The Most CONFUSING Catfish EVER | Cole & Abbie

This episode has only been requested by one bestie, but that was truly all the convincing I needed. I have been wanting to cover a Catfish UK episode for the absolute longest, and here it finally is! Cole and Abbie, Season 1 Episode 4, is definitely an episode that left me feeling confused, on a number of things. This is the ONLY episode that has left me even more confused at the end than the beginning. It truly has a number of twists and turns that can only be understood by watching this video, the episode OR better yet, both. Now, I have very strong opinions, so of course I'm excited to hear your thoughts, feelings and opinions down below in the comments. As per usual, if there are any other episodes you'd like to see me cover, please don't hesitate to let me know down in the comments, and let me know if you would like more Catfish UK episode coverage!
Inquiries: [e-mail]
Become a Channel Member For Exclusive Perks: / @jaydahope
Become a Patron: / girlyouhaventheard
Find Girl, You Haven't Heard on Apple Podcasts: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
Find Girl, You Haven't Heard on Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/31X49pk...

[@MinieStation]

you’re absolutely right, this whole story is clout cringe. it was an advertisement for their content. their whole story was too vague, they did not show their work lol. it’s like they came to the producers like, “we have a dramatic problem that is threatening our marriage, a jealous sibling, and a twist ending with a surprise villain! but in the end it’s all a just a misunderstanding, and nothing is immoral or illegal so it’s safe for tv!” 😂

[@RachelMishael]

EXACTLY! Perfectly said!

[@evda4919]

I agree but I don’t think catfish knew that, catfish uk on their fifth season now I think

[@jaydahope]

Ouuuu you make a really good point!!! I hadn't even thought about how if it were a stalker, it might make the episode unsafe for daytime tv

[@ShaneTheCreative]

Yeah it very much was giving planned and staged ngl 😭

[@julieannewaller7541]

That's why the brother didn't care. Because he knows his sister does thing for attention & clout

[@jordzsupremacy]

Nev would immediately attempt to knock the door down after leaving the voicemail, Impatient King🤣🤣

[@jaydahope]

We love an impulsive and impatient man🥰

[@amateurflor13]

and i love him for that

[@NDJunction]

i sometimes just wait for him to lowkey open an upstairs window, gently push aside a nanna and ask where the catfish is xD

[@elisset.1691]

I YELLED when you said it was faked. Cause it definitely felt fake as hell. Soon as I saw the brother.

[@veronicajaworski2558]

Jayda is feeding us lately, and I'm eating, no crumbs left

[@Neomie92]

Like my belly is full !!!!!! She’s serving constantlyyyy

[@phoenixrising4012]

EVERY SINGLE TIME

[@riley9031]

mother is mothering!

[@Autumnbreexo]

Yess I’m so here for it !! ❤

[@valenciabanks3979]

Yes 🤌🏽

[@tubbsmom]

Its funny because "unsupportive" brother is actually SUPER supportive for going along with this for them to get clout

[@Klee510]

Hear me out: a picture of Neev with cartoon acrylics and lashes saying “She is the moment”

[@jaydahope]

WAIT LMFAOOOOOOOO okay that would be iconic

[@alexandrakopko]

The profile photo they've "never shared on social media" so clearly having an instagram filter on it is SENDING MEEE

[@mrssuperstar411]

Catfish UK really let the whole world know its easy to find their address if they just sifted through enough videos to look for it and they went "lol oops wild" not "maybe don't tell tv that and let us delete those videos you found" 😅

[@EricaAsjaee]

I thought it would be basic knowledge for people . I used to tell my cousin to stop letting her daughterake tik toks outside of their house . I don’t even take pictures in places in consistently go to

[@AriDelgato]

I feel like if they did fake it, they could have workshopped the story a little more 😂😂

[@jaydahope]

Exactly!! At least make the fakeness juicy and dramatic

[@mlemgee]

It was definitely a clout chase. Everyone gets increased engagement, even the "jealous" brother added a smidge of drama but he benefits too.

