The Most Toxic Husband On Tik Tok

[@annad.3097]

Abby looks exhausted while matt looks like he rests well everyday

[@Misty486]

I’m saying fr

[@Vanilla_Mexican]

Considering he’s admitted before that Abby takes care of the kids 90% of the time and does all of the house work that doesn’t surprise me😒…

[@michellemueller7288]

Because he's always doing nothing, while she takes care of the kids and a majority of everything else. Matt is just a bum.

[@Angeintheworld]

Exactly what I was thinking!

[@cippi-f5x]

Well he does rest more because he moves to a different room so that he can sleep

[@lillie7014]

Him complaining that he didn't get two individual celebrations for his bday and father's day is giving the same energy as dudley from harry potter when he only got 36 gifts for his bday when last year he got 37

[@Sallyfacerocksss]

HELP

[@timelyferry]

oh yes😅

[@LoonyMoony4]

Fr

[@OmenFromBel0w]

@@Sallyfacerocksss Bro you are so f-ing cool, seriously!!

[@VinsmokeClara]

at least when they grow up dudley's behaviour also change for better, but unfortunately not matt

[@jszn1]

He's literally a CHILD and every woman's nightmare

[@nahhme6484]

No way, this whole time I always thought he was the ideal husband

[@ΜαριαΒ-ι5ζ]

​@nahhme6484 what did you see that screamed ideal husband?

[@eyelash-bug]

@@nahhme6484 nuh uh. he asked her weight, complained that she didn't celebrate him for fathers day AND his birthday while she was carrying his CHILD. then once she gave birth he said it was an easy process, as if he can give birth, smh. and then AVOIDED HER FOR TWO DAYS WHILE SHE STRUGGLED TO FEED HER NEWBORN???? yuppp, ideal husband material 💀💀💀 (i just realized you were probably being sarcastic, mb im slow as fuck.)

[@eyelash-bug]

@@ΜαριαΒ-ι5ζ FR LIKE ???? i've gone a few birthdays without really doing anything except order some food maybe, and here he is complaining he didn't get to celebrate fathers day and his birthday??? i wonder, what'd they do for mothers day? i'm pretty sure she was pregnant for mothers day too.

[@tracihawley33]

I see this family channel going down like the other's....I would bet my life he has cheated. She needs to get rid of him.

[@darlenegonzalez9537]

Just remember that when she found out she was pregnant, she kept asking him if he was mad

[@foreverMJ2024]

No like Fr tho

[@LoFoSho]

I think we should go rescue her. He’s awful

[@Farnklyme]

@@LoFoShoyou can’t rescue someone who don’t wanna be rescued

[@garlicquackers]

@@Farnklymei agree, if someone doesn’t want to be rescued then they don’t need it but abby is so brainwashed with his toxicity that she doesn’t even realize it

[@katringabrielle4672]

Yeah.. because it’s not like he had anything to do with that 🤦‍♀️

[@sweety_numma]

He gaslighted her so much that Abby’s convinced that he’s done nothing wrong.

[@iamahugefan-p7l]

fr

[@Jujudeze22]

He’s pretty horrible.

[@R4ND0M_WE1RD_K1D]

GGG: Gaslight Gatekeep Girlboss✨️

[@thethe4665]

I think she’s so traumatized she’s blocked out the bad parts. I did at first too til I came to my senses and what I went through

[@saturnmercury8533]

She will come to her senses soon enough.

[@jamielee7404]

C section is a major abdominal surgery and it's not easy by any means. They are cutting through seven layers of tissue for crying out loud! And the recovery process is not easy either. Wtf is he talking about? She was literally cut open.

[@timelyferry]

they will stitch that thing back up too. my mom had 12 layers of stitches. imagine the whole length of your abdomen being cut open and stitched close. then they will ask you to stand up and move around right after surgery too. it is quiite painful. leaves so much damage in your abdomen. stretch marks and what not.

[@timelyferry]

the people who needs a smack are all the idiots who listen to this clown who says it was easy. ofc it was easy for you. you were watching.

[@BelinaBelii]

Wtf is she saying too. “It was easy.” Bis you had a surgery !!!!!! He bleached her brain. I’m so sorry for her and all women living like that. If he tells her the sky is yellow she would believe it.

[@twincesseszeigler4366]

​@@timelyferrySame.My Mom had to get a C section for my brother cause it was going to be hard.Luckily it worked as a C section.My Mom then decided to get a C section for my twin and I.

[@gamegirl23100]

Fr. The recovery process takes years in order for your abdomen to go back to the way it was before. That convo was crazyyyyyy.

[@dexmreow]

the worse part of this all is that abby is so convinced her husband does no wrong

[@haileybrown2398]

Fr

[@Aquirian]

The gaslight when the camera is off has something about I it

[@mamamiaWAAAHHH]

Gaslighting, manipulation, and brainwashing?

[@dexmreow]

@@Aquirian probably yeah :/

[@muichiro_tokitou._.3]

fr

[@riacore24]

I hate how he's always talking over her. Like let the woman finish a sentence. He's the kind of person who needs to be told "not everything is about you".

[@tinymonster2050]

You’d tell him and he’d give you his opinion on why it is lol 🤣 i

[@riacore24]

@@tinymonster2050 he'll be like here's 50 reasons why this IS about me😂😂

[@kathydocimo9722]

He's a bit of a selfish sort, isn't he, though? I wouldn't be able to tolerate him and his less-than-gracious ways whatsoever. Basically, he has no comprehension of what his wife has gone through and what she continues to deal with. It feels, as though, that if it doesn't concern him directly, it shouldn't concern him at all. He is what is considered one "privileged character".

[@eyelash-bug]

i hate people who do that. my dad and brother don't ever let me or my mom get a single word in during a conversation and my dad still hasn't realized how ridiculous that is. being interrupted makes me feel like my opinion and what i have to say isn't valid or meaningful, and i dont feel heard at all.

[@cxrsen.doodles]

​@@eyelash-bug my gosh, I feel so bad for your mom :( I am neurodivergent, so sometimes I interrupt on accident. With your father, he's just like matt. It's really upsetting

[@Nonyah123]

If my husband did nothing but stand around while my body is SLICED into and human life that I spent 9 months singlehandedly growing comes from me, followed by MONTHS of recovery time and potential complications and a body that will never ever be the same, and then said "it was so easy though" I would have to give him a C section myself. Disgusting.

[@rileygranderson6125]

I love that comment and I absolutely agree👍🏽

[@amberjolly7270]

Agreed!! He needs a swift kick in the pants!!! He's pathetic. She is soo stunning and a good Momma. He doesn't come close to deserving her in my opinion.

[@aliyahshanae]

As someone with 2 c-sections under my belt in under 2 years, I felt this to my core.

[@cheyennemccoy4444]

And then divorce him after giving him the c section. It definitely won't be worth staying with him.

