THE MOST EMOTIONAL VIDEO I WILL EVER MAKE | STARTING OVER | Life Update

This is deeply personal to me and probably the most emotional video I will ever make. I'm sharing it because it is only fair to share the downs as well as the ups.
Thank you to everyone that has supported me so far, I hope to have your continued support whilst I go through this very difficult time. My marriage may be over but my life is not.
Let's start this new chapter together and see what life has in store for us. Onwards and upwards as they say.
See you in the next one.
Dela.
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[@bcaiqs]

As a single divorced woman , I’m so sorry to see the pain in your face and hear it in your voice . I wish you and your family all the best . If I could do it all over again , I would have fought for my marriage because the carnage is not worth it . Seek counseling even though you are now single and make sure the kids mental health is taken care of as well . When all the dust settles, the kids are the ones who get the short end of the the Divorce stick and continue to suffer way after both adults involved have moved on . I pray for the best God has for you and your family 🙏🏽

[@brigey]

Wow, what a shock. When I met Kwame at Melcom a few years ago, he proudly showed me your picture and he was beaming from ear to ear. I was so surprised and happy to meet the husband of natural ghana girl. Though I'm really sad to hear this news, I will be praying for the both of you 🙏

[@ahnamohr5966]

A lot of us have been in your shoes, you’ll get thru this ❤ Be strong!

[@MoniqueTchimanga]

This is truly sad, 👑Dela. There is no need to feel embarrassed. I love your honesty in dealing with your audience. Thank you for sharing your story with us. A separation is painful and can happen to the best of us. You are a strong woman who has inspired and is inspiring many. Many of us are really wishing you well, that’s why you will make it through. My prayers are with you and your beautiful family. May the Most High God guide your path, give you more strength and inner peace. 🤍

[@moretodela]

Thank you 🙏🏾

[@maxwellyao7696]

Stay strong Dela!!! I pray for strength and God willing, you will find your feet in whatever you do! Blessings 😊

[@insidehildaslife6329]

So sorry to hear that! It’s not easy, but we pray for the best. God’s plan is the best.

[@ritasackeykaydea1736]

Thanks for sharing hun. I know it not easy but you’ll get through this. You are strong and just surround yourself with those who care and can fill in gaps. God bless xx

[@Luv2TravelWithWave]

You are such a strong woman. Life happens and we heal. And move forward. Sending my love.

[@Jennifer_Appiah]

Many blessings to you beautiful! Sending you so much love! A wonderful new chapter awaits you. Sometimes good things fall apart so that better things can fall together. ❤🙏🏾

[@Thekwane12]

BIG hug! That’s all - be kind to yourself in this difficult time.

[@daisylanham2353]

Keep looking up, getting up and going up.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@adomaadjei584]

Thank you for sharing your truth, Dela. Stay strong my friend. Best of luck to both of you!!!

[@bernardm470]

All I can say is wow! Praying for you all. Be strong!

[@suitelife1781]

You’re absolutely right, Life be lifing. So happy you’re doing what’s best for you and your children. I’ll be praying for you and your family. With love from Atlanta, GA. Valerie

[@aadwoaaa]

I’m sorry to hear about that. Sending you much love. Stay strong ❤

[@dotty65]

Sorry to hear this Dela. Ive been through this and know how hard it is. Be strong, big hugs to you ❤

[@user-vg5rw8jq8t]

Praying for you both and the children🙏🏻

[@AkuaOkodie]

More strength to you queen, so long as there is life there is hope. This is an event not the end of your life. Focus on your healing and creating a beautiful life for you and your children.❣❣❣

[@lyslr5401]

Your transparency and vulnerability is truly inspiring as well as your strength. I have no doubt that from here on out the rest of your life’s journey will be amazing for both you and your kids. Things happen the way they do for a reason. Sending you hugs and well wishes.

[@ArabaWaters]

Wow this is so hard. Especially sharing with the whole world. Brighter days are ahead sis 🎉

[@denisediallo9735]

So sorry to hear that. Keep your head up. Sending good thoughts.