[@HellsFurby]

The picture of New with Wendy Williams SENT ME 😂

[@bettyb00p237]

She ate with that one and the Ted Talk insert of her 😂

[@Gothchops]

Me too 😂

[@jaydahope]

When I was filming I just knew that meme would fit so well there💀

[@kaym1558]

I clocked it as fake as soon as we went from focusing on the brother to then talking about some moderators. That random switch made no sense imo. Then it in fact being a moderator? Yeah ok lol they were def using this show for attention.

[@milodavis1]

Why call catfish for a stalker?!? I feel like they should have called a PI or the police

[@Sto0necO0ld]

Clout is a hell of a drug 😂

[@whatamitalkingabout]

byeee when you said gifts i thought you meant tiktok gifts 💀 i was like well whats the problem? IM CRYING

[@jaydahope]

Please LMFAOOO when I first saw the episode I thought that too💀

[@laurenlyons632]

Maybe the brother suspected the clout-chasing and that was part of his annoyance/anger.

[@naikahara]

I didn't even know there was a catfish uk? Lmao Also I 100% believe that this episode is fake purely based on the fact that it makes me sad to think these grown ass people would act like this in real life

[@Lexxytron]

There have been plenty of people who exploited the American Catfish show to get on TV. This definitely looks like the UK version's first instance of it.

[@xocreme]

It was episode 4 of the uk one though like

[@ewarrior9776]

You took my suggestion about Catfish UK! Yay! Do the Nigerian Prince episode, too.

[@jaydahope]

Nigerian prince??? Say less LMFAOOO I just know that one is good

[@rosebby1433]

There's a catfish episode with a Nigerian scammer too , idk if you've covered it yet I think the guys name was flavor or flava? It was a funny watch I'm ngl

[@jakostadeering2225]

I would personally love a pin with you doing your signature hair flip with the caption "I'm here for it!"

[@MiraCassandre]

I like this idea !!

[@MiraCassandre]

Exactly, it felt so weird and fake.

[@cutebloons]

The way she says vague kills me bc I always think she just said VAG out of nowhere 💀

[@GenesisSimpson-uo1pd]

I thought I was the only one. It’s unnecessarily irritating me 😅

[@clxirexyz]

literally not even an hour ago I was scrolling on KZbin and I was thinking “man I could really go for a new jayda hope video” but you had uploaded only two days ago no way your going to upload again, AND THEN I OPEN UP KZbin AFTER A WHILE ANS YOU DID!!! I’m so happy 😁 thank you, your my favorite KZbinr

[@sio_h1875]

You said Dumfries right! Calvin Harris is frim there and its a belter of a night out! Also, its Glas-go 😅 Hi from edinburgh 👋

[@jaydetbh]

i love calvin harris and jayda too

[@Badbitchprettygirl435]

Only thing I could think is that one of them thought that the gifts where coming from a mistress.

[@djanime317]

Damn getting two in one week, you a real one 💪💯 Also the catfish in this episode, it’s kinda giving The obsessed fan club President for Selena (God rest her soul 🙏) that ended up murdering her 😬

[@joepagram8287]

I know who you mean and I guess they are somewhat similar in how they present themselves, however I don’t think Nikki was anything other than a fall guy. The couple were defo in this for clout and even if the case was real it was the brother and then dressed up as Nikki.

[@djanime317]

@@joepagram8287 oh I absolutely believe they did this for clout, whenever I see a “social media” couple or someone who’s obsessed with follows, I instantly think they’re faking the story, like out of everyone, why would it be one of your moderators 🤨

[@joepagram8287]

@@djanime317 yeah way too convenient

[@IDKmaxxy]

The pronunciation for Dumfries was great! Glasgow is a bit trickier though (speaking of which, sending love from Glasgow!)

[@annalouiise2282]

Isn't it pronounced like glass-go, like the W is silent?

[@Tw0Dots]

@@annalouiise2282yea I thought it was “glaz-go” lol

[@HyperUserGoesHyperer]

I was so proud of her saying Dumfries right. Even fellow Scots say Glasgow wrong so 😂 this episode was filmed when there was still heavy lockdown restrictions in Scotland. I grew up in Dumfries and Galloway (and recently moved back to the area) and know people who know these people. 💀💀💀💀

[@jaydahope]

Ahh sending love right back, I'll be sure to work on my Glasgow pronunciation❤️

[@ThatQueenRob]

This whole episode gave me second hand embarrassment😂🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

[@suan333]

We are getting BLESSED this week. And I'm not even a believer 🙌🏻

[@auntiem0thman]

I agree with you; I think they made all of this up just to get clout. The whole time I was thinking it was either the brother or the brother's spouse and that Nikki was gonna turn out to be Ben's wife or something lmao I was not prepared for any of it but yet it still feels faked.

