The Men With An Advantage In The Philippines - The Sigma Males

[@TheFilipinaPea]

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[@VelvetSanity]

Half of the questions in this quiz don't even come close to an accurate answer for me

[@robertruck5501]

Damn,I'm a Delta 😂😂

[@Murphysson]

Easy test to take, thanks.👍

[@DMSProduktions]

@@robertruck5501 IS your Oath of Celibacy on record?

[@ccjohncc1]

Most questions either didn't apply or had 2 equally applicable answers. Too short to have any real validity. More of a fun test for entertainment with little to no science.

[@robertruck5501]

I do believe that those of us who pursue a filipina, and then actually make the trip to PI, are very unique and similar. The majority of men talk about doing something, but never do it. Men who truly do go to PI, are definitely cut from a different mold. Look at life as a great adventure, and are not afraid to live life on our own terms .

[@siriustraveler7083]

Agreed I loved my time in the Philippines ( lived there) and planning on going back for the long haul

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Yes, you are men of action, taking calculated risks - often the hallmark of a sigma 👍

[@robertruck5501]

@@TheFilipinaPea I seriously thought I would be a Sigma. Definitely a sigma most of my life. I think now I'm just more mellow now and I don't hotly pursue women. Either they like me or they don't.

[@lutherthompson8547]

Robert truck,,, yes it's called being desperate,, lonely, weak ..

[@ARedMotorcycle]

Well, I first came here over 21 years ago, and never once considered it to be something to fear. So, I don't think less of those that don't get around to come here. Some of them might not have the financial freedom to do it. I know a few people who would do well here, but they just don't have the funds. People are practically living in their cars now in the States, so traveling is definitely out of the question. Someday, I'll be able to fly them out. In the meantime, I'll try to enjoy living with my fiance. But I miss my Western friends. The locals here just don't have the same humor as me. We don't really have much in common aside from being biped mammals.

[@manonpurpose6565]

Your explanation of a sigma man was quite good. I disagree that you can train yourself to be a sigma, the emotional intelligence they possess is something they are born with. Trying to make an alpha let go of his ego, or have a beta grow a pair is some very poor odds.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Many sources seem to think it can be done: ideapod.com/how-to-become-a-sigma-male/ www.quora.com/How-do-I-train-myself-to-be-a-sigma-male kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZqvTYmCtiaueq7Msi=jLvIroJ-0tyjCt3b medium.com/@velidran/unleash-your-true-power-becoming-a-sigma-male-68a7f4419be4 (but these were just a few I found in a few seconds - there are many more) 😉👍

[@KB3TLE]

@@TheFilipinaPea

[@puppyupper4565]

Amen, a person can adopt strategies to be a better person, but there are some sigma traits that world hates. There would be no reason to become a true sigma so that more people would not like you. I am super kind to people but many do not like who I am. Because I am confident when they are not, they think I am arrogant. I don't think I am above anyone. I was born a sigma, and since I have become a christian, I am asking God to make me softer. I had a challenging childhood that made me super strong. And God is faithful this year to soften the edges. So, in a way, I am becoming less sigma but God made me one in the womb. I will always be one. Jesus even said, because they hated Him, they will hate you. I think He was sigma too. He called the elite, broods of vipers and whitewashed tombs full of dead men's bones. I think only a sigma would do such things especially in those days.

[@robinborkowski5598]

It's like a club you're born into, or doomed to, depending on your perspective.

[@CaptainWedgie]

​@TheFilipinaPea I think people can learn how to peacefully accept being in an empty and windowless room, but I feel that's different from someone else's innate ability to feel completely at home in an empty and windowless room. Thanks for the great video!

[@davepenn9181]

A sigma male never argues with an idiot, because he knows that onlookers won't be able to tell which of them is the idiot.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

🤣🤣🤣👍

[@wildbill562]

A sigma male doesn't care what onlookers think. The reason a wise man doesn't argue with an idiot is because it's a waste of his time.

[@SomeUserNameBlahBlah]

@@wildbill562 This!

[@MrSGL21]

usually for me the idiot saying something so stupid it leaves me speachless.

[@fruitiusmaximus925]

What are you talking about? ANYONE who argues with a sigma male IS an idiot.

[@mafp22w]

The biggest difference I found when going to the Philippines is that the women are more God fearing and they were not afraid to let you know they liked you. Compared to the USA, these women weren’t just to trying to play you against whoever else they had an interest in. So glad to have been married to my Filipina for 30 years. And she looks as good today at 63 than many woman do in their late 30’s. 5’, 105#.

[@DonaldGMyers]

Nearly 40 years with a beautiful Filipina I can vouch for mid 60s appearing mid 30s. In fact most twenty something’s would be envious

[@Jerry44374]

Filipinas are truly 100% more desirable than most American woman. The Philippines is like heaven on earth, and the woman there are angels.

[@carriehenry6721]

More God fearing religious doubt it..😇😺🌻☘️

[@anonygent]

The problem with the labels is that every man can play a different role in different circumstances. One sociologist said that every group of four men will have an alpha, beta, nerd, and clown. But you can take four alphas or four clowns and put them in a group and the same roles will emerge, so the labels are not tied to the person. Some meek men have been surprised to find themselves as the leader in an emergency because they were the only men who knew what to do.

[@rafaeleugenio1719]

Very interesting 👌 😮! "The same 4 roles will emerge" why? I think For the group's self survival!