[@rui37CdjOe]

All the best! Hang in there. Sending blessings upon blessings to you!

[@SB-gw2fr]

Thank you for sharing...continue to keep the Alight y in your midst. Sometimes in life, we continue with situations because of family, pride, public perception and stigma...this is the time to be you and the healing with follow - much love to you and the family.

[@blessedbarsoap8935]

So sorry to hear that. Praying for the family. Hang in there sis. God is your strength

[@christalborn77]

So sorry to hear that💙 we all got stuff no need to be embarrassed. Much love

[@NanaAshanti]

You are super classy. You are going to do great all by yourself, sis. You got this!

[@msmercy5280]

Sorry to hear that . Wishing you the best of luck in raising the kids . May the good lord protect your family in this difficult times 🙏

[@elizabethfrimpong5928]

Wow this is indeed a shock for myself and many others. Stay strong❤, sending peace to you and your family 🙏🏽

[@akedareyes5014]

A Warm Hug For You And The Children! You And Kwame individually have our Love, Respect and Support.

[@irenedenchi7564]

I've been there and it is difficult at first but as you stated, people DO change! I've witnessed it first-hand and was in disbelief for the longest time that the person I thought I knew would treat me this way. (I'm not making an assumption about your situation here. I'm just telling my story). However, once the shock gradually wore off, the most important lesson I learned was realizing that I had to continue putting one foot in front of the other and keep it moving because the world was not going to stop turning while I licked my proverbial wounds; it certainly would not wait until I caught up. No! Time is the most expensive and irreplaceable commodity we have and can never be recouped once it's spent. I never anticipated becoming a single parent but stuff happens and I know everything happens for a reason and I'm all the better for it. Twenty-six years later, I'm still standing and my son has grown into a fine young man! If you're a praying girl like myself, I'd suggest reaching out to Our Heavenly Father. He will never leave you nor forsake you and He'll climb this mountain WITH you. I wish you all the best. This too shall pass.🙏💌

[@moretodela]

Amen

[@shani4470]

Needed this comment! Amen. So sorry to hear about the loss of the marriage NGG but put God and yourself first.

[@ladyf5217]

Sorry for this. I hope you continue to grow and be great ❤

[@sandiin6885]

Sending you hugs and love from Philly. The challenge of each day will make you stronger and ready for restoration. Keep your eyes on the Lord and He will order your steps.

[@mercyquartey5492]

Thank you for sharing Sis 💕. Praying for you and your family as you navigate through this difficult time. God’s got you and He is always faithful 🙏🏾💕💕💕

[@ladyghana5603]

Well Blessings to you and your family! and stay strong 💪🏾 life will work out things in due time

[@kwabenaglizzy3993]

Wow, didn’t expect this video but sending my prayers and love to the both of you and the kids

[@amorkor4]

Awwww all we ask you to do is stay strong. As you say, life happens. Hope all works out for you. We love you and are here for you. ❤️

[@Mrsmcovington007]

I'm so sorry for you and your family. Don't be embarrassed. Everything is working out for your good.

[@kwadwoefah2014]

If there is no 3rd person involved, NEVER SAY NEVER....allow the storm to settle down and let's see what the future holds. I pray love wins.

[@MandaK4111]

Sorry to hear this Dela. Thank you for sharing. wishing you all the best with this next chapter, can’t wait to see where life takes you 🤎

[@ajomomandela9845]

Peace and love to you my sister. Best wishes going forward for everyone concerned.

[@BeautifulTree]

Praying for you both during this difficult time 🙏🏾

[@mootsooblankson9294]

Sending you lots of positive energy and love. Stay strong and know there’s a lot of bright light at the end of the tunnel.