[@ayajade6683]

I half expected maybe one of them was sleeping with his wife it would explain his outburst if it wasn't faked.

[@La_br00tal_mija]

Maybe it was breaking up the marriage because they thought one of them might be cheating??

[@Issynothere]

I don’t know if you’ve ever seen Lauren and Derek or Kayla and Courtney or Lucas & Many. I think those are some of my favorite ones especially Lucas & Many.

[@CandyLand324]

OMG YES the Lucas v many NEEDS the commentary

[@meg9518]

YES. Jayda PLEASSEEEE cover Lucas and many

[@rachelmills5774]

I have been requesting Lucas and Many for months to me its like top three of catfish episodes if not number 1 because of just how many people they helped.

[@marinaweikum8788]

Naaah Lauren & Derek is so not worth mentioning. She played and used Derek. He's now happily married and lauren Is coo coo puffs with 3 kids from 3 guys.

[@jaydahope]

Alright lemme just go on ahead and move Lucas and Many up to the top of my list🫡

[@ghosty6258]

The number of posts between Jan and Feb have me sooo happy after finding you and binging all of your content!!!

[@jaydahope]

Omg thank you for noticing the consistency and effort🥺❤️ happy to have you here!!

[@sammismilezz]

Omg merch that says, "I know something you don't" would be great

[@vampyo]

So happy you came back with another video, I recently got obsessed with your channel and your form of commentary that I binged everything you already had out LMAO. Will look forward to more, thank you for ur funny takes on episodes!!

[@4thDan]

British/Scottish people will add an extra “R” sound after a vowel like A or E. That’s why it sounds like they’re calling him “Ubar”.

[@nb7204]

Actually we pronounce it like “ooba” we drop the R.

[@killian1075]

@@nb7204no, like in “raw”, it would be pronounced “rawr”….i can hear Gordon Ramsay saying it.

[@nb7204]

@@killian1075 more like “roor”

[@nb7204]

@@killian1075 although I’d say Americans pronounce it like “rah” so it’s not a good comparison. An English person pronounces oobah and Uber as exactly the same words, whether as an American pronounces them how they are spelt.

[@niaram]

⁠@@nb7204American here. in my experience nobody says “rah” they just say it as it’s spelt “rawr” so it sounds kinda like whore but with an r

[@kelseahinze1705]

yep totally agree this didn’t feel real. it felt like storytelling more than real life. like we were being led to believe that her brother was behind it at first but shocker!! it was a mod lol

[@star-mm3xb]

i’m so glad you thought it was faked too girl, the whole time i was watching i was like there’s no way she’s falling for this…

[@ShaneTheCreative]

The “I know something you don’t, I know something you will never know” clip takes me tf out every damn time lmfaoooo I LOVE IT 😭

[@Sunnysimming1978]

Everyyy damn time 😂

[@Mari-od1ir]

QUEEEEN of nonstop working behind the scenes. We see and appreciate you ‼️

[@kimberleyforbes8312]

You're the first Canadian to say a Scottish word perfectly 🥰❤️

[@cry444yoursins]

she’s Canadian 😭

[@kimberleyforbes8312]

@@cry444yoursins Whoops 🙈

[@jaydahope]

Waitttttt this makes me so happy to hear🥺

[@kimberleyforbes8312]

@@beefar0ni that's a relief! I knew hillbillies was first Billy the hill from Scotland it's lovely that there's more of us scattered around 🥹💖

[@evda4919]

As a uk girlie I can tell you, you can’t just knock on doors and enter peoples house Nev style 😂

[@myriapinkston7122]

Tbf as an American girlie only nev can do that 💀 anybody else would be at risk

[@thisisavivistanaccount7866]

perfect timing 💜 this video is perfect for unwinding after a busy day

[@rubymilne6651]