[@mediocreman2]

That's an excellent point and I think it's really unfortunate that we categorize people so easily and readily. I am introverted by nature but when I recognize that nobody else is going to address an issue, I'll become more alpha. I have surprised my friends in the past by how loud or aggressive I have been.😅

[@lucyferina]

I have all the sigma and alpha traits and I'm not introverted at all, but lean more to the sigma traits.

[@johnstreckfuss3068]

Once more, as the light of a single candle dispels the darkness, Pea appears to give hope and comfort to Western men!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

There’s always hope for you here 👍😊❤️

[@tryscience]

Gotta Love her sense of humor as well!

[@maddhatt7082]

I am trying to become a phlebotomist which is a medical skill. I hope it would translate in the Philippines. 🎉

[@tryscience]

@@maddhatt7082 near impossible for expats to get authorization to work in the Philippines

[@Jake-u2o]

How eloquently put !!!

[@bigbuck8138]

I have been in Cebu for two weeks now . the lady I came here to see is married and separated from her husband . She told me she was never married when I met her online . However being upfront honest and kind to people has landed me a better Filipina who is younger without children and works two jobs. She does not money me to death like the person I came here to see. Being kind respectful and having some knowledge of culture has serviced me well. Americans here are often seen as arrogant. My new GF is very happy that I never complain and am eager to learn more about her culture. We Americans need to be more patient and understanding while we are here . Had I not behaved and been honest about what I wanted this would have been a wasted trip.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’m glad you found a good one! ❤️❤️❤️❤️👍

[@someguy861]

Don't get bitter; get better!

[@bigbuck8138]

@@someguy861 you are so right . My best friends Dad told him “Don’t worry about that one , worry about the next one “

[@bigbuck8138]

@@TheFilipinaPea your help has been invaluable. I had been here before your channel but an American will never learn everything. It is very clear you do your homework.

[@coffeebotography]

Definitely 3 things are giving Americans a bad rap: bragging, anger/impatience, complaining😊

[@sharhune2735]

Hard to believe I've been following your channel for almost 4 years now, damn that went by fast. Pushing almost 300k subscribers and I don't see you stopping now. Take care and I'll see you Tuesday.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I won’t stop till they make me (whoever ‘they’ is) 🤣

[@olavlaupsa490]

@@TheFilipinaPea Maybe Spook can tell you who "they" are 👻

[@itree4]

Wish you guys the best. Been married to my Filipina for 19 1/2 years. It's been the best. 💯👍🏾

[@bobbruce4135]

Been the worst for some of us. The key we learned is to never petition or put a ring on it.

[@chosen_one1602]

As a sigma male, you described my whole life. We move in silence and analyze everything. Probably the reason why I was survive 6 yrs. straight in the Philippines untouched. Alpha males can spot sigma males right away, we don't go along to get along. We like being alone, being alone makes you stronger.

[@MrSGL21]

this right here brother.

[@GFYM_Finance]

Even the smarter alphas are too dumb to figure us out. It's quite amusing, actually 😂

[@oldguy2764]

As an old guy, who can no longer keep an American woman, I identify as returned mail.😊

[@winpowell1024]

😅

[@TheFilipinaPea]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 That was funny 👍

[@dbuck1964]

You are not alone my friend.

[@edwardaguirre3503]

Ha,ha,ha, I know the feeling, bro.

[@arthouston7361]

Since I was a pilot...am I "airmail?"

[@andreaspitsinis255]

I took a massive leap of faith and went to Cebu last Sept, you just make up your mind and do it and thats it. I met my Pillipina there and now im working on a fiancée visa. For those of you who are debating it i say just do it and don't wait.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

👍👍👍👍❤️

[@joshpointoh]

I can't tell you how many times my Filipina girlfriend has said "oh my god, men here never do (whatever i just did that she likes)" There were times i actually felt bad. I would be praised for things that i didnt earn, they are just a benefit of having been born in the US. But, i quickly stopped feeling bad when so many of the things she loved about me are things even the poorest filipino guy could have done for her. She is a gorgeous, hard working woman, talented, intelligent, loyal, no kids, she is literally a dream come true. To think she had trouble finding a local man who would treat her like she deserves is INSANE. We have so much in common and so much to love about each other, I am sure that we were meant to be together, but plenty of Filipino guys could have made it a lot harder for me to find her, so I have no sympathy when i hear a Filipino guy complain about foreigners taking their women. No, we aren't stealing their women, we are appreciating them

[@DavidECoy]

No need to reply Pea. I’m a sigma. Didn’t know what that was but i guessed that once u started to describe it. Not all pertains to me but most of it does. I’m a bit of a loner and a workaholic, that’s y I’m a trucker who works close to 100 hours a week. I’ve always strived to be the best at everything I do and wanted to our my own business which is y I own my own truck which makes me a small business owner. This was cool. I like learning new things and to be honest. I always thought I was an alpha but that never felt right but I knew I wasn’t a bata. Great vid Pea explains a few things lol. That part about will cut u out of their life part really hit home too. My best friend of over 20 years. He is the one who first got me to go to the Philippines. My wife was introduced to me by his wife. 5 years ago we had an argument and haven’t spoken since.

[@reddevilparatrooper]

Holy Shit!! You described who I am!!! I only assert myself when I know when people are fucked up in their thinking when they try to take over and try to be in charge. I have no tolerance when people try to get others to get hurt when ordered because of their ego not a calculated strategy. I have no tolerance for people who are bullies.