[@84tahlia]

You are strong, you’ll get through this. Sending prayers for the WHOLE family. ❤

[@appias95]

I’m so sorry to hear your news. You seem to have fought hard. I can only imagine what you have had to endure till this time. Be encouraged that many people have gone through this before. Others were able to build a better life than before. Others were broken and never picked up again. You have the power and the choice and God’s help to set your direction. We are behind you and will always appreciate who you are and your great work here! Xxxxxx ❤

[@AfroMillennialMomma]

I noticed the change in the videos but I would've never guessed. Sorry for the loss of you guys marriage and I pray that the entire family is able to adjust. Give your self time to mourn. You are still a family unit, just redefined. Try not to feel guilty about your new life path. I'm praying for God's best for you both and the kids. ❤️

[@lorettadavis6944]

Life happens, just know we are here for you. Stay strong for your kids.

[@tlm9836]

So sorry for this. Keep your chin up - you are doing great!

[@jaycassa]

Our prayers are with you both 🙏🏾

[@chantellea9938]

I haven't watched whole video, but I'm so sorry for your split. Due to the move and having and the arrival a little one I thought everything was fine. Stay strong sis! Praying for you 🙏🏾

[@abitofsparkle1dee616]

I’m so sorry to hear this news , may your new journey lead you to peace & happiness x

[@benoniavah4811]

sorry to hear that Dela. I pray for strength for you in these times. stay strong. much love ❤️. thanks.

[@tantiouskitchen582]

Wow what a shock!! Praying for both and the children...Hugs ❤️❤️💕💕

[@RoseTheAfropean]

Wow, I’m so sorry to hear this. I’m sending you lots of love, strength and courage. You don’t owe anybody any explanation but we are grateful that you wanted to share this with us. Marriage is hard, I have a feeling that marriage in Ghana is even harder for returnees… a lot of cultural differences and pressure from outside. Take the time for you and use this time to reflect. I pray that you all find a mutual understanding for the sake of the kids. Co-parenting or as a married couple again. Good luck and don’t get sucked into anything that’s not for you. ❤

[@pramaccra3106]

Peace Dela. It is very brave of you to share this information with us. I wish you well. Yes life happens and life goes on. Forward we go.

[@Annani22]

Sending love and strength your way! Onwards and upwards!

[@josephbrown1573]

Wow Dela I am really shocked, I really didn't see this coming . You know what's best for you and your kids .Stay strong, and all the best to you in your future endeavors.

[@Crob100]

My Dear Dela, This is not embarrassing....it happens. Time heals all wounds. You will make it through.

[@oforil39]

I pray for your strength. I too had same situation, two children, I tried but for the better of good I had parted ways. So difficult. All will be well Dela, with time gets better, you'll be fine. Understand what your going through. It's been many years now for me both my children have grown into wonderful men. God bless x

[@tamathamaroney8060]

You are resilient and he’s resilient as well. I’ve learned in 53 years of life that in time our needs change. If we are not aware that we need to sit down and explain to one another that our needs have changed then that’s how division happens in relationships both intimate and platonic relationships. Only time will heal the hurt both of you are experiencing or will experience. Many blessings to you as a woman willing to share such sensitive part of your life with such a cruel world. Maybe I will contact you to have a sit down when I return to Ghana. God bless you

[@lolaojomo7805]

Loved you both - sending hugs and kisses to you both. You are so beautiful! You'll both be fine xxx

[@JC-ty3zq]

Sorry to hear this,but I guessed it.WISHING you the BEST in your LIFE

[@Ind2nd]

So sorry to hear about this situation!! Stand Tall!! 🙏🏾💪🏾❤️

[@MiscellaneousMeMe]

Oh Dela my love….I hope you, Kwame and the children are all coping well with this transition. Life happens….and like you said people grow apart. I hope your whole family thrive in this new chapter. Thank you for sharing love ❤

[@julessarp6003]

I'm so sorry to hear this. You will get through it Dela!!❤💝

[@evedel1291]

Wishing you all the best Dela. Sending you lots of love and hugs. It is not easy but you are strong and you will be fine. God got you!

[@nanagyamfuah5055]

Sorry to hear that, just be strong 💪 🙏 ❤️

[@naomiecavitt]

Love you 😘😘,cheers to new beginnings.

[@FunkyBazaare]

Wow! I was not expecting that. Stay strong Dela ❤

[@207purple]

I am in shock! I have been following you for so many years and this was the last thing i could ever imagine will come from you. All the best to you and the family.

