ARE OLDER MEN LOSERS? (The Myth of The Dirty Old Man)

You've heard it a millions times - "Expats are mostly broken down old losers!" But is this true? Who says this, why do they say it, and exactly what do they mean? Come with me as I give you my opinion on the expat population here in the Philippines, and what we can do about the way we see these men......
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[@TheFilipinaPea]

👉My videos and the effort I put into them are 100% free for everyone to enjoy, and all I ask is that you leave a thumbs-up on any videos that you like and subscribe to my channel - I have never, and will never, ask you for anything else. For those of you that still wish to support my channel further, however, I’ve posted my links below. Thanks! 👉 Support through PayPal: www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=GC9T7PMLZ3BDW&source=url 👉 Patreon: www.patreon.com/thefilipinapea

[@javieritomac]

Thank you pea Salamat po Gracias 🇵🇷 For content like this👍🥇

[@charleslane5133]

Love the video Pea very entertaining educationa and informative as usual quick question when the borders open back up to your country can I interview you for my KZbin channel

[@marekbroz2792]

Dear Pea i love You vidios is so will explayn

[@kenmorrow5220]

Ipea this is Kenny from the United States I think you're awesome would like to meet you someday

[@TheRealGunWhisperer]

Help!!! I've watched all your videos! And been subscribed for a while now! I am currently about to enter a relationship with a Filipina girl! She is so sweet and we haven't stopped talking in days! Im familiar with the culture as ivd done hours of research! Even to learn some words in her language! We have never met fave to face but Skype quite often! Their must be someway to get help with questions and matters concerning... all of the above! Do you have a chat room, or for instance, reply to messages or dm's your just so knowledgeable and I'm not sure who else I can turn too! Thank you!! 😊

[@onlineclothesshoppin]

My first wife was an American married for 11 years died from alcohol, my second wife was Korean she loves money TOO much. My wife now is Filipino we've been married for 12 years and she has been the answer to my prayers I am 67 she is 51 even though she looks in her 30s. I know there is a God in heaven because he sent me one of his angels. Thank you for the video :-)

[@daniello9155]

sorry Jim I accidentally clicked on the thumbs down button. My German Shepherd was knocking my arm wanting to play.

[@davidjames3126]

God Bless this union

[@LuisDiaz-ep4kh]

That is what I am looking for!

[@magclin]

Married my Filipina angel when I was 22 and she 21. Fast forward 35 wonderful years, 3 daughters, and 8 beautiful grandchildren. I get the dirty old my looks frequently when we are at restaurants, shopping, or at weekend getaways. She’s 55! I’m 56! I’ve seen men stop dead in their tracks when we’re out and she’s dressed to kill (18-80). My daughters hate this when it happens, lol, and ask why I don’t get angry. I try to make them understand the pride I feel and knowing that I’m the only man she’s interested in. Am I a dirty old man? Hell yes, until the day I die but only for my Filipina Beauty.

[@andyontourbrokendreams7120]

I'm happy for you mate your story is like mine. However never made it to the Philippines YET lol. Done Thailand for nearly 20 years bad mistake however I have a beautiful son single father now. So at least I have my boy God Bless You

[@holdfast7182]

When I was 26 I knew a 53-year old man who was seeing a 22-year old woman. I wasn't "jealous," I just thought he was a "dirty old man" being inappropriate for his age, and that she was messed in the head. Now that I'm 50, I know it's none of my business to judge who is attracted to whom.

[@bizznick444joe7]

So pathetic. Even as a younger man I never looked at that with disdain. It does sound like jealousy you got there. I never disrespected older guys, I only found them inspirational. You becoming 50 you only saw it?

[@anthonysawyer4079]

Thank you Pea for standing up for us older men. I'll retire in the Philippines in 7 more years at the age of 70, and the fact that I still feel like I'm in my 20s makes me appreciate the tolerance of the people in the Philippines.

[@johnl9977]

I'm a "Dirty Old Man" who married a gal from the Philippines. The driving for mainly was that I was fifty and did not have any children, which I kinda wanted to experience. Worked out fine, have a couple beautiful daughters, wife went to college and became an LVN, no regrets on my side and she does pretty much whatever she wants, when she wants. She just came back after a month or so visiting family. I would like to live in the Philippines myself, but I doubt that is going to happen.

[@bryantturner97]

About the only thing you can assume about an old man is that he's a survivor.

[@cw9790]

no kidding

[@kittystanby4686]

Sorry if you’re going to say that about a man but burn women at the stake for living past 30.

[@ogremgtow990]

Especially if he is divorced in the States

[@davidcohen7881]

People really prejudge older men who have never been married. Many older women won't take a chance on an older man who hasn't been married. They would rather date a man who has been divorced multiple time.

[@aollendorf]

"I am gonna be a dirty old man till I'm a dead old man." - Fred Sanford

[@24emerald]

Hahahaa ... I miss that show!!

[@gregtilley6662]

Treat others how you wish to be treated Allen. One day we will all have to give an account how we live our lives. There is great wisdom in that.

[@blackmanuk2530]

Allen you are kind of guy . Clink and toast tne drink 😎😆👌👍👊. IDGAF what the world thinks of me I will live my life to the max till the wheels fall off. F€£¥ what tne world thinks is my mantra.

[@scottrussell6873]

Yeah, me too!

[@merylmarsden9071]

@@24emerald Love watching it! GetTV.

[@Theonelordnikon]

I have a younger Filipina as a girl friend, she's a widow with two younger children, I've known her for over ten years, I am 12 years her senior, she is now 42 years old and was worried about getting older, I told her not to worry, no matter how old she gets, she will always be that sweet young thing to me.

[@saurelius5217]

Honestly dude, that is beautiful. It's always nice to read stories like this.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

That’s so sweet - and so true! I hope she realizes you will always be 12 years her senior, so not to worry 😂

[@PassportBrosBusinessClass]

A widow? What happened to the father? Did you see the death certificate? "he died" is a common claim.