[@richardrinn1522]

I came over 20 years ago. I avoided the bar girls and the big cities. I was polite and read a book about the culture on my flight to Manila. Within a few weeks I found a woman with a pure heart and got married. It was the smartest thing I have ever done in my life. We are happily married in Florida with trips back every few years. One will know if the Philippines is for you or the woman within a few days.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

❤️❤️❤️👍

[@senseofstile]

What year did this occur?

[@tryscience]

​@@senseofstilebefore 2004.

[@sinistersilverado965]

marriage is for idiots

[@billable1861]

I heard that there’s a little blue pill that does wonders for the middle aged man. Who knows one day you may even be able to come again. 😂

[@tedjohnson4451]

INTP working as a K-8 Head Custodian. 62 Work/ 21 Vacation/ 118 Calendar Days from Retirement. Another 45 days or so to clean out my apartment, give most of my stuff away, store five boxes of keepsakes with my son & get on the plane for Cebu City. Definite Sigma. The Philippines is an Unconventional Solution to the Issues retirees face.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Exactly Ted! And sigmas excel at finding unconventional solutions 👍

[@sauter1]

Fellow INTP here. Hope your relocation goes smoothly and wish you all the best!

[@laserbeam002]

PLEASE have a plan B should things not work out in the Phils. Having said that I wish you the very best of the very best.

[@tedjohnson4451]

@@laserbeam002 Plans B, C & D are written out.

[@NapoleonDynamyte]

@@tedjohnson4451Excellent!

[@terrylorrah6725]

Peaday is the only day of the week that occurs twice each week.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

That might change on Tuesday 😳❤️

[@nomennescio7457]

Spoiler alert?😁 I love your honesty towards the ones that will be sad about your decision.

[@paulmorrell4570]

@@TheFilipinaPeaHmmmm, As a faithful watcher of the Pea I wondered if the 2 vids per week was sustainable. You have great content. Your audience will follow you which ever way you decide to take your channel. Damn Girl, there is more to life than youtube. I think you are about to find that out. :>)

[@flinx649]

@@TheFilipinaPea a video everyday? hehe

[@etfremd]

@@TheFilipinaPeaOMG I am so worried! 🙏🙏🙏

[@KennethStrothers]

I’ve been married to a Philippina for over 7 years and lived with her since! I have another saying about arguing with idiots who will just drag you down to their level and beat you with experience! I’m over six feet tall and 100 kilograms and have a Philippine driver license and an ACR in my wallet! The house is paid for as well as the new pickup truck and now we’re working on putting a plantation together after fencing in the property first! our house is actually a ranch with a very nice fence and we have two types of goats with turkeys chickens. I’m a retired veteran and love living there and have traveled with my wife to Singapore, Hong Kong,as well as Taiwan ! Never going back to American women ever!

[@anteperic2836]

Blue really is your color Pea! Looking sharp as always

[@takeahike858]

I believe a real sigma would not waste their time arguing as it is usually a fruitless endeavor to make a point to an idiot.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

👍👍👍👍🤣

[@chrismaddieourfil-amjourne3720]

Exactly!!! Well said

[@davepenn9181]

Winning a debate with an intelligent person is difficult. Winning an argument with an idiot is utterly impossible.

[@johnstreckfuss3068]

Yup

[@562wiseguy]

The whole beta, sigma, alpha garbage is astrology for men.

[@julesforsyth2996]

That blue dress again, cant begin to express how well it suits you, as stated before. I hope we aren't going to have bad news on Tuesday, I'm sure not. BTW, you described me almost perfectly.

[@RiderOftheNorth1968]

Blue is her color!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Jules! It’s nothing drastic, I don’t think 😊👍

[@julesforsyth2996]

@@RiderOftheNorth1968 that sounds like a Chelsea supporter.

[@julesforsyth2996]

@@TheFilipinaPea 🤞🤞

[@sharhune2735]

Coffee, Tea and Pea. What a way to start the day.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

What more could one ask for? 🤣

[@Avarua59]

A day without Pea is like day without sunshine.

[@John-or8ze]

My wife has always said im a sigma and i always thought it was in the middle of alpha and beta males. My wife always says im a loner and could careless if i have friends or not. Im more comfortable reading a good book but when we go to parties i watch many people make fools of themselves. I prefer to keep my mouth shut so as to not let them see how foolish i can be also. I am comfortable being by myself and when i allow someone into my domain i am fiercely loyal and will defend them until the end but if they stab me in the back, i can forget them like an old shoe and move on with my life. If someone doesnt want me, why in the hell would i want them. When i was married my step children came to me when they were sick because my ex wife always fell apart when they were sick and she was an RN. I have told many filipinos don't ask me a question unless you want a brutally honest answer and i tell them most people don't want the truth but they want people to be yes men or woman. People sometimes ask me why I'm laughing and its because i see the filipinos doing something that i havent seen being done since the 80's in the US. As soon as i bought my car i had cameras installed for a 360 degree view. I read too many stories and im covering my a**. I had literally every item you mentioned so must be a full blown Sigma lol my wife said yes you are everything you described and she said you always defend the weak no matter who it is. Lol 😂 finally i know where i fit in. I knew i wasn't a beta (too weak) or an alpha (too loud and tendencies to bully the weak). Im 100% sigma male and damn proud lol 😂

[@mr.randolph5582]

Very well put Pea. I never mentioned this to you before but one of the main reasons I subliminally watch your videos is because over the years of watching your videos, to me have proven that you have a lot of Sigma traits. I feel that I would have an amazing conversation with you because you are a very rare type of individual just like myself (a Total Sigma). It's pretty rare to have someone read my personality like a book and it's a little scary because I thought nobody knows who I really am. It does get lonely time to time but not always.The Star Track skit tells me a lot about you and why you chose that particular skit. LOL Not because i think you are going to fly away on some space ship Lol But the thought of the uncertainty of outer space is what attracts you. What ever you decide to do with your KZbin Site, I know you will have thought it out with the best possible outcome for yourself. I really appreciate your time and energy that you have put into this project and I wish you and your family all the Best.