[@minaa.1984]

Early viewer here! ❤️❤️❤️ you’re amazing and God is too, so trusting God for you!

[@nanaagyemang8189]

My prayers are with you both and the kids.

[@completewoman7844]

Sending strength and love sis.

[@anitaasare5166]

Life must go on sis. I know you made the best decision for you and the kids.

[@TheClickClick]

May God continue to Bless and keep you safe and best for the future. Love you and what you do. Thank you for all the content. Thank you for sharing with us.

[@Vimac08]

Wow so sorry Dela. Wishing you all the best 🙏🏾

[@ededdie2741]

Good luck with your channel. The video quality is EXCELLENT : brilliant pictures, beautiful background, editing on point, you are eloquent, etc.

[@theonly6359]

Ohh 😢noo! Sorry to hear that. Keep strong sis

[@fos-b2537]

Love you so much sis,may God see you through this difficult times.

[@firstmotherfamily4088]

Sending you lots of love. Nothing to be embarrassed about 🧡 life is impermanence. Wiishing you all the best Dela💫

[@jamesnyaho1282]

Say strong, Dela. God will see you through.

[@Winis_World]

My gorgeous Loc'd Ghanaian sister! Bless you for sharing such a sensitive topic with us. Sending you a lot of love. All will be well ❤

[@sharoncampbell1972]

Sending you and your family lots of love.and light.I can see you're emotional.very sorry to hear. take care x

[@walterhunter3353]

We will keep you lifted up in prayer. Good morning from Dallas Texas

[@MarfGL]

Keep your head up and stay strong Queen 🙏🏾

[@MsApplehead01]

Sorry to hear that Dela, trust that you know what’s best for you and your family. ❤

[@efreeholdings1575]

Omgish. Hugs to you!!! I have been on your page (on my other profile) since yall moved. Please take care of yourself and the children.

[@MaisonJiJi]

You are a beautiful person and all will iron itself out. Better to have a "friend " and peace. Thank you for sharing

[@kuyahkudey3217]

Love you and your channel and I wish you the best. Everyone changes as the experience the challenges in life and grow. You will be just fine because you are smart and beautiful. Plus you do have a great support team that includes Rochelle who keeps you laughing. As you know laughter is good medicine.

[@claudiavoorhoeve3258]

Hey gurl I'm really sorry to hear about that But keep strong and more blessings towards to you and your kids Such is life. Thanks for sharing this with us. We still supporting Natural Ghana Girl .... Bless up ...

[@speaker_vibes]

Blessings 🙏🏿 I wondered where he was. I figured he was working on houses or in the UK. Stay strong. Blessings to you and your family. I hope things work out for the best.

[@RepentandBeSaved]

Sorry to hear that it will be hard especially on your children but you'll pull through with time 🙏

[@saywhatworld2023]

New chapter Sis! All the best to the both of you and hopefully Co-parenting will be positive for the children

[@mabelayivi9584]

OMG! Yes am really shocked cos you had so much chemistry. But it is well and I agree with you. Praying for God's strength to move on. It isn't gonna be easy but God s on your side.

[@rukyfitnessbooster8799]

This was definitely too much of a shock but I also understand that people change. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray for the little ones. ❤

[@JMBM8822]

Nothing to be embarrased about. Life happens. It will get easy with time dear. Hang in there. Hugs♡

[@belindapohl2483]

O my God...This hit me like a huricane...i just love the both of you together...i hope you both make the best decisions concerning the children, house and every thing you had together....I respect your decision...but truely pray there would be a possibility of working it out...God bless you.

[@nanayeboah1049]

Sorry to hear this, you are a strong woman. Be kind to your self and take care of the children, may the good Lord protect you both.

[@babsp3081]

Dela I am sorry to hear this, may God give you and your children strength to move forward, bless you and thank you for sharing🙏🏾❤

[@philipquashie6615]

You will be fine my dear. Just stay strong for your kids. Such is life, we move. Lot of love.

[@gavinjohnson3065]

Sorry for the split and i wish you well go forward.