[@amossnowdaharleyman9179]

60 soon and wife is 48: she has same fears, I remind her that back in the day I was a player (male slut actually) and got all the wildness out of my system. Faithful as an old hound dog now and I prefer to stay on the porch.

[@2000ViperGTSsubscribe]

100% to me I agree and glad to see a nice post. I as SUPER loyal to my mate.

[@alank.harder7228]

Your observations, experiences, logic, and conclusions are spot on, Pea. I have never felt so loved as I feel from my soon to be wife here. Her children think of me as their father, never knowing the abandonment of their biological father. They give meaning to my life. I will be able to lift them from poverty, provide access to health care, a quality education, and the ability to choose a future based on their choice rather than survival. My wife will be able to function at a higher level as well. I'm a fortunate man.

[@TheDocFury]

Nailed it! Mic drop! My Filipino wife and I were constantly hammered in the US and she’s only a few years younger. It’s still very much a race issue in the US. After a failed marriage to a entitled self absorbed American woman I looked elsewhere. Color, ethnicity, age, education, were all off the list. Kind, loving, devoted, family values, and being content with life were on the list. Filipino women have bucket loads of my preferred attributes and indeed I found one. Don’t ever settle for a sub par companion, ever think that’s why it’s so hard to bring your Filipino fiancé or wife into the US. The American women know what they are, they don’t want a kind loving family man they want a subservient eunuch.

[@foylebutler8952]

YOU NAILED IT ! WELL SAID BROTHER!

[@vinsont]

@Johnny Boone Where do you live? US or Philippines?

[@DG-dy4tv]

Amen, brother!

[@contributor2024]

Anyone that disrespects my wife or my marriage is going to be asked outside to settle it, unless they apologize profusely. This includes family. People in America often seem to think their opinion is important, and must share it. Congrats to you and yours.

[@waltgreen8759]

well said friend

[@whiteonggoy7009]

Western guy in mall with young Filipino girl.... white women says dirty old man,her husband said lucky old man...

[@mattivirta]

who idiot take ugly old woman, ofcourse men take young beauty girl, only totally brainless idiot take old woman.

[@edjones1018]

As husbands pees himself a little and rides his scooter back to the bus.

[@edjones1018]

@@mattivirta The idiot is the old man who thinks a 20 yr old loves him.

[@peteb6072]

That’s funny.. just today I was told that there is something “wrong” with a western man going to the Philippines to find someone.. obviously a dig on me.. but I just laughed it off.. what am I supposed to do? Why settle for a spoiled rotten divorcee in the states .. I am dating a young compassionate appreciative young lady..

[@peterbrittain1963]

@@mattivirta older woman love younger guys ... so they complain ,, yet do the same thing ....

[@Theonelordnikon]

George Burns once said, " When I was 18 I liked 18 year old girls... I still like 18 year old girls".

[@Christvictim]

And now you are?

[@tomster7574]

That’s funny you say that. When I was 24 I dated a 34-year-old woman for a while. Then when I was 34 I married a 34-year-old woman for about 13 years. Then when I was 50 I met and eventually married another 34-year-old woman. Close enough in the numbers. She’s 18 years younger than me. It’s really hard to say that I don’t have an age preference when I’ve only ever met women when they were of that age. I never planned it that way, just work out that way.

[@marvindockery4202]

George Burns was a smart man.

[@senorwonderful]

He also said, "Sure I date younger women, how else can I met their mothers?" George Burns was funny. RIP

[@Devonshire-Bey]

The body gets older but the eyes stay young, and, youth is wasted on the young. Both very true statements.

[@foylebutler8952]

I'm a white American. I have always found Asian women to be the most beautiful , gracious and intelligent women on earth . Most are very family oriented and of high morals. I began dating my Chinese wife in college. One day my " friend " told me " you can do better than that. You should date a white girl " . My friend and I are both in our 60s now. He has been married 3 times with kids from each woman . My own brother has been married 4 times to white American women and has kids from each marriage and countless step kids. Both are divorced now and alone , living in apartments. I have been married to my Chinese wife for almost 40 yrs . We have one beautiful successful daughter . We have owned 3 houses and have a retirement savings. My wife is a retired teacher and counselor. English is her second language. My friends and brothers wifes never worked a day in their life. Ha ha ha ha ha ha You can do better than that. Ha ha ha ha.

[@billjones5442]

after several Filipino girls - I would prefer a Chinese lady - so much more knowledgeable on life - schooling - educated & sweet hearts - not dellusional & have common sense - I am 66 & the Chinese lady I am talking to is 52 & constant frozen smile & teasing & playful as a 30 year old....DAMN COVID !!!!!

[@foylebutler8952]

@@billjones5442 my wife made me a much better person by pushing me to school etc . I can trust her 100% Hang in there and show her constantly that you love her .

[@danielmatthews1522]

My goodness friend you just shook the land with truth bombs... Go easy fragile egos may not have a safe space handy.

[@hansheinen9629]

@@billjones5442 Let it be. You would regret it. I have been taught a great lesson. They are pretty but very cold-hearted and only look after their own well-being. You can find a divorcee very easily because they can no longer be placed. But the next generation and their training counts everything. And then nothing comes for a long time. And only then do you come. I hope you have a very high standard of living with everything that goes with it. Until you retire, forget it.

[@BV9429]

Seems like you can look at your situation in many different ways...but I'm gonna point out the obvious since you said you're a white American man...Chinese Women are taught to love white or there own from birth...so next time ask her would she would've done all that for a Black Man 🤔😁

[@bugsbunny8239]

I'm 58 and can't wait to get back to the Philippines and meet an amazing woman like you to live a full life! Pea, you're amazing - keep up the great content!

[@johngroleau8760]

Filipina Pea, I think I speak for all of your followers. You make the world a better place, thank you.

[@transformational-education]

Yes !!!