[@itsbubbles4021]

@@cheyennemccoy4444yes this

[@pandasforlife5797]

The fact that he kept saying ''we'' when he was talking about HER DELIVERY. C-sections are not easy by any means, and they certainly are not ''cheating'' Matt needs to literally bring down his child-like ego. He did not give birth nor did he carry that child for 9 months. Giving her the silent treatment is sick, I can't believe she's still with him

[@absurdpineapples2670]

i never noticed it before, but in response she emphasizes, "we did not" 6:26 thank god she threw him under the bus for that one

[@Natasha_-_]

And then to say "while you were being pumped full of drugs" as if it's a bad thing or he's jealous or almost like he's trying to make HER seem like a bad person for it....! 🙄

[@saramilena.]

sound like the type of guys who think we have one hole for everything lol 🙄

[@carolannmoore989]

C-section by choice is cheating. It's ridiculous. My second daughter was born by emergency c-section. Her heart stopped. My first 7 hours, no epidural, natural labor. My second was 9 years later. Never expected to be in labor 12 hours and her heart stopping. I asked my doctor for a c-section ( I was 40) he said no. I had a perfect labor with my first. Be careful what you wish for... Natural was way better.

[@LAWOODSTORIES]

The point is that guy is not happy with his life because he regret his choices. He wasn't ready to be a husband and a father. It's a maturity problem and I feel so much for Abby because I think that she deserves better.

[@Nathavangel]

Wow!! A.MA.ZING conclusion 😮

[@WillowT442]

It is a society problem. The culture in the US does not teach boys and men how to properly process their emotions. Now that schools are trying to teach social emotional learning. Some people think there is a hidden agenda and are losing their minds. Schools are teaching about emotions and social skills to help with behaviors. Behavior has become so bad that teachers no longer want to teach.

[@Smile_with_love]

Well said 👏

[@manasi92]

Yes because everything they were doing was for content and the moment reality hit them, problems started arising. This is the most common thing to happen in a couple vlogs just like Jesse and Jeana from gfvsbf. As soon as the thrill fades away, relationships crumble.

[@R1Neey123]

Abby went off her pregnancy pills without telling him & they got pregnant before the man was ready! I think Abby has no patience but wanted "content " for her channel.. he too went along when she got pregnant until later they must've realized that they can't return the baby & that their "content " still needs care & attention after the cameras are off

[@LawChatsWithMadeline]

I think Abby is slowly getting fed up and realizes how silly he sounds. She visibly looks annoyed and she’s obviously being sarcastic saying “yes I failed you 😑”

[@aliciacamille636]

This is her living I dont think she's ever done anything without him.

[@kaseylore]

Honestly I agree, I think it comes down to maturity levels. Obviously you're supposed to grow and change throughout a relationship (esp when you marry young) but from the outside looking in, she's maturing at a much faster pace than he is. At some point, something's gotta give. And I hope for their family's sake that the "give" is him shaping up into adulthood, as a husband, and as a father, but unfortunately that's not always the case. She's grown as a person, becoming a wife and a mother has definitely made her mature, but personally I don't see that same growth from matt, which may be why she's starting to really listen to what he's saying and how odd (slash rude) a lot of it is.

[@LawChatsWithMadeline]

@@aliciacamille636 so sad

[@Hannahsunshine-]

Bro I can't believe he gave her the silent treatment for two days after she gave birth because he felt like his life was over. 💀 that is so pathetic

[@Candykingdom781]

Ikr💀💀✋✋

[@rekapinter4894]

What the actual fu- 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@-Reagan]

Can’t make this shit up bc people wouldn’t buy it and they’d be furious you made it up

[@Layze-Fanpage13]

Yes! As a father you should care for your wife who went through the most painful experience of her life. Not ghost her and make her hormones more turned on.

[@timelyferry]

also he didnt get enough time to think abt his 'career' while the baby was cooking or when he decided not to use a condom. what a clown

[@KandyKoRnKorpse]

That isn't her husband, that is one of her children.

[@NourKabalan-vv9vi]

Ikr what an immature guy !

[@naylaleifson9022]

But that's truly all that matters,right

[@naylaleifson9022]

You all are reaching, he might have said some things he cares about and your being way to harsh

[@Icxniccutesynurse]

@@naylaleifson9022HOW IS THAT HARSH?

[@reign7416]

​@@naylaleifson9022Yeah he really CARES about his career. Not his child, Nor his wife. But his CAREER. You must be right 👍 that really matters. What an ambitious gentleman. His wife and child must be so proud of him. I would hand feed him food and pat his head for being such a big boy. Like how could I not see how amazing he is. Am I right?

[@raineetoneme]

Abby will grow out of accepting so much crap from him. As all women know, when a woman is done, they are done. She's just not there yet.

[@lilyt18]

When you finally wake up and get out.. it’s hard for a little, and then it’s AMAZING. The relief is real. Sad how many years we waste on these losers.

[@childofgrace100]

It's a process she'll have to go through. She'll learn her value at the end.

[@raineetoneme]

@@childofgrace100 I hope she learns it soon and straightens him out, though they are both kind of a mess...

[@acatspectator]

she’ll get there

[@not-a-ghost2206]

I truly hope that for her. On the other hand my parents are still together because it "just wouldn't look good" even though all of their kids begged them to get a divorce. You have to be willing to let go of the life you live to restart. But sadly people are more trained with the ugly sad day to day life because its familiar than to start new.

[@Aal795]

I hated this relationship from the beginning and everyone on tiktok was like "awww they are sooo sweet, perfect couple" and I was disgusted by him. First felt like something confused me and now this. Thank you for the clarification, I would have never seen this without you.

[@Ailuj13di]

Samee! I always had a weird feeling when I saw one of their videos and didn‘t understand why so many people thought they are a nice couple

[@samia12345ful]

Same!!! I have hated them since the beginning But later on I realized, its him There is something cynical and weird behing his empty eyes Sends shivers down my spine 😭

[@HadilAyyad]

I couldn’t stand Matt from the first short I watched of them. You can see the narcissism in his face.

[@selenaurie]

What an arrogant man. It breaks my heart she doesn’t have the tools to stand up for herself. A lot of people don’t know they are in toxic relationships until WAAAAY too late. She has KIDS with a man who belittles her experiences. I hope they don’t grow up learning from that.

[@brandyw4285]

Why she is still with him amazes me. Is he putting something in her drink to keep her around.

[@nery_casella]

Shes just as toxic as him

[@seals48100]

​@nery_alfaro no she isn't

[@Billieeyelash567_8]

​@@nery_casellashe isn't

[@samlouise9386]

Their kids do not stand a chance. I repeat. Do not..stand a chance. It's sad

[@coll4455]

She’s able to eat as much as him because she’s DOING ALL THE WORK

[@Sandakan00]

And she works out like mad I think that’s the only time he ‘allows’ her to have away from the kids

[@becca53444]

We really need to teach people how to spot the signs of a narcissist so they stop dating, marrying, and having kids with them.

[@Karynwashere]

If I could like this comment a 10000 times! This is why these narcs stay this way because someone is always willing to tolerate it.

[@vineetha6942]

Yeup. Because these people either make more victims or more narcs. Enough with that shit already.

