehe42069-k]

@@kadeyt9637 cope

[@cpt.honklerof3rdkekistania400]

@@kadeyt9637 lots of our most famous figues in history people look up to did horrible shit. Welcome to reality get over it

[@webbsamples]

Pushing a half million subscribers. It is encouraging to see a channel of this quality moving up this far this quickly.

[@hehe42069-k]

young men need role models, they need a man who can speak the honest truth and encourage them. Its no wonder his channel is exploding like it is, he's conducting himself as men should towards the younger generations.

[@vicstalr]

Indeed. Observing such rapid growth of this channel indicates Men suffering from positive masculine leadership and influence, in my opinion.

[@barry5138]

People have had enough of wokeness and being lead down the garden path.

[@fuegofyter4952]

In November of 2008 was the Captain of a fire crew that got overrun by a historic wind-driven fire in Southern CA. It was my decisions during the heat of battle that put is in a very difficult and dangerous situation. Thankfully we all survived with minor injuries and somehow kept our fire engine from burning up. The fact that I misread the situation and unnecessarily put my people in harm's way was a difficult thing for me to sort out for quite a while. A senior engineer at my department sent me the "man in the arena" poem. This poem along with wise counsel from solid folks was instrumental in restoring my confidence as a leader.

[@tomk2720]

Man that's a crazy story. Those fires are insane. If everybody else here knew about that arena this comment would hit hard. I guess its nice and lucky you got a learning experience that way. Through the gauntlet is the only way sometimes IMO. Life's crazy

[@Nick-ky5yn]

Man, thank you. I started my construction company 6 years ago. It’s been brutal, the first three years were basically failure after failure, made a colossal amount of mistakes. People love to see you fail, not the ones who are equally trying however, it’s the ones that aren’t doing a damn thing who love to critique you. Like you said. We’re in the ring. Taking a beating but at least we’re trying and I’m still standing. I may not be a millionaire but I damn well know I’ve put forth more effort in the last 6 years than some people do in their entire lives. And that’s worth something.

[@AgelessStones]

respect dude, keep up the good work

[@lennoxhd4746]

Ey man, just read your comment. How are things going for you one year later. Hope you're fine :)

[@Nick-ky5yn]

@@lennoxhd4746 hey man thanks for asking, quite the turn around. The hard work is starting to pay off slowly. Still much that needs to be done but progress is being made!

[@mofishing2241]

There is beauty in imperfection. There is success in failure. There is learning in knowing you are ignorant. Be proud of trying. Be proud to stand and fight. Many never know this feeling. Reval in your glory!

[@leandrocampolim3812]

"Don't put so much focus on succeeding that you have no focus left to put on trying, again, and again, and again." [ 17:50 ] - trank you so much for that.

[@TrentMcNary420]

This man is a national treasure!! I love listening to this gentleman and I feel I gain something besides respect from each one of his videos.

[@m0-m0597]

this video is really helpful for me and I'm from Germany lol

[@davidhehir7378]

@@m0-m0597same from Ireland 😂

[@jeffwilliams9086]

You’re absolutely right!

[@lisette1976]

❤ I'm a young woman but your life advice really resonates with me. Thank you for being a voice of reason in a world that barely makes sense.

[@litmoneypenny]

^same!

[@litedawg]

I could listen to this man read the phone book. His voice is so soothing and real.

[@antoniomonteiro7783]

Wise words! I'm a small business owner, and god knows how much I've been criticized and even ridiculed for trying to build my own business. I've even been ridiculed by relatives in front of my whole family! Fortunetly I had the strenght to know better and never listened. I tryed and I failed many times and the first few years were very hard, but today my business is solid and I can make a confortable living out of it. Don't waste your time listening to the critics, what do they know? Stand pround in your arena, strive to achieve your goals and make progress every day! In my country we have a saying that goes something like this: "The dogs bark, but the caravan still goes through!" Think about that. Let them bark and keep your focus.

[@jamesglover2251]

Dewayne, the truck has a nice personal touch to it from time to time. I appreciate the lengths you go to in order to reach out to us

[@bingus67]

Dewayne, I'm part of a large silent majority on this channel. I never comment, but I have devoured your content for the past few months. I'm writing because you've had a tangible impact on my life. As I write this, my best friend is undergoing brain surgery, I have spent the last 4-5 days doing everything I can to be there for her, but now I have to sit here and wait. It's a helpless feeling, but I can rest a little easier knowing that I've been a good friend. I dropped everything in my life to be there for someone who matters to me, and now I'm sitting here and all I have is your voice and your thoughts to calm me and pass this time. May God bless you sir.