[@stephenbuster5061]

I was going to say the very same thing to Ms. Pea, but you got there first! Congrats! Really though the important thing is that someone said it to her and I hope she knows it's a sincere sentiment that is shared by so many of her viewers. 🤗

[@johnminichielli8957]

Jealousy and envy are the breeding ground of hateful remarks. Thank you for calling them out.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

So you think it’s jealousy, too? I’ve heard that a number of times, so maybe that’s what it is. I actually had no clue!

[@arnoldseay9118]

@@TheFilipinaPea I too feel it’s jealousy.

[@rayhchc6451]

Can hardly imagine any other reason than pure envy and jealousy! The younger men feel incensed that the older men are competition for them and deminishing their own chances and opportunities for finding a suitable companion. What these young losers need to learn is to not try and get women to feel a certain way about them, but rather take the focus off themselves and learn how to make a woman feel about HERSELF! If he can get her to feel good about HERSELF, he can and WILL conquer her heart! Likewise, Asian girls also make western men feel good about themselves and this is where western women fall short. The white women feel offended that these men should overlook them and not consider them a suitable option. 99% of white women are for some obscure reason believing they are a queen and that all men will fall for them. When the men don't fall for them, they feel all offended and self-righteous indignation sets in that causes them to call these men all sorts of names and accuse them of all sorts of things. Let them hate and envy! Let them throw tantrums from morning to evening! Let them sulk as they languish in their own miserableness!

[@tomster7574]

@@TheFilipinaPea I guess I just have not read enough of the comments on your channel to ever hear those negative comments. Fortunately. But I have met many online and in person who will go out of the way just to make negative comments even if it something they already approve it but they won’t fit because then they can’t troll you.

[@Alyssa2211]

@@TheFilipinaPea It can be so. Or maybe some people spend too much time worrying about other peoples lives and then not enjoy their own. We have to live our lives to how we wish to enjoy them and if that is to find love from someone sweet and kind in the Philippines then that is what we shall do. The envy jealous people can look on or they can think of how to better their own lives.

[@russhancock78660]

I’m a divorced single for 22 years , 64 year old man from the US Hearing what you say is making me a little emotional I never thought I’d hear anything like that. It’s enlightening, thank you very much Sounds like a great place to retire

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks so much, Russ 👍😊

[@smartnet53]

I married a Filipino woman 10 years ago we are 16 years apart and all I can say about our relationship is - Heaven On Earth - God Truly Blessed Me

[@sanjuanlaunionvlog]

Good for you! My GF is 19 years younger than me. treats me very good. I'm happy, and she is happy. Heaven on Earth as you say!

[@Murph_.]

To be honest, when I moved to the Philippines, I didn't even think about finding a local girlfriend. I just got out of a marriage I was very unhappy in, and she got everything in the divorce. I had an online business and my clothes, basically. I needed to live somewhere cheap, and I heard Philippines was cheap. I moved to the Philippines, and it was supposed to be temporary. I just happened to meet my current wife while I was living there, and she literally brought me back to life. I just didn't care about much of anything, just living day to day. Having someone care about me as much as she does meant so much to me. I think, as always, everything you say is on point. I love how you tell it like it is, Pea. Thanks for all you do!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks for sharing that story, Murph! You’re a perfect example of the unexpected joy that can spring up out of nowhere here ❤️

[@_Common_Logic_]

Your wife is beautiful Murph... Remember to send those photo Christmas cards to the "ex". Hahaha! Best of luck to you two. Stay safe.

[@junehitchcock170]

Glad you found happiness. I have a good friend now in 80s. He moved to Philippines some years ago and married a much younger local woman. They look after each other and are very happy together. So very pleased for them. Nothing more precious than that.

[@edsmith651]

It's such a good feeling too, when someone doesn't give a rat's behind about relieving you of your money, but just enjoys the companionship. I hear ya cuz I've been down the path.

[@heathhamby5568]

Im with you buddy ive been single for over 11yrs. Was a single dad. Now my son is 19 goings into the military. And I've been alive but not living and unhappy. Im single not because I cant get a western woman . But because I couldn't find 1 worth having. Ive meet my Princess on a CF dating site. Now just waiting for this CV19 to let the traveling begin. Cheers. I love you Pea. Keep up the good wrk

[@24emerald]

Older women and younger men seem to be doing the lions share of all the complaining. Jealousy is looking more and more like the common denominator.

[@edjones1018]

I'm a 57 yr old man, and I pity the young women who have to look at those decrepit bodies every day. It's all about the money.

[@zonacrs]

Well said.

[@VIKINGPINOY]

You cant see the type of men generally attracted to Philippines is secondhand collection from Thailand? Family's from all over the world go to Thailand in vast numbers. Dirt bags kicked around in Thailand goes to Philippines - IN VAST NUMBERS :)

[@johnstoutenburg7163]

i dont feel bad at all im married to a 32 year old Filipina with 4 children. im 66. but i love Filipinos and i want to come live among you and help your people because my heart bleeds for you

[@underworldringside]

She is old don't worry

[@waterheaterservices]

Lets do all we can to be of help to those in need in Philippines.

[@Once800-]

What about the poor and needy in the states?

[@1rocknroy]

@@Once800- Personally local poor people are boring. Poor in the USA? With so many programs, food banks, food stamps, job training, churches and on and on. But in the Philippines too many people live on the sidewalk and it's not because they are on drugs.

[@JK-vy8vh]

@@1rocknroy so what are you saying? You do realize that there's more drug addicts in the Philippines than the states, right? I've seen five year olds smoking cigarettes in vids vice and other channels on the poor in the Philippines. I love the country and people but part of that is admitting that it's got it's problems too. You're just a biased creep you probably have yellow fever and if you're this bad on KZbin I can't imagine how sad you really must be in real life.