Literally every time Jayda posts, I want moreeee and she’s been listening lately ❤

[@jaydahope]

I'm doing what I can friend🥲

[@rubymilne6651]

@@jaydahope and it hasn’t gone unnoticed, trust ❤️

[@Em-uy9wj]

I guess maybe the stress could have caused issues, but only if they already aren’t getting along… or maybe causing suspicion amongst them like are u cheating or did you cheat with a crazy stalker… or like you said maybe one wants to disappear off of social media and the other doesn’t… just feels so weird to be like this is breaking up our marriage rather than this is making us fear for our kids…. They seem like nice ladies so I’m trying not to judge too hard on the cringe content, but when I see content like theirs I immediately scroll away as fast as possible it makes me so uncomfy like idk who is keeping these couple influencers in business fr

[@sherellebewick8284]

The fact that they said they would cut all ties with the brother if he turned out to be the catfish. And then forgave someone who isn't even blood. Not to mention if you watch their tiktoks, Cole seems to be very close with her brother and is actually quite supportive of her.

[@hannahkatlee]

I’m a lurker but you’ve literally been delivering videos non stop! Thank you so much!! Remember to take care of yourself 🫶🏽

[@JustMeowMeow]

i swear when i saw this and seen the reveal i SCREAMED... catfish UK has so many episodes were it left me speechless

[@secretlythebatman]

i completely agree with your take; its giving taylor from catfish fr

[@jakostadeering2225]

Ay e one of them thought the other was cheating with a crazy person who was sending gifts to try to drop hits or something lolol

[@kingsofguyana]

I feel like we need “I know something you don’t “ merch

[@marshysoup]

I’m still confused abt this episode and the fact that they forgave the catfish is still wild but, I do agree that the couple did it for clout. At least that what it felt like cuz a lot of things weren’t adding up.

[@C0nejaa]

I miss when Nella was the co-host 😭 She had that no bs personality like Kammie does

[@jaydahope]

Pretty sure Nella is the host that took over for Julie! Imma have to cover an episode with her as the host because I love her😭

[@C0nejaa]

@@jaydahopeik she’s just not the co-host anymore because she has her own fake court series😭

[@raytraynae]

I’m literally shaking like a chihuahua, like a strippaaaa over this upload. We love your videos sis!!! Thank you for great, actually watchable content !!!!!

[@JeniJustJeni]

"Just be single" Merch, specifically an enamel pin (I'm afraid I won't be able to buy for a while, I got laid off)

[@milodavis1]

I agree it was for clout

[@sillywilly1809]

I had such a bad day you immediately made it so much betterrrrr

[@LaLaSimpkins]

Oh man I didn’t even think to ask about you watching Catfish UK!! I really liked that show and I hate that it’s not available for me to stream anymore. 😢 Thanks for covering this one! Hope you do more of them (I know Kamie goes over to guest host one episode, maybe that one🤞🏼)!! ❤

[@DizzyME13]

This episode felt made up to get people to their TikTok. That’s honestly what I thought the ending was going to be.

[@Madeplatinum]

I always know Jayda is about to say some real shit when she flips her hair 😂

[@cassie.h]

Oh thank God we have a new video! I’m so excited!!!

[@MsQiqi83]

Jayda!!! Genuinely so excited everytime I see a new upload!!!

[@kelpymckelps]

Yessss I’ve been binge watching your channel!!

[@solanaolmos6989]

Thank you Jayda for posting 😩😩

[@natyc19]

Jayda keeps up with giving us content, and I love it

[@vbyzgizelle]

Every time I see you upload I get so excited lmfaooo 😭

[@fynntasticmovienight]

Jayda, your commentary is hilarious 😂 this episode felt like a fever dream!! love your video

[@Goosebumpy]

oooo posted 15 mins ago!! I'm so excited loving ur vids girl

[@hannahhensley3459]

You are always so funny and I love you laugh! I have been following you for a few months and always get so excited when you post!!!! ❤

[@kurtistowncitizen904]

Love your videos girl I'm moving so this is the perfect video to play in the background 😂 ❤

[@MimiPretzels]

I agree this episode seemed fake, but I'd like to see a legit UK Catfish episode recap

[@s.a.weddaborn]

I don't watch these shows, but your recaps I will; they are everything. Thank you!