[@LostNFound432]

PLEASE!!! I was gro*med as a teen and it completely derailed my very bright future(graduated@15, was in college, swimteam, working, and had my own place, car, and $25k in savings). Now I'm 35, and worse off now(financially and every other way) than I was at 16 when I met my kids narc father🤦‍♀️ through therapy, I realized my mom is also a narc, which is what made me escape so young and then just find another bc its what I was used to🤦‍♀️ My kids are homeschooled and are VERY well versed in narcissism and a TON of other subjects that are actually relevant to real life. I prioritize reality ALWAYS, and if we have extra time, we'll get to the calculus, but I'm far more worried about them being prepared for the real world than for the SATs!

[@LawOfAttraction-ed2mx]

He is narcissist and also in a closet

[@Natasha_-_]

💯

[@Earenda]

He is literally a case study for narcissism. All the red flags are there. He’s self centered, entitled, condescending. He criticizes & humiliates her. All her work is taken for granted, but he expects gratitude for occasionally deciding to participate. Never true apologies, only justifications. And the classic: acting like a constant victim never responsible for his own suffering. I have no doubt he is a toxic presence in the lives of everyone close to him. I’ve been there myself so I feel for them, especially his wife, and hope they manage to stay away as much as possible…

[@AmySimpson-no1sv]

Look, I had 4 cesarean sections. I promise you that having a C-section is not avoiding birth. Only one of those C-sections was not a terrible experience. Actually, for both my boys births, I almost died for two different reasons. The first time was because I had a placental abruption (a placental abruption means that all of a sudden your placenta just sloughs off and detaches from the uterine wall, taking away the baby’s connection to oxygen and the mother to begin hemorrhaging. It’s sudden, fast,and has a high mortality rate) and I was losing so much blood that they told my family to kiss me goodbye because I probably wouldn’t make it out of the operating room. I was 8 wks early and that baby shouldn’t have survived. I was knocked completely out before I had this surgery. For the second son, who was also my fourth and final child, ( I had a bunch of metal in my back and due to this it was difficult to get the placement of the spinal block correct) and when they did the spinal block, they did not numb my right side completely. I told them this and they ignored me and started cutting me open anyway. I felt everything. Felt each layer of my abdomen getting sliced open. Felt the surgeon reach inside and grab the baby and scoop him out of my womb. At this point my animal instincts kicked in and I started thrashing and screaming and trying to get off the operating table, even though I am a very rational, intelligent person who knew this was absolutely the worst possible thing I could do. But that much pain will cause your body to try to save itself and get away. They had to put me out with propofol and once again, I almost bled to death because of a completely incompetent staff. The baby aspirated and there was blood shooting up from my abdomen. (This is something I didn’t see myself. My husband had to tell me about it later). I have never felt more pain in my life than I did after my first and my fourth childrens births. And believe me, I know pain. I’ve had 2 back surgeries, a cholecystectomy, a hysterectomy, an appendectomy, part of my colon removed, and cancer cut out of my mouth. But, ya know, you as a man are absolutely qualified to talk about what giving birth is like, and lemme tell you, you’re absolutely right sir. C-sections are the easy way out.

[@shrewpynewpers4548]

As a woman I’ve always been paranoid about pregnancy and childbirth, specifically mortality. But recently I’ve read that for every woman who dies during childbirth in the US, there are around 100 who suffer the same complications and nearly die (I think from the CDC). I never realized before how big the scope of traumatic birthing experiences was. I’m sorry you have experienced such difficult and painful births.

[@pebbles77]

that sounds like a lot :( you're a very strong and admirable woman for pushing through all this

[@AmySimpson-no1sv]

@@pebbles77 awwwe. Ty. 💕

[@Videosrigolo]

I am a woman and I had my son naturally and it was awfull, But cannot imagine what woman who go through a C-section go through, I dont ever want to go under the knife no way, my v was hurting for 3 months, and I took two points down there, ( like sewed?🪡) anyway I can only imagine !!! The PAIN in my belly and legs and organs during recorvery.

[@dragonfliesnh4204]

@@shrewpynewpers4548 According to the various research I've done on this topic and comparisons, the US has the highest infant and maternal mortality rate compared to all other first world countries. One of the reasons is that people can't afford the best health care especially if they are underinsured or uninsured completely, which is not surprising. Plus, the maternity leave after having a baby is a joke or non-existent depending on where you work.

[@momoangel9243]

Wtf?!? C-section is not cheating birth, that's making sure your partner and child don't die, It's like matt do you prefer if you, had to bury both your partner and child?!? I hope abby realize she needs to leave him, especially for her child because no child needs to be in a environment with someone like matt as their parent.

[@destroythesoul]

Remember divorce is not on the table for them.

[@weewoocircle]

she has not one but TWO kids (if im not mixing stuff up) with this man. i hope she leaves him for their sake and herself too ://

[@anaisanais1286]

When I was studying to be a nurse I first saw a natural birth and after that a c section (also assisting mothers after birth and it was NOT easier for the c section mothers) and I can tell you the natural birth was not beautiful to see (as I expected) but the c section traumatised me for life 😭

[@divine555]

It is cheating birth, especially since it's not s technical human being 😬 but acting like it's anyone's fault is horrible

[@anaisanais1286]

@@divine555 wtf? Cheating means’s taking the easy way but a c section is definitely not the easy way if anything it’s harder, especially the time after birth, talking about f.e. recovery and bonding

[@Alyaurr]

Abby’s husband gaslights her more than when I gaslight my brother that I didn’t eat his last spicy Wendy’s chicken nugget 💀

[@schizophrenicbaby111]

Straight to hell for those nuggies 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 damn how you do your own blood like that 😭😭🤧 😂😂

[@Cuervorojoo]

Those nuggets slap I don’t blame you 😂💀

[@StanIVEandStraykids4LIFE]

Nah but they hit😩

[@disneyprincessintraining2725]

I don’t think you realize how much I love and relate to this comment. And yes, those nuggets be good!

[@hamdiyazid200]

Give me tips lol

[@kaywee4200]

I hate this dude. Abby is so beautiful and kind. Like bro. Youre going to regret the way you took her for granted, and in the long run, she will take notice, eventually. And i cant wait for her to realize.

[@kathrynnscott3945]

Fathers Day landed on my 18th birthday this year and we celebrated both of them at the same time. Matt should quit complaining and grow up.

[@kokuhakuqiun4215]

Exactly

[@Layze-Fanpage13]

Yeah Matt is a little narcissistic

[@zahraalex381]

Slay

[@RacingEuphoria]

Yeah I kinda think it'd be better and make more sense to celebrate them both on the same day idk what his issue is lol

[@starrby7790]

​@RacingEuphoria he's just a narcissist that wants an entire day to him and him only

[@Thecooltransition]

Saying c section is a cheat code brought me to tears. Does he not realise that its a surgery and could go wrong. Pregnancy and birth are dangerous. Women used to die regularly due to complications in pregnancy and birth. Csection is a boon to women. Health care professionals generally go for c section only when there is some complications. It’s not a first resort.

[@M.Ahnungslos]

The worst part is that it propably was going wrong already and the c-section was done to safe the life of her and the unborn child...