[@bcpioneer59]

Thank you , thank you , thank you. I got into a argument with my once friends widow, she was getting pissed at a stranger on FB for talking about going to the Est to meet a woman who really wants a relationship. She started calling him a pervert and dirty old man and pedophile. I tried to explain to her that she was wrong and knows nothing about this situation. She and my friend were married for almost 40 years and he passed away 3 years ago. She is very opinionated and way to out spoken, even mouthy and does not remember what it is like to act like a lady. She says ever guy that goes over seas in a pedophile and the girls are gold diggers. I told her I have 4 friends who have met women from Thailand, Philippines and Korea, three moved back with their brides and well over a decade each with them and still happy, the other stayed in her country and still going strong. I constantly think it would be better off to jump on a plane and meet a nice kind caring friendly girl/woman who can respect their man and they can both enhance each others lives. Here in the west women get a attitude that they do not need a man and have no intention of any compromise in a relationship. They are trying to make men submissive and not playing the role of men any longer. We are not all wanting that. But to find the right person and build and enjoy what time we have on this planet. All relationships are give and take for both sides, that is what will make it last.

[@foylebutler8952]

God bless you. Don't wait another minute . I was in the US Navy. I found asians to be family oriented, and women act like women not truck drivers. My wife is Chinese and she made me a better man. I can trust her 1000% . Its all about family . My father was raised in Arkansas and wounded twice in Korea. He never accepted it and it drove us apart. He didn't even try to get to know my wife and daughter. My only regret was my daughter never new the joy of loving grandparents . ( my wife's parents died before my daughter was born) But the Chinese community made up for it in a big way and I am forever grateful to them . I say go for it. You won't regret it .

[@patriayvida5496]

Mike, stay away from your friend's wife and the likes, remember, it's not your actions but your intentions, as long as you're not hurting someone on purpose, you don't have to feel bad at all, do your thing. I do and I sleep so damn well every night!

[@proscreens2137]

Who cares what some jealous old Western woman thinks? I couldn't care less about her opinion. She is just envious of a mans happiness because she cant find her own happiness.

[@daniello9155]

Well said Mike.

[@dugan6056]

I'm a thirty year old trapped in a sixty six rear old body! The kids don't realise how short life is.

[@daryltaylor8977]

LOL 🤣! I'm 53 but everyone says that I look 35, does that count also? I don't feel that old🤔😏

[@lcmichaels7215]

the sad part is we didn't realize how short life is when WE were 30. I'm 54 and feel the same way.

[@fendermon]

Yup, my 57 year mind is sharper, and appreciates more, than 18yr me.

[@mekon1971]

Truth.

[@webstertyrrell9412]

I'm 25 with 32 years experience.

[@dalelittlefield57]

MY wife just yelled at me " STOP WATCHING PEA " you dirty old man🤣😂🤣

[@leahqui1202]

Lol!😂

[@willieshoemaker8680]

lol

[@PASSPORTKING2106]

🤣

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha And I bet you’re being serious, too 😂

[@garyg4076]

Lol

[@canolando3499]

My brother who has been married 20 years wife told him she doesn't want to be married anymore. They both are in their 50s. He told me he went to a club he frequently went to many years ago. He said all the girls there looked at him as a dirty old man. Lol He thinks his life will be lonely for the test of his life. I told him to look into a Filipina. I did and that was 10 years ago and was the best decision in my life. Thank you Pea

[@do7473]

These young Expats neet to stay In there grandmother's basement and stop coming to the Philippines with the negative comments lol

[@Peter-pd9hy]

The college kids at the club were not comfortable seeing your creepy brother there? Completely understandable.

[@TyroneNorwood]

As a middle aged American who has made the Philippines his home; I really enjoy your KZbin videos. I didn't come looking for love; I came to create a version of the company I own in the US before Covid; I fell in love not with a woman, but with the people and made this my home for the last five years. I just discovered your platform and wish I had some of this information when I first arrived. Thank you again Pea.

[@djones98501]

These "self appointed morality police" are the people I would choose to leave behind..

[@edjones1018]

Nothing to do with morality and everything to do with chaining a young, vibrant girl to a dying man.

[@RevStickleback]

I think it's partly tied in with the paedophile hysteria, with the very idea that a 50 year old would find a 25 year old attractive being seen as if it's almost the same thing, as if attraction works on some kind of age percentage basis.

[@paulcharles5128]

@@edjones1018 So all men over 50 are dying men? SMH

[@kevinreily2529]

Exactly. My question is, if those people are happy, and we know they're not, why do they care about somebody they don't even know, who lives in another country, and has a happy life?

[@patriayvida5496]

@@edjones1018 What about a 20 years old who will die tomorrow, would you consider him a dying man today? Did an old "dying man" out bid you out of your honey? It's seems to me you're hurting, please don't go jihad on some old dying guy, don't waste your time, he's dying already, of course, dying with a grin on his face. Happy on his way to heaven. I know I'll be on of them!

[@AReese-eu5zs]

Is there any wonder why you probably have the best, most straightforward, knowledgeable, enjoyable channel than over 99% of others? Pea, you're wise beyond your years and I, even at my age, learn something new with each post. Quality is so rare these days. Keep it 100!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

ALBERT my friend!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@heathhamby5568]

I agree 100% . She is very wise to be such a wise woman.

[@TheRealGunWhisperer]

@@TheFilipinaPea Help!!! I've watched all your videos! And been subscribed for a while now! I am currently about to enter a relationship with a Filipina girl! She is so sweet and we haven't stopped talking in days! Im familiar with the culture as ivd done hours of research! Even to learn some words in her language! We have never met fave to face but Skype quite often! Their must be someway to get help with questions and matters concerning... all of the above! Do you have a chat room, or for instance, reply to messages or dm's your just so knowledgeable and I'm not sure who else I can turn too! Thank you!! 😊

[@zannieholmes8555]

@@heathhamby5568 Did you mean that she is very young to be so wise.

[@Stixenterprise]

Pea, I am so impressed with your in depth knowledge on this topic. I for one is 58 single bachelor planning to find my future partner. You covered all the topics like a hole in one! Love ya, keep up the great work! 👍

[@scottrussell6873]

Your video gave me hope - and a smile. 78-year-old geezer in California.

[@MikeHinshawNomadicTexan]

Join the club. I will be 72 in February and can't wait to visit the Philippines again. I should have stayed the first time I visited 48 years ago!