[@paulb2995]

Is your friend safe post surg and recovered?

[@donaldmickunas8552]

Awesome. You are a true friend. ❤

[@markinator8826]

I have a printout of that speech on my wall at work, Real Men understand the meaning of those words!! I have scratched and clawed my way way to the life I live today, which is better than it has ever been. I falied so many times trying to succeed. Every person has their own definition of success, mine is to be able to take care of my family and leave a little something to help them on their way after I am gone.... GOD Bless You, and GOD Bless America!!

[@jimbok2492]

"And we will never surrender" I live by that quote.

[@claymaynard4207]

Just what I needed today. With my disabilities it is so easy to just want to lay back and say this is as good as it's gonna get . But now I just need to keep fighting the good fight, thank you so much for this video.

[@peterkroneberg5456]

Dear Clay, I was up to write a comment, scrolling trough the other comments first. Out of my circumstances I agree fully to your statement and hence don't have to write another commentary. Thank you for sharing!

[@RONALD......]

You are worthy, thank you for keeping up the faith sir..👍🏾🙏🏻

[@wyattheitkamp55]

Hey man I feel ya. I have a neuromuscular disease and in a wheelchair and some days it feels so easy to just give up. But I remind myself that I just need to push a little further and keep trying. We just gotta keep fighting the good fight!

[@JD-the-firearm-fanatic]

From a 22 year old man with no father figures in my life, thank you for your lessons and encouragement

[@MuleSkinnerWS]

I've spent thousands of dollars on counseling and success coaching, but I think I've learned more from men (Dewayne and Alan) who like to sit and smoke pipes. When I started out as an independent driver and bought my first truck, my mom got me a plaque with The Man in the Arena excerpt printed on it. It hangs in my humble little office in the basement, and gives me chills everytime I read it. Teddy is also one of my most favorite historical figures. Great video Dewayne. See ya in June.

[@jackmcnaughton3096]

I’ve met athletes, musicians, comedians, and an actor or two also, and the only person in this world I wish to meet and would be nervous to do so is this man here. My heroes are cowboys, and this is a damn good one

[@Abigailwark]

🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 Thank. We’re sitting down and watching this video with our son tonight

[@testchannelone6616]

At a certain point in this wonderful video you say something like "Listen to me young man." As a 73-year-old man I felt at that moment you were talking to me. Thank you.

[@Illuminatelove36]

🎉🎉 Never quit,.. Love that biscuit quote Thanks Dwayne

[@ErichKemper1971]

My brother, We fight FROM victory…not FOR victory! Never quit. You are such a blessing to many, Just. Being. You! Thank you for sharing your life with us.

[@Bishop_C]

It's not the video quality, it's the message. Thank you

[@craig5477]

You mentioned have a problem with temper. That’s one area I’ve been working on my whole life. I’ve got better as I’ve aged but still loose control at times. The difference now is when that happens instead of mentally excusing myself for cause I wake up with that event on my mind and my conscience lets me know that once again I’ve not kept control. It does not feel good. And that’s a good thing. I end up with a thought that I now speak out loud for my ears to take in. “I will do better”. Thank you, Dewayne

[@bumblebee8289]

Hey there Mr just want you to know you have helped me alot lately . I've finally asked out someone I've loved for 18 years . When I was an addict she helped me get clean purely by showing me I was someone worth living . After all this time I'm jumping in the arena. I'm scared shitless but they say it's the only way to be brave . Thanks hey

[@Matthew.._]

Your channel has grown so much and I’m so grateful to see that. I remember watching you at 20k. You have saved my mindset, and you are a great adult figure in my life

[@UniversalGamerEdye]

One of the very few youtubers that catches my attention right away , every advice he says and how he tells it as if it was a story fits perfectly within the context, it's clear ,and straight to the point , not nonsense . love this guy ~ Thank You So Much Sir. 🤝

[@virileagitur7403]

It doesn't matter whether you upload videos about horses, cigars, faith or philosophy. I'll watch them all. Thank you, Dewayne.

[@AndrewMorris.11]

We must endeavour to persevere

[@thecapone45]

Absolutely. He even has videos on packing and a video on sleeping bags. Even THOSE have great advice! Made me go back and watch every single one of his videos and even the ones in wrangling have great advice that applies to life.

[@lastlivingoldcowboy9082]

All one thing Get yourself right, and everything will line out

[@HiGlowie]

@@lastlivingoldcowboy9082I learned that one the hard way haha. That being said, not many folks can live a messed up life and have continual success.