[@HD-bq8pw]

A true sigma would never post the results of his personality test in a comments section

[@jamestodd1419]

As an American permanent resident living in the Philippines and married to to lovely, loving, and lovable Filipina, you described me very well without ever meeting me, Pea. I appreciated everything you said as did my wife. Keep up the good work without fundamentally changing your channel. Thank you.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

No fundamental changes coming - just a re-focusing 😉👍

[@elderdwaynehull5377]

I am a sigma male , very preserve l can be in a place, and no one will know l am there, l give the advance not take the advance, l pay attention to my surrounding. Never make decisions out of my emotion, and never rush things. Over 6 years no relationships patient man, man of character and great leader qualities.

[@timyoder5178]

lol…I am almost 100% sigma for sure. Felt like you where describing me accept the fact that I do tend to be to forgiving and while they’ll never be a best friend I tend to give people multiple chances even when I know shouldn’t:)

[@vernondavis561]

Hi Pea, I suspect that you are an INFJ. Am I right?

[@TheFilipinaPea]

You would be correct, yes - good guess 👍😊

[@vernondavis561]

I have watched every video on your channel. As a result, I was able to ascertain and extrapolate your personality profile. You happen to belong to the most rare profile. I always knew you were a special person.😄👍👏❤️

[@SunRise-ul7ko]

Pea, I've never been to the Philippines & I'm not interested in getting into a philipino relationship. However, I've never moved in with my girlfriend, as I prefer at least 5 days a week by myself.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

And just what do you do during those 5 mysterious days, hmmm? 😳🤣

[@harveygault1911]

@@TheFilipinaPea I am sure that SunRise wile never tell, But the Shadow knows, bwahahahah.

[@silverliner4894]

Pea, we could use people like you here in the West, always telling it like it is. I love it

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’m trying to get there! (2025?) 🤞

[@tazerface8659]

Sigma individuals do well everywhere generally. I'll probably never go to the Philippines (American) but I enjoy your channel as a way to understand a lot of my coworkers as I work in health care. Naturally a large portion of them are Filipina. I never thought to label myself but the person you're describing mostly fits me. I'll continue not to label myself but it's interesting nonetheless. Thank you for your entertaining content ❤️

[@OffTheGridHomesteadCostaRica]

This video about the Sigma Male was extremely good. I learned so much and it was extremely helpful! I felt like you had been watching my life???

[@ronfindley2874]

Good evening Pea. My favorite day of the week. And my favorite time of the day, vitamin Pea time. Let's get this show on the road...

[@TheFilipinaPea]

And a bronze medal (and maybe a shot of vitamin P) for Ron ❤️🥉👍

[@darkroast66]

I’ve never heard the phrase Sigma, but as I sat and listened, it was like you were a sketch artist drawing my portrait. Kinda crazy.

[@SpamMouse]

Read up on Myers Briggs personality types. This is a related subset. You will have heard of Alphas and Betas perhaps?

[@puppyupper4565]

Yes, do an internet search and take the tests. do it at several sites. They are fairly accurate. The Pea did not touch on all of a true sigmas traits. But some traits of sigmas are hated by the world. There is only one true sigma personality, INTJ-A. Several other personalities share many sigma traits but they also have traits that run against a sigma.

[@SpamMouse]

@@puppyupper4565 Also MANY YT channels, some better than others.

[@TruSigma712]

Ahhh, the joy of that “light bulb” moment when you finally understand why you do and think as you do and why you never fit into the “norms” previously known.👍🏾

[@SoloDad905]

This is exactly what I was thinking when I heard about Sigma. I never heard of it before, but it was like someone was reading my thoughts. I like to be more to myself, Im not very open to many people, so when they were explaining in great detail about how I am, I felt sort of violated by it, like they hacked into my accounts to get my info or something and were making it public.

[@curtbrown554]

I'd never heard of a Sigma male before, but it pretty much describes me perfectly.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Then investigate a little further - you might discover exactly who you are 👍😊

[@jjsparksshow4772]

I am a sigma male ANGEL 😇 IN DiSGUISE you are looking like a 🌹 🌹 💐 ROSE GARDEN 🌹 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤enjoyable video x

[@theadaptivefitnesschannel4308]

Omg! I called it! I started watching your videos about six months ago before I came to the Philippines in February. Like recognizes like. I said this woman is like a sigma female. But I didn’t really know that that label existed for women. You are absolutely right about the advantages and disadvantages of sigma males in the Philippines. I will be back in the Philippines in July. And it’s funny because I intentionally avoid all cities saturated with western alphas. Instead, I will be spending my time once again in Calbayog. There were no foreigners in Calbayog. I was the only black, foreigner sigma, male in town. And I loved it! Your videos just keep getting better and better. Thanks Pea!😊👍🏾💯

[@wayneONvolarte]

Only just saw Notification,Somehow Missed the Bell 2 ur Show and adds gonna Watch Now😊

[@johnlobley]

Very informative, as usual, Pea. Not looking forward to Tuesday's news. ...and always let the ads play

[@themalejodietaylor2599]

Pea, our INFJ Ambassador, and Sigma Femme Fatale, melding East and West in the Philippines.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks 🤣🤣🤣🤣👍

[@a.d.clarke4990]

Good video. Not sure about all this label stuff but a decent analysis of different personalities.