[@carvercapitalequitypartner122]

There's a few Fililinas waiting for YOU. Be careful of the scammers though. Choose carefully.

[@rodthelimey]

"Older men are just younger men with more life experience". You're a great ad for your country!

[@edsmith651]

Amen to that

[@PaulM745]

And with aching hips... 😁

[@johndawhale3197]

What you just said doesn't make any sense. An older man is an older man the same way an older cat is an older cat.

[@greenghost6416]

@@johndawhale3197 It does make sense when talking about men. For women it would be different.

[@marvinwynne59]

That's on some real type of sh¡t like that right there.

[@iomtilt]

Dated rich & poor filipinas. The ones without wealth are not spoilt, & have a more realistic outlook on life. 🇵🇭🇬🇧👍

[@KutWrite]

Let's hear it for Province Gals!

[@davidcolon1193]

Wow!!! You have so much wisdom, for a young woman. You sound so mature that you could put any foolish women to shame. I'm a Mental Heath therapist and what you stated made so much sense. You are such a blessing.

[@Richard-jq6mq]

Pea, you are wise beyond your years. For those seeking a Philipina as a partner, you set the bar extremely high. You are a wealth of information for an area of life that burns to the end.

[@rosadelmaril8182]

Hi Pea, older men don't want women of their own age here in the USA, which I have no problem with then wanting young women from anywhere. I don't see them as dirty old men just a man needing love and companionship. As now a days older women like me are looking for younger men that aren't looking for marriage but companionship and an intimate relationship. I don't consider myself as a dirty old woman. I don't believe it has to do with age but with maturity. Enjoying each other at whatever age. This being said we should not be shaming or pointing the finger but allow everyone to live their lives happy!!! Thank you for bringing the truth to this subject. 💞

[@pappadappacarhauler757]

Great points absolutely correct

[@albertyoung4518]

Thank you Pea for that. I am 64. I have been alone for 30 years. I have done a lot of research on the Philippines and it’s people. I love your people and your culture. Oh. And I am from the US. I have met many Filipina women online. Though I am sure some are scammers, I find most of them to be lovely, good hearted, hard working and most important to me, possessing good family and Christian values. This is something sorely missing amongst many of not most US women. I also see the plight of your people and it breaks my heart. I plan to move to the Philippines, find my forever mate and I would like to establish a charitable organization to help your people. I know I cannot help everyone, but I surely can try. Thank you Pea. You are a testament to your people and your country. God Bless.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

YOU are exactly who I was addressing tonight, Albert! I welcome you to my country ❤️

[@bobbypage4854]

@@TheFilipinaPea great comment Albert. Miss Pea is the best!

[@juergenernst1320]

Charitable work can get you in trouble in the Phills. So make sure you do your research and have everything on the up and up. Using your own money is generally not a problem as long as you don't employ others. Using funds contributed by others for your charitable work requires licensing. I'm not an expert but I noticed others with nothing but good intentions getting in hot water. Best of luck on your endeavors.

[@whynot2734]

your a good man Albert Young hope you find happiness

[@jdee150]

Well said my friend.

[@ronthompson9036]

As always your insight absolutely amazes me. You're in depth insight and thoughtfulness makes me want to come back and watch more and more. Great job you were doing with your channel. Two thumbs up.

[@claudiuvladcoschi8698]

Fiipina Pea I am a western man 37 years old and I really found my love in Philippine. And yes I was raised to respect and love the woman who respect me and loves me back...This is the reality not every man is the same I am 37 years old and she is 24 but we love eachother and in August if the borders are open we gonna get married ...Is about the individuals not collective behaviour

[@valarmorghulis8139]

37 and 24 is ok. Even I 25 as a pinay and my fiance as pinoy 37 have 13 years age gap and we are both filipino.

[@scottsullivan3362]

I'm 57..my Philippina wife is 32...we've been together for 3 years and married now for 1 year...she's a total sweetheart...we work with the motto...it takes teamwork to make the dream work....she's from a very rural province I like to call "Gilligan's island " I really enjoy visiting there...I'm always the center of attention being that Any white Americans never go there

[@joshuavd5194]

enjoy it mate

[@conandis5542]

An Aussie expression - Good on ya mate 👍

[@greggyp647]

Being of the older set it makes me glad to have you in my corner defending me with your wisdom and watching my back

[@TheFilipinaPea]

What a coincidence - you’ve been doing that for me for a long time, Greggy! ❤️

[@stevekatz3032]

Pea, I suspect you missed one more truth about many of us "dirty old men" - the widower. Marriage vows say "until death do you part" and the widower has proven that he can make and keep a commitment. Many widowers had marriages that lasted 40 or more years - which is probably longer than you have been alive. So who is the better "catch" for a filipina looking for a lifetime commitment - an older man who has shown that he can and will honor the "until death do you part" promise, or a younger guy who is half the old man's age and already on wife #3 and looking for #4?

[@franckberthelon8611]

Awesome video, just came by curiosity to your video , and loved your well spoken, informative conversation...Good on you, well done.

[@mooran227]

Age is just a number. Maturity is the way to go. You’re smart girl! Keep those great videos coming!

[@outdoorswithbobbymayo5763]

Thanks for the nice compliments for us older guys. We’re not all bad.

[@maharlikanandproud15yearsa25]

Most are, not all

[@paulcharles5128]

@@maharlikanandproud15yearsa25 Most older guys are bad? Please elaborate and tell us why?