[@erwinbrubacker7488]

Thank You Bro, I needed this. 65 yrs old trk drvr, now I shall focus again... that I'm in the arena.

[@moparmarkstpac]

Dwayne, whenever I hear someone quote " The man in the arena" I'm reminded of my favorite historical person Ernest Shackleton . He was a man that wouldn't quit no matter the obstacle. If anybody don't know the true story of his Antarctica expedition I highly recommend reading about it.

[@mvteacher7648]

This is now one of my favorite videos. Thank you for the message! I had to deal with lots of criticism a few years ago and those people weren't trying to build anything. I heard "your course will fail, your book won't sell, you should be ready for disappointment, you should find another job." There is a Brazilian song that says: "I keep facing the wave where many have drowned." To battle!

[@Luiz_Andrade94]

I’m from Brazil and KZbin recomends this channel for me. I watch and learn a lot from you Thank you for your words sir. Simple widsom.

[@DeverVision]

There’s only a small percentage of us left. The type of person you’re describing. You can only teach your kids the right way, and to avoid the type you’re explaining. Some people just can’t be helped. It’s the time of the devil. And some simply can’t be saved.👌🏻

[@irishcherokee8884]

You have encouraged me. I’m 63 and still in the arena.

[@Missblu1961]

Metoo

[@jakedrty7643]

Having my family from Tennessee while I lived away, I see a lot of that country/Appalachian wisdom when I listen to DeWayne. Like an uncle always willing to give advice.

[@JonOnFilm]

It’s great to have your words of wisdom, Dewayne. -especially in these strange times we’re in.

[@enriquegutierrez4068]

Thank you sir. Very well and perfectly explained. Thank you.

[@scaleworksRC]

Strange timing. It's time for me to find a new gig and it's bothering me a little bit, but yeah.. been knocked down so many times it's become second nature to get up swinging. This year is already stacked against me, but it's all a test of faith in my eyes. I always say "God will make a way" and He always does. What takes time to learn is, it's His way and timing and not ours. God bless and thanks for the encouraging words.

[@tommyreece5876]

I just wanted to comment that this is one of the best videos I have watched yet on the channel. This is one that I will save and watch over and over again when things get rough or I find myself in a really hard spot. Thank you so much for this! People like this who have no mentors or father figures benefit from this wisdom. Thanks Dwayne.

[@sambayer8173]

I had a business during Covid doing landscaping and it didn’t turn out so well for me. I was way over my head over what I could handle and thought I was capable of doing all it takes for a business. When I had to call it quits it broke my spirit because I didn’t want to be a failure. I had the support of so much of my friends and family and I didn’t want to let them down. However I’m glad I had the experience, and all the hard work I did with just my wife and I. And I’ll take all that I learn for everything else I try in life. Big fan of your videos, and thought I’d leave this here because I thought it was relevant.

[@jefflupp2587]

I think there is definitely something to be said for " Just settin' in the truck"! I to carry the "Man In The Arena" around on a plaque, and your talk today, and the way you expounded upon it certainly did it justice. This is such a relevant frame of reference, and i appreciated the talk......Don't ever let the Tech get ya down!

[@Jacob_isnt_good_at_this]

Thank you for being here for us sir. Thank you.

[@kevink.7341]

I needed to hear and be reminded of this. Thanks, brother.

[@dylanmann9917]

Seeing how many subscribers you have gained as quickly as you have shows how needed this type of content is for people

[@fromero5785]

Dewayne, Thanks for this timely reminder. This is "arena season", and for me it feels like the ache and soreness from last season (and the voices of the old critics) are still begging for attention, trying to slow me down before this season even gets started. Yet, here we are and it's time to mount up and get back at it! Thank you!

[@v10moped]

Similar saying I always remembered from the TV show, Do Over - someone said "Stop watching life from the sidelines."

[@jaime-gl3ev]

A good friend gave me a copy of that speach. I read it to a friend yesterday. 👍👍

[@jonnyglucose72]

Bravo! Nicely said. I have crashed and burned so many times in my life that I have earned the nickname “Crash Gordon”. And no matter the crash, the pain, the illness, the beating…I get backup and move on. Without struggle the species fails to survive.

[@guitarplayer5611]

Good message Dwayne!