[@vladb2154]

​@@M.AhnungslosI think it was mentioned before that she chose to have a c section? I could be wrong, but regardless of the fact, it is a major abdominal surgery and not easy at all! The recovery is brutal, it's awful to call it "cheating" when he didn't go through the surgery or the recovery.

[@madelynrowe]

Yes exactly. I almost died during my c section with my twins.

[@gargeebasak9648]

In India, the doctors always suggest c section regardless of complications (bcz c section makes the hospitals more money) but they always tell the women it's safer, which it of course is. But I think it should be a woman's decision but here they tend to scare the woman to coerce her to choose a c-section even when some women really want a vaginal delivery.

[@Sweetnessnessa]

GOD BLESS YOU SIS I'M GLAD TOU MADE IT AMEN​@@madelynrowe

[@tiredteen8906]

That husband seems like a guy who would state "WE are pregnant! Obviously WE cant do heavy labour!" In order to avoid any responsibility, just to go to the bar when the baby is born and annoying, THEN he is having a blast, and all of a sudden its "HER child, she wanted it, SHE is the mother, so SHE has to care for it!"

[@polendisco4132]

And a father that "babysits" his own child when he for one takes care of it while the mom takes a day off for herself.

@@tiredteen8906" she takes care of MY son " sums it up

[@chachachubs5600]

We would insinuate an ability to put anyone above himself.

[@tiredteen8906]

That comment is one month old and I got 1k likes, I never got that many, tym everyone

[@piecebypiece2028]

When my sister had a C section, her husband did not leave her side for 3 days. He only left to get food. Got her everything she wanted. He went home for a bit to take care of their dogs and laundry, but was immediately right back at the hospital. When we finally got to see the baby, he was exhausted. You could see it in his face, he hadnt slept well in days. But he was so happy to just be there with my sister and their newborn daughter. My sister said that she was in so much pain, but that having him right next to her really helped. I couldn't imagine not being there for your wife while she's giving birth. I couldn't imagine making her already tough day even harder by complaining to her. And ignoring her shortly after? What? I get that having kids can cause parents to feel like they're life is being turned upside down, but to ignore your wife? The person who physically underwent change to give you that child? Child behavior.

[@semi_dott]

That's so sweet, wow

[@fateme8103]

The fact C section is so painful that mothers can't walk properly after days, is so heartbreaking seeing some men like him over look it like that 😑

[@GabrielleTollerson]

shit like this is why I'm too afraid to get married and have kids,because I know from experience from women I knew,husbands are more likely to do this or cheat

[@jayatichakraborty9319]

​@@GabrielleTollersonSo true i am also get scared for getting married. What if the person i married turned out like this kind of jerks.

[@fateme8103]

@@GabrielleTollerson Me too. My father is so caring and lovely and I don't think I can find someone like him. Boys these days don't know what taking care of family means. 😕

[@mgachatv]

U just have to find the perfect man​@@GabrielleTollerson

[@diendiana]

@@GabrielleTollerson same here. Scared to get married bcs of this shittt 😞💔

[@Heavencollects]

The fact he says “so easy” is disgusting. A C section is a complex medical surgery done while Awake!! He’s so irritating

[@myliza700]

Yeah it felt like I was having a heart attack. My mom had to breathe me through it. Like yeah they numb you. But your nerves still work dude.

[@sarkchi]

I've had 5 babies. 2 with induction and epidurals, one natural in hospital, one home birth all natural, and 5th was C-section. C-section was by far the hardest in nearly every way imaginable. Then the horrible recovery for WEEKS. I'm 3 months pp and still not myself. With my others I was up and doing light housework the next day.

[@Jastastic936]

Also the recovery process is anything but "easy" as he put it. Then that bastard had the nerve to ignore her for 2 days when she needed his help the most and acted like she did something wrong. He is disgusting!!!

[@RelaxingForLife]

My ex husband said this same thing when I had a c section And Frankly I get panging pain every so often even 5 years after And that part of my body feels dead

[@meeshaa4566]

@@RelaxingForLife Actually thank you for sharing that. I had a C Section 2 years ago and that area goes from like...dead to weird stinging pangs. I just assumed something had gone wrong since I hadn't ever heard someone else say that before.

[@GuiltyPleasures2]

What a child. He’s embarrassing. I have had 3 c sections and 2 were emergencies for myself and my baby’s. It was terrifying and extremely painful and the recovery was prolonged. What the hell is wrong with him? Oh if only he could experience just a taste of what we bad ass mothers go thru! He’d never make it.

[@kikineeks]

I was just going to say the recovery from a c section is so much worse than natural birth. He seems to have little empathy for her

[@lilyt18]

@@kikineeks He doesn’t seem to even LIKE her let alone have empathy for her. He’s utterly pathetic.

[@PrettySpookyx]

You're not badass cuz your body doesn't work right and push the kid out yourself 😂

[@rayne9037]

@@PrettySpookyxactually she is and that man is a puss whether you like it or not 💀

[@Ohshc_obsessed]

@@PrettySpookyx what the fuck are you even talking about

[@meowified_k5034]

Abby deserves so much better, she’s so damn amazing! She had 2 beautiful babies, takes care of herself, raises those babies, tries to internalize all of her feelings and thoughts well maintaining her relationship with a man who is “honest” without thinking twice about his words. 😔

[@MadisonWestfield]

Her talking about how the hormone rush was real right after a C-section is so true. It is incredibly intense and very hard to deal with. I cannot imagine dealing with that and also an inconsiderate husband.

[@AlyCat2212]

Not just inconsiderate. Completely unaware. Why in the world did that news come as a surprise to him? Did he ask her how she felt at, all or pay attention one bit? Doubt it, the way he took on the role of talking about the experience and how easy it was without thinking, "oh maybe I should let my wife talk about the experience of birthing our child"!

[@drea12187]

I agree, I had this with all 3 of my kids. Couldn't imagine having a shitty partner throughout that time.

[@sophiepomerleau708]

He talks like a 4 years old. No empathy or consideration

[@marleeamato4944]

I had emergency c sec for premature twins and an immature husband. So yes I had both and it sucked ass

[@tiarralee6910]

So so hard. Dealing with this right now!

[@IL0UHV_SF]

I feel so bad for Abbie/Abby tbh 😭 He’s acting like her giving birth is the world’s #1 problem dude..I mean give her time to heal goddamn

[@PaletteDreams-i1p]

Omg Fr! She needs time to heal and here he is complaining about HER GIVING BIRTH TO HIS CHILD!

[@yadiravalladares3632]

I know!! And she found out she was having a baby only a couple of months after their first baby

[@GabrielleTollerson]

wanna know what's worse? How many husbands do that and cheat on their wives during the pregnancy and giving birth stages

[@cgi_angel6001]

Yeah, as if his gross nasty sleazy ass didn't GET her pregnant in the first place...

[@thethe4665]

@@GabrielleTollersonmy children’s father was great for years till I got pregnant then he would go out all night with girls (I didn’t know till I got an std while pregnant and went into premature labor)

[@Stmon2]

layze may not be pregnant, but he always delivers.