[@cyzbocaj3135]

No at all drty old man but mostly some.. sad lol

[@user-sz6uy3ie3g]

Thank you for making & uploading this video! You were so spot on! 🎯

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thank you for watching! ❤️❤️👍

[@HydrogenAgent129]

I absolutely love your candidness about things

[@roguetiger3163]

A very special and talented woman.....a true realist!!!.....#1 vlogger in the Philippines....nobody else even comes close

[@TheFilipinaPea]

THANKS Rogue! You’ve always been my #1 fan, with no wavering ❤️

[@antoniovega4978]

Thank you Pea, I here that all the time, I am 63 years old and travel to Asia. Here in the United States everyone call me a dirty old man, I don't even go to the parties spot. I like to scuba dive and met new people and learn about there culture, once in a while go have a beer. Thank you again for letting the Truth Bomb hit, keep up the good work.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Truth Bombs Away! 💣

[@davem1430]

YOU ARE PURE GENIUS...WHAT A GOD SENT ANGEL !! (HOW THE HECK did you GET SO PRACTICAL !!)

[@bradnelson2637]

Thanks for posting this!

[@zonacrs]

Thank you so much for this. Stumbled across this channel watching "old dog new tricks". Perhaps a lot of the negative views come from a culture that views successful retirement age men becoming ex-pats as losers because we are no longer interested in playing the game by their rules. As a successful American man in my 50's, I can tell you that we are essentially considered throw away items to American women who only want our resources without offering anything in return. They offer no compassion, loyalty, trust, honest communication or affection. Is it any wonder so many of us want to retire somewhere we can live in peace and comfort?

[@contributor2024]

I am 62 and only the single moms hit on me, and its not because I am handsome. You can enjoy a far better life if you travel.

[@williamsaltiel-gracianmph613]

Spot on! While I have no objection to remaining in Texas, where I've lived the past 6 years and am building a house on my own land, I stopped wasting my time and effort on American women over 30 years ago.

[@ciocoflender007]

Excellent said. I couldn't have said it better either.

[@waltgreen8759]

well said Sir

[@unclerob617]

When you do not seek or need approval, you are at your most powerful. - Uncle Rob

[@robertthomas6059]

Rob - you dirty old man :-)

[@scottsullivan3362]

Fucking amen to that

[@gloofisearch]

Stumbled over your video. Kudos, well said and respect to the honesty you provide.

[@jaybee1400]

Love this video. Well done and very balanced perspective as usual. Thank you again!

[@mrjlbarrett5556]

Man you are so rite . When i came to the Philippines in 2003 . Lets say i shopped around . Then i found the love of my life . Yes she was married to an american who left her for 18 year old You are rite it cost me 5000 US dollars to get her Anulment and 2 years . But we got married shortly afterward I excepted her her 2 daughter on was 4 years the other 12 years .we got married 2005 look at me she is 48 years old i am 69 i turn 70 in June i am still working in middle east I am retiring at 70 You are rite been called every name in the book Dirty old man Child Molester i mean it hurt . But my happiness is what counts Thx

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’m very sorry that you had to endure that abuse when you were only trying to find - and GIVE - love. What’s wrong with people??

[@mrjlbarrett5556]

@@TheFilipinaPea sometimes people are Investigators

[@mrjlbarrett5556]

@@TheFilipinaPea The only thing with me i am straight to the point

[@24emerald]

Jealousy and envy plays a bigger role in cruelty than we realize

[@juliusjackson7782]

You take care of your family dont let them get to you. There is so many miserable people in America with all there money and they still not happy.

[@AsianRomance]

Your honesty and frankness are a breath of fresh air! And, your logic makes so much sense! -NIls

[@xavierkoolat6926]

Agreed and well said. Pea, your thought-stream presentation is comfortable, excellently organized and clearly stated, a most unusual accomplishment not found in other people's presentations world-wide. All of your videos are top-notch. Thank you for insights into thoughts and opinions of Filipinos and Filipinas. Kudos.

[@johannvandermerwe4826]

Outstandingly logical and informed. Well done Pea. Good research and motivating. Excellent motivation. Keep up spilling your knowledge and experience onto KZbin.... 👌👌

[@martinlucas3656]

I hit 74 this year and the hormones still bubbling away thanks to all those beautiful, caring and tender hearted Asian women who respect and acknowledge that older age is an inevitable part of life.

[@seymourskinner2533]

How attractive do you think you’d be with no money?

[@whathappen5279]

@@seymourskinner2533 'No money, no honey'... this is true in ANY country. In the west they are called a Sugar Baby

[@omnapathaigirl532]

Go Martin......happy for you! Enjoy your life as you wish!!!

[@byronchurch]

You’re so sweet Pea ❤️ Thanks for making this world a more hopeful and reciprocal place to live !🏡

[@tlevans62]

Very well said Pea. Lots of us older guys start businesses here and enjoy a very nice lifestyle. My wife is only ten years younger than me and we've had a wonderful life and been married for twenty years. The losers are the miserable people who sit in judgement of others, and in reality are actually jealous.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Wow, that’s 11 votes for jealousy as the reason - thanks! 👍😊 And congrats on 20 years!!! ❤️

[@tlevans62]

@@TheFilipinaPea thanks Pea, keep up the great videos. 👍

[@alohabia2]

I just started to watch your videos, very very well put together. Thank you.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thank YOU!! 👍😊

[@waynebeaman5328]

Very thoughtful insight. I needed to hear it. Thanks!

[@brandonbrown8653]

PEA!!!!! you're my HERO, everything you said is so true, I'm a 56 year old Australian and I love my Filipino fiancee so much. Finally after almost 2 years she will have her prospective marriage visa and I can go back to the Philippines to travel to her village and meet her family. After that I bring her home to Australia and I'm going to make her the happiest Filipino woman here. Again, thank you for the video and speaking out for us older men. You rock girl ❤️❤️❤️

[@4SChris]

Dear Brandon, you want to go living in The Philippines or stay in Australia ?

[@seymourskinner2533]

😂😂😂

[@antonioblackfox]

This woman is so sensible it is scary. I think I can not help beleive that if this were an ad for life partners everyone would be sold on going to the Philippines. She's like a human biologist.

[@sakesama1]

THAT IS BECAUSE SHE IS A FILIPINA TONY ! THEY ARE TRULY AMAZING ! YUP THE PEA IS A SWEETHEART.