[@jaystewart9947]

Good stuff. When I read the title I knew it was based on Teddy Roosevelts great speech

[@thecollective1584]

My personal motto is very similar to the man in the arena: "My armor isn't shiny. It is dented, rusted, and tarnished. It might not look like much, but I have been in the fight and survived to tell. The knight with the fine, shiny armor has never had his mettle tested at all."

[@rickcoffey5309]

I have that exact quote hung on my office wall. Surprisingly I've had several people read it and honestly be amazed at it. Great content in today's show

[@chriram25]

I'm sure a lot of folks need to hear this. Thanks for giving us your time and your wisdom. It is well received.

[@HuzzahDaddy]

Very inspiring video. Everyone should watch

[@MrTmac2023]

11:24 these are* some of the wisest words ive heard in quite along time. thank you and keep making great content sir!

[@tonymatt5710]

Well said brother been working with young men 20+ years can't agree more thank you for saying what needs to be said

[@rjambi]

I love you bro. I may not be considered a young man by general standards but I'm listening to your advice as if I am. Onward to the arena! God Bless and Keep Crushing

[@DontDoDaylight]

Thank you, sir. I understand the seemingly endless issues with video production that can occur at times. Thanks for pushing though!

[@juliebarnett9812]

God bless you and the Mrs.

[@brittnyhawk8633]

I think people like you guys(including your lovley wife) cause your honest and real. Not out to impress anyone or change anyone. You are what you are, and know it. Sadly that's a are gem today.

[@mistymang321]

Sometimes I wish the channel would stay small so I can hoard all these invaluable gems of wisdom for myself, but I know there are many people out there that really need to hear these words to help them weather their own storms. Subscribed at 45k and I hope to see this channel grow to astronomical heights. Bless up everyone 🙏

[@warriorweldingllcNC]

The last few comments sent this home. In reference to God I needed that moment. I'm a 47 year old man who really enjoys your words. I have to dig up your channel but it is well worth it. I lost my dad when my world was pushing me hard to man up. I have raised a great son married a great wife, been a teacher and a preacher. This channel speaks to the inner beings of what we as men have been missing. Kinsmanship. And honest level discernment, admonishment, and love. Your not God but God definitely works through you. Thank you sir.

[@samsays2143]

Iv tried to write something that says as much as I mean but can’t. Listen and learn! Try and try again. This man is a living legend! Fail to learn

[@gabevajda1907]

Very good advice and wisdom..

[@redcapote4760]

You don't know how far and in what circles you are appreciated. I find you being talked about in chats among nurses, even. Thank you for taking the time to talk with us, and may you enjoy much health for many years.

[@BigDaddy_CoolDiesel]

Needed to hear this one Dewayne, thanks.

[@douglaschaney7487]

I've had this conversation with myself several times over my 74 years and to me it comes down to one thing...will power. The will power to get off my butt and be persistent with my effort to continue to move forward, and forward doesn't always mean what it implies. Sometimes it means taking a few side steps to regain my balance and catch my breath or contemplate how to get around the next obstacle. About 20 years ago I had a license plate frame made for my truck that says, Dust Yourself off & Cowboy Up! to remind me to, as you put it, stay in the arena. Good talk Dwayne. Now...about that horse stuff....

[@mjheart94]

The prize is won through sacrifice and service. Carry on.

[@chloemartel9927]

It would always be a big mistake to say "I can't" around my mother. That was a sure fire guarantee you WOULD do it. She would immediately say "Can't is a beggar that won't". So I learned early to saddle up and giddy up. It has served me well.

[@jeremiahlewis7839]

I heard recently the phrase "Can't never could". Short but sweet.

[@11thHourRecords]

Your voice deserves high quality audio and this is a great example, thank you for your wisdom Sir.

[@yuval2248]

Thank you Dewane , that was good 🥰 Yuval from Israel

[@imankhan1999]

"Most people never fail because they never try. One thing is certain in life, the valiant ones always wins!" -David Goggins Stay hard

[@MidNightGamble]

Sir, please don't change anything. Just put out whatever is on your mind. Your work is superb, and I believe the Life of your channel. God Speed!

[@chuchukepa]

It's been said already by lots of people, but I didn't say it myself, well I didn't say it. So thank you Dewayne. Thank you for sharing these life lessons and encouraging the best in people.