[@MaggieWhitfield-dt8ct]

Real😂

[@BIGGSACTIVESS]

Real😂

[@Bubbleafton]

Facts😭

[@Panicked_person]

Realll!

[@fuffingsweet]

Yep😅😊

[@Ada_Benji]

How could you tell a mom that giving birth is easy, clearly he has no respect for woman. Then say that having to spend 2 days in the hospital was "testing your marriage". Ngl he doesn't deserve a wife or children

[@Meg-A-Saurus]

Done. This marriage would be OVER if my husband gave me "the silent treatment" THE day we bring our newborn baby home! I also seen he was being an a-hole at the hospital and they were arguing the whole time. HE ruined the birth of their second child and she knows it, inside. I bet she has cried so much over it.

[@Jelly_Jay_15]

"How do we eat the same amount of food but I'm bigger" behind the scenes she's cleaning the house, taking care of the kids, and him bcuz he's legit like a child. He probably sits at his desk all day. Like also people metabolize food differently

[@Emjay.d]

She is also breastfeeding which burns hella calories and she works out wayyy more than him. No duh she eats more. She is actually working and burning it off. It doesn’t take much fuel to sit on your ass.

[@capedkat]

Plus (big plus) she is also eating for two still. Breastfeeding takes a toll on a mother's body; easily 1000 calories a day extra. Mother nature is both beautiful and brutal. However this husband is and enigma. How was he the fastest swimmer before he was born? 😂

[@NightingaleFlorine]

@@capedkat btw she also maintains a crazy group workout routine for mommies. she’s legit doing it all

[@Wesjag03]

She also workouts

[@capedkat]

@@NightingaleFlorine She sounds amazing. I hope he recognizes what a great woman he married

[@emxoxo11]

His getting so upset over "combining the holidays' is absolutely ridiculous. My 18th birthday, which is normally a big deal for people, was on Father's Day last year, and I never complained once. For him to be treating his wife in this way because he didn't get TWO days is disgusting.

[@Ngsl11]

Also he's a grown ass man a party is NOT necessary

[@emxoxo11]

@@Ngsl11 fr

[@aspa11]

Frr like my birthday is on June 18 I didn't complain and a grown ass man complains because he didn't get a party like really now

[@jessieb7290]

Wonder how he deals with people born on Christmas Day 😮

[@SausageSideways]

My son's birthday was the day after we got married and we made more of a deal of him than we did of our own wedding.

[@starcrossedjedis3677]

So maybe marrying the first dude who held your hand in school, because you "wanted to wait until marriage" isn't the flex all those family bloggers want to sell...

[@bapsbaby6441]

The way he kept trying to say that her having a c section was easy and that it was cheating birth is such a disgusting narrative to push. C sections are so hard and you are still giving birth to a baby regardless of where it came out from. And for him to talk over her, did they tag team the birthing process? He was making me so mad but she going to stand beside his nonsense so whatever makes her happy I guess.

[@GabrielleTollerson]

usually this is because of fear. I know she isn't happy,she's afraid

[@artemis88899]

He is her first boyfriend and they are very traditional. It's really hard to leave in such a situation

[@eatingeggtartswithkai]

Like wtf is cheating birth? 😭He sounds like a kid

[@NurseHarley299]

He interrupts her soooo much and speaks for her 🤨 Thanks for spotlighting this toxic relationship. Their podcast is blowing up these days

[@shawnconnors596]

When you say blowing up, do you mean in a good way? I hope not. He’s a douche bag and she’s acting like a huge air head with no backbone. 🤮

[@izabelljohnson4148]

Notice rgey don't talk as much or even show themselves or really talk about themselves

[@atmywhitson]

I've no idea why ppl watch shit like that. It's boring AF.

[@izabelljohnson4148]

@LynnAgain83 some how enough people don't think so

[@TamaoMizuki]

I literally can't watch this podcast because of interruptions. It sounds like two people always talk at the same time. I wouldn't be able to talk with anybody who kept talking over me non-stop lol

[@flufflenyan4169]

What pains me so much is that he thinks that having a C-section was "cheating birthing" having that procedure is the last thing that mothers would have to go through if natural birthing was not viable Either way, it's still so painful and there's a risk that the child or mother (or both) could die if only he understood

[@starrby7790]

Even natural birthing is difficult, my mom who should have gotten a c-section but doctors didn't due to being neglectful. She had to give natural birth while half her nerves to push were paralyzed due to a childhood incident she had. Let me tell you my mom was very beat up after it because she almost lost too much blood and I almost died too in the process. If my dad would have told her to get up and do the house chores it would have been impossible for her. I'm also thankful my dad didn't ghost my mom nor me for 2 days after my birth and was there to help and care for us.

[@Maybe614]

I have seen so many women saying c section was actually worse than giving birth. like who tf he thinks he is talking about something he didn't experience ?

[@thethe4665]

I’ve told people about my multiple c sections and they’ve told me later I traumatized them 💀 and it was an “average” experience. Let’s just say Fentanyl did absolutely nothing for labor pains

[@Jmofo738]

He has to be the only human on the planet that thinks a c-section is 'cheating.' I felt extremely lucky that I went into labor before my planned CS and was able to give birth naturally. CS's are major surgery and nothing to be joked about. I would not want to recover from a CS and have to take care of a newborn if natural birth is an option. That is actually extra work when all you want to do is be with your baby and sleep. (My baby was supposed to have a brain tumor and IUGR. She was not expected to survive more than a couple of days, but that miracle baby just turned 20.)

[@Oliviaandtrina]

​@@thethe4665 thats one thing I've literally never understood. Women who act like they "got high" from the epidural. Like in their birth vlogs, abby starts acting "high" as soon as the epidural kicks in. When having mine I didn't get high, I became functional(as opposed to when I couldn't do anything but scream). I didn't feel "euphoric" or "good" I just stopped feeling like I was being ripped in half 😂

[@WalkaboutBridge]

My dad’s birthday is June 22nd and it fell on (or near) Father’s Day most years. We always combined the two holidays and honestly Dad was treated like a king one Sunday, every year, his whole life. He appreciated us and we got to OVER THE TOP honor him. Miss you, Dad 💙

[@user-kh5wi7xk7h]

So annoying to see her aura so depressed and depleted while his is all charged up and full of himself and than her latching on to him again so he can use her energy again like an evil cycle

[@JozefinPerez]

my life was happier 17 minutes and 54 seconds ago when I had no idea who Matt Howard was.

[@ijjalsparadise7350]

Yes Ditto 🤣

[@foreverNwonder]

I’m so sorry for your loss(es) ❤️‍🩹

[@SierraCurtier]

Literally!

[@leuchtkaferchen1639]

Somehow my life was happier too because until 17:54 minutes ago I thought they were one of those toothrottingly cute and happy couples that are annoyingly much in love.

[@Nash_Aurora]

​@@leuchtkaferchen1639it's honestly good to know how much aesthetic couples can have the most toxic person ever

[@nessawade]

God forbid! What an absolute disgrace as a husband, and he's also a narcissist, you see how she's always apologizing? That's because narcissists always make you feel like you are incompetent, inadequate, etc. I feel for her, really! She's so young she deserves to be with somone who at bare minimum respects her, her clearly does not

[@laurenw.3656]

As someone who was abused by a narcissist, I feel so badly for her. Emotional abuse is beyond cruel.