[@Bipolarintrovert666]

1:20 about 90% of everyday AN INTROVERT 4:41🖐 5:47 THAT'S ME 1,000 PERCENT

[@HeartPokerJL977]

Your dress suits you perfectly. Unta tanan angayan😥

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks! I do love my blue ❤️👍

[@HeartPokerJL977]

Hot miss@@TheFilipinaPea not just the color kundili tanan gyud swear🥰😻

[@MrSGL21]

her skin tone and blue go together like peanut butter and jelly.

[@billulman3254]

Thank you Pea all your videos are helping me prepare for my journey to the Philippines

[@samual3006]

Watch the Philippines truth channel before you come to the Philippines .Before you make the biggest mistake of your life as many miserable Expats have found out.😮

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’m glad to hear it - makes me feel like what I do is worthwhile 👍😊

[@kevinreist7718]

A Sigma can choose whether he wants to be a leader or a follower, depending on the situation. The choice is based on his strategic thinking. It's a quality that could be described as shrewdness. Good Video Pea, I gave it a like. I hope it earned me that mind meld you hinted at.

[@Gizziiusa]

shrewd and pragmatic. good comment

[@kell7195]

A Sigma is a master of himself and doesnt care about leaders or followers or any social structure, he plays by his own rules and doesnt give a fk about what anyone else is doing.

[@hendo337]

Being a Sigma means you are unable to be pressured or influenced, you are ungovernable, you don't need anyone, you don't suffer fools, you find a woman who appreciates, accepts and respects you that you build a mutually loving connection and bond with over a long period of time.

[@shaolinotter]

ive noticed that punk music and skateboarding are well respected in the philippines. these are sigma paths to success because you can be your true self without needing clout from a social group.

[@mikemadness1607]

Alluring and well spoken as always Pea. Easy to see why you are THE authority on West meets East.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

And I’ll do my best to keep it that way 👍❤️😊

[@justanotheruser817]

I rolled my eyes a bit, because I felt like I was having my ego stroked by all the positive aspects listed about "sigma males", but I did find a valuable nugget of truth in the comment about having to learn to put up with injustice. Seeing people abuse animals or others because of their station in life or their own believed superiority enrages me. I will need to learn to keep that in control for my eventual future in the Philippines. Unfortunately, I have already had to completely cut out a Filipina out of my life, and I have seen how necessary that is when talking to other men who have already retired there. Thanks for the great video as always, Pea.

[@oodo2908]

For the most part animals aren't seen as humans in Asia. Though there are upper class people who are animal lovers. In the Philippines they even walk them through the strip mall in BGC. If you go for middle class to wealthy women you'll be ok. Most of the horror stories you hear about dating Filipina women are about low class Filipinas with no education. For some reason they are the preferred choice with foreign men. If you stay in an affluent area like BGC you'll be ok. Of course there are plenty more places to explore, but you will need to make friends to guide you. The social class system in the Philippines left over from Spain is still as powerful as ever.

[@carletto_au]

Great point of view. Thanks for sharing ❤

[@TheFilipinaPea]

And thanks for watching, Carletto! ❤️👍

[@LesserMe]

Her story of the driver seemed very focused.😅 Is Pea ok?

[@gerbenhoutman9348]

4:14 The Sigma sounds exactly like the INFJ of the MBTI personality matrix. We are .5 percent of the male population and 1 percent of the female population. Characteristic to characteristic, we match. The MBTI can explain why we're so intuitive, self confident and such a danger to some. To others, we're their advocate. The INFJ doorslam is famous and sounds exactly like the doorslam you described.

[@guyandre4946]

Another indispensable deep analysis Filipina Pea video from the South Asian Free University of Carnal Knowledge. Snowflakes, Karens and others woke greenhorns luvvies … abstain! 🤨 You have definitely all the traits and characteristics of a Stigma female dear Pea. The leader of the she lone wolf pack.😻 Oh yes, you are dangerous Pea: … but, please: Go ahead, make my day! 😜 You are indeed the rarest type of female. Not only in the Philippines, but also World-Wide. I don’t know about showing off only 10% of yourself … However, if you got it, flaunt it! Besides, your inborn charisma demands attention … and gets it! 😜 Of course when you are the spotlight twice a week … you cannot hide that you are indeed absolutely self-reliant, extremely intelligent, intuitive, able to read other people minds like a book and fiercely loyal. Let’s make sure I do not cross you, or I would not get a second chance… And I am sure that you certainly will come out on top! (Which is not always a bad thing …?) 😊 In between, I make a mental note to bring a dash cam to keep the vampires away. The French or Spanish garlic hanging from the rear-view mirror are not sufficient in the Philippines. However, casting an ex-best friend off to the sea of former emotions is not easy! Boomerang or not! The heart has its own emotions over which we have no control! 💔 Also, essentially, do we really want to survive the Philippines? Rather, let’s concentrate on enjoying those gorgeous islands to the max in any way, or position, possible and available. 😁 Finally, an announcement does sound intriguing and …dramatic … good job I am a gleefully kind of sad person, or is it a sadly gleeful one? As they say in foreign nouvelle vague films “ A suivre” … 🤔 😳. 😘

[@manwithclass09]

Thanks!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

For such a man with class, I don’t even have to ask what type you are (a CLASSY one, who ironically knows how to get a lady intoxicated) 🤣❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@manwithclass09]

On booze and my Sigma personality!!! Take care Pea! @@TheFilipinaPea

[@GabrielEddy]

Yes, the lone wolf, the sigma male, having failed 99 times but succeeded once, knowing what it means to survive rather than to thrive, having experienced failure enough to value success as it comes in life.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

👍👍👍

[@johnstreckfuss3068]

Amen.