[@abbirenwick]

Hey from Edinburgh! This case is insane and well done for pronouncing Dumfries right 👋

[@kaleyjoeckel5246]

Girl you already know we need a shirt that says "messy besties." I'd buy that up so quick!

[@LatashaPuff]

You always make my night

[@TheSunnyExplosion]

Okk girlie, merch idea. "Be so forreal" ? Or a variation idk lol

[@nightingalevoyager977]

I love every time you upload

[@hannah5805]

Bestie I’m loving everything you’re putting out xxxx any merch I’d love to see!

[@toolywoo2x]

ALWAYS PERFECT TIMINGGGGGG

[@bbyymegss]

It’s pronounced glas-go but i love you girl and I’m glad ur reviewing the uk episodes now ❤pls do more

[@madibabyyy]

yessss looking forward to watching this ☺️❤❤

[@aliciaperry6186]

I’m SOOOO glad you’ve been covering the great value brand of catfish 😂 it’s so hard watching this (the UK version) and the show “help I’m in a secret relationship”!!!!!! These shows are unbearable and SOOOOO happy to listen to my bestie spit facts not fiction 😂😂 (still waiting on my necklace btw) can’t wait for the next episode!!

[@dexterl5829]

Your reactions are *chefs kiss* 🤌🏽💗🌸

[@Gothchops]

Catfish TRIED to Catfish us 😂

[@jaydahope]

But we are TOO smart for that to work bestie

[@Gothchops]

​@@jaydahopeDamn right 😂

[@ovo_hanna24]

I’m so happy someone recommended Catfish UK, chaos personified. Hopefully you will watch the episodes with Nella Rose as cohost😩

[@alyssaromero4397]

I heard merch and it’s the first time a KZbinr mentioned it and I’ll prob actually buy 👀😍

[@caroline2978]

Nev would've scaled the apartment building to look through the windows and see if they're home

[@Tamagothchick]

Scottish gal here - you got the pronunciation pretty spot on! Love all your videos

[@mikcooah]

Love when you upload🙌

[@Neomie92]

HIIIIIII YOU ATE THIS UP LOVE UR ACCOUNTTTTT

[@that-one-ginger1733]

never felt so fed. no crumbs left❤️❤️❤️

[@AmberrMariee88]

Jayda girl….girl girl GIRLLLLL! The way I be using clips from your vids in my everyday life 😂 the “you don’t care about your sister? Like you don’t give 2 fucks (TRASH)…okay”….trust when I say imma be using that DAILY my friend 😂😂😂😊

[@Marasaorykgsm]

BESTIE just posted!!! I SAID BESTIE JUST POSTED!!!!!

[@MJ-onlyonejones]

Girl, is this the third video in a row you're talking about jumping someone? 😂

[@jaydahope]

LMFAOO maybe🧍🏾‍♀️but only as a jokey joke because these people get me so mad😭

[@flower_of_zaun]

Hi bb! I hope ur doing well, thanks for another great video! I'm glad u called out these fake episodes!

[@Kitunae]

Ready ready, got my coffee, spill the tea

[@cimcd7]

“The UK people say Oobah, I’m just gonna say Uber cos that’s what everyone else says” lol ok

[@eza3381]

the way you said dumfries scotland absoultely perfectly, like no need to apologise bestie, but then you called glasgow glass cow 😭(for future ref the glas is prounounced more like the las in las vegas but with a g, and the gow is just go, as in.. go. lol) no but love ur vids and as a scottish dyke who didn't even know there was a uk catfish... this was wild.

[@VerucaMarie]

HOLD ON! I had no clue he was the host - he was a Vice writer, maybe he still is, but he always had fun stories.

[@legna8627]

FIRST!!!! i love your vids smmmm! doing my hw rn :3

[@jaydahope]

Hi bestie!!! Good luck with your homework, hopefully I'm good company🫡

[@victoriap9116]

Omg I'm so happy u posted sick vid thanks for merch ideas please drop a tote bag!