[@beatricebees]

⁠@@laurenw.3656 it’s hard to watch it happen to someone else when you know how badly it hurts to be in their shoes. I hope she has the courage one day to understand she deserves better. what a cruel reality it is to experience your body keeping score, I really feel for her

[@laurenw.3656]

@beatricebees it's true. People that don't understand/haven't experienced it will never know the insidious nature of emotional abuse. After only a year+, I was left a shell of the person I once was. It's taken me years to heal. It takes a lot of courage, and I hope for her sake she finds it. No one deserves to be treated that way, it's just simply inhumane.

[@CATs24-m3u]

Matt is gay IDC what anyone says. He needs to come out the closet so he can stop being a jerk

[@kittygirl7018]

10:25 “it put our marriage to the test”?? Bro tf?? I mean my dad usually leaves for months for his job and returns home for maximun a week usually just weekends, its been 2 years since the situation has been like this and him and my mom have the greatest marriage ever

[@debradowner8761]

She is burning significant calories while taking care of 2 (technically 3) children, while also breastfeeding. What an absolute tool he is.

[@rrt_28]

Maybe abby is blind to matt's Red flags because they are couples since ages. It's really sad & disappointing. Matt needs to grow up

[@madMaddie_RobloxT]

Yea she knows it’s wrong tho, she immediately got defensive when he said something like “birth was super easy” hopefully soon she realizes this isn’t the life she deserves

[@OmenFromBel0w]

@@TheOneTheOnlyToast the only thing is, he’s emotionally abusing her, no one should have to be tortured psychologically, and that is text-book bad partner behavior…

[@madMaddie_RobloxT]

@@TheOneTheOnlyToast I’m sorry but I am NOT reading all that lol

[@OmenFromBel0w]

@@TheOneTheOnlyToast also, can you not compare people who are struggling to this p.o.s.??

[@Maybe614]

Ngl I was shocked matt was born in 98 he looks way older, so they have been together since they were teens?

[@hind96abdullah]

When ever I ask my husband what he wants for his birthday, Father’s Day and our anniversary he always says I have a beautiful family and wife what more can I ask for. But he never fail to surprise me of my birthday and Mother’s Day every year. Having a man that loves his family and values them is a blessing.

[@GabrielleTollerson]

I love this for you!! ❤

[@Nonyah123]

This is the ONLY answer I'd expect from a real man.

[@SensitiveMenGoReportMeLol]

aww that's so sweet

[@disneyprincessintraining2725]

I got me one of those too! He’s so wonderful!

[@hind96abdullah]

@@disneyprincessintraining2725 I wish every grateful woman gets a loving and caring man

[@novs_lifestyle]

4:49 I'm drinking a pumpkin spice latte rn 😂😭

[@TigerTh3Tiger]

Uh oh, not anymore

[@kaytie4078]

Gross

[@TigerTh3Tiger]

bro chill that was a month ago

[@chickennugget2356]

He's really pissing me off, why is he's trying to make the experience about him when he literally didn't do anything, he's narcissist

[@cheyennemccoy4444]

She needs to divorce him. He is so selfish and insufferable. How do you think about your career when your wife has given birth and is in pain and needs your help taking care of a child that is in fact YOURS and not just hers?! Also, I bet one of the reasons why he thought the c section was so easy was because of him ignoring Abby and giving her the silent treatment(in others, he was ignoring her pain and emotional stress). And a c section is not cheating birth. In fact, I don't know of a single time someone just wanted a c section. Anytime I've heard someone had a c section was either it was an emergency or something went "not according to plan" with a natural birth, such as Griffin's shoulder getting stuck resulting in their doctor recommending a c section in case that happened with August (and before you ask, yes, Abby confirmed this herself in one of the shorts on their channel).

[@kimberlyannchapman]

In their religion divorce isn't an option unfortunately....

[@cheyennemccoy4444]

@@kimberlyannchapman That's the part I'm afraid of. I honestly don't have a lot of respect for Christians that believe this "divorce is not an option" bs. My whole family(including me) is Christian, and divorce is perfectly fine if necessary, heck even my mom is divorced and has been since I was 4.

[@eilish-bf5bx]

​@@kimberlyannchapmanin Christianity, abuse is a justified reason for divorce if it causes 'any endangerment to the soul or body of the other or children's' (Catholic Canon Law - I know they aren't Catholic but I'm answering from a Catholic perspective) so if a priest/pastor deemed it abusive it is allowed. Plus, other denominations are more lax about it so yeah she can pursue divorce for this reason if it reached that point

[@lindaramirez1852]

I actually do want a c section but I have health problems and have over bled that it looks like a natural abo tion anyway I feel pretty good in this choice as it would take rid of that fear but both options are terrifying

[@cheyennemccoy4444]

@@lindaramirez1852 That's valid

[@WillowDevito]

I just cannot imagine doing this to the woman that grew your child, and gave birth to it. That is just insane.

[@nicolecastrogiovanni385]

The first few days of having a newborn is hard on the mother, and he gave the silent treatment!? Oh no, I’m going to my family’s where they will HELP me while I recover, I’m not dealing with an insufferable man child for a month.

[@FrankSinatrawife]

i feel so bad for her. C sections are extremely painful. My aunt had one, and it was one of the most traumatic experiences. Birth is seriously no joke and you need to take time to heal.

[@Scooterride13]

Matt wants to be a victim SO BAD

[@Moonshiesquish04]

Matt is a walking red flag. I feel so bad for Abby.

[@cl8944]

The recovery for c-section is so much more painful and harder on the body. And the child came out. What?? Crazy. He said he had to put his career goals to the side like the baby came out of nowhere and he is the one who gave birth and needs to heal. They had all 9 months to talk about it and he wanted to not help her when HIS WIFE came home from giving birth. Aye no!

[@Ohnothetableits]

Tiktok toxic is more dangerous. 😂 Bro just be like “me, Me, ME, MEEEE”. Dude doesn’t care her or her life and body being ruined carrying and giving birth to his kids. Sad she doesn’t have a backbone either to stand up for herself, and put him in check. She’s his doormat, and his pushover wife. Him calling his wife loose is WILD.

[@petite-beefcakes]

I don't think her arguing would do anything As he said, their marriage was in question when she dared to try and oppose his idea of bottle feeding. This man would leave her the second she stopped being a doormat, in the most financially unstable condition Without any support He'd a complete fucking divorcée deadbeat father

[@Lilith6908-p6k]

I once saw a short where Abby talked about their traditional roles. I initially was like, Oh, there's nothing wrong; I mean each to their own, but later I saw a video where Matt forgot to pay the bills and their supply was cut. He's terrible at his TRADITIONAL role. Later on, I saw those podcast shorts, and I immediately hit the don't recommend option. 😂

[@thatgirlforever9885]

Layze got the best intros idc 😂😂

[@TORIIDK97272]

Frrrr edited if this comment gets famous I’m here

[@Panicked_person]

Factss!!