[@wombaterror]

Mr. Dewayne, I want to thank you for your dedication with these inspirational videos and let you know you've been a great teacher to me for this year of 2023 so far. I am going to be turning 26 soon as my birthday is later this month, and it comes as no surprise to me that I'm facing an existential crisis. Mom got diagnosed with Parkinsons' Dad lost part of his left hand.. But I also wanted to say please be cautious if you're having technical difficulties especially with microphones. Perhaps I'm just too paranoid due to my depression but when I myself have such difficulties I worry about surveillance and organized stalking. Will always visit your videos to start my day off right and check in on you & your family, I appreciate your knowledge as an elder. Thanks again for everything Mr. Dewayne, have a nice day.

[@gunmedic3517]

Spoken like a brilliant man.

[@ReadOrwell]

Sometimes you have to leave the arena because others don't want to win. Their rewards don't involve winning. They don't need to try, they get a paycheck anyway. Great video!

[@TheLawnCareNut]

Very encouraging. Thank you.

[@juno2095]

Your video has just put me back on track in my life. Thank you with all my heart for your kindness and your wisdom!

[@pimpz7409]

Appreciate you,, keep up the good work as always. Thank you brother man.

[@steveanderson8137]

Glad you're doing a podcast also. They really make long days in the truck or tractor go by nicely.

[@nicolasgruman635]

Just what I needed to hear today. Thank you sir!

[@dansan2019]

You're absolutely right and what a great message to the young like myself today.

[@tacothursdays6546]

I've known this to be wisdom ever since I went to my first Jiu Jitsu tournament - as a spectator. Seeing my training partners fight tooth and nail for the glory and seeing the will to win in full display was even more eye opening than when I first started the martial arts. I now know the next time a local tournament comes to my city, I'm going to be there. No excuses, no quarter.

[@lkwalden7]

I'm going through a strange and difficult divorce not of my choice and these words give me courage. Thanks again.

[@seenonyt2210]

🙏 best wishes to you

[@danonotinthelionsden]

Hey Man, seek Jesus my friend. Free choice just blows up a balloon some days...but tomorrow, is this choice today. Did you know that? What you do today, dictates tomorrow. So my friend, I'm praying for you today, so you can know faith,...have strength, seek Him, and have His favor... tomorrow. Tomorrow Luke, starts today Son, started yesterday, but you and I have now, with Jesus Christ, today. Amen.

[@lkwalden7]

@@seenonyt2210 Thank you.

[@lkwalden7]

@@danonotinthelionsden Thank you for the prayer.

[@danonotinthelionsden]

@luke walden Don't think me my friend, thank God. Thank the Father. Today is a day He's showing you things we will not, nor need to know,...but your butt better be obedient to Him. I am a witness to prayer over you,... I'm just a hooman...

[@bryanfox2735]

Podcast wether you watch it or listen, it’s basically a verbal book or however you say that!!! I’ll run a u tube vid in the truck just to listen to the conversation being had!

[@sontridoan261]

Thanks you sir. I am a UPS driver and 95% of the time i am out there by myself. But still have to go with what I be instructed from a those guy in the office even those most of those are completely mindless and useless. Thanks you for all of your cigar talk. At the end of the day I'm proud cause I was the MAN IN THE ARENA. Once agian thanks you sir.

[@MediaHappeningNow]

God bless you brother. These videos help in ways beyond what words can measure. You have no idea. Then again, I think maybe you do 👍

[@EJGentleman]

Enjoy this video. SO very true about the Man in the Arena. You are smoking one of mine and my sons favorite cigars. Cigar Place is awesome! Your Rumble channel is great.

[@Thejohnmullen]

Thank you for the podcast! It’s a lot easier for me to consume your content on my commute.

[@firinne]

Always good to hear your advice, this video was particularly helpful. I'm starting over again, and this really did strike a chord, it seems so obvious but never occurred to me that it doesn't matter if you fail, as long as you're doing the thing you set out to do. Powerful words! Thank you.

[@PartySober]

I'm so thankful for your words of wisdom, even hearing it as a woman. Very encouraging and challenging, so thank you Deanna & Dewayne!!

[@Virrup]

I’m 21 years old and I’m trying to make a path in my life I’m currently doing a new job I’ve never done and I don’t feel confident in it but like you said even if I fail it’s better to have tried then to have just sat back and watched the opportunity float past me I needed these sensible words this morning to help ease some of the anxiety I’m starting to feel

[@mb369b8]

Amen. I have that speech hanging in my den for the same reason

[@comesahorseman]

Many thanks, Dewayne. Food for thought.

[@jadariusmcnally4842]

Real heartfelt and emotional message. “ Get in the Arena”

[@RIP30]

Once again my ole friend…. Thank you and Amen !!

[@julianparra6788]

Thank you for the encouragement Dewayne. I appreciate the content.