[@billjones5442]

@@sakesama1 --- dude......"The Pea" is in "The TOP 1% of her country" !!!!!!! I do NOT CARE if you don't like OR agree with percentage - I know - WHAT I KNOW - I have been there 7 times & know 100's & 100's here......."The Pea" thinks / analyzes / compares / explains / understands / comprehends "To Perfection" - I have listened to her / watched her FOREVER - WISE BEYOND her time & BEYOND ANY BORDERS & BEYONG NORMAL CULTURES - I would change her name to "Sweet Smart Goddess" !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@hcp0scratch]

WOW!!! You are WISE, young lady! May your channel grow strongly, as it deserves!

[@anonymousbrowser9425]

I love your logic. You are superb. Thank you for this wonderful KZbin.

[@lurking0death]

"Self appointed morality police..." Gotta remember that line....You got mind, babe.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks, LoD! The subject just makes me mad 😂

[@say1706n]

You have to wonder if it's not sometimes sexual dysfunction/low confidence behind these comments by these "self appointed morality police".

[@lurking0death]

@@say1706n Yeah. Neuroses....often, religion in the worst way...envy.

[@graguitar6493]

Yeah it's a good one. I'd blast all my old western female mates with that if the judgemental wenches still spoke to me

[@bxmilessimms6216]

You never cease to amaze. Love the show Pea. Can’t wait to come back to the Philippines. I won’t say that I’m a dirty old man, I’m 52 and she’s 33, but growing up in NYC and coming to the Phils and meeting someone so sweet and caring, I’m thinking about retiring out there. Family members say I’m crazy because there’s plenty of women here but filipinas are a precious pearl worth traveling 9000 miles to discover. 😁

[@NYJGreatness]

Your age gap seems okay to me. A 70 year old dating a 19 year old looks kind funny, though

[@TheFilipinaPea]

And just who do they think you’ll find back in the west? 😂

[@bxmilessimms6216]

@@NYJGreatness 70 year old and 19 year old does look a little funny but if both of them get involved for the right reasons and take care of each other, that’s fine too.😁

[@bxmilessimms6216]

@@TheFilipinaPea there’s some good women here but studying statistics and probabilities made me think outside the box and go where the air is sweet and the women are sweeter. 😂

[@bxmilessimms6216]

@@erikdahl1293 you hit it on the head. Some members were concerned with race, culture, age and especially the distance. I’ve heard all kinds of jokes and wisecracks. But when they saw the pictures of my trips, they saw that I had a great time. And the fact that I’ve never been married made some question why would I get married now? But I tell my fellas that are single that they need to come with me to the Phil’s. Some don’t want to take the 20 plane ride. 😁

[@johnrisher3007]

Hi Pea. I really enjoy your videos. You're right just about everytime.

[@Gunshinzero]

You're very well spoken and make very good points. Thanks for being so sensible and logical.

[@bryskwynde2]

Hi Pea. I'm a 55 year old American man. I'm planning to move to Philippines as soon as the borders open up. Anyway, I'm engaged to a 27 year old filipina. And she is the girl of my dreams. Age doesn't bother me or her at all.

[@janosik5780]

The age is not a problem I am married to Philippina for 14 years. (64/35) I just hope you don't have to support her whole family as well, you may loose your savings.

[@Squanto9]

@Vankruze True yes, but that's a cultural difference between the Philippines and the west. There's no problem here calling a middle aged or even an elderly woman a girl where in the west she would be insulted.

[@markmulvaney8937]

I think the reason some people criticize older expats may relate to jealously. Many younger men simply lack the financial resources to live a laid back life in a tropical paradise. And there is also the Ageism element. I experienced this on the job here in the US and it's a real thing. Also there is the fact that some Filipinas may prefer older men because they are more mature, financial stable and just nicer and kinder.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks, Mark! I’m keeping track of viewers opinion, and so far it’s 7 votes for jealousy as the cause (and zero votes for anything else) 😂

[@scott80ca]

Very true. Some of those guys can't do what the older guys can do and they get jealous. It's called working hard and retiring well but some of the younger guys these days don't get it. And when it comes to age gaps look at it this way. Alot of very rich older Americans have huge age gaps in their relationships. Like Trump for example. Nobody calls them losers do they?

[@charlesmorse386]

It's the unbearable narcissism of the culture. It has infected many of the youth.

[@derekintheph8935]

We go there get laid with ease while u need to show them ur pension get over it

[@IAMICONIC_83]

It could be. Me myself personally definitely not😂 what they get a month i make every week. As well as own my own home all by the age of 37😂 it just looks wrong to others probably due the the western thinking.. It will always look like he's taking advantage of the poor helpless Filipina😭😂😂😂😂 when in reality she is the one who most likely approached him😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@howardstern666]

Thank you for posting this. People need to be set straight on this subject.

[@kevinreily2529]

There are many places in the world to retire, when you come from the West. I happen to live in Thailand and Western guys/ gals say all kinds of negative things about foreigners who are not stuck in America, with a bossy old wife and buried in debt. Most of the rest of the world doesn't have that judgemental attitude that they have in the Western countries.

[@markcrawford6576]

Just watched your youtube upload on older expats and having just hit 60 myself I guess I am one of them. Just wanted to say as a new subscriber how refreshing it is to see such a wise head on such a beautiful young woman. I thoroughly enjoyed the arguments that you put forward and the way in which you presented them. I definitely will be watching more in the future and am happy to be a new subscriber. Thank you and please do keep up the good work

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks so much for finding me, Mark!! I hope you continue to like my content - I really do work hard on it ❤️👍

[@lizard48]

When I met my wife she was 35 years younger than me, and we had common interests and beliefs.SHe could debate anyone and beat them. We had three daughters. Unfortunately, she died before me although I had bought insurance for her in case of my passing, When I bought the house for us some of her relatives said I was stupid, Iknow they were jealous, We treated each other with respect and listened to each other.

[@crystaleeno495]

Just ignore them guess they are envious.. Take heart

[@24emerald]

You had three children together and she's 35 year age gap? And you outlived her? Wow 😳

[@edjones1018]

She loved financial security.