[@Youcantakeapanorama]

Before 30 mins gang 👇

[@Candykingdom781]

Can’t argue with that one bro does have the most funny and entertaining intros but videos as well ngl

[@idonthavealife1232]

balarke negs 🔥

[@julivssa]

The fact that she is sometimes passive aggressive when he says something shows that she is not really happy with him

[@katov199]

It gives Ross hitting his head and saying “you have no idea how bad this hurts” while Rachel is fully pushing out a baby

[@rose-lp3yv]

THE INTROS KILL ME EVERY TIME 💀💀

[@cornernumber6241]

The podcast's name is so genius

[@isabellahill1646]

Lazy and his editor outdid themselves with that intro

[@Mariboum123]

So this is your 69 life😂

[@abrakada__sandra6502]

Carrément d'accord !!!

[@HUYI1]

even when i'm ill with a temperature i'm still laughing on my sides 😂

[@Dad4LiFe97]

My wife got a emergency C-section. She was so strong with postpartum. To all the moms out there. I appreciate all of you guys with labor. You guys are super stars.

[@islandgirl1406]

Thank you❤

[@mysterymaverick1982]

I feel bad for you it must have been really difficult not experiencing any of it 😂😂😂 Only joking thank you ✌🏻

[@WiccanMami6369]

Your delulu sign is just the one word to sum up Matt's whole existence.

[@Lextheaquarius802]

7:21 as a mother who had vaginal birth ,C section is way worse !!! You take months and months to heal ,you can’t walk alone or do anything

[@The_froggy_one]

C section worse in healing vaginal is worse in the moment as a 15 year old this how i know it i wol take your word

[@Cazzybelle1414]

@@The_froggy_oneYou had a c-section at 15 years old?! I thought they would have encouraged a vaginal birth! Bless you! ♥️

[@Subllama]

He’s such a unself aware dude. Abby needs to wake up

[@drewferd2720]

Self unaware

[@NourKabalan-vv9vi]

True

[@nahhme6484]

No way, this whole time I thought he was the ideal husband

[@zesty808]

I think his hairline is karma for being a bad partner 😅 also the food shaming, she’s a mum lmao and she works out

[@azure52]

He pushed a small size dress on her and I think she is working out just to keep him interested. He is an awful partner and with that bday thing an awful father

[@nicolebelit1]

And I don't get either how he doesn't get how he weighs more than her, like bud, you're twice her size with more mass to carry so how in the actual f*ck did you expect to be the same weight? What doesn't make any sense about that buddy? It's mind boggling. He should've paid more attention to his schoolwork than her in high school.

[@zesty808]

@@azure52 ahh that’s horrifying 😅

[@-KMA-]

@@azure52I have to agree with you 😢 so sad

[@JulieFn9]

BEST COMMENT 😂🎉

[@CappyPhineas]

You can tell when he was telling about the silent treatment that she was hurting even still. She really was holding back tears/her true feelings

[@Wolfstar_is_just_perfect]

You poor thing Matt, having to deal with your *wife* giving birth. Best idea is definitely ghost her the day after leaving the hospital.

[@mhiakk]

“is that why he speaks british” 😭😭😭

[@Me-nobodyelse181]

lol 😭

[@PaletteDreams-i1p]

Lmao

[@Cl0wNi1-3]

Pepppppa pig 🐖

[@ssstommy]

wAtEr WaTeR

[@kamillahdaniels9962]

@@Cl0wNi1-3lol George was the icing on the cake 😂

[@timelyferry]

"c section is so easy" says the man who will scream for days if he had a cold. how is he not in a circus ryt now?

[@katleennellas1686]

It’s so rare for me to do this but it’s the first time I’ve seen you and i’m subscribing already. I have not laughed that hard for so long.

[@evita_24_8]

I'm personally terrified of pregnancy and birth (because of all the (possibly permanent) body changes, possibility of complications and death, tearing, pain, ppd, hairloss, etc.), so seeing how this man treats his wife who went through all that and gave him children makes me so sad and dissapointed... she deserves better. Also, my mom had preeclampsia and had to have a C-section at 7 months pregnant, and she later had complications and had to go back to the surgery room because of bleeding. You're actually more likely to die during a C-section than natural birth. This woman did not "cheat" giving birth

[@Xoxogirlslove]

My mother had five kids, and looks fine and is fine. It is really scary to me as well. Also, the feeling of popping a living thing out of your body is kind of terrifying but what is also terrifies me most is popping out a dead baby and agreed. She definitely deserves so much better.

[@evita_24_8]

Wow, 5 kids, that's really impressive, considering how much I fear pregnancy and childbirth, your mom is incredibly strong and brave in my eyes! And she is really lucky when it comes to health and looks then, I'm really happy for her, many women have lifelong complications and many find it very difficult to lose weight after birth, have hairloss, have stretch marks, loose skin, and pregnancy apparently ages you on a cellular level. I think there is technically nothing wrong with those things because I really admire women who give birth, they created a new life! But people often shame women for the way they look after having a baby, and I really fear that happening to me. And I'm afraid I'd be like my mom and have complications during pregnancy, she would likely die if I wasn't born 2 months prematurely with a c- section, and the woman who she was in the hospital room with had the same illness and she was dying already, her organs were failing. (She survived, but it's scary) Giving birth to a dead baby sounds so terrifying... I feel so sorry for any woman who had to experience that. To suffer through the pregnancy and be so happy about having a child, and then lose the child... it must hurt so much. C- section is not allowed in our country unless it's life saving, but sometimes even if it's risky, the doctors still insist on a vaginal birth... I've heard some babies died because of it. I'm glad my mom's doctor was smart enough to insist on a c-section. And yeah I feel really sorry for this woman, I wish more women had nice and supportive partners who appreciated the things the women do... seeing situations like this is so sad.

[@Maybe614]

Honestly just having something alive inside you is so terrifying,I could never!

[@evita_24_8]

@@Maybe614 Yeah, it really scares me too if I try to imagine it. Though the rest of the stuff scares me even more.

[@Nonyah123]

Just keep in mind your body is going to change year by year no matter WHAT. Everything is going to sag, grow bigger, and get more discolored with time. Hormones can rapidly shift in your 30s without giving birth, leading to hairloss, cystic acne, growing feet, etc. Just for anyone who is worried about a changing body after kids, its going to change no matter what!

[@_sophiemiller]

"do you abby take matt as your huSband ??" abby: "no" also abby: **pushes matt off a cliff**

[@GabrielleTollerson]

a better ending if I do say so myself

[@_sophiemiller]

@@GabrielleTollerson frfr

[@PeachySoda38282]

I think the Kardashians should give their reality show to Layze.