[@GFYM_Finance]

Well said 🤘🤘

[@GabrielEddy]

Often, what refines a man is what defines a man.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

👍👍👍👍

[@carltondaye8231]

Being Honest I can not say that I am al that charming sadly not a skill I was blessed with although my people skills have somewhat improved over the years but the rest of it sound just like me straight from 3 months off of a psychiatrist couch at least if I do find the courage to make the trip someday I will be well studied (In Part Thanks To You) and well funded enough not to be one of those Expats who ends up broke on the streets Hope your day goes well Ms Pea.......

[@fleeble04]

Oh funny, just took the test Ms. Pea, sure enough, I'm a Sigma,,,,go figure,,,,lol🤣😂🤨

[@colinscrypto3307]

As soon as you said alpha and beta I knew exactly where this video was going. Pea is looking spectacular in this video. 🔥 Sigmas don't play well with others.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Ahhhh, another man familiar with the types! Are you a sigma too?

[@colinscrypto3307]

@@TheFilipinaPea, I try and stay away from labels because people change over time and circumstance. I think a lot of people say sigma when in reality they are (conservative) repulsed by modern society and culture, thus keeping their distance (lone wolf).

[@TheVaryus]

I couldn’t wait to get the hell out of the US. My “friend” who had been inviting me to the Philippines for 6 years (and his family) ended up being sort of pieces of shit when I finally arrived. They didn’t help me learn how to do basic shit like learn the tricycle or know how much things were supposed to cost and then they decided they had some kind of issue with me and started treating me differently but wouldn’t tell me why. Their behavior and my friends lack of taking responsibility to stand up to his family and tell them they were being extremely rude destroyed my relationship with my friend after 6 years of planning to come. We had been in a business relationship for a long time and were interested in similar things and it was a shame that my first taste of Filipino culture was basically trauma related to people being unwilling to directly confront each other to problem solve. I decided that I didn’t need their literal negative Pinoy stereotype caricature asses and started traveling the PH alone and without any direction. It’s been a year and four months in the PH now and I feel a bit settled in here. I still see the same cultural bullshit that destroyed my business plan upon coming here and along with it, my relatinship with my long time friend. I see it every day. I hate a lot of shit about this culture honestly but I didn’t feel any differently in the US, or Mexico, or Canada, or Israel, or Puerto Rico, or Thailand.. and ultimately I still somehow like the Ph the best. I am just a misanthropic fuck who doesn’t really like any human society. We are really shit in every iteration.

[@kell7195]

Most Americans should never leave America, then the world would be a better place.

[@winpowell1024]

Sweet Pea, this is one of the BEST presentations that you have done! The breadth of your knowledge and your research ability are amazing. I had not heard of "Sigma Male", but have some knowledge of personality types--INTJ/Melancholy/C/Strategic Planner/Marine Officer/Engineer--so I recognized some of the traits that you mentioned. Several people have said that they would not have the courage to do what I am doing in moving to the Philippines, but I did not associate it with the Sigma Male. My former wife summed it up for me; "That's great, you've always been an adventurer." I hope that I am one of the ones who is thrilled with the decision that you announce on Tuesday. ❤

[@keonesilva3646]

It is a term popped up on internet in 2010. Look on Wikipedia

[@winpowell1024]

Thanks, Keone, I looked it up.

[@mlovmo]

Myers-Briggs is not valid, really. It's fun, but not really an actually valid description of people. The "Big Five" personality types are now being used, clinically, at least. The Big Five simply places a person's placement for each of the five aspects (Openness to experience, Conscientiousness, Extroversion, Agreeableness, Neuroticism) on a continuum from low to mid to high.

[@KennethStrothers]

I was the lowest level of master in the USCF United States Chess Federation and life member I love fresh Mango! And my wife’s family calls me Quia? Ken (kwea)? Thanks for this test!

[@MB-gz1ji]

Today I learned that I am a sigma. Never heard that before but it describes my personality perfectly.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Lucky man 👍👍🍀

[@chrismaddieourfil-amjourne3720]

I never knew Sigmas were a thing until today as well…Now it all makes sense 😊

[@MB-gz1ji]

@@TheFilipinaPeaI always learn from you Pea. You’re a wealth of useful information.

[@aknotz]

You nailed my character traits exactly!!!! I am a leader at work that leads hundreds of people. But at home and in my life, I’m a lone wolf.

[@kell7195]

A Sigma wouldnt want to be a leader of anything - they value their own Freedom first and see leadership as a burden - you are 180 degrees opposite of a Sigma.