[@duanet.7463]

Sorry for your loss. Congratulations on the 3 daughters. Hang in there buddy.

[@johnblack3497]

Hello F. Pea! After watching this video I Liked, Subscribed and Shared your video. I really enjoyed your content and your point of view. Great job! Keep up the good work! Looking forward to more videos! Take Care!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks SO much, John! I really do appreciate your subscription and sharing my videos!!!!!! 👍❤️

[@chrisn6369]

Thank you so much for your nice comments about us older guys! I was impressed when you said things like kindness are important. I've looked at many online dating ads and it's very rare for a woman to say kindness is something she is looking for in a guy. I hope you've found a good guy for yourself that you will have many happy days with, you're a nice girl and you deserve it!

[@GeeCeeWU]

Your explanation and opinions on this subject are spot on, I've often wondered where the cut off point is from being a young blade and a so called Dirty Old Man. Here in the UK, there is an inherent ageist culture, with my generation in particular being blamed for most of the problems that the younger generations are facing and I think this in some way contributes to why we are stigmatised. Young men are the future Dirty Old Men and when they accuse me of being one I just say, no I'm not, I've always been like this. I have saved this video.

[@mike26fl89]

I am 48 and have been talkimg online to a 36 year old filipina for the past year. We are both happy, cant wait to be together. And dont care what anyone thinks.

[@secretagent86]

yes, others man be jealous...tough shit.

[@realisticclearmind3531]

I never care what other people think. They bring me nothing in my life.

[@fstuart1547]

Good for you. Live thy life and be happy.

[@RicardoMartinez-ch9tg]

Heyyy. 36 she is old on philippino way of tothingking Go better get Someone on her 20's

[@Phucket24]

Hello Pea I’ve just discovered your blog and I love the way you put your arguments across well done you

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks so much for finding me, Brian! I hope you enjoy my video library 👍❤️

[@aceofspades7605]

Very refreshing to hear your perspective on this topic. Subscribing to your channel!

[@magnumpi2456]

Excellent perspective, Pea. Well-said. I appreciate your preparations in making these videos. It must take a lot of time thinking through these issues and articulating your ideas. Thank you.

[@Dahaas2003]

This was remarkably articulate and well-reasoned, Ms. Pea. Well done!

[@davidleonard9004]

Brilliant and very pragmatic commentary! Well said.

[@brianmark3088]

One of your best videos ever. I 100% agree. There are many quality men that have retired in the Philippines. The men that say this, are JEALOUS because they are not brave enough to do it. They just hate on the smart men who get to enjoy themselves with a better life.

[@garrybeech2702]

Good discussion P - one key reason is the Filipino gilts are feminine, genuine loving and great partners.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

You seem to know us well, Garry! ❤️

[@Vanfran2]

Exactly

[@eagle97007]

Your videos showed me why.

[@Markvanriper]

I agree Garry

[@Pamledger478]

My neighbor here in America is 64 years old and his wife is 30 years old. They have 2 beautiful children. I don't think he is a dirty old man

[@kurt6863]

As my wife tells me: The old waterbuffalo likes the young sweet grass.

[@djrobby20xx]

🤣🤣🤣you have bursted a few men bubbles...🤣🤣🤣

[@pattskatoey3139]

I like that.

[@rafaelcarmany463]

YOU NEVER FAIL TO IMPRESS! Sometimes you brought tears to my eyes.

[@phareke]

Quality content. You differentiate between Love and Exploitation well and acknowledge each as a reality. You have emotional maturity and are well spoken. Props to you.

[@mekon1971]

Pea, I am happily married to my wife, who is older than me, and not a Filipina, but we are still interested in retiring in the Philippines, not for economic reasons, but simply because we love the Philippines! Wonderful people, beautiful places, warm weather, hospitable hosts, and predominantly Christian. Age gap relationships are not unheard of in the West in times past. My grandfather was 38 when he married my grandmother when she was 18. They were married all their life and have 9 Children, 32 grandchildren, and more than 70 great-grandchildren.

[@furtherdefinitions1]

You always hit the nails on the head. Always intelligent and insightful commentary.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Even when I miss, I hope it’s not by much 😂

[@davidlirwin]

Couldn't have said it better myself

[@furtherdefinitions1]

@@TheFilipinaPea Honestly, I haven't seen you miss yet. You seem to always cover all the angles of one subject, so you have it covered, and being a Filipina, you certainly are more in a position to discuss all aspects of life in the Philippines than many of the expat videos I see. I mean, they can be a help because they discuss their experiences, but they also expose their biases. It seems you avoid biases and just present the whole picture

[@marksr8784]

Great video 📹 not what I expected. Way to go ✌🏿🍻

[@bobjohnson7441]

Always appreciate your vids. Your country is on my list of places to visit.

[@sat1458]

I am amazed by your wisdom. You are so right on in your perceptions about the relations of male/female in the west. Thank you.

[@lonhofman7919]

Hello Pea. I'm very impressed with your intelligence, reasoning, beauty and the value you give. I couldn't agree more with your comments. I have a filipina fiance and have enjoyed the Philippines every time I've been there. It would be my pleasure to meet you some day. Continue to create great content. MABUHAY!

[@stephenvalusiak2378]

Hahahaha that was so funny .. thank you 🙏 for making me laugh in these down times .. I have just started watching your videos and I am glad I did... keep it up 👍🏾

[@LWRC]

Bravo - very well spoken on a great topic!!!

[@bjmccann1]

Thank you. I'm a lonely widower who's been looking for someone to share his life with. This video has given me hope.

[@cw9790]

I hope you find it brother.

[@bjmccann1]

@@cw9790 Thanks!

[@joehelsley3081]

Absolutely superb, clear reasoning! Thank you for putting some idiots in their place!

[@pastordavequales4165]

Today I've decided to indulge myself with your older videos.... enjoying them as much as your latest.... Thank you for the years of great subjects and contents. Blessings.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thank you so much for doing so ❤️👍😊