[@GabrielleTollerson]

I would watch that oml

[@Milo_gacha_editor]

16:43 help why is this so funny 💀

[@nicolerice8844]

This dude sounds exactly like my kids father. I went through the same thing, he picked a fight with me just a few hours after having a C-section, then two days after we got home he left bc he didn’t feel appreciated for all the help he gave me while I recovered mine yoi we had a newborn and a one year old.. so after he left I was left to take care of both while healing from the C-section n could hardly walk.. when he came back the following week I had lost every bit of respect for him and eventually left him for good. My kids are now 11&12 turned out pretty amazing!! Abby needs to leave this narcissist and learn how to love herself. You don’t need to be with the narcissist in order to raise kids. I wish her luck!

[@JulieFn9]

I am so happy to hear the powerful ending if your story! Thank you for sharing and I hope many more blessings in your future! Such an empowering, strong, amazing mother!

[@idiotk4ii]

WAKE UP LAYZE POSTED‼️

[@BindaliyahisFound]

I'M AWAKE!!!

[@I_simp_for_shadow]

WAKE UP EVERYONE

[@Xena_da_menace]

I'M UP X3

[@yourlocalidiot-1472]

IM AWOKEN!!

[@Niffty-AdamStabbber]

I HAVE BEEN AWOKEN!

[@HarrietHenrici]

C-sections are definitely not cheating birth. The actual delivery MAY be easier, depending on whether or not there are complications, but the recovery is significantly longer (most of the time). Matt said it was easier, and cheating birth, because for HIM, he walked into an OR and walked out with a baby. *SHE* was cut open, organs moved around, and stitched closed. Abby had a c-section the second time around (this is my understanding, I may be wrong) because she had an internal hernia after for her first labor. Most women who have a c-section do so for medical reasons, not to “get out of a natural birth.”

[@Strawberrymerit]

I wished i could give birth vaginally but dont think thatll be positive T-T my ob told me for my 2nd i have to get a c section cuz i got pregnant 3 months pp with a c section

[@imanijohnson1340]

c-section chance is a part of why i do not want kids. i never want to be cut open like that while consious. or at all bh. ugh.

[@janettpenas]

7:37 gosh hearing him talking like he know anything is making me mad omfg how does she deal with this man omfg

[@bellaroddsgacha]

HELP IM STILL TRAPPED IN LAZYES BASEMENT ITS SO COLD

[@booboofrancoi4570]

What?

[@bellaroddsgacha]

@@booboofrancoi4570 help im running out of water again please

[@timelyferry]

layze is unproblematic. we are not worried.

[@bellaroddsgacha]

@@timelyferryno no no i need water mymouth is so parched

[@HELLOIAMMEHI]

@bellaroddsgacha Take the water from the air, you’ll be fine😁

[@angiebaebii]

It’s so funny that Matt believes he's gonna have an actual music career like babe please get out of here with your JCPenny’s music

[@yuumak1840]

I laughed out loud when he brought it up 😂

[@angiebaebii]

@@yuumak1840 same 💀

[@samlouise9386]

He makes himself look so utterly and incredibly embarrassing and pathetic but somehow I think he loves it, cos it's more attention on him and he lives and breathes attention

[@Theenatalie505]

😂😂

[@gUrU_9515]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@llzy..mopii.]

Toxic husbands are the worst, also the intro was funny- ALSO LAYZE POSTING FREQUENTLY HE AIN'T LAZY NO MORE

[@GabrielleTollerson]

FR

[@LolAmith]

Had to cancel my grandparents funeral because of Matt’s birthday

[@Ayalove-dl6ty]

He's a narcissist and she's a pleaser they're perfect each other

[@-KMA-]

Narcissists look for people like her unfortunately.

[@Ayalove-dl6ty]

@@-KMA- Exactly

[@saralugo22]

The silent treatment after giving birth is WILD

[@NobodyCares-mk1bg]

Not to mention a difficult birth via c section and then he has the audacity to say it's like "cheating" birth. I'm low-key disgusted like...

[@Sara-Eevtea]

My husband gave me the silent treatment for a year and a half after giving birth because he thought I was making up having post partum depression. He thought I was manipulating him 🥴

[@rainreadss119]

@@Sara-Eevteadivorce him girly

[@squish4830]

@@Sara-Eevtea if he hasn't changed, leave him, because wtf-

[@watermelonsuger4188]

​​@@Sara-Eevtea girl please tell me you divorced him

[@skinsciencebymira]

The breastfeeding thing 😬 Feeding formula would have 100% sabotaged her plan of breastfeeding. The baby really doesn’t need more than colostrum the first 2 days but needs to still suckle to help build supply - and if they’re immediately given a bottle where they can get the milk quick, they can often not learn to latch properly on the breast or get frustrated. It’s mindblowing that he was not only so clueless about something he should have educated himself on but that he was trying to force his way rather than support his wife who was RECOVERING FROM SURGERY.

[@y.m.7300]

Oh this is so true

[@y.m.7300]

The worst thing is that he could have just educated himself and then said “I’m sorry I didn’t know that at that time even tho I should have”

[@skinsciencebymira]

@@y.m.7300 yep, even after the fact he was complaining about the baby crying and acting like his wife was starving their child instead of doing exactly what she’s supposed to

[@Angeintheworld]

This Matt guy pisses me off 😭

[@issaadams8349]

who needs to celebrate fathers when u can celebrate matt on his very special and important, VIP birthday?

[@Bookishnerd123]

Abby: does everything Matt: maybe pays the bills Also Matt: I DiDnT gET 2 PArTiEs 😿

[@Bookishnerd123]

Like, grow up Matt

[@AnnabethOwl]

He can’t even pay the bills, theirs a video where their water got turned off because he didn’t pay the water bill 😂 And he still has the audacity to claim to pay bills when his WIFE almost scolded him in the video and he shoved a camera in her face, so she couldn’t actually get mad. I used to watch them before i noticed his toxic red flags

[@DecayingAlien]

It took me 14 years to leave someone like this... shes going to wake up like I have and realize being alone is way better. No one deserves a narcissist....

[@vitra4361]

I'm so happy that you manage to get out❤

[@MeGoWEEEEEE]

this hurts to watch...My parents are almost done divorcing...and this is one of the issues why. They were never on the same page but my dad also like mentally abused my mother by like not helping her with emotions and struggle...I just know they are going to fall out. I hope both of them get a better life.

[@That_lazymf]

When i found about lazy I can’t stop watching him 😭✋

[@Candykingdom781]

Your not alone I watch a lot of his vids on this channel and his main channel

[@That_lazymf]

@@Candykingdom781 Real and i love when he’s wearing his wigs

[@Hashbrownpasta]

I was the same way 😂 he’s amazing

[@radoofy123]

Same XD

[@abby.h3artz.y0u]

abby deserves better bc matt is something else

[@GabrielleTollerson]

ikr how do these husbands afford the audacity

[@audr3ycore]

Man baby

[@Stephanie.101]

The horror scene with the whole “My career😨” “My career??!!!😰” I laughed so hard 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Meoowwww221]

Singing 🎶🎤 career hehhehee

[@TheWorkingTraveler]

I love how she still sticks up for herself even tho it seems she chronically doesn’t, she has her moments. Like when she said he will never understand baby blues. Also he doesn’t realize having a baby is literally traumatic to the body and mind, and he should have given her all the support and put himself on hold but he probably never has put anyone but himself first