[@leavinforadream]

Awesome video! That blue dress went great with that background and I liked the pendant you were wearing too. I hope whatever changes to this channel and/or whatever else you have going on in your private life are definitely for the better bring you closer to whatever you are trying to achieve and/or have been searching for. Please don't settle for anything less and don't ever give up either. You are an incredible woman and deserve ALL of the best things this world has to offer. Thank you for ALL that you have done and continue to do. It is greatly appreciated and an important work. Your voice has definitely changed the game for KZbinrs in the Philippines.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’ll be announcing on Patreon this weekend, so you’ll know before anyone else 👍

[@bobbruce4135]

They don't want a Sigma because he won't let himself be MANipulated. He's not going to let his ATM support half a village who don't really like him or a woman who would rather be with a "Chad", etc. They want a beta $imp so they can go abroad to send money home like an OFW and have babies as their future retirement plan. There's not much in the PH for a sigma IMHO that's not available in many other places.

[@thepassman]

That does make a lot of sense Pea. I remember that story by former Navy Seal Chris Kyle about his father telling him when he was a boy that "There are 3 kinds of people; Sheep, Wolves and Sheepdogs. His father then asked him what kind of person will he be? " . I think I am Sigma Sheepdog Pea!🤔🤣🤣

[@HunkyMan777]

I am a sigma male to my core. Sounds like the PH is for me

[@TheFilipinaPea]

👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@happierabroad]

How come most Americans won't consider leaving America? Everyone thinks you have to stay in America and fix all the problems and "make America great again". But why stay on a sinking Titanic? It makes no sense. Isn't it more logical to get off a sinking ship? I've been telling people to leave America since 2002, but most won't listen or consider it and see my solution as taboo and not worth even discussing. Very strange. Anyone else notice the same?

[@bkeepr4246]

You can train yourself into various traits of a sigma but you cant be one. Ive known all my life I was different, did not fit into society, never seeking to be part of groups but looking in. I took one look at mortgage repayment tables in my teens- and so never allowed that anti-freedom trap nor the wife and 2.1 kids. I automatically, from deep within me spurn "group think". My masters level papers in biochemistry and microbiology joined with that anti-hive mind I have, to reject the b.s. of government gaslighting of the last few years. Sigma is written from within. Learning the description of the type only a few years ago, I finally recognised an explaination of myself. I landed in Manila alone and started to explore alone. It was supposed to be a once over round trip to see if there was somewhere that I might enjoy living in, come retirement. But after a meer 10 days I was waylaid by a filipina, now I have a 2nd home in Dasma becoming my primary residence and it looks like Im going to have to relent on the wife and 2.1 kids... but there is not going to be mortgages!

[@andrewwatts3417]

A sigma is an alpha without a pack. When you look at a lion, he's usually lazy and quiet. But his presence is always known even if you dont see or hear him. In a wolf pack, the alpha always travels at the back so he can see everything. I see myself as an alpha i dont keep friends, just aqauntices. I'm usually quiet and reserved. I'm always people watching. Far and near. I tend to go with flow, and I'm happy with a simple life. I don't like confrontation, not out of fear. I just hate drama. I think alphas get a bad rap because people think they are loud and obnoxious. I think sigmas and alphas are just two sides of the same coin.

[@bdogjr7779]

Awesome P🌷《☆》I think You Nailed me Vulcan Pea❤I'm the Sigma/Libra Male💘I'm Hit Doc✌🏼😎☯️

[@themiseducationoftheameric7407]

I'm a "Sigma", if I was to believe this test. Which I don't but.....Yeah.

[@happierabroad]

Misfits tend to do well in the Philippines, because they feel accepted there. But some think we sigmas are gamma males, which are losers. What do you think?

[@macconley6085]

The sigma can't be trained pea. And where was all the sigma,s 20 30 years ago . . And true sigma is hated by lots lol😂 . It's the honest tough it's like a double edged sword most people hate hard truth .

[@guyandre4946]

Gorgeous dress again! Suits you splendidly Pea! 😀 Don’t tell me it is another ukay ukay ! 😜

[@KennethStrothers]

By the way what the you know what is a Sigma? Never heard of that one before but I just do what I do and don’t worry or care about what others think! never have and never will!

[@PedroAlves-lm9lj]

I dated Filipinas here in Canada. My views and personality changed a bit due to my closeness to Elohim. well, it changed for the better, I did the personality test in another program I had and it is ENTJ-A I have always been a leader all my life and when I was part of the world, I probably was a dog, wolf Alpha, now your test says I am a delta lol then I did it again and it said stigma. probably because if I stayed sitting in a bar instead of approaching the girls like a bozo, first eye contact then looking at the lips and if she touches her hair, I order a drink for her at my table and signal the waiter to tell her. now that is a smart move because no girl likes to be the second choice. when a girl rejects you publicly the other girls will also because they were not the first choice. so only a morron will get up first. again that worked in Europe North and South America maybe not in ASIA LOL I never heard the title "stigma". I own my own business, live alone, and I am a true believer. I have no idea what 'stigma man is". if I did not read the Bible, did not keep the commandments then likely that title would suit me well. I no longer play those games as I just want a Godly woman regardless of where she is from. I am not desperate. I am now going to watch your video, thanks, Filipina Pea. Now that I finished watching your video, I would like to take a moment to thank you for your fun, exciting videos filled with information. Thanks to your videos made a passion grow in me to perhaps go there for business, relationship and meet some of my Filipino friends with similar Faith. I have noticed that you were a bit tired in the last few videos. when we go on the air, work very hard, and sometimes we feel burned out. I make videos, my videos have a way smaller audience and my only motives for my videos are to save souls, and preach the Bible as the Apostles did. many days I feel empty and when I am about to give up, someone calls me, messages me or I meet someone on the street who tells me one of my videos changed their lives. Filipina pea you also changed many people's lives. you changed your family life, you changed your life as well and I believe you met your future husband through your channel. wherever you may go, whomever you may marry, whatever career you may pursue, remember to put God FIRST and make sure your husband will also. a man who puts God first will die for you. I walk by faith, not by sight. and wish you the best. May our Father bless you and protect you and your loved ones in the Most Sacred Name of our King Yahshua Ha'Mashiach Most Sacred Name

[@alexanderTheGreat2010]

A very good test. Yes. I do the decisions base on my feeling or guts and learn from bad experiences or bad dates or problems in life

[@rhircyn]

My first 2 letters have always been IN. I've test for Fp, FJ and now TP. If telling a couple of young (and full of c#m) males arguing with an older guy using choice 4 letters words between them to stop by pointing out there was a young boy beside me wasn't a polite way to get them to shut up, not sure what else a Sigma would do. IF I come to the Pilipines (I know that is the proper local word for your country), I will want to learn the culture, adopt the language as much as I can, and cook the local cuisine.

[@WyteChinpira]

It Says Im like 90% Sigma, I always knew my Spirit animal was Keanu Reeves.

[@bentnickel7487]

Haven't seen the ex even once, since the divorce 45 years ago, so I must be a Sigma.

[@paulwilliams5949]

Wired I'd took your quiz it said i was a sigma but i always wanted a girlfriend but it never last a week

[@markmongan]

Hah! Captain's log. Never going to hear that line the same again! :D

[@truth6242]

Yes, I am a Sigma I use my patience as a tool. I travel alone and I had about .. 6 Filipinas to choose from that also liked me as I liked them. Not only did they have to be cute and peculiar but had to be smart and able to reason well. I chose Sharlene (Shai) she impressed me with her maturity and able to think quickly on her feet. She also did not self sabotage our relationship like most women I got to know. She really understood me and always shows how much she cares about my daily life. I felt she was the one and I was happy with her ever since we made it official. Almost 6 yrs now since we first said hello. Oh and also she is VERY good at chess. If you try to play her she might beat you, badly. LOL

[@Robert.Sheard]

I’m an INTJ… 64 years old, financially secure, semi-retired author. I have travelled alone extensively over the years, but have not been to Asia. I’m just learning about the Philippines now, after talking with some young people I know whose families are from the Philippines. I worry a bit that if I travelled there I’d remain in the shadows and not make any connections. I’m not the kind of person to initiate a conversation with someone I haven’t met. But I’m very interested in learning more.

[@derekhorsburgh6238]

Dear Miss Pea, Q. has a TV channel ever approached you? you would make an excellent News Anchor, Oh.... I'm a Sigma by all accounts.🌹

[@jimharris8172]

good question

[@BlackWidower9]

I told my best friend about your video and that I fitted the Sigma profile to a T. However he countered that in his opinion I am a Zeta - which I had never heard of either! He said it was because Sigmas don't want company (is he right?) He might be right, or I might be somewhere between the two. Are you familiar with the Zeta Male? Michael Freemantle

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I haven’t researched Zetas yet, but lots of Sigmas want female companions

[@paulfri1569]

Sigma types are the ultimate lone wolf types 🐺

[@robertcaldwell4097]

I'm really thinking about moving to the Philippines. I'm 48, retired and single. Just worried about leaving everything and everyone behind

[@keonesilva3646]

This is SO ME !!! Lone wolf biker . I love my Harley but never ride with other bikers. But I am accepted in their presence to "tag along". I feel there is a divorced Province girl somewhere whose family disowned her that likes old white dudes with a beard and long hair with blue eyes and a few bucks . I am up for adventure and will eat like they do. I already live the "Province" lifestyle off grid alone in remote Puna Rainforest on Big Island 🏝 Hawaii. I had an online gig with one from a FB group for 3 years that was unhappily married to a bum Filipino but not willing to leave her family. I video chatted with her hundreds of times in Dalagutte on Cebu. Met her family. They loved my beard & long hair. I paid for 2 tattoos on her arms. Nice ones only $50 USD each. Bought her a cheap phone and load . It was a bargain to learn how she lived and see the sights in the poverty stricken place she lived in. I could easily live like that. I already do ! I cook on an open wood fire. I forage farm and hunt for my food far from any town. I ride my Harley to Hilo for supplies once a week. I am up for selling my place and running off. So get ready for new blood lol 😂

[@keonesilva3646]

This girl is so flat honest and intelligent. But scary at the same time. I would not want to piss her off lol 😂. I have learned so much from this woman. ❤

[@constantinnescu1564]

You just described your dream Male partner.

[@davidthelander1299]

Ohhh Miss Pea … Captain’s Log! How in the world do you manage to think up these little gems and keep a straight face!

[@nailujd22]

Because she is a sigma.

[@jasonkeller62]

Sure enough took the test, and tested sigma.

[@BobbyDaniels-ck7jv]

There is more to see in the Philippines than just the women, they are just an added plus. Very intuitive, thank you for sharing.

[@whitehorse1959]

Oh, so that’s the captain’s log. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂lol 😂❤❤❤❤

[@TryCryingIntoThis]

No wonder my wife made a beeline straight for me

[@simoncameron4355]

I think you are mistaken about the aguement part... If you disagree with a sigma, they MIGHT state why they are correct... but more than likely they will ask what they can gain from the arguement and more than likely just walk away.